Subj : Re: What do you get out o To : Nightfox From : poindexter FORTRAN Date : Mon Apr 12 2021 07:08 am -=> Nightfox wrote to Ron Lauzon <=- Ni> I've always been an introvert and into computers & such. I don't have Ni> a large group of friends and sometimes feel a bit lonely. I went Ni> through a divorce last year, and being by myself again has felt weird. Sorry to hear about the divorce, I can relate to the contrast. I separated in 2007, and remember being the last person at work, since I could. I reached out to some old friends, one of the issues with marriage is sometimes one partner's friends become the "marriage" friends - and when separating, they often feel they need to take sides. I'm coming up on my son's 18th birthday, and the end of 14 years of paying child support. He's going to college and we're paying for it, though, so it's a zero-sum equation. Facebook taught us that we should have 150+ "friends", and they were wrong. 1 or 2 good friends is perfect. .... Abandon desire --- MultiMail/DOS v0.52 * Origin: realitycheckBBS.org -- information is power. (21:4/122) .