Post 487385 by thescarredstone@knzk.me
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(DIR) Post #487364 by gayhobbes@mastodon.social
2018-10-11T18:18:55Z
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Hey so I can't tell when we're all joking around if I've crossed a line and I try really hard not to, so please tell me if I make you uncomfortable and I'll try not to make you uncomfortable in the first place. Apparently I made someone on here so uncomfortable he blocked me. I would prefer it not get to that point with anyone else.
(DIR) Post #487365 by gayhobbes@mastodon.social
2018-10-11T18:38:14Z
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By the way it is totally going to devastate me when you point out I crossed the line, that is definitely going to happen. Do it anyway, your emotions are more important than my ability to make fucking dumb jokes. I'm going to feel really bad but I don't care, I just want you NOT to.
(DIR) Post #487366 by Thomas@laserdisc.party
2018-10-11T18:40:26Z
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@gayhobbes I like you too much to ever block you, but I’d square you up if you crossed some line. I don’t think that’s likely though, you’re a good dude.
(DIR) Post #487367 by gayhobbes@mastodon.social
2018-10-11T18:41:02Z
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@Thomas some people don't like sexual/lewd jokes and some people do and I NEVER KNOW which people are which until I find out the hard way
(DIR) Post #487368 by Thomas@laserdisc.party
2018-10-11T18:46:54Z
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@gayhobbes I can see that. I would hope people would just tell you rather than disengaging, but I guess some people fear confrontation.
(DIR) Post #487369 by gayhobbes@mastodon.social
2018-10-11T18:47:38Z
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@Thomas yeah I mean, I totally understand. And this is what's stupid about being a really upfront person like me is I just assume others will be, and that's something I can't just keep assuming
(DIR) Post #487370 by leonthotsky@knzk.me
2018-10-11T19:05:01Z
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@gayhobbes they did tell you pretty clearly they wanted you to stop, though. But yeah, do try to read these situations better, even if they don't tell you that. If you don't know someone well don't start making sexual jokes to them right out of the gate. There have been times when I've seen some of the things you've said and I've thought that if that were me, or if that weren't a man you were saying that to, you'd be in a lot of shit
(DIR) Post #487385 by thescarredstone@knzk.me
2018-10-11T19:06:13Z
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@leonthotsky @gayhobbes not to dogpile or anything but i'd like to add that I, and I think others would appreciate it if you used CWs a little more liberally.
(DIR) Post #487417 by gayhobbes@mastodon.social
2018-10-11T19:08:03Z
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@leonthotsky it was not clear to me based on every interaction we had being ironic.It seems like this has been a problem for awhile and I don't like to get defensive about this, but how am I supposed to know that something is a problem if I don't know it? Like, this is literally the first I'm hearing of it.