2025-11-02
(TXT) Encheiridion 33
Set up right now a certain character and pattern for yourself
which you will preserve when you are by yourself and when you
are with people
This is something I really need for myself, a greater
intentionality to how I live. I do too many things on a whim or
impulse. I know who I want to be, but I don't discipline myself
into being that person. I need to start reminding myself of who
I want to be regularly, probably multiple times a day, at least
in the beginning. And among Epictetus' list are many items I
admire and would like to emulate:
Be silent for the most part: I try to be quick witted and funny
and often this brings me trouble and causes offense with others.
I can see people thinking this could be extreme, that I would go
from this garrulous person to almost monk-like silence. Well,
why not just take steps towards it and see where the balance
lies? I know it is not where I currently am, so moving in the
right direction and seeing where I end up would be a good idea
even if silence is too far.
Take what has to do with the body to the point of bare need: I
consume too much. Too much food, too much time on the internet
too much other things as well. A life of simplicity and
minimalism is what I would like. These things entrap me, and
push me in directions I would rather not go, and would be happier
to be free of.
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