well, there's no need to go to a bar or a church (a surprisingly
   common place that people meet up), checking the mail @ the
   malbox -- when technology brings ppl straight to you. But the
   technology that brings ppl together makes for temporary/fantasy
   relationships, much like the stereotypical "boss/secretary"
   kisses and flirts - boss will never leave his wife. There's
   rarely any substance, just giddy 'fun'. Real love is deeper and
   more painful than all of that. "