Post AC8eHYyvYbhF8MbsFE by sn0w@cofe.rocks
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(DIR) Post #AC8cj99B0Hs7D1QeGW by sugarbell@handholding.gay
2021-10-08T00:34:18.387Z
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Just the amount of misogynous random stranger assholes jumping into my notifications and insulting me right now...How did I EVER feel safe on fedi at all?!?These strangers are all basically ticking bombs that just wait until they can harass a woman.
(DIR) Post #AC8cxyKdUq5m0grHDU by lustlion@mk.catgirlsfor.science
2021-10-08T00:34:39.939Z
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@sugarbell@handholding.gay what D:
(DIR) Post #AC8cxylvrLvVNLd4lM by sugarbell@handholding.gay
2021-10-08T00:36:26.638Z
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@lustlion@mk.catgirlsfor.science for example
(DIR) Post #AC8d68RBo7zTfXoegK by SyrupSlushie@kawen.space
2021-10-08T00:43:45.825719Z
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@sugarbell I'm sorry ;-;I noticed this as well. I feel like nowadays, more than before, I have to put nearly all my posts in "followers-only" for the fear of getting reply-guy'd
(DIR) Post #AC8e0CuoLX3zm0PORU by sn0w@cofe.rocks
2021-10-08T00:53:52.362314Z
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@sugarbell @lustlion oh damn you really slipped into one of fedi's darker corners don't let those jerks get to you too much :comfysadpat:
(DIR) Post #AC8eHYVVK0A1f6qNNo by sugarbell@handholding.gay
2021-10-08T00:54:50.751Z
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@sn0w@cofe.rocks @lustlion@mk.catgirlsfor.science I didn't even do anything to "slip into those corners", I really just made some public posts and they didn't even got boosted or something (at least not from people I can see) :jelsad:
(DIR) Post #AC8eHYyvYbhF8MbsFE by sn0w@cofe.rocks
2021-10-08T00:56:58.462659Z
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@sugarbell @lustlion that's why i stopped using the public level and always post unlisted :sadneko:federated timeline sucks and somehow these people see every post in there as an invite to harass strangers
(DIR) Post #AC8eb8V7inC4nU0DKq by sugarbell@handholding.gay
2021-10-08T00:52:13.876Z
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@SyrupSlushie@kawen.space that's so scary and shitty and uncomfortable... :( thanks for being a comfy reply in my notifications :jelsad:
(DIR) Post #AC8f5ptMxWJk3kywpU by sugarbell@handholding.gay
2021-10-08T00:58:47.955Z
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@sn0w@cofe.rocks @lustlion@mk.catgirlsfor.science I probably should do that too :blobcatverysad:unlisted is probably a very good idea...I don't want to do private only because I want to also talk to people that are not following me if they're nice people!
(DIR) Post #AC8f5qQgxcyLj6ZYlk by sn0w@cofe.rocks
2021-10-08T01:06:05.154654Z
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@sugarbell @lustlion yeah it really sucks how FO prevents making friendshope unlisted works out better for you :worryPat:
(DIR) Post #AC8h12KrT1Jj72gFfc by sugarbell@handholding.gay
2021-10-08T00:35:18.627Z
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I am not safe anywhere. I am not safe offline, I am not safe online, even though I thought that at least online I wouldn't be entirely alone when facing such shitty situations.
(DIR) Post #AC8h12txMXOErt6HNA by mia@movsw.0x0.st
2021-10-08T01:09:43.325Z
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@sugarbell@handholding.gay particularly lovely how the memetic war especially since the trump election has just never stopped and keeps radicalizing people as soon as they come into contact with mainstream social mediaalso… call me naïve but i don’t even think many of these people are really as bad as they seem. because all their worst takes tend to be on issues they have absolutely zero/ involvement in, and that’s the kind of shit you end up with when you’re lonely and depressed and too online.
(DIR) Post #AC8h13N1cSdsK2hUgK by mia@movsw.0x0.st
2021-10-08T01:14:32.891Z
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@sugarbell@handholding.gay doesn’t make them any less infuriating, but the thought that maybe the world isn’t really this full of assholes helps me stay calm
(DIR) Post #AC8h13qRr4B5nISzXk by sugarbell@handholding.gay
2021-10-08T01:23:01.226Z
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@mia@movsw.0x0.st idk, the movie "Promising Young Woman" is pretty good at showing that if you're passive (and having bad takes is actually worse than being passive, though I do understand that they kinda have those takes to justify being passive I guess) you're also part of the problem and not okay, in my eyes those people are assholes.I DO differentiate ofc that especially young people that are still growing up and all can't always have perfect takes, I also was entirely oblivious to sexism until only some years ago, even though I was directly suffering from it!But if you're adult and still having bad takes, I am not sure how it would be possible to excuse that tbh :jelsad:
(DIR) Post #AC8h14Js5fiJGYEUPA by sugarbell@handholding.gay
2021-10-08T01:25:24.626Z
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@mia@movsw.0x0.st "Promising Young Woman" is such an insanely good movie in general... currently my favourite movie! It handles so many similiar topics so well and is so satisfying... úwùvery very strong movie
(DIR) Post #AC8h14lWQrpceJAZVI by critical@blob.cat
2021-10-08T01:27:33.443334Z
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@sugarbell @mia i was contemplating watching it, but I might just watch it now