Definitely get off the rent-wagon as soon as you can. Your money is likely paying off a mortgage to a bank. Mortgages last for 20-40 years. Now in some cases, perhaps it's "bought + paid for" but as people like liquid money, even if the original mortgage for the place you are living was paid off, it's very likely there is some sort of loan on the property being used. In short, banks invariably own living spaces. So, your money goes to a bank, helping someone pay of their mortgage or their mortgage loan, or your money goes to a bank, helping yourself pay off your own mortgage or mortgage loan. Bank wins every time. But at least you get more control with your own bank-owned home. You do lose flexibility since a home is a liability for many many years. It only becomes an asset once it's paid off at the end of the term. If you need money again, it becomes a liability again once you get a home equity loan. But at least it would be your loan that you're paying off each month, and no someone else's loan