Posts by flashzelle@kinkycats.org
 (DIR) Post #B4RnFUHUnZJssy2PZo by flashzelle@kinkycats.org
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       I wish that mastodon (or fedi in general) had more fine-grained options for post visibility. Like making a post only visible for a subset of my followers (without mentioning all of them)... e.g. for everyone on a specific list or something. (Or the classic: reply to some post with "visible for my followers and the followers of the person I'm replying to".)And I wish there was a way to only "follow" someone's public/unlisted posts, but not see their followers-only posts.
       
 (DIR) Post #B5BGdzpMnnmYSV7HOq by flashzelle@kinkycats.org
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       @elillaI can relate to this soo much, but from the other side... 😳The political part of my brain wants to be a switch, because equal rights and all that... but in dancing, I always take the "female" role without hesitating, no matter how much sexist tradition is behind that. Because the kinky part of my brain just really craves to be on the "follow" side of the lead/follow dynamic.
       
 (DIR) Post #B5DeuTM3Zh97swiSO0 by flashzelle@kinkycats.org
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       Magical clothes that look like normal clothes, but they are see-through for only some specific people (the wearer can decide for whom that effect generally works) ^^Even better: the effect is not always active, but only when the wearer is horny. Putting on those clothes means you're basically challenging the selected people to make you horny ^^
       
 (DIR) Post #B6FvuGzNgRRks42H1E by flashzelle@kinkycats.org
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       Not sure if that's just me being ace-spec (might count as a kind of demisexual thing?), but:Emotional intimacy is so much of an underrated turn-on 😳 Yeah I can also have lewd fun with someone I barely know, if the vibes fit.But feeling safe in someone's arms while both of us are emotionally open and vulnerable, that's a whole other level of "can make me melt into a horny puddle" 🥰🥺
       
 (DIR) Post #B6FxRmXpTu9mFWgtFo by flashzelle@kinkycats.org
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       Denke mal wieder drüber nach ob es sinnvoll wäre, mich sterilisieren zu lassen.Kinder wollte ich eh nie haben, das wird sich nicht ändern.Und vielleicht bin ich jetzt mit 39 so langsam in nem Alter, wo ich die Chance hätte, nicht überall sofort abgewiesen zu werden.Ich hab allerdings keine Ahnung, welche Möglichkeiten es da aktuell gibt für (cis) Frauen, ohne dass es meinen Hormonhaushalt komplett zerschießt. Hat hier irgendwer eigene Erfahrung damit?
       
 (DIR) Post #B6Hw2UXxY5CPYJ33WS by flashzelle@kinkycats.org
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       I've been thinking about how hard it is in this society... to teach important basics about consent to the people who really need to learn them (so they don't harm anyone), without accidentally making a lot of other people suffer from internalizing the wrong parts of the simplified message.
       
 (DIR) Post #B6LlX9nQQX0TJEXeRU by flashzelle@kinkycats.org
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       RE: https://kinkycats.org/@flashzelle/116392027198860179On main, someone asked for examples of consensual exhibitionism. That made me think of this again.Ignoring that it's unrealistic anyway because magic, imagine:I'm hanging out with a bunch of friends and strangers. Some of my friends have given me consent to enable the magical effect for them. They have fun teasing me and watching my clothes get more and more transparent. Grinning at each other, making me blush.No one there sees any nudity without consent.RT: https://kinkycats.org/users/flashzelle/statuses/116392027198860179
       
 (DIR) Post #B80bUfFbaHgc2kpS08 by flashzelle@kinkycats.org
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       "biblically accurate handjob"- @nightscy
       
 (DIR) Post #B85zDRpdaiSSC1o1Ka by flashzelle@kinkycats.org
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       Has anyone already successfully hacked the remote control for the we-vibe moxie+ (or any other we-vibe toy)?As there's also a (proprietary, closed-source) app, that appears to have the same problems with losing its connection... I assume the remote control also uses bluetooth. I don't know more about it (yet?).
       
 (DIR) Post #B8Bx4qMjyHWyiXonkO by flashzelle@kinkycats.org
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       https://www.riengray.com/blog/the-perpetual-disappointment-of-if-only-eroticismThat was interesting to read ^^I don't think I've read many books or stories of the kind that the blog post is about, so keep in mind that anything I say about it might be biased by that.
       
 (DIR) Post #B92XhF1lq4mlKS2DFw by flashzelle@kinkycats.org
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       🫸 ein Bett im Kornfeld👉️ Landwirtschaftlicher Verkehr frei