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Stardate: 20190512.1257
Location: Family Room
Input Device: AlphaSmart dana.wireless
Software: AlphaWord
Audio: Dryer
Visual: Nothing in particlar
Emotional State: Slothful
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I've been in a weird in between, inner conflict kinda state
lately. It feels like I have 2 parts of me that keeps
fighting each other. I have the one side, the responsible
adult person who does things that adults do, like pay
bills, shows up to work, attends to his yard and his
family...and there is the rebellious teenager in me, who
doesn't want to be told what to do, wants to be lazy and make
a mess, wants to be irresponsible, and says, "fuck you,"
to authority and to the world. That rebellious teenager
seems to have come to the forefront lately..
Lately, I have had some responsibilities to attend to that
require the presense of my adult self, but my rebellious
teenager is not having any of that. My adult self is too worn
out to deal with fighting the teen and is not doing anything
about him. He just waits until the teen is done with his
tantrum and cares enough about him to let him get his needs
met. So the adult just waits and rests until the teen is done.
In the meantime, stuff is not getting done in a timely
fashion and the adult in me is feeling like a flake, with a
hole being dug deeper and deeper while the teen makes a mess
of things. I hope he goes away soon, because it's getting
old and he has made quite the mess this time.
I am aware that this is something that stems from the
wreckage of my past and that this will pass in its own time.
It is time to yield and and let him do his thing. I'm not
sure if other people have this kind of inner conflict or
what they do to deal with it. For me, this conflict seems to
be a cyclical thing and manifests when the conditions are
ripe. Right now, it just feels appropriate to observe and
let it pass. Not sure how long that is going to be
and it should be of no concern.
It would probably be best to try and keep myself in the now.
Regret and fear seems to live in the past and in the future.
Those places are not fun to dwell in. So I will be present
in the sacred now and practice my guitar for a bit and
whatever happens after that happens. I am not going there
right now.
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