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 (DIR) Post #A4mzwMXj35fTYzERFI by Ismat@spinster.xyz
       2021-03-02T05:10:48.971455Z
       
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       This poor poor person.
       
 (DIR) Post #A4n0C7cSIoy3uZxVlA by hanafiyyah@spinster.xyz
       2021-03-02T05:13:40.252190Z
       
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       @Ismat and this was after he hit her, then made her feel like the one who is out of line for asking him not to hit her...because that implies he is abusive, which is very insulting.Physical abuse? CheckEmotional abuse? Check Sexual abuse? CheckBut poor trans husband is the real victim here.
       
 (DIR) Post #A4o73ABUI3DM67yp9s by DollyCat@spinster.xyz
       2021-03-02T13:41:11.780383Z
       
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       @Ismat What is the back story? do we know? Is this a trans-widow or a lesbian dating another "trans-lesbian".Hope she leaves soon.
       
 (DIR) Post #A4o73Y8TEv3sNikkmu by Flick@spinster.xyz
       2021-03-02T13:45:50.449836Z
       
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       @DollyCatBi woman, married to a straight man who came out as trans a year into the marriage. The comments were surprisingly good.  @Ismat
       
 (DIR) Post #A4o73kpo1cr7lb7X04 by DollyCat@spinster.xyz
       2021-03-02T13:46:35.206105Z
       
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       @Flick @Ismat Thanks Flick.Poor woman needs to get the hell out of there.
       
 (DIR) Post #A4o75qQSCzovgcG7X6 by Flick@spinster.xyz
       2021-03-02T13:54:06.143200Z
       
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       @DollyCat @Ismat She does, and thankfully most of the commenters were saying that. There was a thread about it on here yesterday, with a link to the Reddit post, but I can’t find it. Hopefully someone else will have a link.
       
 (DIR) Post #A4o75qqKemWKysMmrw by Flick@spinster.xyz
       2021-03-02T13:59:13.566651Z
       
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       @DollyCat @Ismat I’m pretty sure it was on r/mypartneristrans, but I’m not finding it on searches using words from the screenshot, so it might have been nuked after it got attention.
       
 (DIR) Post #A4o79zqv6MhC57cNxw by DollyCat@spinster.xyz
       2021-03-02T13:59:45.069101Z
       
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       @Flick @Ismat Thank for even looking for the link.
       
 (DIR) Post #A4o7A0HrUCFLQgDtxY by Flick@spinster.xyz
       2021-03-02T14:08:42.695621Z
       
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       @DollyCat @Ismat I thought I’d have one more go with Spinster search, and bingo! https://spinster.xyz/notice/A4kY8gZ0v4s5beI81IIt has been removed, but you can probably get it on one of the archive sites.
       
 (DIR) Post #A4o7A0gK1FoQeXfR5M by DollyCat@spinster.xyz
       2021-03-02T14:12:10.454749Z
       
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       @Flick @Ismat Cheers Flick :blobdetective:
       
 (DIR) Post #A4o7A14QZd5vrIwgeu by DollyCat@spinster.xyz
       2021-03-02T17:28:08.350497Z
       
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       @Flick @Ismat Oh my goodness the replies. They are really good but at the same time when the original poster replies back she doesn't get it. Makes ya want to gag just reading about it. Terrible situation to be in. On one level she must understand it is abuse or wouldn't be posting it at all. Does an inverted penis have much sensation? I always thought that the men on the female hormones lost their sex drive, to certain extent at least?Eww.
       
 (DIR) Post #A4o7Aj4cyFOmKfNT4y by Ismat@spinster.xyz
       2021-03-02T18:05:00.519382Z
       
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       @DollyCat @Flick Its society pushing women in this situation. If she says fuck you and leaves. Her husband will declare her transphobe and make her life impossible.
       
 (DIR) Post #A4o7TSV0onLkQheQtM by Ismat@spinster.xyz
       2021-03-02T18:10:39.751101Z
       
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       @DollyCat @Flick He most probably doesn’t. Its validation he wants as a “lesbian woman” being a “lesbian woman” is his turn on.
       
 (DIR) Post #A4o7abi6yA3D1cBeJU by DollyCat@spinster.xyz
       2021-03-02T18:12:05.309638Z
       
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       @Ismat @Flick The sooner these men are treated for their mental illness and not just given validiation the better.
       
 (DIR) Post #A4o7ceQRqUNo1btpui by ObligateSpinster@spinster.xyz
       2021-03-02T18:12:37.498853Z
       
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       @Ismat @DollyCat @Flick he targeted a bi woman.a lesbian wouldn't get with in the first place and a straight woman has a solid excuse to leave.
       
 (DIR) Post #A4oCWF3ZklNtNUxr3A by Lilitu@spinster.xyz
       2021-03-02T18:27:04.512141Z
       
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       @DollyCat @Flick @Ismat The best-case scenario is that it’s about as sensitive as your arm. The penis shaft is not extremely sensitive to begin with, and once it’s cut away from its natural structures, it loses some degree of sensitivity. Worst case scenario is that it’s just totally numb, which seems fairly common.In no circumstance would it feel similar to how it does for women. Vaginas at the entrance have high nerve density beyond what a penis shaft has, and past the first couple inches, they are primarily pressure-sensitive, which a male’s internal anatomy simply can’t experience.It’s essentially just a badly done model, rather than a functional organ.TIM’s lose their sex drive primarily due to the orchiectomy, not from taking estrogen. The testes actually produce estrogen in men as well, so often this can help them recover a little bit of the drive they lose from castration.Fun fact: it is now thought that estrogen is actually the hormone primarily responsible for the sex drive, not testosterone.There was really never any reason to believe it would be testosterone, given that even men with low T can be all over the map on sex drive, but we live in a machismo society that believes only men are sexual beings.And guess what testosterone does? Increases masturbation drive.
       
 (DIR) Post #A4oCWFSkFBW8dYjxHU by DollyCat@spinster.xyz
       2021-03-02T18:31:12.023850Z
       
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       @Lilitu @Flick @Ismat Interesting. Thanks Lilitu. I still can't believe Yaniv got it all cut off. Although mentally ill I always thought of him as more of a grifter/pervert/pedo. Didn't think he would go through with it.
       
 (DIR) Post #A4oCWFmb3NOfd81oDw by Lilitu@spinster.xyz
       2021-03-02T18:33:15.091069Z
       
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       @DollyCat @Flick @Ismat Honestly I’m not sure if I believe he did. I have a hard time believing he wouldn’t have been posting about it everywhere before the surgery, and he does have a history of lying. I think he just wants a pity party.
       
 (DIR) Post #A4oErgAQLtbdRuW968 by Lilitu@spinster.xyz
       2021-03-02T18:41:40.571399Z
       
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       @ObligateSpinster @Ismat @DollyCat @Flick Yup. They definitely target lesbians as the ultimate “trophy” when they’re post-“transition,” but a lot of them also target bi women so they can gaslight us by saying “But you’ll fuck anything, right? So if you leave me you’re a bigot!” Especially common for them to target us if they haven’t “come out” about their fetish yet. They see us as a security against getting dumped when they eventually bait-and-switch us.
       
 (DIR) Post #A4oFgLpphq3Z9v34Do by DollyCat@spinster.xyz
       2021-03-02T19:10:10.998004Z
       
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       @Lilitu @Flick @Ismat He did put up some close up pics that were meant to be of his post-op genital disaster.
       
 (DIR) Post #A4oNn0g9Yt0lClCtQ8 by ObligateSpinster@spinster.xyz
       2021-03-02T10:48:37.626767Z
       
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       @Ismat WTF!!
       
 (DIR) Post #A4oNn1620fiAV1JYky by B_Reasonable@spinster.xyz
       2021-03-02T10:51:10.573485Z
       
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       @ObligateSpinster @Ismat Seriously! There is no way I’d go anywhere near that. Not even for a curious look. It just sounds so repugnant. She needs to leave that man. Just get out and don’t look back.
       
 (DIR) Post #A4oNn1U8Z2zfhmaoKW by ObligateSpinster@spinster.xyz
       2021-03-02T11:00:31.903687Z
       
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       @B_Reasonable @Ismat of course it doesn't function like a vagina. its not a vagina
       
 (DIR) Post #A4oNn1xumKoTC8WakC by BeachBleach@spinster.xyz
       2021-03-02T20:39:20.684452Z
       
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       @ObligateSpinster @B_Reasonable @Ismat    neovaginadisasters.com  This site needs eye bleach.
       
 (DIR) Post #A4oNn2MjI4f8R68PQG by B_Reasonable@spinster.xyz
       2021-03-02T21:12:13.270614Z
       
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       @BeachBleach @ObligateSpinster @Ismat I just gathered up some courage and looked at that website. About a month ago I posted, asking if anyone here has ever seen a man’s surgically induced pretend vagina. I was asking out of paranoia, wondering if I could be tricked by a man calling himself a lesbian. What I just read on that “neo vagina” website... oh, I’m gonna slow down my worrying and ease up on the paranoia. It’s still there, it’s just lost its intensity. There’s a technique that uses part of the sigmoid colon to form a pretend vagina? The sigmoid colon is the part of the digestive tract just before the rectum. All the poop is stored there. I’m pretty sure that sigmoid tissue will always be colonized by resident fecal bacteria. Those bacteria are meant to live there. And that tissue is meant to house it. It’s always going to be “foul and offensive.” That’s where poop has been stored your entire life. That’s it’s only purpose. And to allow a doctor to resect your colon for vanity purposes? It’s usually resected if it’s diseased; cancer, diverticulitis, Crohn’s disease, a perforated ulcer. You don’t have someone surgically interrupt your healthy vital functioning organs for vanity!! There could be grave and unnecessary complications. A leaky staple line, hemorrhaging, post op bleeding, painful adhesions, a hernia. Those are realistic complications when bowel surgery is necessary. And they’re doing this for vanity. I have ZERO patience for these men. They are beyond sick. And beyond hope. We’re getting our women’s spaces back. Our community back. Eventually. I truly believe it. WOMEN BORN FEMALE ONLY.
       
 (DIR) Post #A4oOOJIjHtcPfv2LXE by Hollahollara@spinster.xyz
       2021-03-02T21:20:55.533076Z
       
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       @B_Reasonable @BeachBleach @Ismat @ObligateSpinster I think you could probably tell from other indicators. Very few, if any, TIMs can successfully mimic women in all aspects, from physiology to socialization to manner.My daughter has a friend who has been totally taken by the trans ideology. Today, she was arguing with my daughter about a TikTok video, where a guy declared he needs a new sexuality term, “super straight,” to indicate he won’t date a TIM. My daughter’s friend was aghast that even though everyone explained SRS to straight guy in the comments, he still said he would not.My daughter said that was his right, as it was straight guy’s body to do with as he pleases, and was pestered by her friend to capitulate. Kiddo did not, and was the ignored. This may be the end of their friendship, if the issue is continually pressed.Seriously considering allowing kiddo to send neovagina disasters, bc I know they look up cringe gross stuff already. (This is how some of the indoctrination happens, by the way…kids who have never had a sexual encounter in their lives browbeating each other and grown people about their sexual choices.)
       
 (DIR) Post #A4oSOgQzg72tEqKspk by BeachBleach@spinster.xyz
       2021-03-02T22:04:03.146577Z
       
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       @Hollahollara @B_Reasonable @Ismat @ObligateSpinster They're fighting against sexual dimorphism. Sexual dimorphism is unchangeable.  There are many ways that male and female bodies differ, and that's why men are never recognized as women. As we have discussed here many times, recognizing male as a male is something your brain will do automatically.  I'm glad the guy refused to back down. TIMs are trying to force lesbians to date them. It's not transphobic to have a sexual preference.
       
 (DIR) Post #A4p7PbOU05Rc12iaFk by B_Reasonable@spinster.xyz
       2021-03-03T03:27:48.119755Z
       
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       @Hollahollara @BeachBleach @Ismat @ObligateSpinster Social media is such a weapon. And the kids are cannon fodder. I saw a story about this town where cell phone are prohibited. It sounds so wonderful!! https://www.cnn.com/interactive/2015/07/us/quiet-town-american-story/
       
 (DIR) Post #A4p7S98fVafvFkXBXU by Hollahollara@spinster.xyz
       2021-03-03T05:45:51.097959Z
       
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       @B_Reasonable @BeachBleach @Ismat @ObligateSpinster I have seen a doc on this place! They drive around with some kind of radio sensor to detect hidden devices.
       
 (DIR) Post #A4qHitXFy5o6TycV0K by Nebula@spinster.xyz
       2021-03-03T19:14:45.707580Z
       
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       @B_Reasonable @Hollahollara @BeachBleach @Ismat @ObligateSpinster I'm pretty sure this town is featured on a Netflix doc called "Afflicted."  A woman wants to live here because she supposedly has sensitivity to electromagnetic fields generated by electronic devices such as Wi-Fi and cell phone signals, power lines, and fluorescent lights.  I personally think she (along with other people on the doc) have OCD or other psychiatric disorders, and I think she really wants to get out of her marriage and is using electromagnetic sensitivity as an excuse.
       
 (DIR) Post #A4qRY6F9NZBuFfdsDA by Ismat@spinster.xyz
       2021-03-03T21:05:10.972987Z
       
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       @Nebula @B_Reasonable @BeachBleach @Hollahollara @ObligateSpinster I don’t think she has a psychiatric illness. Rather I am sure she has a chronic illness. I have chronic illness too. Chronic illness in women is not studied well at all. It leaves us wondering what’s causing us to feel so ill. Most doctors dismiss us as “its all in your mind, your labs look great”. In the beginning I would come up with various reasons what’s making me sick. I even considered cell phone radiation. It was only after extensive reading I concluded its just something we don’t understand because no one is studying it.
       
 (DIR) Post #A4r4XOF8roVK04I5eC by Nebula@spinster.xyz
       2021-03-03T22:18:20.979404Z
       
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       @Ismat @B_Reasonable @BeachBleach @Hollahollara @ObligateSpinster Have you even seen the show? I have OCD, and she definitely displays traits of the disorder and seems miserable in her marriage.
       
 (DIR) Post #A4r4XOhVANBnQ1Yjqq by Ismat@spinster.xyz
       2021-03-04T03:24:47.588646Z
       
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       @Nebula @B_Reasonable @BeachBleach @Hollahollara @ObligateSpinster I haven’t. OCD is not rare. People with Chronic illness can have ocd too. My CFS group is full of people completely sure that electromagnetic radiation might be causing their illness.
       
 (DIR) Post #A4r4frgxGHhJeMLDO4 by Nebula@spinster.xyz
       2021-03-04T04:08:11.320474Z
       
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       @Ismat @B_Reasonable @BeachBleach @Hollahollara @ObligateSpinster Well, I'm not denying that chronic illness exists or anything.  I just watched the doc and a lot of them seemed to have comorbid mental health issues like OCD, depression, etc.
       
 (DIR) Post #A4r4fsANUtEX7c6iFU by Ismat@spinster.xyz
       2021-03-04T04:12:05.475853Z
       
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       @Nebula @B_Reasonable @BeachBleach @Hollahollara @ObligateSpinster With chronic illness mental health issues become very common. I mean who wouldn’t be depressed if they have been sick for years.
       
 (DIR) Post #A4r4fsaxu2V6S4Xwgq by Nebula@spinster.xyz
       2021-03-04T04:17:55.935594Z
       
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       @Ismat @B_Reasonable @BeachBleach @Hollahollara @ObligateSpinster Right?  And our planet/environment is fucked which doesn't help physical illnesses.  It's all a hot mess!
       
 (DIR) Post #A4r4wwlVeTa2J9cJ0q by Ismat@spinster.xyz
       2021-03-04T04:19:26.941913Z
       
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       @Nebula @B_Reasonable @BeachBleach @Hollahollara @ObligateSpinster and it affects women far more then it does men.