Post A9W0EhIzDbJBwC6KXY by ChaosSkeleton@necropolis.online
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 (DIR) Post #A9VzqYC9RFLkjUOEYC by soft@stonerkitty.monster
       2021-07-21T13:40:29Z
       
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       if given the opportunity, would you live kink as a lifestyle? feel free to explain why or why not, im curious for ppl’s reasoning.
       
 (DIR) Post #A9W0EhIzDbJBwC6KXY by ChaosSkeleton@necropolis.online
       2021-07-21T13:44:43Z
       
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       @soft I was in the lifestyle with my ex and tbh its not for me, it takes too much of my energy to keep it up. I'm also not super comfortable doing stuff anywhere else than our bed room
       
 (DIR) Post #A9W1uaiCDrbTbaQuZM by millenomi@lily.network
       2021-07-21T14:03:35Z
       
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       @soft I am living the life, so yes. But there’s a wide spectrum of approaches, so idk exactly where the line is here — like, 99% of the time my relationships look vanilla unless I pull rank for play or need.
       
 (DIR) Post #A9W3IV9IeltrFy4lFY by matt@cybre.space
       2021-07-21T14:19:06Z
       
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       @soft No for the same reason I would never call myself a "gamer" despite enjoying video games a lot: I don't like basing my identity on a single aspect of my personality
       
 (DIR) Post #A9WsCOM46DpW6rtHl2 by anahata@tech.lgbt
       2021-07-21T23:49:22Z
       
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       @soft I voted no because "lifestyle kink" to me is things like a 24/7 master/submissive relationship and that's not at all what I want. Not sure how else you could mean it, would appreciate clarification