Thank you Jamie grin emoticon I try to be as earnest as I can
   be. I want ppl to feel as if we're hanging out in a bar
   someplace over a couple of beers or sitting on a bridge talking
   about how amazing stuff is. I don't always succeed but I try.
   Writing a LOT and listening to responses helps but I've got a
   LONG way to go to get to where I want to be.