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(DIR) Post #9pfofnR0OmNk0SM5ei by whernandez@social.quodverum.com
2019-12-06T02:00:37Z
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And buying Suzanne's book! https://thefederalist.com/2019/11/12/4-feminist-lies-that-are-making-women-miserable/?fbclid=IwAR24YrDRUpfb85RG88TOgl_U5YsG58zcWrA8F-kDF7qmSATSBNg3NCkmDUg
(DIR) Post #9pfpKt1aWI1lDU3lmy by whernandez@social.quodverum.com
2019-12-06T02:08:02Z
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My mother was sold that lie. I am bitter that I was born in the late 70s, which was around the time that feminists successfully conned mothers & wives that careers mattered more than family & home, and mothers like mine ate that sh*t up. I was a daycare kid. I was a sad kid. I would have loved to have grown up during the 1950s-when taking care of one's own kids & home was the norm.
(DIR) Post #9pfplNBH1RQGH1Dgqu by JM@social.quodverum.com
2019-12-06T02:12:49Z
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@whernandez I was a stay at home mom, my son was born late 70's. Yes, I got a lot of sh*t from women...I did not care. 😊 I told them, you are the one missing out!
(DIR) Post #9pfprRVTqqzzQZZ8YC by whernandez@social.quodverum.com
2019-12-06T02:13:55Z
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@JM Your son is a lucky kid!
(DIR) Post #9pfpu2coojX37xElqC by JM@social.quodverum.com
2019-12-06T02:14:23Z
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@whernandez Thank you.
(DIR) Post #9pfsDl6frNa0UjjQOW by Jaime@social.quodverum.com
2019-12-06T02:40:22Z
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@JM @whernandez So what do you do? I’m a homemaker. 😳👀I was fortunate.If you didn’t work outside of home and send your kids to summer camp you actually were frowned upon.When I did work when my kids were young it was part time.Picked them up from school.Nah it didn’t make them perfect.😁
(DIR) Post #9pfsR09DFWQyuMEXpo by JM@social.quodverum.com
2019-12-06T02:42:45Z
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@Jaime Stability and you taught your children morals, not teachers.@whernandez
(DIR) Post #9pfsiulC1CMDPaXY8m by Jaime@social.quodverum.com
2019-12-06T02:45:58Z
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@JM @whernandez Different world today.
(DIR) Post #9pfz210VcELW0uCATo by WarriorPoet@social.quodverum.com
2019-12-06T03:56:41Z
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@whernandez My mother didn't eat it up. It pissed her off. In her 50s she had to go to work.She worked well into her 70s.Most of my ideas about feminism come from my mom.
(DIR) Post #9pg0YNTrh9nOw0vDQ8 by Judy@social.quodverum.com
2019-12-06T04:13:43Z
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@whernandez I bought into it too. My work as a progressive feminist meant more then my family. Now my granddaughters mean more to me then anything. I’m sorry for my mistake.
(DIR) Post #9pg3ZFH1zfjDdK1YxM by Trickster@social.quodverum.com
2019-12-06T04:47:30Z
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@whernandez I was raised where my Mom stayed home with the kids and took care of them and everything else while my father ran his business, My wife and I agreed she would stay home and take care of the kids, I don't understand why people have kids just to let someone else raise them, I mean, I understand some don't have a choice but if you do, they should raise their kids themselves, how can you trust someone else with your kids.
(DIR) Post #9pg9sk3UN8UIKNMzHk by Kat@social.quodverum.com
2019-12-06T05:58:14Z
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@whernandez Unfortunately now it almost takes two incomes to make ends meet and pay your bills. Makes it more unlikely that moms can stay at home.
(DIR) Post #9pgDOs2MWzJKDCr38C by BeFree@social.quodverum.com
2019-12-06T06:37:40Z
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@whernandez Growing up in the fifties was not that great without money.I lived in a mixed-race neighborhood and regularly got jumped for being white.My family did not move to a safe neighborhood until I was fifteen, to a neighborhood under the flight path into LAX.I, too, was a sad kid, living with smoking parents and their pet cats, both of which kept me so skinny with asthma one could see my ribs.It was not until I moved out that I put on weight and started flirting with girls.
(DIR) Post #9pgLQLlqGd3qLsLNbM by oystergirl@social.quodverum.com
2019-12-06T08:07:35Z
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@Jaime @JM @whernandez Had a successful career and then had my 1st daughter and a year later my husband and I decided that since I longed to be home with her I should. We took a 2/3 cut in income to make that happen and I never looked back. It was a choice, sometimes a difficult one financially, but never regretted it. Sadly, my only female inlaw who chose the opposite path did not create strong and loving bonds with her kids. It's possible to do but takes tons of flexibility and dedication.
(DIR) Post #9pgkUbWU8kZzDeHnLE by holymolyrocky@social.quodverum.com
2019-12-06T12:48:29Z
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@whernandez Thank you for the great thread which resulted from your comment. I was fortunate and thankful to have had a stay at home mother.Feminism has done great harm to society in my mind. 2 family incomes are basically a requirement. Females now suffer the same stress, health issues, and shorter lifespans that were previously the domain of males.
(DIR) Post #9ph33YwLX8XEWECYGO by ilumanous@social.quodverum.com
2019-12-06T16:16:29Z
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@holymolyrocky @whernandez I’ve never cared much about what anyone thinks. I nursed my kids when it wasn’t popular. I had my son at home and never had him circumcised. I homeschooled my kids. Plus many other things that people gave me crap over. I remember a salesman from a major company who said something disparaging about my NOT WORKING, and I set him strait. My husband still laughs about it. Before I quit working I was in sales and managed stores of my own so I knew what job was harder.
(DIR) Post #9ph4GYxsquiIJYgRF2 by JM@social.quodverum.com
2019-12-06T16:30:02Z
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@oystergirl Good for you, not one person can replace an existing mommy...❤️ @Jaime @whernandez
(DIR) Post #9ph8heUsn7tN6kI70K by EricStoner@social.quodverum.com
2019-12-06T17:19:45Z
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@whernandez I never understood the "liberation" of taking a job where you HAD to be there, nine to five to earn a gold watch at the end.
(DIR) Post #9phBLqcJLic0Bk3mvA by whernandez@social.quodverum.com
2019-12-06T17:49:26Z
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@EricStoner https://twitter.com/Chesschick01/status/1202998678933381126?s=20
(DIR) Post #9phBjmWcDLp4RooC4e by Ballerina@social.quodverum.com
2019-12-06T17:25:30Z
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@oystergirl @Jaime @JM @whernandez Good on you. I remember when I first met my husband. Having been a child of a mom who worked because she too was sold on the feminist lie, I longed to be that stay at home mom. During one of our many long conversations, him on the love seat, me on the couch, we talked about why a man would want his wife to work. “Because it takes the responsibility off of him” I remember him so simply saying. It was at that moment I began to fall in love.
(DIR) Post #9phKlRt2oiIobdAYxk by WatchfulCat@social.quodverum.com
2019-12-06T19:34:54Z
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@oystergirl @Jaime @JM @whernandez Good on you. I believe the best part of me came from being home with a loving mama when I was a child. So many precious memories and feelings of security. She is now 94, living with me and I look after her. It’s my special privilege to do so.
(DIR) Post #9phKnVjDVOUr6DYWPo by WatchfulCat@social.quodverum.com
2019-12-06T19:35:16Z
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@JM @whernandez Exactly.
(DIR) Post #9phL1bEFqp2sDHn8Uq by JM@social.quodverum.com
2019-12-06T19:37:49Z
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@WatchfulCat Bless you and your mama... 💗❤💗@oystergirl @Jaime @whernandez
(DIR) Post #9phL5vyGfr5nhbNfQO by WatchfulCat@social.quodverum.com
2019-12-06T19:38:36Z
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@JM @Jaime @whernandez SOOOO important and the thing so badly needed. The whole nation is suffering because of parents not nurturing small kids in morals, integrity, love. And it has become generational to the hurt of our nation.
(DIR) Post #9phLB0CeMpAcH8WaR6 by JM@social.quodverum.com
2019-12-06T19:39:31Z
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@WatchfulCat Exactly, the leftist ideology of feminism was meant to destroy families.@Jaime @whernandez
(DIR) Post #9phLGWlYj4IwiRUIKW by WatchfulCat@social.quodverum.com
2019-12-06T19:40:31Z
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@JM @oystergirl @Jaime @whernandez We are blessed. God bless you and thank you.
(DIR) Post #9phLJIYO1Xy1VOeCg4 by WatchfulCat@social.quodverum.com
2019-12-06T19:41:01Z
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@JM @Jaime @whernandez Indeed. Satan’s plan.
(DIR) Post #9phLNoPtV3XrU8pNJY by WatchfulCat@social.quodverum.com
2019-12-06T19:41:50Z
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@JM @oystergirl @Jaime @whernandez Amen.
(DIR) Post #9phLS6m5BhLXZzFqpU by WatchfulCat@social.quodverum.com
2019-12-06T19:42:37Z
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@WarriorPoet @whernandez Bless her.
(DIR) Post #9phLekCkPgv9LQkhbE by JM@social.quodverum.com
2019-12-06T19:44:54Z
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@WatchfulCat You are welcome and thank you...💕@oystergirl @Jaime @whernandez
(DIR) Post #9phLhNmAG96QeTZmvw by WatchfulCat@social.quodverum.com
2019-12-06T19:45:22Z
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@Kat @whernandez That is true and most middle class folks who make the one-income choice make a lot of sacrifices to do it. It isn’t easy. There’s no room for “keeping up with the Jones.”
(DIR) Post #9phQSAq0a13Dx6wQuO by EricStoner@social.quodverum.com
2019-12-06T20:38:39Z
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@whernandez Yes:-)
(DIR) Post #9phaubRyEEk48ftPW4 by whernandez@social.quodverum.com
2019-12-06T22:35:50Z
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@WatchfulCat @Kat Exactly. I was offered an amazing job working as an ELD (English Language Development) coordinator in the Bay Area with a starting salary of 75k. I turned it down to teach online, so that I could work at home while my kids were in school. Let's just say that my pay is SIGNIFICANTLY lower than the ELD job. Suffice it to say, we drive used cars & don't eat out a whole lot.
(DIR) Post #9phrSF6NQLXBwIr4Ma by Grammy@social.quodverum.com
2019-12-07T01:41:12Z
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@JM @whernandez Isn't it sad that it's now considered a choice to stay at home and raise our family, rather than being a choice to work?I also chose to stay at home - my children were born in the 90s and I never ever regretted it.Best choice ever
(DIR) Post #9phseqMEpjJeuoqXhI by WatchfulCat@social.quodverum.com
2019-12-07T01:54:41Z
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@whernandez @Kat ❤️😌💙Bless you in every way.
(DIR) Post #9phwSbWwXE2pGrGzEO by oystergirl@social.quodverum.com
2019-12-07T02:37:16Z
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@WatchfulCat @Jaime @JM @whernandez Huge love Cat. My parents are 91 and 84 and still independent but I take care of them when medical issues arise. Because my gran and pop lived with them for 40 years they took out long term health insurance, but when push comes to shove i am there. Last year it was for 5 different surgeries and medical issues. I was there today, both hail and hardy and still so in love with life. WE give back what we received. IF we didn't get it, we don't understand that.❤️
(DIR) Post #9phwZXexKBx7IEKSQ4 by JM@social.quodverum.com
2019-12-07T02:38:33Z
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@oystergirlAmen, well stated. Bless you...💗❤💗 @WatchfulCat @Jaime @whernandez
(DIR) Post #9pi3eEBHs8OG0adJqK by Kat@social.quodverum.com
2019-12-07T03:57:50Z
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@WatchfulCat @whernandez Thank you. I was also a SAHM. You’re right there were a lot of sacrifices like older used cars and camping vacations instead of flying off somewhere. I am lucky in being a SAHG now. (Stay at home grandma)😉.
(DIR) Post #9pkF1OSvHwoINT3Dd2 by Katydid@social.quodverum.com
2019-12-08T05:14:40Z
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@whernandez I was sold the lie, too. I denied biology for so long I struggled with infertility.When I finally became an old mother, I couldn't bear the thought of leaving my children in daycare.