to compel to an act or choice" - that dictionary wisely used "the confession was coerced by the suspect by the police" - I've seen videos of when bad police departments convinced a 14 yr old kid into confessing to a crime by wearing him down verbally until he said "yes, I did it" just to get them off of his back. THAT'S something I 'get' - and it really opens my mind to how rape is more than just a mugging with a sexual component - or like stabbing somebody with their body parts - thank you Heather for opening me up about that. "