Post A9exc9ODv0PyQsu8Ke by Melkora@spinster.xyz
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(DIR) Post #A9ekr12dwKVJTtZIqe by MandyJane@spinster.xyz
2021-07-25T18:18:01.752939Z
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yJvQaBgzSAYThis is premiering right now.
(DIR) Post #A9ekr1cnltQZI2UBCy by Melkora@spinster.xyz
2021-07-25T18:52:50.125142Z
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Please, don't share this conservative right-winged women haing parody on feminine stereotypes. @MandyJane
(DIR) Post #A9ekr29PodW0vBkE2i by MandyJane@spinster.xyz
2021-07-25T18:54:54.485056Z
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@Melkora Just don't watch it 🤷♀️
(DIR) Post #A9ekr2aMCT4AGkLk2K by Hollahollara@spinster.xyz
2021-07-25T19:05:07.225400Z
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@MandyJane @Melkora https://spinster.xyz/notice/A9eiqA4FSkwlxwTIAqI found this a good reminder for this space, when Spinster gets hot. I would still rather hear opinions and see links from any of you, than the average Twitter (or Reddit 😩) user.
(DIR) Post #A9elVmIHfzVxcBJyYy by MandyJane@spinster.xyz
2021-07-25T19:08:13.823041Z
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@Hollahollara @Melkora I had no idea Melkora would melt down over a link to a Triggernometry video.
(DIR) Post #A9elVmjE3p46xjvUYa by Hollahollara@spinster.xyz
2021-07-25T19:12:30.260281Z
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@MandyJane @Melkora Yeah, I don’t know what is up there. A few people here follow Triggernometry. (I am too impatient for videos most of the time, so I don’t know anything about it.) I have seen a few arguments in the last few days about what people are sharing, and it’s weird to me, considering most of us are here because we were banned from other social media. I would rather see women speak and share that not do those things.
(DIR) Post #A9enZX8aAZH1fshZeS by MandyJane@spinster.xyz
2021-07-25T19:24:49.418780Z
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@Hollahollara I think we have phases of that here. I watch and read all kinds of stuff, and when I think something is interesting, or might be interesting (I hadn't even watched the Triggernometry vid yet because it was premiering) I'm going to post it. Sometimes an interesting conversation will happen because of it, and sometimes it's just ignored, or even better sometimes the hamster wakes up and we have some fun. Totally normal, imo! I haven't had anyone so point blank try to tell me what I can and can't post before, and I won't be bullied by some stranger on the internet. Vulgar and aggressive! lol
(DIR) Post #A9eoOPzSVBcaHDhKxE by Melkora@spinster.xyz
2021-07-25T18:58:02.913887Z
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@MandyJane Just don't share it.
(DIR) Post #A9eoOQNv2FBfV58s52 by MandyJane@spinster.xyz
2021-07-25T18:59:29.636120Z
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@Melkora 🖕
(DIR) Post #A9eoOQnRVLbUmF5Frc by Melkora@spinster.xyz
2021-07-25T19:01:38.968581Z
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Try not being vulgar and agressive. If you are capable of it. @MandyJane
(DIR) Post #A9eoORCG15SA1Ch4Xg by MandyJane@spinster.xyz
2021-07-25T19:05:06.463738Z
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@Melkora Why are you trying to pick a fight? Vulgar and aggressive? That's like a TRA claiming they're literally shaking right now. That reminds me, people used to think you are a TRA. Watch the video, or don't. It's no skin off my teeth. I will post what I want, and you can cry about it, or block me. You can definitely fuck off with your fake outrage over an emoji.
(DIR) Post #A9epGD2crUklknpSPA by BCLADY@spinster.xyz
2021-07-25T19:54:30.821637Z
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@Hollahollara @MandyJane @Melkora I BET IT WAS JUST BLAIR'S STUPID FACE!I UNDERSTAND BEING UPSET BY THAT FACE AND ANGRY AT THE ATTENTION AND RESPECT THAT SOMEONE WHO'S NOT A FEMINIST GETS TO SAY SHIT THAT SHOULD ACCEPTED IF WE DIDN'T HAVE A "LET'S IGNORE/HATE FEMINISTS" STATUS QUO.PERSONALLY, I ALWAYS THINK TRYING TO SUGGEST BETTER ALTERNATIVES IS PREFERABLE THAN A SIMPLE SHUT DOWN.I THINK IT IS IMPORTANT TO THINK ABOUT THE PURPOSE OF WHY WE POST MEDIA HERE.AND I'M NOT JUST SAYING THIS BECAUSE I'VE POSTED PICTURES THAT HAVE UPSET OTHERS HERE AND BECAUSE I KNOW MY HAMRAM (HAMSTER RAMBLES) CONFUSE AND IRRITATE. BUT BECAUSE I WANT TO SHOW OTHERS MANY THINGS!FOR EXAMPLE, I SHOWED THIS TO A MAN IN MY REAL LIFE:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fCMwlorNEZkDOES THE LINE ABOUT ABORTION BUG ME? DOES THE LINE ABOUT LOOKING DOWN AT BUMS INSTEAD OF VETERANS BUG ME? IS THERE EDGY IGNORANCE THERE? YES.BUT THE DAMN LOOK ON THIS MY MANFRIENDS FACE WHEN I GLEEFULLY TOLD HIM THAT IT WAS A MUSIC VIDEO WITH JUST MEN IN IT WAS AMAZING.NEXT TIME I'LL HAVE MY PHONE READY!SO ANYWAYS, I NEED TO BE ABLE TO POST STUPID, POSSIBLY OFFENSIVE SHIT HERE, EVEN IF IT IRRITATES SOMEONE OR IF I'VE NUMBED MYSELF TO SHIT THAT'S CLEARLY IRRITATING TO THE RADFEM IDEOLOGY.BECAUSE HORRIFIED MAN FACE IS FUNNY.
(DIR) Post #A9esjUP7gaIpre0O00 by Melkora@spinster.xyz
2021-07-25T19:58:08.105587Z
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So far it's you having a melt down... Don't understand why. @MandyJane @Hollahollara
(DIR) Post #A9esjUqQ368ZEImBXs by BCLADY@spinster.xyz
2021-07-25T20:33:24.644407Z
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@Melkora @MandyJane @Hollahollara HAVE YOU EVER HEARD OF THE BARBRA STREISAND EFFECT? BECAUSE YOU'RE BARBRA AT THIS POINT.
(DIR) Post #A9exc9ODv0PyQsu8Ke by Melkora@spinster.xyz
2021-07-25T19:54:10.031160Z
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I'm not shaking. I'm just pleading you to act in a good maneer and not being vulgar. It's not that hard. But you seem oversensitive and dismissive about this issue. Don't know and don't care why. But on something more relevant. Please don't share a video from a sexist man. If you want a content criticizing so called gender disphoria there are plenty of them made by feminists from a gender critical perspective. Never understood this weird "radfem" obsession with this dude. All his stances are directly opposite to the radical feminist ones. @MandyJane
(DIR) Post #A9exc9o6Mn7Nj90nfU by MandyJane@spinster.xyz
2021-07-25T20:59:29.734548Z
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@Melkora I'm not a radfem, and I'm not obsessed with Blaire. I post all sorts of content. The solution is for you to post the content you think others might be interested in, not demand others do as you say. You can beg and plead all you like, you can try to gaslight me by pretending I'm the one overreacting, you can pretend an emoji is vulgar and aggressive. Whatever makes you happy. My suggestion is that you block me, because I'm not going to stop posting things just because you've told me to.
(DIR) Post #A9f7CfU2yEdvyz7FrM by Hollahollara@spinster.xyz
2021-07-25T23:15:33.845088Z
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@MandyJane Well, next time I want you to ask yourself this before you post podmen or whatever.👇
(DIR) Post #A9f8ElLGGCtegXZLtY by fpcgggc@spinster.xyz
2021-07-25T23:27:09.030108Z
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@MandyJane so what’s his verdict?
(DIR) Post #A9f97k9mMuHQw7Pomm by Melkora@spinster.xyz
2021-07-25T20:47:35.843515Z
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Have no idea! Whatever it is, asking women not to share sexist male's content and not being vulgar for it doesn't seem to me as an act worthy of overanalyzing. @BCLADY @Hollahollara @MandyJane
(DIR) Post #A9f97kg2Qy5IYAVa4G by BCLADY@spinster.xyz
2021-07-25T23:37:04.827234Z
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@Melkora @Hollahollara @MandyJane SOMETIMES TRYING TO CENSOR THINGS CAUSES OTHERS TO LOOK INTO THEM MORE. JUST SAYING. SINCE MANY WOMEN HAVE HAD THEIR SPEECH CONTROLLED, EVEN HAVING SOMEONE POLITELY ORDER OTHERS TO NOT SHOW CERTAIN YOUTUBE VIDEOS IS PROBABLY GOING TO BE MET WITH RESENTMENT, AT BEST.I THINK A BETTER SUGGESTION WOULD BE HAVING AN ALTERNATIVE LINK AND SAYING BLAIR'S FACE IS DAMN UGLY, WHILE TRYING TO NOT GIVE VIEWS TO YOUTUBE VIDEOS AND MAKE THE CONTENT RECIEVE MORE AD REVENUE. ALTERNATIVELY, YOU COULD GET REAL ANGRY AT THE TRIGGER PEOPLE WHO HAD HIM ON AND TRY TO RALLEY TO HAVE MORE RAD FEMS PUT ON THE SHOW.IT'S TOTALLY WORTHY OF ANALYZING CONSIDERING HOW MUCH PRESSURE THERE WAS TO JUST "BE NICE/TOLERANT/THOUGHTFUL," WHILE MEN COLONISED WOMEN'S RIGHTS. I AGREE THAT PROMOTING MEN'S BABBLING OVER WOMEN'S IS STUPID FOR WOMEN'S LIBERATION BUT IF YOU'VE NO ALTERNATIVE TO OFFER THEN IT'S NOT PROMOTION BUT ENCOURAGING CENSORSHIP.BLAIR IS A DAMN SEXIST MAN AND IF I HAD ANY EDITING SKILLS I WOULD MAKE A STUPID SONG OF SEXIST CLIPS HE'D SAID FOLLOWED BY ASKING WHY HE GETS THE PUNDIT ATTENTION AND NOT LINDA BLADE/MEGHAN MURPHY\KAREN FROM "YOU'RE KIDDING RIGHT?"THERE'S A LOT OF GOOD WOMEN, IT'S IMPORTANT TO NAME THEM.LIKE IT OR NOT, ENTERTAINMENT IS USED TO PROMOTE IDEAS AND MANY ENTERTAINMENT INDUSTRIES ARE GOING TO REACH FOR OUTRAGE. SIMPLY ASKING OTHERS BLOCKS THEM IN A COMMUNITY ISN'T GOING TO STOP THAT. YOU COULD ALTERNATIVELY PUT UP A FILTER WORD OF 'Blair White" FOR YOUR OWN PROFILE AND YOU'D BE WAY LESS LIKELY TO SEE HIS STUPID DUCKLIP FACE.https://spinster.xyz/filters
(DIR) Post #A9f99aZEzaNrm6ClIe by MandyJane@spinster.xyz
2021-07-25T21:03:55.139777Z
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@BCLADY @Melkora @Hollahollara https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FE93RRnYRXE
(DIR) Post #A9f9ywf0busJ41OKLA by BCLADY@spinster.xyz
2021-07-25T23:46:42.028041Z
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@MandyJane @Hollahollara @Melkora I CAN'T HELP IT THAT BARBRA STREISAND IS AGRESSIVE!HER EFFECT HAS TAKEN HOLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLD!
(DIR) Post #A9gUX8VM6w5B0ibkxc by Melkora@spinster.xyz
2021-07-26T07:32:44.641927Z
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You don't know what censorship is, do you? Please, google the term censorship. No one is censoring you from promoting sexism and misogyny. Sometimes just women aren't happy if you do and ask you to stop. Specifically in feminist spaces. This is something, you just deal with.By the way, I have no idea, why you are so keen on promotring sexism and misogyny in feminist space. @BCLADY @Hollahollara @MandyJane
(DIR) Post #A9gUX93k35aWjMhDYe by BCLADY@spinster.xyz
2021-07-26T13:03:03.201034Z
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@Melkora @Hollahollara @MandyJane UH, OK?"censorship[ˈsensərSHip]NOUNthe suppression or prohibition of any parts of books, films, news, etc. that are considered obscene, politically unacceptable, or a threat to security."YOU'RE ACTING LIKE IT'S UNACCEPTABLE AND OBSCENE TO EVEN BOTHER WITH LOOKING AT WHAT TRAS SAY, FOR YOUR OWN EMOTIONAL WISHES. YOU CAN CLAIM IT'S FOR FEMINISM ALL YOU WANT BUT YOU CAN'T FIGHT WHAT YOU DON'T KNOW. SO YOUR WISHIES WILL LIKELY BE DEALT WITH BY WOMEN BEING SLIGHTLY IRRITATED AT YOU WANTING THEM TO CATER TO YOU AND THEN NOT DOING IT. IT'S LIKE YOU'RE TRYING TO MAKE A THERAPUTIC SPACE INSTEAD OF A FEMINIST SPACE. I UNDERSTAND PROMOTING FEMINISTS ABOVE TRAS, BUT YOU'RE NOT ACTUALLY DOING THAT BECAUSE YOU HAVE NO ALTERNATIVE OR CIRTIC OF THE CONTENT YOU SEEK TO PREVENT OTHERS FROM SEEING. WHICH IS NOT GOING TO DO ANYTHING TO HELP ANYONE.YOU SEEM TO NOT UNDERSTAND HOW NOT BEING ABLE TO TALK CLEARLY CAN EFFECT YOUR CAREER AND IT LEADS TO SELF CENSORING. AND YEAH, I GET THAT NOT HAVING THE GOVERNMENT DIRECTLY GO AFTER YOU FOR YOUR THOUGHTS ISN'T DIRECTLY INFRINGING ON FREE SPEECH BUT WOMEN ARE AFRAID FOR THEIR JOBS AND DESERVE A PLACE TO TALK ABOUT THIS. WHAT WORD WOULD YOU USE THAT'S NOT CENSORING? YOU HAVE A REQUEST FOR WHAT YOU WANT OTHERS TO DO TO CONSIDER A "FEMINIST" SPACE WITHOUT SEEMING TO LISTEN TO ANYONE ELSE HERE ABOUT WHY THEY WANT TO SEE THE INFORMATION THAT BOTHERS YOU. THIS ISN'T A THERAPUTIC SPACE WHERE YOU CAN PRETEND THAT TRAS DON'T EXIST AS A WEIRD COPING MECHANISM. ALSO, I'M NOT PROMOTING SEXISM, I'M MAKING FUN OF IT AND I RESENT YOU FOR SAYING THAT BUT YOU HAVE A RIGHT TO YOUR OPINION AND SINCE YOU OBVIOUSLY DON'T WANT TO EXPLAIN YOUR LOGIC, YOU'LL JUST HAVE TO DEAL WITH IT. YOU REALLY DON'T LIKE THAT SOMEONE ISN'T DOING WHAT YOU WANT, BUT YOUR REASONING IS LACKING. YOU CAN'T JUST THROW IN THE WORD "FEMINISM" FOR WHY YOU DON'T WANT OTHERS TO KNOW SOMETHING. MAYBE TRY EXPLAINING WHY IT'S UNFEMINIST AND PROVIDING ALTERNATIVES.OR MUTE OR BLOCK OR USE THE FILTERS AGAINST CERTAIN WORDS SO THAT YOU'LL BE LESS LIKELY TO SEE CERTAIN THINGS THAT YOU DON'T LIKE. YOU'RE WEIRD.WHATEVER.
(DIR) Post #A9gUX9VkMxzQ8DnaD2 by MandyJane@spinster.xyz
2021-07-26T15:07:36.981841Z
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@BCLADY @Melkora @Hollahollara OMG, this shit is still going on? lol
(DIR) Post #A9gUX9ySeCxTZHEVxw by polarisera@spinster.xyz
2021-07-26T15:11:40.324714Z
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@MandyJane @BCLADY @Hollahollara @Melkora I prefer my censorship discussion to be at least as sophisticated as Nina Paley's TedTalk. (And fuck off all. Free speech is coming one way or the other, And Cluster C and Cluster B can go fuck other in the corner, and leave the rest of us alone).https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XO9FKQAxWZc
(DIR) Post #A9ghcbAgFuSalos99U by Melkora@spinster.xyz
2021-07-26T08:42:12.797223Z
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BTW what precisely are you suggesting? That women, not being comfortable with sexist mesages in their spaces, should just shut up and take it not to make the person spreading this message sad? That's it? @BCLADY @Hollahollara @MandyJane
(DIR) Post #A9ghcbfsNvPiKZT3mC by fahrrrrradler@spinster.xyz
2021-07-26T10:43:56.309311Z
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@Melkora @BCLADY @Hollahollara @MandyJane This argument feels a bit close to the TRA mindset of "don't engage with terf content. just block and report. stay safe ♡" You can look at content from sources you don't agree with and still critically analyse what they are saying. Sometime it's looking at the shit men say for a reality check and how it is shit or how they twist opinions to suit them. It's a way to stay updated as men too come up with ridiculous stuff.
(DIR) Post #A9gheNyoGvv2R9AjYm by BCLADY@spinster.xyz
2021-07-26T13:06:59.956067Z
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@Melkora @Hollahollara @MandyJane I'M CLEARLY SUGGESTING THAT YOU SHOULD TAKE RESPONSBILITY FOR YOUR OWN EMOTIONAL NEEDS, THAT YOU SHOULD EXPLAIN WHY YOU FIND IT UNFEMINIST TO LEARN WHAT TRAS ARE SAYING AND INSTEAD PROVIDE ALTERNATIVES. IT'S REALLY ODD THAT YOU'RE NOT ACKNOWLEDGING YOUR OWN EMOTIONS IN THIS AND INSTEAD ARE PROJECTING OTHERS.IT'S NOT ABOUT NOT MAKING OTHERS SAD. IF ANYTHING THEY'D BE SLIGHTLY IRRITATED, ROLL THEIR EYES AND CONTINUE TO TALK WITH OTHERS WHO DON'T IMAGINE FEMINISM TO BE A SPACE WHERE PEOPLE ARE IGNORANT OF THE VERY ACTIVISTS GENDER CRITICAL FEMINISTS ARE TRYING TO FIGHT. WHY DOES YOUR VERSION OF FEMINISM INVOLVE NOT KNOWING YOUR ENEMY AND TELLING OTHERS TO NOT KNOW EITHER?
(DIR) Post #A9ghla5HfO6S0NdCZU by Gnomeshatecheese@spinster.xyz
2021-07-26T09:30:46.726388Z
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@MandyJane @Hollahollara I for one don’t have to agree with something in order to find it interesting. I sometimes even listen or read right-wingers, even actual far-rightists, just because I want to know what they are saying. I’ve been meaning to look up Blaire White and what he’s all about for myself, and when I saw this video pop up in my Youtube suggestions I thought that would likely be a good way to get an overview. Even if, and especially if he indeed is anti-woman etc. Straight from the horse’s mouth and all that.
(DIR) Post #A9hk9FejfDWqfGaWa8 by BCLADY@spinster.xyz
2021-07-27T05:41:21.468956Z
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@polarisera @MandyJane @Hollahollara @Melkora NINA PALEY!!!! IS MY FREE SPEECH PALLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!@ninapaley
(DIR) Post #A9hkJbPhcmy92YUaHY by MandyJane@spinster.xyz
2021-07-26T15:30:00.891609Z
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@polarisera @BCLADY @Hollahollara @Melkora I had not seen this before, and didn't know it exists! This is great.
(DIR) Post #A9hkN6AHkSZfHZwpsW by BCLADY@spinster.xyz
2021-07-27T05:43:52.155022Z
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@MandyJane @polarisera @Hollahollara @Melkora TELL YOUR FRIENDS!TELL YOUR NEIGHBOURS!TELL YOU ENEMIES!BECAUSE FREE SPEECH OR ELSE YOU'RE A LEECH!
(DIR) Post #A9hmUbXZh0ZcWmY3bE by Hollahollara@spinster.xyz
2021-07-27T06:07:38.087784Z
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@BCLADY @MandyJane @Melkora @polarisera
(DIR) Post #A9hmtvQQtlj9RHHWRE by BCLADY@spinster.xyz
2021-07-27T06:12:12.757859Z
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@Hollahollara @MandyJane @Melkora @polarisera WOW I HOPE IT DIDN'T SUCK OUT YOUR BLOOD.BECAUSE I WANT YOUR BLOOD HOLLA.I NEED THAT SCALP IN GOOD CONDITION!
(DIR) Post #A9hnZoFZxv8ZLfB1Zg by Hollahollara@spinster.xyz
2021-07-27T06:19:46.834243Z
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@BCLADY @MandyJane @Melkora @polarisera The leech was trying, but it found me freakishly bloodless.The scalp is still in fine condition, though! Do you know why it is in fine condition?
(DIR) Post #A9hnjesJg2ZhARzZdw by BCLADY@spinster.xyz
2021-07-27T06:21:33.676014Z
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@Hollahollara @MandyJane @Melkora @polarisera I BET I CAN RIG THAT TO TRY AND REMOVE THE SCALPS OF MEN WHO WEAR IT!OH HOLLA, YOU'VE MADE ME A HAPPY HAMOON!SOON, I'LL BE ABLE TO CONVINCE MEN THAT THEY MUST PROTECT THEIR OWN BODY AND MIND BY SACRFICING IT TO THE GREAT HAMOON!
(DIR) Post #A9hoFSgoWB6MdpmEUq by Hollahollara@spinster.xyz
2021-07-27T06:27:18.401217Z
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@BCLADY @MandyJane @Melkora @polariseraSoon. :ms_full_moon:
(DIR) Post #A9hqVEW9B1krEHR50q by BCLADY@spinster.xyz
2021-07-27T06:52:34.226461Z
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@Hollahollara @MandyJane @Melkora @polarisera GIVE ME YOUR SCALP~LIBERAL MENINISM, JUST FOR MEN!
(DIR) Post #A9htaTFS8ScgE5ofei by Melkora@spinster.xyz
2021-07-27T07:20:39.057924Z
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This exchange is incredible! Are you saying me Ishould shut up, because I'm to emotional? Is this your argument? Am I talking to a man?? Gosh! Firstly you bash me for making my opponents sad and then this! @BCLADY @Hollahollara @MandyJane
(DIR) Post #A9htaTeccskvU9alt2 by BCLADY@spinster.xyz
2021-07-27T07:27:07.763931Z
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@Melkora @Hollahollara @MandyJane ARE YOU A TROLL OR JUST REALLY BAD AT UNDERSTANDING THAT YOU CAN'T SEE OTHERS EMOTIONS ONLINE?IF TRYING TO SHOW YOU THAT YOUR REQUEST ARE INEFFECTIVE IS CONSIDERED BASHING TO YOU, I'D HATE TO SEE WHAT AN ACTUAL INSULT IS CONSIDERED TO YOU. MAYBE NOT SAYING PLEASE OR THANK YOU, IS ENOUGH FOR YOU TO BELIEVE YOU'VE BEEN INSULTED. I IN NO WAY DID ANYTHING TO TRY AND SILENCE YOU, YOU'RE EITHER WILLFULLY MISENTERPRETING WHAT I'VE WRITTEN OR NEED TO WORK ON YOUR COMMUNICATION SKILLS. IF I OFFER ALTERNATIVES THAT I BELIEVE MIGHT WORK BETTER AND YOU'RE NOT GOING TO LISTEN, THAT'S FINE. I'VE BEEN TALKING TO YOU, SO HOW WOULD THAT LEAD YOU TO THINK I'M TRYING TO TELL YOU TO BE SILENT? ANYWAYS, I'VE BEEN CALLED A MAN BEFORE AND I DON'T RIGHTLY GIVE A DAMN. THIS RESPONSE READS LIKE CONCERN TROLLING BUT WHATEVER.
(DIR) Post #A9hvouHgc3HI2Vs9Fw by Melkora@spinster.xyz
2021-07-27T07:47:20.167541Z
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O.K. It's funny how you are accusing me, I can't read and then claiming I call you a man. I'm not. I'm asking you, if you are a man, because it's hard for me to believe a woman, especially in a feminist space would use so many sexist stereotypes to silence another woman. Due to a video of a sexist man! Read it yourself! @BCLADY @Hollahollara @MandyJane
(DIR) Post #A9hvoumWlNwpaAImKO by BCLADY@spinster.xyz
2021-07-27T07:52:08.385660Z
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@Melkora @Hollahollara @MandyJane NO I'M NOT A MAN.I'VE BEEN ACCUSED OF IT BEFORE. YOU KEEP SAYING I'M TRYING TO SILENCE YOU BUT I'M NOT, I'M TALKING TO YOU. SO WHY DON'T YOU READ THIS WHOLE EXCHANGE. WHERE HAVE I TOLD YOU TO STOP COMMUNICATING, EVER? SAYING SOMEONE IS NOT EFFECTIVE BY TRYING TO GET THEM TO THINK ISN'T THE SAME AS TRYING TO SILENCE THEM. ORIGINALLY I SUGGESTED TRYING TO POST ALTERNATIVE VIEWS INSTEAD OF SIMPLY REQESTING THAT THEY DON'T POST STUFF YOU DON'T LIKE. YOU'VE COMPLETELY IGNORED THIS ASPECT. I GREW UP ON THE INTERNET, THERE'S HARSH WORDS HERE. AND FEDDI SPECIFICALLY HAS A LOT OF INSANITY ON OTHER INSTANCES AND IF YOU AREN'T TAKING CONTROL OF THAT BY CATERING TO YOUR OWN NEEDS ON SPINSTER, YOU MAKE YOURSELF VULNERABLE TO SOMEONE WHO'D TROLL YOU.
(DIR) Post #A9hvt26BV6BjQySZs0 by meogsis@spinster.xyz
2021-07-27T07:40:06.536576Z
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@Melkora @BCLADY @Hollahollara @MandyJane i feel like the closest thing to telling someone they should shut up during this conversation was when you asked mandy not to share this video. that was an attempt at censorship and i don't know how you could say otherwiseand are we supposed to be phased by the man-calling game?
(DIR) Post #A9hvwCD2Mm85ezAolM by BCLADY@spinster.xyz
2021-07-27T07:53:28.113278Z
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@meogsis @Melkora @Hollahollara @MandyJane THANK YOU.WHAT OTHER WORD WORKS HERE? THERE'S NOTHING.
(DIR) Post #A9hwOofkxFBL3mFnou by Melkora@spinster.xyz
2021-07-27T07:54:01.860795Z
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O.K. so you are not silencing me, just talking to me, but I'm silencing you by talking to you? Sorry, but you can have it both. You have to choose one. @BCLADY @Hollahollara @MandyJane
(DIR) Post #A9hwOp4vRfJaJq1u3E by BCLADY@spinster.xyz
2021-07-27T07:58:37.942262Z
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@Melkora @Hollahollara @MandyJane UH, WHAT?WHERE HAVE I SAID YOU'VE TRIED TO SILENCE ME?I WAS COMMENTING ABOUT CENSORSHIP BECAUSE YOU ARE TRYING TO GET WOMEN TO NOT POST STUFF THAT YOU DEFINE AS PROMOTING THEM. I THINK YOU'RE NOT READING CLEARLY.
(DIR) Post #A9hwXxqgCtoy7qj248 by Melkora@spinster.xyz
2021-07-27T07:56:44.009241Z
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O.K. This is beyond incredible! So, I have made you do it to me?? What's next? You telling me not to bother my pretty little head about it??? @BCLADY @Hollahollara @MandyJane
(DIR) Post #A9hwXyE4nuXJIPfiXA by BCLADY@spinster.xyz
2021-07-27T08:00:17.188168Z
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@Melkora @Hollahollara @MandyJane YOU'RE NOT MAKING ANY SENSE.I'M TRYING TO GET YOU TO THINK. IT'S LIKE YOU'RE PROJECTING YOUR FEARS ABOUT SEXIST STEROTYPES INTO THIS CONVERSATION AND ACCUSING ME OF THINGS THAT IS REALLY BEWILDERING TBH.
(DIR) Post #A9hxqf1eVyIFCfKwG8 by Melkora@spinster.xyz
2021-07-27T08:07:08.364064Z
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You are using sexist stereoypes, to shut... oh pardon, talk to me... Sorry, not sorry! Like now! "No sexism exists, you ere just being paranoid". Just go on. This starts to be funny. @BCLADY @Hollahollara @MandyJane
(DIR) Post #A9hxqfUMnDGIdils12 by BCLADY@spinster.xyz
2021-07-27T08:14:51.934108Z
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@Melkora @Hollahollara @MandyJane ?????????????
(DIR) Post #A9hySs2cZTgcZh0fAW by meogsis@spinster.xyz
2021-07-27T08:15:54.099338Z
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@Melkora @BCLADY @Hollahollara @MandyJane ok yes i did laugh a little
(DIR) Post #A9hzKNZy2qGPjf7dA0 by Melkora@spinster.xyz
2021-07-27T08:11:28.016147Z
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O.K. once again! I have no power over sexist men to censor them. This is not how censorship works. Sexist men are not being censored. Feminist women are! Yeah! I think women shouldn't promote sexist men, because they consider them "the reasonable ones". I have no idea, why you are so defensive over a random sexist dude. @BCLADY @Hollahollara @MandyJane
(DIR) Post #A9hzKO6E6u4HLiDORU by BCLADY@spinster.xyz
2021-07-27T08:31:26.493867Z
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@Melkora @Hollahollara @MandyJane OK, I'VE PERSONALLY WORKED SOMEWHERE THAT EVERYONE PUT EXTREME SOCIAL AND CAREER PRESSURE ON EACH OTHER TO NOT TALK ABOUT HOW SOMEONE WHO WAS A MAN DESERVED TO BE CALLED A WOMAN. IT'S CRAZY MAKING. THERE IS MORE AND MORE OF IT AND IT CREEPS UP UNTIL YOU FEEL ISOLATED AND CRAZY. THEN MAYBE THE ONLY INFORMATION YOU CAN FIND IS OUTRAGEOUS SHIT. BEFORE I FOUND SPINSTER THE ONLY PLACES THAT SEEMED ABLE TO TALK ABOUT THIS ISSUE WHERE REALLY SEXIST PLACES BECAUSE TRAS GO AFTER WOMEN WAY MORE THAN MEN. AND YEAH, ASKING PEOPLE TO NOT POST VIDEOS IS CENSORING. IF YOU'RE TRYING TO ACT LIKE CENSORSHIS HAS TO BE SYSTEMIC INSTEAD OF INDIVIDUALISED, WHAT OTHER ALTERNATIVE WORD WOULD YOU PROPOSE? I'VE ASKED YOU THIS MULTIPLE TIMES AND YOU HAVE NO RESPONSE. I'M TRIED OF PEOPLE TRYING TO ACT LIKE A WORD OR CONCEPT CAN SWITCH FROM BEING SYSTEM TO INDIVIDUALISED AS A PART OF CONFLICT.I'M DEFENSIVE BECAUSE MY WHOLE COUNTRY PROMOTES CENSORSHIP IN REGARDS TO THIS STUPID "LET'S PRETEND SEX ISN'T REAL" ISSUE, OH GOSH THAT'S NOT GOING TO HURT THE POOR, IMMIGRANTS, VULNERBLE WOMEN AND OTHERS DIVERSITY IS OUR STRENGTH. I'VE FUCKING TIRED OF PEOPLE NOT UNDERSTANDING WHAT IS GOING ON. SURE, I WOULD LIKE FOR PEOPLE TO BE PICKY ABOUT THEIR SOURCES, BUT I REALISTICALLY UNDERSTAND THAT IN ORDER TO REACH OTHERS A WIDER VARIETY HELPS. INCLUDING SHIT SAID BY MEN BECAUSE A LOT OF PEOPLE ARE SEXIST AND DON'T WANT TO LISTEN TO A WOMAN.IT SUCKS, BUT IT'S TRUE. I'VE FOUDN PEOPLE ARE A LOT MORE RESPONSIVE TO BENJAMIN BOYCE, JORDON PETERSON OR ARTY MORTY THAN WOMEN. IT PAINS ME, BUT I CAN'T CHANGE THAT BY GETTING ANGRY THAT PEOPLE AREN'T GOING TO SIT DOWN AND LISTEN TO LINDA BLADE.
(DIR) Post #A9iHZvYFoiMQcLssaG by susannunes@spinster.xyz
2021-07-25T18:33:19.310393Z
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@MandyJane He still invades women's spaces. He thinks he has a right to do it. He is no different than any other man in a dress who demands to access those spaces.
(DIR) Post #A9iVhPY25WPT2FF9Bw by Melkora@spinster.xyz
2021-07-27T08:40:18.838639Z
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Look! I've literally lived in a country with an acive censorship. I'm talking about people being literally put in jail by the rulling political power. So for ones again and the last time. A random woman on internet politely asking you not to promote sexism isn't it. Misusing this kind of strong words only dissolves their meaning and makes them useless. The same, TRAs have done wirth the word "bigotry". @BCLADY @Hollahollara @MandyJane
(DIR) Post #A9jpjM6E4a8nA0OwzI by BCLADY@spinster.xyz
2021-07-28T05:53:19.975736Z
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@Melkora @Hollahollara @MandyJane YOU OFFER NO ALTERNATIVE WORD, THE DICTIONARY DEFINITION APPLIES AND MANY PEOPLE HERE ARE AFRAID OF LOSING OR HAVE LOST THEIR JOBS. A FATHER HAS BEEN PUT IN JAIL FOR TALKING ABOUT THE ISSUE WITH MEDICAL EXPERIMENTATION OF HIS DAUGHTER, WOMEN HAVE LOST THEIR BUSINESSES FOR NOT WAXING A "WOMAN'S" BALLSAC AND MORE. IDIOT ACTIVISTS GO AFTER PUBLIC SPEAKERS, DRAGGING THEM THROUGH ANY PROCESS POSSIBLE TO GET THEM TO SHUT UP. SORRY, DISAGREE THAT ASKIGN PEOPLE TO NOT TALK OR POST THINGS IS CENSORSHIP AND AGAIN, YOU'VE NO ALTERNATIVE DESCRIPTION AND YOU SEEM TO NOT UNDERSTAND THE SLOW AND OBSERVABLE SLIDE INTO THE RULING POLITICAL POWER GRAPSING FOR EXPRESSION AND THOUGHTS. AGREE TO DISAGREE BUT MY POINTS STAND. IF YOU ASK PEOPLE TO NOT POST SOMETHING AND THEY'RE IN A SITUATION WHERE THEY'VE ALREADY HAD SOFTER AND THEN HARDER PRESSURE APPLIED TO NOT TALK, YOU'RE NOT GOING TO CONVINCE ANYONE TO NOT POST. IF ANYTHING IT'S GOING TO BACKFIRE AND THEY'LL POST MORE.IT'S ALMOST LIKE MAYBE BECAUSE YOU'RE USED TO BEING PRESSURED TO NOT TALK, YOU EXPECT THAT TO APPLY EVERYWHERE. I FIND IT A LOT EASIER TO CATER YOUR OWN EXPERIENCE WITH FILTERS OR MUTING INSTEAD OF JUST STRAIGHT UP TRYING TO ACT LIKE SOMEONE'S UNFEMINIST FOR TRYING TO LOOK AT DIFFERENT SOURCES OF MEDIA. https://spinster.xyz/filtershttps://spinster.xyz/muteshttps://spinster.xyz/domain_blockshttps://spinster.xyz/blocksARE ALL THERE FOR YOU TO USE. IF YOU'RE GOING TO TALK TO SOMEONE, I FIND PEOPLE ARE GOING TO BE MUCH MORE RESPONSIVE TO ALTERNATIVE MEDIA INSTEAD OF JUST TELLING THEM TO NOT EVEN POST ANYTHING HERE.YOU WANNA SHUT INFORMATION AWAY AND YOU HAVE THAT ABILITY, BUT YOU ALSO WANT OTHERS TOO AS WELL, SAYING IT'S UNFEMINIST TO EVEN SPEND TIME LOOKING AT CERTAIN THINGS.YOU THINK IT'S FEMINIST TO NOT ACKNOWLEDGE SEXIST ASSHOLES BUT YOU AREN'T GOING TO GET WOMEN TO AGREE TO THAT, MOST WANT TO INFORM THEMSELVES. I THINK IT'S FEMINIST TO LOOK AT THE STUPID SHIT AND MAKE FUN OF IT BECAUSE IT GIVES ME ENERGY. EVEN IF WE'RE DISAGREEING WE ARE STILL COMMUNICATING AND AT LEAST THAT'S SOMETHING.I'M SORRY YOU HAVE TO DEAL WITH A SHITTY CORRUPT GOVERNMENT THAT UNFAIRLY TERRORISES PEOPLE FOR THEIR OPINIONS. THAT ISN'T RIGHT.I HOPE YOU FIND A WAY TO MAKE SPINSTER WORK FOR YOU.
(DIR) Post #A9jpz4iWT3VZspoHuC by Melkora@spinster.xyz
2021-07-27T08:47:12.099034Z
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Plus, I really didn't enter this supposedly feminist space, to choose between different kinds of sexism. I prefere no sexism at all. @BCLADY @Hollahollara @MandyJane
(DIR) Post #A9jpz5EQYR1rTmjldQ by BCLADY@spinster.xyz
2021-07-28T05:56:10.313150Z
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@Melkora @Hollahollara @MandyJane YOU CAN PRETEND THAT IT ISN'T FEMINIST TO SHARE KNOWLEDGE BECAUSE IT'S SEXIST BUT THEN YOU'LL BE IGNORANT OF THE ARGUMENTS TSHE SEXISTS SAY. YOU CAN ALSO MISS OUT ON FUN OF MEN BEING EXTRA STUPID. SORRY BUT YOU AREN'T THE JUDGE OF FEMINISM AND WITHOUT THE ABILITY TO CRITIQUE SOMETHING THERE'S NO ANALYSIS.I UNDERSTAND WANTING TO PROMOTE WOMEN. I HOPE YOU CAN FIND SOME ALTERNATIVES BECAUSE YOU'LL BE LOOKING FOR THAT "FEMINIST" SPACE ONLINE FOREVER, IF YOU EXPECT PEOPLE ON A FREE SOCIAL MEDIA SITE TO ONLY POST APPROVED MESSAGES THAT DON'T OFFEND YOU.
(DIR) Post #A9jrUyqdvLKmtyNyrI by Melkora@spinster.xyz
2021-07-27T07:41:29.605440Z
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O.K. I don't know, which universe you live in, but let me explain, how our universe work. Here in our universe, sexist men, no matter if liberal or conservative, are not censored. They are promoted and celebrated everywhere. If you want to hear, what sexist men have to say, you don't have to look for them. You just sit down and wait for them to find you themselves. They are neither censored nor oppressed!! A random women on the internet has no power over them to do so. They claim it, only because they, as privileged men, are not used to even mild criticism especially from women.As they are promoted everywhere, they don't need another promotion especially in a feminist spaces. Why, the hell? Because some women who are not even feminists think, these guys are "the reasonable ones"? (No, they aren't!) There are plenty of GC women, who are the trully reasonable ones and deserve our support. That's why this space exist in the first place. And I have the right to say it here. It's funny how you, a free speach warior, are trying to silence and censor me on this by using sexist stereotypes on me. @BCLADY @Hollahollara @MandyJane
(DIR) Post #A9jrUzNFy5QEX7e1h2 by BCLADY@spinster.xyz
2021-07-28T06:13:08.281895Z
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@Melkora @Hollahollara @MandyJane YOU KEEP SAYING I'M TRYING TO CENSOR YOU BUT I'M TELLING YOU THAT WHAT YOU ARE DOING IS NOT EFFECTIVE AND IS LIKELY TO BACKFIRE.YOU KEEP SAYING I'M USING SEXIST STEROTYPES ON YOU BUT I'M NOT. I'M TELLING YOUR WHAT YOU'RE DOING WON'T GET YOU WHAT YOU WANT. YOU'RE FREE TO ACT LIKE I'M TRYING TO CENSOR YOU, BUT AGAIN, IF YOU KEEP DOING WHAT YOU'RE DOING I'D PROBABLY JUST MUTE YOU SO I MYSELF WOULDN'T HAVE TO INTERACT WITH YOU. I'M NOT TELLING YOU WHAT NOT TO POST. I'M SAYING YOU AREN'T GOING TO GET WHAT YOU WANT BY SIMPLY DEMANDING OTHERS CATER TO YOU WHEN YOU HAVE THE ABILITY TO ORGANIZE THE SITE YOURSELF FOR YOUR OWN NEEDS.HERE:https://spinster.xyz/about#faqs"About SpinsterSpinster is a woman-centric website created to provide a platform for feminist dialogue.Spinster was founded by radical feminist writer M. K. Fain and her partner, Alex Gleason. It is owned and operated by Spinster LLC, registered in Pennsylvania, USA."THERE IS NOTHING ON THERE ABOUT NOT BEING SOLELY FOCUSED ON POSTING WOMEN ONLY CONTENT, NOT SHOULD THERE BE. IT SUCKS BUT I FIND IT'S MORE CONVINCING TO SHOW MEN OTHER MEN INSTEAD OF SPEAKING AND I'D LIKE OTHERS TO KNOW THEY CAN HAVE THAT AS A REFERENCE HERE. ALSO YOU KEEP SAYING I'M USING SEXIST STEROPTYPING ON YOU, BUT CAN YOU EVEN STATE WHAT STEROTYPES? WAS IT BECAUSE I TRIED TO TELL YOU ABOUT THE BARBRA STRISAND EFFECT? WHAT ARE YOU EVEN GOING ON ABOUT???I'M TALKING TO YOU LIKE A PERSON, TELLING YOU I DON'T UNDERSTAND YOU AND HAVE CLEARLY DEMONSTRATED HOW THE CONCEPT OF CENSORSHIP APPLIES. YOU CAN'T JUST SAY SOMEONE'S USING SEXIST STEROTYPES AGAINST YOU BECAUSE YOU DON'T LIKE WHAT THEY SAY. THERE HAS TO BE A STEROPTYPE. SO WHAT EVEN IS IT SUPPOSED TO BE? HOW DO YOU EVEN ASSUME I PERCIEVE YOU TO BE?
(DIR) Post #A9kXL1gygtZKtxnjEW by Melkora@spinster.xyz
2021-07-28T08:52:44.210289Z
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Friendly reminder, you and your friends came up with the "censorship" nonsense and claimed I tried to censor you on the basis of pointing out, you shouldn't pomote sexism here. Not the oposite. Another friendly reminder, you started to talk to me, not the opposite. @BCLADY @Hollahollara @MandyJane
(DIR) Post #A9kXL2BoqEEsRcEMIy by MandyJane@spinster.xyz
2021-07-28T13:56:29.471776Z
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@Melkora @BCLADY @Hollahollara Friendly reminder, this is the beginning of day 3 of the meltdown.