Post AMCu54x1SAhY2ciHCK by lucypeony@spinster.xyz
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(DIR) Post #AMCu54OHXKucIsSX32 by RockTheBoat@spinster.xyz
2022-08-05T04:17:47.615122Z
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Is this just bad advice, or am I just overwhelmingly jaded? To tell women “you should be the one picking the guy” makes the assumption that a woman is attractive enough to actually have men interested in her…. I see this advice everywhere though and it just irritates me. Maybe I’m missing something. https://ovarit.com/o/Women/133520/since-there-are-so-many-attractive-women-out-there-why-would-anyone-commit-to-me
(DIR) Post #AMCu54x1SAhY2ciHCK by lucypeony@spinster.xyz
2022-08-05T04:50:57.227598Z
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@RockTheBoat Women should be the one chosing. They should raise the bars for their male partners. If no man good enough for her, she better stays single than settling down with a violent selfish cold-blooded manipulative murderous man.
(DIR) Post #AMCu8yRrZVZL23zoEC by Fullycaffeinated@spinster.xyz
2022-08-05T04:54:37.804465Z
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@lucypeony @RockTheBoat That's pretty much what I have always done. I hate it when people waste my time.
(DIR) Post #AMDLrsTts8LCDcqRCC by Raunchel@spinster.xyz
2022-08-05T05:23:29.529163Z
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@RockTheBoat Yes, if you are going to be with a man you should obviously be picking him. And whatever happens, don't settle for even worse just because your minimum standards aren't met. If no one meeting those standards is interested, just don't bother with it. No one is going to die from not having one after all.
(DIR) Post #AMDLrt1vpbYxvAlcEy by RockTheBoat@spinster.xyz
2022-08-05T05:34:24.840903Z
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@Raunchel You don’t get what I’m saying, either. The replies make the assumption that women have a choice amongst mEn. Men pretty much only want attractive women. This is why this wall gets hit and why femcels split off, because other women just talk down to them and act like it’s impossible that no man has ever had an interest in you, but it happens alllllllll the time. There are many women out there who don’t actually believe that women exist who haven’t had sincere interest from a man. I shouldn’t have even posted because the argument always goes in the same direction because those who are privileged enough to have a choice cannot fathom the position of those women who have never experienced any interest.
(DIR) Post #AMDLrtVM4D6BOQX76O by LisbonMuse@spinster.xyz
2022-08-05T07:04:55.751800Z
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@RockTheBoat @Raunchel I commented this on Ovarit once, but I'm pretty middle of the road in looks. Depends on the day lol. I had this encounter back in high school though where this guy kept hitting on my friend, and I had to scoot closer to him (we were in a road and a car was coming). The look of disgust he gave me is something I just can't forget. Here I am, married with a great partner, and I still think back at how disgusted he was I had to scoot closer to him. And in a society that tells girl's looks are everything, it really hurt. Even growing up and trying hard to rewire my brain from all that bullshit put into it about male's opinions of me being so important, it's not fun to be treated like a disease or something. It's hard to combat years and years of being raised to care so much about what male's think about us. And for women to say it's so easy to find a guy, they're not thinking of the pornified, degenerate boys who expect a supermodel nowadays. I mean, realistically women/girls should be picky about men/boys. That's how it works in most of the animal kingdom. But human males are growing up to expect way unrealistic standards and see women/girls as a catalog to go through, not humans. And that's going to hurt a lot of girls who aren't raised with feminism or any ideals like it. It's just going to make them feel worse about themselves.
(DIR) Post #AMDQM7GvqPD4b0SAWO by GalacticTurtle@spinster.xyz
2022-08-05T04:38:07.998266Z
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@RockTheBoat Well my automatic response is, "don't date men, it's bad for your health."But if I'm going to be judgmental, I've seen plenty of women that I personally consider to be physically unattractive and painfully uninteresting... suddenly bring up what they did with their boyfriend or husband for vacation! A lesser part of me, for a split second, thinks... "really?" I don't know the brain chemical science behind what makes people get together and have stopped putting effort into trying to crack the code.
(DIR) Post #AMDTMIGhGCfcYw7TE0 by angryandignored@spinster.xyz
2022-08-05T06:02:59.174538Z
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@Raunchel @RockTheBoat Minimum standards: Don't watch porn. Don't have intense anger issues. Damnit. Spinsterhood again I see.