Post AP6pwJR0KpYR5ebAtE by rtzq0@queer.party
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(DIR) Post #AP6omtzdSMDRcmkJ6m by Rasp@raru.re
2022-10-31T00:02:36Z
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Someone just called me an asshole for refusing to attend my sisters wedding.....ya'll know why that is a terrible idea right?
(DIR) Post #AP6or4zaVH4StdiQUa by FlashMobOfOne@mastodon.art
2022-10-31T00:03:20Z
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@Rasp No, but I would just assume that if a person feels it's best to not attend a wedding, then there's probably a good reason.
(DIR) Post #AP6pH4LFXqcuPLEyQ4 by Rasp@raru.re
2022-10-31T00:08:02Z
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let me break it down for you. I'm autistic as fuck with an extreme anxiety disorder. its basically a nessestiy that I be able to remove myself from stressful situations with little to no delay in the event of an anxiety attack. This is not easy to do without being disruptive during a ceremony.I've also not met the family on the other side which means putting me in the same room as them for the reception when they don't know me or how my disorder works is a recipe for drama.Nobody should want me at a wedding because I'm a ticking timebomb.
(DIR) Post #AP6pV04SDkZ7DS1lC4 by Rasp@raru.re
2022-10-31T00:10:34Z
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You know who we should invite to the wedding? the brides retard sibling with the hair trigger anxiety disorder who developed PTSD this year from a bad medication incident that ended with a trip to the ER. Yeah I did get that invite WHY THE FUCK would anyone think that's a good idea?
(DIR) Post #AP6pjZFgDP5kNlDyYi by Rasp@raru.re
2022-10-31T00:13:11Z
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I've been hideously unstable trying to go to the DENTIST and my appointments there are WAY shorter than any wedding+reception outside drive thrus in vegas
(DIR) Post #AP6ptgUw84qdkeBVtA by Rasp@raru.re
2022-10-31T00:15:02Z
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Also I'd pretty much demand the wedding photographer be given a stern warning to keep me out of any and all photos. I want effectively no record of how I look now existing.
(DIR) Post #AP6pwJR0KpYR5ebAtE by rtzq0@queer.party
2022-10-31T00:15:31Z
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@Rasp I think weddings make straight brains turn off sometimes. I have and have heard similar tales. Sorry they're doing this.
(DIR) Post #AP6q0XvuN7wzDN4YQy by Rasp@raru.re
2022-10-31T00:16:17Z
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@rtzq0 at least its not my family doing it.
(DIR) Post #AP6qJenN5AEC03By9A by Rasp@raru.re
2022-10-31T00:19:43Z
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My anxiety so bad I qualify for a disabled parking sticker.No I am not joking.
(DIR) Post #AP6qUnkm7HjOy6I9XE by rtzq0@queer.party
2022-10-31T00:21:42Z
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@Rasp It's sad that the average family is so toxic that "asshole" is a more reasonable assumption for most people than "is everything okay".
(DIR) Post #AP6qdh7s7ubL1IKsXA by Rasp@raru.re
2022-10-31T00:23:20Z
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@echedeylr you can do whatever you like
(DIR) Post #AP6qkjS9s9tMGTBEga by Rasp@raru.re
2022-10-31T00:24:37Z
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@echedeylr You didn't
(DIR) Post #AP6qpXVJj5U8eYwxyy by Rasp@raru.re
2022-10-31T00:25:29Z
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@echedeylr ? o-o I think you're misreading something?
(DIR) Post #AP6qxctPZjRZgN4mau by Rasp@raru.re
2022-10-31T00:26:56Z
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@echedeylr you'd have to work pretty hard to make me feel bad don't worry.
(DIR) Post #AP6rDrdcWK9c30QtHs by Rasp@raru.re
2022-10-31T00:29:53Z
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@echedeylr
(DIR) Post #AP6rEuqI5luYH7rQYq by FlashMobOfOne@mastodon.art
2022-10-31T00:30:04Z
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@Rasp I'm lucky that mine is manageable. I've performed in musical theater for four decades, and it's helped managing it.
(DIR) Post #AP6rZIjEzdJo9IHe3k by Paradox@raru.re
2022-10-31T00:33:45Z
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@Rasp Also just don't need to be called an asshole for electing to not attend.Not everybody is sufficiently capable of performing socially as the average person.