Massive Drama Highly Likely to Be Deleted
It's tough being away from those we love. My wife and I decided to emigrate
during the summer of 2025 when one of her kids was not talking to us for
reasons I don't quite gather. We made the decision to emigrate, and when
we had plans well underway (I had, for example, taken a second job) her
kid announced that they were talking to her again, and that they were having
a kid. Prior to this the same kid was not intending to have children.

All this talking-to-you-not-talking-to-you drama is regrettable. I'm not
here to judge. But basically we made our decision when none of our kids 
were looking to have kids, and after we had decided to emigrate we found
out my wife was going to be a grandma. 

So that's dreadful. Now my wife is away from her grandchild while that 
child is growing up. 

But worse, that grandchild was placed in a daycare, and recently was
physically abused in that daycare*. All sorts of chaos has ensued, from
police reports and hospital visits, to needing emergency childcare.

My wife is distraught and riddled with guilt. She wishes she could be there
to help, and feels guilty for being away. 

Cherry on top, my wife divorced because her ex had been cheating on her
for a long time. The ex married the homewrecker, who has been slowly
inveigling herself into the family. Now when an emergency babysitter is
required, who is available? That's right, the homewrecker. And since
my wife's kids are renting the house my wife owns... the homewrecker is
watching my wife's grandkid, in my wife's own house.

Just a bit fraught!

*The child seems fine now.