Been here for eight years now. It took a year and a half for most of the New Jersey anxiety to leave my system and, for all of its ups and downs, it's my home now. Naples isn't a real Southern speed since most ppl here came from elsewhere, but it's just slower enough. Example: In a parking lot, you can walk from your car to the store wthout someone almost runnng you down, or blowing their horn for you to hurry up. "