Post 548787 by bowner@ghosty.ch
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 (DIR) Post #540604 by sim@sealion.club
       2018-10-14T23:05:25+00:00
       
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       One of the hardest things you can do in life is to create a healthy relationship and start a family together. It will make or break you. It will test and mould you... whether you grow from it and gain strength is up to you. You can't hide from it... you will be vulnerable and knock up against your self-defence shields. From that comes knowledge and the ability to change and grow with it.
       
 (DIR) Post #548787 by bowner@ghosty.ch
       2018-10-14T23:52:49.819734Z
       
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       @simAnd you have to remain stable for many years...and it can still fall apart ..longest I've made it was 7 years.....
       
 (DIR) Post #548788 by sim@sealion.club
       2018-10-15T11:27:33+00:00
       
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       @bowner It can... but a healthy relationship is a good foundation so that even if circumstances aren't ideal... you still have the relationship to fall back on before picking yourself back up. It takes a lot of being attentive on both sides. You have to put the hours into the relationship and fix any issues that arise as they do. It is why it is one of the hardest things you can do.