I'm saying that culturally, there are different methods of
   problem solving taught.* They're solving different problems that
   only appear to be the same. Look here:* See that video up above?
   It's trying to tell you something. You don't need to comprehend
   it.* I comprehend it. You don't have to agree with it either. I
   don't like what it says. I think the concept of women and men
   being different beyond gender and obvious things like nocturnal
   emissions and pregnancy* is silly. The differences as shown in
   this video are PRIMARILY cultural in nature. Still, we know the
   stereotype that it portrays.* We've SEEN the stereotype in
   action.* Whether or not it has a medical basis, people believe
   it's a reality. When you deal with people who believe in that
   reality, if you want to communicate with them most effectively,
   you have to understand a perspective that's not yours. If you
   don't want to, that's fine.* But it's not that you can't.* Women
   and men are not so terribly different fundamentally. Just
   trained that way.* I'm amazed I'd get any disagreement to that
   but such as it is. Nevertheless, Plato was wrong and Aristotle
   after him.* Smart in a lot of ways and I'm grateful, but really,
   the concept that there is an eternal world of ideas that exists
   separate from the physical world?* Silliness that we believe and
   are taught generation after generation.* Some people actually
   believe the universe is mathematics, rather than mathematics
   providing a nice model for the Universe for humans to
   understand.* WE get things flipflopped as a species so easily.*
   The brain isn't like a computer; a computer is based on a
   human's limited understanding of how the brain functions and is
   mimicking it.* Oh well. Notice something: As you respond to me,
   are you reasoning?* Logical?* Rationally considering with a
   cold, clear head? Or annoyed with me and responding with
   passion? JB My apologies for being insensitive to your needs.* I
   will say something that will take your feelings into
   consideration:* Observe: Jack, you are correct.* I am an idiot
   who doesn't know what he is talking about.* I have been
   brainwashed by feminism and am a poor example of the male
   species, so much so that any guy should be ashamed to even be
   talking to me.* I am wrong.* You are right and I apologize for
   being a fool.* I will change my way of thinking now.* You've
   proven me wrong. There we go. The proper emotional response to
   this is, "F'off", "I'm done with you now", "No point in talking
   to you", "Why did I even waste my time here?" or something about
   me being irrational and illogical. All emotional responses.* Not
   logical.* Not rational.* Emotional. Ask yourself: *What could be
   more important to her than the nail in her head?" Let go of the
   emotional response of "She's stupid/illogical/etc".* That's an
   emotional response on your part. Instead, pretend she's a
   logical being.* 100% rational.* But she has a piece of
   information that you can't see yet. What is it?* Be logical, not
   emotional in your response.* It's not that difficult. Step away
   from the nail.* Pull back.* You are a screenwriter setting up
   the scene. Who is sitting there in the room right now?* What is
   their relationship?** Again, use logic.