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(DIR) Post #A5ft2LOd3DYC4G8yv2 by StevenDouglas@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-28T16:44:30Z
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THREADBelow are some lessons that I wish I had gotten before I turned thirteen. PREFACEAs a young teen I thought "unafraid" meant "fierce".I wasn't fierce. I was small and weak. So I tried to compensate. By bluffing.I wanted to send out a kind of "Watch out for me" vibe - like toxic animals whose bright colors serve as a warning.I DREAMED of owning a martial arts jacket with dragons and patches all over the front and back - so that people would think twice about messing with me.Pft!
(DIR) Post #A5ftBOHxfMYNe2L4ue by StevenDouglas@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-28T16:46:08Z
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Lacking any other forms of bluff, I'd steel my eyes, square my shoulders, stare straight ahead and walk with a LEAVE ME ALONE intensity of purpose everywhere I went.In other words, I attracted attention and made a spectacle of my damned self.My formula for moving forward in peace had the exact opposite of its intended effect.I was people repellent to good people and an OPEN INVITATION TO ATTACK to the worst of the worst.
(DIR) Post #A5ftL0HBna4K4EYsSG by StevenDouglas@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-28T16:47:52Z
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The unwitting gauntlets I threw down in my path, which signaled both weakness and a WILLINGNESS to be assaulted, were constantly picked up and answered.So clueless. Worse than Ill-equipped. And I was so slow to learn.Does that sound stupid?Not knowing that I was the one facilitating my own grief and didn't realize it?Obviously stupid, yes?Let's talk about it, shall we?
(DIR) Post #A5ftWZstkTGFgoicHA by StevenDouglas@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-28T16:49:58Z
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First lesson:BE KIND TO ***YOUR FELLOW*** RETARDSLoads of freedom to grow came in my mid teens (Summer '76) via one epiphany:Social retardation is not the exception in life. It's the rule. MOST PEOPLE - NOT JUST LEFTISTS - ARE SOCIALLY RETARDED. NEGOTIATE BUT DON'T LOOK TO THEM FOR ANSWERS.And when I say "socially retarded", that includes the capacity to offend and to be offended when interacting with others.
(DIR) Post #A5ftmuZmaKsSUsZ9cW by StevenDouglas@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-28T16:52:55Z
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And MOST includes the "functionally retarded" - those who, like the "functionally illiterate", manage to get through life in spite of their deficiencies, not because of them.For me this was a cold observation only, with zero contempt for anyone, including me.Realizing that others didn't have the answers didn't mean that I somehow magically did. I had to learn, so I couldn't hold it against anyone. Personally. Individually."Forgive us ours as we forgive theirs..."AND MOVE ON.
(DIR) Post #A5ftzcfiSpq6jTP1Gq by StevenDouglas@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-28T16:55:13Z
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"You can only grow from where you are, not from where others think you ought to be by now."That's the pass I gave myself whenever I trespassed in ignorance or irritated or upset someone. Nothing to feel bad about.Humble, liberating, and DEEPLY INDIVIDUAL.I'm eternally grateful to my RARE patient teachers, but I NEVER thank my insufferable punishers (also teachers), as that would be a disservice.They have their own rows to hoe and woes to go toe to toe with.So I leave them in peace.
(DIR) Post #A5fuDks4mAEKDTvG9g by StevenDouglas@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-28T16:57:46Z
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Remember that this is all advice that I took and wished that I could have gotten at a younger age. You' can wipe your butt with it if you want, I'm just throwing it out there.KEEP YOUR MOTIVES PUREMine are ALWAYS in check. Don't judge and don't covet or want anything from anyone beyond the basic civility that YOU UNILATERALLY offer to everyone - without exception. AND NEVER DEMAND OR EXPECT ANYTHING IN RETURN.KEEP MOVING!
(DIR) Post #A5fuKsM7LZILSMMyhs by StevenDouglas@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-28T16:59:03Z
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NEITHER PROVOCATIVE NOR REACTIONARYThis is the long one, and the hardest part for many. NOTE: Someone has to be extremely evil and go WAY out of their way to attack me. I rob EVERYONE of all provocation and excuses for attack. My tendency to give or take offense is something I've worked very hard to shrink to almost nothing over the years. And it's the entire point of this thread.
(DIR) Post #A5fuUFs7Hf6wzqoEkK by StevenDouglas@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-28T17:00:45Z
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The lines between provocation and reaction are often blurred in confrontations, to wit: * Not backing down DOES NOT MEAN square off (reactionary & provocative). * Relax. Don't bristle or flinch (reactionary). And have no thorns (provocative). * Be mildly entreating, neither belligerent nor defensive - EVER. IN ANY WAY. * You can be agreeable without agreeing.* Don't be a boorish contrarian. Concede EVERY POINT THAT YOU CAN. Or leave it alone. Most battles never even need to be fought.
(DIR) Post #A5fueMTJbGpCMV1mdc by StevenDouglas@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-28T17:02:34Z
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* Never demand respect that you have not yet learned to command. Up your game.How others treat you is just information. That you needed. Treat it as such. * NEVER, EVER BE PASSIVE AGGRESSIVE. It's ugly, stupid, and worst of all in most cases, cowardly. If you're going to shoot, shoot straight or not at all. Never take sideways shots at anyone. * No policing of others' attitudes or words.LET IT ALL GO. Again, it's just information. You have a full plate just fixing yourself.
(DIR) Post #A5funBEKlWrK6RE2jI by StevenDouglas@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-28T17:04:10Z
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I don't care if someone is rude, mean, insulting, uncivil, etc., toward me or anyone else."YOU CAN'T TALK TO ME THAT WAY!" is never in my mind or out of my mouth.Sure you can. You can talk to me any way you want. I don't care. I've been tested by the very best=worst. You can't shock me, embarrass me, or hurt my feelings. Insults tell me FAR more about the one insulting than about me. That's THEIR PATHOLOGY, not mine. And it's not my job to fix or correct them.
(DIR) Post #A5fuy6pHTpftd4iboG by StevenDouglas@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-28T17:06:09Z
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If I can have a positive, constructive INFLUENCE-NOT-CONTROL, I will. Other than that, I'M FREE. So are they. Worst case, screw them. Let them stew in their own juices. Alone.NEVER SURRENDER YOUR PEACE.Always take it with you if it's not welcome. "Let him/her/them own ALL the anger." is something I've said many times to many people.Let every noxious idiot stew in its own noxious juices - ALONE.Do NOT respond in kind. Most times if you do, YOU LOSE - even if you prevail.
(DIR) Post #A5fv6JzUPzHOm8PRtA by StevenDouglas@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-28T17:07:38Z
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* Be open to new family everywhere you go.I don't consider myself TRIBALLY APART from anyone where it counts most, and new family always comes to me from the damnedest and most unpredictable places.All the time.So I WILL suffer through a lot of bullshit from a lot of people to find the ones who matter most. They are so, SO worth it.
(DIR) Post #A5fvAmxyd5ernepeUK by prchrskd@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-28T17:08:26Z
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@StevenDouglas I really like you fella 😁
(DIR) Post #A5fvDDqleCc3l1cWiO by StevenDouglas@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-28T17:08:52Z
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DO NOT BE A REACTIONARYIt's common to say, "Well, it's only human (to feel or react a certain way)..."Be wary of that as a rationale FOR ANYTHING. It's another way of saying that it can't be helped - can't (or shouldn't) be controlled.In a word, IT'S WEAK. Finally, don't tense up defensively. EVER.This is the one that shocked me most in early practice, as I relaxed and opened up, ready for the blows THAT NEVER CAME. END
(DIR) Post #A5fvYBSxhq0YReTs5w by Cbvheartland2@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-28T17:12:40Z
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@StevenDouglas I was much as you described, However with bullies being bullies they soon discovered as I did I was somewhat gifted at kicking their ass,I'm 60 years old and that's the first thing people remember about me being so small and kicking ass and taking names,I blame it on the Irish part of my family.
(DIR) Post #A5fvZvhZHxra8E93r6 by StevenDouglas@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-28T17:12:59Z
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@yaxuec I do teach it to my children - every chance I get. And they can do with it what they want. But it applies to practically everything they go through, so the opportunities are always there."I'll NEVER be like my (mother/father)!!!"As it happens anyway all the time. It doesn't matter what I TELL them if I LIVE it. By default we become our parents, whether we like it or not. It takes work NOT to be like them. That's the beauty of it. Just live it and let them see it in action.
(DIR) Post #A5fwKxgfixmZts9WIi by rosemaxx7@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-28T17:21:28Z
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@StevenDouglas It's called self confidence.
(DIR) Post #A5fyD2yaNNRXtYswuu by ilumanous@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-28T17:42:27Z
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@StevenDouglas Bravo. Great thread. If people will take a mental note of whatever they are offended by as they read this, and use those notes as markers directing them to the areas in their lives that they need to deal with, they will be set free of the major things that are causing troubles in their lives.I know that it is true because I do the same in my life.We must always be aware of negative emotions, and to do our best to replace them with positive ones, or they will be our ruin.
(DIR) Post #A5fyH9YrpnO5TdoVjU by ilumanous@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-28T17:43:11Z
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@StevenDouglas Bravo. Great thread. If people will take a mental note of whatever they are offended by, as they read this, and use those notes as markers directing them to the areas in their lives that they need to deal with, they will be set free of the major things that are causing troubles in their lives.I know that it is true because I do the same in my life.We must always be aware of negative emotions, and to do our best to replace them with positive ones, or they will be our ruin.
(DIR) Post #A5fzakoNfAlYSkypmK by StevenDouglas@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-28T17:57:56Z
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@indiv1dual Love Proverbs. A few months back my brother told me something that made me laugh. He said, "I used to read Proverbs and didn't get any of it. It just looked like a bunch of 'Man with itchy but wakes up with smelly fingers' kind of garbage. But I'm really getting into it now, there's a lot there!" 😂
(DIR) Post #A5g0hoEzPakJ4zM26a by Erin@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-28T18:10:24Z
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@StevenDouglas I guess I’m lucky in that I would be more than happy to become like my parents.@yaxuec
(DIR) Post #A5g1JBGWljhHCitTgO by TerriC@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-28T18:17:11Z
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@StevenDouglas Lovely words and timely advice, Steven!
(DIR) Post #A5g1pmfZEnZMTd9VnU by StealthWictor@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-28T18:23:04Z
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@StevenDouglas Amazing, global truths. Thank you for sharing this I want to save it somehow, because I know that I missed some knowledge from the sheer bulk of truthfulness.Godspeed Steven, your journey is a blessing and I am so happy to learn about it.
(DIR) Post #A5g3SF08RuafIwfsWG by 2020_DJT@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-28T18:41:13Z
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@prchrskd @StevenDouglas I do, as well. I believe we all love Steven. He is a blessing to us, as are many others. ❤️
(DIR) Post #A5gIbKlPtMUz5zaG5w by Jaesie@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-28T21:30:56Z
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@StevenDouglas Steven, I absolutely loved this thread and I thank you for sharing so much of your insights with us. Not only are your post educational, and I say this with my own intuitions, is they connect with exactly how I imagine you to be. You ARE the real deal!!!
(DIR) Post #A5gSIWUt2gppWeWNG4 by Linnie@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-28T23:19:35Z
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@StevenDouglas Oh my, this is amazing. My 67 y/o husband had a bully for a father (died in 2006). To this day, those same bullying types turn him inside out. I see it, but can do nothing to help him SEE!I’m forwarding this thread to him. Wonderful advice.
(DIR) Post #A5gVFLhZ1V2B2Od3D6 by MegasAlexandros@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-28T23:52:38Z
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@Linnie @StevenDouglas I attract them like a magnet. 😂
(DIR) Post #A5gbBqsrkIMWJYdBHk by StevenDouglas@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T00:59:14Z
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@Linnie My father, who I love very much, was a bully - a "Do pushups until I throw up" tyrant.His nightmares began at 8 when his mom died. So he was Amazing Dad to his children 8 and under.After that he was lost in a dark fog. He demanded the impossible and punished me for not reading his mind. He couldn't teach me, because "I should have known". When he tried to teach me the focus was on him, not the material. "Pay attention! Look at me! Oh, just get the hell away."So I understand.
(DIR) Post #A5gciGQEQlnmjyFyOO by Dawnz@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T01:16:17Z
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@StevenDouglas A great thread..☺️ 👍
(DIR) Post #A5geX2QgJaga48F3pI by StevenDouglas@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T01:36:40Z
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ADDENDA - adding as the moment strikes me."If you're nice to others, they'll be nice to you."LIE.And one of most pernicious. The "be nice to others" is right, but the reason and promised consequences, dead wrong. "You are going out as a lamb among wolves. Be wise a serpent, harmless as a dove."If you're nice others, SOME will be nice. Others indifferent. Others unkind. Other still, ABUSIVE.Be the same kind person TO EVERYONE - FOR YOU - as you have nothing to change. As a rule.
(DIR) Post #A5gfXVH1AnDzTiVWyG by MegasAlexandros@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T01:47:57Z
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@StevenDouglas People take kindness for foolishness.
(DIR) Post #A5gg29sGmhyA5SY6oy by FezzyWhig@noagendasocial.com
2021-03-29T01:53:30Z
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@StevenDouglas Yes, agree that is a lie because it’s not always true. Better to understand the reality of “like, attracts like”. It is true that if you are kind to other kind people, they will be attracted to you because of your similar demeanor. Same goes for ruffians. If you’re a prototypical Harley rider, you’re probably going to attract other Harley riders. You may attract a grand chess master, but odds are unlikely.
(DIR) Post #A5ggCGVwx5fTZnvda4 by FezzyWhig@noagendasocial.com
2021-03-29T01:55:20Z
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@StevenDouglas for the reality of what I’m saying, just look at the quodverum forum!
(DIR) Post #A5ggDLU9xH2vHebeam by StevenDouglas@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T01:55:31Z
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@MegasAlexandros And they mistake meekness for weakness. They are fools. They're taking exceptions as if they were the rule.In MOST cases, genuine kindness and meekness DOES rule. It has serious and powerful ramifications when applied uniformly.AND -- the exceptions MAGICALLY get fewer as you get better at it. Let the evil exceptions sort themselves out.And don't be a leftist. Don't live by rules that are tailored around the creepy exceptions. All it will do is attract more of them.
(DIR) Post #A5gjf9T6WkgXz63zLE by Linnie@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T02:34:09Z
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@StevenDouglas Oh my gosh, Steven, you and hubby practically had the same dad. I can’t believe what you just said. I remember him telling me that when he was around 10, his dad kept throwing the football harder and harder until it made him cry. I asked Why? Because he could...Thank you for your response. Breaks my heart to hear this. ❤️
(DIR) Post #A5gju6JaXAseY1jyi0 by StevenDouglas@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T02:36:51Z
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@jannadale Yes. From a wider view, being different things to different people means that you can be manipulated and controlled."I give as good as I get" makes one a NULL SET and a distorted reflection of others.
(DIR) Post #A5gkQSlcapEbRsHguG by StevenDouglas@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T02:42:43Z
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@Linnie ME: "What do I get if I do XYZ?"DAD: "Two thumps on your head if you don't." Hyuck hyuck. If Dad told me, "Go into the garage and get me the muffbobulaxor from the blue shitzanall container."The container likely won't be there. If it is, nothing he wanted will be in it. And I'll be in deep shit. After punishment, when he finally sees for himself that he's wrong, he'll take it out on me more. For some other reason, damn it, because I always...No win scenarios are hell.
(DIR) Post #A5gkg6RdM3bSqmOQQC by Lisa22@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T02:45:31Z
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@2020_DJT @prchrskd @StevenDouglas Yes, indeed!!
(DIR) Post #A5gknCGA8JrqucPTd2 by Beemer4Trump@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T02:46:49Z
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@StevenDouglas I continue tolearn and apply lessons to mylife. For the better! Thank youso much for this thread! 💕
(DIR) Post #A5go30xME4paLqqe3c by Cdubois@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T03:23:17Z
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@StevenDouglas Many words of wisdom here, brother. I was kind to someone who treated me very badly, and my biz partner was shocked. She asked me why ... I told her it had nothing to do with the other person, and everything to do with me. I was kind because of who I am, not who he is. 🌸
(DIR) Post #A5goo6MRwuJyiy2OvY by Cdubois@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T03:31:25Z
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@StevenDouglas This is it, in a nutshell. I am kind to everyone, not because of who they are, but because of who I am.I think having cruel or harshly demanding parents as we've had either makes one a bully, or causes one to dive deep, and come out the other side.You are clearly a deep diver, Steven, as am I. 🌼💞
(DIR) Post #A5gosHExRVDncjWZhw by Annasmom22@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T03:32:34Z
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@StevenDouglas There’s a problem I have! I bristle and flinch! I was brought up believing you do unto others as you would have them do u to you-but it never works that way so I react in disbelief that others don’t believe that way! Over the years I’ve accepted the fact people are in their own little world and they have no cares about others! Well-a lot of people anyway!
(DIR) Post #A5gplDTx7J09tYjdx2 by Lisa22@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T03:42:27Z
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@Annasmom22 @StevenDouglas See, this is what I think happened: in my WWII veteran relative's day, everyone was taught manners and to be polite and kind to another. Then the late 60s happened and it all got upended, leading to where we are now. My singing teacher is from that time as well, and she told me the same thing.
(DIR) Post #A5gpnsbnBGJS1efjZw by Lisa22@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T03:42:57Z
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@Annasmom22 @StevenDouglas See, this is what I think happened: in my WWII veteran relative's day, everyone was taught manners and to be polite and kind to another, as well as COMMON SENSE. Then the late 60s happened and it all got upended, leading to where we are now. My singing teacher is from that time as well, and she told me the same thing.
(DIR) Post #A5gpxmUam7Nhx81ebI by timr@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T03:44:45Z
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@Lisa22 My parents and grandparents said the same. The 60s were the pivotal decade@Annasmom22 @StevenDouglas
(DIR) Post #A5gq1620aOv1Q8EjeC by Lisa22@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T03:45:21Z
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@timr @Annasmom22 @StevenDouglas My singing teacher Sally said it went to H--- after the 60s. She wrinkled up her nose when she said that.
(DIR) Post #A5gqGQrbPmf8NFgLxY by oystergirl@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T03:48:06Z
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@Cdubois As am I Cee. No one ELSE gets to choose how I act. Only me, and I choose to be kind because that is my nature. If someone decides against that... I walk away because they do NOT deserve my energy. Energy is neither positive or negative, and people will TRY to get it out of you either way. I only interact with those I choose to interact with. No one steals my energy. Period. STRONG personal boundaries are IMPORTANT and WORTH the effort! @StevenDouglas
(DIR) Post #A5h1gswyi7poVa0rWC by NSP@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T05:56:10Z
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@StevenDouglas Thank you so much for sharing all this. 🙏This was the thread I needed to read. I am in my own personal hell at the moment, brought on by a debilitating hormonal storm. If I can work on mastering these techniques *now*, I have a good feeling about the future. 🙂❤👊
(DIR) Post #A5h1rQ4gPV008Zdjge by NSP@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T05:58:03Z
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@StevenDouglas Thank you so much for sharing all this. 🙏This was the thread I needed to read. I am in my own personal hell at the moment, brought on by a debilitating hormonal storm. If I can work on mastering these techniques *now*, I have a good feeling about the future. 👊❤
(DIR) Post #A5h5sFbjDAsxmSkSUy by StevenDouglas@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T06:43:02Z
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@oystergirl Had a recent conversation with my brother about the concept of "self love".He said, "Okay, so God first, then yourself…""No. God first, then YOUR NEIGHBOR…AS yourself.""Okay, but you can't love others if you don't love yourself first, right?"A healthy sense of "other as self" REQUIRES that you ALSO be strong and partake AS WELL.Self love, practiced all over the world (nothing special), does not REQUIRE "other", which is treated as extra credit. @LuizLibonati @Linnie
(DIR) Post #A5h68jvaFW1SRztkKu by oystergirl@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T06:46:00Z
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@StevenDouglas Loving myself is loving my soul which is loving the gift of spirit given by God. It is the only thing given to me by God and it is my responsibility to love and care for it. This is my strong belief. What is given by God is sacred and should be treated as such. It's also the only thing I take with me when I leave. All else is of earth and passes away. @LuizLibonati @Linnie
(DIR) Post #A5h8r5cLAWhsMzAlV2 by oystergirl@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T07:16:26Z
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@StevenDouglas Being an example of what is possible in life. Beautiful. @yaxuec
(DIR) Post #A5hMyzEGCf7UEPZLWq by Annasmom22@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T09:54:43Z
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@timr @Lisa22 @StevenDouglas A lot of turmoil in the 60s!
(DIR) Post #A5hO9xlK63eGp1pd9U by Derbyrun@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T10:07:55Z
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@StevenDouglas. thank you for taking the time to write this thread. Shareable wisdom. You make a difference in this world. Bravo.
(DIR) Post #A5hQv9o9KSYvhQml9M by StevenDouglas@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T10:38:51Z
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@ikarith Exactly right. This is an excerpt that I cut for brevity:I used to work hard at it (and clumsy, so what), but a kind of "muscle memory" of sorts takes over and I don't even think about it now. It's just "The Way". Habit. Anything else would be alien to me now.
(DIR) Post #A5hRbPMlsDQ87E7tDs by stephanieanne@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T10:46:30Z
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@oystergirl @LuizLibonati @StevenDouglas @Linnie Easier said than done.
(DIR) Post #A5hRpdb7l2yEJ9co2y by stephanieanne@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T10:49:03Z
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@oystergirl @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie Girl, you're a wise woman. This place is sprinkled with such smart and wise individuals and I feel blessed to have found you all.
(DIR) Post #A5hS8MPZsca2VY9Tjk by StevenDouglas@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T10:52:26Z
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@SteveTuna It works. For many. It was part of the advice I was given by many a-well-intending. Which I couldn't take. My bullies were mostly older, real fighters, and nearly twice my weight.At thirteen I had a strange, irrational fear. I BELIEVED that if I ever hit someone in the head it would kill them. So I couldn't. And didn't. To anyone.For MANY the strength you're talking about, and the relative peace that really does come with it, is beyond their reach. This is the way for them.
(DIR) Post #A5hSQB6IfkjQdkdBbM by stephanieanne@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T10:55:40Z
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@Terramo @BlkLdyPatriot @StevenDouglas As did I. The wooden spoon was what my mother used. She was a somewhat odd woman who grew up with no father and resented me because I had one who loved me and showed it daily. A sweet man. She was ruthless with the spoon and usually reserved it for when Dad was away. I know she did the best she could but there wasn't much love between us.
(DIR) Post #A5hSVVl9I5UGA0HT5U by stephanieanne@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T10:56:38Z
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@Terramo @BlkLdyPatriot @StevenDouglas As did I and I've forgotten much of my growing up.. The wooden spoon was what my mother used. She was a somewhat odd woman who grew up with no father and resented me because I had one who loved me and showed it daily. A sweet man. She was ruthless with the spoon and usually reserved it for when Dad was away. I know she did the best she could but there wasn't much love between us.
(DIR) Post #A5hSe8vbXwjpxMHsA5 by stephanieanne@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T10:58:10Z
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@Cdubois @StevenDouglas I wish I was like you but alas...
(DIR) Post #A5hSyKZZxf2JrbbxeS by stephanieanne@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T11:01:50Z
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@NSP @StevenDouglas 🙏🙏🙏for you ❤
(DIR) Post #A5hT9kkixwdIFCGrJo by stephanieanne@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T11:03:54Z
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@SomeLadyInVirginia @StevenDouglas Damn, we must be sisters 😬
(DIR) Post #A5hTwkWabOS7j71T4C by StevenDouglas@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T11:12:45Z
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@stephanieanne @Terramo @BlkLdyPatriot It took a few patient years to help my wife understand what she was doing to her children, and her relationship with them, by reaching for a spoon or doing any kind of PARENTING OUT OF ANGER.My kids hurt PHYSICALLY from her, but not emotionally. The respect wasn't there. I have to be MUCH MORE careful, because my TINY discipline goes a LONG WAY - with feelings VERY HURT. Fortunately my wife saw the contrast and got it. Had to because my kids could.
(DIR) Post #A5hVKmWguZu4q45rlo by StevenDouglas@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T11:28:18Z
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@stephanieanne @SomeLadyInVirginia Yep. No pearls before swine. A herd of swine get even less.I won't even broach a subject with them when I know they're of a hive mind.If I'm there it's for reconnaissance. To listen carefully as they spill their blithering minds out."Really?""Hmm...""No, nothing. You may be onto something. Who am I?""Interesting.""Me? Oh, what do I know, I'm no expert.""Anybody want a muffin?"They're unreachable as a group so give them NOTHING.It's unsettling.
(DIR) Post #A5hZh8FZDttQOwzsEC by StevenDouglas@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T12:17:10Z
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Something I forgot to note.IN THE BEGINNING - because I was looking to REMOVE ALL THORNS and DEVELOP A THICK SKIN my friends were NOT my best sources.My rudest detractors were. They weren't out to build me up. They pulled no punches. They fricken NAILED me.With a list of ACTIONABLE CHANGES I could (AND DID) make. Which is what I needed/wanted.Eventually, they run out of material and are forced to reach for things that won't stick.That's how I knew I was becoming bullet-proof.
(DIR) Post #A5hafTQZcAX9SPuzGS by danaisle@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T12:28:04Z
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@StevenDouglas I like to say there are some games that can only be won by not playing.
(DIR) Post #A5hauHjRNh5LWlo17g by danaisle@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T12:30:45Z
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@StevenDouglas The best “new family” members arrive through the Law of Attraction. When you are being your best self, you draw others who are more like you.
(DIR) Post #A5hf3AR2HOuLJsgi9o by StevenDouglas@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T13:17:10Z
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@SteveTuna Yes. When my now-adult children were young I took them to train in Taekwondo (for style) and Kempo (close combat).The studio owner and I quickly became mutual mentors."No matter how good you get someone will always be bigger, faster, more powerful, better. Or better armed. That makes your way a lot more powerful than mine."He incorporated much of what I taught him into his training, because SO many of his students were there only to learn HOW TO AVOID FIGHTING altogether.
(DIR) Post #A5hgUIXqKro0FENAy8 by selah18@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T13:33:16Z
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@StevenDouglas I’ve experienced this to a degree I don’t like to admit from older children
(DIR) Post #A5hgfIXOhcgJPLPRxY by NSP@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T13:35:16Z
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@stephanieanne Thank you. 🙏❤
(DIR) Post #A5hgi1iZh72U6wwGLQ by StevenDouglas@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T13:35:46Z
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@SteveTuna "I discovered that the more proficient I became, the less I ever had to respond with violence, a paradox few will understand."SO KEY.When you're proficient YOU KNOW IT. That's CALMING. It emanates from you in ways that OTHERS CAN SENSE.FEARLESS CALMNESS IS UNSETTLING. To almost everyone. It's PRIMAL.Like I said, many impute physical superpowers to me that I don't have. OR NEED 99.999% of the time.Love this scene, where Drexyl (Gary Oldman) projects onto the REAL mystery.
(DIR) Post #A5hgmuS48as31UXrBA by WhirledPeas@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T13:36:38Z
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@StevenDouglas A wise old lday once told me "Save your nice for people who've shown they deserve it"
(DIR) Post #A5hgysZ8yVPqeJYzE8 by ChrisYork87@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T13:38:48Z
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@StevenDouglas check this out 🤔 https://www.businessinsider.com/kamala-harris-washington-dc-residence-naval-observatory-renovations-2021-3?amp
(DIR) Post #A5hhmWi6VVTdLRQbWi by StevenDouglas@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T13:47:47Z
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@WhirledPeas I went the polar opposite route. Give kindness to everyone. Save wrath for those who demonstrate that there is no viable alternative.Most people are just stupid. Undeveloped. Trained in stupid ways. I can overlook and/or work with that.VERY FEW are pure evil. When I spot them I go ice cold. MORE CALM than ever so that TIME STANDS STILL - and I can think and process information at faster than light speed.
(DIR) Post #A5hhzVDRNKGYTSGyzg by StevenDouglas@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T13:50:07Z
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@ChrisYork87 Many choose to dismiss or ignore that as something petty or meaningless. Par for some course.I can't, won't, don't.
(DIR) Post #A5hiu3R9KSR4pFeR7I by NSP@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T14:00:20Z
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@StevenDouglas Pruned like a bonsai tree.
(DIR) Post #A5hjCK7q1JCHnSKVoe by NSP@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T14:03:38Z
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@Cdubois @StevenDouglas Amen, and here's to the deep divers. 👊
(DIR) Post #A5hjsn7Ad495rrGepM by Linnie@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T14:11:19Z
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@StevenDouglas >Jaw drops>Unbelievable! You have survived and become quite a wonderful man!
(DIR) Post #A5hkrXmsELCBzlk8gK by StevenDouglas@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T14:22:18Z
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@WhirledPeas This might as well be me. He's doing exactly as I've done before. I walked into a Chinese nightclub and ordered a drink as a VIOLENT outbreak occurred between Chinese bouncers and a table full of young strong expats, some of whom I knew.As the Chinese bums rushed them outside for a brawl, I protected my drink.A girl who saw me yelled, "THERE'S ONE!"With one Obi Wan slow shake of the head and "not the rioter you're looking for" hand wave, she sat slowly down, bewildered.
(DIR) Post #A5hkxBHQpA0bvbiyGW by SkyePuppy@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T14:23:19Z
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@StevenDouglas Your realizations remind me of my favorite quote from the movie, "Harvey":Years ago my mother used to say to me, she'd say, "In this world, Elwood, you must be" - she always called me Elwood - "In this world, Elwood, you must be oh so smart or oh so pleasant." Well, for years I was smart. I recommend pleasant. You may quote me.
(DIR) Post #A5hla3mGeWedx8gcvA by NSP@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T14:30:21Z
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@StevenDouglas @WhirledPeas I love this. It's the knowledge that you *can* defend yourself if you have to that allows such a calm presence.Beyond that, keep your blood away from my fries.
(DIR) Post #A5hluVK5wrXhAxG23E by StevenDouglas@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T14:34:02Z
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@NSP @WhirledPeas Then you go one further: Can a TRULY CALM presence exist in the ABSENCE of the ability to defend?And the answer is a resounding yes. It absolutely can - with the same effect. Why is that not an ABSOLUTE GUARANTEE that nothing bad will happen to you?Because nothing is. Not even the supreme ability to defend.
(DIR) Post #A5hnO3jXBsTIFWoUjI by WhirledPeas@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T14:50:35Z
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@StevenDouglas I'm friendly - but have codependent tendencies, and spent too much of my life helping those who either won't take basic steps to help themselves or who willfully live lives taking advantage of others. It's like some of us have targets only emotional vampires can see. It takes an effort of will to "save one's niceness" for those who deserve or have earned trust going beyond mere friendliness. The other choice seems to go hermit, and not attempt to build emotional connections
(DIR) Post #A5hocrmhzwVXUMvGoC by WhirledPeas@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T15:04:28Z
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@StevenDouglas @NSP I was taught, from a young age, to not so much as flinch when being beaten. To not cry out to loudly, to not cry, to accept whatever punishments were doled out, and to accept the blame for what was done to me.My brother wound up addicted to drugs. My sister developed schizophrenia.I know how to calmly stand in a hurricane of pain, danger, disappointment, and suffering.What I do not know, is how to naturally recognize the truly evil ones - have had to learn to do so
(DIR) Post #A5hojPkybUMOaZEcTY by StevenDouglas@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T15:05:39Z
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@WhirledPeas Here's one I'll put in a metaphor for all dangerous users, both witting and unwitting.You swim over to save a drowning victim. They cling to your neck and hold you under as they try to use you as a flotation device. You CAN'T dislodge them, their adrenaline has given them superhuman strength. Now you're both going to drown (which happens a lot).What do you do?GO DEEP. SINK LIKE A ROCK. SWIM WHERE THEY FEAR TO GO. They will let go - once you've proved USELESS TO THEM.
(DIR) Post #A5horqAYHoyup3DPoO by Monadnock@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T15:07:10Z
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@StevenDouglas I like this Steven, thank you for taking the time to post it.
(DIR) Post #A5hphLO5yc2WPh6oim by WhirledPeas@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T15:16:29Z
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@StevenDouglas My learned response to those folks: immediate emotional amputation. Cauterize, and move on. Better yet, is to attempt to recognize and avoid in the first place.I simply lack the innate ability to separate the wheat from the chaff, friend.
(DIR) Post #A5hq1LFoBQCHn4lhxY by StevenDouglas@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T15:20:05Z
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@WhirledPeas @NSP Nothing wrong with that. And words often get in the way. I say "kindness" and everyone imagines it differently - mostly in terms of sentimental expressions of free-for-all friendliness - no borders or boundaries.Kindness can take many forms - WITHOUT ANY EMOTION. NO OVERT FRIENDLINESS EVEN.One of the kindest people I ever knew was Mrs. Davis who lived next door in '73.Beloved by all, and she verbally abused EVERYONE. As she cared for them with even louder actions.
(DIR) Post #A5hqZOvH36gX0zP8Ai by StevenDouglas@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T15:26:15Z
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@WhirledPeas @NSP Or how about our beloved-by-so-many (including me) Thomas Wictor. He'll fuck people up. And the wise will love him for it.So, while goodness is a one-size-fits-all PRINCIPLE, it can take on a zillion forms. Work with what you've got!
(DIR) Post #A5hqmMxBgJwEfkU0mG by StevenDouglas@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T15:28:35Z
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@WhirledPeas Now you've given me something to ponder, thank you.
(DIR) Post #A5hr3LUCOJQN2m1EHo by StevenDouglas@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T15:31:40Z
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@WhirledPeas "My learned response to those folks: immediate emotional amputation. Cauterize, and move on."NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT.
(DIR) Post #A5hsgT0YSVEhcWN5Zg by WhirledPeas@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T15:49:56Z
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@StevenDouglas @NSP "words get in the way" - agree 100%!Learning about E Prime helped me to understand how language itself can actively interfere with effective communicationKindness to me reflects the action of helping others. Was a hard lesson to learn that often the best way to help others, comes from inaction - leaving them no choice but to try to help themselves, else they stay stuck. A cruel kindness, but valuable to those who learn to earn their own way as opposed to helplessness
(DIR) Post #A5hwYhg0RA9Cc8JUzQ by 2020_DJT@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T16:33:21Z
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@StevenDouglas You are incredibly, intuitively psychologically healthy. You never cease to amaze me with what you've learned and honed. You're living your best life. We should all be so blessed. And yet, it's certainly not all from being blessed. You've worked very hard throughout your life to arrive here. Again, I'm in awe.There are individuals who would need countless years of psychotherapy to get close to this and may not even reach this level of self-awareness.
(DIR) Post #A5hxlnYC0cPYYCT0E4 by masterblaster@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T16:46:55Z
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@stephanieanne @oystergirl @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie Then there’s me😄
(DIR) Post #A5hxpx6oPfoBLzdmMq by StevenDouglas@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T16:47:41Z
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@LuizLibonati Been thinking about this one and have to credit my dad. Like his mother until he turned eight, HE WAS A *PERFECT* FATHER TO ME until I was nine.Like, Leave It To Beaver dad. Idyllic childhood until then.That carried me through. That contrast is what allowed me to see that his "sudden change" was not him, but a macabre aberration - WHICH I NEVER ACCEPTED.Likewise, it didn't matter how many buggy whip lashings he took from his monster.He remembered his life before that.
(DIR) Post #A5hy6fnA3BFyZLQED2 by StevenDouglas@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T16:50:42Z
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@LuizLibonati And that is what Big Daddy Donald Trump has accomplished with all of us. Democrats have NO WAY TO NORMALIZE what is happening now.No matter what they do, WE REMEMBER WHAT WE HAD BEFORE THE ZOMBIES SWARMED.We can never forget, will never forget. There's no going back.And that's why THEY ARE SCREWED NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS.
(DIR) Post #A5hyORncoSPuNu79vc by StevenDouglas@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T16:53:55Z
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@LuizLibonati And that is what Big Daddy Donald Trump has accomplished with all of us. Democrats have NO WAY TO NORMALIZE what is happening now.No matter what they do, WE REMEMBER WHAT WE HAD BEFORE THE ZOMBIES SWARMED.We can never forget, will never forget. There's no going back.And that's why THEY ARE SCREWED NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS.They must beware.For we on honeydew hath fed, and drunk the milk of paradise.
(DIR) Post #A5hzuRmkV6bzYsWkgy by stephanieanne@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T17:10:53Z
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@masterblaster Yes indeed Masterblaster!!!!
(DIR) Post #A5i1khIu9Dvahj2wgC by StevenDouglas@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T17:31:33Z
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@danaisle you wrote: "I like to say there are some games that can only be won by not playing."Yes. Perhaps most. I've heard it said, "Choose your friends like you do your books; few, but choice."Substitute the word books for battles, debates, conversations, WORDS even - and it applies all the more.Less is always more.
(DIR) Post #A5i7UkAKL8e4ffoIaW by oystergirl@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T18:35:53Z
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@stephanieanne Big hugs and love Stephanie. YOU are also wise and wonderful! ❤️
(DIR) Post #A5i7XmF74cBDyxUm9I by stephanieanne@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T18:36:26Z
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@oystergirl Hugs back to you OysterGirl. ❤️
(DIR) Post #A5i7Y6974dGRi8qGZc by oystergirl@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T18:36:30Z
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@masterblaster Love you Master!!!! ❤️
(DIR) Post #A5i7kxFjRx7dtT4J2e by Mongo3804@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T18:38:49Z
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@stephanieanne Ditto!@oystergirl @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie
(DIR) Post #A5i8EQa7U80BFlesyG by 2020_DJT@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T18:44:09Z
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@masterblaster @stephanieanne @oystergirl @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie Knock it off, buddy. We know better. If "then there's me" is true, then we can't even talk about me. It's all about geometry and proving triangles congruent. 🤣
(DIR) Post #A5i8L0IVbgLDlIYaAK by stephanieanne@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T18:45:19Z
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@2020_DJT @masterblaster @oystergirl @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie
(DIR) Post #A5i8SkrWsVYuCudKOO by StevenDouglas@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T18:46:44Z
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@stephanieanne @2020_DJT @masterblaster @oystergirl @LuizLibonati @Linnie Pfft! Like I'm not your fellow retard.
(DIR) Post #A5i8YXax7Qc6nSdetd by oystergirl@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T18:47:46Z
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@StevenDouglas When we realize that none of us are perfect and all of us have spaz moments, myself included, life gets much easier! @stephanieanne @2020_DJT @masterblaster @LuizLibonati @Linnie
(DIR) Post #A5i8kyUYwUcJguZwTg by 2020_DJT@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T18:50:01Z
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@StevenDouglas Well, the enlightened fellow retard, then. ❤️ @stephanieanne @masterblaster @oystergirl @LuizLibonati @Linnie
(DIR) Post #A5i8qXQaTlQjUUN8gC by stephanieanne@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T18:51:01Z
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@2020_DJT Enlightened for sure and sharing it with us liberally.
(DIR) Post #A5i8qg3sNZbwGeod1s by watch4thedrop@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T18:51:02Z
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@stephanieanne @2020_DJT @masterblaster @oystergirl @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie i'm so dumb, i can't even pass a blood test.
(DIR) Post #A5i8qyMGLx0v0tYZBg by StevenDouglas@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T18:51:07Z
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@oystergirl @stephanieanne @2020_DJT @masterblaster @LuizLibonati @Linnie I don't care how advanced any of us gets relative to one another. Relative to eternity and what's possible - we're all preschoolers. With our cute little crayons and fingerpaints and smocks and whatnot.Cute!Hubris becomes not one of us.
(DIR) Post #A5i8tYOxJcElNa2ybA by 2020_DJT@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T18:51:35Z
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@watch4thedrop @stephanieanne @masterblaster @oystergirl @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie That's because you didn't study for it. 😎
(DIR) Post #A5i8yzTY599OnPmu2q by 2020_DJT@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T18:52:34Z
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@StevenDouglas @oystergirl @stephanieanne @masterblaster @LuizLibonati @Linnie Oh, my God. This is pure brilliance! Indeed, hubris becomes not one of us.
(DIR) Post #A5i92PdpFrL0ogE6Uq by stephanieanne@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T18:53:11Z
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@watch4thedrop I seriously doubt that, Drop.
(DIR) Post #A5i98uWJMRmaK4oIEa by stephanieanne@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T18:54:21Z
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@StevenDouglas I have a friend who was special forces in Nam and "died" twice. He says when we do in fact die, we "graduate".I like that.
(DIR) Post #A5i9PxPnqncyDytWL2 by seeker@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T18:57:26Z
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@StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati I have such strong and good memories of my early childhood.On which followed a chaotic life (german kid born after the war).My father loved me, but he could not prevent this happening to me. But I managed to come back and take care for him the last years of his life.And I think this love is the reason, why I could discover and love the greates american president in history. Even with my history of "ami go home". Come a long way.
(DIR) Post #A5i9YbIZRuKAEldJTs by watch4thedrop@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T18:59:00Z
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@stephanieanne http://gif.co/bw9Cb.gif
(DIR) Post #A5i9hF1Pdv55kljB9U by stephanieanne@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T19:00:34Z
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@watch4thedrop 🤣 😂 I loved that series. I may have to watch it again.
(DIR) Post #A5i9o3ONHQC3iBiTWy by oystergirl@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T19:01:47Z
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@StevenDouglas ABSOLUTELY!!!! Why do you think we all still feel like little kids inside ourselves? Because WE ARE! @stephanieanne @2020_DJT @masterblaster @LuizLibonati @Linnie
(DIR) Post #A5i9zym0HLCArTSHSa by Mongo3804@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T19:03:56Z
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@watch4thedrop Nope. Being here on qv is proof that's not so@stephanieanne @2020_DJT @masterblaster @oystergirl @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie
(DIR) Post #A5iA6LldhSbdujK4ES by 2020_DJT@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T19:05:06Z
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@Mongo3804 @watch4thedrop @stephanieanne @masterblaster @oystergirl @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie Drop and his faux hubris. 🤣
(DIR) Post #A5iAFYTdoaUHwGIFxA by watch4thedrop@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T19:06:45Z
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@2020_DJT @Mongo3804 @stephanieanne @masterblaster @oystergirl @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie
(DIR) Post #A5iAHBT6Kd4H9pokdM by watch4thedrop@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T19:07:03Z
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@stephanieanne is it on netflix?
(DIR) Post #A5iAIeKkUrSQyHbrkW by 2020_DJT@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T19:07:17Z
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@watch4thedrop @Mongo3804 @stephanieanne @masterblaster @oystergirl @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie 🤣 😘
(DIR) Post #A5iAtt7oSw4rYoJdei by oystergirl@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T19:14:02Z
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@watch4thedrop You fit in like all of us square pegs into round holes!!!!! Screw the holes! 😜 @2020_DJT @Mongo3804 @stephanieanne @masterblaster @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie
(DIR) Post #A5iB78sfCKNSBrY9AG by Mongo3804@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T19:16:26Z
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@masterblaster You sir have been on my favorites list for quite awhile now! Strange that nearly all my favorite social media folks are right here at Quodverum. This place has magic!👍👍👍👍@stephanieanne @oystergirl @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie
(DIR) Post #A5iBA4lAyWWsHLRjlI by watch4thedrop@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T19:16:58Z
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@oystergirl @2020_DJT @Mongo3804 @stephanieanne @masterblaster @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie i 100% wholeheartedly agree....with the last 3 words. 😉
(DIR) Post #A5iBKodPGk2XS6vw7E by Mongo3804@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T19:18:55Z
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@watch4thedropI still think you me and hector are kinfolk😂😂😂😂 @oystergirl @2020_DJT @stephanieanne @masterblaster @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie
(DIR) Post #A5iBOI940Q6zqYOkoC by 2020_DJT@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T19:19:32Z
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@Mongo3804 @watch4thedrop @oystergirl @stephanieanne @masterblaster @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie 🤣 Something like that, apparently.
(DIR) Post #A5iBRQnWIBkDYConnk by watch4thedrop@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T19:20:06Z
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@Mongo3804 @oystergirl @2020_DJT @stephanieanne @masterblaster @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie would be a hell of a guys night if we ever got together in a room with a few bottles of tequila#nohomo
(DIR) Post #A5iBVEzO8dSu5MBc48 by 2020_DJT@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T19:20:48Z
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@watch4thedrop @Mongo3804 @oystergirl @stephanieanne @masterblaster @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie The infamous #nohomo . 🤣
(DIR) Post #A5iBgnosym5pIPmqjw by watch4thedrop@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T19:22:53Z
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@2020_DJT @Mongo3804 @oystergirl @stephanieanne @masterblaster @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie Since hector went off the grid, that hashtag has been as lonely and unused as hillary clinton.
(DIR) Post #A5iBj186Sprt9gpdDM by 2020_DJT@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T19:23:17Z
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@watch4thedrop @Mongo3804 @oystergirl @stephanieanne @masterblaster @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie He will answer if you @ him.
(DIR) Post #A5iBnIreT8lFJhBFVA by 2020_DJT@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T19:24:03Z
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@watch4thedrop @Mongo3804 @oystergirl @stephanieanne @masterblaster @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie 🤣
(DIR) Post #A5iBsQ0TLFAkuqkGlE by watch4thedrop@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T19:24:59Z
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@2020_DJT @Mongo3804 @oystergirl @stephanieanne @masterblaster @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie A king doesnt @ people. he gets @ by people.~vivaldi?
(DIR) Post #A5iBxVHNAKrIiU4iKu by 2020_DJT@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T19:25:54Z
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@watch4thedrop @Mongo3804 @oystergirl @stephanieanne @masterblaster @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie Vivaldi? Yeah, you might want that # again. You've summoned him a few times lately. 🤣
(DIR) Post #A5iC5WSCgLpafzxsie by watch4thedrop@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T19:27:21Z
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@2020_DJT @Mongo3804 @oystergirl @stephanieanne @masterblaster @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie This is the first time I've ever quoted himhttp://gif.co/xM97.gif
(DIR) Post #A5iC8WxVGHNz6w2VKS by 2020_DJT@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T19:27:54Z
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@watch4thedrop @Mongo3804 @oystergirl @stephanieanne @masterblaster @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie I saw one yesterday - at most 2 days ago!
(DIR) Post #A5iCG1iLJOYOWZWSky by watch4thedrop@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T19:29:15Z
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@2020_DJT @Mongo3804 @oystergirl @stephanieanne @masterblaster @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie Your memory is lightyears better than the president of the united states.
(DIR) Post #A5iCKV0gKgoOXfEWIa by 2020_DJT@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T19:30:03Z
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@watch4thedrop @Mongo3804 @oystergirl @stephanieanne @masterblaster @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie While I appreciate that, it really isn't saying much is it? HAHAHA!
(DIR) Post #A5iCKpPWU2Z9oV0dnM by KodiakIsland@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T19:30:07Z
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@StevenDouglasStephen this was a very enlightening statement and a light went blinking in my head. Bingo... I now understand so much about my ex husband who lost his mom as a child and why there are areas that make no sense in his actions. I realize he equated her dying of cancer to abandonment. He loved her very much but I surmise he felt she left him even though it was through no fault of her own. @Linnie
(DIR) Post #A5iCRujD6yA0Kgb3vk by Mongo3804@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T19:31:24Z
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@watch4thedrop Prolly end up in jail,,,again😂😂😂😂@oystergirl @2020_DJT @stephanieanne @masterblaster @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie
(DIR) Post #A5iCfmiDiAMhWekPmi by Mongo3804@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T19:33:54Z
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@2020_DJT👍😂😝😂😝😂 @watch4thedrop @oystergirl @stephanieanne @masterblaster @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie
(DIR) Post #A5iCqVEn1QxGVx5njk by watch4thedrop@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T19:35:49Z
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@Mongo3804 @oystergirl @2020_DJT @stephanieanne @masterblaster @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie that's fine. need to up my street credit a bit anyways. rap record sales been a little slow lately.
(DIR) Post #A5iDJnwWYSyQvTWN1s by barrsniffsatjejuneanalysis@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T19:41:08Z
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@stephanieanne In older southern slang, I'm "your huckleberry", = the right person for this job/moment.Am fond of all huckleberry Quods, who do not wait to be perfect, but try real hard to be civil and thoughtful while continuing to meaningfully engage and post. Even if we make a mistake/bad moment. "There by the Grace of God go I..." realizations abound for me.So enjoy fellowship with you all. @2020_DJT @masterblaster @oystergirl @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie @watch4thedrop
(DIR) Post #A5iEY4jb1NWP0oqJvc by barrsniffsatjejuneanalysis@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T19:54:55Z
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@StevenDouglas @oystergirl @stephanieanne @2020_DJT @masterblaster @LuizLibonati @Linnie @watch4thedrop Awesome! You are great cover as I am over here painting the wall -and my face - with permanent Sharpie marker before Mom comes in. And yes, that is butter in my hair... so? https://youtu.be/TfVQsE45xeM
(DIR) Post #A5iEZEq8vzXWdySZ84 by barrsniffsatjejuneanalysis@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T19:55:07Z
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@StevenDouglas @oystergirl @stephanieanne @2020_DJT @masterblaster @LuizLibonati @Linnie @watch4thedrop Awesome! You are great cover as I am over here painting the wall -and my face - with permanent Sharpie marker before Mom comes in. And yes, that is butter in my hair... so? https://youtu.be/TfVQsE45xeM
(DIR) Post #A5iEafj8SFogK0rj3w by barrsniffsatjejuneanalysis@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T19:55:23Z
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@StevenDouglas @oystergirl @stephanieanne @2020_DJT @masterblaster @LuizLibonati @Linnie @watch4thedrop Awesome! You are great cover as I am over here painting the wall -and my face - with permanent Sharpie marker before Mom comes in. And yes, that is butter in my hair... so? https://youtu.be/TfVQsE45xeM
(DIR) Post #A5iFNFUklzzR9dIloe by stephanieanne@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T20:04:10Z
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@barrsniffsatjejuneanalysis @2020_DJT @masterblaster @oystergirl @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie @watch4thedrop AMEN sista!
(DIR) Post #A5iFR543Uo37xkdoFE by watch4thedrop@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T20:04:51Z
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@barrsniffsatjejuneanalysis @oystergirl @StevenDouglas @stephanieanne @2020_DJT @masterblaster @LuizLibonati @Linnie A+ D ointment for diaper rashes.
(DIR) Post #A5iFWzs1ihUbaipswq by watch4thedrop@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T20:05:56Z
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@oystergirl @barrsniffsatjejuneanalysis @StevenDouglas @stephanieanne @2020_DJT @masterblaster @LuizLibonati @Linnie y'all high class lol. i just use generic white petrolatum jelly
(DIR) Post #A5iFtxKbKIs4NQ9IY4 by oystergirl@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T20:10:04Z
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@watch4thedrop You got it Drop! @barrsniffsatjejuneanalysis @StevenDouglas @stephanieanne @2020_DJT @masterblaster @LuizLibonati @Linnie
(DIR) Post #A5iFyjSILOu4n01cdU by oystergirl@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T20:10:56Z
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@watch4thedrop I used Butt Paste with Zinc in it. My kids rarely had diaper rash. This was at a friend's house in Jereeeesy! @barrsniffsatjejuneanalysis @StevenDouglas @stephanieanne @2020_DJT @masterblaster @LuizLibonati @Linnie
(DIR) Post #A5iG8wNv7yWPmjqZCS by watch4thedrop@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T20:12:47Z
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@oystergirl @barrsniffsatjejuneanalysis @StevenDouglas @stephanieanne @2020_DJT @masterblaster @LuizLibonati @Linnie Joizy*
(DIR) Post #A5iGHd9027qoiY0lH6 by oystergirl@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T20:14:22Z
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@watch4thedrop You got it!!!! 😜 @barrsniffsatjejuneanalysis @StevenDouglas @stephanieanne @2020_DJT @masterblaster @LuizLibonati @Linnie
(DIR) Post #A5iGKsTrT8y99SJlCK by 2020_DJT@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T20:14:57Z
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@watch4thedrop @oystergirl @barrsniffsatjejuneanalysis @StevenDouglas @stephanieanne @masterblaster @LuizLibonati @Linnie Joe Piscopo! "I'm from Joizy!"
(DIR) Post #A5iGSQBGZUAjhJDWBk by barrsniffsatjejuneanalysis@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T20:16:18Z
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@watch4thedrop @oystergirl @StevenDouglas @stephanieanne @2020_DJT @masterblaster @LuizLibonati @Linnie 😂 Is it colored? And... Oyster's - our awesome Quod who does not even like oysters - from a recently seen convo - gals had and likely have her same spunk. In 1st grade in Georgia around 1974, my teacher complained that I could, but would not, color in the lines with my crayons on color pages. I "embellished" with designs. In a rare moment of push back, Mom wrote to them: "So?"
(DIR) Post #A5iGdj9kMSTjjathdw by barrsniffsatjejuneanalysis@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T20:18:21Z
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@watch4thedrop @oystergirl @StevenDouglas @stephanieanne @2020_DJT @masterblaster @LuizLibonati @Linnie Their ya go. Can translate and even pronounce that.
(DIR) Post #A5iJ6QnRtuMX6DHaNM by watch4thedrop@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T20:45:56Z
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@2020_DJT @LeeRiddell @oystergirl @barrsniffsatjejuneanalysis @StevenDouglas @stephanieanne @masterblaster @LuizLibonati @Linnie desitin is 5 bucks for 2 ounces. generic white petroleum is 1.50 dollar for 4 ounces. http://gph.is/29pLg6y
(DIR) Post #A5iJBaP3bwzQLEKcme by LeeRiddell@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T20:46:52Z
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@watch4thedrop @2020_DJT @oystergirl @barrsniffsatjejuneanalysis @StevenDouglas @stephanieanne @masterblaster @LuizLibonati @Linnie Just my experience. Vaseline or A&D did not work on my baby's butt.
(DIR) Post #A5iJfKdKo65C7VC436 by watch4thedrop@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T20:52:16Z
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@barrsniffsatjejuneanalysis @LeeRiddell @2020_DJT @oystergirl @StevenDouglas @stephanieanne @masterblaster @LuizLibonati @Linnie imo, threads about food, kids/pets, and 80's music/shows go for the longest on this forum
(DIR) Post #A5iK2QTbFVAItzeVge by oystergirl@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T20:56:26Z
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@watch4thedrop You got that right. No matter where they start, they seem to go off topic fast and fun! @barrsniffsatjejuneanalysis @LeeRiddell @2020_DJT
(DIR) Post #A5iKkapw5hu5m9A0dE by barrsniffsatjejuneanalysis@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T21:04:24Z
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@watch4thedrop @LeeRiddell @2020_DJT @oystergirl @StevenDouglas @stephanieanne @masterblaster @LuizLibonati @Linnie Yes. So?❤️
(DIR) Post #A5iM4FMDlBTqu9CGjg by watch4thedrop@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T21:19:10Z
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@oystergirl @barrsniffsatjejuneanalysis @LeeRiddell @2020_DJT you forgot "handsome"http://gif.co/OClw.gif
(DIR) Post #A5iM9pzsxgnNzMPpb6 by 2020_DJT@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T21:20:10Z
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@watch4thedrop @oystergirl @barrsniffsatjejuneanalysis @LeeRiddell We all thought that was a given, Drop.
(DIR) Post #A5iMGvfuFaFpcoS5Xk by AngryDuey@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T21:21:06Z
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@StevenDouglas This thread brings to mind a song:https://youtu.be/4iyyhnNIKe4
(DIR) Post #A5iNMpHh1UOVUrVCIS by Jaime@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T21:33:44Z
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@oystergirl @2020_DJT @LeeRiddell @watch4thedrop @barrsniffsatjejuneanalysis @StevenDouglas @stephanieanne @masterblaster @LuizLibonati @Linnie Have no idea how the thread started. My vote is for Balmex.
(DIR) Post #A5iNYXc0YQ1MA6afku by watch4thedrop@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T21:35:50Z
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@2020_DJT @barrsniffsatjejuneanalysis @oystergirl @LeeRiddell yeah now if you can all move to the bronx, i can start saving on daycare.
(DIR) Post #A5iO5yPbvuqQpxjXjk by barrsniffsatjejuneanalysis@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T21:41:53Z
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@Jaime @oystergirl @2020_DJT @LeeRiddell @watch4thedrop @StevenDouglas @stephanieanne @masterblaster @LuizLibonati @Linnie 👍 😂
(DIR) Post #A5iOPSmPFcqqWTgnyq by barrsniffsatjejuneanalysis@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T21:45:25Z
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@watch4thedrop @2020_DJT @oystergirl @LeeRiddell Nevah. At least in current state.
(DIR) Post #A5iOZdl9Hdm5TIxD7o by 2020_DJT@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T21:47:15Z
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@watch4thedrop @barrsniffsatjejuneanalysis @oystergirl @LeeRiddell It will take me 4 hours and 6 minutes to get from my house to the Bronx. Say the word when you need to.
(DIR) Post #A5iOrTnB52YzlsPRq4 by Jaime@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T21:50:28Z
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@barrsniffsatjejuneanalysis @oystergirl @2020_DJT @LeeRiddell @watch4thedrop @StevenDouglas @stephanieanne @masterblaster @LuizLibonati @Linnie 😁
(DIR) Post #A5iRAXSHswFgXgr0k4 by watch4thedrop@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T22:16:19Z
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@oystergirl @barrsniffsatjejuneanalysis @2020_DJT @LeeRiddell I got two words for you.democratswait.. *counts in head*
(DIR) Post #A5iRQM59wBe1u2ZtOC by stephanieanne@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T22:19:11Z
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@oystergirl @2020_DJT @LeeRiddell @watch4thedrop @barrsniffsatjejuneanalysis @StevenDouglas @masterblaster @LuizLibonati @Linnie I used Desitin.
(DIR) Post #A5iRZOveisNZL1Rixk by barrsniffsatjejuneanalysis@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T22:20:49Z
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@watch4thedrop @oystergirl @2020_DJT @LeeRiddell Um. That was ONE word. Stallion.
(DIR) Post #A5iRlamwSIbvavBRL6 by watch4thedrop@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T22:23:01Z
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@2020_DJT @barrsniffsatjejuneanalysis @oystergirl @LeeRiddell https://gph.is/g/E0pod5y
(DIR) Post #A5iRqDdzvszFGICqkC by 2020_DJT@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T22:23:52Z
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@watch4thedrop @barrsniffsatjejuneanalysis @oystergirl @LeeRiddell 🤣 🏇
(DIR) Post #A5iT2WuyCOxgT2ZxJI by watch4thedrop@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T22:37:17Z
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@Scarletteverb @barrsniffsatjejuneanalysis @2020_DJT @oystergirl @LeeRiddell as long as you bring 2 hot friends, i don't care who you show up with and how sober you are
(DIR) Post #A5iTb3uI3LYwcvj8zo by Scarletteverb@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T22:43:32Z
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@watch4thedrop @barrsniffsatjejuneanalysis @2020_DJT @oystergirl @LeeRiddell Only the hottest for you, Drop!
(DIR) Post #A5iU9xL0T79MO9rWRE by watch4thedrop@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T22:49:51Z
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@Scarletteverb @barrsniffsatjejuneanalysis @2020_DJT @oystergirl @LeeRiddell http://gif.co/bfwIA.gif
(DIR) Post #A5iUWe2CP77XBGsrxo by Scarletteverb@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T22:53:56Z
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@watch4thedrop @barrsniffsatjejuneanalysis @2020_DJT @oystergirl @LeeRiddell Yes!!!
(DIR) Post #A5iV1rLaxPNXRlqBLE by Dawnz@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T22:59:35Z
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@barrsniffsatjejuneanalysis @StevenDouglas @oystergirl @stephanieanne @2020_DJT @masterblaster @LuizLibonati @Linnie @watch4thedrop @barrsniffsatjejuneanalysis I laughed so hard.. I need to catch my breath 😂 😂 😂
(DIR) Post #A5iVnTiM7vc03DC2eu by Davel495@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T23:08:11Z
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@Scarletteverb @watch4thedrop @barrsniffsatjejuneanalysis @2020_DJT @oystergirl @LeeRiddell One of yours is he??
(DIR) Post #A5iWa9OWSqzRDf7okS by barrsniffsatjejuneanalysis@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T23:16:59Z
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@Dawnz Me too
(DIR) Post #A5iZAvSPRguUcHbfiC by Mongo3804@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T23:46:02Z
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@watch4thedrop 😂😂😂Round up hector and lets get to it!@oystergirl @2020_DJT @stephanieanne @masterblaster @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie
(DIR) Post #A5iZosrCX3X08TFwkS by oystergirl@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-29T23:53:15Z
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@Mongo3804 Where is Hector anyway? @HectorHeathcote @watch4thedrop @2020_DJT @stephanieanne @masterblaster @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie
(DIR) Post #A5iaQoJVsA6L35aFmK by Mongo3804@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-30T00:00:07Z
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@oystergirl I dunno. Haven't seen him in a while. He may be locked up! @HectorHeathcote @watch4thedrop @2020_DJT @stephanieanne @masterblaster @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie
(DIR) Post #A5iafDPPMmQCvyD4Rk by stephanieanne@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-30T00:02:43Z
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@oystergirl @Mongo3804 @HectorHeathcote @watch4thedrop @2020_DJT @masterblaster @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie Truly, haven't seen him lately.🤔
(DIR) Post #A5iazkV62eMlMFf5Y8 by 2020_DJT@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-30T00:06:25Z
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@Mongo3804 @oystergirl @HectorHeathcote @watch4thedrop @stephanieanne @masterblaster @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie TCB! If you say @HectorHeathcote 3 times...he oftentimes shows up. He's mysterious that way. 🤣
(DIR) Post #A5ioxpGaNEoQs2OBJQ by HectorHeathcote@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-30T02:30:43Z
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@watch4thedrop And you've really pissed s off this time@masterblaster @stephanieanne @2020_DJT @oystergirl @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie
(DIR) Post #A5iozN1gLFvrrc9dPU by watch4thedrop@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-30T02:19:20Z
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@selah18 @HectorHeathcote Oh and i suppose you and moms never danced to the song i posted?http://gif.co/Oxib.gif
(DIR) Post #A5ip2F5OJsfE6fG6u8 by watch4thedrop@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-30T02:21:37Z
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@HectorHeathcote @selah18 http://gif.co/rhAI.gif
(DIR) Post #A5ip6SUEREcEpHt8MK by HectorHeathcote@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-30T01:59:06Z
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@watch4thedrop Might wanna try'n cut the line there buddy boy 😂 @stephanieanne @2020_DJT @Mongo3804 @oystergirl @masterblaster @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie
(DIR) Post #A5ip6WCecWvqLvh9W4 by stephanieanne@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-30T01:56:49Z
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@watch4thedrop @2020_DJT @HectorHeathcote @Mongo3804 @oystergirl @masterblaster @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie 😳
(DIR) Post #A5ip81UxkbpthdyaSu by stephanieanne@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-30T01:55:50Z
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@watch4thedrop @oystergirl @HectorHeathcote @2020_DJT @Mongo3804 @masterblaster @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie You dont hate anyone, you pussy cat.
(DIR) Post #A5ip82PKN2vGWSLbJw by stephanieanne@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-30T01:55:00Z
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@HectorHeathcote @2020_DJT @Mongo3804 @oystergirl @watch4thedrop @masterblaster @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie THERE YOU ARE!!!! We were getting worried 😟
(DIR) Post #A5ip9pw7i06uQJXrLk by selah18@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-30T02:21:39Z
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@watch4thedrop VERY funny! 😘@HectorHeathcote
(DIR) Post #A5ipAIj0fpqti2dIR6 by HectorHeathcote@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-30T01:56:56Z
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@stephanieanne Appreciate the love, Love... but all is well, well; all is okay.@2020_DJT @Mongo3804 @oystergirl @watch4thedrop @masterblaster @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie
(DIR) Post #A5ipBNYiBeQOzVKWBc by HectorHeathcote@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-30T01:58:20Z
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@Mongo3804 Hey Mike!How's ya been?@2020_DJT @oystergirl @watch4thedrop @stephanieanne @masterblaster @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie
(DIR) Post #A5ipIw1GShLFtaHvfM by HectorHeathcote@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-30T02:02:05Z
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@watch4thedrop Very magnanimous of you there, Drop.@stephanieanne @2020_DJT @Mongo3804 @oystergirl @masterblaster @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie
(DIR) Post #A5ipMCfJ1tOcOGZl7g by watch4thedrop@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-30T01:58:30Z
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@HectorHeathcote @stephanieanne @2020_DJT @Mongo3804 @oystergirl @masterblaster @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie I got number 938475439283844. Damn. it's gonna be a long wait
(DIR) Post #A5ipPfsAtQRHqRFZWy by watch4thedrop@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-30T02:01:24Z
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@HectorHeathcote @stephanieanne @2020_DJT @Mongo3804 @oystergirl @masterblaster @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie and deprive somebody of the wonder opportunity to insult you? http://gif.co/sCtm.gif
(DIR) Post #A5ipPrjkmYpidnP14S by HectorHeathcote@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-30T02:22:45Z
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@watch4thedrop Thats ain' dancin'... tha's wobbling. Weeble's wobble but they don't fall down@selah18
(DIR) Post #A5ipSZRpEmJamqJ4S0 by watch4thedrop@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-30T02:03:39Z
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@HectorHeathcote @stephanieanne @2020_DJT @Mongo3804 @oystergirl @masterblaster @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie yes...that's definitely what i am!*slowly opens a new tab and goes to dictionary.com*
(DIR) Post #A5ipVdMP9AsDn3EQNc by Jaime@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-30T02:49:12Z
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@HectorHeathcote @selah18 @watch4thedrop Haven’t heard that in years! 👍
(DIR) Post #A5ipfanLXY2EjHa9XE by Jaime@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-30T02:50:59Z
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@HectorHeathcote @selah18 @watch4thedrop Nahhh
(DIR) Post #A5ipkYdkyjN9UjSqLg by masterblaster@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-30T02:28:53Z
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@watch4thedrop @stephanieanne @2020_DJT @oystergirl @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie I was flushed with pride
(DIR) Post #A5ipl8871rRzZ0w51U by Jaime@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-30T02:52:00Z
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@HectorHeathcote @selah18 @watch4thedrop Yes!!
(DIR) Post #A5ipmLoDeihCHKDGZE by watch4thedrop@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-30T02:28:08Z
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@masterblaster @stephanieanne @2020_DJT @oystergirl @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie did ya pass though?
(DIR) Post #A5ipoDHGLZG6OhgaIq by HectorHeathcote@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-30T02:28:38Z
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@watch4thedrop No.He got a piss-poor grade@masterblaster @stephanieanne @2020_DJT @oystergirl @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie
(DIR) Post #A5ippy0M6LV5bpc7aC by Jaime@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-30T02:52:52Z
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@HectorHeathcote @selah18 @watch4thedrop My Sisters era.👍
(DIR) Post #A5ipqDXsK0E3o8PbPc by HectorHeathcote@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-30T02:07:21Z
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@watch4thedrop I'm sayin'@selah18
(DIR) Post #A5ipsJPtSn5Kb1g41I by watch4thedrop@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-30T02:06:18Z
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@HectorHeathcote @selah18 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tEMA8GL-ArI
(DIR) Post #A5iptytYjV11WrLi3k by Jaime@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-30T02:53:35Z
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@HectorHeathcote @selah18 @watch4thedrop Another sisters era 👍
(DIR) Post #A5ipvnARJ74Bje6lv6 by watch4thedrop@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-30T02:30:06Z
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@HectorHeathcote @masterblaster @stephanieanne @2020_DJT @oystergirl @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie when he came home and showed his parents, they said "urine trouble!"
(DIR) Post #A5ipxlYmFr1bKSQvnE by Jaime@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-30T02:54:17Z
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@HectorHeathcote @selah18 @watch4thedrop Eh
(DIR) Post #A5iq1S8oOZK4GF2vc8 by Jaime@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-30T02:54:57Z
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@HectorHeathcote @watch4thedrop @selah18 Sisters again
(DIR) Post #A5iq435VzzLhQdk4KO by Jaime@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-30T02:55:25Z
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@HectorHeathcote @watch4thedrop @selah18 Nah
(DIR) Post #A5iq4727KZ0XfGBPaS by masterblaster@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-30T02:31:29Z
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@HectorHeathcote @watch4thedrop @stephanieanne @2020_DJT @oystergirl @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie It was draining
(DIR) Post #A5iq55lvVNIm2i4qJs by KenLarkin@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-30T02:10:08Z
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@2020_DJT It's cuz he's a ghost.@HectorHeathcote @Mongo3804 @oystergirl @watch4thedrop @stephanieanne @masterblaster @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie
(DIR) Post #A5iq83ay3RriA0Mgme by Jaime@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-30T02:56:07Z
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@watch4thedrop @HectorHeathcote @selah18 Nah
(DIR) Post #A5iq9LzX8x3BVMTRBI by masterblaster@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-30T02:07:45Z
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@watch4thedrop @stephanieanne @2020_DJT @oystergirl @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie I studied all night for a urine test
(DIR) Post #A5iqJ273uFa8kSbvDU by HectorHeathcote@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-30T02:10:53Z
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@KenLarkin Yep.... Ghost's gonna ghost 🙂 @2020_DJT @Mongo3804 @oystergirl @watch4thedrop @stephanieanne @masterblaster @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie
(DIR) Post #A5iqKvKa5muoIGps24 by watch4thedrop@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-30T02:11:17Z
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@selah18 @HectorHeathcote lol this is the type of stuff i listened to as a 12 year old 😉
(DIR) Post #A5iqL9n6KY2z8mHqQi by selah18@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-30T02:10:16Z
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@watch4thedrop Well, the song just about sums it up but the lyrics!😱😱😱 @HectorHeathcote
(DIR) Post #A5iqNMa3kY1BO0Erce by selah18@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-30T02:12:08Z
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@watch4thedrop Don’t let those precious babies listen to this!!!! @HectorHeathcote
(DIR) Post #A5iqckgmOiFAV6ihXs by HectorHeathcote@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-30T02:13:14Z
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@watch4thedrop @selah18 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q9G0-4TWwew&list=PLoFQzfvcvGcVHBAv0PkN17iLA_n0aQNme&index=6
(DIR) Post #A5iqjyJu7G8gntSl5U by HectorHeathcote@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-30T02:17:21Z
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@watch4thedrop @selah18 lol
(DIR) Post #A5iqq2EwSFaAhO26YS by selah18@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-30T02:18:54Z
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@watch4thedrop STOP IT!!!@HectorHeathcote
(DIR) Post #A5iqzJ98xxbDjuk5qa by HectorHeathcote@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-30T02:20:31Z
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@watch4thedrop How ya gonna dance to Rap???@selah18
(DIR) Post #A5iqzlBaiSC6hc6RY8 by watch4thedrop@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-30T02:16:59Z
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@selah18 @HectorHeathcote But...but... it's their nap time music!
(DIR) Post #A5irjDOofNBBEfxnOq by watch4thedrop@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-30T01:45:54Z
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@oystergirl @HectorHeathcote @2020_DJT @Mongo3804 @stephanieanne @masterblaster @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie hey. speak for yourself. i actually hate him with a passion
(DIR) Post #A5irnfyqLPzZ2KwSsC by JM@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-30T01:46:58Z
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@HectorHeathcoteI was very concerned about you! So happy to see you here...💞🤗 @2020_DJT @Mongo3804 @oystergirl @watch4thedrop @stephanieanne @masterblaster @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie
(DIR) Post #A5irvP3h8vUCs5tbRA by 2020_DJT@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-30T01:50:50Z
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@watch4thedrop @HectorHeathcote @Mongo3804 @oystergirl @stephanieanne @masterblaster @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie Drop is so happy to see you that he can't contain himself, Hector. This is just him acting out so he doesn't show you how much he's missed you. Isn't that precious?!
(DIR) Post #A5isIOrc297qvZD5aC by watch4thedrop@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-30T01:49:26Z
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@2020_DJT @HectorHeathcote @Mongo3804 @oystergirl @stephanieanne @masterblaster @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie http://gif.co/bncsx.gif
(DIR) Post #A5isLCYUFjDNcdbGvg by watch4thedrop@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-30T01:53:30Z
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@2020_DJT @HectorHeathcote @Mongo3804 @oystergirl @stephanieanne @masterblaster @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie too much psychotropic drugs is never a good thing
(DIR) Post #A5isSiBD4VU5jOIGLQ by Mongo3804@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-30T01:53:38Z
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@HectorHeathcoteHi heckler ,,, er i mean hector @2020_DJT @oystergirl @watch4thedrop @stephanieanne @masterblaster @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie
(DIR) Post #A5isUaXYRkHccHdkHI by 2020_DJT@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-30T01:52:30Z
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@watch4thedrop @HectorHeathcote @EarlThePearls Drop said it's Earl's fault. 🤷 @Mongo3804 @oystergirl @stephanieanne @masterblaster @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie
(DIR) Post #A5isdEAiyqVFqh556m by 2020_DJT@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-30T01:54:14Z
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@watch4thedrop @HectorHeathcote @Mongo3804 @oystergirl @stephanieanne @masterblaster @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie You end up like Nanzi Pelosi with tardive dyskinesia...
(DIR) Post #A5ishWtxHojh60HxXU by watch4thedrop@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-30T01:56:35Z
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@stephanieanne @HectorHeathcote @2020_DJT @Mongo3804 @oystergirl @masterblaster @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie you guys were all talking crap about him just 10 minutes agohttp://gif.co/taK0.gif
(DIR) Post #A5isjJCBDSfrANf4DY by HectorHeathcote@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-30T01:57:31Z
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@watch4thedrop Talkin' crap? About ME??Psssh... take a fuckin' number@stephanieanne @2020_DJT @Mongo3804 @oystergirl @masterblaster @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie
(DIR) Post #A5ivYSuH4NAnxio73Q by Mongo3804@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-30T03:56:55Z
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@HectorHeathcote At work right now hector. I only get to check in ever once in a while. Im doing great. How about you?@2020_DJT @oystergirl @watch4thedrop @stephanieanne @masterblaster @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie
(DIR) Post #A5ivfC0OJ4q9ZRsNyy by Mongo3804@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-30T03:58:08Z
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@HectorHeathcote @2020_DJT @oystergirl @watch4thedrop @stephanieanne @masterblaster @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie
(DIR) Post #A5j6E2X8VuqJs5RoiO by oystergirl@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-30T05:56:29Z
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@Lisa22 Truth? It began with the push for women in the work force, devaluation of the dollar and the need for 2 incomes. When children are not raised by their own parents or extended family, they do not learn good values. My mom stayed home with us, and I sacrificed and scrapped to stay home with my kids. Guiding the younger generation is not something we should leave up to minimum wage day care workers. While i appreciate people have to work. Teach kids right! @timr @Annasmom22 @StevenDouglas
(DIR) Post #A5jXHJLNPeMPfGLdC4 by StevenDouglas@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-30T10:59:38Z
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@Siobhan Good move, I do the same. Always smart to take it on the chin from Saul. He's not a bully. He's a staunch PROTECTOR who suffers no fools gladly. Different class. I see Saul I think Teddy Bear. Just like Thomas who I see as hermit with a lead plated heart of pure gold.And - Saul's house, Saul's rules. Just show me the boundaries, I can live with that all day long. He keeps us safe from A LOT OF NASTY BULLSHIT.
(DIR) Post #A5jhZeLpddw8VLjso4 by StevenDouglas@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-30T12:54:58Z
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@Siobhan No opinion on how Saul is or ought to be.I take nothing he says personally, even if he insults me. I don't internalize it. I take it as how strongly he feels about some THING in the moment.My "Saul Translator" filters automatically. To wit, what he said to you:* Lin Wood is a nutcase.* Gab is not a "safe space".* Donations appreciated but voluntary (still no respect of persons). * Don't tag me any more on this, I don't want to discuss it with you. That's it. Nothing more.
(DIR) Post #A5jiBAaSkThzCITPXc by StevenDouglas@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-30T13:01:47Z
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@Siobhan I will add: Once he says, "Please don't" or he means don't respond (especially with him tagged in the response). It's over for him, and he means it. Just move on. He's not here to socialize and carry on discussions with everyone - it's logistically impossible. Just let it go and move on.
(DIR) Post #A5jiG8vMMJQrUIcRsG by StevenDouglas@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-30T13:02:40Z
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@Siobhan I will add: Once he says, "Please don't" he means don't respond (especially with him tagged in the response). It's over for him, and he means it. Just move on. He's not here to socialize and carry on discussions with everyone - it's logistically impossible. Just let it go and move on.
(DIR) Post #A5kBVpGe6h5ppNPEkS by Lisa22@social.quodverum.com
2021-03-30T18:30:28Z
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@oystergirl @timr @Annasmom22 @StevenDouglas That's part of it...but I believe the BIGGEST part was all the drugs, so-called "free love" and "me" generation that followed that upheaval.
(DIR) Post #A5v5wG70p15jMIsZ04 by Lemonhead@social.quodverum.com
2021-04-05T00:49:55Z
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@masterblaster @stephanieanne @oystergirl @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie aw
(DIR) Post #A5v62tVLH5lJGmQIU4 by Lemonhead@social.quodverum.com
2021-04-05T00:51:07Z
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@HectorHeathcote @2020_DJT @Mongo3804 @oystergirl @watch4thedrop @stephanieanne @masterblaster @StevenDouglas @LuizLibonati @Linnie ha