Subj : Re: New to this
To   : Nightfox
From : boraxman
Date : Sat Apr 26 2025 10:35 pm

-=> Nightfox wrote to boraxman <=-

 Ni>   Re: Re: New to this
 Ni>   By: boraxman to poindexter FORTRAN on Sat Apr 26 2025 01:47 am

 pF>> It happened often enough that there was a term for it - LUG, or Lesbian
 pF>> Until Graduation. Lots of heartache among my friends.

 bo> I've known women who went through that, one or two.  One stated that they
 bo> broke up with a guy, and decided to try women.  Its interesting how that
 bo> happens, as I would wager most men would NEVER consider dating other men,
 bo> simply because the last woman they were with didn't quite work out.

 bo> I don't really support the idea of "experimenting" at Uni.  You should be
 bo> finding reality, finding your feet, not going off on tangents that lead
 bo> nowhere.

 Ni> I've heard of guys "experimenting" in college too.  And for some peple,
 Ni> I think going off on tangents and experimenting in college may actually
 Ni> be a way to find reality.  As they say sometimes, you never know until
 Ni> you try..

Guided experimentation, where you can feed off other peoples
experience and knowledge, is good.  But just screwing around,
fumbling, that doesn't usually lead to good.

Experimenting would be trying new hobbies, joining groups, societies,
finding what you like.  Just smoking weed, getting drunk and doing
drugs though...
 
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