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(DIR) Post #ADm5o3eHEpaK7rQMGe by n8@poa.st
2021-11-25T23:31:16.613707Z
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Im thinking about changing my (not successful) Christian dating app profile from as sensitive and easy going as possible to something closer to my power level and extremely aggressive.Give me feedback bros:+I am looking for CUTE woman ONLY+No skimpy clothing. Long dresses & skirts ONLY.+MUST have a good or better relationship with you father+we WILL go to church+Sex outside of marriage is CRINGE & also SINFUL so it's not gunna happen+(you should feel free to steal my first kiss though but im gunna be mad about it)+You DO NOT need a source of income+I want hugs & cuddles & you cannot refuse my requests at ANY TIME+we are going to have kids, no expectations I will make you the best mommy ever+i will probably provide complementary starbucks pumpkin drinks & sick ass photography for the gram (modest cottage core only)
(DIR) Post #ADmClrXC0VN7ec0j6u by n8@poa.st
2021-11-26T00:49:20.113495Z
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Im not joking btw. Im going to do this in my bio of the profile.Word for word.Because my nice and friendly demeanor isn't grabbing attention. (vid not related)
(DIR) Post #ADsrSfhPt17EOMEURE by RMIV@poa.st
2021-11-29T04:15:10.928299Z
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@n8 this looks autistic
(DIR) Post #ADsrSgCG2Lmlw0f7Vg by n8@poa.st
2021-11-29T04:25:38.400392Z
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@RMIV i literally have no other option bro. it's not my fault.
(DIR) Post #ADsrUYisnMo9KmooT2 by DuckKingLoow@poa.st
2021-11-29T04:24:25.634961Z
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@n8 I'm guessing it is Christian Mingle? that place is a waste land, 2's, single moms, and people who haven't logged in for several months. Tinder is whore central, OkCupid is better but accept some whoring, answer many questions and filter hard, Match is okay, so far.
(DIR) Post #ADsrUZ6dN3o4WRvmUK by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T04:26:35.375617Z
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@DuckKingLoow @n8 what about Catholic match? Or was that the last one you mentioned? I don't like apps. Would rather meet someone irl.
(DIR) Post #ADsrUZW9qADtnbsAGu by DuckKingLoow@poa.st
2021-11-29T04:30:35.365529Z
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@Chance @n8 Good luck on that meeting irl. I filter come seriously broken women out using apps. You would need to meet them in church, but realistically not many go. At bars, oh boy, they still have problems and you'll find out 2-3 weeks in.
(DIR) Post #ADsrUZwkFJUT84JOiG by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T04:33:03.464791Z
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@DuckKingLoow @n8 see this is what everyone says. but then my sister is like "oh no i know plenty of them". LIKE HOW?? idk where they are. i guess the classical latin masses have more of them.
(DIR) Post #ADsrWEAQBz2MA1UlBw by Victor_Emmanuel@poa.st
2021-11-29T04:29:53.265532Z
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@n8 instead of saying “cute women only” you should state your maximum age. ie “no women above 25”I wouldn’t advertise that you haven’t kissed a woman before“Hugs&cuddles” might be ok phrasing but I would have used “physical contact”Don’t use “mommy” use “mother”I get what you mean by “long dresses only” but a woman might think “does this guy hate jeans/sweatpants?”. “Modest dress” would be better.May want to include the Bible verse about “wives obey your husbands and husbands love your wives”
(DIR) Post #ADsrY0WtroNURarGV6 by mystik@midnightride.rs
2021-11-29T05:25:55.313930Z
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@n8 >"Sex outside of marriage is CRINGE & also SINFUL so it's not gunna happen"No, you're cringe. This is what will scare the girls.>"+You DO NOT need a source of income"This is too negative, try to make it more like "I will provide everything you need, I am the provider in our relationship."
(DIR) Post #ADsrY0w4MEVjhedMjQ by n8@poa.st
2021-11-29T05:54:28.539977Z
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@mystik >I'm cringe for pointing out cringenigger whatAlso I'm doing what I can to keep terrible females away from me. I can only take so much of the fat chicks and 40 year olds trying to match with me. I need some sort of filter to shoo them away.
(DIR) Post #ADsraxvM0jfrEQhsWW by JSDorn@poa.st
2021-11-29T04:01:45.229213Z
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@n8 fucking do it.But I'd Chad up the language a bit. No slang, no soft tones.Be hard and firm.
(DIR) Post #ADsraz8rU04b0c2BDU by n8@poa.st
2021-11-29T04:07:43.994500Z
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@JSDorn so i literally did it.But I'll make the language stronger. Thats a great idea.
(DIR) Post #ADsrazYjvmm0Is8qYK by JSDorn@poa.st
2021-11-29T04:09:41.390787Z
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@n8 I am rooting for you bro. Really am.
(DIR) Post #ADsrazxuQCuFYvuwme by n8@poa.st
2021-11-29T04:11:48.738778Z
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@JSDorn God I need the support bro. Feels like nothing works.Like I'm going to have to someday give up my convictions and dip into the "only slept with one or two guys in HS" crowd or something like that.
(DIR) Post #ADsrb0MMxGTKmnMTuS by JSDorn@poa.st
2021-11-29T04:13:49.744942Z
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@n8 I wouldn't compromise. You will always regret it.Just make sure you are putting in the time. Follow up with all your matches, make clear that you are serious and what your expectations are.
(DIR) Post #ADsrb0nfJmJ49S8HSK by n8@poa.st
2021-11-29T04:30:00.532129Z
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@JSDorn Yeah. I know that and it's what stops me from doing so.But someday it's going to come down to living my morals and convictions & being a dysgenic failure, or having kids with some "Christian" slut.Thats seemingly all the options that's left. Like nobody is at church. Nobody my age or anywhere close in my denomination. Girls my age at protestant churches are ALL fuckin sluts and nobody can convince me otherwise. Where the flying FUCK do I find White power girls or ones with swastika or confederate tattoos and shit?
(DIR) Post #ADsrb1DtkFI3SoPELQ by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T04:31:44.066054Z
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@n8 @JSDorn im facing similar issues. somehow. my sister knows how to find these girls. idk how. but she does. classic latin masses are where the truly good ones go. im finna buy some nice clothes and go to them. i cant stand modern mass
(DIR) Post #ADsrcsaYookVGOtS8O by n8@poa.st
2021-11-29T04:33:44.228065Z
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@Chance @JSDorn yeah. wish i was catholic but God called me to the eastern orthadox church and just duckin out on that for nothing more than pussy is not gunna give me no favors with the creator of the whole of creation.
(DIR) Post #ADsrct2DA0roe9pXEW by mystik@midnightride.rs
2021-11-29T05:30:55.286759Z
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@n8 @Chance @JSDorn The Creator is everywhere. He will be sad at you that you weren't "smart as snake in this world" as Jesus told us to be. Be smart and find a good woman, religion can be sort out later.
(DIR) Post #ADsredL4UK7oXvU7cm by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T04:34:38.769903Z
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@n8 @JSDorn i think if you got into real Catholicism it would work. modern trendy Catholicism is gay
(DIR) Post #ADsrhYeqLgUItf7y4W by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T05:56:13.859072Z
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@n8 @mystik dont fall for the jewish lies of sex before marriage. it ruins things
(DIR) Post #ADsriS8W53u4xcQwSW by n8@poa.st
2021-11-29T05:56:23.314435Z
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@mystik @Chance @JSDorn I don't see how one can just "sort out" a female having more than zero sexual partners before you find each other. I just can't fucking do it. I will not share sloppy seconds no matter how guilty she feels.Unless she's uber racist and anti-semetic. More than me. That might be the ONLY reason I'd allow for it.
(DIR) Post #ADsrjHj8GgUoxwxP72 by DuckKingLoow@poa.st
2021-11-29T04:36:41.716783Z
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@Chance @n8 Option 3 - Women lie. Go to Mass, do a sampler platter of all times, mostly married, elderly, or FAR too young. The "good Catholic girls" go to 2 masses, tops. Christmas and Easter. And that is good compared to the rest of the members.
(DIR) Post #ADsrjICYVI22RCityS by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T04:37:14.580774Z
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@DuckKingLoow @n8 but im told otherwise by my sister who is really into classical catholicism.
(DIR) Post #ADsrjIdqrnrlnrUhWK by DuckKingLoow@poa.st
2021-11-29T04:38:22.676348Z
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@Chance @n8 Maybe in her parish, but mine is a waste land of women.
(DIR) Post #ADsrjJ4nFdPv9Q6DVw by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T04:38:38.000403Z
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@DuckKingLoow @n8 yeah. she has a lucky parish
(DIR) Post #ADsrjSfda1EiuIPGgy by Turdicus@poa.st
2021-11-29T04:34:37.553492Z
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@Chance @n8 @JSDorn Tell me about it bros. Getting ready to try a dating profile or something too, shit is ass
(DIR) Post #ADsrjT9PnJ3WOeL36e by n8@poa.st
2021-11-29T04:35:55.489260Z
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@Turdicus @Chance @JSDorn I hope it works out for you man, but be prepared for less than nothing.
(DIR) Post #ADsrmwlS9GER6smxkG by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T04:36:09.200438Z
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@Turdicus @JSDorn @n8 my sister says that she knows guys and girls that want what the other want but the men refuse to date them because they are all "friends"
(DIR) Post #ADsrnKGmkvxe0icoHA by mystik@midnightride.rs
2021-11-29T05:57:14.683234Z
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@n8 I think this is a bad strategy. You don't want to scare them away. You want to filter them out.There is no magic in this, it's a matter of numbers. Be as open as possible. You want the good ones to come, that's your goal, focus on that. Filtering out is a perk.
(DIR) Post #ADsrnqw1J9xVJsABzU by n8@poa.st
2021-11-29T05:57:22.162575Z
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@Chance @mystik yeah, i don't think i ever will because the only thing that would make me fall for a girl who isn't a virgin is LESS likely to exist than a virgin.
(DIR) Post #ADsro4q9blaKRjWhn6 by n8@poa.st
2021-11-29T04:32:34.883376Z
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@Victor_Emmanuel >I wouldn’t advertise that you haven’t kissed a woman beforeYou don't think that might garner some interest from some girl who might have done everything but sleep with a man? Idk. I'd try anything at this point but I get what you mean with removing the weak sounding content.
(DIR) Post #ADsro5LhiSp21aHty4 by Victor_Emmanuel@poa.st
2021-11-29T04:36:48.033364Z
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@n8 advertising “virgin” is fine. But not “kissless virgin”. On its surface women will think there is reason for why you’ve never kiss anyone. Bring it up a few dates in once she knows you aren’t a sperg (I would hope)
(DIR) Post #ADsro9Hx4MCIF6Yxfs by mystik@midnightride.rs
2021-11-29T05:31:37.529433Z
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@Chance @JSDorn @Turdicus @n8 homos
(DIR) Post #ADsroGh1XXPbCtLaE4 by RMIV@poa.st
2021-11-29T05:31:25.756619Z
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@n8 know that feel bro
(DIR) Post #ADsrpTfslC3vl4OEMK by n8@poa.st
2021-11-29T04:37:30.033475Z
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@Chance @Turdicus @JSDorn :rh_ques: :rh_ques: :rh_ques: :rh_ques: :rh_ques: :rh_ques: :rh_ques: :rh_ques: :rh_ques: :rh_ques: :rh_ques: :rh_ques: :rh_ques: :rh_ques: :rh_ques: :rh_ques: :rh_ques: :rh_ques: :rh_ques: :rh_ques: :rh_ques: :rh_ques: :rh_ques: :rh_ques: Fucking faggots. I do NOT understand why you WOULD NOT want to try dating someone you are ALLREADY CLOSE TOOFUCK OFF FAGGOTS jfc that kind of thing makes me so fuckin mad. I'd hit a mother fucker.
(DIR) Post #ADsrpUBmqZaDM1Ji5Y by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T04:39:39.697649Z
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@n8 @JSDorn @Turdicus she keeps telling me that my physical appearance would not matter that much. all they want is for you to be really really into them
(DIR) Post #ADsrpUbJJg02dBG5s8 by n8@poa.st
2021-11-29T04:42:10.337021Z
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@Chance @JSDorn @Turdicus actual bullshit. women are just as visually driven as men if not more. All women are extremely shallow. American women more so.
(DIR) Post #ADsrxay1WwRogzkJyC by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T04:43:05.936793Z
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@n8 @JSDorn @Turdicus these are a very very specific breed of women that go to latin masses multiple times a week. its a very niche group
(DIR) Post #ADsrygqb9YudDenLpw by n8@poa.st
2021-11-29T04:38:26.733966Z
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@Victor_Emmanuel you might be right about this. thanks for the tip.
(DIR) Post #ADsryyrcAWQ961PPv6 by mystik@midnightride.rs
2021-11-29T05:59:20.078449Z
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@Chance @n8 It makes you look less appealing to hot pussies. It's psychological. Try something more subtle, like "I wait until marriage." Short and clear. And you don't look like an asexual virgin nerd.
(DIR) Post #ADsrzMUkJCO8O2tUbg by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T05:59:27.008301Z
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@n8 @mystik @JSDorn i feel that.
(DIR) Post #ADsrznjZ2DHgrp2Cx6 by dew_the_dew@poa.st
2021-11-29T05:59:31.776607Z
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@n8 @mystik @Chance @JSDorn if you're looking for zero notches you're probably going to have to go the Mohammed route
(DIR) Post #ADss0A4E04so8Gs1D6 by RMIV@poa.st
2021-11-29T05:34:30.215965Z
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@mystik @n8 you don't speak dialectic to girlfriends that's not how pussy works
(DIR) Post #ADss2MrtNRQAPh9bVY by Turdicus@poa.st
2021-11-29T04:37:52.774218Z
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@n8 @Chance @JSDorn Yeah it actually sounds like what would be ideal doesn’t it?
(DIR) Post #ADss2NIplGyJlFl7VA by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T04:38:26.411567Z
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@Turdicus @n8 @JSDorn men will go as far as to try and hold hands but if she asks them out they flip and dip
(DIR) Post #ADss2NjQAQEt5iCLwW by n8@poa.st
2021-11-29T04:39:28.525496Z
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@Chance @Turdicus @JSDorn actual faggotry. i can not stand that shit. do not tell me any more.
(DIR) Post #ADss2O8EgA5YKfoAca by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T04:40:27.358376Z
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@n8 @JSDorn @Turdicus i had the same reaction. i am so mad about it.
(DIR) Post #ADss5J2q36JnQLfuq0 by n8@poa.st
2021-11-29T04:41:04.262496Z
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@Chance @JSDorn @Turdicus I would fukcing hit a nigger in the parking lot if they brought that up to me and complained about it.
(DIR) Post #ADss5JTmQvrwluHQpc by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T04:41:43.158743Z
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@n8 @JSDorn @Turdicus niggas be on apps when a trad virgin is literally 3 feet away smh. but those communities are few and far between
(DIR) Post #ADss5VLiIkXxaMb9vM by mystik@midnightride.rs
2021-11-29T06:00:31.201770Z
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@n8 @Chance @JSDorn Religion can be sorted out, like religious practices, church, etc. Who cares about that at this stage. You shouldn't. Christian behavior in life is not negotiable, of course.
(DIR) Post #ADss66aBrt6z3yek7s by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T06:00:40.132577Z
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@mystik @n8 any woman worth marrying would be looking for a fellow virgin
(DIR) Post #ADss7OiRw1Fjal8T6e by n8@poa.st
2021-11-29T06:00:54.158593Z
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@Chance @mystik I believe that.
(DIR) Post #ADssAbBi1MJ18qLdCa by mystik@midnightride.rs
2021-11-29T06:01:26.703904Z
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@Chance @n8 Try not to be an asexual nerd one.
(DIR) Post #ADssBnvg8N2wwqQO80 by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T06:01:41.985266Z
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@mystik @n8 @JSDorn if she isnt religious she most likely isnt a virgin
(DIR) Post #ADssGe7Q2Mgzy8E04u by mystik@midnightride.rs
2021-11-29T06:02:33.091667Z
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@Chance @JSDorn @n8 So, what if she's from a protestant church, you won't hit?
(DIR) Post #ADssHDg1pgAoFbgdNo by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T06:02:40.645737Z
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@mystik @n8 no good christian woman would WANT her husband to have committed mortal sins. that would not be a good christian woman
(DIR) Post #ADssJHBzjUCjjWcSLA by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T06:03:02.999512Z
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@mystik @JSDorn @n8 i said not religious. not different religion.
(DIR) Post #ADssLta1ylglMz6wIS by mystik@midnightride.rs
2021-11-29T06:03:29.580399Z
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@Chance @n8 Ok, I'm writing A and you're reading Z. Please untag.
(DIR) Post #ADssX5RWDLF5LYSwNc by n8@poa.st
2021-11-29T06:05:32.709245Z
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@mystik @Chance @JSDorn I don't feel like you really answered my question. Like lets just forget for a moment that God says you should wait till marriage. I just want to point out that there is a practical, ignoring the spiritual, problem in that there are simply no virgin females anywhere.I am slowly beginning to unironically believe that females have never been virgins ever. At least preictally speaking.
(DIR) Post #ADssXHgqgAdRKZjLwO by Terra_australis@poa.st
2021-11-29T06:05:34.823045Z
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@n8 @ceruds might like this video
(DIR) Post #ADssZvapIBGPfOArK4 by n8@poa.st
2021-11-29T06:06:03.427574Z
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@mystik @Chance @JSDorn Prots are literally sluts. Zero percent are celebrate until marriage.
(DIR) Post #ADssflwe4noLTtAOae by mystik@midnightride.rs
2021-11-29T06:07:05.022736Z
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@n8 @Chance @JSDorn The way you convey your message makes you look like a weirdo. You will hit less. That's all I'm saying. You can sound more based, without compromising any principle. It's in the tone, the attitude.
(DIR) Post #ADsstzAFivAcXDJCc4 by mystik@midnightride.rs
2021-11-29T06:09:38.353678Z
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@n8 @Chance @JSDorn >"there are simply no virgin females anywhere"This is not true. There are and they are desperate, they want dick, it's biological. But you're scaring them away with your weirdoness.
(DIR) Post #ADssxHlt02UF70U8au by Tripp@poa.st
2021-11-29T06:10:16.819617Z
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@n8 @mystik @Chance @JSDorn Just going to throw this out there, Catholic girls tend to have very loose assholes.
(DIR) Post #ADst1cj12J1fG0D8y0 by n8@poa.st
2021-11-29T06:11:03.855413Z
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@mystik @Chance @JSDorn I do see the point you are making is grounded and to a degree correct, but I just don't see, besides removing the all caps wordings perhaps, would really bring in any quality women. :shrug_yui: I'm probably too demoralized on the female question tbh. I'm honestly only going to give online "dating" another couple months at most & I'm just venting at this point.
(DIR) Post #ADstAtuaVQwBAP30Km by dew_the_dew@poa.st
2021-11-29T06:12:44.473027Z
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@n8 @mystik @Chance @JSDorn just be yourself brah
(DIR) Post #ADstESTcRzgBEl85Ts by mystik@midnightride.rs
2021-11-29T06:13:19.982182Z
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@n8 @Chance @JSDorn You're using the ad to filter. This is a feminine attitude. You look weird, feminine, a weirdo. You're supposed to state who you are, and let everything come at you, then filter out quick and swiftly. Do a lot of interviews. Put effort on it. You want the ad to do the job for you, and that's where you're wrong.
(DIR) Post #ADstPeIyoTX16jUOFU by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T06:15:24.355670Z
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@mystik @n8 @JSDorn hes trying to give off a feel of control. which i think would work
(DIR) Post #ADstSpMg9MXoHFjcrg by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T06:15:56.549272Z
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@Tripp @n8 @JSDorn @mystik we are sad enough nigga
(DIR) Post #ADstozNZb5fNhuik1A by n8@poa.st
2021-11-29T06:19:59.133345Z
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@Tripp @Chance @JSDorn @mystik same with LDS girls. It's a ligit loophole in this very issue.
(DIR) Post #ADstqrCwwu5swYdtZ2 by ceruds@poa.st
2021-11-29T06:20:19.435759Z
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@Terra_australis @n8 idk how to feel about this video, lol. I mean yeah cool "russians go" and here is le tit tok watermark.
(DIR) Post #ADstvZHf19Manj5mRk by n8@poa.st
2021-11-29T06:21:10.438742Z
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@mystik @Chance @JSDorn I hope you are right.I'm just slowly not able to believe it anymore.
(DIR) Post #ADstxNgL7leXOhV4Sm by Tripp@poa.st
2021-11-29T06:21:30.129945Z
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@n8 @Chance @JSDorn @mystik Its fucking disgusting.
(DIR) Post #ADsu2Dpx9fb6JOIz68 by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T06:22:22.591628Z
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@n8 @mystik @JSDorn im in the same boat. losing all hope
(DIR) Post #ADsu7waeBvHyYisH1k by n8@poa.st
2021-11-29T06:23:24.633518Z
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@Tripp @Chance @JSDorn @mystik I hate jewish culture and I find it extremely alienating that my parents can never understand what this is like & it's almost unfair to expect them to get it. How could they? They "made it" in more than one way. They don't have to worry about that anymore. Very frustrating.
(DIR) Post #ADsu9wry7ip60LvrF2 by mystik@midnightride.rs
2021-11-29T06:23:43.624175Z
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@n8 @Chance @JSDorn I almost dated one, like three years ago. She was almost jailbait. Should've done it. She was interested in learning foreign cultures, languages, history, etc. Not everyone is a normie, you know.
(DIR) Post #ADsuBiXCOLZM7n3p8i by n8@poa.st
2021-11-29T06:24:05.536965Z
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@Chance @JSDorn @mystik I do what I can to funnel hate into the fire instead of sadness and grief. Keeps the black pill far away.
(DIR) Post #ADsuJhuiaDVEW4s61Q by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T06:25:32.223303Z
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@mystik @n8 @JSDorn i had a relationship with a virgin. it burned pretty bad due to me being a retard
(DIR) Post #ADsuQF9xt9LJMe7UW0 by n8@poa.st
2021-11-29T06:26:43.143787Z
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@mystik @Chance @JSDorn Man, at least you had an opportunity bro. I'm sure that it's still frustrating that you didn't go for it but still. Good God damn fuckin luck finding another bro.
(DIR) Post #ADsuSNMGNVc1N0tB0i by Tripp@poa.st
2021-11-29T06:27:06.180826Z
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@n8 @Chance @JSDorn @mystik If things go right, well they'll be worried about seeing the very real reality of betraying the future generations for fast food that is occasionally eaten.
(DIR) Post #ADsuVPXmhwXD1Bj24O by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T06:27:39.116272Z
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@n8 @mystik @JSDorn we never actually dated which was a problem. if we had tried a few years later it probably would have worked. but i burnt the bridges while i was too young and retarded
(DIR) Post #ADsuYaBbb2qatRrbLk by mystik@midnightride.rs
2021-11-29T06:28:10.258921Z
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@n8 @Chance @JSDorn At this pace, arranged marriage will be the only way out. (Hindus proven right again.)
(DIR) Post #ADsuZxcTxNqrrQ5lXk by n8@poa.st
2021-11-29T06:28:28.438282Z
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@Chance @mystik @JSDorn you as well??? jesus fuck dude. Why the fuck can't guys like me get swept up in right wing paramilitaries on the other side of the globe anymore? fuck living in this bullshit. Makes me want to eat enemy lead.
(DIR) Post #ADsunZWeKofzBjr1d2 by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T06:30:56.129066Z
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@n8 @JSDorn @mystik she is still a virgin and isnt dating because she hates modern men
(DIR) Post #ADsurn3dxr9MJeIYnA by n8@poa.st
2021-11-29T06:31:41.840116Z
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@Chance @JSDorn @mystik thats pretty cool.
(DIR) Post #ADsv39eWIWx5Zsxx0i by dew_the_dew@poa.st
2021-11-29T06:33:45.074336Z
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@Chance @n8 @JSDorn @mystik wow me too what's her social media tell her to hmu i have dick pics
(DIR) Post #ADsv5i7j6eCB4DqVTE by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T06:34:12.770206Z
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@dew_the_dew @JSDorn @mystik @n8 the fact you say dick pics means she wouldnt be interested
(DIR) Post #ADsv8qKt1tzfPDUkuu by mystik@midnightride.rs
2021-11-29T06:34:45.214400Z
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@Chance @JSDorn @dew_the_dew @n8 Ugh, a democrat. fuck her then.
(DIR) Post #ADsv9OuWTuhYdaQhBQ by dew_the_dew@poa.st
2021-11-29T06:34:52.823619Z
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@Chance @JSDorn @mystik @n8 lol what are you her bf or something?
(DIR) Post #ADsvEH1NF3cncHxQn2 by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T06:35:45.646065Z
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@dew_the_dew @JSDorn @mystik @n8 no her brother told me she hates that kind of stuff.
(DIR) Post #ADsvFvqGxKwgVgYWHo by dew_the_dew@poa.st
2021-11-29T06:36:03.653468Z
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@Chance @JSDorn @mystik @n8 i'm in a band btw
(DIR) Post #ADsvJjbYOdOniNU66q by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T06:36:44.840215Z
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@mystik @JSDorn @dew_the_dew @n8 idk her political affiliation
(DIR) Post #ADsvR0Sy6VVY2Lw6qG by dew_the_dew@poa.st
2021-11-29T06:38:03.690185Z
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@Chance @JSDorn @mystik @n8 does her brother want dick pics?
(DIR) Post #ADsvZNpb7KzQopW0fY by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T06:39:34.508552Z
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@dew_the_dew @JSDorn @mystik @n8 her brother is an anti-woman anime shut-in because he is in a similar situation to us where modern women are so trash he gave up
(DIR) Post #ADsvfRrj1y6X4JP1Bg by dew_the_dew@poa.st
2021-11-29T06:40:40.318836Z
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@Chance @JSDorn @mystik @n8 so how does he know she doesn't like dick pics? i can see how she wouldn't like it if her brother sent them.
(DIR) Post #ADsvnUTXDAFdTmvFGC by morena@poa.st
2021-11-29T06:42:07.507790Z
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@n8 I say definitely go for it. hope you find your person
(DIR) Post #ADsvrlaRX8EfhxC0Js by n8@poa.st
2021-11-29T06:42:53.842674Z
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@morena thanks bro
(DIR) Post #ADswDfjFzeBZuXlDay by WretchedFetch@poa.st
2021-11-29T06:46:51.404869Z
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@n8 women will change their beliefs to match the guy they care about, so you can lower your standards to some degree
(DIR) Post #ADswTCQmgqbhg7WZ04 by mystik@midnightride.rs
2021-11-29T06:49:37.752929Z
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@dew_the_dew @Chance @JSDorn @n8 What about rural areas? Aren't girls better there?
(DIR) Post #ADswYCGYjMcmcB7m6K by dew_the_dew@poa.st
2021-11-29T06:50:33.984168Z
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@mystik @Chance @JSDorn @n8 just cows as far as the eye can see
(DIR) Post #ADswjuHNQmegIx5gAa by dew_the_dew@poa.st
2021-11-29T06:52:40.930453Z
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@mystik @Chance @JSDorn @n8 for real though in the incredibly rare circumstance that a girl is super connected to her pastoral community maybe she's also not fat, but 99.9% of them head to the city to find themselves if they are remotely attractive.
(DIR) Post #ADswnffXh3Qi9NBlgW by n8@poa.st
2021-11-29T06:53:21.762729Z
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@WretchedFetch mmm.. yeah I suppose.
(DIR) Post #ADswsvUqH6ZegagpGa by dew_the_dew@poa.st
2021-11-29T06:54:18.691964Z
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@Chance @JSDorn @mystik @n8 oh also if a girl is super connected to her pastoral community she will have a local dude she's known since elementary school
(DIR) Post #ADswxrtZ5kAaxsbtHk by mystik@midnightride.rs
2021-11-29T06:55:09.804654Z
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@dew_the_dew @Chance @JSDorn @n8 At the same time "I almost dated" the virgin teenager, I dated one of those small town girls coming to big city to study. But get this: she had a boyfriend 🤣, she agreed to date anyway.
(DIR) Post #ADsx8UPClYS1IYTRxI by n8@poa.st
2021-11-29T06:57:07.519810Z
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@mystik @dew_the_dew @Chance @JSDorn this sort of thing makes me dislike women a great deal.
(DIR) Post #ADsxFpgI3vTFJIy1Fw by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T06:58:27.118235Z
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@mystik @dew_the_dew @JSDorn @n8 this is why i dont trust women
(DIR) Post #ADsxGEg97bD4q65l0C by dew_the_dew@poa.st
2021-11-29T06:58:31.453843Z
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@n8 @mystik @Chance @JSDorn it puts a lot of the muslim shit into context. but for real if you went back and talked to your ancestors maybe 100 years back and told them you had/were looking for a girlfriend, they would be very confused. 'so is she your whore or your wife?'
(DIR) Post #ADsxKNIyzUO0kgEO4u by mystik@midnightride.rs
2021-11-29T06:59:14.159552Z
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@n8 @Chance @JSDorn @dew_the_dew But there's always something positive in my stories. Her little sister was 2x hotter, and a hardcore national socialist.
(DIR) Post #ADsxQ1UR0pVipYHTWK by ehhh@poa.st
2021-11-29T07:00:17.649674Z
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GOOD LUCK BRO!!
(DIR) Post #ADsxRg45dmdcxfkOG0 by WretchedFetch@poa.st
2021-11-29T07:00:35.585310Z
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Usually politics/world views are the first to change. They often start to mimic your mannerisms too. But you're 100% right about looking for a girl that has a good relationship with her father. Something else to look for, make sure they are good/decent with money (math in general).
(DIR) Post #ADsxWqIL2AAq8WsHtQ by dew_the_dew@poa.st
2021-11-29T07:01:31.603525Z
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@n8 @mystik @Chance @JSDorn also you should put that in your profile "I hate women"
(DIR) Post #ADsxboqLrEOD5D9nfc by Christ_is_Lord@poa.st
2021-11-29T07:02:25.529014Z
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@n8 @mystik @Chance @JSDorn I’m just going to freestyle this so we will see where we end up…Assuming that you are the kind of introspective and introverted kind of guy who ends up on these platforms, and you’re a kissless virgin we can probably make a few assumptions about you. You’re probably a little awkward and social anxious. You probably have mixed self esteem. You probably don’t have many previous relationships. You probably don’t have many female friends. You probably don’t have many strong older male role models. You probably have imbibed some of the modern feminist ideas on relationship (i.e. thinking that she thinks anything remotely like you and that she wants to be treated the way you’d like to be treated)I don’t say this to bully you, just to establish the sceneYour first attempt (being a nice guy) didn’t work. So you’ve decided to do the opposite. Act like a Chad and all of that. From how clunky the thing is it’s very obvious that this isn’t how you talk normally, especially to women. I think you have an idea of the kind of guy who gets girls and you are mimicking him without understanding why he gets the girls. The short answer is that they get girls because they are confident and assertiveWhat women look for in a husband in stability, leadership, dependability, devotion, safety, and a provider (included in this is material and social capital). Women want a man who makes them feel safe (to counterbalance their natural tendency to get caught up in their own heads). A confident and assertive man is able to cut through a woman’s concerns and give her peace. Women are less confrontation and more agreeable than men so they require the man to make the first move, have a vision, and make decisions (while consulting and factoring in her needs). They also need to feel cherished (men on the other hand need to feel respected). A confident man provides most of these things (you will need other traits)If you struggle with assertiveness then read a book on it. A lot of people recommend “no more Mr nice Guy”.You need to become a guy with status, wealth, with the clear intention of providing with a wife who you are committed to. Status simply means respected by the community (church), respected by her family, and able to maintain stable friendship. If you are a weird loner she isn’t going to want to be left alone with you. If other people like to (or women want you) then it’s confirmation of your value and she will want you more. Wealth means having money, or the ambition that given time you will have money (enough money to support her and X kids while she’s not working at the standard of living that she is used to). By making it clear that you are not interested in other women, that you want marriage not just sex, and that you jealously want your wife to be yours alone you will communicate devotion and vision. If you do all of these things you will be in the running to being a candidate for the girl you wantDepending on the number that you trust, and your geographic area, the total number of church going women exceeds the number of men. The majority of relationships start from word of mouth or chance meetings (through shared interests). I believe online dating is a rapidly growing third. This means that you should focus on being actively within your church, getting the grandma mafia involved, and doing volunteering/charity stuff. You need a good reputation.All the old ladies will have a grandaughter or niece that is shy, only hangs out with female friends, and is simply inaccessible via dating apps, clubs, pubs, and the general culture. This is the girl you want. The shy girl who never had a high school boyfriend and the became a dental hygienist and is too shy to be a slut. The weird girl who sings at church and then disappears immediately after the service. The nerd who ready fantasy novels all through life and never went to parties. The grandma mafia is desperate to set these girls up on a date, and no one else (Chads) even knows they exist. Look at the numbers, the number of women who aren’t having sex is rising. It’s the 80/20 rule. In terms of “every woman is non virgin slut” the numbers don’t show that. The women on dating app, clubs, and every other place you can go to “meet women” are like that. It may be that a girl you are introduced to has a past (i.e. before Christ or during a falling away), but if she is truly repentant and it wasn’t a hundred dicks then you should give her a chance.When I met my wife neither of us go to church, now we attended weekly and are getting involved in the church team. As a husband you will be essential in strengthening and maturing your wife’s faith. So even if she is a cradle Christians who attends three times a year that doesn’t mean that she’s is a write offCont.
(DIR) Post #ADsxeAKUwXf0IhNQI4 by Christ_is_Lord@poa.st
2021-11-29T07:02:51.008724Z
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@n8 @Chance @JSDorn @mystik Cont…To answer your actual question:I would say something less aggressive, but firm and specificI am looking someone my age or younger for a serious relationship leading to marriage.I want children, and I want to provide a home where my wife can chose to be a SAHMI take my faith and the teachings of the church seriously and it is important for me that they are important to my future wifeI don’t know what other information you are putting on you account, but I would advise picture of you doing church stuff, you outside, with pets, babies, and children. If you do practical things (woodworking) maybe of photo of you doing that. Get good photos. Don’t look like shit. Don’t try and be all things to all people. Don’t be vague about what you like. You’re not trying to tell them everything about yourself, you are trying to get to an in person conversation where you can learn more about each otherLastly she doesn’t need to be based, and you shouldn’t try to redpill her as part of courting. Even if you are a holocaust denier, someone coming out on the first date and revealing their power level is a very clear indicator that this person has shit judgement and is poor husband material. Go easy on the weeb shit, go easy on all of the politics, go easy on the culture war shitI could go on, but I’m running out of steam
(DIR) Post #ADsxfANqEDAql1Py6q by dew_the_dew@poa.st
2021-11-29T07:03:01.836069Z
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@Chance @mystik @JSDorn @n8 also your pfp looks liek mr hankey the christmas poo i hope you're not using that on your dating site profile
(DIR) Post #ADsy0QLG5gEyKgLW4G by Christ_is_Lord@poa.st
2021-11-29T07:06:52.363606Z
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@Chance @JSDorn @mystik @n8 oh an if I was unclear. You should focus your efforts on finding an irl girl through church
(DIR) Post #ADsyyUikwFlvHxyriK by Christ_is_Lord@poa.st
2021-11-29T07:17:43.716268Z
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@Chance @JSDorn @mystik @n8 If you're stupid enough to tell a tech company all your personal details you can be stupid enough to tell the lady handing out biscuits that your want a gf but are too shy to ask
(DIR) Post #ADszgjOjjMbJYCi6pk by JSDorn@poa.st
2021-11-29T07:25:43.431659Z
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@n8 @Chance orthodox? Here is something you might consider, visit your local Russian speaking church. You may find some Russian qts you otherwise would have missed.The very big brain strategy would be, if possible, if there is a large university in your general area, see what the closest Russian Orthodox church is to it.If there are any Russian exchange students you may bump into them there.
(DIR) Post #ADt1L0hQvIGekRE4pM by n8@poa.st
2021-11-29T07:44:12.511437Z
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@JSDorn @Chance that did not occur to me. I do wonder if being American will be a detriment though. Why tf would a cute Russian girl want to come to the states to live with a unattractive retard like me?
(DIR) Post #ADt1PGSKHd30m2Bjvs by Christ_is_Lord@poa.st
2021-11-29T07:44:58.642420Z
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@n8 @JSDorn @Chance green card, welfare, sunshine
(DIR) Post #ADt1mXR9JYVm6Fjfw8 by Bro-Drillard@poa.st
2021-11-29T07:49:11.008226Z
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@n8 @JSDorn @Chance Almost nobody among regular people outside of the US realizes how truly fucked the US is. There’s still some lingering glow from being the center of the empire. It’ll take some time to fade.
(DIR) Post #ADt31t4zEKTzWMFhFA by Tripp@poa.st
2021-11-29T08:03:08.404759Z
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@Christ_is_Lord @n8 @Chance @JSDorn Your savings and so forth.
(DIR) Post #ADt35MYs4b8XpIt6Aq by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T08:03:46.031166Z
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@Tripp @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @n8 IM TRYING TO BELIEVE GOOD ONES EXIST DAMNIT
(DIR) Post #ADt37rkF6ZKb7SOruy by n8@poa.st
2021-11-29T08:04:13.043893Z
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@Christ_is_Lord @Chance @JSDorn @mystik >probably a little awkwardNot really, i have a gift for networking>and social anxious. If any White man isn't anxious to a degree in this kike panopticon you might have a few screws loose.>mixed self esteem. Poor actually.>don’t have many previous relationships. Yeah.>You probably don’t have many female friends.No>You probably don’t have many strong older male role models.Also no.>You probably have imbibed some of the modern feminist ideas on relationshipNigga what>Your first attempt didn’t work. Being myself (nice, not nice, normal) didn't/doesn't work.>So you’ve decided to do the opposite. Something different.>this isn’t how you talk normally, especially to women.Of course not? This is an experiment after all. One i have no illusions of probable success I'd like to add.>I think you have an idea of the kind of guy who gets girls and you are mimicking him without understanding why he gets the girls.No. See above.>The short answer is that they get girls because they are confident and assertiveThing is my buds, workmates, and even female colleagues and friends all tell me i "appear" confident and put together despite my internal feelings.3rd paragraph is old news.>You need to become a guy with status, wealthGood thing that's going to be easy in the vax marketplace. Very cool.For opsec reasons I'm not going to get two detailed in my personal situation but I'll say this:+I won't be where i am for anything longer than two years (very likely less), so church situation isn't great+i female participation is not proof of female integrity & faithI literally do not believe in virign females above the age of 14. I simply do not.>In terms of “every woman is non virgin slut” the numbers don’t show that. I'm going to make a guess that you're not a Protestant or of such a background.>but if she is truly repentant and it wasn’t a hundred dicks then you should give her a chance.No. Unless she's more racist and antisemitic than me. But she's less likely to exist than a virgin lets be real.>When I met my wife Don't take it personally but I'm not going to take much of your advice very seriously now. You made it already and got extremely lucky (don't pretend otherwise). Which is good for you. But it's nearly entirely meaningless to me bro.
(DIR) Post #ADt3Cy7CqbSgKBZfaC by n8@poa.st
2021-11-29T08:05:08.656515Z
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@Christ_is_Lord @Chance @JSDorn Thomas is my favorite disciple.
(DIR) Post #ADt3L4ggIQ7N1a25ZY by TheVeryLutheranHousewife@poa.st
2021-11-29T08:06:37.759609Z
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@n8 @Chance @JSDorn Since you two ( @Chance and @n8 ) are Catholic and Orthodox I'd say your best option would be paying attention to girls who veil. If she covers her hair in mass/liturgy it signals she is serious about both your church teachings and traditions and cares for modesty. In fact I'd say a lack of veiling in those communities can be a redflag
(DIR) Post #ADt3OKdpR5rRNEFfAe by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T08:07:13.077753Z
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@n8 @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @mystik i dont like the "shes truly repentant" bullshit. yeah. God can forgive her. im not marrying her. simple as.
(DIR) Post #ADt3QG5FLvV5oizjvc by n8@poa.st
2021-11-29T08:07:33.951395Z
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@Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @mystik facts
(DIR) Post #ADt3RhgYDRDriC8Hvk by n8@poa.st
2021-11-29T08:07:49.574615Z
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@TheVeryLutheranHousewife @Chance @JSDorn I'll absolutely keep that in mind.
(DIR) Post #ADt3acnlk4ZzAilMSO by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T08:09:26.380645Z
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@TheVeryLutheranHousewife @n8 @JSDorn that doesnt exist in modern mass. the trad latin ones are very different. but modern mass nobody was raised to do that. most people dont know its a thing. it was never taught. Catholic mass in the post vatican II era is really just a status symbol to like 90% of its attendants. trad pre vatican II latin mass is different. only people who truly care go to those.
(DIR) Post #ADt3dfnd3LlfL19Pyi by TheVeryLutheranHousewife@poa.st
2021-11-29T08:09:59.420022Z
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@Chance @n8 @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @mystik I am all for letting genuinely repentent people with sexual/degenerate pasts back in to heal, but I think they should probably be with other repentent people of similar sins and history
(DIR) Post #ADt3fKtBlgPr45XoRc by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T08:10:17.508978Z
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@TheVeryLutheranHousewife @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @mystik @n8 i can agree with this.
(DIR) Post #ADt3ntsVZ0NltkJGbY by n8@poa.st
2021-11-29T08:11:50.327416Z
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@TheVeryLutheranHousewife @Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @mystik EXACTLY. It's not fair to the celibate of us to be asked to wed&bed former/renounced sluts & dick carousel riders.I'd almost prefer death.
(DIR) Post #ADt3zsETVYpyGkIHrM by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T08:14:00.068371Z
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@n8 @TheVeryLutheranHousewife @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @mystik i take this stance on intercourse very seriously. other forms of sexual degeneracy i can forgive. because i fell for it myself. honestly. if a girl dumps me because i did some of it in the past i wouldnt really be able to argue against it.
(DIR) Post #ADt41OTd6qoSYy6iX2 by n8@poa.st
2021-11-29T08:14:16.517533Z
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@TheVeryLutheranHousewife @Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @mystik Allow me to say one more thing about this: the fact that so many Protestant preachers think it's their mission in life to convince the celibate that it's some kind of moral imperative on their part to open their arms to the degenerates who repented is a big part of what pushed me out of protestant circles.Too much forgiveness and Grace.Absolutely nothing in the way of consequences and God's wrath.
(DIR) Post #ADt41fadU3WBdcW3JQ by TheVeryLutheranHousewife@poa.st
2021-11-29T08:14:19.671180Z
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@Chance @JSDorn @n8 hmm, it is very different in my part of the country as veiling is still a thing here for catholics and orthodox. Although I will admit I notice it's more older women who do it
(DIR) Post #ADt48nX2M1GgISEQ4G by mystik@midnightride.rs
2021-11-29T08:15:34.766126Z
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@Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @TheVeryLutheranHousewife @n8 Stop with this gay attitude. Karma doesn't exist. If you want a woman more saint than you are, then get it.
(DIR) Post #ADt49gJSgC5aCHIr2m by n8@poa.st
2021-11-29T08:15:46.545370Z
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@Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @TheVeryLutheranHousewife @mystik LIKE WHERE DID THE FIRE & BRIMSTONE GO DUDE???I WANT THAT SHIT BRO WHERES ANGRY GOD AT? CAN WE PHONE HIM UP OR SOME SHIT?
(DIR) Post #ADt4FIWy0vfSAwIYPQ by mystik@midnightride.rs
2021-11-29T08:16:46.008972Z
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@n8 @Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @TheVeryLutheranHousewife You don't want it for you, do you?
(DIR) Post #ADt4GZ9dh0wq1SzXW4 by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T08:17:01.186422Z
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@mystik @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @TheVeryLutheranHousewife @n8 yes. im just saying. if she decides to not stay with me then i would understand
(DIR) Post #ADt4IyTeVwUR8gV7tg by mystik@midnightride.rs
2021-11-29T08:17:25.921332Z
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@Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @TheVeryLutheranHousewife @n8 Beat her up.
(DIR) Post #ADt4LXT7O7XOF4TRdg by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T08:17:55.116949Z
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@mystik @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @TheVeryLutheranHousewife @n8 no thats wrong
(DIR) Post #ADt4PxA7nl9P5Vh94i by mystik@midnightride.rs
2021-11-29T08:18:40.831027Z
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@Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @TheVeryLutheranHousewife @n8
(DIR) Post #ADt4TOXYT3SArrIMfQ by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T08:19:20.312084Z
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@mystik @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @TheVeryLutheranHousewife @n8 im not beating my future gf
(DIR) Post #ADt4UMXHPCsswNczZI by n8@poa.st
2021-11-29T08:19:30.751487Z
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@mystik @Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @TheVeryLutheranHousewife indo actually. Growing up in a hugbox of a church was not exactly an enriching or well rounded experience.I crave sermons anout God being upset eith how fucked up we are as individuals and as a society. Grace and mercy after this life nigga but lets get a little of God's righteous fury sprinkled on to some of this shit.
(DIR) Post #ADt4aIkoNYMqwumzke by TheVeryLutheranHousewife@poa.st
2021-11-29T08:20:35.125064Z
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@Chance @n8 @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @mystik >other forms of sexual degeneracy I fell for myselfI am in the same boat, I was abused (groped/assaulted and some other things) and it ruined my innocence, but I was still a virgin. So I made sure who I married was also a virgin, but they didn't have to be perfectly pristine and 100% innocent since I wasn't, my husband was also a virgin but had a past of partying, drug use, and had some tattoos and stuff before he found Christ and turned away from that. I think it's important to find someone who is kind of matched with you in that regard and has been through the same amount of struggle/on the same level. Perfectly innocent, sheltered from the world people like say Emma Mae Jenkins for example, should be with others in that circle. Because frankly I feel like too much imbalance between that can cause some difficulties.
(DIR) Post #ADt4awHRQAdpXPM6We by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T08:20:42.097249Z
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@n8 @mystik @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @TheVeryLutheranHousewife he tried. its called aids. teen pregnancy. pair bonding. etc. but the world keeps finding ways to cure, excuse, and normalize
(DIR) Post #ADt4b6Aie1CqDSHsR6 by mystik@midnightride.rs
2021-11-29T08:20:40.541124Z
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@n8 @Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @TheVeryLutheranHousewife You attract that to yourself, that way.
(DIR) Post #ADt4fpsSedI77y0RnM by Tripp@poa.st
2021-11-29T08:21:35.174130Z
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@Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @n8
(DIR) Post #ADt4mNyslrfKdS8JAe by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T08:22:46.163773Z
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@TheVeryLutheranHousewife @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @mystik @n8 thankfully i dont have a past of partying and such. i am mostly clean with porn being my one major stain. but ive put that behind me. hopefully whoever i find doesnt leave me over it
(DIR) Post #ADt4miY0IzdwQAidgu by n8@poa.st
2021-11-29T08:22:49.800115Z
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@Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @TheVeryLutheranHousewife @mystik i pray daily that just two lieutenants in a minuteman III silo and their NCOIC just start a nuclear war to reset all this shit.
(DIR) Post #ADt4oOMELG1KNm0hmK by n8@poa.st
2021-11-29T08:23:07.949134Z
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@Chance @TheVeryLutheranHousewife @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @mystik same
(DIR) Post #ADt4qbLb17urFTldJI by n8@poa.st
2021-11-29T08:23:31.110331Z
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@mystik @Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @TheVeryLutheranHousewife what do you mean by that
(DIR) Post #ADt4skkL2hjYyjMlqC by mystik@midnightride.rs
2021-11-29T08:23:52.478385Z
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@Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @TheVeryLutheranHousewife @n8 >aidsDoesn't exist at all. Big psyop, like covid.>teen pregnancyLike St. Mary's?>pair bondingFeminism is a jewish invention, not God's. Take that away, everything goes smoothly.
(DIR) Post #ADt4wp6ilpN7f7mCiO by TheVeryLutheranHousewife@poa.st
2021-11-29T08:24:39.393070Z
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@Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @mystik @n8 Nor do I, had to much social anxiety to ever be a party person and drugs never appealed to me. But I feel different kind of sins can still be leveled with eachother. My lack of innocence due to mild abuse is probably similar to drug abuse and party scene, both a bit mentally scarring, both can be healed from and are thankfully not as extreme as virginity loss
(DIR) Post #ADt4xSgBdtukOPfZuS by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T08:24:46.300394Z
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@mystik @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @TheVeryLutheranHousewife @n8 Mary was doing what God told her. not the same thing.
(DIR) Post #ADt50VoYRXuMz62Qgy by mystik@midnightride.rs
2021-11-29T08:25:17.375366Z
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@n8 @Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @TheVeryLutheranHousewife You're attracting destruction to your life. Your life listens, and says "your wish is my command", no matter if you agree with your wish or not.
(DIR) Post #ADt51TbW998AQ2OrhY by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T08:25:29.876335Z
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@TheVeryLutheranHousewife @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @mystik @n8 im happy things worked out for you :comfyheart: wishing you all the best. may you have many wonderful children
(DIR) Post #ADt52CBAPxn6fLPxNQ by mystik@midnightride.rs
2021-11-29T08:25:36.037461Z
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@Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @TheVeryLutheranHousewife @n8 Literally teen pregnancy, dude.
(DIR) Post #ADt53jBTBxTrJnI2XQ by n8@poa.st
2021-11-29T08:25:54.208725Z
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@mystik @Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @TheVeryLutheranHousewife Don't take aids/GRIDS away from me bro i fucking HATE sodomites/pedophiles. The thought that they're NOT suffering from incurable diseases that cut them down in their mid-30s kills me :sad_cat:
(DIR) Post #ADt57J2cKeJ9Ocr6Yq by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T08:26:32.687254Z
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@mystik @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @TheVeryLutheranHousewife @n8 it is not the same context. stop trying to make a scene.
(DIR) Post #ADt58jR7gGCLY6zuyW by n8@poa.st
2021-11-29T08:26:48.526272Z
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@mystik @Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @TheVeryLutheranHousewife I definitely do not believe memetics are that powerful.
(DIR) Post #ADt59GGzawhdOFVnGa by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T08:26:54.264155Z
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@n8 @mystik @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @TheVeryLutheranHousewife it exists. for gay people and butt sex havers.
(DIR) Post #ADt5A3WcTdJm8uCSvY by mystik@midnightride.rs
2021-11-29T08:27:00.855224Z
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@n8 @Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @TheVeryLutheranHousewife This is exactly why the psyop worked out so well. Covid19 prequel.
(DIR) Post #ADt5DmbvJ3ogqFSSlU by mystik@midnightride.rs
2021-11-29T08:27:42.116642Z
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@Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @TheVeryLutheranHousewife @n8 Then the problem is the context, not teen pregnancy itself.
(DIR) Post #ADt5GyjCi7HxIAO4bQ by mystik@midnightride.rs
2021-11-29T08:28:15.524074Z
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@n8 @Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @TheVeryLutheranHousewife Watch the Law of Attraction film, "The Secret".
(DIR) Post #ADt5HvdZggqHznCuWG by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T08:28:28.090058Z
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@mystik @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @TheVeryLutheranHousewife @n8 you know what i meant damnit. unwanted pregnancies
(DIR) Post #ADt5OEfXqBkAl88VNI by mystik@midnightride.rs
2021-11-29T08:29:34.416814Z
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@Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @TheVeryLutheranHousewife @n8 Mary's was an unwanted pregnancy. Joseph was totally not expecting it.
(DIR) Post #ADt5RvORRx8A8Ota0e by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T08:30:16.531545Z
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@mystik @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @TheVeryLutheranHousewife @n8 it was wanted. she said yes. she could have said no. Joseph was informed about it later and understood the importance
(DIR) Post #ADt5TdFZsN1WRbYzuS by TheVeryLutheranHousewife@poa.st
2021-11-29T08:30:35.167625Z
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@mystik @Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @n8 I think divine pregnancy conceived by the holy spirit is a little bit different to your average "unwanted" pregnancy, also Mary gave consent and angels directly explained to Joseph what was going on
(DIR) Post #ADt5aT8TsbHR6NVJiK by mystik@midnightride.rs
2021-11-29T08:31:46.203630Z
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@Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @TheVeryLutheranHousewife @n8 >"later">"LATER"unwanted
(DIR) Post #ADt5bpHF2oCQ3sFV20 by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T08:32:04.052219Z
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@mystik @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @TheVeryLutheranHousewife @n8 literally not the same thing. stop.
(DIR) Post #ADt5eRCuzWzyHNTKme by mystik@midnightride.rs
2021-11-29T08:32:30.089118Z
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@TheVeryLutheranHousewife @Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @n8 Explained "later". It was literally unwanted.
(DIR) Post #ADt5hrS9rn9iY2EUyG by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T08:33:09.401966Z
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@mystik @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @n8 @TheVeryLutheranHousewife explained it perfectly
(DIR) Post #ADt5kEubcOFvspfnDk by TheVeryLutheranHousewife@poa.st
2021-11-29T08:33:35.246152Z
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@mystik @Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @n8 No, Mary was asked permission
(DIR) Post #ADt5lyhCsdi4AYEcKW by mystik@midnightride.rs
2021-11-29T08:33:50.760512Z
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@Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @TheVeryLutheranHousewife @n8 We already touched this point. The context was not the same, but the "thing" ("unwanted pregnancy") it totally was. It 100% qualifies as a "unwanted pregnancy". that's what it is.
(DIR) Post #ADt5nOHjE5cLp0zVpo by mystik@midnightride.rs
2021-11-29T08:34:07.681129Z
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@TheVeryLutheranHousewife @Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @n8 Of course, unwanted pregnancies do not imply rape.
(DIR) Post #ADt5njRiY95NS4pHou by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T08:34:13.153406Z
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@mystik @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @TheVeryLutheranHousewife @n8 no because mary wanted it
(DIR) Post #ADt5qeVXMogj0L0OP2 by mystik@midnightride.rs
2021-11-29T08:34:43.318362Z
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@Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @TheVeryLutheranHousewife @n8 Before marriage? I don't think she even imagined it was possible.
(DIR) Post #ADt5tlTPvOfZTeUvOS by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T08:35:18.494523Z
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@mystik @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @TheVeryLutheranHousewife @n8 she was literally asked to do it and was given the option of no. she CHOSE YES
(DIR) Post #ADt5wWYHrJAc4H5jE0 by TheVeryLutheranHousewife@poa.st
2021-11-29T08:35:48.420559Z
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@mystik @Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @n8 I know, sex wasn't even involved so this isn't about rape. The pregnancy wasn't unwanted. Mary wanted to be pregnant and said if it serves the Lord make it so
(DIR) Post #ADt61H5QmoN7YCrLhg by TheVeryLutheranHousewife@poa.st
2021-11-29T08:36:39.962097Z
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@mystik @Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @n8 Well nobody thinks immaculate conception is possible that's why an angel had to ask her.
(DIR) Post #ADt62MJEr0E82Qpp1k by mystik@midnightride.rs
2021-11-29T08:36:48.986207Z
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@Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @TheVeryLutheranHousewife @n8 Again, "unwanted pregnancies" do not imply rape or lack of consent. When a girl fornicates she is giving her consent, consciously or not, she's doing it. Joseph was totally unaware of what was going on, he didn't even had that privilege.
(DIR) Post #ADt63izK1JnifHAcHg by TheVeryLutheranHousewife@poa.st
2021-11-29T08:37:06.581706Z
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@mystik @Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @n8 Well nobody expects immaculate conception that's why an angel had to ask her.
(DIR) Post #ADt65drI3x5HKpKNmq by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T08:37:27.313780Z
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@mystik @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @TheVeryLutheranHousewife @n8 why are you trying to argue this so much? it literally doesnt matter
(DIR) Post #ADt66LcxKblJ56xYYK by mystik@midnightride.rs
2021-11-29T08:37:32.885798Z
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@TheVeryLutheranHousewife @Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @n8 She didn't want before that divine "moment". Just like in any unwanted pregnancy nowadays.
(DIR) Post #ADt68cTxdVLXw2prbk by mystik@midnightride.rs
2021-11-29T08:37:57.595667Z
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@Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @TheVeryLutheranHousewife @n8 It triggered something. God tried to warn you about these taboos. You didn't listen.
(DIR) Post #ADt6AYeOqwzydAdtXU by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T08:38:20.656680Z
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@mystik @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @TheVeryLutheranHousewife @n8 what?
(DIR) Post #ADt6H50hSAt0jKBPO4 by mystik@midnightride.rs
2021-11-29T08:39:28.636928Z
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@Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @TheVeryLutheranHousewife @n8 The fact that the Holy Family is the story of an unwanted pregnancy should speak volumes to you about these taboos that you hold today. And where they come from.
(DIR) Post #ADt6LfnmbYtbznKcK0 by TheVeryLutheranHousewife@poa.st
2021-11-29T08:40:21.172317Z
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@mystik @Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @n8 I agree that young pregnancy shouldn't be taboo, and that we should support teen mums.
(DIR) Post #ADt6MKUjJJ16CZjToe by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T08:40:28.285546Z
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@mystik @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @TheVeryLutheranHousewife @n8 an unwanted pregnancy is something the girl is unhappy about. something she doesnt want. Mary WANTED it. what dont you get. at no point in time did she go "yeah i dont want Jesus"
(DIR) Post #ADt6QcSSStFh4YiQCm by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T08:41:14.848561Z
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@TheVeryLutheranHousewife @mystik @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @n8 teen pregnancy in what context? are they married? because any pregnancy outside of marriage should be whole heartedly shamed
(DIR) Post #ADt6cqGGyBtZMGqORs by mystik@midnightride.rs
2021-11-29T08:43:24.216692Z
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@Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @TheVeryLutheranHousewife @n8 OK, I see what you mean. Unexpected vs undesired. I assume that most undesired pregnancies come from the fact that they were unexpected. The undesired part is rejecting Life itself.
(DIR) Post #ADt6d5UeL1JAbCgaRM by TheVeryLutheranHousewife@poa.st
2021-11-29T08:43:29.989167Z
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@Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @mystik @n8 Sex out of wedlock should be shamed and not accepted in any context, and it's best for people to marry young (18-19). However, in this modern day if a teenager is already pregnant and it's in unideal circumstances, I worry to shame her would be birth control mentality, it's a good thing she isn't killing her offspring like so much propaganda is insisting, and she should be given support in the sense that she isn't treated harshly, and hopefully encouraged to marry the father and make right the sin
(DIR) Post #ADt6hdQ88jFiyqjxY0 by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T08:44:19.288914Z
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@mystik @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @TheVeryLutheranHousewife @n8 there wo go
(DIR) Post #ADt6pyy1ugYs7hZpfE by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T08:45:49.794146Z
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@TheVeryLutheranHousewife @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @mystik @n8 my sister has expressed the belief that girls as young as 16 should be marrying men in their low-mid 20s. based on how girls physically mature and are able to have kids pretty young. she believes that not allowing that just gives girls more time to fuck up and wastes valuable child bearing years. what are your thoughts on that?
(DIR) Post #ADt6vkR6qswgnGvb3Q by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T08:46:52.330737Z
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@TheVeryLutheranHousewife @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @mystik @n8 i do somewhat agree with you tho. you take care of them and the child. but you cant support it. you make sure they know its wrong. some things need to be highly shamed and kept as taboo so it doesnt happen in the first place.
(DIR) Post #ADt7F7hcZYlaSGtF20 by TheVeryLutheranHousewife@poa.st
2021-11-29T08:50:22.444317Z
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@Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @mystik @n8 I'm not so sure about that. In an ideal world I think couples would be much closer in age, even the same age, and a lot more highschool sweetheart type relationships. I'm more than happy with say, two 16 year olds getting married, rather than a teen marrying an adult in his 20s. I think opening marriage up to younger people close in age/the same age can be a very good thing, but it should be exclusively between people of the same age range.I understand this is kinda hypocritical coming from me since my husband and I are 10 years apart, but we met when we were both adults (18 and 28), and to be frank most of the zoomer men I've encountered are just pornsick.. 16 is still high school age and for high schoolers to be with adults is just inappropriate and creepy imo
(DIR) Post #ADt7JhVNOxigeXLTNI by TheVeryLutheranHousewife@poa.st
2021-11-29T08:51:12.094025Z
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@Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @mystik @n8 the aspect that should be shamed is casual sex/ having kids out of wedlock and not with somebody who you love. But the pregnancy itself shouldn't be shamed.
(DIR) Post #ADt7VOdbNM57bzlmLo by mystik@midnightride.rs
2021-11-29T08:53:15.961591Z
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@Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @TheVeryLutheranHousewife @n8 Anyway, my was that God's wrath is a myth. >"he tried (to apply His fury on) aids. teen pregnancy. pair bonding. etc.">"but the world keeps finding ways to cure, excuse, and normalize"I don't think that God created any AIDS (it was a psyop). When I was a kid I used to believe that God created Ebola because of witchery in Africa. Yet another psyop. Ebola does not exist.Teen pregnancy... I agree with your sister, there would be more, not less. It should be normalized.Pair bonding, that's our creation, not God's. we fell for jewish tricks, feminism, etc.
(DIR) Post #ADt7Vn0okgudCwoerw by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T08:53:23.157513Z
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@TheVeryLutheranHousewife @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @mystik @n8 see. i see it both ways. but at the same time. having an age gap is important. the woman at 16 would be coming into her prime. while the man at say 24/25 would be coming into his. men need to be older because their prime is built on resources. and those take time. women on the other hand are on a biological clock that doesnt care about what people want. if 2 people at the same age say 17 got married. the man would not be anywhere near prepared or ready for kids. meanwhile the woman would be perfectly able to do so.
(DIR) Post #ADt7h9qaC0clDMRwIK by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T08:55:26.471716Z
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@mystik @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @TheVeryLutheranHousewife @n8 pair bonding is real. if you become one flesh with multiple people it lessens the bond. there is a very important spiritual part to sex. and by normalized teen pregnancy you mean mature and financially and moral upstanding men in their 20s marrying physically mature teens (say 16) with the fathers permission?
(DIR) Post #ADt7q5BGuYkxLfNlom by TheVeryLutheranHousewife@poa.st
2021-11-29T08:57:03.213171Z
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@Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @mystik @n8 From a more idealist perspective I think rather than striving for everyone to have an age gap relationship, we should strive for it to be easier for young men to gain access to resources earlier in life, like generations previously have had.That being said I don't think age gaps in themselves are bad of course as I'm in an age gap relationship, but I think they should be circumstantial and not something you seek out deliberately.
(DIR) Post #ADt7tU48qVQROefYUy by mystik@midnightride.rs
2021-11-29T08:57:37.784022Z
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@Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @TheVeryLutheranHousewife @n8 Exactly. As it used to be. Modern life is crap. This civilization is zombie, it lost its soul long ago. It's long gone. There is no God's wrath. There is only civilization death. Self-destruction.
(DIR) Post #ADt7wn8qNXzhQbRhmy by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T08:58:15.993151Z
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@TheVeryLutheranHousewife @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @mystik @n8 imo age gaps just make a lot of sense. it puts both parties perfectly in each of their respective primes. even in a perfect world where men got resources faster an age gap would only improve that.
(DIR) Post #ADtCCyJxpodlF1J7Gi by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T09:01:21.945554Z
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@TheVeryLutheranHousewife @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @mystik @n8 and not to mention younger girls need more guidance to stay away from bad things. having a father approved husband that is mature and morally upstanding would eliminate many of the things that break women. she would have her protector during her most vulnerable time. i see both arguments. age gaps in this area are seen as weird and taboo. but in a moral society where men are truly morally upstanding men. would it really be weird to have that?
(DIR) Post #ADtCCypVwVsSos4JRg by TheVeryLutheranHousewife@poa.st
2021-11-29T09:04:52.824519Z
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@Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @mystik @n8 Perhaps I am biased because the men these days that would go for that age, due to the current cultural climate, would be sleezebags, so I just can't bring myself to support that.However, I do agree that people should get married as soon as possible though and there should be more freedom to marry in your teens. I also agree young girls need more guidance both spiritually and morally, and while marriage with an upstanding man can help that, a good father-daughter relationship is key, and that is lacking nowadays. So more authority to fatherly positions (and more honourable fathers) would go a very long way
(DIR) Post #ADtCCzIwB7PgI7poJ6 by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T09:06:17.338163Z
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@TheVeryLutheranHousewife @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @mystik @n8 i fully agree with everything said here. a system like what i described would really only work in a morally upstanding society due to modern coomer culture.
(DIR) Post #ADtCCzsk203M5AaP7A by TheVeryLutheranHousewife@poa.st
2021-11-29T09:09:12.119526Z
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@Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @mystik @n8 Exactly, with the way most men are now (pornsick coomers) I genuinely don't see that working. I say this as someone who "dated" adult men age 13 onwards because I struggled to socially fit in with others my age and that left me vulnerable. It was just damaging and frankly grooming.
(DIR) Post #ADtCD0gj2A2GaByK1Y by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T09:12:02.149690Z
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@TheVeryLutheranHousewife @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @mystik @n8 see. It wouldn't be dating in the modern sense. It would be the guy coming over and surrending time with the entire family. Even in the moral society with an age gap and area as described you wouldn't let your daughter be alone with the man. The father would have to fully vet him. So it would be "dating" but not really.
(DIR) Post #ADtCD1HEqPF6PR3Tw8 by TheVeryLutheranHousewife@poa.st
2021-11-29T09:13:16.416522Z
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@Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @mystik @n8 arranged marriage definitely works and has proven to be very happy for the couples involved so perhaps. But I still think the pair should be close in age.
(DIR) Post #ADtCD2HH7krlVq51dI by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T09:17:52.000852Z
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@TheVeryLutheranHousewife @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @mystik @n8 I will have to disagree on this. Age gaps make too much sense. It literally creates the perfect storm of opportunity on both parts. I would approve if semi arranged marriages. I think they should have some say in who it is. But not full control.
(DIR) Post #ADtCD2pf3uN7EUAUEK by TheVeryLutheranHousewife@poa.st
2021-11-29T09:23:27.853820Z
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@Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @mystik @n8 I will admit I enjoy being in an age gap relationship, so I get where you're coming from, but I think what was important is my husband didn't specifically go looking for me because of my age, he even was a bit put off by the age gap at first. We ended up together because we love eachother at the end of the dayWhile it's important that men get with women of child bearing age (under 25), there is a disturbing group of men who clearly fetishise "barely legal" and very specific ages in a very creepy sense, like Leonardo Dicaprio who exclusively goes for 18 year olds and leaves them when they get too old for his tastes, and how are you going to really weed those types out if you idealise age gaps too much?
(DIR) Post #ADtCD3Nh1Nasw25fH6 by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T09:28:31.672576Z
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@TheVeryLutheranHousewife @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @mystik @n8 there are concerns that need to be addressed. That's where the father comes in. You don't pick randoms. It's picked by people he personally knows and would approve of. But the fact remains that 2 20 year olds would have a very very hard time. My parents did. They are the same age. And until my dad was older they were in massive debt. Barely made it through. If the guy is already stable and ready to go. It makes sense he would find a girl that is ready for kids as well. It eliminates so much of the financial issues people face. You aren't doing it for fetish reasons. It's because it's the logical thing to do. Your own relationship is a perfect example. Why are so many grandparents so far apart? I've heard of people 20 years apart. That's a bit much. But 5-10 should really be normal
(DIR) Post #ADtCD3tx5ROkY5BQYa by Christ_is_Lord@poa.st
2021-11-29T09:45:31.134929Z
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@Chance @TheVeryLutheranHousewife @JSDorn @mystik @n8 Why were so many grandparents far apart? Cause the war fucked everything
(DIR) Post #ADtCDNVADJSBKzjuhE by mystik@midnightride.rs
2021-11-29T09:24:41.320892Z
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@TheVeryLutheranHousewife @Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @n8 It's biological, creepy or not, it's what our nature dictates. Can't go against DNA.
(DIR) Post #ADtCDNwSZpHuheViF6 by TheVeryLutheranHousewife@poa.st
2021-11-29T09:29:48.675142Z
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@mystik @Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @n8 would it be all, can't help biology it's what our nature dictates bro if it was ur daughter though?
(DIR) Post #ADtCDOWyO4UkWtas9g by mystik@midnightride.rs
2021-11-29T09:35:08.775715Z
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@TheVeryLutheranHousewife @Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @n8 What could I do besides approving the least bad of the candidates? Regardless of age. I would care more about principles and responsibility than age.The creepiness you see is because most of those men are retarded lazy fucks. Good solid brave hard working men are good candidates regardless of age.
(DIR) Post #ADtCDPBNxooyYEV996 by TheVeryLutheranHousewife@poa.st
2021-11-29T09:36:08.024186Z
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@mystik @Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @n8 It would probably take a few generations to heal and return to a point where predatory men are back to a minority though sadly
(DIR) Post #ADtCDPnJgnA8RsFRGi by mystik@midnightride.rs
2021-11-29T09:36:56.971275Z
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@TheVeryLutheranHousewife @Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @n8 Same for women. Most humans today are garbage NPC's. That's irrespective of age.
(DIR) Post #ADtCDQiOGaofIsx1EG by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T09:43:20.092579Z
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@mystik @TheVeryLutheranHousewife @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @n8 the possibility of me finding a girl close to my age is improbable. I'll probably hit 25 before then. I would be down with a girl the same age as me rn. But the older I get while searching the larger the gap becomes. Finding a good partner is hard. Especially right now.
(DIR) Post #ADtCDRSpTvxlcug6c4 by mystik@midnightride.rs
2021-11-29T09:45:59.936006Z
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@Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @TheVeryLutheranHousewife @n8 I always date below 23, man (and I'm old already). I don't think I'd go farther than that, no matter what.Although, never say never!
(DIR) Post #ADtCFJazhtQ3npOGRc by Christ_is_Lord@poa.st
2021-11-29T09:28:43.055161Z
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@mystik @TheVeryLutheranHousewife @Chance @JSDorn @n8 All men like younger women. The question is why younger men aren't getting themHint: the same forces that cause women to become sugar babies to pay for college
(DIR) Post #ADtCFK1a72gd8HpUsy by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T09:33:40.540240Z
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@Christ_is_Lord @mystik @JSDorn @TheVeryLutheranHousewife @n8 immature men are a huge problem. I'm focused on not being that. Got that based trad trade job and shit. Should be moving into my first house next month. Really focused on building resources and being stable.
(DIR) Post #ADtCFKTwPbN6YF695c by Christ_is_Lord@poa.st
2021-11-29T09:46:25.761362Z
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@Chance @JSDorn @TheVeryLutheranHousewife @mystik @n8 That's fantastic. Good work
(DIR) Post #ADtCFlvsLql9ghNKsa by mystik@midnightride.rs
2021-11-29T09:46:28.837231Z
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@Christ_is_Lord @Chance @JSDorn @TheVeryLutheranHousewife @n8 nah, it's biology.
(DIR) Post #ADtCHKh0bDVFmgAKfo by Christ_is_Lord@poa.st
2021-11-29T09:30:36.557403Z
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@TheVeryLutheranHousewife @Chance @JSDorn @mystik @n8 Young girls and young boys need guidance. When girls fuck up they hurt themselves. When boys fuck up they hurt others. Both should be within a family and cultural context that guides them, it should not just be left to the husband, or worse, the man who tells a girl that he'll marry
(DIR) Post #ADtCHLEKbK9rS1kwc4 by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T09:35:24.556935Z
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@Christ_is_Lord @TheVeryLutheranHousewife @JSDorn @mystik @n8 You do have to account for the slow resource aquirenent in modern day tho. It takes much longer to that these days. Even for people who try.
(DIR) Post #ADtCKMlnKh2P5xqoEa by Christ_is_Lord@poa.st
2021-11-29T09:47:20.816477Z
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@Chance @JSDorn @TheVeryLutheranHousewife @mystik @n8 How to be healthy in a sick society? You kinda can't
(DIR) Post #ADtCKkWN1gxal4opWa by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T09:47:24.957930Z
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@mystik @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @TheVeryLutheranHousewife @n8 I think it's mainly biology. Hell. The bible had larger age gaps than my theoreticals. It's always been this way
(DIR) Post #ADtCM3UNzOV9sNVtB2 by TheVeryLutheranHousewife@poa.st
2021-11-29T09:42:42.126819Z
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@Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @mystik @n8 I think the reason an age gap works with me is because I have PTSD, and a bad relationship with my father, and I simply needed the protection and stability my husband offers. He also never really had access to the more Christian women who wanted a traditional family because he grew up below the poverty line with a lot of more junkie types surrounding him. Basically both of us were in extremely unideal circumstances that lead to it working, and a unique case.I think @Christ_is_Lord explains perfectly well why closer in age would work best in an ideal society and why it should be the norm.
(DIR) Post #ADtCPJTf09wiKcjA5g by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T09:48:14.431943Z
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@Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @TheVeryLutheranHousewife @mystik @n8 So you adapt. I'll probably mostly chase girls 5 years younger. And if I hit 30 and not married even larger than that.
(DIR) Post #ADtCcXAtO2AAZsFkgK by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T09:50:37.784582Z
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@Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @TheVeryLutheranHousewife @mystik @n8 I don't think you can ignore the primes of the respective sexes. A 20 year old man does not make near enough to have a family. And the families of the couple can only do so much.
(DIR) Post #ADtCi6BAfUNYae2LVw by TheVeryLutheranHousewife@poa.st
2021-11-29T09:10:13.488359Z
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@Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @mystik @n8 and might I add many are just plain emotionally/physically abusive due to the power dynamics
(DIR) Post #ADtCmwPkOwIFkjADsu by Christ_is_Lord@poa.st
2021-11-29T09:25:46.770849Z
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@Chance @TheVeryLutheranHousewife @JSDorn @mystik @n8 All of this talk about a man's resources and being in his prime presumes that you're just sending two people off to the world without support and help. In the ideal godly relationship you would have vast families and communities supporting the newlyweds so his individual income would not be an obstacle it marriage (I think it this as the precursor to delaying marriage and children for the woman's career).Age gaps work in non Christian non western cultures because there is almost always a power differential in the relationship between the man and the women. If you have 4 wives, or beat them and have them segregated from the world, or you aren't involved in raising your children, or you plan to cheat as is common in other cultures it make sense for the man to have resources and for the power differential to be greater.Certainly the man being the woman's slightly senior (a couple of years) is fine, but we shouldn't be encouraging age gapsWhat happens often in the west when this happens is that you have a man who is older than the woman by decade and they are roughly the same in maturity. The woman is pleased at first, she has a mature man certainly more mature than the guys her age. The man is pleased, because he's in his thirties crushing barely legal pussy. And over time it becomes apparent that the reason the guy was single so late in life, and the reason he has the maturity of a woman ten years younger, is that he's actually not that great. He's ahead in life, not because he's a go getter, he's just been at it ten years longer.It can work. It does work. But age gaps larger than five years always warrant further inspection. Either the guy is immature, or something has happened to the girl that makes her desperate for protection and strength. We've all seen the girls who at 14 years old are courting 21 year Olds, it's never a sign of health.Men these days are the least mature and least responsible they have ever been in all of human history. We have 25 year olds who have never had a job who live with their parents. 2-3 generations ago it wasn't unheard of someone to start work at 13-14 and get married and buy a house at 17. The correlated phenomenon to women becoming thots is men remaining boys (i.e. soy boys, weebs, gaymer, etc). It's nearly impossible to find a 15 year old man. They're still children. They fucking disgust meIf we had mature men we wouldn't need the age gap. Because of immature men, women get abused in age gaps. If we had mature men we wouldn't have thots at all. Truely horrid.
(DIR) Post #ADtDbnzZTTPGOtAqy8 by Christ_is_Lord@poa.st
2021-11-29T10:01:42.225408Z
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@mystik @Chance @JSDorn @TheVeryLutheranHousewife @n8 Cross cultural studies show that the average age difference and the preferred age difference is around 3 years. A mans prime isn't in his 30s.Around the world, in non nigger or nigger type cultures have a greater age gap, but that's not historically what happened in the west
(DIR) Post #ADtDdJlIq9qXDrDmmO by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T09:37:35.124106Z
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@TheVeryLutheranHousewife @mystik @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @n8 Yes. But even people of the same age are predatory. It's just modern coomer culture. The objective should be finding a suitable man. If you have to stretch a few years then so be it. All people want is sex. So if you want a good guy you might have to expand a little.
(DIR) Post #ADtDeprEziRv3Uir5M by Turdicus@poa.st
2021-11-29T04:36:35.113611Z
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@n8 @Chance @JSDorn I’m ready for less than nothing, good way to describe it
(DIR) Post #ADtDqTVDw5pzCHyT0S by mystik@midnightride.rs
2021-11-29T10:04:19.655940Z
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@Christ_is_Lord @Chance @JSDorn @TheVeryLutheranHousewife @n8 Well, I had this italian professor in high school that once told us"When I was 12 I liked girls 13,when I was 13 I liked girls 15,when I was 15 I liked girls 17,when I was 17 I liked girls 17,when I was 20 I liked girls 17,when I was 30..."
(DIR) Post #ADtEGj5ebWiH4QX2Aq by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T10:09:05.940871Z
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@Christ_is_Lord @mystik @JSDorn @TheVeryLutheranHousewife @n8 okay. Well 3 years younger is 19. So am I running out of time on this?
(DIR) Post #ADtEaba4EZ4dZWEici by Christ_is_Lord@poa.st
2021-11-29T10:12:41.345826Z
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@Chance @JSDorn @TheVeryLutheranHousewife @mystik @n8 The families of the couple's should do everything they can. Grandparents should be helping with child rearing. The cost of furnishings the home should be footed by the parents. The parents and grandparents should be feeding them. We shouldn't have boomers going on expensive luxury trips around the world with giant homes, while their kids are buried under a mountain of debt with no capital or social support
(DIR) Post #ADtEeORL26ixyUxZ8y by Christ_is_Lord@poa.st
2021-11-29T10:13:22.566215Z
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@Chance @JSDorn @TheVeryLutheranHousewife @mystik @n8 I assumed you were late twenties, my mistake
(DIR) Post #ADtEm7XFlf4LrYPYMi by Christ_is_Lord@poa.st
2021-11-29T10:14:46.362436Z
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@mystik @Chance @JSDorn @TheVeryLutheranHousewife @n8 Well, I had this french professor in high school that once told us"When I was 12 I liked boys 13,when I was 13 I liked boys 13,when I was 15 I liked boys 13,when I was 17 I liked boys 13,when I was 20 I liked boys 13,when I was 30..."
(DIR) Post #ADtFQwqaPXPSaRvEOG by Christ_is_Lord@poa.st
2021-11-29T10:22:09.027061Z
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@Chance @JSDorn @TheVeryLutheranHousewife @mystik @n8 Giving advice these days is like telling a girl when she should decide to become a single mother. The real answer is don't at all. The world and it's people are so broken that you're left with 10,000 compromises before you anything workable.How much of an age gap should you have? Well it depends, are they traumatised? What diseases do they have? Who has a job? How many booster shots? Any what family do they have? And is the abusive ex still in the picture? And the guy watches porn right? She on birth control?
(DIR) Post #ADtHoLXmxFbhkePlOy by Monsignor_DickFace@poa.st
2021-11-29T10:48:47.402113Z
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@n8 @Christ_is_Lord @Chance @JSDorn He's my favorite tank engine.
(DIR) Post #ADtOWxnqfYBgsOaJXM by natsock@pleroma.nobodyhasthe.biz
2021-11-29T12:04:04.908649Z
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@n8 Women are a numbers game. If you’re only on a Christian dating website, you’re probably not getting enough exposure. Use a few different sites.Also, is this the entire profile? Why doesn’t it describe you? Your description should be showing what a good candidate you are (money + physique + personality), and the part where you describe what you’re looking for should be extremely permissive. At most you should be asking for someone in similar circumstances to yourself.
(DIR) Post #ADtQrr7ysmpiAA5jZQ by Aviz@poa.st
2021-11-29T12:30:16.177784Z
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@natsock @n8 Its fun to count how many posts it takes on these threads until someone is talking about arranged marriage with 12 year olds.
(DIR) Post #ADtjVBFroJLI7yR3zc by Christ_is_Lord@poa.st
2021-11-29T09:01:42.104801Z
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@n8 @Chance @JSDorn @mystik > All of my various attempts at guessing who you areRip. win some lose some> Thing is my buds, workmates, and even female colleagues and friends all tell me i "appear" confident and put together despite my internal feelings.So do you attribute your lack of success to a lack of not-whores in your local area? > Very cool.You are now entering the cool zone> I won't be where i am for anything longer than two years (very likely less), so church situation isn't greatThat makes things very difficult. You probably don't have enough time to find a girl, marry her, and get her to move across the country. Depending on how old or desperate you are you might want to wait> i female participation is not proof of female integrity & faithNo it's not. There are lots of reasons why a girl might present as pious, but in terms of indicators it's one of the best> I literally do not believe in virign females above the age of 14. I simply do not.Hilarious. If that's the case just an hero, cause you're going to die alone. If you don't want a non virgin and you don't think they exist, then why the prolonged attempts at dating profiles? I think you still have a sliver of hope> I'm going to make a guess that you're not a Protestant or of such a background.I am actually (although I have been to a few vespers and liturgies), although admittedly most of the church-going-virgin-women I know are second generation immigrants, so you won't find them at your cookie cutter megachurch. I'd bet with the smaller dating pool it might be harder to find a girl at a high church> No. Unless she's more racist and antisemitic than me.I'm not going to try to change your standards. If that is your line in the sand that's fine.> I'm not going to take much of your advice very seriously nowYou're going to be stuck taking the advice of married people or unmarried people. Only one of those groups has actually succeeded at the thing you are trying to do. Why is me being married an obstacle?> You made it already and got extremely lucky (don't pretend otherwise). I'm extremely fortunate. I acknowledge that. But i would not have been in a position of experience that good fortune if I was different. If you put a random person in my place they would not have had the same outcome. Had someone not thought of me when they were playing match maker I would have never met my wife. The same will never happen to you if you don't put your in a position for it to happen
(DIR) Post #ADtjVBiw4Eava82HIm by n8@poa.st
2021-11-29T15:59:03.799466Z
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@Christ_is_Lord @Chance @JSDorn @mystik >So do you attribute your lack of success to a lack of not-whores in your local area?Mostly. That and the good women are scooped up by better men than me so literally nothing I can do about that and I’m not about that home wrecking shit.>You are now entering the cool zoneCan’t wait for it to hit. Fuck this gay earth.>That makes things very difficult. You probably don't have enough time to find a girl, marry her, and get her to move across the country. Depending on how old or desperate you are you might want to waitYeah. It’s not great. I’m working on getting out of this situation as fast as possible but it’s well beyond my control in ways good opsec won’t allow me to explain. The crux of the mater: I’m about to hit 27 in a few weeks. If this situation stays it’s present course I won’t be home until I’m 29. I’m basically too old and worthless to be considered in most female’s eyes at this point.>No it's not. There are lots of reasons why a girl might present as pious, but in terms of indicators it's one of the bestI wish I agreed but growing up in a non-denominational church was only educational in a few ways, of which was how disgusting and degenerate young “Christian” women really are.>Hilarious. If that's the case just an hero, cause you're going to die alone. If you don't want a non virgin and you don't think they exist, then why the prolonged attempts at dating profiles? I think you still have a sliver of hopeI wouldn’t call it hope. I have a lot of hate and furry in my heart and that’s what keeps me humming along. If I didn’t love my race & people, our history, and hate our enemies I’d truly be lost. Even moreso without God. Hope is fake and gay, at least I think so. I won’t poo-poo anyone who thinks it’s important for the cause or for personal reasons. It’s fine. But I’ve got none of that left. The only thing that keeps me from killing myself is my hatred for the kikes, that suicide is big gay, and that God said not too. The only reason I’m not an alcoholic, doing drugs, and having random anonymous sex with strangers is that my luck just wouldn’t support that shit. I’d get in a car wreck, caught up in a drug bust, or finally meet that really sweet virgin girl at church in each case respectively. I believe in my bad luck catching up with me if I ever did any of those things so I don’t. Instead I try single’s groups at church, asking work colleagues if they know anyone (not at work) and a few months ago I thought I’d give this online shit a try. It’s just working out as well as the other attempts.>I am actually (although I have been to a few vespers and liturgies), although admittedly most of the church-going-virgin-women I know are second generation immigrants, so you won't find them at your cookie cutter megachurch. I'd bet with the smaller dating pool it might be harder to find a girl at a high churchI’m kinda not sure what the last half of this meant. Sorry for being a brainlet or too hungover to get it.>I'm not going to try to change your standards. If that is your line in the sand that's fine.Honestly I almost wish I didn’t have these standards bro.>You're going to be stuck taking the advice of married people or unmarried people. Only one of those groups has actually succeeded at the thing you are trying to do. Why is me being married an obstacle?Again, don’t take it too personally. It’s a combination of two major things. The first being that of all my friends who are married, it was mostly just good fortune and luck. These things had no right to go as well as they did or at all even. There is no magic sauce or secret code as it were. Secondly, I’ve taken the advice of my married friends very seriously and it perplexes them that nothing good has happened to me. I don’t blame them or anything of course but I suspect that they don’t know what they are talking about.>I'm extremely fortunate. I acknowledge that. But i would not have been in a position of experience that good fortune if I was different. If you put a random person in my place they would not have had the same outcome. Had someone not thought of me when they were playing match-maker I would have never met my wife. The same will never happen to you if you don't put your in a position for it to happenThe matchmaker in your life was part of your good fortune, as was/is your temperament, your work situation, your finances, the part of the world you live in, and the general luck you seem to have with you. Perhaps I find the grandma mafia, well what if all their girls are all taken? Shits bound to happen when I do find the mafia. You have to consider the implications of those with less luck than yourself if you’re going to give really excellent advice. Not everyone is as lucky as you.
(DIR) Post #ADtjYBaB366g0pMuTQ by Colonel_Bustard@pleroma.nobodyhasthe.biz
2021-11-29T15:59:36.337185Z
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@n8 FOR FIVE THOUSAND YEARS I HAVE PRACTICED THE ART OF ONLINE DATING, WAITING FOR THE CHOSEN ONE WHO WILL MATCH WITH ME ON MY PROFILE
(DIR) Post #ADtjgKXpbzIC7n9fQe by n8@poa.st
2021-11-29T16:01:04.900941Z
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@Colonel_Bustard I sit here and ponder the abyss of my PMs. It stares back at me in the late hours. When will the silence be broached? Is anybody out there?
(DIR) Post #ADu7CJOwVGbQKA4lPs by TinyFern@poa.st
2021-11-29T20:22:15.604777Z
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@n8 @Christ_is_Lord @Chance @JSDorn @mystik > Woman needs to be a virgin or a nazi to be acceptable > Also no fatties > No women older than me I'm sick of pornsick autists demanding women meet standards which they themselves don't meet. Nobody cares if their husband is a virgin, men aren't assessed on that standard. Men need to be reliable, assertive, kind, and good providers. Women use social data (status) and historical data (relationship history) to assess those factors - and what would they find? Oh, you're in a new community for a couple of years and have no friends or hobbies, and you're a virgin in your late 20s so your whole life you've never been assailed by sluts (or you're pious enough to avoid that, but the porn cuts away that argument). If you're looking for an attractive, easygoing, friendly Protestant girl, she has been told by her pastor that premarital sex isn't a sin and she wanted to be helpful and loving to her previous boyfriends - she's not a virgin. She's had 15 years of all kinds of social and cultural pressures working on her and she's probably folded unless she's either incredibly stubborn - which means she's a more difficult future wife - or she's not so attractive that she's had guys pressuring her for sexual favours since age 13. It's great that you think virginity is important but you've been rewiring your brain to pornstar standards since you were a teenager and a death-gripped dick isn't going to work on your wedding night. Women can sense that you're fake - and if you're this angry under the surface, whatever you're putting out visibly is definitely fake. Women won't take a chance on a guy who's got abuser vibes unless he's got a lot else going for him. NPCs get knocked up by dodgy dudes but a woman looking to be a submissive, faithful wife for the rest of her life is literally gambling her entire future on the character of the man she chooses. If you've got anger issues or you're selfish or mean or passive aggressive, she's going to suffer that until she dies and watch her children experience it too. What kind of husband do people think you'll be? Don't tell me what your co-workers say, this is something for your non-existent female friends to bluntly confront you about. (Oh and your lack of female friends is a red flag for women).Oh and confidence isn't important, assertiveness is. It's not about always seeming like you know what to do, it's about knowing what you want and doing that. Do you actually have a plan for what kind of marriage you want, how you will treat your wife and children, how you will provide for them? Are you actively making yourself more high-status or are you coping and seething about how you'll totally become a useful member of your community once you've moved back home? Any thinking along the lines of "I will start doing <good husband material stuff> once I have _________" is a cope. You present yourself as somebody of faith. What are your fruits? "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control." Not to be too cliche but work on yourself before expecting to find somebody. Also a fat girl can lose weight, might be a sneaky way to get somebody good.
(DIR) Post #ADu8DBhqhNqihatu40 by Christ_is_Lord@poa.st
2021-11-29T20:35:56.036875Z
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@n8 @Chance @JSDorn @mystik > That and the good women are scooped up by better men than me so literally nothing I can do about that and I’m not about that home wrecking shit.I'll address this at the end> I'm basically too old and worthless to be considered in most female’s eyes at this point.Don't be daft. This whole thread has a subsection on how women prefer older guys and how age gaps are more appropriate these days. You'll be fine. At 30 you can find yourself a nice 25 year old virgin (I'm think it a real life example). You'll only be worthless if you don't have your shit together> I wish I agreed but growing up in a non-denominational church was only educational in a few ways, of which was how disgusting and degenerate young “Christian” women really are.Really sounds like you got burned and now you're jaded against the whole thing. Do you still attend this church?> I wouldn’t call it hope. I have a lot of hate and furry in my heart and that’s what keeps me humming along.It always concerns me when people are driven more by hate than love. You sound like you are in a bad place.> Hope is fake and gayI'll address this at the end> Brain deadI'll start overI have predominantly attended protestants low churches. I now attend a protestant high church. I have have been to several non prot services. The church-going-virgin-women I know are almost entirely second gen immigrants. You won't find many of those kinds of girls at a generic church, they tend to go to more ethnic churches. However, I think your likelihood of finding a girl like that at a bigger modern church is probably roughly the same as finding a girl like that at a smaller more traditional church (assuming that the modern church even encourages celibacy)> Honestly I almost wish I didn’t have these standards bro.You gonna do anything about it?> Again, don’t take it too personally.I don't> There is no magic sauce or secret code as it were. There is nothing that will get you a girlfriend in 3 year steps. But that doesn't mean that it's entirely indeterminate> it perplexes them that nothing good has happened to meLook, it may be that you are at a church where every faithful pious woman over the age of 15 is getting her holes stuffed. It could be that where you are there is nothing to be done. At which point it sounds like your church has none of the fruits of the spirit and your should leave. Seems very odd to me> they don’t know what they are talking about.What kind of advice are you getting?
(DIR) Post #ADu8FsYkLInSBivUYq by Christ_is_Lord@poa.st
2021-11-29T20:36:25.463808Z
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@n8 @Chance @JSDorn @mystik > The matchmaker in your life was part of your good fortune, as was/is your temperament, your work situation, your finances, the part of the world you live in, and the general luck you seem to have with youYou can reduce everything to luck and chance if you want to be retarded about it. But reducing everything to philosophy 101 levels of simplicity won't solve your problems and it reeks of cope.I chose who my friends were. I chose to believe certain things about the world. I chose what to get a job in. I chose how to spend my money. I chose to move to where I am now. Yes, I'm extremely lucky. But I also made choices along the way. I've had these conversations before, and someone will say that I'm lucky because of X. But when I talk about the things I did to make X happen (including a bit of luck) they're not willing to do that. I've been told that I'm lucky to have the relationship I do with my wife, but when I tell them to talk to their wife like I do mine they refuse. It's all too hard, it can't be done, it won't work, etc etc etc.It's like it says in proverbs, acting wisely brings us good fortune, and the fool misfortune. How we act does influence our circumstances. Yes, there are things out of our control. But it's a mix of both. And more importantly everything is in God's hands. Going through the motions without actually trusting in God is the essence of Jewish rebellion. Just don't.You don't believe in hope. You believe that even were there good girls you're too unlucky to find them. Everything is bad, unlucky, and ugly. I can't remember the theologian, but one of his big ideas was that hope was a uniquely Christian idea. Other faiths are litigious and transactional. Only in Christianity is grace and good freely given. Only in Christianity to we know our victory is assured. Our God conquered the grave. The enemy wants you demoralised. Don't despair, rejoice in the Lord.> Perhaps I find the grandma mafia, well what if all their girls are all taken? Shits bound to happen when I do find the mafia.Image linked says 1 in 10. But then two thirds of women are fat, and only a third are nominal Christian and its less than 1 in 100. The real question is whether or not someone would be willing to introduce you to their children. Would you chose a guy with your job, clothes, hair, and reputation as your future son in law?Nitpick: your demoralisation will be extremely unattractive to a women> You have to consider the implications of those with less luck than yourself if you’re going to give really excellent advice. Not everyone is as lucky as you.I managed to set a friend of mine up with a girl who was in a very good profession, who was a virgin, and took her faith very very seriously. She liked him. But he was also unwilling to go the extra mile to make it work. He was lucky, but luck is never enoughIf you have a 1% of women are "the girl" then you need to increase the number of women that you are meeting (directly or via referral). And when you meet them you need to be able to crystallise that. Yes, chance plays a role in meeting her, but once you do it's mostly in your hands.So, my advice is as it was before: be the kind of guy who gets more rolls of the dice. Meet more women, have people recommend you to women, and improve your "conversion rate". If you can't seem to find a single 25 year old virgin then consider changing where you go to church or who you are asking for referrals. If you know of girls, but you don't think they'll think you are worth, then become worthyIf you are going for a 1 in 100 girl, remember that you are competing with every other guy. She will have standards, but that means you need to be in the top 1% of men. Do you have that income, fitness, personality, etc?
(DIR) Post #ADu8KIuAKgjh3V3SzI by n8@poa.st
2021-11-29T20:37:13.183232Z
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@TinyFern @Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @mystik >non-existent female friendsNigger, most of you posted was decent but you can go fuck yourself if you think I'm just lying to people out here to get special good boy points with all my online nazi frens. I talk about my real life, with sole exception to opsec shit, in good faith faggot.On what my female friends & collogues say to me about myself is that they think I'm doing fine and don't see any glaring issues. Maybe I could run more often, lose a bit more weight but nothing that looks like a red flag. I tell them I think they're just being polite or sidestepping the issue but they insist in their assessments of me. It's their general consensus that I'm not going to enough church or volunteer events. That not meeting enough women is my main problem. Lots of them are extremely worldly but know how I feel about bar hoping or say something like tindr so they think it's a natural issue but don't think its as serious as I do.Also women marry niggers & spics all the fuckin time. Don't tell me females can actually make good decisions without their fathers wisdom and guidance. My anger issues are nothing compared to the local domestic chimpouts that happen in this country on a hourly basis.>Not to be too cliche but work on yourself before expecting to find somebody.Literally the best thing you posted in this thread.>Also a fat girl can lose weight, might be a sneaky way to get somebody good.Not in this country guy.
(DIR) Post #ADu8XUhhm8oHPjW48G by dew_the_dew@poa.st
2021-11-29T20:39:36.402653Z
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@n8 @TinyFern @Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @mystik >run more oftenyou should be lifting, do a 5x5 compound barbell program
(DIR) Post #ADu8Zjh90hx8UFK53Y by n8@poa.st
2021-11-29T20:40:00.512416Z
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@dew_the_dew @Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @TinyFern @mystik fair enough
(DIR) Post #ADuAVUBIwnHz7eWzmC by TinyFern@poa.st
2021-11-29T20:50:33.673912Z
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@n8 @Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @mystik > Female friends Sorry, I think I misread something earlier. Do you have any female friends who meet your standards and what do they have to say? Worldly women give you worldly advice, they don't understand Trad women or they would be one. > Also women marry niggers and spices all the time Yeah I said NPCs do dumb shit but you want a woman who's doing something different. I literally addressed this in the post. You don't want those women so it doesn't matter how dumb their choices are.
(DIR) Post #ADuAVUtyGj1BMBQfOi by n8@poa.st
2021-11-29T21:01:39.041605Z
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@TinyFern @Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @mystik >I think I misread something earlier.it happens. np.>meet your standards and what do they have to say?Some of these girls are like nine tenths what I'd want (minus the sexual activity in all but one of them) and their advice ranges from worldly to 'mostly' Christian in tone. The ones who are very close to what i'd want say mostly the same thing the one girl I know who meets all the things I'm looking for (but she's married). It's basically what I mentioned earlier. They don't see any massive issues or obvious red flags. I'm told I'm very kind, outgoing, confident, and have a distinct laugh.>npc womenYeah, I just wonder if any women aren't npc's at this point. idk. It still seems far fetched but it still makes me wonder.
(DIR) Post #ADuAziGP9crnU9KWu0 by Christ_is_Lord@poa.st
2021-11-29T21:07:06.952534Z
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@n8 @TinyFern @Chance @JSDorn @mystik 99% of people do the things that came naturally to them and can not articulate that correctly. Women are worse and will spare your feelings. Try asking people who are less close to how you appearDon't bother asking women what they want, because they'll assume that you know that basics and they'll neglect to tell you that you have weasel eyes or something
(DIR) Post #ADuB4xxuCflxdBBMKO by Christ_is_Lord@poa.st
2021-11-29T21:08:03.797265Z
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@n8 @TinyFern @Chance @JSDorn @mystik Ask some of the women 10+ years older than you what they think a girls first impression might me
(DIR) Post #ADuBSgx37087oV5wie by Christ_is_Lord@poa.st
2021-11-29T21:12:21.332034Z
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@n8 @TinyFern @Chance @JSDorn @mystik You've gotta remember that for any girl to be a Christian virgin in this culture she is going have been protected by a strong family (father) already. You're talking about a girl who has been taught to evaluate men through her father's eyes.None of us care about women on their eighth child to their fifth baby daddy. We are talking about the tippy top
(DIR) Post #ADuFSOGWz7Zfg3Jqfg by TinyFern@poa.st
2021-11-29T21:55:39.424025Z
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@n8 @Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @mystik Oh yeah don't be limited by the fact you're only there a couple years. I got married <2 years after meeting my husband. If you date for marriage it should happen quickly. Tell people you're looking for a wife and a lot of trash will take itself out but the good ones will be keen. Dating sucks, marriage is great - you want somebody you'll still have a good time with when you're both exhausted with kids, when you're waiting in an airport, when you're in the hospital with medical issues, when you're old and creaky - you want to show women you're thinking really long term. It's not about finding women, it's about a single woman. You only ever need one girlfriend if she's the right one. I only ever dated one guy 🤷
(DIR) Post #ADuFZi2jqoIh2kMFCi by JSDorn@poa.st
2021-11-29T21:58:26.327911Z
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@TinyFern @n8 @Chance @Christ_is_Lord @mystik your a girl?
(DIR) Post #ADuFb1rDfRoEmlbCdM by dew_the_dew@poa.st
2021-11-29T21:58:40.818677Z
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@TinyFern @n8 @Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @mystik >not a virgindroppedcya roastie
(DIR) Post #ADuFsbDtQq0jORaBfM by dew_the_dew@poa.st
2021-11-29T22:01:51.448726Z
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@TinyFern @Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @mystik @n8 YOU SEE, @n8 THIS IS HOW YOU DO IT YOU GOT THIS KING GO SMASH SOME BABIES INTO THAT PUSS
(DIR) Post #ADuFtYSpAy0l7q1RdA by mystik@midnightride.rs
2021-11-29T22:02:00.024926Z
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@JSDorn @Chance @Christ_is_Lord @TinyFern @n8 The profile caught me off-guard too, but she is, clearly.
(DIR) Post #ADuGAW4lJ9qMdqr5BA by TinyFern@poa.st
2021-11-29T22:04:36.675783Z
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@mystik @JSDorn @Chance @Christ_is_Lord @n8 Ah, I see the source of the confusion. I am a reply guy, not a guy.
(DIR) Post #ADuI1gfUkvgonOxEiO by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T22:25:54.504754Z
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@TinyFern @n8 @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @mystik good women would care about her potential husbands previous sexual acts. We aren't demanding perfect. We just draw a line at pre marital sex. At least I do. Using and then quitting porn is very different from actually having sex. It's not okay to do it. But it's not on the same level.
(DIR) Post #ADuI9cjPHF9ku0ZJ7Q by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T22:27:20.568541Z
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@TinyFern @n8 @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @mystik I do agree. You shouldn't date for years. If you date for marriage then it won't take all that long.
(DIR) Post #ADuIqGdTIvQYpG7twm by TinyFern@poa.st
2021-11-29T22:33:29.914101Z
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@Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @mystik @n8 I don't think that's true. Women are worried about measuring up to previous sexual experiences, so a guy who jerks off all the time to gorgeous women is just as problematic as a guy who slept with his last two long-term girlfriends. Some guy who wants to replicate porn acts is even more of a problem - your typical Trad wife doesn't want the typical plateful of sex acts that show up in porn. The distinction here is that a shy, inexperienced woman wouldn't ask about porn but would ask about body count, so it seems like she cares more about the latter but in reality she just has no idea how extensive porn use actually is for men. Obviously guys who have slept with lots of women are a different category but I don't think most women care significantly about virgin vs body count of 1-2. You're projecting your own ideas about the importance of virginity onto women, but women very genuinely have a totally different set of criteria than men do.
(DIR) Post #ADuJ0cY0guWXgEVbZA by mystik@midnightride.rs
2021-11-29T22:36:52.648370Z
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@TinyFern @Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @n8 Girlfriends have told me several times that "they didn't care if I cheated on them, as long as I kept it silent and never told them."This is unthinkable to me as a male, but yeah, women do think differently.
(DIR) Post #ADuKMeAlQhcV2rhbf6 by TinyFern@poa.st
2021-11-29T22:49:18.747597Z
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@mystik @Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @n8 I think men don't think porn use is a big deal because they want to excuse it and women don't make a fuss - but the average woman has no idea how bad porn is in terms of content or frequency of use. Ask most traditional women about whether they're happy with a guy who goes to strip clubs frequently and you're going to get the kind of disgust response which is indicative of how they'd feel about porn. most women don't masturbate to porn so they imagine guys looking at softcore Playboy type stuff, not the gruesome abusive gangbang material which is everywhere. If you're into anything harder than you'd expect to see in a calendar, I 100% guarantee she'd rather you had a body count.
(DIR) Post #ADuKS8tAefABl35s5A by mystik@midnightride.rs
2021-11-29T22:53:04.547836Z
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@TinyFern @Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @n8 This is a pros for women, they are disgusted by bad taste porn.
(DIR) Post #ADuKb4cJuGrT7DTEjQ by icedquinn@blob.cat
2021-11-29T22:54:41.711720Z
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@TinyFern @mystik @Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @n8 and yet nobody makes shitty threads like this about women's use of romance novels.
(DIR) Post #ADuL20c2u2vWVyBb9s by mystik@midnightride.rs
2021-11-29T22:59:31.872227Z
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@icedquinn @Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @TinyFern @n8 I enjoy romance novels, can share that with a woman, no biggy. What I do not enjoy is feminism. Once a woman is infected with feminism, it's over.
(DIR) Post #ADuLPziVsueKgdeGBc by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T23:03:54.603238Z
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@mystik @icedquinn @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @TinyFern @n8 I think they meant abusive smut like fifty shades.
(DIR) Post #ADuLXaNXyWjqQ0SfOi by TinyFern@poa.st
2021-11-29T23:04:39.423705Z
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@icedquinn @Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @mystik @n8 Yeah, romance novels for women fulfill the emotional aspect of the female sex drive, which is the majority of it. There's no equivalent threads though because women aren't going around insisting that men want them to have never dated anybody before. Romantic novels are also the softcore porn equivalent, there's no female equivalent to hardcore stuff. Men: I want a virgin. I am a virgin. Therefore, I am high value. This is dumb. You might as well go around advertising your fertility and great tits because it's equally appealing to the same market. Would you want a woman who is a virgin but who masturbates & gapes with massive dildos? That's what it's like when a man uses porn.
(DIR) Post #ADuLaWnNkpXsApwrw0 by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T23:05:49.133335Z
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@TinyFern @mystik @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @n8 it's just not on the same level. Actually having sex is worse. I don't excuse what I did. But it is not on the same level. Especially for women. Women can not handle multiple partners nearly as well. It's all bad. None of it should be a thing. But porn use is generally not the same level as actual sex.
(DIR) Post #ADuLhzlGSTxS2LWDPk by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T23:07:10.155175Z
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@TinyFern @icedquinn @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @mystik @n8 no it's not the same. Gaping with huge dildos is the female equivalent of men using sex dolls.
(DIR) Post #ADuLjsLR0Jodc7Kjtg by mystik@midnightride.rs
2021-11-29T23:07:28.327347Z
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@Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @TinyFern @n8 Yet again, bro, she's right, to women it is different. Men are sex-junkies, women are sex-tourists.
(DIR) Post #ADuMAaRjeqp1vD19d2 by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T23:12:20.050897Z
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@mystik @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @TinyFern @n8 either way sex before marriage is immoral so I'm not ganna do it.
(DIR) Post #ADuMeunMZ9BXihayLg by TinyFern@poa.st
2021-11-29T23:16:33.410513Z
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@Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @mystik @n8 My entire point is that women and men have different criteria. Women do not really care if you're a virgin, at best it's a small bonus. They care significantly more about whether you have a car, a job, a degree, or an inheritance than about your sex life. I'd put male virginity on about the same level of importance as you both enjoying the same special-occasion breakfast. By contrast, it is incredibly important that the man earns more than her. Men really really really care about the sex lives of their female partners. Women underestimate the importance of this, and in our current culture have likely engaged in sexual acts before realising what they are giving up. If you don't have good qualifications, good employment and a good car/house with limited debt, you probably aren't high enough value to demand pristine, gorgeous, compliant women in their 20s. I'm sorry but that's the reality of it. Female virginity is in high demand and male virginity isn't.
(DIR) Post #ADuMi3lJgQPiOp8ajQ by Chance@poa.st
2021-11-29T23:18:23.021043Z
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@TinyFern @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @mystik @n8 well it's a good thing I have a decent job. 2 cars. House will be mine in a few weeks. And I have next to zero debt. So I guess I'm not doing too bad.
(DIR) Post #ADuOJdiz2T1wbTWuGG by mystik@midnightride.rs
2021-11-29T23:36:19.043202Z
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@TinyFern @Chance @Christ_is_Lord @JSDorn @n8 Thank you for your priceless wisdom. This is truly valuable information.
(DIR) Post #ADuYLxm9tVHWVhAGiO by D@wei.mentalswarf.com
2021-11-30T01:27:16.939209Z
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@n8 @Chance @JSDorn @Turdicus My wife and I knew each other for two years before we started dating. It’s going to be a better relationship because you have more to talk about and share in life than fucking.Actually having shared values and some interest in what each other are doing is what makes it work in the long term. If the only thing you have going in a relationship is sex and you are growing in different directions instead of growing together, you will be getting divorced. Especially in this culture that permits divorce. Especially with Antipope Francis. Period.We are at 13 years with two kids and we opened a business together so we can build something for our family and share our work.Everyone we know is on their second or third marriage and can never even do things together because they always have to give one of the kids to another ex-spouse the next day.
(DIR) Post #ADutsSpU4T0X7q3iS0 by D@wei.mentalswarf.com
2021-11-30T01:41:55.218667Z
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@Christ_is_Lord @mystik @Chance @JSDorn @n8 I would add that if the concern is whether the girl is serious about church, look to converts. People coming out of RCIA are going to be much more Catholic than your average cradle Catholic who is only good for Christmas and Easter and has no clue what the fuck an Ember day is, let alone basic theology.Converts abroad are even more so.The most Catholic congregation I have ever seen was in a severely impoverished part of China. The church was converted from an old communist work unit with vinyl floors. The tabernacle was a black safe bolted to the wall. The paten was an empty brass cookie box.I will never forget the experience of seeing one woman who received on the hand falling to her knees and licking her palm to make sure not one molecule of the Eucharist escaped. Those people believed in the real presence: no bullshit.
(DIR) Post #ADxyCEzaGrJtilYceO by AnimeTradCath@poa.st
2021-11-29T04:00:31.237091Z
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@n8