#3) I have major trouble with this one too. I open my mouth, I
   do things, I don't do things, I don't say things - suddenly,
   somebody's mad at me. Not speaking, etc. THAT'S something you're
   gonna get your whole life, unless you learn what I didn't: when
   to talk, what to say when you talk - and most importantly: when
   to shut the f- up. I never learned THAT one. I know I'm supposed
   to - but I never quite get the 'cues'. "