Post 9jVpvzBESILJWCSUcq by FuriaLaMirri@monstrous.church
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(DIR) Post #9jVprnuGQdsPOZWmie by viomi@cybre.space
2019-06-04T19:14:15Z
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Wait so there's people on like, this side of the fedi who actually think otherkin are transphobic?I'm.. I'm not connecting the dots, clearly I'm missing something
(DIR) Post #9jVpvzBESILJWCSUcq by FuriaLaMirri@monstrous.church
2019-06-04T19:14:59Z
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@viomi Wait I what? Otherkin has been trans stuff since like forever.
(DIR) Post #9jVq280mX7Moe7V1jU by dahl@monsterpit.net
2019-06-04T19:16:05Z
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@viomi it's respectability politics, plain and simple. "you are making us look bad because YOU'RE weirdness is TOO WEIRD and thus discrediting trans people's experiences by being the same thing but 'bad'."it only makes sense if you believe there's any reason to ever appeal to the status quo: aka, being respectable
(DIR) Post #9jVq4TyLr2ApKrU9DM by it@monstrous.church
2019-06-04T19:15:33Z
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@FuriaLaMirri @viomi Yeah exactly. Pretty much all the kin folks I know are trans. Most of us heck, found our gender identity through being kin, or vice versa.
(DIR) Post #9jVq4U7ZIlXvnRnVa4 by viomi@cybre.space
2019-06-04T19:16:32Z
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@it @FuriaLaMirri like I could imagine some random right wing weirdo coming to this conclusion but.. :S
(DIR) Post #9jVqAYvYLSwSRM4jh2 by viomi@cybre.space
2019-06-04T19:17:37Z
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@dahl !!!! thank you 💜 that does make more sensestill fucking stupid though. They do realize cis gays do this all the time to trans people right? 🤦
(DIR) Post #9jVqI0DZHIGp6j38HA by it@monstrous.church
2019-06-04T19:18:59Z
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@viomi @dahl Yeah that's been my argument through this whole "discourse." Also people do this with enbies also. Same logic. It's gross.Also sidenote hun, stupid = bad is ableism n I'd appreciate it a ton if you'd work on phasing that out of ur vocab pls sweetheart. I been using ridiculous as a stand in that's less harmful. <3
(DIR) Post #9jVqSe0GDBmnOZtpAG by dahl@monsterpit.net
2019-06-04T19:18:44Z
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@viomi there's been a lot of anti-kin bullshit lately, too. this is just one facet of itsee also the shitty arguments of:"kin people are sexualizing my dog and thus are bad""kin people are actually insane and need to go outside, they're 'too online'"yes people actually said this bullshitit's disgusting
(DIR) Post #9jVqSeBbX0rNxlCsqW by viomi@cybre.space
2019-06-04T19:20:53Z
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@dahl jeez :( that's hella shittyDid nobody tell them that kins aren't like.. just an online thing? All of my IRL partners take mine seriously and some of them don't even use social media or the internet for more than news :s
(DIR) Post #9jVqX6BpMB25yNQxVo by viomi@cybre.space
2019-06-04T19:21:42Z
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@it @dahl Oh,, it is? Okay, sorry,, I didn't know :x
(DIR) Post #9jVqXasPGQux97aO2q by dahl@monsterpit.net
2019-06-04T19:21:47Z
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@viomi honestly i doubt they actually believe their own words but thats just me
(DIR) Post #9jVqZUfNKAbiSsOe7E by it@monstrous.church
2019-06-04T19:22:08Z
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@viomi All goods love, life is learning <3
(DIR) Post #9jVrAoTKeLucbcYhbk by genderlessmenace666@queer.party
2019-06-04T19:28:52Z
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@viomi okay, I told everyone in the 5th grade that I was a shapeshifting cat, to the point where my teachers were "concerned" about me (aka I was already neurodivergent and they didn't want me to be any weirder than that)... In retrospect, I definitely think that was latent trans stuff manifesting. And I came out as nb and otherkin at the exact same time. So... *dramatic shrug*