Post A3jV9PYodeFHFd8ZUW by Stellar@fedi.absturztau.be
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(DIR) Post #A3jTSgfN42ShthGckq by newt@stereophonic.space
2021-01-29T14:31:35.185185Z
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Guys, I really don't understand why someone would block an instance solely because it has soapbox-fe installed.
(DIR) Post #A3jTaJFW0npPaTo9ce by fristi@kartoffel.cafe
2021-01-29T14:32:57.343749Z
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@newt apparently they hate the guy that made soapbox-fe so having it is an instant block
(DIR) Post #A3jTeC7iRnmse50pQO by Stellar@fedi.absturztau.be
2021-01-29T14:33:40.455766Z
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@fristi @newt what did he do?
(DIR) Post #A3jTfC0QN0nIZQ4sfQ by newt@stereophonic.space
2021-01-29T14:33:50.159811Z
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@fristi why would anyone hate Alex? I barely interacted with him, but he seems alright.
(DIR) Post #A3jTforZtptJ5HErnE by Saphir@fedi.absturztau.be
2021-01-29T14:33:58.416024Z
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@newt This world and everything is so filled of insanity today, just another follower of this trend...But yeah, sounds PRETTY stupid.
(DIR) Post #A3jTpRmEaXLMNaKWqe by fristi@kartoffel.cafe
2021-01-29T14:35:41.690975Z
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@Stellar @newt I dunno, I think the guy was "gendercritical" or something and that kinda rubs some people the wrong way.tbh I barely even see posts from him so I can't tell you much
(DIR) Post #A3jTvZKNQaqjXEDeBU by Stellar@fedi.absturztau.be
2021-01-29T14:36:48.006125Z
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@fristi @newt oh gendercritical is TERF language for TERF, yeah checks out i don't want to use TERF's code
(DIR) Post #A3jTwhamBbYnSMQjSq by duponin@udongein.xyz
2021-01-29T14:37:01.366388Z
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@newt @fristi just because Terf and forked Gab's frontendEven his Vegan instance is blocked for "alex gleason" reason :facepalm_cirno:
(DIR) Post #A3jU13kLl5eDKEzBs8 by newt@stereophonic.space
2021-01-29T14:37:48.104567Z
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@Stellar @fristi and then we have "pleroma devs are nazis" meme. Same thing, if you ask me. Code is code, people are people.
(DIR) Post #A3jU1RUDUj0Ex9ce3c by fristi@kartoffel.cafe
2021-01-29T14:37:51.811467Z
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@Stellar @newt I don't even know what TERF means, that's how far I'm distanced from this stuff.
(DIR) Post #A3jU3MuvSC4jMS29i4 by newt@stereophonic.space
2021-01-29T14:38:13.933579Z
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@fristi @Stellar it's spinster.xyz users
(DIR) Post #A3jU3n7a1le8dE9d2m by VerdanuOsane@mstdn.io
2021-01-29T14:38:17Z
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@fristi @Stellar @newt idk what terf means either
(DIR) Post #A3jU78e0Sha2FjuwpE by chjara@letsalllovela.in
2021-01-29T14:38:54.329001Z
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@VerdanuOsane @fristi @Stellar @newt trans-exclusionary radical feministbasically transphobic crazy cat ladies
(DIR) Post #A3jU8mCuqwW7FG1klE by emilis@cdrom.tokyo
2021-01-29T14:39:12.423997Z
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@newt @Stellar @fristi and yet all the people they call nazis like gab use mastodon curious
(DIR) Post #A3jUA4QqZzCA3dA0a8 by VerdanuOsane@mstdn.io
2021-01-29T14:39:26Z
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@chjara @Stellar @fristi @newt *well good thing i'm not a terf then, lol*
(DIR) Post #A3jUCPmUAvf0qjOpwO by emilis@cdrom.tokyo
2021-01-29T14:39:51.755268Z
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@Stellar @fristi @newt terf is a slurAnd that’s why I use it
(DIR) Post #A3jUHnQjfwifdznBPU by Kagekokoro@neckbeard.xyz
2021-01-29T14:40:50.453484Z
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@VerdanuOsane @chjara @Stellar @fristi @newt you are a qtpie, not a terfterfs and all radical fems in general usually are quite... unappealing to the human eye
(DIR) Post #A3jUJWx1up8578iz6O by newt@stereophonic.space
2021-01-29T14:41:09.221590Z
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@emilis @Stellar @fristi it's not curious. It's bullshit. Hating other people for having a different opinion on certain matters isn't really healthy, because almost every one will have an opinion different from yours on some matter. It's a straight way into developing a neurosis.
(DIR) Post #A3jUKzog53WEvaW6DY by lanodan@queer.hacktivis.me
2021-01-29T14:41:24.732624Z
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@newt @fristi It's basically a knee-jerk reaction to https://blog.alexgleason.me/trans/ basically (TL;DR alex gleason doesn't agree with the trans hiveminds), which is an article getting quite old by now
(DIR) Post #A3jUOscGnBn9ktZ5pw by SuperDicq@cdrom.tokyo
2021-01-29T14:42:07.122703Z
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@Stellar @fristi @newt You’re already using TERF code. A lot of contributions to Pleroma have been made by Spinster.
(DIR) Post #A3jUUKUqYsghfkgwC0 by duponin@udongein.xyz
2021-01-29T14:43:05.962886Z
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@fristi @Stellar @newt Trans Exclusive Radical Feminist(s)
(DIR) Post #A3jUV0HVCsy9GWlsDw by SuperDicq@cdrom.tokyo
2021-01-29T14:43:12.759077Z
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@Stellar @fristi @newt But yes I agree, software is just software. It’s a tool and can be used for any purpose. You shouldn’t form an opinion based on the political alignment of the people who wrote it.
(DIR) Post #A3jUVFlpcP8tIw4o52 by emilis@cdrom.tokyo
2021-01-29T14:43:16.324397Z
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@SuperDicq @Stellar @fristi @newt I don’t really understand what’s the issue here when it comes to open source software. They’re literally just doing work that you benefit from for free. For free.
(DIR) Post #A3jUVaqVGEMCfVQKmG by newt@stereophonic.space
2021-01-29T14:43:19.316022Z
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@lanodan @fristi doesn't seem radical or worth hatred to me. But what do I know? :shrugAkko:
(DIR) Post #A3jUYuM9B6Tc30o03s by fristi@kartoffel.cafe
2021-01-29T14:43:54.719487Z
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@chjara @VerdanuOsane @Stellar @newt so basically the subgroup of feminists that are only feminists because they are perma-angry and need something to be perma-angry about.
(DIR) Post #A3jUa1Vm3oAyWqqA9A by chjara@letsalllovela.in
2021-01-29T14:44:08.242283Z
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@fristi @Stellar @VerdanuOsane @newt yes
(DIR) Post #A3jUbLMjjDfaOZF6Rc by lanodan@queer.hacktivis.me
2021-01-29T14:44:21.918063Z
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@newt @fristi It just rubs their whole ideology the other way around…So if you're a twitter user you're going to hate it just because of that.
(DIR) Post #A3jUdgEb6sJdhJY9OC by newt@stereophonic.space
2021-01-29T14:44:47.164310Z
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@lanodan @fristi meh.. good thing I was banned on twitter
(DIR) Post #A3jUdkDgIDxY3d9TW4 by deadheat@kiwifarms.cc
2021-01-29T14:44:47.524482Z
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@newt @fristi Because of his social crimes
(DIR) Post #A3jUoqnGBxDVdD5bUW by SuperDicq@cdrom.tokyo
2021-01-29T14:46:48.411899Z
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@emilis @Stellar @fristi @newt Also Pleroma is being picked up as the fediverse backend by a lot of different organizations now. So I hope the “Pleroma is just for nazis” meme is gonna fade soon.I know for example that the Debian project is setting up a Pleroma instance now. Also the Dutch Pirate Party has a Pleroma instance.
(DIR) Post #A3jV9PYodeFHFd8ZUW by Stellar@fedi.absturztau.be
2021-01-29T14:50:24.227587Z
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@SuperDicq @emilis @fristi @newt the dutch whatnow
(DIR) Post #A3jVF8cIY2xwREUrho by emilis@cdrom.tokyo
2021-01-29T14:51:33.742438Z
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@Stellar @SuperDicq @fristi @newt is this legit the first time you’ve heard of a pirate party?Oh right you’re French, you don’t have anyone advocating for freedoms do you?
(DIR) Post #A3jVoQYjpWBoDneuvY by Stellar@fedi.absturztau.be
2021-01-29T14:57:56.396259Z
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@emilis @SuperDicq @fristi @newt what the fuck is a pirate party, they're crimminals and killers :blobpirate:
(DIR) Post #A3jVuu1fBeatLdHBBY by fristi@kartoffel.cafe
2021-01-29T14:59:05.431347Z
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@Stellar @emilis @SuperDicq @newt it's a political party, called the "Piratenpartij". Basically they're all about e-democracy, making the government more transparent, and defending peoples' online rights.
(DIR) Post #A3jWE5MLH0cO055yzY by crash_pidgeon@fedi.absturztau.be
2021-01-29T15:02:34.929758Z
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@Stellar @emilis @SuperDicq @fristi @newt From what I understand, it's the left-wing libertarian party
(DIR) Post #A3jWS2nXapLI6vTPyi by kogomi@raru.re
2021-01-29T15:04:12Z
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@newt @emilis @Stellar @fristi using software isn't often the same as supporting its developer (you may not even know who the dev is)
(DIR) Post #A3jWVDKcsyGdeISblA by newt@stereophonic.space
2021-01-29T15:05:40.559913Z
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@kogomi @emilis @Stellar @fristi true true. I mean, I use pleroma and yet I’m not a nazi.
(DIR) Post #A3jWYsnt9NYP8mtgO0 by SuperDicq@cdrom.tokyo
2021-01-29T15:06:19.004844Z
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@fristi @Stellar @emilis @newt And don’t forget, most importantly, to reform copyright and patent law to actually reasonably benefit creators and not giant publishers.
(DIR) Post #A3jWbmYsoYVIeNGEzI by kogomi@raru.re
2021-01-29T15:06:23Z
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@newt @emilis @Stellar @fristi wasn't lain a north korean agent? /s
(DIR) Post #A3jXBC51vfRtviBPKy by fristi@kartoffel.cafe
2021-01-29T15:13:13.902039Z
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@SuperDicq @Stellar @emilis @newt yes. So far though, I haven't seen them book much success yet. They've not been able to win a single seat in 3 elections. They need someone who's actually good at putting the party on the map. A proper campaign leader.
(DIR) Post #A3jYIElCSkHYDupWHQ by SuperDicq@cdrom.tokyo
2021-01-29T15:25:43.982265Z
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@fristi @Stellar @emilis @newt I know. I know it is also not gonna happen this time unfortunately, we didn’t even get the petition to be listed signed by enough people in a few provinces. I’m still gonna vote for them to show my support.I kinda wish the Pirate Party played more into current events.We had innocent people being suspected of fraud (toeslagenaffaire), we have big tech companies using algorithms to spread lies about 5G, we have a minister of justice that wants to put backdoors in encryption, we recently had a big leak in COVID-patient data.All these crazy are all great opportunities for a party like this to push their campaign and make themselves known. But all I see right is just their regular campaign, that didn’t work the other times, just listing their standpoints and nothing else.
(DIR) Post #A3jYQubYlmF0JoSPwm by fristi@kartoffel.cafe
2021-01-29T15:27:16.971446Z
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@SuperDicq @Stellar @emilis @newt that's because they don't have a proper campaign leader. It's just a fairly small group of people with a couple of opinions, but no real idea how politics work.
(DIR) Post #A3jYjDV5FsSS8P9lvk by SuperDicq@cdrom.tokyo
2021-01-29T15:30:36.230470Z
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@fristi @Stellar @emilis @newt It can be as simple as say “Did you see our government wastes 1 to 5 billion euro per year on IT? This won’t happen if you vote for us”
(DIR) Post #A3jYoYnzTHFvetY2r2 by Stellar@fedi.absturztau.be
2021-01-29T15:31:34.093396Z
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@SuperDicq @fristi @emilis @newt :O :blobpirate: let's go pirate gang
(DIR) Post #A3jZTGLZ0KEYHdeyxs by MisakaMikoto@enigmatic.observer
2021-01-29T15:38:56.471483Z
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@newt @lanodan @fristi this specific part is not why most people dislike him. Last time I asked him a question about his views he got turbotriggered about it and started subposting me.
(DIR) Post #A3jZVVgyvAxQSJkY9A by MisakaMikoto@enigmatic.observer
2021-01-29T15:39:20.812670Z
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@SuperDicq @Stellar @fristi @newt ...driving out most trans devs in the process.
(DIR) Post #A3jZWGBk38tYf2UlTk by fristi@kartoffel.cafe
2021-01-29T15:39:29.022949Z
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@SuperDicq @Stellar @emilis @newt exactly, it doesn't take a genius to exploit these events for free votes.
(DIR) Post #A3jZfnvZydiruLUDTc by a7@pleroma.mouse.services
2021-01-29T15:41:10.819769Z
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@MisakaMikoto @newt @fristi @lanodan just tell him you love hamburgers and hate women
(DIR) Post #A3jZjLY7Qfg13ICaS8 by MisakaMikoto@enigmatic.observer
2021-01-29T15:41:50.872278Z
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@a7 @fristi @lanodan @newt I don't like him but that does not mean that I want him to have a stroke.
(DIR) Post #A3jZtXIMc4b6NRgvdg by SuperDicq@cdrom.tokyo
2021-01-29T15:43:40.893683Z
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@MisakaMikoto @Stellar @fristi @newtI find it unfortunate that these transgender developers can not set this aside.As long as these unrelated political issues are not discussed in conversations about the software, I don’t see a problem with working together with someone with a different opinion.
(DIR) Post #A3jaBvPXgphwNpol6G by MisakaMikoto@enigmatic.observer
2021-01-29T15:47:00.254591Z
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@SuperDicq @Stellar @fristi @newt > As long as these unrelated political issues are not discussed in conversations about the softwareSadly they did have to deal with their toxicity even while working on the software.Regardless though, you would not want to work with people that you dislike and dislike you back, would you? I think that you are asking too much from said developers.
(DIR) Post #A3jaM2xwSKmCi5jaGe by meme@pleroma.efwends.xyz
2021-01-29T15:47:53.389931Z
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@SuperDicq @MisakaMikoto @Stellar @fristi @newt They are hyperpolitical , they act like the current regime's janissaries and most of them can't be brought back from that position since they wouldn't exist without it.
(DIR) Post #A3jaM3PanWtW5qffMm by MisakaMikoto@enigmatic.observer
2021-01-29T15:48:49.489802Z
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@meme @SuperDicq @Stellar @fristi @newt nice offtopic circlejerking.
(DIR) Post #A3jaZwKNvtJuB1rAHo by SuperDicq@cdrom.tokyo
2021-01-29T15:51:20.688848Z
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@fristi @Stellar @emilis @newt Maybe I should run in 2025.
(DIR) Post #A3jah4YridX1jw1yDo by fristi@kartoffel.cafe
2021-01-29T15:52:36.685128Z
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@MisakaMikoto @newt @lanodan when reading his blog post about his "views" I kinda noticed it going two ways. Initially he describes in very plain and simple wordings his views, indicating he doesn't seem to have issues with transgender people but just makes the distinction between sex and gender. Then he goes on to describe "the transgender ideology" and writing a huge copypasta about all sorts of things wrong about it. Maybe he should just take a step back and not get his ass involved in so much shit. And maybe think over what his actual stance in these matters are.
(DIR) Post #A3jao2KyO16crwqyXo by fristi@kartoffel.cafe
2021-01-29T15:53:52.182420Z
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@SuperDicq @Stellar @emilis @newt tbh I think a proper revolution would still work better.
(DIR) Post #A3jbMbTEGi2jg8CKR6 by MisakaMikoto@enigmatic.observer
2021-01-29T16:00:08.879743Z
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@fristi @lanodan @newt Yeah I agree. He goes on to link some crimes made by a few transgender people and then goes to say "haha that proves that transgenders bad, QED!" and then goes on to talk about transspecies and statistics of violence by men. :02wut:
(DIR) Post #A3jbPAHLp416DKraUq by SuperDicq@cdrom.tokyo
2021-01-29T16:00:35.911733Z
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@MisakaMikoto @Stellar @fristi @newt I’m a developer myself and considering that coworking on any software together with others is a very robotic workflow with issues, pull requests, automated checks and builds I don’t think it matters at all. As long as they take the work seriously and people aren’t trolls and sabotaging work obviously.I mean of course it is more fun to work with people you like, so you can also be chill and hang out together when there is no work to be done.But I think every person should be able to work with people they don’t like towards a common goal. That’s professionalism.
(DIR) Post #A3jbhxkMdmRmqgOhxg by MisakaMikoto@enigmatic.observer
2021-01-29T16:03:59.961929Z
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@SuperDicq @Stellar @fristi @newt >professional>engaged in a specified activity as one's main paid occupation rather than as a pastime.These that worked on said software were by definition not professionals because they were not paid for it. If you want to fund them(thus making them professionals) and you can guarantee that they will not have to interact with said people I am sure that they would not mind working on the project.
(DIR) Post #A3jcKE8U9f8ugNvSsK by fristi@kartoffel.cafe
2021-01-29T16:10:53.801294Z
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@MisakaMikoto @lanodan @newt I don't even get what he wanted to say with that whole transspecies bit. It was just kinda chucked in there as if it has anything to do with it.Frankly, developers shouldn't get themselves so damn involved with all sorts of opinions and political agendas and whatnot.
(DIR) Post #A3jcN3djdR7azytONc by SuperDicq@cdrom.tokyo
2021-01-29T16:11:24.798008Z
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@MisakaMikoto @Stellar @fristi @newt I consider contributing to free software projects while not being paid to be more similar to volunteer work. You do it mostly because you care about what the project is trying to achieve.With professionalism I don’t necessarily mean making it your profession and getting paid. With professionalism I mean it as in having a professional attitude.
(DIR) Post #A3jdfD3lS1R3NeHqK0 by GNUxeava@fedi.absturztau.be
2021-01-29T16:25:55.059047Z
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@newt @emilis @Stellar @fristi cucked and blocked and reported. Bye natzee.
(DIR) Post #A3jdj79TMHnGDQoooi by GNUxeava@fedi.absturztau.be
2021-01-29T16:26:37.421882Z
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@SuperDicq @Stellar @fristi @newt but people are :brain1:
(DIR) Post #A3jdqdNPwfpyBcvXFY by GNUxeava@fedi.absturztau.be
2021-01-29T16:27:58.949582Z
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@fristi @chjara @Stellar @VerdanuOsane @newt pressure cookers must release pressure every now and then otherwise they explode.
(DIR) Post #A3jdt7sbVUHtMwhcEy by GNUxeava@fedi.absturztau.be
2021-01-29T16:28:25.224988Z
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@newt @lanodan @fristi not one part of it is offending.
(DIR) Post #A3je24KQ51iMxdyeVk by GNUxeava@fedi.absturztau.be
2021-01-29T16:30:02.865341Z
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@newt @kogomi @Stellar @emilis @fristi no no you are a nazi. You must be a nazi. You cannot change the fact no matter how much you deny it. We know you are a nazi.
(DIR) Post #A3je3dJ1WJEXjP4PIm by GNUxeava@fedi.absturztau.be
2021-01-29T16:30:19.929678Z
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@kogomi @newt @emilis @Stellar @fristi yes
(DIR) Post #A3jeU3R8zL04IvT1N2 by MisakaMikoto@enigmatic.observer
2021-01-29T16:35:06.516691Z
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@SuperDicq @Stellar @fristi @newt Would you do volunteer work for amazon? Work for free for an "evil" company while they profit? It is kinda like that, work for free almost full-time so that lain makes money.Anyway, this is just what happens when you do not treat your volunteers well, you should not expect that they will just ignore your aggressions and stay.
(DIR) Post #A3jetR7k3civ0YUkee by SuperDicq@cdrom.tokyo
2021-01-29T16:39:40.757933Z
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@newt @lanodan @fristi This part seems fine, but there are some red flags in the rest of the page to me.>why are there so many trans women politicians and so few trans men? Is it possible that maybe people are actually oppressed based on sex and not gender identity?>they are not the front-runners of the trans movement. The reason, of course, is that trans men are female.I don’t think this is proof of the female sex being oppressed at all. Statistically it probably checks out, because the ratio of trans women and trans men in the world is probably something like 4 to 1.>Using Rachel Dolezal
(DIR) Post #A3jf1JHX68W50EpSfQ by newt@stereophonic.space
2021-01-29T16:41:06.249245Z
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@SuperDicq @fristi @lanodan maybe. But ultimately, this isn't my problem. I don't see a reason to hate him or anyone at all, for that matter. Hatred is a rather negative emotion and I do my best to avoid them.
(DIR) Post #A3jfhLmUCDiQutLyiW by SuperDicq@cdrom.tokyo
2021-01-29T16:48:42.536205Z
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@newt @fristi @lanodan >Using Rachel DolezalI mean she actually tricked people into saying she was black. That’s like if a trans woman was going around saying she was biologically female, that’s a very bad example.>TransspeciesI’m not even gonna go into this. This has nothing to do with transgenderism at all.>Qouting male to female crime statistics to argue that trans women shouldn’t be allowed into female bathroomsYeah this is just where this page completely derails. You can’t just general male to female crime statistics and say it applies to trans women because you believe they are men, that’s just straight up invalid.>Further reading linking to /r/GenderCriticalYeah I’m done here.
(DIR) Post #A3jfrfqWRvDm2kAErY by SuperDicq@cdrom.tokyo
2021-01-29T16:50:34.313957Z
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@newt @fristi @lanodan Oh yeah, I dislike his opinions. I don’t think I should now patch out every single of code he contributed to Pleroma.
(DIR) Post #A3jfwzB802BpRvKq9o by newt@stereophonic.space
2021-01-29T16:51:31.833378Z
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@MisakaMikoto @SuperDicq @Stellar @fristi >It is kinda like that, work for free almost full-time so that lain makes money.Here is where your analogy with Amazon breaks down. You can sell Pleroma. Yes.YOU CAN SELL PLEROMA!Nothing really stops you from firing up your super cool Pleroma instance and charging money for it. Either directly for membership or the discord way for extra emoji, or what not. If you do it well, you can be even richer than lain himself!
(DIR) Post #A3jg0WDrbBVInpIcKG by lanodan@queer.hacktivis.me
2021-01-29T16:52:10.180707Z
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@SuperDicq @fristi @newt > That’s like if a trans woman was going around saying she was biologically female, that’s a very bad example.What is "biologically female"?Hormone levels? They don't really work so well.Genitals? Well… sex operations exists.Chromosomes? Sure but almost no one knows theirs for sure until it's tested.
(DIR) Post #A3jg3GsV6d1M55cTGi by SuperDicq@cdrom.tokyo
2021-01-29T16:52:40.477739Z
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@MisakaMikoto @Stellar @fristi @newt Since when does Lain make money?
(DIR) Post #A3jgARidCMXNjLQNAP by SuperDicq@cdrom.tokyo
2021-01-29T16:53:58.281564Z
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@lanodan @fristi @newt I mean born female of course. If a trans woman said she was born female that would be a lie, and lying is bad.
(DIR) Post #A3jgCqMoWocQkpMYLY by GNUxeava@fedi.absturztau.be
2021-01-29T16:54:24.470063Z
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@newt @MisakaMikoto @Stellar @SuperDicq @fristi lain controls wired. Money cannot control lain hence it cannot control wired hence you cannot be richer than lain.
(DIR) Post #A3jgQ8NKsuduN3wbYm by MisakaMikoto@enigmatic.observer
2021-01-29T16:56:48.242516Z
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@newt @Stellar @SuperDicq @fristi well, good luck with that.
(DIR) Post #A3jgYBxlQjHLoXpF7Q by vulonkaaz@flyingcube.tech
2021-01-29T16:57:43.625944Z
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@lanodan @SuperDicq @fristi @newt > sex operations existsthey don't, it's just glorified mutilation
(DIR) Post #A3jgYCKS4NQWwuRMTw by lanodan@queer.hacktivis.me
2021-01-29T16:58:14.507875Z
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@vulonkaaz @SuperDicq @fristi @newt Thanks for the garbage
(DIR) Post #A3jgnzpqHxF0plekpU by Majkatsu@kawen.space
2021-01-29T17:01:07.359998Z
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@MisakaMikoto @SuperDicq @Stellar @fristi @newt Honestly, it's better to just say that you can be expected to put aside differences with others to get something done unless that difference is that they don't see you as a person.I think it's much easier to put aside politics when that political idea is not "I think a core part of your identity is an act to invade on womanhood". (Just as an example, it would be no different if the issue was racial, or religious, or if it was a transgender man instead and I'm aware Gleason has never said this.)The guy in question here has hardly made his stance clear because he either doesn't know it, or his stance is so objectionable to any reasonable individual that he dare not say it... I think it is pretty reasonable to see this as a red flag if you are putting sweat and blood into a project with him and you are a potential candidate for his political line-of-fire.
(DIR) Post #A3jgzZJkhqCA4AAGUi by SuperDicq@cdrom.tokyo
2021-01-29T17:03:11.759500Z
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@vulonkaaz @lanodan @fristi @newt And what does this uninformed opinion have to do with this?
(DIR) Post #A3jh7TyoR4BlpP8yWW by lanodan@queer.hacktivis.me
2021-01-29T17:04:37.850078Z
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@SuperDicq @fristi @newt There's quite a significant gap between born (so no operation whatsoever), biology with counting puberty in and assigned (birth certificate/ID card; can mean operations in childhood/puberty when it goes unmatched, sometimes done awfully bad).Most of the time the one that people will mean is assigned (at birth).
(DIR) Post #A3jhFJT3P5YdXe1TUm by newt@stereophonic.space
2021-01-29T17:06:02.987533Z
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@lanodan @SuperDicq @fristi shit, guys, plz untag me. I don't wanna be a part of this discussion.
(DIR) Post #A3jhQOExzzUbWtiQPw by SuperDicq@cdrom.tokyo
2021-01-29T17:08:02.762389Z
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@newt @lanodan @fristi I always just mute threads if people don't want to untag me.
(DIR) Post #A3jhaiMC3pYAoe1EXI by SuperDicq@cdrom.tokyo
2021-01-29T17:09:54.880046Z
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@Majkatsu @MisakaMikoto @Stellar @fristi @newt Of course, if they don't value your input because they dislike you as a person that is also very unprofessional. I'm not arguing against that.
(DIR) Post #A3ji4qRQZFfaZopn2O by Majkatsu@kawen.space
2021-01-29T17:15:22.463850Z
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@SuperDicq @MisakaMikoto @Stellar @fristi @newt Then why reply with this?You can't hold both positions, if most people shy away from developing software that involves someone who would potentially see them as a "undesirable", why should they set aside this difference?How is such a thing unfortunate?
(DIR) Post #A3ji7Ol3wxFzaTEhZw by Majkatsu@kawen.space
2021-01-29T17:15:50.184881Z
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@SuperDicq @MisakaMikoto @Stellar @fristi @newt Sorry, by "this" I mean this post
(DIR) Post #A3jiUBHUDuB8RvGX9U by SuperDicq@cdrom.tokyo
2021-01-29T17:19:56.509056Z
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@Majkatsu @MisakaMikoto @Stellar @fristi @newt I have 2 positions and I don’t think they are incompatible at all.Quitting a project because you don’t agree with someone’s political stance on the team that has nothing to do with the project is childish.Discriminating against people who volunteer to work on your project is also very bad.
(DIR) Post #A3jiyU7AlTOhY3tKRk by Majkatsu@kawen.space
2021-01-29T17:25:25.236309Z
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@SuperDicq @MisakaMikoto @Stellar @fristi @newt They are incompatible the moment the unrelated political stance directly emboldens discrimination, which is not unfeasible
(DIR) Post #A3jlHkTGNOb3geXO0e by vulonkaaz@flyingcube.tech
2021-01-29T17:39:29.958462Z
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@SuperDicq It is not an uninformed opinion, I know exactly how this "surgery" works and it's just turning someone's dick into an artificial hole that serves no other purpose than comforting them in their weird ideology, an artificial hole that need several hours of maintenance per day and is treated as a wound by their body
(DIR) Post #A3jlHkvcfxHX6bo2DI by SuperDicq@cdrom.tokyo
2021-01-29T17:51:17.731911Z
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@vulonkaaz First of all it's not a wound. Dilation takes a few hours per day right after the surgery. After recovery is done dilation can be as low 15 minutes per day.Also it is not a surgery "that serves no other purpose than comforting them in their weird idealogy".It is a medical procedure, not a cosmetic procedure, to treat a patient diagnosed with gender dysphoria (GD) in DSM-5.
(DIR) Post #A3jmB37AlFNVR7Zf8q by vulonkaaz@flyingcube.tech
2021-01-29T17:58:27.482137Z
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@SuperDicq so you consider digging an artificial hole into someone is an acceptable treatment for a mental disorder ?
(DIR) Post #A3jmB3Yp6RUoosVkEy by SuperDicq@cdrom.tokyo
2021-01-29T18:01:17.966598Z
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@vulonkaaz Yes, I am not gonna pretend I know more about this than doctors do.
(DIR) Post #A3jmFGwxGQsfVIoCae by chjara@letsalllovela.in
2021-01-29T18:02:04.889453Z
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@vulonkaaz @SuperDicq if it treats it then by definition it's a treatment
(DIR) Post #A3jmKC76flE7x6u7G4 by emilis@cdrom.tokyo
2021-01-29T18:02:58.004364Z
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@chjara @vulonkaaz @SuperDicq crazy how that works
(DIR) Post #A3jmwgSYIO6J4ZHvwe by mangeurdenuage@shitposter.club
2021-01-29T18:09:55.685567Z
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@SuperDicq @vulonkaaz >to treat a patientWith that logic we should treat people with anorexia with liposuctions.
(DIR) Post #A3jnArUO5Ir5KnuJLE by SuperDicq@cdrom.tokyo
2021-01-29T18:12:29.032938Z
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@mangeurdenuage @vulonkaaz Except giving a liposuction to an anorexia patient would be dangerous.If they could be super skinny without being unhealthy we wouldn’t treat them at all.
(DIR) Post #A3jnOvX1qp5xvVqjWS by frank87@ikbenpiraat.nl
2021-01-29T18:09:37.778337Z
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@SuperDicq @emilis @Stellar @fristi @newt Yes we have. Because I learned some Erlang for the greater good"https://learnyousomeerlang.com/
(DIR) Post #A3jncf1c1GCymnhfqC by SuperDicq@cdrom.tokyo
2021-01-29T18:17:30.315485Z
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@mangeurdenuage @vulonkaaz If you treat a transgender patient with vaginoplasty they can continue to live a long and healthy life.If you don't force an anorexia patient to eat they will die in a week.How is this even a comparison?
(DIR) Post #A3jntqrXGFXwQFBg8G by frank87@ikbenpiraat.nl
2021-01-29T18:17:13.766195Z
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@Stellar @emilis @SuperDicq @fristi @newt I see, Belgian...Hey, ppbe@mastodon.pirateparty.be, someone wants to meet you!!!
(DIR) Post #A3jntrHlgiWvjbSd1M by SuperDicq@cdrom.tokyo
2021-01-29T18:20:35.034739Z
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@frank87 @Stellar @emilis @fristi @newt @ppbeSo the Belgians run Mastodon and the Dutch run Pleroma? I see that as a win for the Netherlands. :cooldoggo:
(DIR) Post #A3joL2TOCY1WFarCZU by frank87@ikbenpiraat.nl
2021-01-29T18:24:45.611870Z
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@fristi @SuperDicq @Stellar @emilis @newt In the beginning, everyone disappeared after the elections (I heard Dirk Poot ran the party on his own for a while). Later everybody started fighting (during the EU-elections it was at its worst)Now the wounds seem to be healing, but we could use any help we can get.
(DIR) Post #A3joadnLinZ2LWdIR6 by mangeurdenuage@shitposter.club
2021-01-29T18:28:21.298313Z
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@SuperDicq @vulonkaaz >Except giving a liposuction to an anorexia patient would be dangerous.Yes, that is why you don't treat mental issues by giving to patients what they want.>If you treat a transgender patient with vaginoplasty they can continue to live a long and healthy life.That is not always the case. Some people realize either that their choice was not what they wanted, or some surgery can go wrong.And that is why you do not treat mental issues with irreversible methods.
(DIR) Post #A3jp88hTpxzDkmrR9E by SuperDicq@cdrom.tokyo
2021-01-29T18:34:22.961615Z
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@mangeurdenuage @vulonkaaz >don’t treat mental issues by giving to patients what they want.Mental patients know something is wrong and want to be cured. You always give them that, a cure. You give a depressed person a cure for depression. You give an anorexic person a cure for anorexia. And you give a gender dysphoric person a cure for gender dysphoria.>Some people realize either that their choice was not what they wanted, or some surgery can go wrong.This unfortunately happens but shouldn’t mean it shouldn’t happen at all. It cures more people than it kills. Every surgery can go wrong but the risks outweigh the benefits.
(DIR) Post #A3jpDY1b6o85kBqjVw by dubh@collapsitarian.io
2021-01-29T18:35:22.972238Z
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@mangeurdenuage @SuperDicq @vulonkaaz > irreversible methodsSSRIs are blindly fired and measured behaviorally often, with sometimes catastrophic side effects, anti-depressants are legally required to list suicidal ideation in their side-effects. We often treat mental illness with irreversible methods, fully accepting things even as far as suicide as normal side effect. So this is observably false. At root there is a greater issue, in that there is a presumption that for "safety" one can dictate what I do to my own body, which is done back-handedly because it's indefensible itself.
(DIR) Post #A3jpRKziLteJNwXnma by mangeurdenuage@shitposter.club
2021-01-29T18:37:52.717602Z
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@SuperDicq @vulonkaaz >You always give them that, a cure.>You give a depressed person a cure>and you give a gender dysphoric person a cureOften the cure is inside you.https://yewtu.be/watch?v=GZnXBnz2kwkhttps://yewtu.be/playlist?list=PLPNVcESwoWu4lI9C3bhkYIWB8-dphbzJ3
(DIR) Post #A3jpdgYE1ynviVZfHc by SuperDicq@cdrom.tokyo
2021-01-29T18:40:05.304323Z
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@mangeurdenuage @vulonkaaz Also it's not like anyone can walk into a psych ward and ask for a sex change.Most people that end up in a gender clinic leave without taking any pills or surgery, because the psychiatrist was able to cure their dysphoria by making them comfortable in their assigned gender at birth, no further treatment needed.Transitioning is only used as a cure in cases where there is no way for a patient to live a normal life otherwise.
(DIR) Post #A3jpj87IyA6WetZwFU by frank87@ikbenpiraat.nl
2021-01-29T18:29:05.646895Z
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@SuperDicq @Stellar @emilis @fristi @newt @ppbe I started out on the Belgian server. But the nice thing about the fediverse is you can build your own community, so I started a dutch one. It's not very crowded, but hey: during elections people get enthousiastic.
(DIR) Post #A3jpj8YxJMDq2eW1Lc by SuperDicq@cdrom.tokyo
2021-01-29T18:41:04.240590Z
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@frank87 @Stellar @emilis @fristi @newt @ppbe Yeah I'm also enthusiastic about the election. Also thanks for giving context, Frank.
(DIR) Post #A3jqI3JCpz1rsknVsO by SuperDicq@cdrom.tokyo
2021-01-29T18:47:23.248912Z
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@dubh @mangeurdenuage @vulonkaaz Overmedication sponsored by big pharma is definitely an issue acknowledged by professionals as well.At least here in the Netherlands in the last decade we’re making some progress to combat it and only using medication when absolutely necessary.
(DIR) Post #A3jqJU56mbdPCnt0l6 by mangeurdenuage@shitposter.club
2021-01-29T18:47:39.851045Z
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@SuperDicq @vulonkaaz >Also it's not like anyone can walk into a psych ward and ask for a sex change.You are correct but it depends on the country. Some people just look at your wallet.>because the psychiatrist was able to cure their dysphoria It is not the psychiatrist that cures, their is no cure. It's just the patient that "cures" itself.
(DIR) Post #A3jqRx4urCQVSEplqa by SuperDicq@cdrom.tokyo
2021-01-29T18:48:29.083679Z
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@mangeurdenuage @vulonkaaz >It is not the psychiatrist that cures, their is no cure. It’s just the patient that “cures” itself.True, but a psychiatrist puts them on the right path.
(DIR) Post #A3jqePzfB0WmbnJzTk by SuperDicq@cdrom.tokyo
2021-01-29T18:51:25.147610Z
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@mangeurdenuage @vulonkaaz And yeah in some countries you can just buy a sex change. At that point I'd consider it a cosmetic surgery of course.
(DIR) Post #A3jqhJA91wGqI8bOAS by dubh@collapsitarian.io
2021-01-29T18:51:58.002628Z
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@SuperDicq @mangeurdenuage @vulonkaaz I don't mean over-medication, I am pointing to what is normal within the realm of side-effect from accepted treatments for mental illness. If you go to the doctor and say you are depressed you might be proscribed an anti-depressant, and one of the accepted side-effects from anti-depressants is suicidal ideation. That's not something that invalidates a treatment, evidently.
(DIR) Post #A3jqjRfwLo8VGyUe3M by mangeurdenuage@shitposter.club
2021-01-29T18:52:21.415984Z
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@SuperDicq @vulonkaaz >but a psychiatrist puts them on the right path.A psychiatrist will mostly observe, ask questions but never evaluate.Again I recommend looking into the work of Marshall Rosenberg that I posted earlier.
(DIR) Post #A3k0ujDuRo18QKOvM8 by waltercool@pl.slash.cl
2021-01-29T20:46:25.771087Z
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@newt @fristi Just because he made some facts about Transgenderism, and some SJW don’t like biological facts.So, they cancel him.
(DIR) Post #A3k2YpOP1taP5vzgXI by fristi@kartoffel.cafe
2021-01-29T21:04:52.380998Z
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@frank87 @Stellar @SuperDicq > In the beginning, everyone disappeared after the elections (I heard Dirk Poot ran the party on his own for a while).Well damn, no wonder the party's been so far off the radar for a while. It really sounds to me like the party could use a leader that could properly unite the people.Anyway, I don't mind supporting the pirate party (especially considering my alternative was to cast a blank vote instead), but this does raise some questions about whether or not the party can hold it self together if it actually obtains seats.
(DIR) Post #A3kFtGACVKXjJqQLei by frank87@ikbenpiraat.nl
2021-01-29T22:53:04.533641Z
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@fristi @Stellar @SuperDicq That was in 2011. Since 2017 there have been some stable local clubs. But there was discussion about the EU-elections. But if you're living in Utrecht of Amsterdam, you should have been able to see us.But I was a bit occupied by personal problems. There are some pretty fine people in the party. But we're missing a bit of community building. We have ±1000 members, and we're having problems getting 680 signatures.But I'll keep you posted on the next fun excursion: putting up posters...
(DIR) Post #A3kFtGbqqWf2hbMQkq by SuperDicq@cdrom.tokyo
2021-01-29T23:34:13.355981Z
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@frank87 @fristi @Stellar Oh yeah sure, me too!
(DIR) Post #A3kKEOdCcGGrTmK7SS by Melymnia@cdrom.tokyo
2021-01-30T00:14:18.904216Z
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@mangeurdenuage @SuperDicq @vulonkaaz >A psychiatrist will mostly observe, ask questions but never evaluate.Some psychologists* might do that, depending on their methods, but not necessarily.Psychiatrists, however, definitely will, since they have to prescribe medication.Anyway, hey man, keep up pretending to know things about stuff. And you’re entitled to your phobic opinions, too. Just a friendly request to be a little more mindful and respectful towards people’s genuinely stressful and agonizing mental and medical conditions before being so judgmental, condescending, and rude about their situation. It is possible to question, challenge and debate just about any view without being a colossal dick about it. You can do it, I believe in you…
(DIR) Post #A3lSlUJjUSaRSgT0fQ by mangeurdenuage@shitposter.club
2021-01-30T13:33:14.917828Z
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@Melymnia @SuperDicq @vulonkaaz >to be a little more mindful and respectful towards people’s genuinely stressful and agonizing mental and medical conditionsI shouldn't do it this...Are you saying that I don't care about the well being of people ?Are you saying that I wasn't tortured by having my nails ripped of and beaten when I was 12 years old because I didn't know how to speak the language of the country that I migrated in ?Are you saying that I don't suffer from being attached to a chair for a whole day in the middle of the sun when I was 12~13 years old while my grandma was drinking alcohol with her friend and using a water hose on me , just because I did not want to eat fish ?Are you saying that I don't suffer from my brother's suicide while I tried reanimating him ?Are you saying that I don't suffer from having 50 bucks left if not less each month on my account even tho I work ?Are you saying that I don't suffer while I never had a relationship while being in my 30s ?Are you saying that I don't suffer from some ptsd ?>condescending>A form of incivility wherein one displays an attitude of patronizing superiority or disdain.https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Poe's_law>Poe's law is an adage of Internet culture stating that, without a clear indicator of the author's intent, it is impossible to create a parody of extreme views so obviously exaggerated that it cannot be mistaken by some readers for a sincere expression of the views being parodied.>It is possible to question, challenge and debate just about any view without being a colossal dick about it.I submitted my point of view with material. I however did not insult anyone.I again recommend to take some time and look into the work of Marshall Rosenberg that I posted earlier.
(DIR) Post #A3lbWZH7fqDa59Cro0 by Melymnia@cdrom.tokyo
2021-01-30T14:36:34.336199Z
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@mangeurdenuage @SuperDicq @vulonkaaz Dude. What the hell. :ablobthinkingeyes: Where do you get the idea that I think any of that? Get out of here with this self-victimizing nonsense. You’re picking apart some strawman you made of me, not my actual statements. I have no idea what you went through in your life, and I didn’t say anything about what you went through in your life. All I tried to make clear was that your opinion appears biased and uninformed by available facts, and that I thought you and @vulonkaaz are behaving like ignorant jerks. My request was for you to be more considerate when discussing real people’s medical and mental struggles, even if you don’t believe they exist. It’s not for you to decide whether they do.I called you “condescending”, because you were grossly misrepresenting the sanity of people seeking treatment for their gender dysphoria, as if you know better on the matter and they don’t know anything.“Poe’s law” is an entirely subjective experience. If you were parodying a transphobe: Well done. If you’re unsure whether I’m parodying a trans woman: No, I’m being serious.Last but not least: “I however did not insult anyone.” That’s not how insulting works. You insult someone when you do or say something that makes someone feel insulted. I felt insulted. Others felt insulted. Therefore, you insulted people. Whether it was intentional or not is irrelevant.
(DIR) Post #A3lbWZuTJXh43BcI8e by mangeurdenuage@shitposter.club
2021-01-30T15:11:23.602281Z
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@Melymnia @SuperDicq @vulonkaaz >Where do you get the idea that I think any of that? >Get out of here with this self-victimizing nonsense.And this is why there's a failure of communication. I'll make my argument clear.You initial argument was :>to be a little more mindful and respectful towards people’s genuinely stressful and agonizing mental and medical conditionsImplied that you could have thought that I did not know this sort of state.This was my point.>You’re picking apart some strawman you made of meNo I'm trying to show you the guilt that can comes out with the logic that you use.>All I tried to make clear was that your opinion appears biased and uninformed by available factsI studied the subject for about six years. And I concluded that besides people with genetics abnormalities, it's mental illness that can be caused by multiple factors.>as if you know better on the matter and they don’t know anything.I never said that. That is just your own evaluation of the text I posted.>No, I’m being serious.The point of poe's law means that you cannot know how someone said something and thus you cannot conclude if someone said something "condescending" "patronizing superiority" "disdain" or any emotions that is created by voice intonations.>You insult someone when you do or say something that makes someone feel insulted.>I felt insulted. Others felt insulted. Therefore, you insulted people.Why should I be responsible for you emotions ?Are you yourself responsible for my own emotions ?No, and I don't want you too be responsible of my emotions because that would breed violence in one another.It is not the stimulus that determines how our emotional reaction is. That part is up to us.Video related:
(DIR) Post #A3lfviAc8gUaj3PIKO by Melymnia@cdrom.tokyo
2021-01-30T15:55:54.828596Z
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@mangeurdenuage @SuperDicq @vulonkaaz “Why should I be responsible for you emotions?”First of all: Responding with this question implies a logical fallacy. Involving the whole responsibility aspect is false equivalence. For, you know… Why can’t I shoot you with a gun? Why should I be responsible for your health?You aren’t responsible for my emotions, I’m handling that myself just fine. You are responsible for the things you say, though. I’m not saying my feelings are your responsibility by making a request. It’s merely a request, which you can still decline, and I’m not implying that you have to comply. I’m engaging in a discussion by contesting your perspective with mine.“Implied that you could have thought that I did not know this sort of state.This was my point.”I don’t care whether or not you are familiar with such states. That ‘failure of communication’ I think is caused by your belief that I supposedly think you’re not allowed to speak if you don’t have agonizing mental states yourself. I don’t think that. It’s not a contest. No amount of suffering on your end will invalidate someone else’s. And vice versa. You don’t get a free pass if you think your situation is worse or something.“No I’m trying to show you the guilt that can comes out with the logic that you use.”What kind of logic am I using? Guilt? Elaborate.Man, the stuff you listed is awful, and it sucks that you have to deal with that. I wouldn’t make light of that, or judge your perspective on what you experienced, or assume anything about your experience. That feels logical to me. And that’s the kind of logic behind my approach. Because to me, your logic sounds like ‘they’re just messed up in the head and you shouldn’t enable it’, aka ‘I’m making light of it, I’m judging their perspective on what they’re experiencing, and assume I know what they’re experiencing better than they do.’ I’m not trying to force guilt on you, I’m trying to convince you that your misconceptions are ill-conceived and can cause harm to other people.“The point of poe’s law means that you cannot know how someone said something and thus you cannot conclude if someone said something “condescending” “patronizing superiority” “disdain” or any emotions that is created by voice intonations.”The point of Poe’s law is that you can’t know whether a notion you see uttered online is an original, or parody. It’s not a ‘law’ that says you can’t possibly know what people mean when they say something on the internet.If I see you constantly refer to trans people’s symptoms as “mental issues” that shouldn’t be enabled, as if they’re delusional, dismissing their experience and copious real evidence that confirms their experience, followed up by short oversimplified arguments to conclude your own personal views that contradict general scientific consensus as the absolute truth… Yeah, sorry man, but calling that ‘condescending’ is still really generous to you.“I studied the subject for about six years.”Please provide links to your studies, especially the peer reviews.
(DIR) Post #A3mQHdIzVFPhtqiSsy by mangeurdenuage@shitposter.club
2021-01-31T00:40:09.960702Z
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@Melymnia @SuperDicq @vulonkaaz >implies a logical fallacy. Involving the whole responsibility aspect is false equivalence. For, you know… Why can’t I shoot you with a gun? Why should I be responsible for your health?That's because you don't distinguish between passive violence and physical violence.Both have negative effects. Physical violence is always started by passive violence. Passive violence can be started by: Moralistic Judgments, the misinterpretation of ones own emotional state, misinterpretation of ones own needs, associating observation and evaluations, denial of responsibility and a few more.Please see the Chapter 2 of NVC .txt that I just typed back for you.Re-reeding/typing this has highlighted a few mistakes that I made in my previous post that you will also remark.>I think is caused by your belief that I supposedly think you’re not allowed to speak if you don’t have agonizing mental states yourself. Belief that started with how some precedents posts.>I don’t think that.Good.>It’s not a contest. Agreed.>What kind of logic am I using? Guilt?I'd like to type back chapter 3 but it's already late.If you don't mind can you please give this audio book 10 min of your attention.https://yewtu.be/watch?v=Ikb5FCZPhEU>Because to me, your logic sounds like ‘they’re just messed up in the head and you shouldn’t enable it’,>‘I’m making light of it, I’m judging their perspective on what they’re experiencing, and assume I know what they’re experiencing better than they do.’I wouldn't phrase it like that, that is an awful alienating way to put it up.What I meant is that I do not agree with the methods that some of the people in the medical sector are using because it doesn't treat the said mental issue, they are treating symptoms and not the cause of the symptoms. And I observed that some of the methods used to treat the symptoms are only aggravating the said symptoms.>I’m trying to convince you that your misconceptions are ill-conceived and can cause harm to other people.I'm not trying to convince you I'm just speaking my mind because, like you, I don't wish people to harm themselves.>It’s not a ‘law’ that says you can’t possibly know what people mean when they say something on the internet.Again some pieces of text cannot be understood the same way because there is no oral intonations. That is why punctuation and many other symbols and words to express ourselves exists.>that contradict general scientific consensusI do not agree with the general scientific consensus, because I observed it is not a consensus, if it was a consensus then the people that would disagree with them would not be persecuted and buried as they were and still are for their own work.>Please provide links to your studies, especially the peer reviews.You will be deceived that I sadly never kept any notes of everything that read on the subjects when I stopped a few years ago, a quite naive moment of life.I am sorry that I can't provide you will all of what I discovered through time.But I can try to share you a few small methods that you can apply yourself that permits you to discovers such issues in texts.-If there is no methodology described then the experiment is not reproducible and thus is to be considered false/faulty.-Reading the methodology (if there is one) to see if there are any unreliable methods used, like for example hundred of thousands of anonymous people that were questioned via the internet.-If the pear reviews are biased or false then the experiment is likely false (the Grievance Studies affair is a very good and sadly still ongoing example of that https://yewtu.be/watch?v=kVk9a5Jcd1k ).And lastly, again, NVC helps a lot.
(DIR) Post #A3oUNRrNl1dKGzkbdQ by Melymnia@cdrom.tokyo
2021-02-01T00:24:56.889998Z
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@SuperDicq @Majkatsu @MisakaMikoto @Stellar @fristi @newt “Quitting a project because you don’t agree with someone’s political stance on the team that has nothing to do with the project is childish.”Another reason why being trans sucks. It’s so ridiculously politicized. Being trans is not inherently political, but becomes political when different groups of people disagree about relevant policy.If you quit because someone you work with is publicly very vocal about thinking your existence is fake and advocates against your human rights, I don’t think that’s childish. I think that’s self-care. Protecting your boundaries, defending your principles, and not taking any shit you don’t need to take. That’s quitting because of discrimination, not because of politics.Retroactively shoveling chunks of code someone worked on when it turns they suck as a person, though? Nah, I don’t think that helps anyone.
(DIR) Post #A3p8ZdBRTkmx2AUuSe by fristi@kartoffel.cafe
2021-02-01T08:05:52.466848Z
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@Melymnia @SuperDicq @Majkatsu @MisakaMikoto @Stellar @newt pls untag