When I look at something, I "zoom in and out and participate" simultaneously. Like right now: I'm responding to things coming into my retina, up my optic nerve, down the v4/v5 pathway split into outlines and textures, other parts going to the semantic systems, finding meaning through metaphorical connections of concepts, entering my consciousness where I piece together a ratio-emotional response based upon the story it tells me about what I just witnessed, and down my nerves they travel to my fingers where I begin to type on my keyboard, which activates little plungers that connect aluminum or copper contacts, through through the computer (which I could go into detail about), out the Wifi, to my router, up to the network hub, down the packet switching networks from computer to computer, finding the optimized route as best it can, to your router, through your wire or wifi, to your computer or phone (which is still a computer), to the display, across the air into your eye, onto your retina down the optic nerve and the process repeats similarly for you. So in that sense, we're physically connected during communication. This is normal to me. Explaining it just seems strange tongue emoticon