on overcoming early set-backs ------------------------------------------------------------- what about being an honorable mother? raising a son or a daughter. abortion stops a beating heart -- reminds the rural roadsign. oh what an open wound in that family. just you wait and see -- overcoming early set-backs is she. i know plenty of people who went on to college as single mothers. with fellowships and grants. at least she has a support network whereas many have none. don't give up hope. don't give up on her. the early or late light on the prairie was not unlike the light on her hair. not to be negative about either. to write her and to send her a ceremonial t-shirt to offer a bit of my own heart and memory. her daily supplement of patience is dowry. to see her clearly -- overcoming early set-backs. the prairie meadowlark sings continuously heard in the valley on windless days from a mile away. maybe she will respond vivaciously maybe cautiously maybe not at all she the hopeful sundance i glimpsed her to be in a swift's free-fall. Marek Lugowski 21 July 1999 Chicago, Illinois