# 2026-07-18 - Wabi Sabi Simple by Richard R. Powell
       
       I found Wabi Sabi Simple in a Little Free Library and it's right up
       my alley, so to say.  I thought i'd share a few excerpts to give a
       sample of what the book is like.  The author, Richard Powell,
       has a personal web site [1].
       
       # Sabi
       
       Japanese readers of literature first used the word /sabi/ to try to
       describe the muted and subtle beauty of twelfth- and thirteenth
       century poetry, with its autumnal feel and somber mood.  The word has
       a melancholy ache to it, conjuring up rural images of faded and
       wobbly fence lines, fallow fields, and brown sparrows searching for
       food among crumpled autumn leaves.
       
       # Wabi
       
       /Wabi/ means poverty, but a genteel poverty such as is found in
       farmhouses where the family enjoys the riches of conversation and
       connection, while eating simple food from a simple hearth.
       
       Wabi is the detachment from wealth, the recognition that money can't
       buy everything, and that it often buys trouble.  Wabi is the
       resolved attitude of acceptance in the face of hardship and fear.  We
       fear losing our job, or losing our spouse, or losing prized
       possessions, or losing talents, or losing our reputation.  Wabi names
       the fear itself as the real difficulty and refuses to let it spoil
       life.  It looks past want to what is essential for life.
       
       Wabi was developed as a concept in the fifteenth and sixteenth
       centuries to tone down aristocratic tea parties.  The gatherings were
       made simpler and simpler in order to emphasize the relationships and
       the gentle pleasure of simple communion.
       
       # Wabi Sabi
       
       When the two related terms were brought together into the phrase
       /wabi sabi/ [2], it was a sign of humble grace.  It describes a
       certain type of simplicity, not the simplicity of square apartment
       buildings, nor the unimaginative simplicity of mass media, mass
       transportation, or mass marketing.  It is not about volume or size.
       Bigger is not better and faster is not fantastic.  It is about travel
       at human speed, eating natural food, and slowing down to be mindful.
       It is about respectful conversation, harmonious and peaceful
       dwellings, and modest behavior.  It is ordered but not orderly,
       planned but not scheduled, simple but not simple-minded, and
       deliberate without being rigid.
       
       Wabi sabi, if fully realized, is a way of life.  It may be helpful to
       contrast it with what is slick and stylish and plastic and fake.  It
       doesn't mean we don't use or appreciate all the positive
       technological advances of the modern world, but it does mean that we
       understand the need to balance "tech slick" with wabi sabi.
       
       The following chart will help clarify the essential differences
       between wabi sabi and "tech slick".
       
           Wabi Sabi                        Tech Slick
           ===============================  ===============================
           Nature focused                   Technology focused
           Authentic                        Copied
           Allows things to age             Strives for eternal youth
           Subtleties                       Bold and obvious
           Intuitive                        Rational
           Personal                         Impersonal
           One-of-a-kind                    Conformity and sameness
           In the moment                    Future oriented
           The whole                        Separated into parts
           Open and unresolved              Works toward closure
           Appreciation                     Depreciation
           Seasonal                         Quarterly
           Flexibility                      Stability
           Paradoxical                      Black and white
           Unrefined                        Refined
           Elegant                          Ornate
           Fractal                          Square and measured
           Organic                          Geometric
           Living                           Artificial
           Handcrafted                      Mass-produced
           Soft edges                       Hard edges
           Patina                           Plastic
           Stone                            Steel
           Listens                          Talks
           Sees                             Shows
           Receptive                        Arrogant
           Slow                             Fast
           Humble                           Proud
           Plain                            Fancy
           Reflective                       Unconscious
           Mindful                          Mindless
           Heartfelt                        Heartless
           Warm                             Cold
           Tolerates ambiguity and          Intolerant of contradictions
             contradiction                    and ambiguity
       
       # Naikan
       
       Naikan [3] (pronounced "nye-kahn") is part meditation, part therapy,
       and part spiritual practice.  And among other things, it is a good
       way to begin integrating wabi sabi into your everyday life, because
       it fosters humility, appreciation, and noticing.
       
       The word means "inner observation," /nai/ (inner or inside)
       /kan/ (observation), and its secret is that it creates awareness
       through the simple act of remembering the significant people in your
       life.
       
       To gain the most benefit from this experience, you need to set aside
       a block of time and follow these instructions:
       
       1. Find a quiet room.
       
       2. Sit comfortably, preferably in a corner or behind a screen with no
       other distractions.
       
       3. Thing and/or write lists based on three questions:
       
       * What have I received from _____?
         (Name a relative, friend, colleague, etc.)
       * What have I given to this person?
       * What troubles, difficulties, or worries have I caused this person?
       
       Think of and write down concrete examples.
       
       Choose one person at a time and spend as much time as necessary
       working through your history with that person from its beginning to
       now.  Try to put yourself in the other person's shoes and feel what
       he or she has felt.  When you have examined your three lists and are
       comfortable sharing them, talk to someone about it.  At a day session
       or retreat a counselor or someone familiar with the method will
       regularly ask you, "What did you explore this time?" 
       
       By speaking aloud what you wrote, you will make it more real and
       confirm for yourself the importance of the process.  Finally, when
       the time is right, express to the people on your lists your gratitude
       for the specific things they have given you.  By doing this you will
       bring authenticity to your relationship with them and reveal the wabi
       sabi nature of the gifts they have given you.
       
       # Single Tasking And The Quest For Simple Elegant Code
       
       Multitasking, the ability to do more than one thing at a time, has
       always interested me, largely because I have never really mastered
       it.  Oh, there are times when I will start the photocopier going and
       return to my desk to finish a letter I am working on, but anything
       much more complicated than that taxes my capacity.  For years I felt
       bad about this, felt inadequate because I was unable to hold multiple
       threads of activity in the proper order in my mind at the same time.
       
       Then, a few years ago I heard about single-tasking from computer
       geeks who expressed their desire to work intensely on one problem
       before moving on to the next.  When a computer is multitasking, it
       divides its computing power up between programs and gives the
       illusion that it is doing two things at once.  What it is really
       doing is a bit of one task and a bit of another, alternating, until
       both tasks are done.  Because in human terms it takes little time to
       execute both tasks, we perceive that the computer accomplishes both
       simultaneously.  The technique obviously doesn't work all the time,
       because most of us have had that frustrating experience when our
       computer locks up because too many programs are running at the same
       time.
       
       About seven years ago I started designing Web pages.  At first I
       dabbled with drag-and-drop software, but that led to an interest in
       HTML and a short course on advanced HTML techniques.  I looked at the
       code that the drag-and-drop programs created and was not happy with
       the clutter and redundancy I saw.  "Simple elegant code," as it's
       called in online forums and bulletin boards, produces clean
       fast-loading pages.  I discovered that Web page designers often
       examine the code of other people's pages.  When I found "simple
       elegant code" I would often whisper to myself "very nice."  I was
       amazed to find a wabi sabi beauty in the world of "tech slick."
       
       author: Powell, Richard
       tags:   book,philosophy,self-help
       title:  Wabi Sabi Simple
       
       # Footnotes
       
 (HTM) [1] Richard Powell's personal web site (JS-only)
       
 (TXT) [2] Wabi sabi (wikipedia)
       
 (TXT) [3] Naikan (wikipedia)
       
       # Tags
       
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