== I'm glad I was able to be reassuring in this smile emoticon
   I've been learning to look for opportunities to be wrong. This
   is one of them. It requires being vulnerable and potentially
   subject to people not liking me in the process (or thinking me
   dull headed) - but whenever my areas-to-work-on are pointed
   out,, it's an opportunity for personal growth. It also helps in
   removing fear. I become less and less afraid to be wrong and
   willing to take correction. Even if i don't need all of the
   correction I'm given, there's always _something_ I can learn
   that I can then apply to my relations with other people.