Post 9mXfrskQfdGg3Ky8ci by zeat@niu.moe
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 (DIR) Post #9mXfrskQfdGg3Ky8ci by zeat@niu.moe
       2019-09-03T10:07:55Z
       
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       ive come to the stark realization that i need almost complete undivided commitment from another person in a relationship in order for it to work, and so far i feel like, whether it be because of life stuff getting in the way or just a natural lack of commitment on its own, i havent had a partner yet who  is 100% committed, and it always feels one sided in a way on my end. oh well though, maybe one day :ablobcatbongo:
       
 (DIR) Post #9mXhyzRMO17kkDZBzM by twee@patch.cx
       2019-09-03T10:31:38.805378Z
       
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       @zeat im the complete oppositei cant do relationships because i struggle to put the effort in (idk why)i feel like i dont understand how someone could love me so why care when theyre going to leave me which probably plays a part in why they leave me
       
 (DIR) Post #9mXiGFo2n92oQQPPto by zeat@niu.moe
       2019-09-03T10:34:45Z
       
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       @twee i can definitely see where you're coming from. a lot of my friends have the same kind of mindset, and its not too uncommon. tbh over time i've come to realize that everyone just naturally handles relationships differently, which is why it seems so hard to find the right person, since everyone has their own perspective on what relationships mean.