Post 9kSQanOZS62PWJrXyi by gozer@radical.town
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 (DIR) Post #9kSP2d9WvZUTxAyLnk by kasia@godforsaken.website
       2019-06-30T11:16:14Z
       
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       if you're cis and ignorant about trans issues, that's almost certainly down to being raised in this cis centric world, i get that.but if you're not willing to learn even the basics and/or take me seriously, then i consider you a threat to my safety and don't want you near me.I don't care how this makes you feel.
       
 (DIR) Post #9kSP3IUBFhN295wvBI by farhan@mastodon.technology
       2019-07-01T13:26:30Z
       
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       @kasia I consider this mentality a threat to my safety.
       
 (DIR) Post #9kSP3IjmJhqavTFNUe by kasia@godforsaken.website
       2019-07-01T13:39:32Z
       
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       @farhan I'm fucking your dad as we speak, like this very second his minuscule wang is flopping around inside me, I'm at his house, in the bedroom you grew up in, getting fucking pumped to pieces and it's just barely gone midday, and there's fuck all you can do about it other than accept me as your new and improved mother. fuck off
       
 (DIR) Post #9kSPG2scaMKDVfSaxM by kaniini@pleroma.site
       2019-07-03T01:24:00.054198Z
       
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       @farhan @kasia why do you feel her position that refusal to take her seriously as a human is harmful to her safety (which it could very well be) is somehow harmful to your safety?or are you just yet another reactionary?
       
 (DIR) Post #9kSPGO5Rjs3tHWcdMW by gozer@radical.town
       2019-07-01T14:18:35Z
       
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       @farhan @kasia Wah wah. I feel threatened by a woman setting limits. Wah wah.
       
 (DIR) Post #9kSPMgcDlM0eU6xJaq by farhan@mastodon.technology
       2019-07-01T13:51:04Z
       
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       @kasia My father died of cancer 6 years ago. Hate comments like that only confirm that you are a threat to my safety.
       
 (DIR) Post #9kSPMgsWmj3NIgaL0i by jojo@the.scream.zone
       2019-07-01T14:07:32Z
       
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       @farhan @kasia Farhan, have you considered educating yourself instead of simply commenting about how you "feel threatened" by someone who really just wants cis people to learn more about trans issues and not treat them like shit?If you're offended by the way in which Kasia is addressing this, perhaps try seeing her side of this because it's clearly a vent on how it's not fuckin easy to be trans, mate.
       
 (DIR) Post #9kSPMhCNauvuIFsBxA by farhan@mastodon.technology
       2019-07-01T14:18:43Z
       
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       @jojo @kasia That's missing the point and turning it around. The initial comment said "...i consider you a threat to my safety and don't want you near me". That begs the question, what "defensive" steps will one take against this "threat"?The following comment about my deceased father is proof that its a threat. The next step is physical. Perhaps see it from my perspective?
       
 (DIR) Post #9kSPMhPUo9QOww0fOi by gayalien@cryptids.online
       2019-07-01T14:20:37Z
       
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       @farhan @jojo @kasia dude, your dad died because i sucked his dick too hard. his head shrunk down like all the fluid was gone. shut the fuck up and leave
       
 (DIR) Post #9kSPMhg9oCkhmbnyMq by farhan@mastodon.technology
       2019-07-01T14:23:57Z
       
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       @gayalien @socialskeleton Hi Social Skeleton. Please be aware of what a user of your service said about my deceased father. I understand in general Mastodon has rules against such language, which is why we are collectively against Gab.
       
 (DIR) Post #9kSPMhugwANWVgba1Q by kaniini@pleroma.site
       2019-07-03T01:25:13.766187Z
       
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       @farhan @socialskeleton @gayalien God damn you're a whiney little bitch bro.
       
 (DIR) Post #9kSPRXH1vGuKxYM8qu by gayalien@cryptids.online
       2019-07-01T14:25:33Z
       
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       @farhan @socialskeleton hi skel! how are you this morning? please look at how i pwned this cis manbaby
       
 (DIR) Post #9kSPRXu1aI6EuUbHdI by farhan@mastodon.technology
       2019-07-01T14:29:43Z
       
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       @gayalien @socialskeleton For reference, he made sexual comments towards my father after he knew he passed away. This violates the Code of Conduct, as listed here: https://github.com/tootsuite/mastodon/blob/master/CODE_OF_CONDUCT.mdSpecifically "The use of sexualized language or imagery and unwelcome sexual attention or advances" and "Being respectful of differing viewpoints and experiences". If Hannible wants to talk this way he can join his kin at Gab.
       
 (DIR) Post #9kSPRYszvas9xb7yfg by kaniini@pleroma.site
       2019-07-03T01:26:08.805829Z
       
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       @farhan @socialskeleton @gayalien the Mastodon CoC only applies to people developing on Mastodon, not on what people do on their own instance my man
       
 (DIR) Post #9kSQHTplxLxxLlNM3M by wolfcoder@witches.live
       2019-07-03T01:17:03Z
       
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       @farhan @kasia maybe the dad joke was harsh and uncalled for, but you don't get to play the victim here. nothing justifies your bigotry.
       
 (DIR) Post #9kSQUG0oenOOFMdMDw by mal@witches.live
       2019-07-02T17:42:07Z
       
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       @farhan @kasia funny because historically it has been cis people who have been a threat to trans people and not the other way around
       
 (DIR) Post #9kSQami20G0hONxZfk by Authoritimmy@jorts.horse
       2019-07-01T15:19:18Z
       
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       @farhan@kasiaI know 6 years isn't enough to take away the pain of the loss of a parent, but using it to win an internet argument is not exactly a productive way to grow through the struggle. I recommend some of the writings of Paul Tugan. He has some great stuff about building yourself again after such a difficult loss
       
 (DIR) Post #9kSQan1WplbeMr593w by farhan@mastodon.technology
       2019-07-01T15:21:50Z
       
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       @Authoritimmy @kasia I wasn't. That person randomly made sexual comments to my father themselves to win the argument. I was just citing the context under which it was said.I super appreciate it :) We had a hard time as a family, but we pulled through, thanks a lot, mate! I'll look into that person anyways.
       
 (DIR) Post #9kSQanOZS62PWJrXyi by gozer@radical.town
       2019-07-02T16:47:53Z
       
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       @farhan @Authoritimmy @kasia It wasn’t random. It was an excellent attempt to get you to go back under your rock where you belong, you fascist pig.
       
 (DIR) Post #9kSQdApxGeHsnonzZQ by 9gcarz2naIwb0S3nkm.JoYo@thejoyo.com
       2019-07-03T01:34:40.978981Z
       
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       @kaniini @farhan @gayalien @socialskeleton lol I didn't know I could complain to random instance owners.  err, @moonman please delete gab, thanks.