Very true - some people enjoy their misery. Can't fix that. It's hard enough to find your own happy spot. But as for me, I'm a bit of a "clown sage" - in my own silly way, I like coming up with original "words of wisdom" - so in a sense, I do exist to impress people, or at least be the balm that soothes their aching minds and hearts. It's not something I chose - it chose me. I would like to be able to say "bite me" - but it's just not in me. "