* I try to remind myself to allow it to happen as much as possible; it helps in clarity of presence. Some tricks: Notice where you hold tension in your body. Shoulders? Imagine a cord over your head holding your shoulders up. Then cut it using a word like, "Release" or hear the sound of scissors snipping. You will probably have to repeat it a few seconds later, as the shoulders are GOING to want to go back up; they were used to that position. Cut, relax, repeat. Sounds like a hair salon. Anyway, it works. You can consciously relax any muscle in your body. You're not going to accidentally shit yourself [unless you have a problem at the time], so just relax your muscles - at least the ones that are tense. Then, look up. Look to the left and up a little. Just a glance. That's about all it takes. Suddenly you hear stuff around you you didn't notice a moment before. There's a lot of complicated methods for getting there, and they work as well. Basically, you're giving yourself triggers. Pavlov doggie style, but perhaps a little less saliva and a little more "getting you back to that place" in a jiffy. If you've never been there before.. well.. then you might need some more complicated methods to break though some crud first. Or you might not. Everybody's different. [1]6 mins * [2]Like * [3][IMG] [4]Kenneth Udut oh yeah and counting when you breath. One method is breathing in for a count of six, holding for six, breathing out for a count of six. or 5 or 10 or 2. Whatever. It's just being conscious of something you don't normally pay attention. And - that's the point: being present is paying attention to something you don't normally pay attention to: RIGHT NOW. That's why noticing the stuff your body does without trying to control but rather 'letting it go' is so helpful: your brain is ALWAYS doing something with your muscles at the present moment. Doing the opposite of control; going into "aware", makes a big difference to your sense of presence. References Visible links 1. https://www.facebook.com/groups/neoacademiaannex/permalink/673267789461688/?comment_id=674212572700543&offset=0&total_comments=19 2. Like this comment https://www.facebook.com/groups/neoacademiaannex/673360122785788/?comment_id=674177736037360¬if_t=like# 3. https://www.facebook.com/kenneth.udut?fref=ufi 4. https://www.facebook.com/kenneth.udut?fref=ufi