Post AA3C2QC9TZUnKwboX2 by PhilSchedia@poa.st
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 (DIR) Post #AA3Arkx9rDi4ZrwjD6 by Badmann@poa.st
       2021-08-06T13:39:54.326630Z
       
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       While you were living in your father's household, what arguments did your parents frequently have over?
       
 (DIR) Post #AA3ArlVtm3V0JcCTMO by kaia@shitposter.club
       2021-08-06T13:49:40.882717Z
       
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       @Badmann my dad does not argue. he will just defer or sulk. my mum always wanted to discuss things to conclusion. this is why they divorced.
       
 (DIR) Post #AA3AvPNtzVO6qGCHGy by Tepid_Tapir@poa.st
       2021-08-06T13:50:20.109234Z
       
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       @Badmann I don't know if it would count as responsibilities or other. My parents mainly only fought about who worked more, who was doing more work, etc. Not about money, just who was more busy I guess. Pretty lame topic, of all the things to bitch about.
       
 (DIR) Post #AA3C2QC9TZUnKwboX2 by PhilSchedia@poa.st
       2021-08-06T14:02:48.457623Z
       
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       @kaia @Badmann isn't that called nagging?
       
 (DIR) Post #AA3CupwXxbmipbFzdY by snow@wintermute.fr.to
       2021-08-06T14:12:38.698206Z
       
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       @kaia That's the natural selection that the women dislike the guy that can't be winning herself but running away.@Badmann
       
 (DIR) Post #AA3ElHFflzoCXVlwyu by Tepid_Tapir@poa.st
       2021-08-06T14:33:19.264518Z
       
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       @kaia @Badmann as a sulker myself, I can tell you (which you've already seen) it's really a terrible way to deal with conflict.
       
 (DIR) Post #AA3EmCB27uxx5d2YAC by Badmann@poa.st
       2021-08-06T14:29:29.781346Z
       
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       @Tepid_Tapir Yes, that would fall under responsibilities.
       
 (DIR) Post #AA3Im4JDmMucVL45XU by Badmann@poa.st
       2021-08-06T14:33:24.225957Z
       
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       @kaia Did you feel they were (becoming) incompatible, or was your father becoming more defeated by his situation (not necessarily in the relationship)?
       
 (DIR) Post #AA3Im4kW8skLrzpt5M by kaia@shitposter.club
       2021-08-06T15:18:17.556693Z
       
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       @Badmann my mum saw no way to resolve conflicts with him long-term. plus she grew closer to a colleague. so she took action and divorced to re-marry. she's happy now, dad's okay.
       
 (DIR) Post #AA3Ip0wsjGmIx31Kcq by Badmann@poa.st
       2021-08-06T15:06:41.633095Z
       
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       @Tepid_Tapir @kaia My mother has a habit of yelling and screaming when she got frustrated or inconvenienced in private (even with no one is around). She would go on a spiel about how she does everything (didn't help my father had to travel the country to bread win). It's has weighted heavily on my parent's relationship, and has led to embarrassing situations with the neighbors (thankful only a passing comment). I still love and forgive her. They are still together, but they try to interact little. Learning about the household my mother grew in explained why she acted this way. She was mimicking (without realizing) the way her mother treated her husband (who was a sloth, a drunkard, and abused my mother's brother.)
       
 (DIR) Post #AA3PJIQKvAqRYtcWiO by bartholin@lainchan.gay
       2021-08-06T16:11:28.658185Z
       
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       @kaia I am your dad
       
 (DIR) Post #AA3PLAX5EPAPfPfYKu by kaia@shitposter.club
       2021-08-06T16:31:52.076171Z
       
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       @bartholin hey dad, hope you are doing fine :comf: