[HN Gopher] A proposal to classify happiness as a psychiatric di...
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       A proposal to classify happiness as a psychiatric disorder (1992)
        
       Author : wjSgoWPm5bWAhXB
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       Date   : 2026-03-17 13:03 UTC (9 hours ago)
        
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       | AnimalMuppet wrote:
       | <checks calendar> Wait, this _isn 't_ April 1st!
       | 
       | Seriously, _happiness_ is a psychiatric disorder? Rare, sure, but
       | a _disorder_? That 's the craziest thing I've heard since...
       | well, since the Iran war, I guess, so not very long. Still,
       | that's nuts. I cannot imagine the world view that it must take to
       | look at happiness that way.
        
         | boesboes wrote:
         | It's more of a comment on the absurdity of what is and is not
         | defined as a disorder i believe.
        
       | techblueberry wrote:
       | Ahh 1992. At the time he probably didn't know he needed to add a
       | /s or he'd be taken seriously in our delusional future.
        
         | dullcrisp wrote:
         | Or was the nineties, so it would have been a "not!" or a
         | "psych!"
        
           | lo_zamoyski wrote:
           | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fhIdbRp6xeg
        
           | genthree wrote:
           | "... on Opposite Day!"
        
       | dmschulman wrote:
       | Woosh
        
       | kusokurae wrote:
       | Reminded of that episode of House where the lady with dormant
       | syphillis had something like this.
       | 
       | I wonder are there any ways I can contract this without breaking
       | marital vows
        
       | letharion wrote:
       | I'm assuming this is some kind of jab at the general propensity
       | of psychiatry to classify most things as disorders, rather than a
       | serious proposal. If anything, I think the problem has gotten
       | worse since this was published. (Then again, maybe happiness has
       | also gotten more rare since 1992?)
        
         | thomascgalvin wrote:
         | I had to check if it was April Fool's Day
        
         | kevin_thibedeau wrote:
         | We went from 3% on anti-depressants in 1992 to 13%. Lots more
         | are trying to induce happiness without an external change of
         | circumstance or internal perspective.
        
       | adyashakti wrote:
       | it's Catch-22. the world is such a mess that if you're happy, you
       | must be delusional.
        
         | ranger_danger wrote:
         | hard disagree. I think you can be happy about some things and
         | not about others, and it's not so black-and-white.
        
           | nickburns wrote:
           | Replace 'happy' with 'neurotic' and you got it!
        
         | NoMoreNicksLeft wrote:
         | I'm not the world, I just live in it. It might be a mess, but
         | that mess mostly doesn't affect me. The few ways in which it
         | does can be effectively mitigated by anyone who puts in even
         | the tiniest bit of effort.
         | 
         | For that matter, nothing much stops me from carving out my own
         | little world where I can clean up what mess it is, and live
         | there. But to do that I'd have to admit to myself that I can't
         | change the greater world and even acknowledge that there's no
         | real point in wanting that other than to chase high status
         | among our monkey tribe.
        
           | ranger_danger wrote:
           | > But to do that I'd have to admit to myself that I can't
           | change the greater world
           | 
           | Do you though? Can't we believe that change is possible, but
           | also choose not to act on it? Not saying that's right or
           | wrong, just that it's possible.
        
       | eouw0o83hf wrote:
       | I really liked this paper. I think it's less of an outright joke
       | that it's possible to squint your eyes and laugh that happiness
       | could be a disorder, and more of shining a light on the
       | psychopathological system that tends towards over-diagnosis and
       | hyperfixation on those diagnoses.
       | 
       | "If our so-called scientific system were really objective and
       | honest, it would include happiness as a disorder." I think this
       | is the goal the paper is trying to expose, more than just making
       | a joke about mapping a good feeling to a description of a bad
       | feeling. Indeed, I think the last line of the paper gives it away
       | - our current system is very incomplete and needs to be extended:
       | 
       | > Indeed, only a psychopathology that openly declares the
       | relevance of values to classification could persist in excluding
       | happiness from the psychiatric disorders.
        
         | lo_zamoyski wrote:
         | What it exposes is that there are underlying methodological
         | presuppositions that are hazardous.
         | 
         | If statistical frequency is our ultimate basis for normative
         | behavior, then things like happiness can be pathologized. This
         | is absurd, which means normativity cannot be decided by
         | ubiquity or popular vote. You have to look to the objective
         | nature of the thing.
         | 
         | This is another case where materialism utterly flops, because
         | materialistic ontology - one that reduces all of reality to
         | Cartesian _res extensa_ - cannot account for the normative _at
         | all_ (among other things).
        
       | boesboes wrote:
       | Reminds me of https://thenewinquiry.com/book-of-lamentations/
       | edit: A review of the DSM as if it where a dystopian novel
       | basically, makes some interesting observations/points
        
       | pogue wrote:
       | This reminds me of this old gem from The Onion:
       | 
       |  _FDA Approves Depressant Drug For The Annoyingly Cheerful_
       | [video /NSFW/2:06] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jd4tugPM83c
        
         | erikerikson wrote:
         | A similarly useful article:
         | 
         |  _More U.S. Children Being Diagnosed With Youthful Tendency
         | Disorder_ https://theonion.com/more-u-s-children-being-
         | diagnosed-with-...
        
       | bensyverson wrote:
       | Ha, this is fun. But there's a kernel of truth to it. The problem
       | with American culture specifically is that it treats "happiness"
       | as a goal, rather than a fleeting feeling that is probably better
       | described with a more specific word (joy, accomplishment,
       | excitement, satisfaction, contentment). Our culture leans on this
       | so hard that people start to think there's something wrong with
       | _them_ if they 're not feeling generalized happiness most of the
       | time.
       | 
       | That's just not how life works.
        
         | joshmarlow wrote:
         | A few years ago I read a claim that the word 'happy' is
         | relatively young - ~500 years old - and that translations of
         | others words into 'happy' are somewhat approximate.
         | 
         | My takeaway is that (presuming the argument is correct) that
         | much of human striving is probably better described with
         | specific words (as you suggested - joy, accomplishment,
         | fulfillment, excitement, etc). For most of human history, most
         | people probably didn't think "I want to be happy" but "I want
         | to have a good partner", "I want a big family", "I want my crop
         | to grow so I don't die."
         | 
         | I wonder how much unhappiness is caused by seeking a poorly-
         | defined ideal of happiness.
         | 
         | The book was called "Power, Pleasure, and Profit: Insatiable
         | Appetites from Machiavelli to Madison".
        
           | bensyverson wrote:
           | Oh, absolutely. 99.999% of human history has been "just want
           | to survive another year."
           | 
           | Russ Harris has a great book about this called _The Happiness
           | Trap_ [0], which is an introduction to ACT (Acceptance and
           | Commitment Therapy)
           | 
           | [0]: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/76053/the-
           | happiness...
        
             | tim333 wrote:
             | Dunno. Traveling to less developed places parents still
             | want the kids to be happy for a start. It's surprising in
             | places without roads, internet, phones etc. how normal
             | everything is.
        
               | bensyverson wrote:
               | It's normal for parents to want their kids to be happy...
               | it's less normal for those kids to be "happy" all the
               | time.
        
           | dharmach wrote:
           | Just because the word 'happy' is relatively young in the
           | English/European language, a conclusion can not be made for
           | the whole Humankind.
        
             | joshmarlow wrote:
             | Very true - which is why this piece "that translations of
             | others words into 'happy' are somewhat approximate." would
             | be very interesting if accurate.
        
           | throw0101d wrote:
           | > _My takeaway is that (presuming the argument is correct)
           | that much of human striving is probably better described with
           | specific words (as you suggested - joy, accomplishment,
           | fulfillment, excitement, etc)._
           | 
           | All those four words combined is something like the concept
           | of _eudaimonia_ that Aristotle describes in his _Nicomachean
           | Ethics_ :
           | 
           | * https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Eudaimonia
           | 
           | * https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Flourishing
        
             | joshmarlow wrote:
             | I've not read Aristotle directly but translating eudaimonia
             | was an example in the book that I mentioned. The argument
             | was that eudaimonia is often translated as happiness but
             | that doesn't make sense in contexts where we talk about a
             | soldier dying experiencing eudaimonia (suggesting a loose
             | translation).
        
               | limagnolia wrote:
               | You don't think it possible for some one to die happy?
        
               | Brian_K_White wrote:
               | No. It's certainly not a goal. And even if it can somehow
               | happen, soneone could be resigned or drugged, it's
               | different from something like "happy to die".
               | 
               | This question itself seems to be a perfect example of the
               | point that the word is worse than meaningless. Worse
               | because people use it like it has a useful meaning.
               | 
               | One can die in a state that has a lot of the qualities or
               | features that overlap with other states that people call
               | happy, but that doesn't make them equal or equivalent.
        
               | limagnolia wrote:
               | What is your definition of happy?
        
               | hn92726819 wrote:
               | What emotion must people be feeling when they die then?
               | 
               | > the word is worse than meaningless
               | 
               | It seems as though you are redefining it to be
               | meaningless, then projecting that onto everyone else. Is
               | it not curious to you that everyone else takes no issue
               | with its usage?
        
           | NoMoreNicksLeft wrote:
           | Thanks for the book recommendation.
        
           | dotancohen wrote:
           | The word shmkhh and conjugations appear in the Bible about
           | 200 times, so we have a good idea of what it means in
           | context. It means exactly what I perceive the noun Happiness
           | and the adjective Happy to mean in English.
        
             | joshmarlow wrote:
             | That's very interesting and is good evidence against the
             | thesis - thanks for sharing!
        
         | variaga wrote:
         | "Happiness comes in small doses folks. It's a cigarette butt,
         | or a chocolate chip cookie or a five second orgasm. You come,
         | you smoke the butt you eat the cookie you go to sleep wake up
         | and go back to f---ing work the next morning, THAT'S IT! End of
         | f---ing list!"
         | 
         | -Dennis Leary
        
           | asah wrote:
           | +1 - https://www.google.com/search?q=every+brilliant+thing
        
         | asah wrote:
         | happiness <> euphoria
        
         | randallsquared wrote:
         | Indeed. This just illustrates Goodhart's Law.
        
         | gotwaz wrote:
         | More like modern marketing depts and marketing theory leaning
         | on it. They have replaced what religions used to offer when
         | people asked about purpose, meaning, transcendence or what is
         | the point of my story? Just telling people this is all just
         | some biology and chemistry doesnt really answer questions about
         | meaning. They will start searching for meaning elsewhere and
         | marketing depts of corporate wonderland step in to fill the
         | void.
        
         | fwipsy wrote:
         | I suspect you would agree with this:
         | https://theoatmeal.com/comics/unhappy
         | 
         | Even if feelings are temporary you can still have them more or
         | less often. When somebody says they are happy, of course it
         | does not mean they are experiencing bliss all the time; it
         | means that the relative frequency of positive emotions is high
         | and the relative frequency of negative emotions is low.
         | 
         | I think a lot of people assume it's not possible to be happy
         | because their life circumstances are incompatible with it and
         | they can't or won't change those circumstances. I think in the
         | US at least, the things we want most and the things we strive
         | for are not things that make us happy.
        
           | cortesoft wrote:
           | I have often felt conflicted about happiness and what we
           | should strive for in our lives.
           | 
           | It is true that most people seem to think happiness is the
           | ultimate goal for life. They say they just want to be happy,
           | that they just want their kids to be happy. Often times,
           | though, it seems almost circular in logic; any time you
           | pushback against the idea of happiness or why being happy all
           | the time isn't always good, people will just say "oh, that
           | isn't REAL happiness" or "that actually is happiness!"
           | 
           | Often this is when I bring up hedonism and say, "well, if
           | pure happiness is all that matters, why don't we all just do
           | heroin all the time? You will feel great!" Of course, they
           | will say "well the high can't last forever and eventually
           | your life will suck and that is why it isn't real happiness.
           | 
           | I think it is more than that, though. Imagine you could feel
           | the best feeling you have had all the time, just sitting
           | there. You could just lean back and feel good for as long as
           | you want. Would you want that?
           | 
           | I think most people wouldn't, and not just because we don't
           | think it is possible. It is more than that. We want to do
           | hard things that make us work and that hurt a bit and
           | frustrate us, because there is a sense of satisfaction when
           | you persevere. We need to feel pain and sadness, to feel the
           | fullest connection with others through the full range of
           | emotions.
           | 
           | It is not easy to articulate exactly what we want, but it
           | isn't simply happiness.
        
             | thewebguyd wrote:
             | > I have often felt conflicted about happiness and what we
             | should strive for in our lives.
             | 
             | It's the striving itself that is the source of our
             | suffering & dissatisfaction
             | 
             | The reason its hard to articulate what we want is we are
             | conditioned to think of our life as a series of targets to
             | hit, but that striving is where we suffer. Maybe you target
             | wealth, then you look for happiness, then you look for
             | meaning, and it doesn't end.
             | 
             | Life is like a fire, you don't ask the fire what its goal
             | is.
             | 
             | > We want to do hard things that make us work and that hurt
             | a bit and frustrate us, because there is a sense of
             | satisfaction when you persevere.
             | 
             | Even with this, making satisfaction the goal will turn it
             | into another struggle or commodity to be consumed. We like
             | hard things because the intensity forces us to be present.
             | The striving mind stops worrying about the future or the
             | past and you are fully present with the task at hand.
             | 
             | Once you can get out of the way of yourself, you realize we
             | don't actually want a better experience, we just want to
             | stop being distracted from the one we're already having.
        
               | bensyverson wrote:
               | > It's the striving itself that is the source of our
               | suffering & dissatisfaction
               | 
               | thewebguyd out here laying down some Noble Truths!
        
             | fwipsy wrote:
             | Happiness doesn't have to be the only goal to be
             | worthwhile. Of course people don't want to live in fake
             | bliss. Happiness is a vague term for many specific
             | emotions; the sense of satisfaction from overcoming a
             | difficult challenge is a form of happiness, or contributes
             | to happiness.
        
         | Aurornis wrote:
         | > Our culture leans on this so hard that people start to think
         | there's something wrong with them if they're not feeling
         | generalized happiness most of the time.
         | 
         | I don't think this is true, unless you're using 'happiness' to
         | refer to euphoria or acute joy.
         | 
         | The happiness that is generally sought is more accurately
         | described as a general lack of sadness or despair. Having a
         | roof over your head, food on the table, a job to go to, decent
         | health, and friends and family is what constitutes basic
         | happiness. That is a good goal to work toward, in my opinion.
        
         | alansaber wrote:
         | It's a balancing act no? Generally you certainly want to
         | optimise to minimise unhappiness but not to the point of
         | avoiding conflict/difficulty.
        
         | wang_li wrote:
         | Trying to distinguish happiness from all those other feelings
         | is like trying to separate depressed from all the negative
         | things you feel during a day. Some words do not describe
         | specific emotions, but instead indicate a general state which
         | has all kinds of internal variation and magnitudes. A person
         | who doesn't have much financial stress, their kid isn't having
         | issues that require lots of problem solving from the parent,
         | their job is fine, they are not arguing with their spouse
         | regularly. They would say they are happy. Alternately one can
         | have accomplishments , new PR at the gym, solved an issue at
         | work, but still think of themselves as unhappy because they
         | have things that they prioritize more highly that are not going
         | well.
        
         | dataviz1000 wrote:
         | "For truly to enjoy bodily warmth, some small part of you must
         | be cold, for there is no quality in this world that is not what
         | it is merely by contrast. Nothing exists in itself." -- Herman
         | Melville.
         | 
         | He describing to enjoy the warmth of blankets on a freezing
         | winter night, it is imperative the nose be exposed to the cold
         | likely as a metaphor to enjoy "happiness" something is needed
         | for contrast.
        
           | setsewerd wrote:
           | It's always fascinating to see how fundamental concepts of
           | Buddhist teachings appear in different names, forms, and
           | metaphors across cultures.
           | 
           | Dependent origination: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prat%C4%
           | ABtyasamutp%C4%81da?wp...
           | 
           | While some ideas are more obvious than others I always wonder
           | whether the same insights occurred independently (of each
           | other -- excuse the poor choice of words), or if the ideas
           | can all trace their roots back to the same teachings.
        
             | dataviz1000 wrote:
             | > I always wonder whether the same insights occurred
             | independently
             | 
             | No. Authors, Henry David Thoreau in 1854 and here Melville
             | in 1851, and others at the time in that region were very
             | heavily influenced by Hindu scriptures especially the
             | Bhagavad Gita. Hindu mythology was mentioned several times
             | in Moby Dick including referring to the whale as the Fish
             | Incarnation of Vishnu.
        
           | mikkupikku wrote:
           | I love that part of Moby Dick, it's so perfectly true. I
           | always sleep with my feet sticking out for this reason.
        
         | m463 wrote:
         | You could also say the same general thing for being goal-
         | oriented instead of process-oriented for anything else.
        
         | fsckboy wrote:
         | you can't experience Latino culture without thinking that they
         | treat happiness as a goal, it's sort of like you're applying a
         | Germanic/Protestant/Puritanical filter to Americans
         | 
         | also I don't think the more subtle distinctions between
         | happiness and contentment is something people can be expected
         | to maintain in their everyday speech at every moment. That's
         | just not how language works.
        
         | xg15 wrote:
         | Feels to me like this is good old "if a measure becomes a
         | target, it stops being a good measure".
         | 
         | I.e. happiness is a good measure to identify other things in
         | your life: If something makes you unhappy, address it, if
         | something makes you happy, follow it. (Very simplified)
         | 
         | But if you make "maximizing happiness" the direct target
         | without any context, you get drugs.
        
         | zombot wrote:
         | Happiness, when pursued, does its best to escape.
        
         | Henchman21 wrote:
         | This reminds me so very much of that old American greeting:
         | "Hey! How are you?" and then you don't give a shit about the
         | _actual answer_ , which must always be positive.
         | 
         | Having to explain to young children that people do this simply
         | to say hello, that they aren't actually asking you your health
         | or state, or anything really. Falls right in line with our need
         | to smile ALL THE TIME.
         | 
         | I stand by statements made by my European friends: Americans
         | are mostly full of shit, mostly liars, and ALWAYS are trying to
         | sell you something.
         | 
         |  _Are we the Baddies?_ Yes, of fucking course we are.
        
         | jollyllama wrote:
         | > The problem with American culture specifically is that it
         | treats "happiness" as a goal, rather than a fleeting feeling
         | that is probably better described with a more specific word
         | (joy, accomplishment, excitement, satisfaction, contentment).
         | 
         | Does it really? The sentiment of your post is pretty widespread
         | at this point. It's kind of like saying "our culture is so
         | commercialized" but everyone will tell you they're sick of
         | commercialism.
        
         | Fire-Dragon-DoL wrote:
         | Interesting, I interpret happiness as that background feeling
         | of overall satisfaction with my life, with ups and downs but
         | the happiness is a constant.
        
       | delichon wrote:
       | I need some advice on etiquette. Is the correct answer to
       | "Good morning!"
       | 
       | still                 "That's what the government wants you to
       | believe."
       | 
       | or is it now                 "You want me to contract a
       | psychiatric disorder? What did I ever do to you?"
        
         | freedomben wrote:
         | I've always loved, "what's so morning about it?"
         | 
         | What are other people's favorite humorous responses?
        
           | AnimalMuppet wrote:
           | There's Eeyore: "If it _is_ good. Which I doubt. "
           | 
           | But I knew a guy who didn't answer with words. He would just
           | growl until he'd had coffee.
        
             | amarant wrote:
             | That sounds like me. There's a 1:1 correlation between how
             | many cups of coffee I've had and the number of languages I
             | speak.
             | 
             | And like a true computer nerd, of course it's an unsigned
             | integer, meaning if I drink too much coffee I'm back to
             | grunting only (this time on the toilet)
        
               | doubled112 wrote:
               | Seems like you could use a few more bits.
        
           | thewebguyd wrote:
           | Always a fan of Gandalf's response to Bilbo:
           | 
           | > "What do you mean?" he said. "Do you wish me a good
           | morning, or mean that it is a good morning whether I want it
           | or not; or that you feel good this morning; or that it is a
           | morning to be good on?"
        
           | sgbeal wrote:
           | > What are other people's favorite humorous responses?
           | 
           | "For a given definition of 'morning'."
        
       | gabrielso wrote:
       | Good news is that the government can offer free treatment.
        
       | tss93 wrote:
       | The critique feels valid to me. There's a tendency in modern
       | psychology/media to pathologize the average human baseline: if
       | you're not consistently optimistic and thriving, something must
       | be wrong with you, or at least you need to be in a pursuit of
       | this.
       | 
       | But constant happiness isn't realistic, it's like a desire to be
       | permanently high. From my own experience I've landed somewhere
       | near the Buddhist framing: the healthy default is just calm and
       | neutral, with happiness and sadness coming and going away.
       | 
       | Trying to force happiness as a permanent state seems like its own
       | problem, which is kind of what Bentall is pointing at from the
       | other direction.
        
         | thewebguyd wrote:
         | > healthy default is just calm and neutral, with happiness and
         | sadness coming and going away.
         | 
         | This is a very healthy attitude, and people often miss it.
         | Every feeling/emotion/state of mind is impermanent. It will
         | come and go on its own, its biology and there's nothing you can
         | do about it. It's trying to "cling" to a specific state,
         | forever, that leads to our own suffering. The moment you've
         | move from "I feel happy" to "I hope this lasts forever" is
         | where you will suffer. Just be a witness to the coming and
         | going, you witness happiness occurring, you don't become
         | happiness, and its the same for other feelings and states.
        
           | IAmBroom wrote:
           | Almost as if there were some middle-path that was best...
        
         | curiouscube wrote:
         | It seems to me that you're implicitly thinking of
         | happiness/sadness as zero sum. That can be very limiting.
        
           | tss93 wrote:
           | Usually I don't do math of sums, just let the happiness be
           | and then fade or sadness or any other. Just grew to be ok
           | with nothingness, cos I had a tendency of pushing towards
           | sadness when I am not happy and then its like a pendulum and
           | me riding it
        
         | autoexec wrote:
         | > There's a tendency in modern psychology/media to pathologize
         | the average human baseline
         | 
         | Is there though? I don't think modern psychology does. Where
         | are these psychologists who don't think emotional ups and downs
         | are a normal healthy part of life? Even in media it's often
         | recognized that people being happy (or even just too tranquil)
         | all the time, is wrong and creepy/unsettling. That said, it's
         | absolutely true that advertisers are constantly pushing a
         | narrative that you should be in an endless pursuit for what you
         | don't have and that if you only buy what they want to sell you
         | it will make you happier and improve your life.
        
       | 8bitsrule wrote:
       | The way to happiness is to stop chasing it.
       | 
       | Never mind all the ads ... It isn't 'out there somewhere'.
        
         | jongjong wrote:
         | Yeah. I achieve happiness by not caring about anything too
         | much. Nothing matters, ultimately. This is a universal truth.
         | Once you internalize that, everything seems small. You can
         | appreciate things more.
         | 
         | These days I enjoy just having the time to stare at the clouds
         | for a few hours at a time.
         | 
         | I would honestly prefer to watch paint dry than going to work
         | though.
         | 
         | The only thing I kind of want in my life is UBI because I hate
         | being forced into the rat race.
         | 
         | I'm in a weird situation because I used to be a hustler
         | software engineer/solo founder who would move countries at the
         | drop of a hat (I.e. for opportunities) and I worked nights and
         | weekends on side projects for like 15 years straight.
         | 
         | But now I don't care about anything. I'm just tired of
         | striving. When you waste your life in the pursuit of a goal,
         | eventually you build so many negative associations that you
         | eventually don't want to work for anything anymore. I only like
         | free stuff now. My idea of success now is getting stuff I
         | didn't earn. I optimize for minimal effort.
         | 
         | I honestly feel more happiness when I get something for free.
        
           | notlenin wrote:
           | happiness is very linked to unexpected surprises.
           | 
           | I personally have been experimenting what basically amounts
           | to a Christian version of Bhakti Yoga [0]
           | 
           | basically "wow, thanks God/Jesus, this is wonderful, I love
           | you, you're awesome, thanks for X, Y, Z, etc". If you can
           | stay in that mood of gratitude and occasionally add in a lil
           | "and if I could get an A or B that would be great, but no
           | worries if not", and... in my belief system/experience, the
           | desired outcome happens somewhat effortlessly :)
           | 
           | [0] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bhakti_yoga
        
       | iberator wrote:
       | Overall happinesses and motivation and belief are signs of too
       | high level dopamine.
       | 
       | Most business owner people have it. That's why they are often out
       | of touch with random Joe.
       | 
       | They belive in success even if math is saying that's bias.
       | 
       | Form of pychosis
        
         | stevedonovan wrote:
         | Hypomania is very irritating, and can actually mess up a
         | person's life. It's a neurotic defense mechanism that's
         | opposite to depression
        
         | thewebguyd wrote:
         | Yes. Too much of any particular state of mind can be bad.
         | 
         | The best is to cultivate a state of equanimity. Stop grasping
         | at both good and bad states.
        
       | skeledrew wrote:
       | "You look happy. What's wrong?" Ultimate conversation starter.
        
       | emsign wrote:
       | If you are too happy to work, you are sick. Makes sense.
        
       | rglover wrote:
       | "It's so, so sad, to be happy all the time." -
       | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rzZPxUiAKTo
        
       | jayd16 wrote:
       | I think the DSM 5 says a disorder must cause clinically
       | significant distress or impairment in social, occupational, or
       | other important areas of functioning.
        
         | thewebguyd wrote:
         | Correct. But even that definition risks over pathologizing the
         | human experience. It creates a distinction between a broken
         | brain and a reasonable reaction to a broken environment.
         | 
         | DSM defines a disorder by how well an individual fits into the
         | current economic and social system. Technically, if someone is
         | so blissfully happy they stop showing up to their job, they
         | would actually meet the criteria for a disorder.
         | 
         | Just like if someone lives in a high-crime area with little
         | security they may have crippling anxiety. DSM would say they
         | have a generalized anxiety disorder, but I would argue they
         | don't, they are experiencing a reasonable reaction to a broken
         | environment.
         | 
         | We are far too quick to jump to "this person isn't functioning
         | in society, therefore something must be wrong with them"
         | instead of doing the hard work of adapting our social and
         | economic systems to be more inclusive of different types of
         | human experiences.
         | 
         | Case in point, homosexuality used to be a sociopathic
         | personality disorder, and pre-DSM we thought it was a mental
         | illness causing enslaved people to want to escape slavery.
        
           | RunningDroid wrote:
           | > We are far too quick to jump to "this person isn't
           | functioning in society, therefore something must be wrong
           | with them" instead of doing the hard work of adapting our
           | social and economic systems to be more inclusive of different
           | types of human experiences.
           | 
           | Careful saying things like that, someone might accuse you of
           | being a socialist (slight /s)
        
       | _doctor_love wrote:
       | _> It is proposed that happiness be classified as a psychiatric
       | disorder and be included in future editions of the major
       | diagnostic manuals under the new name: major affective disorder,
       | pleasant type. In a review of the relevant literature it is shown
       | that happiness is statistically abnormal, consists of a discrete
       | cluster of symptoms, is associated with a range of cognitive
       | abnormalities, and probably reflects the abnormal functioning of
       | the central nervous system. One possible objection to this
       | proposal remains--that happiness is not negatively valued.
       | However, this objection is dismissed as scientifically
       | irrelevant._
       | 
       | Reading this I can't help but feel that the person who wrote it
       | is a POS.
        
         | autoexec wrote:
         | I'm guessing that it's just a joke, but I'll admit that it
         | reads like something you'd expect from somebody who doesn't
         | know the difference between "sad" and "depressed" and thinks
         | that there's some vast conspiracy to medicate people for normal
         | human emotions. I'd bet this is smugly shared all over facebook
         | by ignorant people who think that things like depression or
         | ADHD don't exist.
        
           | doubled112 wrote:
           | If I count on my fingers, just the ones I know the parents,
           | I'd guess 7/10 kids in my neighbourhood have some sort of
           | diagnosis or suspected diagnosis.
           | 
           | To be honest, I'm also starting to wonder if we aren't
           | medicating people for normal human emotions.
        
             | autoexec wrote:
             | What do the parents you know say when you tell them that
             | they're medicating their children for normal human
             | emotions? My guess is that they could give examples of
             | things that aren't actually normal which caused them to
             | seek out a professional in the first place.
             | 
             | In previous generations children with corrective lenses
             | were rare, and kids used to fear being made fun of and
             | being called "four eyes" for wearing glasses to school.
             | Recently it's gotten a whole lot more common for kids, even
             | toddlers, to wear glasses. It might be tempting to think
             | that Big Eyeglass was treating people for normal human
             | blurriness, but it's more likely that eye glasses, and eye
             | care more generally, has gotten more accessible and that
             | more kids getting the care they need and recent
             | environmental factors are contributing to the increase in
             | kids needing glasses (and needing them at younger and
             | younger ages).
             | 
             | It's the same with mental health issues. We have increased
             | awareness of mental health, reduced stigma around seeking
             | and receiving treatment, improved treatments, a better
             | understanding of various conditions and how to diagnose
             | them, and recent environmental factors that may be
             | exacerbating problems if not inducing them.
        
       | arizen wrote:
       | Happiness is a derivative of purpose. If someone optimizes their
       | life strictly for happiness while deprioritizing purpose, they
       | likely won't achieve either.
       | 
       | Pursuing a meaningful goal almost always requires enduring
       | unpleasant phases and friction along the way.
        
       | xyzelement wrote:
       | I find the word "happy" is unfortunately overloaded and confusing
       | - and in its confusion makes it hard to know how to achieve the
       | state.
       | 
       | I think other languages have more shades for this much like
       | eskimos have many words for snow.
       | 
       | For example in the Jewish tradition the word "nahas" is something
       | like the satisfaction of watching the children you raised become
       | excellent parents of their own.
       | 
       | Another word "simha" could be translated as "happy occasion" but
       | really is only used for positive lifecycle events (birth,
       | marriage, etc)
       | 
       | In modern English we would probably use "happy" for all these but
       | it's unfortunate that we'd also use the same word for triviality
       | like "I am happy jerking off in my basement"
       | 
       | The beauty of "nahas" and "simha" is they point us towards a
       | sustainable and deeply meaningful way to be "happy" - to achieve
       | significance in our lives that makes us feel good because things
       | are deeply good.
       | 
       | "Happiness" does not act as a guidepost in the same way. I
       | believe it actually comes from the same root as "happen" - a sort
       | of vagarity you hope to stumble into but aren't sure how to work
       | towards.
       | 
       | Don't get me started on the English word "love" lol.
        
         | IAmBroom wrote:
         | > ...much like eskimos have many words for snow.
         | 
         | ... which is a stereotyped myth, like most of what we were
         | taught about indigenous peoples everywhere.
         | 
         | Turns out English has MANY more words for "stream of water on
         | land" than Inuit has for snow. Inuit has multiple nuancing
         | endings - but English has snow, snows, snowy, snowlike, and so
         | one.
        
       | tokai wrote:
       | Redundant as it is possible to be bipolar with light hypomania
       | without depressive episodes. So its already covered.
        
       | lamontcg wrote:
       | If this proposal was to add toxic positivity and optimism bias as
       | a psychiatric disorder, I'd be on board with that.
        
       | effed3 wrote:
       | After ROTFL, and checking is not 1st april, seems in the same
       | line of: "life is a disease, sexually transmitted, with 100%
       | lethal exitus".
       | 
       | More seriously (very little indeed) maybe the 'problem' is all
       | those activities that need to create more and more new
       | problems/disorders to justify all the work uppon, so what if
       | psychiatry is a psychiatric disorder? regressum ad infinitum,
       | take the red pill.
       | 
       | About happiness, Buddha, asked about the way to happines, say:
       | happiness is not the destination, is the way.
        
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