[HN Gopher] Discord will require a face scan or ID for full acce...
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       Discord will require a face scan or ID for full access next month
        
       https://discord.com/press-releases/discord-launches-teen-by-...
       https://discord.com/safety/how-discord-is-building-safer-exp...
        
       Author : x01
       Score  : 905 points
       Date   : 2026-02-09 14:37 UTC (8 hours ago)
        
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       | josefritzishere wrote:
       | This is not OK.
        
       | onetokeoverthe wrote:
       | another one bites the dust.
        
       | drzaiusx11 wrote:
       | F** that, guess I'm leaving that platform too now...
        
         | boca_honey wrote:
         | I think this will be the kneejerk reaction of many, but then
         | you'll have to face the consequences (de facto social
         | isolation) and probably acquiesce. I had the same reaction when
         | platforms started asking for my cellphone number... after some
         | years I just started giving it to them. Now I don't even think
         | about it.
        
           | sneak wrote:
           | I don't sign up for those accounts, and I change my mobile
           | number every 90 days.
        
             | titaniumtown wrote:
             | Every 90 days? Wow. Can you elaborate on how that logically
             | works? Like what about for doctors offices having your
             | number on file and other similar situations.
        
               | boca_honey wrote:
               | He doesn't have the kind of life you and I have. He is
               | probably convinced someone is out to get him. No medical
               | records, no kids, no library card, etc. I've seen some
               | cases like his.
        
               | johnnyanmac wrote:
               | People in my country are being shot on the streets by the
               | government. Let's not pretend that there are not in fact
               | malicious actors out there who want you hurt for their
               | amusement.
               | 
               | You're free to make your own choices on life, but I don't
               | like you chastising others' lived experiences as if
               | everyone has a cushy safe life with a government working
               | for them.
        
           | jesse_dot_id wrote:
           | Your solution is subservience.
        
             | boca_honey wrote:
             | Read again, I never said it was a solution. I said I don't
             | care.
        
           | lpcvoid wrote:
           | Then you decided to cave in and forego your privacy. Don't
           | assume others will falter in the same fashion.
        
             | boca_honey wrote:
             | Not everyone, but most people. Privacy has been around for
             | a century, at most. I'm fine with it going away. This
             | neurotic overprotection of personal data is just you all
             | larping as super spies. Too many hacker movies, dude.
        
               | johnnyanmac wrote:
               | >Too many hacker movies, dude.
               | 
               | Too much fascism. They've used these relinquishes to
               | build a database of people to go after based om race or
               | political affiliation.
               | 
               | Maybe they still will get me. But I'm not making it that
               | easy for them.
        
           | kyboren wrote:
           | "I used to resist the boot, too. Then I was successfully
           | conditioned by the environment that's been engineered around
           | me. Now I just lick it subconsciously."
        
             | boca_honey wrote:
             | I also thought like you when I was in my 20's. However...
             | the addolescent need to "rise up" is the first thing to go
             | when you actually start a family and develop a well
             | balanced social network. If you play your cards right, soon
             | enough, you won't care about all this.
        
               | ahhhhnoooo wrote:
               | I'm 45. My friend, I still resist licking the boot. Stop
               | believing that your experience is somehow more universal.
               | 
               | I have a rich social network, I have a family, and now
               | more than any time in my life do I think it's important
               | to resist.
               | 
               | Stop saying you'll get less radical as you age, it's just
               | not the axiom you think it is.
        
               | seanw444 wrote:
               | I have a spouse and kids. I still stick to my guns. Both
               | literally and figuratively. Speak for yourself.
        
           | johnnyanmac wrote:
           | >but then you'll have to face the consequences (de facto
           | social isolation) and probably acquiesce.
           | 
           | Nah I'm used to being lonely. Leaving these platforms shows
           | how few truly deep friendships you have.
           | 
           | You get used to it.
           | 
           | >I had the same reaction when platforms started asking for my
           | cellphone number... after some years I just started giving it
           | to them.
           | 
           | Even when I gave Facebook my number, that wasn't enough. I
           | drew a line at some point. If everyone else wants to
           | sacrifice privacy for the sake of pseudo-community, so be it.
        
       | hoistbypetard wrote:
       | In case anyone else can't read it: https://archive.is/PvpAx
        
         | deanc wrote:
         | On all my devices and all my connections (residential and
         | mobile) here in the EU I end up in a captcha loop for this site
         | nowadays. Is it just me?
         | 
         | EDIT: seems like I'm not the only one [1]
         | 
         | [1]
         | https://www.reddit.com/r/DataHoarder/comments/1q0ewh1/do_you...
        
       | Rooster61 wrote:
       | The sad thing is that I think many people will en masse pony up
       | their ID or snapshot without a second thought. I'm not sure if
       | enough people will refuse to actually force Discord to back off
       | this decision (unless their idea is to grab as much data as
       | possible at once with the understanding that they are going to
       | back off either way).
        
         | accrual wrote:
         | Especially if it's presented as a pop-up upon launching the app
         | that suggests the user won't be able to talk to their
         | friends/servers without showing ID. Carefully worded language
         | would could spur some % of users to panic at losing years of
         | history and immediately show ID. Folks with less privacy
         | discernment hear "jump" and reply "how high".
        
           | joquarky wrote:
           | > panic at losing years of history
           | 
           | I used to be like that. It was unsustainable and ultimately
           | mentally unhealthy.
        
             | johnnyanmac wrote:
             | Yeah. You male new friends and find new experiences. Or
             | maybe you don't. That's the cost of freedom, I suppose.
        
         | wolvoleo wrote:
         | I have done that for stripchat which was also requiring it. Not
         | happy with it but I'd rather use a selfie than a whole ID
         | document which includes an image anyway.
         | 
         | The thing is, what other option do I have?
        
           | pavel_lishin wrote:
           | I'll continue using Discord in teen mode, I guess. I'd rather
           | not lose the current connections & servers I have on there,
           | and I'm not optimistic about people migrating away,
           | especially non-tech people.
        
         | superxpro12 wrote:
         | I get the draconian side of things, but I am also tired of
         | thousands of russian, indian, domestic-funded etc. bots
         | flooding the zone with divisive propaganda.
         | 
         | In theory, this seems like it would at least be a step in the
         | direction of combating disinformation.
         | 
         | I'm curious if there are any better ways to suppress these
         | propaganda machines?
        
           | joks wrote:
           | I don't see how disallowing viewing "age-restricted" content
           | through Discord without giving them your ID would have any
           | impact on the spread of disinformation, outside of like,
           | disinfo in the form or pornographic or gory images.
        
           | JuniperMesos wrote:
           | How do I know that this message isn't divisive propaganda
           | posted by a bot?
        
             | Joker_vD wrote:
             | Because it's not posted by a Russian/Indian account, duh!
        
         | ntoskrnl_exe wrote:
         | I don't imagine this was a 100% their decision, it's more like
         | a response to the epidemic of all the world's governments
         | suddenly coming up with adult verification schemes. Discord has
         | already required it in some countries, and it's definitely
         | easier to get everybody to verify themselves than require it on
         | a per-jurisdiction basis. The personal data they get is a
         | cherry on top.
         | 
         | Also, this is just the beginning, more social networks will
         | require the same soon.
        
           | pavel_lishin wrote:
           | They don't have to comply in advance.
        
         | bsimpson wrote:
         | Sounds like when Netflix reneged on family accounts.
         | 
         | I cancelled my account in protest, but their financials say
         | they made money on the change (and thus all the execs are happy
         | with it).
        
           | johnnyanmac wrote:
           | If it helps, it really seems like Netflix is only "making
           | money" these days off of cutting programming and workers.
           | It's not a sustainable way to grow and it will hit a wall
           | soon.
        
         | boca_honey wrote:
         | I was planning to do that. My work chat is on Discord. I am an
         | adult. Google and Netflix have my legal name and credit card
         | number. I don't see how Discord having my ID is any worse.
        
           | PoisedProto wrote:
           | The issue is that it's yet _another_ platform that could leak
           | your data? Why would you ever want to increase that chance?
           | 
           | Also, I'm not sure you would need to give discord your ID
           | unless you're sending porn in your work chat or something.
        
       | Simulacra wrote:
       | No thanks. Discord, it has been fun, but I decline.
        
       | verdverm wrote:
       | How many people are doing age restricted stuff on Discord
       | (besides the specifically there for adult content and gooning
       | crowd)
       | 
       | All of my use is primarily professional and gaming and has no age
       | concerns
        
         | sigio wrote:
         | Gaming certainly has age-concerns, many games are rated
         | 13/15/16+ or 18+
         | 
         | But yeah, leaving discord... they are not getting my ID/Photo
        
           | verdverm wrote:
           | At least Google is pushing on zero-knowledge solutions
           | 
           | Maybe they can force everyone's hand like they did for https
           | 
           | https://blog.google/innovation-and-ai/technology/safety-
           | secu...
        
           | reorder9695 wrote:
           | Ratings aren't legally binding though are they? I bought
           | games older rated than I was, and it's totally up to people's
           | parents what they're allowed to play. Are you suggesting a 15
           | year old should be allowed to play the 16 rated game but not
           | discuss it?
        
             | verdverm wrote:
             | Can their parents also approve their discord usage?
             | 
             | Are you saying they need parents to buy the game, but
             | shouldn't to join chats about the same game?
        
         | stuffn wrote:
         | Does it matter? The problem is that everyone uses discord for
         | everything. It's not an isolated platform, it's THE platform if
         | you want to have friends.
        
           | verdverm wrote:
           | If you don't access adult stuff, you don't need to verify
           | age. I'm not giving them my ID, I'm not expecting anything to
           | change about my Discord experience.
           | 
           | What's the issue?
        
       | foobarian wrote:
       | Looks like it might be opt-in by server.
        
       | nananana9 wrote:
       | Honestly they're probably big enough to get away with it.
       | 
       | If it was only friend groups it would kill them for sure, we've
       | seen that many times, but given the absurd amount many large
       | online communities on Discord, I'd wager they can force it down
       | and be relatively unscathed.
       | 
       | They played the long game - they provided a good service for 10
       | years, and got REALLY big before they started the
       | enshittification process.
        
       | kmeisthax wrote:
       | Any age verification process that does not consider the age of
       | the account as a verification option is a data trap, plain and
       | simple.
        
         | RupertSalt wrote:
         | How does anyone know whether a family is engaging in that time-
         | honored tradition of passing down accounts from grandfather, to
         | father, to son, to child, and their posterity, in perpetuity?
         | 
         | Seriously though, unless you have positively identified the
         | person who created the account in the first place, you have 0%
         | chance of knowing whether it is the same person using it today.
         | 
         | Gamers sell their high-level accounts all the time. It would be
         | a simple matter of economics that the Discord users with the
         | oldest accounts sell them to 12-year-olds. Likewise, accounts
         | are shared willy-nilly, whether or not that violates the rules.
         | And accounts can be stolen or compromised, if you're really
         | hard up.
        
           | Quillbert182 wrote:
           | But under that argument, you would have to prove your age on
           | a regular basis, the plan right now appears to be that each
           | account would only need to do so once.
        
             | pixl97 wrote:
             | Just remember that the Terms of Service you agreed to are
             | about as firm as explosive diarrhea.
        
             | RupertSalt wrote:
             | _You agree not to license, sell, lend, or transfer your
             | account, Discord username, vanity URL, or other unique
             | identifier without our prior written approval. We also
             | reserve the right to delete, change, or reclaim your
             | username, URL, or other identifier._
             | 
             | If transfer of accounts is a policy violation, then Discord
             | has legal cover to confidently assert that, once ID is
             | verified, the ID'd person is the owner and controller of
             | the account thereafter.
             | 
             | Account selling, stealing, and sharing will certainly still
             | happen, but that's grounds for banning, and not Discord's
             | legal liability anymore.
        
               | Quillbert182 wrote:
               | Then why could they not also legally get away with using
               | account age as a proxy?
        
           | RegnisGnaw wrote:
           | No law or regulation is ever 100% effective in real life.
           | Income tax is not collected 100% effectively. Should we not
           | do it? Criminals are not caught 100% of the time, should we
           | not do it?
           | 
           | Of course this won't be 100% effective, maybe 80-90%
           | effective. That's all they need and expect from this system.
        
             | gjsman-1000 wrote:
             | Exactly.
             | 
             | HN is constantly obsessed with _is it perfectly effective?_
             | 
             | No law, none, is perfectly effective. Speed limits
             | certainly aren't self enforcing, but remove your
             | neighborhood's speed limits first if you truly believe laws
             | must be demonstrated perfect.
        
           | smrq wrote:
           | How often do you suppose they will be re-checking your ID?
           | Once every... never?
        
             | AJ007 wrote:
             | They need to have an always-on camera looking at the person
             | using the device. No camera, no discord.
        
           | Ekaros wrote:
           | Just ban that in TOS. As we know TOS is inviolable. As such
           | it is not possible to sell, gift or otherwise transfer an
           | account. At least this should be considered how it works for
           | age verification. If account transfer is found out account
           | can be terminated thus closing the loop hole.
        
           | ncr100 wrote:
           | So then it's REASONABLY not the corporation's fault if that
           | user sees explicit content.
        
         | sigio wrote:
         | Yeah, my youtube/google account is almost as old as youtube
         | itself is, but will constantly ask me to verify my age when
         | clicking on something as marked 'not for kids'. Can we just get
         | the leisure-suit-larry age-verification system ;)
        
         | mistrial9 wrote:
         | Apple deleted many legacy mac-dot-com accounts without qualms,
         | not long ago. It was the phone accounts, in so many ways,
         | driving it .. IMHO
        
         | wolvoleo wrote:
         | Has discord even been around for 18 years?
        
         | mmlkrx wrote:
         | They are planning on doing something similar:
         | 
         | Discord is also rolling out an age inference model that
         | analyzes metadata like the types of games a user plays, their
         | activity on Discord, and behavioral signals like signs of
         | working hours or the amount of time they spend on Discord.
         | 
         | "If we have a high confidence that they are an adult, they will
         | not have to go through the other age verification flows,"
        
           | varjolintu wrote:
           | I'm curious to know what this "model" actually means. A real-
           | time AI monitoring for conversations?
        
       | jszymborski wrote:
       | So my friend group has been looking for alternatives for a while
       | now that feel like discord, works on mobile and desktop, and has
       | voice chat.
       | 
       | I use Signal but the UI is very different from Discord.
       | 
       | I've had very mixed experiences with Element + Matrix, Element
       | keeps crashing on mobile, and while voice chat kinda exists in
       | Element it's not been great imho.
       | 
       | I looked into hosting Rocket.chat, Zullip, and Mattermost but
       | from what I recall voice + mobile were either missing or
       | paywalled at a per-user price.
       | 
       | Any recommendations?
        
         | tmtvl wrote:
         | I seem to recall Jitsi working pretty well.
        
           | jszymborski wrote:
           | Jitsi is great but the element integration felt clunky. Maybe
           | I'll have to revisit it.
        
       | kmnc wrote:
       | "We will find ways to bring people back" yeah because that
       | usually works. I imagine this gets rolled back or siloed to only
       | adult specific channels.
        
       | haritha-j wrote:
       | > and will see content filters for any content Discord detects as
       | graphic or sensitive.
       | 
       | I didn't even realise discord scans all the images that i send
       | and recieve.
        
         | jsheard wrote:
         | Pretty much every non-E2EE platform is scanning every uploaded
         | image for CSAM at least, that's a baseline ass-covering
         | measure.
        
           | mapt wrote:
           | And E2EE platforms like Mega are now being censored on some
           | platforms specifically because they're E2EE, and so the name
           | itself must be treated as CSAM.
           | 
           | As people who want to talk about words like "megabytes" or
           | "megapixels" or "megaphones" or "Megaman" or "Megan" on
           | Facebook are finding out.
        
         | RegnisGnaw wrote:
         | They have to at least for CSAM.
        
         | pixl97 wrote:
         | Really I've come to the conclusion that anything I send out of
         | my LAN is probably kept on a server forever and ingested by
         | LLMs, and indexed to be used against me in perpetuity at this
         | point, regardless of what any terms or conditions of the site
         | I'm using actually says.
        
           | palata wrote:
           | To be fair, the terms and conditions probably say that they
           | can do whatever they want with that data :-).
        
           | Gud wrote:
           | Don't forget all the government creeps snooping on the wires.
        
             | xnx wrote:
             | Until the current administration, I was much more bothered
             | by private misuse/abuse of date than the government. Now I
             | worry about both.
        
               | Gud wrote:
               | Why? People who volunteer to work for these government
               | drag nets must be total psychos.
        
               | pixl97 wrote:
               | Volunteer? I mean they do get paid.
               | 
               | The thing is it's a mix of both.
               | 
               | You have the fervent that love recording everything "for
               | the good of the people". But then you'll just have piles
               | of people with separation of duties that do things with
               | very little understanding of where they fit in the
               | process and very little care to.
        
               | joquarky wrote:
               | We gave those brogrammers the keys to the machine when we
               | made programming more accessible.
        
               | kmijyiyxfbklao wrote:
               | Good. Being OK with authoritarianism because they are on
               | your side is never good.
        
               | raw_anon_1111 wrote:
               | That was always the wrong threat model hierarchy. I have
               | always been more concerned what the federal, my state and
               | my local government can do when given more
               | power/informstion than the federal government
        
           | kmfrk wrote:
           | Speaking of hosting, Discord used to be one of the biggest
           | (inadvertent) image hosts, so they might have set up the
           | system to reduce legal exposure than to monitor conversations
           | per se.[1]
           | 
           | A lot of the internet broke the day they flipped that switch
           | off.
           | 
           | Weren't external Tumblr hotlinks also a thing back in the
           | day?
           | 
           | [1]: https://www.reddit.com/r/discordapp/comments/16uy0an/not
           | _sur...
        
         | palata wrote:
         | Everything that is not end-to-end encrypted understandably has
         | to do it.
        
         | lpcvoid wrote:
         | Well it's not E2EE, so what did you expect? Nothing you do on
         | Discord is private, everything is screened, categorized and
         | readable by third parties.
        
       | palata wrote:
       | > Users who aren't verified as adults will not be able to access
       | age-restricted servers and channels
       | 
       | I genuinely wonder which proportion of the users want access to
       | age-restricted servers and channels...
       | 
       | Feels like it should be just fine not to verify the age.
        
         | pteraspidomorph wrote:
         | Here's how Discord works. A third or so of its features, such
         | as forum channels (EDIT: I think this specific example was
         | wrong; stage and announcement channels, but not forum channels)
         | or role self-assignment, are locked behind Community Mode.
         | After enabling Community Mode, server owners are NOT ALLOWED to
         | turn off content filtering anymore, meaning that by default,
         | content in every channel may be filtered out by systems you
         | cannot configure.
         | 
         | The only way _for the server owner_ to circumvent the filter is
         | to mark a channel as  "NSFW", which doesn't necessarily mean
         | the channel actually contains any NSFW content.
         | 
         | This change will not actually require ID for content confirmed
         | to be NSFW. It will require ID for each and every "NSFW mode"
         | (unfiltered) channel. The end result is that you have three
         | choices:
         | 
         | - Ditch Discord features implemented in recent years (or at
         | least this is currently possible) - this prevents a server from
         | being listed as public;
         | 
         | - Require ID checks from all your users (per channel);
         | 
         | - Have everything scanned from all your users (per channel).
        
           | palata wrote:
           | Are you saying that you can "mark" the channel as "NSFW", and
           | Discord will stop scanning your content, possibly allowing
           | you to share very illegal content through their servers?
           | 
           | Sounds weird to me. Pretty sure that they legally have to
           | make sure that they don't host illegal content. Or does
           | "NSFW" enable some kind of end-to-end encryption?
        
             | pteraspidomorph wrote:
             | That has always been the case, yes, though I'm not sure
             | what you mean by "illegal" content. There is only a small
             | overlap between NSFW and illegal content, and the NSFW
             | filter has never been concerned with, uh, violating
             | photograph copyright or something.
             | 
             | You don't have to take my word for it, just check it
             | yourself, although it seems that this week, they renamed
             | the NSFW setting to "Age-Restricted Channel" (in
             | preparation for this change, no doubt). The verification-
             | related portion of the behavior I described was implemented
             | for the UK months ago.
             | 
             | The description still contains: "Age-restricted channels
             | are exempt from the explicit content filter."
             | 
             | EDIT: IANAL (or american) but if Discord was policing
             | content for legality rather than age-appropriateness,
             | wouldn't they lose DMCA Safe Harbor protections?
        
               | palata wrote:
               | > The description still contains: "Age-restricted
               | channels are exempt from the explicit content filter."
               | 
               | Wait! This does not mean they do not scan it. What I
               | understand from that statement is that they _filter
               | explicit content_ , as in they prevent it from appearing
               | on the user's screen.
               | 
               | When you enable the "NSFW" mode, you tell Discord "it's
               | okay, don't filter out anything". But Discord _probably_
               | still scans everything.
               | 
               | So that makes sense to me: if you don't validate your
               | age, then Discord will not allow you to join channels
               | that disable the "adult" filtering. I can personally live
               | without adult content on Discord...
        
               | pteraspidomorph wrote:
               | OK, but you're not the one making that decision and you
               | don't know/can't control how that decision is being made.
        
               | palata wrote:
               | Well you're not using Discord in the hope that they are
               | censorship-resistant, are you? :-)
               | 
               | They can read everything that you send already, if your
               | problem is that they may filter something that they
               | consider NSFW and you don't... well I am not sure how big
               | of a problem that is.
        
         | mjr00 wrote:
         | > I genuinely wonder which proportion of the users want access
         | to age-restricted servers and channels...
         | 
         |  _Way_ more than you think. There are _tons_ of Discord servers
         | that only exist to share pornography.
        
       | bramhaag wrote:
       | What realistic open source alternatives to Discord are there? I'm
       | currently considering moving to one of these with my friend
       | group:
       | 
       | - Matrix
       | 
       | - Stoat, previously revolt (https://stoat.chat/)
       | 
       | - IRC + Mumble
       | 
       | - Signal
        
         | Schlagbohrer wrote:
         | I have found Element and Matrix to be totally unusable in iOS
        
           | rsynnott wrote:
           | Element's awful, but I've found FluffyChat, another matrix
           | client, to be a lot better, albeit with a very silly name.
        
         | drzaiusx11 wrote:
         | Does matrix have decent 1:N client desktop broadcasting with
         | low latency (and high fps) yet? I use discord for "watch
         | parties", video and tabletop gaming...
        
         | lostmsu wrote:
         | Revolt's rename to stoat is probably worse than any rebranding
         | MSFT done ever.
        
           | rickstanley wrote:
           | It's because of the trademark:
           | https://stoat.chat/updates/long-live-stoat
           | 
           | Nevertheless, I don't like the new name either, oh well...
           | 
           | I like this comment though:
           | 
           |  _Imagine you make a free software project and it runs into
           | trademark issues because people have more money than you to
           | register in more classes than your project.
           | 
           | And then even though your project existed first, they still
           | come after you anyway.
           | 
           | And from that an even more expensive rebranding from this as
           | well._
           | 
           | from: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=45626225, not sure
           | how accurate it is, but it makes me want to _revolt_ .
        
           | kibwen wrote:
           | It's open source, I'm tempted to fork it and do nothing other
           | than change the branding.
        
           | rsynnott wrote:
           | "[beaver emoji] Revolt is Stoat now"
           | 
           | Argh. If there's no stoat emoji, petition the Unicode
           | Consortium for one, don't just use a beaver. It's not even
           | the right family; the badger emoji would be closer.
        
         | x01 wrote:
         | For me, the closest alternative to Discord is Stoat. Matrix
         | with Element (or other clients) would be great, but it feels so
         | slow on both desktop and mobile.
        
         | rickstanley wrote:
         | I wonder how Stoat will fare, and how it is currently
         | maintained, in terms of "making money"; my fear is that it
         | would steer into the direction of Discord itself.
        
           | OuterVale wrote:
           | Currently financed on user donations. The future plan is to
           | intoduce further features which are costly to provide behind
           | a paywall to remain sustainable.
        
         | arkh wrote:
         | One thing most of those lack is an easy way to share screen.
         | 
         | Now if anyone wants to differentiate their Discord alternative,
         | they want to have most of discord functionalities and add the
         | possibility to be in multiple voice chats (maybe with rights
         | and a channel hierarchy + different push-to-talk binds). It's a
         | missed feature when doing huge operations in games and using
         | the Canary client is not always enough.
        
           | joks wrote:
           | Stoat has screen sharing / video calling in the pipeline at
           | least: https://github.com/stoatchat/stoatchat/issues/313
        
             | ghosty141 wrote:
             | According to the last comment in the issue it is already
             | available for self hosted clients.
        
           | foresto wrote:
           | Matrix screen sharing is a feature of Element Call /
           | MatrixRTC (in development).
           | 
           | For now, I think they do it through their Jitsi integration.
           | I don't know how easy it is, as I haven't tried it.
           | 
           | https://docs.element.io/latest/element-cloud-
           | documentation/i...
        
           | Zhyl wrote:
           | Jitsi does that well
        
         | ozlikethewizard wrote:
         | Last I checked Signal was not fully open source, which is iffy,
         | believe their encryption protocol is still closed. That said
         | its the best of a bad bunch for E2EE messaging. If you're on
         | android I'd recommend doing what I do, which is installing from
         | the APK on the site, manually verifying the sig locally (you
         | can use termux for this), and then lagging ever so slightly
         | behind on updates to avoid potential supply chain or hostile
         | takeover attacks. This is probably over cautious for most
         | threat profiles, but better safe than sorry imo. Also their
         | server side stuff is close sourced, technically this isnt an
         | issue though as long as the E2EE holds up to scrutiny though.
         | 
         | Edit: My information may be out of date, I cannot find any
         | sources saying any part of the app is closed source these days,
         | do your own research ofc but comfortable saying its the most
         | accessible secure platform.
        
         | encom wrote:
         | IRC was here before Discord, and it will still be here after.
         | 
         | I've never heard of Stoat. Looks like IRC but it's Electron.
         | Total waste of time.
        
           | joks wrote:
           | IRC does not support group voice & video calls, which is one
           | of the primary features of Discord (and previously Skype,
           | from which everyone migrated to Discord in the first place)
        
             | joquarky wrote:
             | Kids these days...
        
               | ramon156 wrote:
               | Should be blame the majority of the users, or should we
               | accept times change?
        
             | ibejoeb wrote:
             | It's a viable system for the many open source software
             | projects that collaborate over chat. Expo, Typescript, and
             | Effect are relatively large examples. I'll participate
             | there if available and I get locked out. Otherwise, I'll
             | just use the stuff without contributing, no problem.
        
           | mvdtnz wrote:
           | For most Discord users IRC simply does not have the feature
           | set that people need. Basics like simple drag and drop media
           | sharing, threaded conversations, emoji reactions and voice
           | comms, up to more complicated stuff like screen sharing and
           | video calling.
        
         | joquarky wrote:
         | Which of these has been around for over three decades?
         | 
         | That would be my answer.
        
           | mrweasel wrote:
           | Same, depends on what you expect in terms of features and so
           | on, but for chat, IRC works perfectly.
        
         | MYEUHD wrote:
         | Snikket (https://snikket.org ) with Monal as the iOS client
        
           | subscribed wrote:
           | Requires hosting of the private server (security/privacy
           | implications) or renting it from the third party.
        
         | vagrantstreet wrote:
         | Zulip?
        
           | andreashaerter wrote:
           | I keep wondering why Zulip is so often left out of reviews
           | and tooling comparisons. For me it ticks a lot of important
           | boxes, yet it barely gets mentioned. Is there a downside I'm
           | missing, or is it just under the radar?
           | 
           | The concept that every message belongs to a topic and the
           | async communication focus makes so much sense to me. I read
           | conversations, not timelines.
        
             | tabbott wrote:
             | Sadly Zulip does not have a big marketing budget, and many
             | reviews/tooling comparisons are paid for in some way,
             | directly or otherwise, or are SEO spam that starts with
             | reading other similar SEO spam.
             | 
             | It is highly ranked on some platforms that do validated
             | reviews, like Capterra.
             | 
             | (I lead the Zulip project).
        
               | andreashaerter wrote:
               | Hey, cool :-). I've used Zulip for a bit and really
               | enjoyed it.
               | 
               | We're planning to roll it out at our company (foundata)
               | in Q4, so you'll get at least a few bucks from us. I'll
               | also happily recommend it to our customers. As an OSS
               | company and service provider, I can very much relate to
               | the lack of marketing budget and the constant SEO spam.
        
               | vagrantstreet wrote:
               | I feel like the average person isn't looking for
               | something professional grade, sadly it's hard to get
               | people to go away from Discord at the moment. Hard to
               | suggest alternatives if people aren't seeking them yet.
               | 
               | If I had to say it would have to be something
               | customizable, letting a user to delete their data even
               | after getting kicked from a server, very fast and
               | seamless joining process ,great gif/sticker support
               | without any premium features etc. But really that's just
               | some fantasy app lol. Discord is doing just fine
               | destroying itself however
               | 
               | By the way, I didn't know there was an instant online
               | test app because when I searched for Zulip I was in the
               | download page and it doesn't say anything about trying it
               | online. Seems like a strange suggestion UX wise but
               | that's how I feel about it (wonder how many people missed
               | out on this?), same thing after you enter the app. It
               | should have a test area for the new user to chat around
               | by himself with a bot or something with locally/session
               | stored messages.
        
         | ilikepi wrote:
         | This seems like a nice breakdown of some options:
         | 
         | https://taggart-tech.com/discord-alternatives/
         | 
         | (Not affiliated)
        
           | 3acctforcom wrote:
           | Honestly, this is HN and founders should pay attention to
           | this. People don't want to host their own shit, they want a
           | one-click easy switch. All of these alternatives have
           | baggage.
           | 
           | This is your chance to start Bluesky for discord. A
           | competently built, VC backed competitor to exploit a misstep
           | only caused by government overreach due to their colossal
           | market share. 26 million daily active users is a nice
           | guaranteed market to start whittling away at, with an
           | effective marketing campaign to drive a wedge between "little
           | gamers, and big corporate enshittification."
        
             | skulk wrote:
             | > government overreach
             | 
             | How would you avoid the same problem that discord ran into
             | that made them require ID verification? I doubt they're
             | doing this for fun. Incorporate in the Bahamas?
        
               | Morromist wrote:
               | the largest block of discord users are from the US which
               | hasn't got id verification laws regarding age for social
               | media. The 2nd largest is brazil, which does, and the 3rd
               | is India, which doesn't.
               | 
               | So they are forcing users from countries that haven't
               | passed these laws to abide by them. They don't have to do
               | this, they could just require brazilians use face-id.
        
             | lanyard-textile wrote:
             | I've been tempted for a long time.
             | 
             | I don't think I would need VC to get off the ground.
             | 
             | I keep coming back to the gigantic headache of content
             | moderation, and it gives me pause not to do it. There are
             | some truly terrible people who will try to tear the
             | platform apart.
        
         | buovjaga wrote:
         | For the latest in IRC tech, you can read my blog posts:
         | https://www.ilmarilauhakangas.fi/irc_technology_news_from_th...
         | 
         | I wrote the summaries with my own two hands, no LLMs involved.
        
         | jiffygist wrote:
         | Discord's voice rooms with screen sharing is a very cool
         | feature i depend on daily. I haven't seen opensource messenger
         | that implemented this yet.
        
           | JoshTriplett wrote:
           | Jitsi handles this very well.
           | 
           | I personally would advocate the combination of Zulip for text
           | chat plus Jitsi for calls and screen sharing.
        
         | tgsovlerkhgsel wrote:
         | I think Matrix is the closest equivalent that's reasonably
         | popular, at least for text messaging. There are both web and
         | mobile clients and they interoperate seamlessly. It's also at
         | the point where it somewhat reasonably works for the average
         | user, rather than being the usual UX nightmare that teaches
         | people that anything open source or anything pushed by their
         | nerdy friend should be avoided.
        
       | accrual wrote:
       | Here's the October 2025 Discord data breach mentioned at the end
       | of the article:
       | 
       | https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/c8jmzd972leo
       | 
       | > Discord, a messaging platform popular with gamers, says
       | official ID photos of around 70,000 users have potentially been
       | leaked after a cyber-attack.
       | 
       | However, their senior director states in this Verge article:
       | 
       | > The ID is immediately deleted. We do not keep any information
       | around like your name, the city that you live in, if you used a
       | birth certificate or something else, any of that information.
       | 
       | Why they didn't do that the first time?
        
         | wolvoleo wrote:
         | And do they really actually delete it this time?
        
         | Hikikomori wrote:
         | >Why they didn't do that the first time?
         | 
         | The company they hired to do the support tickets archived them,
         | including attachments, rather than deleting them.
        
           | malfist wrote:
           | Ah, so it was the "staffer" excuse.
        
             | hn_acc1 wrote:
             | rogue engineer
        
           | joquarky wrote:
           | How convenient.
        
           | engineeringwoke wrote:
           | Ah sorry our contractor did all that highly illegal stuff.
           | Too bad we can't pierce the corporate veil anymore... shucks.
        
         | pavel_lishin wrote:
         | > _The ID is immediately deleted. We do not keep any
         | information around like your name, the city that you live in,
         | if you used a birth certificate or something else, any of that
         | information._
         | 
         | This is also contradicted by what Discord actually says:
         | 
         | > _Quick deletion: Identity documents submitted to our vendor
         | partners are deleted quickly-- in most cases, immediately after
         | age confirmation._
         | 
         | What are the non-most cases?
        
           | rsynnott wrote:
           | Also, _Discord_ deleting them is really only half the battle;
           | random vendors deleting them remains an issue.
        
             | rockskon wrote:
             | Not to mention collecting them at all means those servers
             | are a primo location for state actors to stage themselves
             | to make copies of data before being deleted.
             | 
             | To say nothing of insider threats of which likely exist
             | across every major social media platform in service to
             | foreign govs.
        
             | AlienRobot wrote:
             | Weird that I have to get a list of all the cookie vendors
             | that know I visit a website to show me an ad about
             | something I already bought but the guys with my ID don't
             | need to be listed.
        
           | throw20251220 wrote:
           | Since when the city one lives in is mentioned in the birth
           | certificate?
        
             | smcin wrote:
             | It was only one example they gave, and they accept multiple
             | different types of ID; a driver's license or national ID
             | card being other likely ones, and DLs do say where you
             | live.
        
               | kvdveer wrote:
               | None of those documents reliably state my city of
               | residence. At best they document where I once lived, but
               | not even that is guaranteed.
        
               | malfist wrote:
               | You are legally required to update those within 10 days
               | of moving.
        
               | throw20251220 wrote:
               | What kind of tyranny do you live in? None of the
               | documents I have on me say where I live.
        
               | swiftcoder wrote:
               | It's pretty standard in a lot of Europe, one is required
               | to update ones license with each change of address
               | (although many people don't).
               | 
               | Along with such weird (to us) things as applying for an
               | exit visa from your current town when you want to move to
               | a new town...
        
               | throw20251220 wrote:
               | Which parts of Europe have a town of where the person
               | lives on their driving license? And what do you mean by
               | "us"?
        
               | swiftcoder wrote:
               | My Spanish identity card has my full address. Not sure if
               | the DNI does as well, or only the foreign resident
               | version.
               | 
               | > And what do you mean by "us"?
               | 
               | US folks are pretty used to being able to up and drive
               | across the country with a suitcase, without filing any
               | paperwork (at least till the taxman comes knocking next
               | April)
        
               | throw20251220 wrote:
               | I ask you about drivers license, you tell me about the
               | national ID.
        
               | gambiting wrote:
               | UK driver's licence has my full home address on it. Come
               | to think of it I think my Polish one used to as well.
        
               | mcapodici wrote:
               | Australia and UK goes the full distance. Your full
               | address: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Driver%27s_licence
               | s_in_Austral...
        
         | varispeed wrote:
         | > The ID is immediately deleted.
         | 
         | I call it bollocks. Likely they have to keep it for audit and
         | other purposes.
        
           | smaudet wrote:
           | "delete" doesn't mean delete anymore, like you say, there are
           | always audit logs, and there is "soft" deleting.
           | 
           | Expect any claims that things are being deleted to be a bold
           | faced lie.
        
           | subscribed wrote:
           | They wouldn't _have to_, audit checks if you stick to law,
           | your own policies and such, but I think they will.
        
             | varispeed wrote:
             | So how do they prove they actually checked someone's age?
        
               | lII1lIlI11ll wrote:
               | How does shop clerk proves they checked someone's age
               | before selling them alcohol?
        
               | Gigachad wrote:
               | They don't need to prove that. The government or whatever
               | would have to prove that they aren't checking ages, by
               | going to the site and seeing a lack of age verification.
        
         | observationist wrote:
         | They're a nonsense company, and trusting them with any
         | information is foolish. They'll store everything and anything,
         | because data is valuable, and won't delete anything unless
         | legally compelled to and held accountable by third party
         | independent verification. This is the default.
         | 
         | The purpose of things is what they do. They're an adtech user
         | data collection company, they're not a user information
         | securing company.
        
         | debo_ wrote:
         | I believe the original finding was that they were not deleting
         | IDs that were involved in disputes.
        
         | Aurornis wrote:
         | They explained it in their announcement at
         | https://discord.com/press-releases/update-on-security-incide...
         | 
         | TL;DR: The IDs were used in age-related appeals. If someone's
         | account was banned for being too young they have to submit an
         | ID as part of the appeal. Appeals take time to process and
         | review.
         | 
         | Discord has 200,000,000 users and age verification happens a
         | lot due to the number of young users and different countries.
        
           | plorg wrote:
           | Why should we suspect the age verification and age-related
           | appeals would involve different teams or processes?
        
             | elpasi wrote:
             | Age verification is done by an iframe to k-id.com.
             | 
             | Appeals are done in the actual Discord ticketing system.
        
             | Aurornis wrote:
             | Appeals are like escalations. They bypass automations and
             | move to manual review.
        
           | reactordev wrote:
           | This is corporate cover speak for "we keep all data"
        
         | _ink_ wrote:
         | Compliance
        
         | reactordev wrote:
         | Liars...
        
         | CGMthrowaway wrote:
         | > The ID is immediately deleted. We do not keep any information
         | around like your name, the city that you live in, if you used a
         | birth certificate or something else, any of that information.
         | 
         | Everyone says this, including the TSA. But they never say they
         | don't keep a hash, or an eigenvector of your biometric. Which
         | is equally as important.
        
           | hinata08 wrote:
           | They also never say it goes through datacenters in room 641A
           | or though Utah before it's "deleted", because it's a US
           | company and they can't refuse that.
        
         | bilekas wrote:
         | Until we have some kind of "One Time ID Verification" service
         | that would work, the ID will never be deleted. Or a hash of the
         | info or some kind of identifiable info.
        
       | seneca wrote:
       | Hard no. Reality is that this push is everywhere. Authoritarian
       | governments are cracking down hard on dissent, they're not going
       | to leave huge platforms for communication untouched. We'll need
       | open source decentralized alternatives.
        
         | accrual wrote:
         | Indeed, the article basically says as much in more pacifying
         | terms:
         | 
         | > driven by an international legal push for age checks and
         | stronger child safety measures
        
         | SoftTalker wrote:
         | HN: Social media is terrible and ruining kids' mental health.
         | 
         | Also HN: Any attempt to limit access to verified adults is an
         | "authoritarian crackdown" and totally unacceptable.
        
           | z0r wrote:
           | Children generally have these things called "parents" who are
           | supposedly responsible for their well being. Oh hey, suddenly
           | there isn't a contradiction.
        
             | SoftTalker wrote:
             | Right, helicopter parenting. Gets a lot of praise here, I
             | forgot.
        
               | hiccup_socks wrote:
               | you may be surprised to learn that you can be a parent
               | and have rules without being a "helicopter parent".
               | 
               | given your other bad faith comments in this thread,
               | though, im sure you know that and are just trying to be
               | contrarian for... fun? is it fun?
        
           | pseudalopex wrote:
           | HN commenters are many. Not 1. And 1 person can believe 2
           | things are bad.
        
       | ravenstine wrote:
       | Haven't cared about Discord in a long time. In fact I'm glad
       | they're continuing to shoot themselves in the foot.
       | 
       | During the pandemic, I was on a Discord server for folks to
       | socialize and blow off steam about the whole situation. Yes,
       | there were some anti-vaxx wackos, but overall the place was civil
       | and balanced, and I met some interesting people through it. We
       | cracked jokes and it was a little bit of fun in a tough time.
       | 
       | One day I came to discover that Discord had banned the server for
       | allegedly violating... _something_. I wish I had written down
       | everyone 's emails because I permanently lost contact with a
       | bunch of friends in an instant.
       | 
       | I never signed in to Discord again, in spite of times where some
       | other social group wanted to use it. I vowed never to use Discord
       | again. Fuck those guys and the Teslas they rode in on. I hope
       | this ID verification thing is another big step towards their
       | irrelevancy.
        
         | gjsman-1000 wrote:
         | Discord has 150 million monthly active users.
         | 
         | They'll be fine. To them, this is just another internet
         | boycott, with all that entails. Reddit survived a worse one and
         | grew afterward.
        
           | ravenstine wrote:
           | The difference with Reddit is it has way more persistent
           | value. Everything on Discord is throwaway, but valuable posts
           | on Reddit from years past are easily retrievable. The two
           | aren't so comparable.
           | 
           | One of the unspoken reasons many people have for using
           | Discord is they don't want what they say to easily be
           | associated with them in perpetuity. Requiring ID really chips
           | away at that, in spite of what Discord has to say about
           | privacy around ID.
           | 
           | By no means am I saying that Discord will go extinct. I just
           | haven't observed anything about it that's irreplaceable.
           | Reddit, on the other hand, has a wealth of discussion dating
           | back to the mid-to-late 00's.
        
             | encom wrote:
             | >valuable posts on Reddit
             | 
             | [removed]
             | 
             | [removed]
             | 
             | [removed]
             | 
             | [removed]
             | 
             | [removed]
        
               | ravenstine wrote:
               | There's this thing called the Wayback Machine, but I
               | lol'd at your response. It's not untrue. xD
        
             | Terr_ wrote:
             | > valuable posts on Reddit from years past are easily
             | retrievable.
             | 
             | Rant: Several years ago, everything I'd ever written for
             | _over a decade_ on Reddit vanished one morning for no
             | discernible reason, including all nested replies from other
             | people. I appealed, my appeal was  "granted", and nothing
             | changed, except the appeals page refused to work because it
             | said my account was already in good standing.
             | 
             | I dug up an ancient account I had used for resume feedback,
             | asked around in the help subreddits, and it too was killed
             | the same way.
        
         | alex1138 wrote:
         | You should be more tolerant of the "anti-vaxx wackos". The
         | covid 'vaccine' has a very large number of negative
         | externalities, confirmed by scores of credentialed doctors and
         | researchers
        
           | jmye wrote:
           | It's wild that this nonsense is still floating around by
           | people pushing "credentialed doctors", whatever the fuck they
           | think _that_ means. No one with any vague degree of
           | credibility would now or ever has supported  "very large
           | number" and all of the "externalities" (are you sure you're
           | using the right words) have been _vastly_ outweighed by the
           | things the vaccine provably did.
           | 
           | So tired of this shit.
        
             | alex1138 wrote:
             | You're wrong. I and the FLCCC disagree with you
        
       | palata wrote:
       | I wonder if Discord is legally forced to do that, or if they
       | would rather do it themselves (and collect the data $$$) rather
       | than wait to be imposed a solution they don't own.
       | 
       | I feel like age verification will come, there is no way around it
       | (unlike ChatControl and the likes, age verification seems
       | reasonably feasible and has a lot of political traction right
       | now).
       | 
       | But I would rather have a privacy-preserving solution for that,
       | e.g. from the government (which already knows my age).
        
         | anonymousab wrote:
         | There are probably enough regions where it is required or will
         | be required soon, that it makes sense to just get it over with.
         | 
         | The Internet is more or less becoming a locked down, controlled
         | and fully observed thing for end users and citizens, so
         | adapting to that world sooner and working within it is just
         | sensible future-proofing.
         | 
         | This also lets them more safely target older users with ads,
         | purchase requests, etc. and new integrations for gambling and
         | other high ROI systems.
        
           | selfhoster11 wrote:
           | GeoIP this nonsense. Legal liability is solved as a "good-
           | faith effort" and those living in jurisdictions where this
           | doesn't apply (or use a VPN) don't need to be stripped of
           | privacy.
        
         | plagiarist wrote:
         | Privacy preserving between you and the third party, but the
         | implication is that the government now sees what you are using.
        
           | palata wrote:
           | > but the implication is that the government now sees what
           | you are using.
           | 
           | No. The whole point of privacy preserving technology is that
           | they don't.
           | 
           | The idea is that the government checks your identity (they
           | know _who you are_ ) and give you an anonymous cryptographic
           | proof that you are above, say, 18. They don't know what you
           | do with it.
           | 
           | You give this cryptographic proof to Discord, and they know
           | that if you have access to that proof, then you have access
           | to someone who is above 18. They don't know who you are.
           | 
           | Sure, you could ask an adult to give you a token. But you can
           | also ask an adult to buy you alcohol or to do the age
           | verification scan for you.
        
             | plagiarist wrote:
             | You cannot automate adults buying alcohol from a single ID
             | for all the children in the nation.
             | 
             | If age tokens are truly anonymous, what's the solution for
             | preventing a single person from generating and selling them
             | to whatever child wants one?
        
               | palata wrote:
               | The thing is that we go from "we don't check the age at
               | all" to "children now need to work around an age
               | verification" system. Seems like it will be harder for
               | children, which is the goal.
               | 
               | Then make it illegal to sell them. Some people will still
               | do it, but children can already order cannabis over the
               | internet.
               | 
               | It's always a trade-off, it will never be perfect. But
               | the status quo is not perfect either. The question is: is
               | it better than the status quo? I think that age
               | verification is not completely unreasonable (as long as
               | it is made in a privacy-preserving manner). As a
               | comparison, I think that ChatControl _is completely
               | unreasonable_.
        
         | WorldMaker wrote:
         | Discord is just the next biggest canary in the coal mine of
         | increasing regulatory pressure in the EU, UK (which has had
         | this Discord verification for months now due to laws there),
         | and various US states.
         | 
         | I do wish that the lawmakers had worked more hand-in-hand with
         | technical exports on more privacy-preserving solutions ahead of
         | enforcing these laws. But Discord is doing this because
         | enforcement _has_ already started.
        
       | elephanlemon wrote:
       | Great news, there's finally going to be sufficient motivation for
       | people to both build out and use open source alternatives.
        
       | cynicalsecurity wrote:
       | Alternative: run your own self-hosted messaging server for you,
       | your family and friends. No company should ever get such
       | sensitive data as private conversations.
       | 
       | Use Discord with a throw-away account. Create a character in GTA
       | 5 on your laptop and show its face (in "selfie" mode) to the web-
       | camera on another computer with Discord open. All face scan
       | checks so far gladly accept it. Instagram has been requiring
       | occasional face checks for ages already.
        
       | brushfoot wrote:
       | > Content Filters: Discord users will need to be age-assured as
       | adults in order to unblur sensitive content or turn off the
       | setting. [1]
       | 
       | That presumably includes selfies?
       | 
       | That means that to exchange racy photos on Discord, each person
       | must first record a facial age estimation video or upload
       | identification documents.
       | 
       | That seems dystopian.
       | 
       | 1: https://discord.com/press-releases/discord-launches-teen-
       | by-...
        
         | gjsman-1000 wrote:
         | How do you know one party isn't 15 when the other is 25?
         | 
         | You're never going to convince a parent or a lawmaker or even
         | me that this is dystopian. Seems like a perfectly reasonable
         | safeguard.
        
           | brushfoot wrote:
           | > How do you know one party isn't 15 when the other is 25?
           | 
           | You don't. That's why parents need to be involved in their
           | children's lives.
           | 
           | CSAM is the easy excuse, anyway. That's the one lawmakers
           | use, and most people are against CSAM, myself included, so
           | the excuse goes down easy. But the impetus they don't talk
           | about is monitoring and control.
           | 
           | The answer isn't to destroy privacy for everyone. The
           | government and these corporations don't need to know what
           | you're doing every second of the day.
        
             | gjsman-1000 wrote:
             | > That's why parents need to be involved in their
             | children's lives.
             | 
             | Can't, aren't, look at iPad kids, won't. This is about as
             | logical as saying people should just drive safely, so we
             | don't need guardrails and seat belts. Or saying parents
             | should always watch their children, so we don't need age
             | verification at the alcohol store. Besides, it's not like
             | the school library or the friends of friends don't have
             | devices themselves you as a parent can't see.
             | 
             | Parents should not need to be tech experts or helicopters
             | to feel their kids are safe online. That's fundamentally
             | unreasonable. In which case, privacy and child safety need
             | to come to an unhappy compromise, just like any other
             | conflicting interest.
             | 
             | For that matter, I'm surprised that HN automatically always
             | accepts the "slippery slope" fallacy while lambasting it
             | everywhere else.
        
               | tavavex wrote:
               | > This is about as logical as saying people should just
               | drive safely, so we don't need guardrails and seat belts.
               | 
               | This is a terrible analogy. Regulations related to
               | driving only apply to drivers, if you're a pedestrian
               | then you're not subject to basically any regulations that
               | licensed drivers have to abide by. On the other hand,
               | internet regulation like this punishes _absolutely
               | everyone_ to safeguard a small group, that being parents.
               | It 's like legally forcing pedestrians to wrap themselves
               | in bubble wrap while outside so the careless drivers who
               | couldn't behave don't dent their cars and get hurt when a
               | pedestrian flies in their windshield, when they
               | inevitably collide with one of them. Why is any of this
               | their responsibility?
               | 
               | The fact that there is absolutely zero effort in pursuing
               | any non-punitive options (like forcing ISPs to put
               | networks of clients with kids in child-friendly mode,
               | where the adult has to enter a password to temporarily
               | view the unrestricted internet on their network, which
               | should cover 90%+ of cases; or doing any of the proposed
               | non-identifying proofs of age, like a generic "I'm an
               | adult" card you can buy at the convenience store) should
               | tell you that this has very little to do with actual
               | concern for children. They went out of their way to enact
               | the least private, most invasive, most disruptive option,
               | which will not even work better than any privacy-friendly
               | options, unless you expect literally every website on the
               | internet to be compliant. Teens are smart, they'll be
               | able to find any holes in that system, just like the
               | generations before them.
               | 
               | > For that matter, I'm surprised that HN automatically
               | always accepts the "slippery slope" fallacy while
               | lambasting it everywhere else.
               | 
               | Slippery slope arguments are not automatically a fallacy.
               | They can be if the causative relationship is weak or if
               | the slope is massively exaggerated. But if neither of
               | these things are true, "slippery slopes" is just looking
               | at the trends and expecting them to continue. You can't
               | look at a linear graph and say "well, I think there's no
               | most likely option from now on, it could go any way
               | really" without an argument for why the trend would
               | suddenly deviate. The internet had been tightening up and
               | the walls have been closing in for a long time, why would
               | that change?
        
           | Kim_Bruning wrote:
           | They'll now have kompromat associated with a name, address,
           | and id number (be it social security, BSN, or whatever your
           | country calls it)
        
       | eur0pa wrote:
       | No thank you, get fucked
        
       | rdudek wrote:
       | Genuine question, what is stopping users from using AI to
       | generate a fake face or ID to bypass this restriction?
        
         | anonymousab wrote:
         | There is a bit of an arms race between id verification systems
         | and users bypassing them when AI gen. Which is really just ai
         | generated images vs. AI generated image detection.
         | 
         | In practice, nothing will stop it, the tooling will gradually
         | get better at detecting prior fakes and banning those users
         | while the newer fakes will go undetected for longer.
         | 
         | Putting up the requirement satisfies their CYA requirements
         | here. The race between AI fraud vs. detection is something they
         | can just ignore and let happen on its own.
        
           | akersten wrote:
           | > prior fakes
           | 
           | But they assured me my biometrics are deleted after
           | uploading!
        
       | hiprob wrote:
       | Are they going to leak IDs of minors again like they did last
       | time? Who does this protect exactly?
        
         | malfist wrote:
         | It protects the investors so they can IPO
        
       | Insanity wrote:
       | To be honest it kinda sounds like a benefit for my use-case. I
       | don't engage with adult content on there and use it for one
       | server with friends.
       | 
       | And this will reduce spam from random accounts. Will see if it
       | remains usable without uploading my Id.
        
       | ethin wrote:
       | You have got to be kidding me. What is it with these lawmakers
       | and websites demanding people do all of this stuff using services
       | that nobody has ever heard of? I myself (as someone who is blind)
       | have never been able to do the face scanning thing because the
       | information they provide (for, you know, getting my face focused)
       | is just massively insufficient. And a lot of the ones I've seen
       | also require me to (as an alternative) do some weird ID scanning
       | with my camera instead of, you know, just allowing me to upload
       | my ID or something? (Then again, I really wouldn't want to give
       | my ID to some service nobody has ever heard of either, so there.)
       | I also am concerned when tfa says "a photo of an identity
       | document" what does this mean? If I have to scan my ID with my
       | camera, that's not exactly going to be simple for me to pull off.
       | I get that we need to protect kids, but this is not the way. Not
       | when it is discrimination by another name for individuals with
       | disabilities (as just one example).
        
       | sheikhnbake wrote:
       | I foresee Discord receiving a lot of identification documents
       | from the likes of Ben Dover
        
         | ncr100 wrote:
         | Dingle Dongle
         | 
         | Hot Ta Tas
        
       | BoredPositron wrote:
       | Can't wait to send my id to the cheapest identification provider
       | they could find.
        
       | ChrisArchitect wrote:
       | Source: https://discord.com/press-releases/discord-launches-teen-
       | by-...
        
       | MiddleEndian wrote:
       | I talk to three people on Discord. If I have to choose between A)
       | giving Discord my ID, B) giving Discord a fraudulent ID, or C)
       | just chatting with them on some other program, I'll just go with
       | C. If I cared about Discord more I guess I'd figure out B. May
       | get started with C ahead of time anyway.
        
         | rozab wrote:
         | What am I missing? According to this, the only difference is
         | you get a warning popup when someone new DMs you, right? And
         | they can't send you images flagged as porn?
         | 
         | How does this impact you in any way?
        
           | MiddleEndian wrote:
           | I'm generally opposed to services unnecessarily wanting IDs,
           | content filtering for direct messages from my contacts,
           | unwanted popups (it's already annoying when my friends send
           | me a link to a site I haven't visited from discord before and
           | it "warns" me and you cannot disable this entirely useless
           | popups), and things generally becoming worse.
           | 
           | A lot of these things are normalized already, but requiring
           | IDs is not and I don't want to see it become normalized.
           | 
           | Ultimately, they are free to do what they like (or perhaps
           | being unnecessarily pressured by various govts) and I am free
           | to leave the service.
        
             | andrewflnr wrote:
             | They're saying there's a very good chance that, in your use
             | case, you still won't be asked to provide ID.
        
               | dave7 wrote:
               | This is correct. I'm a UK Discord user, so I've been
               | subject to these requirements for ~6 months now. It's
               | basically nothing - I'm in near 50 "servers", of them all
               | I only really can think of one channel in one of them
               | that is flagged "nsfw" and thus blocked to me as I never
               | ID'd myself.
               | 
               | If you don't use Discord as a source of "nsfw" content
               | you can comfortably ignore these requirements. I do
               | realize there are some communities that may fare a lot
               | worse than my gaming / software dev interests, and may be
               | falsely claimed "nsfw" just for their existence. Which
               | yeah, that absolutely sucks.
        
               | MiddleEndian wrote:
               | Whether I have to provide ID myself or not, I prefer to
               | live in a world where when a company even announces that
               | they plan to do facial scanning, they lose most of their
               | customers. Hard to keep track of everything every company
               | is doing of course, but I will try to migrate off of
               | Discord ASAP.
        
         | edm0nd wrote:
         | If all you use Discord for is chatting with 3 people, these
         | changes will have zero impact on you and your daily usage. You
         | wont ever see an ID prompt.
        
           | MiddleEndian wrote:
           | It will impact me since I've decided to go with plan C ahead
           | of time. Hard to keep track of everything every company does,
           | but I'd rather not use a service that is unnecessarily
           | aggregating facial scans + IDs of its users.
        
           | __loam wrote:
           | You don't have to make excuses for corporate decisions that
           | damage user privacy.
        
       | superkuh wrote:
       | It's a relief to finally read that Discord is indirectly shutting
       | down and getting rid of it's users. It was inevitable but dragged
       | out far too long with all the VC money to burn. Hopefully
       | everyone can figure out how to use XMPP and/or get back on IRC.
       | It is a genuine shame how much culture and information will be
       | lost inside their walled garden though.
        
         | ROllerozxa wrote:
         | I'm afraid the thing that would be replacing Discord will be
         | even worse
        
         | joks wrote:
         | XMPP and IRC are great and all but a massive part of what
         | people use Discord for is group voice calls with screen-
         | sharing. I'm not sure what the alternative is for that.
         | TeamSpeak is the closest I can think of but it's not a 1:1
         | replacement for a number of reasons.
        
           | crtasm wrote:
           | We use Jitsi for voice/video calls + screen sharing (but I
           | realise you may be talking about all-in-one alternatives)
        
             | em-bee wrote:
             | it's possible to integrate jitsi in such a way that the
             | chat has a function that will open a jitsi room and share
             | the link to that. on irc this could be a bot. for people
             | used to irc that's seamless enough. for something more
             | convenient you'd want to integrate that feature into the
             | chat client interface such that it can track who is in
             | which jitsi room, etc...
             | 
             | of course this has yet to be built.
        
         | jabroni_salad wrote:
         | I think it is more likely that the next best platform will end
         | up gaining three principled civil libertarians and about seven
         | zillion witches.
        
         | JuniperMesos wrote:
         | IRC is a much more impoverished chat experience than
         | Discord/Slack in a bunch of ways. Suggesting that people "get
         | back on IRC" is not a serious proposal for making it possible
         | for groups of people to chat online without being subject to
         | identity verification or censorship.
        
       | malfist wrote:
       | This is just the latest in a long trend of increasing spying on
       | users. Why bother having to guess who your user is, or
       | fingerprint a browser if you can just force them to show you
       | their national ID?
       | 
       | This is transparently about spying on people, not "protecting
       | children". The real world doesn't require you to show your ID to
       | every business you frequent, or every advertiser you walk by.
       | Someone can yell a swear word on the sidewalk, and not everyone
       | within ear shot has to show ID.
        
       | 0x_rs wrote:
       | I predict out-of-the-box deepfake live-camera software will get a
       | bump in popularity, there's already plenty solutions available
       | that need minimal tinkering. It should be trivial to set up for
       | the purpose of verification and I don't see those identity
       | verification providers being able to do anything about it. Of
       | course, that'll only mean stricter verification through ID only
       | later on, much to the present-and-future surveillance state's
       | benefit.
       | 
       | https://github.com/hacksider/Deep-Live-Cam
        
       | ahhhhnoooo wrote:
       | So where we all jumping to?
        
         | q3k wrote:
         | Running phpBB on some crappy shared hosting. Well, these days
         | on some crappy VPS.
        
           | mbirth wrote:
           | At least this would make FAQs and other important bits of
           | information available to non-users and search engines.
        
           | sekh60 wrote:
           | I'm being completely serious, but what is the current fav
           | open source forum software these days? I'd love to host a
           | forum for a small community I'm involved in. Not a stranger
           | to hosting other things across a variety of stacks, so I'm
           | not particular about technology used.
        
             | tingling168 wrote:
             | You could take a look at https://nodebb.org/
        
               | sekh60 wrote:
               | Thanks, I'll check it out :)
        
             | __jonas wrote:
             | Every single forum I see now is using this:
             | 
             | https://github.com/discourse/discourse
             | 
             | Seems to work okay in general. I'm not a big fan of the
             | gamified notification system it seems to have - whenever I
             | sign up for an instance, it'll send me things like "Super
             | reader achievement unlocked! You read 10 threads." or
             | whatever. I suppose it can be turned off since it's OSS.
        
               | q3k wrote:
               | I hate the scrollbar hijacking and lazy loading on larger
               | threads.
               | 
               | I just want pagination and to use my stock browser
               | features...
        
               | sekh60 wrote:
               | Thanks, I'll have to look into it too, though the
               | gamification sounds annoying AF.
        
         | ramesh31 wrote:
         | TeamSpeak and Ventrillo still work great. It was a monumental
         | mistake to switch to these 3rd party services that are bugged
         | by every intelligence apparatus on earth.
        
           | superkuh wrote:
           | I gave up running my TS3 servers (after nearly a decade)
           | because they added a trialware system that required getting
           | approval/serial code from the company every month to continue
           | operating. They were squeezing everyone on TS3 trying to
           | force them to TS4/5/etc. Have they stopped this or walked it
           | back?
           | 
           | And to be clear, Teamspeak from version 5 on is not
           | teamspeak. It's matrix with a skin. Not that that's terrible,
           | but it's not great for running it on low power/cost VPS like
           | actual teamspeak was.
        
             | Hikikomori wrote:
             | Could use mumble instead?
        
           | ahhhhnoooo wrote:
           | Those are voice chat, yeah? Discord has chat too, which is
           | used more than voice in many of my communities.
        
           | agoodusername63 wrote:
           | That would be great if your community only exists in a voip
           | channel
        
           | jabroni_salad wrote:
           | I had a look at Teamspeak but you need to email somebody for
           | permission to have more than 32 users on your server.
        
         | SunshineTheCat wrote:
         | Someone bring back AOL instant messenger! >:(
         | 
         | Jokes aside, I've played around with Campfire and it's very,
         | very simple, but pretty nice to use and easy to set up:
         | https://once.com/campfire
        
           | accrual wrote:
           | > Someone bring back AOL instant messenger! >:(
           | 
           | There's an actively developed open source server that allows
           | the clients to connect!
           | 
           | https://github.com/mk6i/open-oscar-server
           | 
           | I wish Smarter Child was still around so we could see how
           | LLMs interact with it.
        
             | mk6i wrote:
             | I got you: https://github.com/mk6i/smarter-smarter-child
        
           | hamdingers wrote:
           | Seconding campfire. Straightforward, easy to host, easy to
           | backup, no monetization strategy. Most self-hosted
           | alternatives have complicated deployments to enable scaling
           | to >1,000s of users which I will never, ever need.
        
         | beatothewitch wrote:
         | People talking about moving to Revolt. It's the most similar
        
           | joks wrote:
           | Yeah Stoat is the closest, but no video calling still. But
           | that's in the pipeline at least
        
         | yownie wrote:
         | our groups are discussing [stoat](https://stoat.chat/).
         | 
         | I don't know it well yet.
         | 
         | .......yet.
        
         | strokirk wrote:
         | IRC never died.
        
         | tym0 wrote:
         | Time to spin up a mumble server again...
        
         | pelagicAustral wrote:
         | The only viable option, of course: https://escargot.chat/
        
           | hexagonwin wrote:
           | Is this open source? Would be cool to self host this..
        
       | jedberg wrote:
       | Oh yay, the company that told me to "just use your wife's phone"
       | when I couldn't verify my own phone number, instead of even
       | trying to fix the problem, now wants a copy of my face?
       | 
       | Pardon me if I don't have a lot of trust in their ability to keep
       | it safe.
        
       | soared wrote:
       | > After completing a chosen method, users will receive
       | confirmation via a direct message from Discord's official
       | account.
       | 
       | Why isn't this delivered via some sort of notification, menu,
       | pop-up, etc? DMs seem prime for phishing
        
       | Daedren wrote:
       | > Facial age estimation
       | 
       | This clearly doesn't work and they're surely aware of it. Perhaps
       | it's even intentional as a choice to give kids a way out, just
       | trying to cover their own asses in regards to regulation.
        
         | Ajedi32 wrote:
         | When you try to use the law (or the threat of legal action) to
         | force people to "do something" about anonymous, unsupervised
         | kids on the public internet using their free platform, this is
         | the type of solution you're going to get: the cheapest, most
         | scalable one they can get away with.
         | 
         | Previously that was a checkbox or a line in their ToS saying
         | "I'm over 18". Now that lawmakers are pushing to make that no
         | longer sufficient, "AI face scanning" is the next step up.
        
           | WorldMaker wrote:
           | Which goes to show that lawmakers probably should be working
           | more hand-in-hand with technical experts before making such
           | laws. A regulation that provides a good technical solution
           | would be more useful, especially if lawmakers could have
           | helped work on ways to prove a person's age cohort estimation
           | without say checking an entire physical ID (and all of the
           | identity theft that can enable), or yes relying on "AI
           | detection" that is quite game-able (literally so as reports
           | are Death Stranding's Photo Mode is a reliable workaround for
           | Discord's primary AI scanning vendor k-ID).
        
       | seneca wrote:
       | We're going to need decentralized open source alternatives with
       | E2EE for any major communication services, unfortunately. It's
       | just too temping of a target for Governments. They're never going
       | to give up trying to destroy anonymity online.
        
         | rdm_blackhole wrote:
         | They already exists except that most people don't know about it
         | and also it is extremely hard to move over all the existing
         | users from Whatsapp to something less popular and less user
         | friendly.
         | 
         | Until that changes, then the governments around the world are
         | going to keep pushing to get access to all our messages in
         | order to "protect the children" TM and ask you to prove that
         | "you are not a child" TM
        
       | anon_anon12 wrote:
       | Another company jumping on the bandwagon to data-farm in the
       | pretext of safeguarding children. I really wonder if there's an
       | actual method to actually safeguard children while also not
       | holding on to data. Because, genuinely, you can't question this..
       | Companies would just say "we are trying to protect kids" and
       | that'd be the end of the argument.
        
         | itsmorgantime wrote:
         | I really wonder if when this is fully implemented if they will
         | have any safe guards against selling "adult verified" accounts.
         | With AI being a possible work around for those who don't want
         | to share an ID, selling accounts would be another big issue
         | unless they check for IP addresses and block based on locations
         | and logins. EDIT: I see in another comment that its against TOS
         | to sell accounts, I doubt that has stopped anyone before
         | though.
        
       | throwatdem12311 wrote:
       | You're out of your mind if you think I'm gonna upload ID to use a
       | "shitposting about video games with friends" service.
        
         | canada_dry wrote:
         | To protect my privacy, I have a photoshopped drivers license
         | with a photo of my dog that I've successfully used for
         | verification (e.g. AirBnB) in the past.
         | 
         | Though, with AI being used I suspect it wouldn't pass any
         | longer.
        
           | chimpanzee2 wrote:
           | wdym, how did your dog driver license even pass before AI ?!
        
             | zdragnar wrote:
             | The tech used some variant of OCR, presumably
        
             | canada_dry wrote:
             | He's a handsome boy.
             | 
             | Guessing they probably just ran some rudimentary OCR on the
             | image to compare the name and DOB. I modified the actual
             | license# as well as the picture.
        
               | HaZeust wrote:
               | Well then what was the point? If you gave them an ID that
               | matches your name and DOB, they still got an identity
               | vector that can conclusively match to your physical,
               | government-acknowledged identity.
               | 
               | Not having a correct photo or license number didn't
               | really mean anything to them if their OCR didn't have any
               | half-decent verification that would look at the fields
               | where that information was expected to be, anyway.
        
             | goodpoint wrote:
             | well, any dog can pass the driving exam in US
        
           | layer8 wrote:
           | It used to be that on the internet, nobody knows you're a
           | dog. ;)
        
             | chickensong wrote:
             | The perfect reply. Hats off to you, good sir.
        
           | viccis wrote:
           | Youtube flagged one of my accounts as a teenager because I
           | watched a few pop videos (lol) and I was not able to trick it
           | with fake IDs, though I didn't try all that hard.
        
             | everdrive wrote:
             | I've been grabbing music from youtube for years. I don't
             | mean commercial music. I mean talented enthusiast who does
             | not sell their music anywhere. Rest assured, it will
             | absolutely be gone one day, and they way things are going,
             | it feels like it will be sooner rather than later.
        
           | thatguy0900 wrote:
           | Just use Ai to make a non existent human face, might as well
        
             | dawnerd wrote:
             | There was a story a bit ago about people using video of
             | someone turning their head from side to side to trick these
             | systems. And of course naturally people will easily get
             | past it.
        
           | krick wrote:
           | Huh. Can you do that? I wonder what is legal status of this.
           | I used to make all sorts of fake IDs (pretty good ones!) when
           | I was a teen (you know, for purposes such as going to clubs,
           | buying alcohol), but of course this is literally a crime, and
           | not even a "minor" one. Apparently, back then it didn't
           | bother me much, but with age I became more cowardly, I must
           | admit. So now I use my passport data more often than not,
           | even though I am not really a fan of the idea of giving a
           | scan of your documents to some random guy on AirBnB
           | (although, with some obvious caption photoshopped on top, to
           | make the scan less re-usable). I mean, it's just a matter of
           | fact that everyone requires them, and it also has that weird
           | status of "semi-secret thing" that you are somehow aren't
           | supposed to give to anyone, and I still have close to zero
           | understanding of how that works.
           | 
           | So, I suppose you shouldn't give your fake id (digital or
           | physical) to a government officials. It also seems "obvious"
           | that it's similarly unwise to give it to a bank. But you can
           | do that to a random guy on AirBnB? A hotel? To a delivery
           | service (Uber/Wolt/whatever)? Dicsord? Where is the line
           | between a bank (a private commercial corporation) and Discord
           | (a private commercial corporation)?
        
             | gambiting wrote:
             | >>But you can do that to a random guy on AirBnB? A hotel?
             | To a delivery service (Uber/Wolt/whatever)?
             | 
             | The "legal" line is usually around fraud - trying to obtain
             | some financial gain by providing false information. There
             | is nothing to gain by giving a fake ID to discord - but it
             | probably violates some rules around unathorized access to
             | computer systems.
        
           | michaelcampbell wrote:
           | I found a picture of someone my age, gender, and background
           | and used that in the past for some things.
           | 
           | But not even worth that effort for this. Not a subscriber,
           | but probably won't ever use it again, either.
        
           | ikiris wrote:
           | You do realize this is wire fraud right?
        
             | bink wrote:
             | Wire fraud is more than just lying to someone over the
             | Internet. It requires a financial gain.
        
         | sunaookami wrote:
         | Yeah, I've been warning everyone about the consequences but
         | nobody wanted to hear it. So do people still want a general
         | social media ban for teens?
        
           | qball wrote:
           | Everybody hates teenagers, so yes.
           | 
           | It's not really about protecting them; people that claim this
           | is the case are generally doing so to launder that hatred.
        
             | AlexandrB wrote:
             | This is the kind of thing I would have posted while in High
             | School.
        
             | eimrine wrote:
             | Brilliant observation! I would like to make the statement
             | more precise: not hate/hatred but jealousy.
        
             | JoshTriplett wrote:
             | They're not _hated_ , they're just treated as non-entities
             | that aren't assumed to have or need any agency.
             | 
             | People under 18 are the largest disenfranchised block of
             | citizens.
        
               | johnnyanmac wrote:
               | I mean, yes. Because we don't give kids all their rights
               | yet. That's fair in many regards (not all. Having schools
               | able to silence dissent legally feels all sorts of
               | wrong). It also add protections, like not letting a 12 yo
               | work in a coal mine or be sent to war.
               | 
               | More importantly, it's a powerful political spin used to
               | justify often heinous actions. People want to protect
               | kids.
        
           | Gud wrote:
           | Absolutely. Social media and its consequences has been a
           | disaster for the human race. Ban it for everyone.
        
             | add-sub-mul-div wrote:
             | The loss of all anonymity and privacy on the internet is
             | much worse than this generation's version of the "won't
             | someone think of the children" scare. It's wild how many
             | people are eating this up.
        
               | spockz wrote:
               | The one (teenage verification for specific services such
               | as social media) does not require the other (require
               | uploading ids to every site on the internet). For one,
               | the scope is limited and secondly, there must be
               | different schemes possible.
        
               | Gud wrote:
               | I'm not suggesting "upload an id". I'm suggesting ban all
               | these brain slugs outright.
               | 
               | Make META a criminal organization. Put Zuckerberg behind
               | bars.
        
               | raw_anon_1111 wrote:
               | Yes we should give the government more power and put up
               | "The Great American Firewall" so Americans can't use any
               | foreign Facebook like companies.
        
               | add-sub-mul-div wrote:
               | I didn't respond to the suggestion of absolute
               | prohibition because it's too ridiculous a concept to take
               | seriously.
        
               | vjekm wrote:
               | It's the only reasonable thing to do; the status quo is
               | what's ridiculous.
        
               | ikety wrote:
               | What if there is simply nothing that can be done? I don't
               | mean to sound defeatist, but what if there are some
               | things that truly are like pandora's box. We can't put
               | the lid back on. All we can do is educated people on how
               | to use the tools correctly
        
               | jplusequalt wrote:
               | >All we can do is educated people on how to use the tools
               | correctly
               | 
               | This lives in opposition to the people who own the
               | websites/apps goals. So it won't happen.
        
               | johnnyanmac wrote:
               | I'd love to arrest billionaires, but can we at least
               | suggest some specific and resonable goals forst? Baby
               | steps.
               | 
               | Eat the rich is a good mantra and banner, but not an
               | action plan. Here in America we have at most 3 years of
               | this left and at median 1 year (with a huge nebulous
               | cloud based on the reaction to trying to seize power).
               | There's a lot we can do to build up to the ultimate
               | mantra.
        
               | pluralmonad wrote:
               | While we're architecting the lives of millions of
               | strangers what other reasonable things would you
               | personally like to disallow?
        
               | vagrantstreet wrote:
               | Louis Rossmann had a vid about this and it's much more
               | than jut anonimity, it's about protecting yourself from
               | being exploited by algorithms. Can go as far as
               | influencing your political voting, or who knows what
               | else.
               | 
               | Does tiktok have good intentions keeping your hooked all
               | day on end?
        
               | jmye wrote:
               | > "won't someone think of the children" scare
               | 
               | Pretending that's what the anti-social media stance is,
               | is hilariously dishonest.
               | 
               | Anyone pretending there is any anonymity and privacy to
               | protect on the internet, right now, has their head in the
               | sand, especially if they use social media.
        
             | oompydoompy74 wrote:
             | Hilariously, the website hosting the post you are currently
             | commenting on is Social Media by almost any definition.
             | Autocracy and autocratic thinking are never the solution.
             | You don't know what's best for everyone.
        
               | SoftTalker wrote:
               | Not really. By a broad definition, yes. But here there is
               | no algorithmic filtering of what you see based on data
               | about you that is tracked and data about you purchased
               | from data brokers. Nor is there a team of psychologists
               | constantly working on ways to hit your dopamine triggers
               | and keep you engaged.
        
               | Apocryphon wrote:
               | But that isn't the main issue with Discord, either,
               | despite their attempts to add features like the ICYMI
               | tab. The problem of Discord is more in the social than
               | the media.
        
               | 9rx wrote:
               | Social media has none of that. Sometimes it is conflated
               | with that as Facebook was social media for the first five
               | minutes of its life, until they realized you can't make
               | money with social media and quickly pivoted.
        
               | vjekm wrote:
               | This place should burn too.
        
               | tokai wrote:
               | And every video game is a RPG because you play a role.
        
             | AlexandrB wrote:
             | I agree that social media is a plague. Unfortunately, the
             | legal definition of "social media" is likely to be so broad
             | that it will include things like Hacker News or even old-
             | school forums. The real plague is the infinite scroll,
             | engagement-farming social media like Twitter, post-newsfeed
             | Facebook, Instagram, or TikTok. I'm skeptical that laws
             | addressing social media will target the right problem given
             | how rich/powerful a company like Meta is vs. some guy
             | running an Anime forum.
        
               | replooda wrote:
               | > some guy running an Anime forum.
               | 
               | I expected all of them to have become Discord channels at
               | this point.
        
             | Zambyte wrote:
             | I've flown across the US to meet what will likely be
             | lifelong friends[0], and just went out to dinner and an
             | escape room with some others, all of which I connected with
             | through Bluesky. The worst of social media is terrible, but
             | I would hate to lose the best of it by banning it outright.
             | The really negative parts come are
             | 
             | - Underage people who do not have the emotional maturity to
             | deal with digital public spaces
             | 
             | - Emotional manipulation through "algorithmic" timelines
             | (chronological or bust)
             | 
             | - Waves of unwanted interactions
             | 
             | Social media seems like it _can_ be a positive tool to me.
             | I would love to be able to continue to use it as I am. I do
             | think there is a conflict of interest issue between the
             | mental health of the people that use social media, and for-
             | profit corporations that provide social media services.
             | Regulating social media in a sane way has become difficult
             | due to how much financial sway social media companies have
             | on legislation, but it 's an important fight to fight.
             | 
             | [0] I have a thread on my bsky account with a bunch of
             | group photos, if you're interested it shouldn't be hard to
             | find. I'm not linking it because I'm not interested in
             | people engaging in it from here.
        
               | Gud wrote:
               | Blue sky is a social network, not social media.
               | 
               | A subtle but important distinction
        
               | runako wrote:
               | I am super curious about this distinction! Could you say
               | more?
        
               | Gud wrote:
               | On a network, people interact with each other.
               | 
               | In ~media~, you have a few specialized ~creators~, and
               | doom scrollers.
               | 
               | Compare Lunarstorm anno 2000 and instagram 2026.
        
               | Izkata wrote:
               | The "media" in "social media" doesn't refer to
               | image/video/audio, it refers to "the medium being used".
               | Twitter/Blue Sky/etc are all social media. Read it like
               | "a medium being used for social interaction".
        
               | Gud wrote:
               | It was renamed from social network to social media by
               | business executives, who hijacked the social networks
               | built by us
        
               | npunt wrote:
               | OPs is closer to the truth; the shift from network ->
               | media shows a useful distinction between what the focal
               | point of activity is.
               | 
               | Note that "social" (as in social interaction with people
               | you know) in "social networking" is a requirement, while
               | it is not in "social media". You may as well call it
               | "parasocial media" since that is the way most people use
               | it most of the time.
               | 
               | Thus 'social media' is primarily based on content, while
               | 'social networking' is primarily based on social
               | connection and interaction.
        
               | johnnyanmac wrote:
               | By that logic, Discord would be a network. There's no
               | default feed for Discord, you need to actively seek out
               | friends and community.
               | 
               | Meanwhile, HN would be closer to media. It technically
               | has a few personalities, and one default feed to doom
               | scroll.
        
               | runako wrote:
               | > "specialized ~creators~"
               | 
               | I can understand what this means in the context of visual
               | platforms like Instagram and TikTok. (Slight quibble on
               | TT in that a number of very large creators there record
               | from their cars, kitchens, or otherwise do not employ
               | specialized production.)
               | 
               | In any case, what does "specialized creators" mean in the
               | context of (primarily) text-based platforms like Twitter,
               | LinkedIn, and Facebook? Does that mean they are not
               | social media?
               | 
               | > On a network, people interact with each other.
               | 
               | On any platform that would be considered social media by
               | any definition, popular posts serve as a place for people
               | to interact with each other. They are more ephemeral than
               | a subreddit, but they serve the same function.
               | 
               | I am honestly not trying to troll, I just don't
               | understand the distinction.
        
               | AuthAuth wrote:
               | Blueskys only difference is that it hasnt been
               | enshitified yet.
        
               | pibaker wrote:
               | Sorry but you sound exactly like that comic. "Our blessed
               | homeland, their barbarous waters"
               | 
               | https://knowyourmeme.com/memes/our-blessed-homeland-
               | their-ba...
               | 
               | More seriously, I have seen similar exchanges many times
               | on this social media where one party tries to exempt what
               | is clearly a social media from his anti-social media
               | agenda because he finds it personally more palatable.
               | Usually he tries to exempt Reddit or HN but in this case
               | it is Bluesky, which has the same features as Twitter ten
               | years ago and is notorious for being always politically
               | charged. It makes me think whatever criticisms he may
               | have against social media are actually less about social
               | media but about people he does not like being on social
               | media. Like a driver complaining about all the other cars
               | causing a congestion while he sits in his own car.
               | 
               | But fear not, because our blessed regulators (totally
               | different from their tyrannical censors) will save us
               | from the Big Bad. Never mind when Nepal blocked WhatsApp
               | in its social media ban or when UK came after Wikipedia!
        
               | npunt wrote:
               | Disagree, that's reductive and beside the point.
               | 
               | It's useful to have words that distinguish major classes
               | of activity online, even if several types are combined on
               | a given platform. "Messaging", "Chat Rooms", "Streaming",
               | "Forums", "Social Networking", and "Social Media" are all
               | different things. You can quibble about what constitutes
               | the edges of the definitions but they all have different
               | key activities they enable.
               | 
               | If you lump everything together, you fail to understand
               | the necessary nuances to identify the problems let alone
               | solve them.
               | 
               | The key to understanding any given social platform is to
               | understand the proportion of which activity that platform
               | enables. This tells you things like the incentives,
               | constraints, externalities, etc of the platform.
               | Different designs have different effects.
        
               | pibaker wrote:
               | I don't disagree in general. I wouldn't call 4chan a
               | social media, for example.
               | 
               | What I find hilariously objectionable is pretending that
               | bluesky is somehow better than all the social medias out
               | there. It's not. It was founded by jack dorsey and copied
               | the UI and features of old Twitter. Its main selling
               | point is "twitter but no Elon musk" and is, from my
               | perspective, almost exclusively inhabited by politically
               | antagonized people seeking a refuge which then resulted
               | in US politics sucking the air out of everything else on
               | that platform.
               | 
               | Can people forge constructive relationships on bluesky? I
               | am sure they do, but they can also do it on X, Reddit,
               | Facebook or whatever "bad" social media out there.
        
               | everdrive wrote:
               | This right here is why we keep having this problem. The
               | benefits (or in more cases) the addictions are too
               | enticing. So we take the good with the bad, except the
               | problem is that the bad far, far outweighs the good.
        
             | Morromist wrote:
             | Sure, social media is bad for kids. Why can't their parents
             | regulate them though? Isn't keeping kids away from
             | dangerous things a basic requirement of being a parent?
             | 
             | I propose passing laws that make parents who let their kids
             | on social media pay fines and risk having social media
             | sites blocked by their ISP rather than just making all
             | adults have to get an "internet license".
        
               | Gud wrote:
               | It's bad for everyone, except for the advertisers, and
               | arguably it's bad for them as a 2nd order effect.
        
               | jplusequalt wrote:
               | I think we just need to ban social media in general. It's
               | done more harm to our societies than good.
        
             | johnnyanmac wrote:
             | Good bye, Hacker News. I knew ye uhh... Well, I knew ye.
        
               | Gigachad wrote:
               | HN would be improved if the comment section was removed
               | and it was just high quality submissions. All the AI
               | generated engagement bait articles would stop.
        
             | sleepybrett wrote:
             | define 'social media' .. were BBSs social media? usenet?
             | email? aol instant messenger? physical community bulletin
             | boards? classified ads? newspapers?
        
           | mywittyname wrote:
           | ID verification for sites that where people speak the truth.
           | 
           | Cesspit of AI-driven "validated" accounts for pushing
           | propaganda.
           | 
           | It's the worst of both worlds.
        
           | everdrive wrote:
           | Nope, I want the social media companies to be shut down, I
           | want smart phones to go away permanently, and I don't want
           | kids to be handed laptops or ipads in school.
        
         | xg15 wrote:
         | Then use that server without age verification?
        
         | ikekkdcjkfke wrote:
         | I'll vibe code that sh*t in a sitting
        
           | mapontosevenths wrote:
           | Seriously, and probably do a better job of it. Electron.
           | Yuck.
           | 
           | The problem isn't the platform, it's getting a critical mass
           | of users. Until everyone is using it, nobody is.
        
           | isatty wrote:
           | You can say "shit" on the internet.
        
             | qingcharles wrote:
             | Only if you let them scan your face first, comrade.
        
         | unethical_ban wrote:
         | I have discord for gaming communities, but also for political
         | communities. Pod Save America has a discord with thousands of
         | users talking political things. While I don't mask my identity
         | there, I sure don't want Discord preemptively linking my state
         | ID to my person. Screw that.
        
           | thatguy0900 wrote:
           | If you're worried about government retaliation they can
           | already figure out who you are from what discord has,
           | especially with a justice department that doesn't really even
           | care about looking like they're following the law
        
             | unethical_ban wrote:
             | We shouldn't reward their data collection and AI
             | surveillance bullshit with apathy, though.
        
               | thatguy0900 wrote:
               | For sure, I'm just saying if you're in a political
               | discord depending on what exactly is being discussed you
               | should really be aware you already are certainly not
               | anonymous to the gov if they don't want you to be
        
             | mywittyname wrote:
             | Government, sure.
             | 
             | But it's the non-government entities you really need to be
             | worried about. There are plenty of brokers buying up this
             | data, making up assertions/predictions about the data, then
             | selling it along downstream to secondary vendors who just
             | blindly accept the data as true.
             | 
             | These are how people online get doxxed. It's not the
             | government or FBI, it's these brokers who mine/buy data
             | from sites/credit bureaus/local governments, link them
             | across various social media, then build out profiles of
             | individuals that they then sell to anyone with a big enough
             | check book.
             | 
             | I've looked into these vendors before and their profiles on
             | people are often wrong on several dimensions. So you don't
             | want to do anything that's going to increase their ability
             | to map you across the internet, because that's just going
             | to improve their ability to identify you, while still
             | selling lies about your personality.
        
         | AstroBen wrote:
         | Discord hasn't been video game only for a long time
        
         | x0x0 wrote:
         | I think Discord is trapped in an ugly place:
         | 
         | 1 - Piles of parents too stupid or lazy to, well, parent the
         | children they made;
         | 
         | 2 - A very reasonable societal expectation that it shouldn't be
         | easy for young kids to access, or even be exposed, to the worst
         | dregs of the internet;
         | 
         | 3 - Very different use cases (gaming, kids stuff,
         | free/affordable slack for communities) all on the same
         | platform;
         | 
         | 4 - A pile of morons in legislatures who insist there's a magic
         | highly private way to do all this, but (see Australia) refuse
         | to lay out the actual method. It's a government-wide game of
         | underwear gnomes.
        
           | idiotsecant wrote:
           | How reasonable is this expectation? All you do by intituting
           | these draconian 'wont someone please think of the children'
           | ID laws is make it marginally more difficult to access
           | mainstream services where there's not much crazy bad stuff
           | anyway. The rest of the internet is the wild west, and good
           | luck controlling that.
           | 
           | The whole thing is security theater designed to conceal the
           | fact that child security is not the objective, it's the
           | justification.
        
           | jimbob45 wrote:
           | That's not a reasonable societal expectation. That should be
           | an expectation of the parents to follow through on.
        
           | JoshTriplett wrote:
           | > A pile of morons in legislatures who insist there's a magic
           | highly private way to do all this, but (see Australia) refuse
           | to lay out the actual method.
           | 
           | This is a case where there's plenty of evidence that it's
           | actual malice, not _just_ incompetence. Leaving aside that
           | this shouldn 't be done at _all_ , there is no desire to do
           | this in a privacy-preserving way, because _destroying
           | anonymity and controlling online discourse is the point for
           | governments, not the "unintentional" side effect to be
           | avoided_. "Think of the children" is just the excuse to get
           | people to unknowingly buy in, just as it has been for
           | generations.
           | 
           | https://bsky.app/profile/tupped.bsky.social/post/3lwgcmswmy2.
           | ..
        
         | ActorNightly wrote:
         | All social media websites should require id tbh. This is the
         | new public town square - everyone should have a voice, but
         | nobody should escape the consequences of using that voice to
         | peddle bullshit.
        
           | JoshTriplett wrote:
           | Feel free to go make a social media website that requires ID.
           | What you are claiming is that websites that _don 't_ require
           | ID should be destroyed. No.
        
           | johnnyanmac wrote:
           | I don't need a public ID to sit in my local park nor shop for
           | most things on Main Street.
           | 
           | >nobody should escape the consequences of using that voice to
           | peddle bullshit.
           | 
           | We can already do that without needing ID stored on servers.
           | Blame lazy enforcement with an incentive to retain even bad
           | customers.
        
           | gambiting wrote:
           | Except that is clearly not how it works. Spend 5 minutes on
           | facebook, and you will quickly realize that people have
           | absolutely no problem spewing the most disgusting racist,
           | xenophobic shit you have ever seen in your life, while their
           | full names and pictures of them hugging their granchildren
           | are there for everyone to see.
           | 
           | >> nobody should escape the consequences
           | 
           | There are no consequences whatsoever for this.
        
         | Mashimo wrote:
         | You don't have to, you just can't access NSFW channels and
         | servers.
        
       | sph wrote:
       | Good riddance Discord. Any alternative for the masses?
       | 
       | They're not gonna use Slack or phpBB.
        
         | apopapo wrote:
         | Why would Slack not be affected by the same stupid laws?
        
           | tavavex wrote:
           | If you're a Slack user, I don't think they need your ID to
           | tell that you're an adult
           | 
           | More seriously, it will become a problem on there is a
           | significant user migration to there and a repeat of the mass
           | hysteria. Due to being more niche, these smaller platforms
           | are probably not in danger right now.
        
       | AlienRobot wrote:
       | By Discord's own ToS you can't use Discord if you are under 13,
       | so this change is just to make sure users that are 13, 14, 15,
       | 16, and 17 years old are appropriately labelled.
       | 
       | Why doesn't Discord require ALL users to upload their faces to
       | prove that they are at least 13 years old and eligible to use the
       | service?
        
       | ForHackernews wrote:
       | https://use-their-id.com/
        
       | plingbang wrote:
       | > Teen-by-default settings to roll out globally for all Discord
       | users
       | 
       | Does it mean that even people who reside outside jurisdictions
       | touched by the age verification craze will have to deal with all
       | this?
       | 
       | > use facial age estimation
       | 
       | Surely a kid won't be able to ask someone else to pass the check
       | for them. But let's talk about false positives. If the estimator
       | falsely declares someone an adult, is Discord legally liable?
       | 
       | > submit a form of identification
       | 
       | If you have a picture of an ID document, can you verify that it's
       | real? You'd have to ask the government for that. And at least in
       | one country there is no process for that.
       | 
       | > On-device processing
       | 
       | Oh, a client-side check. Must be secure.
        
         | titaniumtown wrote:
         | > Does it mean that even people who reside outside
         | jurisdictions touched by the age verification craze will have
         | to deal with all this?
         | 
         | Yes, it's global
        
         | kevinrineer wrote:
         | > If the estimator falsely declares someone an adult, is
         | Discord legally liable?
         | 
         | Not until a court case on the topic gives us precedent.
        
       | josefritzishere wrote:
       | The CEO of Discord is Humam Sakhnini. He's from McKinsey. So that
       | tracks.
        
         | postsantum wrote:
         | How else would you fight growing antisemitism on Discord?
        
       | altairprime wrote:
       | https://docs.k-id.com/concepts/verification-methods/
       | 
       | The company that Discord uses lists the methods they accept
       | above. Notably, they do _not_ accept any privacy-protecting
       | digital identity standards from US or EU citizens; they only
       | implement national ID verifications where they receive a full
       | birthdate, with the sole exception of AU where they allow _banks_
       | to attest to age-majority.
       | 
       | Leveraging this press to highlight their clear desire-for /
       | dependency-on being provided an explicit birthdate, rather than
       | simply a bool backed by the government, would be an effective
       | lever to pull through e.g. New York and California governmental
       | privacy efforts -- especially if one somehow got them classified
       | as a data broker in California and therefore bound to a much more
       | expensive set of laws, due to their insistence on being provided
       | PII when more privacy-protecting alternatives are available
       | there.
       | 
       | Yes, this isn't a scorched earth response. Every other thread of
       | discussion here has that covered already and I have nothing new
       | to add there. But for anyone looking to force privacy into the
       | budding age checks verification market at an early stage _rather
       | than_ trying to shut it down, here's your roadmap to effecting
       | real change on the matter. Good luck.
        
       | superkuh wrote:
       | The endgame I see is that it will be illegal to communicate on
       | the internet without having a proven bank account. At least in
       | the USA where all ID verification is settling on banks (ie,
       | Plaid). And the banks will tolerate 10,000 false positive denials
       | of service to avoid a single false negative and be happy about
       | it. Plaid even more so. Human beings will have no recourse as
       | they are private companies. This really should be a service that
       | the states of the federal government provide. It's a dark future
       | we're speeding towards.
        
         | bdangubic wrote:
         | I do not understand this at all. How is ID verification
         | settling on banks????! And which of these banks are private?
        
           | superkuh wrote:
           | Sorry if I was inexact in my wording. It's settling on the
           | existence of your bank account proving who you are. The ID
           | services require you to give them your bank login credentials
           | (ie, Plaid). So there are two levels of denial, at Plaid (and
           | related ID services) themselves and the banks deciding
           | weather or not they want to allow it (work with Plaid, or
           | Plaid with them, etc) and if they want to give you a bank
           | account.
        
             | phoenixy1 wrote:
             | I work at Plaid. Plaid's KYC product doesn't ask for bank
             | login credentials. (EDIT: I originally had a line in here
             | saying "nor do any of our competitors' KYC products, that I
             | know of." but then someone in this thread linked to Stripe
             | documentation saying that Stripe does use this method of
             | age verification in Australia, so TIL.)
        
               | superkuh wrote:
               | I almost swore here but I think that'd not get my message
               | across. So I'll be calm. You're a liar (edit: or
               | ignorant). I tried with Plaid. Plaid explicitly required
               | my bank login credentials. I went in physically and
               | talked face to face to my US bank's employee that handled
               | Plaid.
        
               | phoenixy1 wrote:
               | Plaid does have products that do request bank
               | credentials, but those products are not used for age
               | verification. It's very common that a given customer-
               | facing flow will use multiple Plaid products together to
               | handle multiple different customer needs, so it's likely
               | that the flow you were working with was using multiple
               | Plaid products and requesting bank credentials, but for a
               | different reason than to perform age verification (for
               | example, KYC + bank account ownership verification or KYC
               | + bank account validity verification).
        
               | superkuh wrote:
               | Right. This boils down to you saying you were wrong but
               | trying to avoid saying it directly. Basically,
               | 
               | >"Requiring a bank account credentials is common and yes,
               | Plaid does it, despite what I said before, when the
               | company buying Plaid services wants even more legal butt
               | covering as is common in the wild."
        
       | rsynnott wrote:
       | It's kind of surprising that no-one has really come out with a
       | proper privacy-preserving approach to this yet. It is clearly
       | _possible_; there are reasonable-looking designs for this. But
       | no-one's doing it; they're just collecting photos and IDs, and
       | then leaking them all over the place.
        
         | Etheryte wrote:
         | No privacy is simpler and the simpler solution is cheaper. If
         | there's no real incentive to go with another option, companies
         | will go with the cheaper option.
        
         | jeltz wrote:
         | They do not want to solve the problem, they want to collect our
         | IDs. If they would have wanted to actually solve it they would
         | not have done this on legislations where it is not a
         | requirement.
        
         | AJ007 wrote:
         | It is only a matter of time before ID verification means the
         | camera is always on watching the face of the person looking at
         | the screen.
        
         | squeegmeister wrote:
         | https://www.apple.com/newsroom/2025/06/apple-expands-tools-t...
         | 
         | What are your thoughts on Apple's approach? You still have to
         | provide your birthdate to apple. But after that, it only only
         | ever shares your age range with other companies that request
         | it, not your birthdate.
        
           | frumplestlatz wrote:
           | This is great, but if and _only if_ it remains an opt-in
           | choice that _enables_ parents.
           | 
           | There is a stark difference between enabling choice or
           | compelling it.
           | 
           | Somehow in the last 15 years, we have completely lost sight
           | of agency-based ethics as a founding and fundamental
           | principle of western liberalism.
           | 
           | This has been replaced with harm-based ethics. Harm has no
           | fixed definition. There is no stopping rule -- when will we
           | have eradicated enough harm? It's declared by fiat by whoever
           | has the means to compel and coerce -- and harm inherent in
           | that enforcement are ignored.
        
         | Sohcahtoa82 wrote:
         | > It is clearly _possible_
         | 
         | Is it?
         | 
         | I don't think it is.
         | 
         | I truly don't believe that there's any possible way to verify
         | someone's age without collecting ID from them.
        
           | 0x3f wrote:
           | Well you could have government-run cryptographically signed
           | tokens. They're already in the business of holding ID data
           | (i.e. they don't need to collect it and this wouldn't
           | increase the attack surface).
           | 
           | But assuming it has to be a private solution, you could do
           | the same thing but make it a non-profit. Then at least _new_
           | services you wish to use don't need to collect your ID.
        
           | rcxdude wrote:
           | It's possible to (cryptpgraphically verifiably) split up the
           | age verification and the knowledge of what the verification
           | is for.
        
           | davidczech wrote:
           | It would seem like a naive solution would be some arrangement
           | where Discord would ask for a proof-of-age from an official
           | service ran by the State (which issues your ID)
        
         | orthogonal_cube wrote:
         | As others have said, it's obvious that no real attempts have
         | been made by anyone to create a privacy-focused solution
         | because the end goal is to collect photo IDs.
         | 
         | Occasionally in my free time I have been tinkering with a
         | certificate-based solution that could fulfill this sort of need
         | for age verification. It's not the most robust idea but it's
         | simple enough using most of what we already have. Creating a
         | minimal protocol which doesn't share actual identifying
         | information nor metadata of the site you're accessing is
         | trivial. If I can make an 80% solution in less than 100 hours
         | of my free time then some groups with more money and
         | intelligence could propose a dead-simple and easy-to-adopt
         | solution just as easily.
        
         | triceratops wrote:
         | Here's my solution:
         | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=46447282
         | 
         | The problem is privacy activists and free speech activists
         | (though there's some overlap between the two they aren't the
         | same) oppose age verification by any means since it has the
         | potential to infringe on both ever so slightly. Meanwhile age
         | verification gates are being demanded and thrown up all over
         | the Internet at a frightening pace. So we get only the maximal
         | data collection solutions implemented by people who don't give
         | a shit about privacy _or_ free speech. And the mass
         | surveillance cheerleaders egg them on.
         | 
         | If privacy and free speech activists understood that a
         | proactive, privacy-preserving approach to age verification is
         | the best outcome we'd be better off.
        
           | frumplestlatz wrote:
           | > ever so slightly
           | 
           | It's _not_ "slightly". They'll start with claiming to protect
           | people under 18 from obviously problematic content -- porn,
           | grooming, etc.
           | 
           | It won't stop there. The scope creep will extend to
           | expressing or reading "incorrect" or "dangerous" views.
           | 
           | They'll probably call some of it "hate speech", but hate
           | speech is whatever the people in power say it is; on X,
           | "cisgender" is designated as a slur and gets your post
           | censored.
           | 
           | The slippery slope fallacy is only a fallacy if the slope
           | isn't slippery -- "think of the children" is a wedge bad
           | actors are once again trying to use to open the floodgates of
           | censorship.
           | 
           | They don't even need to target adults; if you control what
           | children can see and express, you have enormous control over
           | all future generations of voters.
        
             | tavavex wrote:
             | I agree, but the powers that be loathe the phrase "hate
             | speech". I'm betting the next encroachment will be on
             | "violence", "terrorism" or even Russian-style "promotion of
             | nontraditional values".
        
             | triceratops wrote:
             | It's already happening. What's your alternative? Not VPNs
             | because every jurisdiction and website will eventually have
             | equivalent laws or terms of service.
        
               | tavavex wrote:
               | Nearly all big websites, probably, but there are enough
               | tiny countries that I think at least one will opt to act
               | as a safe haven for VPN servers and website hosting
               | services, acting as the only remaining window to the free
               | internet. It could be a lucrative practice, similar to
               | how Panama and some other countries position themselves
               | as places to register ships to avoid regulation.
        
               | triceratops wrote:
               | So VPN in from Panama to access shady sites no one else
               | frequents? That's your solution?
        
               | tavavex wrote:
               | Who said anything about a solution? I'm not saying this
               | is good, I just brought it up as a potential end point of
               | what's currently happening to the internet. I don't think
               | there is anything that people like us can do, we can only
               | watch.
        
           | JoshTriplett wrote:
           | You need to process that _other people disagree with that
           | claim_ , and _do not believe we 'd be better off_.
           | 
           | We should not accept the Overton window shifting here, and
           | say "well, if we do it to ourselves, in a privacy-preserving
           | way, that's _less_ bad ".
        
             | triceratops wrote:
             | > You need to process that other people disagree with that
             | claim
             | 
             | I think I already said that in my original post.
             | 
             | > We should not accept the Overton window shifting here
             | 
             | Great! Let's say you and I refuse to accept it. How do we
             | keep Discord from demanding passports or selfies? How can
             | we get France[1] or Finland[2] to roll back age
             | restrictions on social media?
             | 
             | You'll never convince a majority of voters in democracies
             | that nothing online should be age-restricted. These are the
             | people that the enemies of anonymity and free speech are
             | counting on to advance their agenda.
             | 
             | At the same time a majority of voters is currently quite
             | content with the state of age verification for access to
             | tobacco and alcohol. Both its strictness (or lack thereof)
             | and privacy preservation (almost perfect).
             | 
             | I'm not saying my proposal is the one that should be
             | adopted. I honestly don't care which idea gets picked and I
             | don't want anything from it. But it's a virtual guarantee
             | that in the absence of a competing good-enough, privacy-
             | preserving implementation, only the most privacy-invasive
             | idea will be implemented.
             | 
             | 1. https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=46776272
             | 
             | 2. https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=46838417
        
               | JoshTriplett wrote:
               | > How do we keep Discord from demanding passports or
               | selfies?
               | 
               | Build and promote alternatives that don't.
               | 
               | > How can we get France[1] or Finland[2] to roll back age
               | restrictions on social media?
               | 
               | Host services elsewhere, and ignore claims that a
               | country's laws extend beyond its borders.
        
             | ImPleadThe5th wrote:
             | It really would be less bad though wouldn't it?
             | 
             | The more we resist turning this into a state-sided solution
             | which provides a service to private companies with a YES/NO
             | age verification, the more likely your data is going to be
             | given to botton-of-the-barrel third party private
             | companies.
             | 
             | I'm genuinely curious what the argument is against state-
             | run privacy focused age verification is here. We already
             | protect real life adult spaces with IDs. You hand your ID
             | to a random store clerk who scans it with a random device
             | when you want to buy alcohol or cigarettes.
             | 
             | What makes these social media platforms special that they
             | have entirely different rules?
             | 
             | I will say, if they came for small privately-hosted
             | communities, I can understand the cause for alarm. But so
             | far it appears to be limited to massive misinformation
             | machines.
        
           | johnnyanmac wrote:
           | The issue with your solution still comes down to yet another
           | centralizing middleman with no real incentive to be
           | efficient. And all the incentive to lobby governments and
           | extract more wealth from the people.
           | 
           | This can of course be done government by government, but that
           | isn't scalable for a global company.
        
             | triceratops wrote:
             | It doesn't have to be 1 middleman. Multiple companies can
             | issue the cards, just like there are multiple beer and
             | cigarette and lottery companies.
             | 
             | I wish I could edit my post because a lot of people had the
             | same misconception when I first wrote it.
        
       | diogenes_atx wrote:
       | To add context to the discussion, it is important to recall that
       | Discord was reported to have recently filed paperwork with the
       | SEC for an IPO [1]. Thus it seems likely that the real reason for
       | the age verification (i.e., user identification) policy is to
       | boost its perceived earnings potential among Wall Street
       | investors. According to this theory, Discord is the new Facebook.
       | 
       | [1] https://techcrunch.com/2026/01/07/discords-ipo-could-
       | happen-...
        
       | instagib wrote:
       | Credit card verification not an option.
       | 
       | Facial video estimates or submit an id card.
       | 
       | Option 3: if we analyze all of your data we have and see you are
       | not going to bed at 8pm for middle school, you get adult status.
        
       | bovermyer wrote:
       | Ignoring the implications of this for the moment, let me broach a
       | related (and arguably more important) question: what do you do
       | when you have multiple communities you interact with only on one
       | platform, and suddenly that platform becomes intolerable for a
       | subset of your community?
        
         | noosphr wrote:
         | Shake your head and move on.
         | 
         | It's not like we haven't seen closed source applications become
         | hostile to their users before. And it's not like we didn't warn
         | people about it.
        
         | AnthonyMouse wrote:
         | It seems like the answer is pretty obvious. That subset of the
         | community stops using it and uses something else, and the
         | others either follow them or don't.
         | 
         | You, if you're not in the first group, can continue to use both
         | to communicate with everyone, but some of them lose the ability
         | to communicate with each other.
         | 
         | The _ideal_ outcome is for everyone to stop using the
         | intolerable thing and switch to a tolerable thing. That 's even
         | what often happens over time, but not always immediately.
         | Probably do anything you can to make it happen faster.
        
         | altruios wrote:
         | We start a new app. Opensource Discord, Self-hosted, federated.
         | Serving that subsection that cares about privacy and security.
         | 
         | Discord is a good design, and should be replicated rapidly with
         | mutations from competitors galore.
        
           | debo_ wrote:
           | Revolt/stoat has existed for quite a while:
           | https://itsfoss.com/revolt/
        
             | ThePowerOfFuet wrote:
             | https://stoat.chat/
        
           | TechniKris wrote:
           | > Opensource Discord, Self-hosted, federated
           | 
           | Sounds like you want https://matrix.org/
           | 
           | > Discord is a good design
           | 
           | Then the main, reference client https://element.io/ or
           | https://fluffy.chat would work great for you.
           | 
           | ... With the only caveat being that general experience of
           | using Matrix is awful.
           | 
           | I second the other commenter's suggestion of using
           | https://stoat.chat/ or as it used to be called: Revolt, which
           | matches the "Opensource Discord" requirement perfectly.
        
             | sneak wrote:
             | Matrix is slow, buggy trash with bad clients.
             | 
             | (Incidentally, this is also the incantation that will cause
             | its primary maintainer to show up in the comment thread and
             | tell me that I'm not using their seemingly annual complete
             | new client rewrite that fixes all of the problems and makes
             | it perfect now.)
        
               | subscribed wrote:
               | Bad clients issue stemming from the bad design.
               | 
               | Soatok covered it very well here:
               | https://soatok.blog/2024/08/14/security-issues-in-
               | matrixs-ol...
               | 
               | I'm quite sure most of these issues were fixed by now,
               | but the fundamental issues remain, at least in this
               | federation.
        
               | johnnyanmac wrote:
               | Pretty much why centralized billionaires will always win.
               | It takes a lot of resources (in terms of hardware and
               | engineering) to make things at scale and smooth. The rich
               | abuse this, the not rich can't afford to be principled.
        
           | GorbachevyChase wrote:
           | Mumble already exists. IRC exists. Matrix exists. Discord is
           | a surveillance tool by design. Jason Citron pulled the same
           | hijinx with Aurora Feint, but I assume he has been betraying
           | users to CIA-and-Friends from the start so he gets a pass for
           | breaking the same laws.
           | 
           | Nobody scales free, high-bandwidth services without some dark
           | money support from feds or worse.
        
         | devsda wrote:
         | It is the same as what everyone did after the reddit fiasco
         | i.e. protest, boycott, grudgingly use it while complaining and
         | then finally accept the change.
         | 
         | May be this discord episode will have better outcome for the
         | masses.
        
           | esseph wrote:
           | That's not what happened with the X nonsense, a lot of people
           | went to mastadon/bluesky.
        
           | Telaneo wrote:
           | Reddit dropped a lot in quality after that. I suspect a lot
           | of people stopped posting, even if they did continue using it
           | in some capacity.
        
             | ZeWaka wrote:
             | I uninstalled it from my phone entirely. Definitely helped
             | curb my usage.
        
           | gbear605 wrote:
           | For me, I just stopped using Reddit. Turns out that I'm
           | happier without it.
        
             | JoeBOFH wrote:
             | Hah I did the same thing. I only ever interact with it now
             | when it appears in search results.
        
         | quotemstr wrote:
         | One of the starkest social desirability biases in tech is
         | between federated and centralized platforms. Most people, in
         | public, _say_ they support distributed, federated systems, but
         | when push comes to shove, they all use centralized platforms
         | anyway.
        
           | volf_ wrote:
           | atproto is a really good attempt at solving this issue
        
         | bakugo wrote:
         | If this happened 15+ years ago, a huge chunk of the userbase
         | likely would've migrated to alternatives, potentially resulting
         | in Discord being replaced and falling into irrelevance.
         | 
         | Today, though, no chance that happens. The current generation
         | literally grew up with it, same for most of the other
         | established social media apps. The concept of alternatives
         | largely does not exist for them. And besides, they were
         | probably already sending pictures of themselves and other
         | personal data to each other through the app, so it's not like
         | Discord doesn't already have all of that.
        
           | ziml77 wrote:
           | There's also people who have been through enough of these
           | moves and community splits that they're incredibly tired of
           | it all.
        
             | johnnyanmac wrote:
             | I'm always exhausted by a migration. But I don't move off
             | because there's an easy alternative. There never is. I do
             | it to maintain principles, even at the cost of my social
             | circles.
        
           | jackcviers3 wrote:
           | I mean, I grew up with AOL AIM, Yahoo Messenger, and IRC...
           | yet I switched every time a new tech came out with more of my
           | friends on it. Why do we think discord will be any more
           | sticky than Digg or Slashdot, or any of the above?
           | 
           | People will migrate, some will stay, and it will just be yet
           | another noise machine they have to check in the list of
           | snapchat, instagram, tiktok, reddit, twitter, twitch,
           | discord, group texts, marco polo, tinder, hinge, roblox,
           | minecraft servers, email, whatsapp and telegram, and
           | slack/teams for work.
           | 
           | Absolutely exhausting to be honest.
        
             | andrepd wrote:
             | Kids today are alarmingly bad at technology. This is not a
             | "kids these days" situation, this is absolutely true. They
             | understand "tap on icon, open app, there's a feed and DMs".
             | 
             | I mean it, the tech illiteracy of gen Z/alpha is out of
             | this world, I did not expect a generation that grew up with
             | technology to be so inept, but here we are. But they grew
             | up with a 4x4 grid of app icons, not with a PC.
        
               | subscribed wrote:
               | Correct. From my personal experience (have kids and
               | nieces/nephew this age), and all think an app is the
               | thing that they scroll in, and any attempt to explain the
               | very basics on internet connectivity, servers, databases,
               | etc, ends up in them basically experiencing blue screen
               | moment and backing away to the safety of the endless
               | scroll.
               | 
               | The most complex concept they can understand is mail/post
               | attachment or capcut, but then this is it. 10 minutes
               | later they will download phone flashlight app that
               | requires Google services for app delivery.
               | 
               | Shocking.
               | 
               | I ended up with refusing to help with anything related to
               | technology in any other way than pointing to
               | help/manual/search engines and asking questions.
        
               | nhhvhy wrote:
               | I don't think people understand the true level of tech
               | illiteracy of Gen Z. A couple years back I did an
               | internship with the IT guy at my high school, and the
               | vast majority of the problems students had with the
               | Chromebooks we used were, in no specific order:
               | - Not understanding that a dead battery means it won't
               | turn on       - Trying to use them without an internet
               | connection       - "The screen won't work" when trying to
               | non-touchscreen models like a tablet       - "I can't see
               | my stuff" when using the guest mode rather than their
               | login, or when they used a PC and they couldn't see the
               | docs icon on their desktop
               | 
               | That's not even to mention the abysmal typing skills of
               | most students, so many 15WPM hunt-and-peck typers..
               | 
               | There's a mountain of issues along those lines we ran
               | into, and it was honestly frightening to watch.
        
               | johnnyanmac wrote:
               | Yeah, I work with kids and it's admittedly a bit
               | disheartening having conversations like
               | 
               | > why don't you make a separate account for your sibling
               | 
               | > I don't know how to make an email
               | 
               | > but you needed an email for your account
               | 
               | > yeah, I just use my school email
               | 
               | By that time my age as a young teen I knew how to make
               | new accounts and research what I didn't know. And I'm not
               | sure of its my place to help them create an email without
               | knowledge from their parents.
        
               | tavavex wrote:
               | I feel like asking someone working IT about the average
               | technical literacy of the people they work with is
               | similar to asking an EMT about the health of an average
               | person. Not to discredit your experience, but you should
               | account for the fact that a lot of the people you helped
               | were the ones who were already filtered out by their
               | inability to fix trivial problems.
               | 
               | I'm not saying this issue doesn't exist. But I want to
               | reframe it as the low bar for using tech dropping through
               | the floor. Previously, you had to have at least somewhat
               | of an idea for what you're doing, but nowadays most
               | people who don't care about tech are reliant on using the
               | "grandma school of thought" in memorizing basic patterns
               | and relationships without having a bigger model of what's
               | going on. This mostly affects newer generations and older
               | people who only started using technology recently,
               | because this strategy didn't fly in the past. But
               | technical literacy is falling for everyone.
               | 
               | But the absence of the low bar doesn't mean that
               | everyone's chasing it. In high school, I was surrounded
               | by peers who were interested in tech, sometimes being far
               | better than me. The average level of understanding was
               | pretty alright. In university, lots of people did just
               | fine. I know countless people my age who are highly
               | skilled in computer science. We're not in the majority,
               | but there's plenty of us. I'm tired of it always being
               | framed as an issue stemming from some kind of unique lack
               | of personal responsibility and low intelligence, complete
               | with applying stereotypes to hundreds of millions of
               | people. _Every_ average user will optimize actually
               | understanding anything out of their brain if given an
               | opportunity, it 's just that that opportunity had only
               | appeared fairly recently.
        
         | andrepd wrote:
         | People tried warning that moving all your discussion forums
         | into a proprietary, closed, unsearchable platform was a bad
         | idea. And it was. But nobody cared.
        
           | pyrolistical wrote:
           | So you want to go back to mailing list and run your own email
           | server?
        
             | frumplestlatz wrote:
             | No, we'd like to go back to the culture that created
             | protocols to solve our needs, such that people could create
             | interoperable servers and clients to implement those
             | protocols.
        
             | andrepd wrote:
             | Email is an open protocol, perfectly suited for delivering
             | messages between people. Discord is a closed application,
             | unsearchable, any server or account may be nuked at
             | discord's discretion, thus it's entirely unsuited to
             | replace e.g. a forum.
             | 
             | You do understand the difference?
        
             | Jblx2 wrote:
             | Maybe time for a Usenet renaissance?
        
           | idatum wrote:
           | I'm seeing Groups.io show up more for hobbies/interests I
           | have. It seems email can be a way to slow down heated
           | discussions. Perhaps at the expense of push-back on using
           | more email?
           | 
           | Anyone have any experiences to share with moving their
           | discussion groups from Discord to Groups.io?
        
           | daedrdev wrote:
           | discord being a closed, unsearchable platform is one of its
           | main features.
        
         | 3acctforcom wrote:
         | Remember when Tumbler banned porn? People migrated to other
         | platforms like Reddit, and it died.
         | 
         | Musk being a Nazi made twitter lose big enough chunks of their
         | community to start Bluesky. Not big enough to do any real
         | damage to the platform, but it still provided critical mass to
         | a fledgling app.
         | 
         | WhatsApp having a sketchy relationship with the US government
         | boosted Signal.
         | 
         | Sooooo, what is a good discord replacement?
        
           | johnnyanmac wrote:
           | Its hard to say. Reddit is still a shit show, but I still
           | peer into niche communities you won't find anywhere else on
           | the internet.
           | 
           | Discord is even more niche than that. There's tons of IRC
           | esque group chats of that's what you need. But a community:
           | not so easy to replace.
        
           | rurp wrote:
           | Oh I think it definitely did damage, just not enough to kill
           | such a massive platform overnight. Twitter has lost a
           | significant amount of users while other social networks grew
           | or held steady, and the cultural impact seems to have waned a
           | lot.
           | 
           | I've never been a regular user of Twitter, pre or post elon
           | era, but a lot of people I follow in other ways used to be
           | very active on there and discussions would often spill over
           | into other venues. That still happens a bit, but much less
           | than before.
        
         | johnnyanmac wrote:
         | Try to tell them it's a bad idea. And be ready to leave that
         | community if nothing changes. That's pretty much the way of
         | life for an internet vagrant. Maybe you hope the community
         | migrates too. Maybe you try to remake the community. But those
         | aren't in your control.
         | 
         | I left Facebook, left Reddit (never really had a Twitter). This
         | won't be different.
        
         | alexashka wrote:
         | Most everyone will go down the path of least resistance. A few
         | outliers will try to resist, get old and/or tired. A few of the
         | few will reach acceptance, comprehend the serenity prayer. A
         | few of the few of the few will reach enlightenment.
         | 
         | What _you_ do depends on where you 're at - statistically,
         | you'll go down the path of least resistance which is totally,
         | totally fine.
        
       | alex1138 wrote:
       | You can, of course, not do this (you meaning the company,
       | Discord)
       | 
       | You can choose to be respectful of people who have valid reasons
       | for not providing ID
       | 
       | But you want that sweet IPO money (as stated elsewhere in this
       | thread). You don't actually care about the internet and how
       | anonymity is a cool thing for certain vulnerable groups
       | 
       | All these tech CEOs should face prison time and I'm not joking.
       | They've displayed a complete laissez faire attitude to all of
       | these concerns
        
       | cbold wrote:
       | When the openclaw/moltbook fad dies, those Mac mini's could be
       | repurposed for a p2p forum network.
        
       | stuffn wrote:
       | Finally I feel validated complaining for the last decade about
       | the move away from IRC/teamspeak to centralized services. I've
       | been called all kinds of names.
       | 
       | Now those same people are complaining they're gonna have to
       | submit their faces to discord. Which will eventually be used to
       | prosecute or commit fraud. I'm left wondering if "tech
       | enthusiasts" are ever actually correct.
        
         | anthk wrote:
         | Heh, that happened with phony nostalgic gen-z kids trying to
         | recreate 'old times' with Discord and turd themning for Windows
         | AKA called 'Frutiger Aero' while bitching against XMPP calling
         | it 'malware'.
         | 
         | They wil learn by brute force. As we had to do.
        
       | bitbytebane wrote:
       | Discord has always been IRC with extra censorship and spying.
       | Nothing really new, here. Just use IRC.
        
         | vkou wrote:
         | If you can't think of good reasons for why someone might use
         | discord over IRC, you probably haven't thought about this
         | enough.
        
         | jusgu wrote:
         | it's not that simple. many (if not most) people would rather be
         | where everyone already is, even if there's less privacy
        
         | AuthAuth wrote:
         | IRC sucks tho. It doesnt have half the features that make
         | discord enjoyable.
        
         | JoshTriplett wrote:
         | If you have any hope of replacing Discord, you need to actually
         | understand Discord. Among many other things, people use Discord
         | because it has persistent history, integrated images and
         | videos, video and audio calls, and screen sharing.
        
       | keithnz wrote:
       | lot of people complaining, but, seems like they rolled it out
       | already in UK and Australia... no real complaints I know of, and
       | I'm in NZ and are on NZ/Aussie discords. Also teen mode doesn't
       | actually seem that restrictive. Seems an ok move to me. But for
       | whatever reason people seem to froth at the mouth when it comes
       | to discord on here.
        
         | rwmj wrote:
         | I have a discord account that I use very rarely, and just tried
         | it (from the UK) and it didn't ask me for any ID or face scan.
         | If they do start doing that, I'll simply stop using the
         | service.
        
       | pibaker wrote:
       | It is a great irony that the heavy handed push for "protect da
       | kids" is all happening while we learn, day by day, that the
       | richest and most powerful members of our society have no problem
       | hanging out with a convicted child sex trafficker.
       | 
       | Rules for thee, free love for me.
        
         | nickpinkston wrote:
         | I'm fine with the free love and debauchery, but just really
         | keep it to adults and be safe.
        
           | RIMR wrote:
           | I'm just going to go ahead and say that "free love" is a
           | terribly inappropriate way to refer to sex trafficking,
           | regardless of the age of the victims, unless you're being
           | facetious (e.g., The Onion's "Penis Goofin'" allegations
           | against Epstein).
        
             | cgriswald wrote:
             | I'm going to suggest re-reading the top level comment and
             | the GP's response. I don't see anyone suggesting non-
             | facetiously that free love and sex trafficking are
             | synonymous nor that sex trafficking of adults is
             | acceptable. I think the top level poster is being
             | facetious; such a view is how these creeps might think. I
             | think the respondent is, intentionally or mistakenly,
             | ignoring that context and using the term at face value.
        
           | handedness wrote:
           | 'I'm fine with extreme indulgence, but just really keep it
           | restrained and be safe.'
           | 
           | By definition, debauchery with durable constraints can't be
           | normalized, as its appeal is the overstepping of norms.
           | 
           | There's also an argument to be made that normalizing
           | debauchery invites scope creep.
        
         | volf_ wrote:
         | do as we say, not as we do
        
         | ActorNightly wrote:
         | What do you mean day by day.
         | 
         | We have known this to be the case, for quite some time, yet
         | majority of the public still thought that a convicted felon was
         | good enough to be president.
        
           | dijit wrote:
           | I think that's the exact irony that the parent is eluding to.
           | 
           | It's all about the kids, unless, idk, you're rich enough?
        
             | kelseyfrog wrote:
             | Andrew Carnegie's The Gospel of Wealth[1] lies squarely in
             | the center of the foundational belief that those who've
             | acquired such means have done so because they reflect "the
             | highest type of man, the best and most valuable of all that
             | humanity has yet accomplished."
             | 
             | It takes only a brief glimpse of the real world and its
             | most wealthy to recognize that an abundance of virtue is
             | not what's reflected in reality. In fact, the benevolence
             | Carnegie describes, serves as a smoke screen for cruelty,
             | degenerate acts, and the slaughterhouse of the soul. We've
             | sold out every moral for a bait and switch and it's well
             | past time to reneg on the social contract.
             | 
             | 1. https://www.carnegie.org/about/our-
             | history/gospelofwealth/
        
               | rob74 wrote:
               | I think you've got that quote backwards. In full it
               | reads:
               | 
               | > _Unequally or unjustly, perhaps, as these laws
               | sometimes operate, and imperfect as they appear to the
               | Idealist, they are, nevertheless, like the highest type
               | of man, the best and most valuable of all that humanity
               | has yet accomplished._
               | 
               | Or (to shorten it a bit): "These laws (of capitalism)
               | [...] are nevertheless [..] the best and most valuable of
               | all that humanity has yet accomplished". So this is only
               | an unlimited belief in the virtues of capitalism, not in
               | the virtues of rich people.
               | 
               | From the introduction:
               | 
               | > _Carnegie believed in giving wealth away during one's
               | lifetime, and this essay includes one of his most famous
               | quotes, "The man who dies thus rich dies disgraced."
               | Carnegie's message continues to resonate with and inspire
               | leaders and philanthropists around the world._
               | 
               | I really wonder what Carnegie would think about his
               | successors dismantling USAID?
        
               | kelseyfrog wrote:
               | I believe the connection he was making was that the laws,
               | results, and people profiting from the system all
               | represent the best of humanity. That said, whether read
               | forwards or backwards, the point still stands. I
               | appreciate your attention to detail.
        
               | CGMthrowaway wrote:
               | Andrew Carnegie wrote and lived in an era without an
               | income tax. In that era rich men were expected to be
               | broadly philanthropic, to steward their wealth for the
               | good of the common, to act with generosity and
               | responsibility. Because the state did not provide a
               | safety net, the wealthy faced immense social pressure to
               | act as stewards of the public good.
               | 
               | In today's era those expectations do not exist. The
               | public-facing, gilded age palaces, which by their public
               | nature tend to enforce good behavior by forcing them to
               | physically interact with the society they profited from,
               | have been replaced by private, gated bunkers behind tall
               | hedges blurred out on Google Maps. The wealthy wear jeans
               | and hoodies to "blend in" or appear common, when they are
               | very much not. A rail tycoon in a 10X beaver tophat might
               | offer a beggar something on the street. A tech mogul in a
               | hoody might not even get solicited.
               | 
               | Income tax - and broadly speaking many other changes to
               | the social contract between upper and lower classes, like
               | the bureaucratization of welfare - has not just allowed
               | but incentivized the wealthy to shirk the
               | responsibilities of old, and outsource their morality to
               | a (corrupt, as many have pointed out) government. And
               | it's not good. There is no honor in giving anymore.
        
               | kelseyfrog wrote:
               | If we repeal the income tax, virtue will return to the
               | wealthy.
               | 
               | Is that something you believe?
        
               | CGMthrowaway wrote:
               | Improbable. It's hard to un-ring a bell once rung. Was
               | adding critical context to the Carnegie citation.
        
               | coupdejarnac wrote:
               | Are you really asking this? For real?
               | 
               | You're shooting the messenger.
        
             | hn_acc1 wrote:
             | It's all about the kids when you need a certain segment of
             | the population to vote a certain way.
        
             | echelon wrote:
             | It's never about kids. If they cared about kids, they would
             | have school lunch and wouldn't starve.
             | 
             | It's about control and monitoring of civilians. And
             | creating a dragnet to ensnare any new politicians and
             | business leaders.
             | 
             | Freedom of speech is insufficient. We need freedom of
             | privacy and from monitoring and tracking.
        
           | rootusrootus wrote:
           | That is the uncharitable interpretation. I think it is at
           | least as likely that voters consistently get to chose between
           | a turd sandwich and a giant douche, so it will always be
           | possible to accuse them of preferring a terrible candidate.
           | 
           | Also, nitpick: it was neither a majority of the public, or a
           | majority of the eligible voting population, or even a
           | majority of the people who voted.
           | 
           | I think a really good first step, at least in the US, towards
           | making our candidate selection better would be to mandate
           | open primaries.
        
             | Gigachad wrote:
             | I think your interpretation is uncharitable. One of the
             | options is a fraud and a pedophile and the other wasn't.
             | They absolutely were not equally bad.
        
             | Jcampuzano2 wrote:
             | This is the most uncharitable take and common of the people
             | who try to play the middle or wave away their decision to
             | vote for Trump.
             | 
             | The decision was quite literally between a known criminal
             | and already even at the time known to be likely pedophile
             | (and now it's basically a fact) and someone who is none of
             | that.
        
             | ActorNightly wrote:
             | >a turd sandwich and a giant douche
             | 
             | Ah yes, the famous conservative talking point of "well
             | yeah, my side is bad, but your side is just as bad".
             | 
             | From a pure performance standard across economy and quality
             | of life, its pretty clear that Democratic policies always
             | end up as net positive, while conservative policies may
             | seem good in the short term but allways end up bad long
             | term. But to see this you have to understand politics, and
             | understand the effects aren't always immediate. However,
             | the situation this time around is way simpler.
             | 
             | Basically in 2016, you could be excused for voting for
             | Trump. Things were going well enough that mattered, Hilary
             | was not the best candidate, and maybe a little mix up
             | needed to happen. In 2020, if you voted for Trump, you are
             | absolutely clueless about politics and have no idea what is
             | actually good for the country, but at least its all
             | political reasons.
             | 
             | In 2024, it wasn't about politics - it was a choice between
             | either allowing a convicted felon who tried to overthrow US
             | government (with Supreme Courts saying he did nothing wrong
             | mind you) back into a position of power, or not. As it
             | turns out 7/10 people who either voted for trump or didn't
             | vote are ok with the rich and elite getting away with what
             | they want.
             | 
             | So generally when people act surprised about anything that
             | happens in regards to Einstein or any other things that
             | Trump will do, like interfere with elections and possibly
             | go for third term, just remember that those people don't
             | actually care. This is what they want.
        
               | socalgal2 wrote:
               | > From a pure performance standard across economy and
               | quality of life, its pretty clear that Democratic
               | policies always end up as net positive,
               | 
               | All one has to do is point at San Francisco as this us
               | provably false. Dems have been in charge their for
               | decades and it's arguably not working.
        
           | notjtrig wrote:
           | Only 22% of the public voted for Trump.
        
             | otterley wrote:
             | This is a completely useless statistic, and I'm not even
             | close to being a Trump fan.
        
         | tux3 wrote:
         | I am not a native English speaker, I may be missing a cultural
         | nuance, but I wouldn't call any of what they did love. That
         | word enters nowhere in a sickening child abuse island.
        
           | ambicapter wrote:
           | it's just sarcasm.
        
         | ingohelpinger wrote:
         | and they keep protecting the pedos from prosecution. lol.
        
         | zozbot234 wrote:
         | This is no worse than Discord just banning NSFW content
         | wholesale throughout the platform (which they would be entirely
         | within their rights to do). It's a big fat nothingburger.
        
           | FireBeyond wrote:
           | Except it is scarily easy to find servers which openly have
           | minors selling NSFW content. Or BDSM servers targeted at
           | "14-28 year olds".
        
           | danaris wrote:
           | It's not a nothingburger; it's a massive collection of
           | personally identifying information.
        
             | subscribed wrote:
             | Especially by the company already involved in a leak of a
             | massive trove of pictures, personal details (including
             | IDs), etc: https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c8jmzd972leo
             | 
             | What could possibly go wrong this time...
        
           | Morromist wrote:
           | It would be in their rights to do it.
           | 
           | Its users who value their privacy will be in their rights to
           | leave and we will.
        
           | johnnyanmac wrote:
           | They have a right to ask for my passport and SSN. And I have
           | a right to say "hell no" and delete my account in response.
        
           | RobotToaster wrote:
           | I'm sure the owners of Tumblr thought the same.
        
             | Macha wrote:
             | The owners of Tumblr thought being banned from the app
             | store was certain death, but losing the nsfw content was
             | only possible death.
        
         | oguz-ismail2 wrote:
         | It's a question of scale. Neither crime is less serious but far
         | more children are groomed and abused over Discord than flown in
         | via some super rich sicko's private jet for a 'costume party'.
        
           | johnnyanmac wrote:
           | Making everyone "teens by default" fixes none of that,
           | though. Roblox spaces aren't exactly 18+
        
         | johndhi wrote:
         | he was convicted of soliciting prostitution (not of minors),
         | right?
         | 
         | why do we assume that the people he was hanging out with knew
         | the details of what he did wrong?
        
           | anon84873628 wrote:
           | This article was on the front page recently:
           | https://scottaaronson.blog/?p=9534
           | 
           | So at least some lay people easily realized he wasn't worth
           | getting involved with.
        
             | johndhi wrote:
             | good call! hadn't read that.
        
           | ibejoeb wrote:
           | He pled to Procuring Person under 18 for Prostitution.
        
           | hardlianotion wrote:
           | He was arrested for sex trafficking minors and convicted
           | procuring a child for prostitution.
        
           | Finnucane wrote:
           | He ran a sex-trafficking ring that involved hundreds of girls
           | and women. Possibly over a thousand. He wasn't keeping it all
           | to himself.
        
           | ceejayoz wrote:
           | > not of minors, right?
           | 
           | https://www.justice.gov/usao-sdny/press-
           | release/file/1180481...
           | 
           | "The victims described herein were as young as 14 years old
           | at the time they were abused by Jeffrey Epstein... Epstein
           | intentionally sought out minors and knew that many of his
           | victims were in fact under the age of 18, including because,
           | in some instances, minor victims expressly told him their
           | age."
           | 
           | > why do we assume that the people he was hanging out with
           | knew the details of what he did wrong?
           | 
           | Some of them were emailing long, long after his conviction.
        
         | alexfromapex wrote:
         | People don't realize that all of our problems lately are
         | stemming from lack of truly representative government. Until we
         | find a way to ensure political candidates aren't corrupt and
         | bought off, there will always be corruption, double standards,
         | and lack of accountability from them.
        
           | johnnyanmac wrote:
           | That's a lot of work to do. It ultimately works off the issue
           | that most voters are disengaged, while the most interested
           | parties are very engaged.
           | 
           | Corruption is happening out in the open and there's still so
           | many people shrugging in response. One good push back from
           | everyone all at once would fix a lot of things quickly. But
           | that implies the people are united and not instead driven
           | into manufactured conflict by said interested parties. It's
           | basically enough that we're in a post truth era as of now. I
           | don't know how we come back from that
           | 
           | Anyways, repealing Citizens United would be a good first
           | step.
        
             | 0_____0 wrote:
             | [warning/apology - this comment regards USpol specifically]
             | 
             | Our media landscape has people focusing on basically
             | everything except what we need to be. I am not sure that
             | liberal democracy will survive the information age. So much
             | effort goes into the process of argument, we aren't as a
             | whole really thinking about how to solve our very real
             | problems.
             | 
             | China's technocratic rule, after some, shall we say,
             | growing pains (hunger pains? Is it fair to say that when
             | millions of people starved to death?), seems a lot better
             | at creating a coherent strategy for economic growth and
             | international soft power.
             | 
             | One of my great fears is that democracy _was_ the right
             | model in the past decades and centuries, but that it won 't
             | keep up with the laser focused technocratic rule that a
             | competent bureaucracy can potentially muster.
        
               | thwarted wrote:
               | > _China 's technocratic rule...seems a lot better at
               | creating a coherent strategy for economic growth and
               | international soft power._
               | 
               | This requires that those in/with the power actually have
               | altruistic, or at least not solely selfish, concerns. How
               | rampant is government/bureaucratic corruption in China?
               | 
               | I elided the population starving part in order to not
               | distract from the possibility of truly selfless
               | governance strategy. It may very well be the case that
               | millions starving is considered "acceptable losses" ("the
               | needs of the billions outweigh the needs of the
               | millions") in executing on that strategy. Which, make no
               | mistake, would be truly tragic and should be undesirable.
               | But that not everyone sees it that way is really what
               | we're fighting against.
               | 
               | "I have a machine that feeds everyone, no one shall go
               | hungry."
               | 
               | "But mah profits!"
               | 
               | "You only need profits so you yourself can eat, but
               | that's now a solved problem"
               | 
               | "But mah profits. How will we know who's winning?"
        
               | 0_____0 wrote:
               | Corruption definitely happens in China but even as a US
               | person I can think of at least one major case where there
               | were very real consequences for that. How many US govt
               | officials have been executed for corruption?
               | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Li_Zaiyong
               | 
               | Millions starving during the Great Leap forward was very
               | much NOT part of the plan, it was the result of some very
               | misguided agricultural practices.
               | 
               | My point is that in the same period, China has gone from
               | "oops we accidentally caused the 2nd largest mass
               | starvation event in history" to "we have the largest high
               | speed rail network and manufacturing base in the world
               | and nobody is even close."
               | 
               | While the US went from "what's a postwar superpower to
               | do? How bout some megaprojects?" To "I'm drowning in
               | entitlements and houses now cost the same as the average
               | lifetime GDP per capita".
        
               | vharuck wrote:
               | Authoritarian governments are always more efficient than
               | democracies. Their flaw is that citizens have no say in
               | _what goal_ will be efficiently pursued. When a
               | technocratic authoritarian is in power, things improve
               | overall (but there are still many  "inefficient" people
               | left behind or crushed). But when a cruel or incompetent
               | authoritarian takes control, things hit lows that sound
               | democracies wouldn't allow. Lows that take generations to
               | recover from.
        
               | 0_____0 wrote:
               | While I like your message here, I don't think
               | authoritarianism is actually more efficient (efficient at
               | what?) usually. Because often it goes hand in hand with
               | economic and social extraction, which is inherently
               | inefficient.
               | 
               | But I take and am a bit heartened by your main point -
               | while the best case authoritarian regime can plan and
               | execute more quickly and with greater efficiency than
               | representative government, the worst case authoritarian
               | govt is much much worse than the worst case possible with
               | a functional democracy.
        
             | michaelt wrote:
             | _> It ultimately works off the issue that most voters are
             | disengaged, while the most interested parties are very
             | engaged._
             | 
             | That, and the fact winning a senate seat costs on average
             | $26.53 million [1]
             | 
             | You can't self-fund, that's 152 years of your $174,000
             | salary.
             | 
             | Where do you suppose the money comes from, and what do you
             | suppose motivates the donors?
             | 
             | [1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Campaign_finance_in_the_U
             | nited...
        
           | psychoslave wrote:
           | You can't find that because any concentration of power means
           | the corruption forces have only very limited surface to
           | pressure, and all the more that surface is actually easy to
           | swap with one molded for even more corruption convenience.
           | 
           | People ever rule through direct decisions or are enslaved
           | into alien agendas on which they have no agency.
        
             | nicoburns wrote:
             | In countries like the US and UK with FPTP voting systems,
             | proportional representation would help a lot. As it would
             | make it a lot more viable for candidates outside of the
             | main two parties to stand (and actually have a chance of
             | winning).
             | 
             | (although in a UK context, it's looking highly likely that
             | we'll have a "changing of the guard" in the next election
             | with both Reform and Green party making significant inroads
             | at the expense of the more established Conservative and
             | Labour parties)
        
               | kypro wrote:
               | FPTP will just guarantee that nothing meaningful can be
               | done. Too much compromise in decision making is bad.
               | 
               | Personally I think ideal set up is a system which grants
               | quite a of power to a small handful of people, but makes
               | it very easy for those people to be removed. This is
               | typically the model that works best in business and other
               | cooperative pursuits anyway.
               | 
               | Throwing more people in the room with different opinions
               | will ensure significant decisions can almost never made.
               | Any policy too far to the right or too far to left will
               | be watered down. The result is that you'll be led by
               | centrists who can't really change anything and anything
               | they do change will be disliked by everyone.
        
               | sally_glance wrote:
               | Great idea, except that I don't think it's easy to make
               | sure we don't grant too much power. Basically this idea
               | is the core of representative democracy. Problem is, the
               | people who have been granted a lot of power are very good
               | at finding loopholes to avoid or remove the safeguards we
               | put in place...
        
             | 9dev wrote:
             | Which is exactly why we need a strong federation, and broad
             | participation in democratic process across the bank. Many
             | people can't even be bothered to vote, much less
             | participate in their local, municipal governments. That
             | must change.
        
               | psychoslave wrote:
               | Voting is meaningless if it's not for a program with
               | people charged to implement it being on revokable mandat
               | if they go out of the rails of the planned destination.
               | 
               | Instead general elections are theaters were all that is
               | voted is which clown is going to have a blank check.
        
             | drdaeman wrote:
             | It's easy to solve concentration of power, just distribute
             | it more. Nowadays we can have quite large distributed
             | systems.
             | 
             | It's nigh impossible to invent a system that truly
             | formalizes collective will with the goal of optimizing for
             | everyone's best long-term interests, minimizing
             | unhappiness.
        
               | rapind wrote:
               | 100% agree, and I think that's sort of what was intended
               | with a lot of democratic government setups. What we fail
               | to realize though (or maybe just remember) is that these
               | systems will ALWAYS be under attack by those who want
               | more power always looking for attack surfaces. (We seem
               | to be under attack by almost all, if not all, current
               | billionaires!)
               | 
               | For example in the US, the executive order is a massive
               | problem. Citizens united as well. And for all democracies
               | the natural appeal of strongman politics is a huge
               | problem.
               | 
               | Every attempt at government overreach really needs to be
               | questioned. I don't say rejected, just questioned. How
               | will it be used by future powers? Is the tradeoff worth
               | it? Can it be temporary? Do we even have a way to claw it
               | back if it turns out to be detrimental? Is it too subtle
               | and nuanced that the majority will miss seeing it? etc.
        
               | quantummagic wrote:
               | Except it's very easy to "sell" government overreach.
               | Whenever a plane flies into a tower, or flu season is
               | extra scary, people will clamor for strict government
               | authority. With every such event, the government gains
               | capabilities and tendencies that always end up with a few
               | people having outsized power over the masses.
        
               | rapind wrote:
               | Yes, but I don't think it's so straightforward. I think
               | there are bad actors marketing this overreach. Like the
               | surveillance industry for the Patriot Act (tech, defence,
               | telcom, maybe compliance vendors?). I don't think their
               | goal is to create a distopia, but we should always be
               | looking at incentives for large government programs.
        
               | quantummagic wrote:
               | It is straightforward, and very predictable. Bad actors,
               | aren't an anomaly.
        
               | ranger_danger wrote:
               | > these systems will ALWAYS be under attack by those who
               | want more power
               | 
               | I think this is an inherent human problem that prevents
               | us from overcoming it... history has proven that the more
               | equal everyone is, and the less individual ownership they
               | have, the lazier and more bored they get.
               | 
               | Look at the previous attempts at socialism... people stop
               | caring when there's no goal to work towards, they can't
               | all be doing the same thing and just be happy, because
               | humans are naturally competitive. We desire things other
               | people don't have, like possessions, money, or power.
        
               | rapind wrote:
               | Is there a way to accept but also limit greed that is
               | reliable and durable?
               | 
               | Like a pragmatic meritocracy. We accept that there will
               | be cheaters, and we won't catch or stop them all, but we
               | have some hard limits. Do we care if you stop working so
               | hard once you hit $1b? Maybe we'd even prefer that you
               | did stop working (against societies interest!)?
               | 
               | This wouldn't even remotely resemble the communism
               | bugaboo. It's basically saying, yes greed can be good,
               | but at some point it gets ridiculous.
        
               | psychoslave wrote:
               | Well we can look at attempts at socialism and see that
               | some failed, some were successful:
               | https://factually.co/fact-checks/politics/successful-
               | sociali...
               | 
               | But of course success is relative to some cultural
               | values. We could just as well wonder about success and
               | failure in implementation of any political system.
               | 
               | The most remarkable trait of humans is cognitive
               | plasticity, so determining any natural tendency that
               | would be more inate than acquired is just a game of
               | pretending there are hypothetical humans living out of
               | any cultural influence that would still exhibit
               | predominent behavioral traits.
               | 
               | Competition is a social construct. There are people out
               | there whose biggest concern is keeping focus on enjoying
               | what they are, freeing their attention from the illusion
               | of possession, avoiding any financial/material bounds
               | they can and staying away of contingent hierarchical
               | servitudes.
               | 
               | They are also many people who holds desires for both of
               | these perspectives, or any interpolation/extrapolation
               | that they can suggest.
        
             | riddlemethat wrote:
             | In capitalism, the rich get powerful; in socialism, the
             | powerful get rich.
        
           | WillAdams wrote:
           | My solution for this is to rate-limit political contributions
           | --- they may only be made in an amount equal to what a
           | minimum-wage worker might reasonably be expected to donate
           | from a week's wages (say 10% of hourly min. wage * 40), as a
           | physically written out check or money order physically signed
           | by hand (at least an "X" mark) and mailed in a first-class
           | envelope with at least a similarly signed cover letter
           | explaining the reason for the donation.
           | 
           | If this causes the extinction of the political lobbyist, I'm
           | fine with that.
        
             | CGMthrowaway wrote:
             | Bundling would get around that to some extent
        
               | WillAdams wrote:
               | 1 check would require 2 x marks and 1 envelope and 1
               | stamp (or other indicia) --- just paying minimum-wage
               | folks for stuffing envelopes and making "X"s would
               | probably result in this being equivalent to a job
               | creation program, and it would probably save the USPS.
        
             | ashleyn wrote:
             | This is the central problem with Citizens United. The
             | supreme court tends to be unusually deferential with 1A
             | cases and ruled that infinite money can go into formally
             | unaffiliated PACs. Undoing this would require activist
             | judges or a constitutional amendment.
        
               | uncletscollie wrote:
               | Activist judges?
               | 
               | The supreme court is majority activist judges. Why cant
               | new judges undo the old activist judges wrongly decided
               | law? Why are the other new judges suddenly activists?
        
             | jmcgough wrote:
             | PACs and dark money have been a disaster for this country
        
             | Gigachad wrote:
             | These days instead of paying out politicians you just buy
             | social media bots or even the whole platform to push
             | propaganda to the general public so they start agreeing
             | with you.
        
             | root_axis wrote:
             | What's to prevent them from just ignoring those
             | restrictions?
        
             | malfist wrote:
             | Most of the money in politics isn't direct contribution to
             | candidates, it's PACs.
             | 
             | PACs are just groups that do advocacy of some sort. Some do
             | things like advise congress people on legislation they'd
             | like passed, some run ads to campaign for positions or
             | candidates, some advocate for movements.
             | 
             | What they're not supposed to be doing is directly
             | coordinating with a candidate, or running ads just for a
             | candidate. But that's a line that has been continually
             | fuzzed.
             | 
             | An example of a good PAC might be something like the HRC
             | (human rights commission) that campaigns for LGBTQ rights.
        
           | PaulDavisThe1st wrote:
           | I think this is entirely the wrong way to think about this.
           | While better elected representatives and officials would
           | always be a nice thing, what we need is to ensure that we
           | design systems around them that mitigate their corruption and
           | double standards. We were even (collectively, across
           | humanity) doing better and better at that until not that long
           | ago.
        
             | bsenftner wrote:
             | We need _regulations on the politicians_ because, clearly,
             | their  "public good use" far exceeds their contribution
             | back.
        
               | PaulDavisThe1st wrote:
               | I didn't really mean "regulations" but more a political
               | (and civic) system in which a given individual's
               | corruption etc. gets caught quickly and/or there are too
               | many disincentives for them to to do much based on it.
        
           | netbioserror wrote:
           | Colossally awful take. Corruption is an intractable problem
           | in human history. Power is a magnet for the worst people, and
           | every system we invent can be exploited in innumerable ways.
           | The only variable is how long the people of any individual
           | society can remain free and prosperous before their decline.
           | Temporary recoveries have only happened by lopping off
           | massive chunks of empire, implementing extreme monetary
           | reforms, and/or a switch to full autocracy. Every other
           | outcome is terminal decline.
        
           | colechristensen wrote:
           | You can't have truly representative government if the people
           | voting don't understand or care that they're not being
           | represented particularly well.
           | 
           | It is apparently not much of a risk to your seat if you don't
           | represent the interests of your people because the people
           | have become tribal and it is only their tribe they vote for
           | with very little effective criticism of the leaders in their
           | tribe. (it's not that complaints are nonexistent, they just
           | don't result in anything)
        
           | dbspin wrote:
           | Sortation.
        
             | RealityVoid wrote:
             | Sortition?
        
           | jimbokun wrote:
           | Post Citizens United, that's going to require a
           | Constitutional amendment.
           | 
           | And the corrupt, bought politicians are the ones who would
           | need to ratify it.
        
             | asdff wrote:
             | Let's not act like they weren't corrupt and bought before
             | Citizens United
        
               | parasubvert wrote:
               | This is unhelpful fatalism and actively dissuades reform.
               | Not all politicians are "corrupt and bought". And
               | further, there is an enormous difference before and after
               | this Supreme Court decision.
               | 
               | It costs money to run for office. Before Citizens United,
               | it was hard, limited, traceable donations, from
               | individuals. No corporations, no soft money, no legal
               | dark money. Now money has flooded in, with far less
               | accountability.
        
           | asdff wrote:
           | >there will always be corruption, double standards, and lack
           | of accountability from them
           | 
           | The hard part is this has been true going all the way back to
           | the stone age ever since we elevated the first person
           | arbitrarily to chief. There has been no model of government
           | developed since that is immune to this. I really don't know
           | how to get around this and it depresses me that we will
           | always be held back by the slimiest who abuse systems.
        
           | tankenmate wrote:
           | Isn't it just so much easier to make sure that wealth isn't
           | concentrated in so few hands? Tax wealth, not work.
           | 
           | And before everyone gets upset, tax serves two purposes; 1)
           | control inflation (it in effect burns money that was issued
           | when the govt previously paid for things), 2) disincentivises
           | selected behaviours. and one side effect, when the govt runs
           | a tax deficit it increases inflation, and of course the
           | contrapositive is also true.
        
             | fud3748 wrote:
             | Sure, it's easy to tax "wealth". Except most wealth today
             | is of the type where Alice owns 10 million Y and Bob
             | decided to pay $1000 for one Y. Alice cannot possibly sell
             | her Y for near that price, but now she will be taxed on
             | "wealth" of $10 billion.
        
               | antonyh wrote:
               | Only in a system where the buyer sets the price.
        
               | __MatrixMan__ wrote:
               | Maybe we need a debt jubilee then.
        
               | vintermann wrote:
               | There's a very simple solution to that problem. Tax Alice
               | in Y rather than in $.
        
               | AlexandrB wrote:
               | How would this work with real-estate? Probably the Y that
               | should be taxed the most when we're talking about wealth.
        
               | PunchyHamster wrote:
               | you can tax stock without taxing inventory.
               | 
               | Also the term "asset" exists and is used in accounting
        
               | worik wrote:
               | > you can tax stock without taxing inventory.
               | 
               | How? What is the difference between "stock" and
               | "inventory"?
        
               | flir wrote:
               | So it would fix false valuation shenanigans too? I see
               | that as a win/win.
        
               | AaronM wrote:
               | If someone takes a loan out against an unrealized gain,
               | that should immediately trigger a tax event.
               | 
               | The real solution though is for the legislative branch to
               | not be beholden to those same people and be able to
               | quickly and effectively close tax loopholes as they are
               | discovered.
        
               | cluckindan wrote:
               | That would instantly wipe out most leverage from the
               | stock market, and from a casual bystander perspective, it
               | would be a great thing.
        
               | njarboe wrote:
               | Agreed. This would get rid of borrow against gains to
               | spend tax free. But also just get rid of the income tax,
               | it is the worst way to tax, and do a land value tax.
        
               | Terr_ wrote:
               | > If someone takes a loan out against an unrealized gain,
               | that should immediately trigger a tax event.
               | 
               | How does that work when a house is used as collateral on
               | a loan? Or artwork?
               | 
               | The loans are just a symptom, the problem is in the
               | Estate Tax, and those loans are being used as a tool to
               | wait out the clock and then dodge dynastic taxes
               | entirely.
               | 
               | Remove the final loophole, and they'll stop playing weird
               | games to get there all on their own. Plus it'll be way
               | less-disruptive to everyone involves in regular loans for
               | regular reasons.
        
               | charcircuit wrote:
               | There is not a loophole. When you die your loans get paid
               | off first. The money to pay off these loans would be
               | taxed. It could delay paying taxes until you die, but you
               | can't escape it.
        
               | croes wrote:
               | Who says you need to tax the whole wealth if it in form
               | of Ys?
               | 
               | We all know that 10 million Ys maybe not sold for $10
               | billion dollars but it gives you enough leverage to buy a
               | social network and name it Y
        
               | LadyCailin wrote:
               | Many countries have figured out a wealth tax, so this
               | isn't an impossible problem.
        
             | nine_k wrote:
             | With wealth concentrated in so few hands, it's already not
             | that easy to walk it back :-/
        
             | redleader55 wrote:
             | It would be so nice of that tax was actually
             | "burned"(similar to proof of stake), instead of being used
             | to fund even greater inflation. This comes in the form of a
             | huge administration, which gets payed for providing, many
             | times, negative value. Alternatively, it is used to pay
             | social benefits for the sole purpose of keeping the current
             | political party in power.
        
               | swiftcoder wrote:
               | > Alternatively, it is used to pay social benefits for
               | the sole purpose of keeping the current political party
               | in power
               | 
               | This sounds like a 2-party government problem, not a tax
               | problem. Plenty of countries do just fine spending that
               | money to provide healthcare, unemployment, etc to their
               | citizenry. Only really seems to be the US that views this
               | as a negative
        
               | malfist wrote:
               | Oh we spend that money, just on weapons or handouts to
               | the welfare class known as the ultrawealthy.
        
               | WillPostForFood wrote:
               | Us does spend the money on healthcare, it is just very
               | inefficient. US government spends much more per capita
               | than any other country. 50% than the #2 country, Germany.
               | 
               | https://www.statista.com/statistics/283221/per-capita-
               | health...
        
               | malfist wrote:
               | But that's mostly people/companies spending on health
               | care, not as much the government (because that'd be
               | socialism, apparently)
        
               | WillPostForFood wrote:
               | I'm just talking about government spending. If you add
               | private spending it is even more unbalanced. Just per
               | capita government spending alone:
               | 
               | US $12k
               | 
               | Germany $8k
               | 
               | UK $6k
               | 
               | Medicaid + Medicare is 22% of all US federal spending.
               | Defense is 13%.
        
               | astrange wrote:
               | The welfare classes that the government hands money to
               | are elderly people and children.
        
               | worik wrote:
               | I am amazed. What an incredible statement!
               | 
               | The USA is very corrupt, true. But getting rid of the
               | "huge administration" and burning tax receipts is not
               | going to solve that. How could it?
               | 
               | One of the roles of the state in a modern society should
               | be to ensure no one is left behind to starve, wither and
               | freeze amongst the incredible resources we (as a society)
               | have accumulated.
               | 
               | That takes administration. That takes resources. That is
               | what your taxes should be used for.
               | 
               | I agree that far too much is used to give aid to the
               | powerful, but the solution to that should not be to
               | condemn the weak.
               | 
               | Burning taxes and de-funding the administration is
               | exactly that: condemning the weak.
        
             | jlhawn wrote:
             | > control inflation
             | 
             | I think you are confusing cost inflation with an increase
             | in the money supply. The way the US government funds
             | deficit spending is not by increasing money supply (though
             | it could) but by issuing debt in the form of US Treasury
             | bonds. That is a transfer of money from bond investors to
             | the government. No new money is made. This is distinct from
             | the way that banks issue loans which _is_ by creating new
             | money in the form of credit (but that credit money gets
             | "burned" as loan principal is paid back). So federal taxes
             | do not actually control inflation in the way you are
             | describing. Since federal deficit spending is not financed
             | by increasing the money supply, it can only cause price
             | inflation if it increases aggregate demand over the current
             | productive capacity of the economy. An example would be
             | paying more for healthcare subsidies when there's a
             | shortage of doctors. Or subsidizing demand for housing with
             | more mortgage subsidies when there's a housing shortage.
             | Taxes could also increase inflation if they have the effect
             | of reducing supply of some goods or services (like tariffs
             | do).
             | 
             | Edit: I want to mention that the Federal Reserve can and
             | does increase money supply by buying US Treasury Bonds from
             | banks (converting the asset into cash reserves). There are
             | various reasons why they do this but overall it's done with
             | their dual mandate in mind: control inflation and minimize
             | unemployment.
        
             | AlexandrB wrote:
             | This is overly simplistic. Most economic activity is not
             | related to the government at all. Taxation _can_ slow
             | economic growth and inflation, but the government running
             | at a deficit or surplus is neither a cause or a solution
             | for inflation but rather a byproduct of multiple aspects of
             | government policy.
        
             | Terr_ wrote:
             | > Isn't it just so much easier to make sure that wealth
             | isn't concentrated in so few hands? Tax wealth, not work.
             | 
             | 1. No, it's not "easier" because it's hard-if-not-
             | impossible to accurately and objectively judge the present-
             | value of many types of assets. Even the case most-familiar
             | to working-class folks, property taxes, nobody really
             | likes/trusts the outcome.
             | 
             | 2. We don't tax work, we tax income, because actual
             | transactions between people with "skin in the game" are
             | harder to fake. The extent to which _wages_ are preferred
             | as a subset of income is separate from the wealth-vs-income
             | split.
        
               | astrange wrote:
               | > 2. We don't tax work, we tax income, because actual
               | transactions between people with "skin in the game" are
               | harder to fake.
               | 
               | Also because taxing income (or other cash) is
               | disinflationary. Taxing assets is inflationary because it
               | forces sales.
        
               | cogman10 wrote:
               | > No, it's not "easier" because it's hard-if-not-
               | impossible to accurately and objectively judge the
               | present-value of many types of assets. Even the case
               | most-familiar to working-class folks, property taxes,
               | nobody really likes/trusts the outcome.
               | 
               | You can easily get within 10% of the "real" value on most
               | assets. And, in particular, assets like stock have a
               | built in ticker to tell you their exact current value.
               | 
               | This sort of evaluation happens all the time privately.
               | For example, car insurance companies have gotten
               | extremely good at evaluating the value of a car to
               | determine when to simply total it.
               | 
               | The only thing that really makes it tricky is hidden
               | assets or assets with no market value.
               | 
               | The likes of the richest people, who I think most of the
               | "tax wealth" people are thinking of, have the majority of
               | their wealth in equity. It's easy to tax the majority of
               | their wealth.
               | 
               | This does not need to be a perfect system to be very
               | effective at generating revenue and redistributing
               | wealth.
        
               | cj wrote:
               | The main counterargument:
               | 
               | You buy 1 BTC at $60k in 2024. In 2025 it's valued at
               | $100k, so you pay taxes on $40k gain.
               | 
               | Now it's 2026 and you finally decide to sell the BTC for
               | the original price of $60k.
               | 
               | Except you've paid taxes on $40k in paper gains that
               | disappeared before you sold the asset.
               | 
               | How do we solve that?
               | 
               | (Replace "bitcoin" with "startup stock option" if you
               | really want to illustrate the problem - imagine having to
               | pay taxes on stock options you decide to never exercise)
        
             | Saline9515 wrote:
             | Wealthy people own assets, not money. Stealing their assets
             | doesn't reduce the money supply. Elon Musk is "rich" mainly
             | in paper wealth.
             | 
             | Taxes raise inflation as they increase the production
             | costs. If you tax too much wealthy people, they will leave,
             | and take their capital away to invest it elsewhere. This as
             | a result will lead to inflation due to lack of available
             | capital for production.
        
               | ghurtado wrote:
               | > If you tax too much wealthy people, they will leave
               | 
               | Are we not tired yet of the various versions of the
               | Reaganomics boogieman? When are we going to grow out of
               | trickle down economics mentality?
        
               | Saline9515 wrote:
               | The problem is black-and-white thinking that ignores
               | reality.
               | 
               | There are different kinds of wealthy people. Some built
               | their wealth through talent and luck. Some inherited it.
               | Some gained it through state cronyism and clientelism.
               | 
               | Some own scarce assets (like real estate). Others created
               | new assets (e.g., startup founders).
               | 
               | You can dislike Elon Musk, but his owning a large stake
               | in Tesla doesn't make others poorer. That's not true of a
               | landlord who corners housing supply in a city.
               | 
               | Wealth taxes are essentially revenge taxes without a
               | clear objective. France tried one for years. It was
               | costly to administer, riddled with exemptions, encouraged
               | avoidance instead of productivity, and sustained an
               | industry of tax specialists. The revenue was largely
               | recycled into clientelist spending, sometimes increasing
               | the wealth of the same elites (e.g., via housing
               | subsidies).
               | 
               | If the goal is to curb land hoarding, implement a land
               | value tax. If it's to reduce dynastic concentration, tax
               | large single-heir inheritances more heavily and lower the
               | rate when estates are widely divided. If it's to reduce
               | cronyism, cut state spending, simplify regulation, and
               | strengthen competition.
        
               | mulmen wrote:
               | > If you tax too much wealthy people, they will leave
               | 
               | You say this like it's a bad thing.
        
             | ghurtado wrote:
             | > Isn't it just so much easier to make sure that wealth
             | isn't concentrated in so few hands?
             | 
             | Except for the fact that, without first solving the problem
             | you responded to, yours is impossible to solve
        
             | PlatoIsADisease wrote:
             | This wouldn't stop the AMA from controlling medicine.
        
             | simplify wrote:
             | Since when has raising taxes _actually_ solved any major
             | problem? We have enough taxes, the issue is the corrupt
             | politicians swindling it to themselves and their cronies.
        
           | wwweston wrote:
           | You either win big enough under the current system, with its
           | system problems, or you never win to improve it.
           | 
           | Imagining better systems before doing that is just a form of
           | xkcd's nerd sniping.
           | 
           | And the biggest challenge to representative government might
           | well be that most people are terrible at engaging it
           | productively. Voting is the bare minimum and most people
           | don't vote (let alone organize and lobby effectively). Some
           | significant portion of those that do vote can't correctly
           | draw a line between policies they'd like and candidates who
           | intend to work on delivering, and that's before we get to the
           | portion of the population that may not correctly anticipate
           | policy outcomes or even really understand policy as a
           | concept.
           | 
           | The system has actually been functioning surprisingly well
           | considering, and as catastrophic as recent elections could be
           | seen as, the outcome arguably represents a reasonable degree
           | of fidelity to the input from the electorate.
           | 
           | If we still hold free and fair elections, the task of those
           | who want representative government is to change enough of the
           | electorate first.
        
           | patrickmay wrote:
           | Power will always attract the corrupt and corruptible. The
           | problem is the power. Reducing the size and scope of the
           | federal government and devolving power to the states,
           | communities, and individuals is the only way to minimize the
           | negative effects of humans with too much authority.
        
             | ranger_danger wrote:
             | Reducing the size of the government just makes it where
             | billionaires and corporations control everything instead,
             | which we're already seeing now. You'd need a way to reign
             | in their power/wealth as well.
        
               | eikenberry wrote:
               | +1... Reducing government is part of power reduction, not
               | the sum total. To reduce the size of government you need
               | to reduce the size of things it manages. So, for
               | instance, anti-trust would need a huge buf in enforcement
               | to eliminate concentrations of power in business. I'd
               | think strongly progressive inheritance tax would cover
               | the rest.
        
             | worik wrote:
             | Abolishing private property is another way of defanging
             | power
        
               | eikenberry wrote:
               | Has this been tried successfully anywhere? Seems like
               | mostly a dead end as long as we have resource scarcity.
        
               | 837263292029 wrote:
               | Let's start with your private property.
        
             | AppleAtCha wrote:
             | This assumes that govt and individual families are the only
             | players in the game. Now as in other historical periods
             | large corporations hold arguably more power than either of
             | those groups and reining in govt leaves little obstacle to
             | them consolidating even more power and wielding it
             | globally.
        
             | simplify wrote:
             | Power is not the problem, because power exists regardless
             | of who owns it.
             | 
             | We the people actually have a relatively high amount of
             | power in our states and communities. We just don't use it.
             | The real solution is to convince the masses to pay
             | attention, which is harder today than it ever was.
        
           | root_axis wrote:
           | The issue isn't representation, it's division. The party that
           | won is being well represented with respect to the values of
           | their constituents, whereas the opposition views it as a
           | daily nightmare. These two visions of the world cannot be
           | reconciled.
        
             | anon7000 wrote:
             | Representation needs to be less about black/white political
             | ideology and more about the specific needs of various
             | people. Farmers need representation, white color workers
             | need representation, small business owners need
             | representation, but their needs are all different, and
             | don't really boil down to left/right politics. The
             | government isn't treated as a forum to collaborate on
             | solving problems, but as a playground for the powerful to
             | create boogeymen that get people riled up.
        
               | overfeed wrote:
               | > white color workers need representation [...]
               | 
               | Don't worry - it's still there under the orange makeup.
               | jk; I think you may have misspelled "collar"
        
               | root_axis wrote:
               | That makes sense, but for most voters the left/right
               | politics matters more than the economic identities you
               | mentioned.
               | 
               | Most people don't care that much about the economy, they
               | make up their minds based on other issues, then find a
               | way to rationalize the state of the economy with that
               | choice after the fact.
        
             | conception wrote:
             | I would say one side is being told that they should believe
             | it a daily nightmare, e.g. people on the right really
             | disliking obamacare but loving the aca.
        
             | reddozen wrote:
             | The problem in America is that more than half the country
             | does not live in a shared factual reality. Like:
             | 
             | * Jan 6 was a fedsurrection, and also simultaneously all
             | innocent people that needed pardoning (Pardoning the feds?)
             | 
             | * World Liberty Financial receiving billions selling out
             | American interests worldwide? Never heard of this but
             | Burisma was worse!
             | 
             | * The Raffensperger call was no big deal there were
             | attorneys on that call. Trump's personal (now disbarred)
             | attorneys, of course, not there to represent America's
             | interests but how's that the big deal?
             | 
             | * Also who's Raffensperger? But did you see those boxes
             | under the table! What do you mean the clip is longer than 6
             | seconds that's all I saw on the infinity scrolling apps.
        
               | runjake wrote:
               | This comment is not well-formatted and a bit "zomg", but
               | an important mention:
               | 
               | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Trump%E2%80%93Raffensperger
               | _ph...
               | 
               | This is the infamous call where Trump, according to the
               | recorded tapes, tried to overturn the 2020 presidential
               | election results by demanding that Raffensperger "find
               | 11,780 votes".
        
               | rchaud wrote:
               | There is one reality that's undeniable: that political
               | donations by individuals are strictly monitored and can
               | land you in jail if violated, but PAC money is
               | untraceable and unlimited. That fact alone has led to
               | stacking the deck in favor of lobbyists and monied
               | interests at the expense of the electorate and national
               | institutions.
        
               | reddozen wrote:
               | I assume you mean Citizens United v FEC. Should they not
               | have been allowed to release their documentary? Its not
               | an easy question and there's a reason none of the
               | dissents directly address Roberts' opinion.
        
               | 5ykh wrote:
               | I'm not a lawyer and won't address the merits or lack
               | thereof of the ruling on the particulars of the case. The
               | effect of the ruling was a sweeping change in money in
               | politics. It effectively legalized an oligarchic take
               | over of governance. It's a fact that money and
               | advertising largely determine outcomes in battleground
               | races. Tipping those races, along with the structural
               | power imbalance in federal politics, means that control
               | of the government is relatively easy and cheap.
               | 
               | https://rooseveltinstitute.org/publications/15-years-
               | after-c...
        
             | antonymoose wrote:
             | I agree while also disagreeing. It feels to me like the
             | Democrats seemingly always get their way while in power
             | while Republican presidents with a congressional majority
             | get little to nothing done.
             | 
             | To me they have the classic problem as with non-profits:
             | "If we solve the problem we cease to have a cause to
             | exist."
             | 
             | Taking a look at what's been accomplished this past year,
             | it's a lot of token Executive Orders on renaming things, a
             | token deportation effort, no material change on mass legal
             | immigration, nothing happening on the voter ID front.
             | 
             | It's just theater until they lose out in the midterms and
             | they to rally their base again in 2028 to "Save America" or
             | "Keep It Great" or whatever hokum.
             | 
             | Democrats will undo it all when the pendulum shifts.
        
               | efnx wrote:
               | The Republicans this term have gotten plenty done, it's
               | just nothing that helps average people. Their wins can't
               | be widely celebrated and so they aren't, as much.
               | 
               | https://www.project2025.observer/
        
           | octoberfranklin wrote:
           | Term limits for congress.
        
             | tremon wrote:
             | And age limits for congress.
        
           | Affric wrote:
           | What is interesting is that, as demonstrated by mass media
           | and social media's influences over our politics in the last
           | century we can be motivated, but we have let power become too
           | concentrated in the wrong hands.
           | 
           | China's qualifications for influencers thing is interesting
           | by fundamentally doesn't address the power of social media
           | publishers.
        
           | leptons wrote:
           | >Until we find a way to ensure political candidates aren't
           | corrupt and bought off
           | 
           | The US elected a convicted fellon, the corruption _is a
           | feature_.
        
           | recroad wrote:
           | It's a representative government, it just represents Israel
           | via AIPAC.
        
         | mrtksn wrote:
         | It is kind of obvious that once someone reaches such a power
         | they should be monitored all the time.
         | 
         | Criminality among the rich and the politically connected is off
         | the charts. It's way beyond any group of immigrants for example
         | that these same people are trying to demonize.
         | 
         | Chat control? Every single politician should have that on their
         | phone.
        
           | agilob wrote:
           | They will have that exception on their phones.
        
           | hacker_homie wrote:
           | I think politicians should be the least privileged people in
           | a society except those in prison. Any protections or
           | exceptions for them alone are unconstitutional.
        
         | ozgung wrote:
         | It's not irony. It's by design. Politics is for controlling
         | people. Rules don't apply to rulers. No one cares about
         | children or anything. Even manipulating the public opinion is
         | outdated. Technology helps them to control. Freedom is an
         | illusion today. We are not free anymore.
        
           | athrowaway3z wrote:
           | Technology might be one half, but the other half is
           | demographics.
           | 
           | 40 years ago you'd have more ideals, riots, and young-minded
           | ideas.
           | 
           | Nowadays, our societies are old on average (especially the
           | politically powerful).
           | 
           | Older people on average are more inclined to pick whatever
           | solution they feel promises a bit more security.
        
             | themafia wrote:
             | > 40 years ago you'd have more ideals, riots, and young-
             | minded ideas.
             | 
             | The government generated most of those too. As technology
             | became more capable they utilized it more but that doesn't
             | mean they were standing around with their hands in their
             | pockets prior to that.
             | 
             | > Nowadays, our societies are old on average
             | 
             | Do they have an unfair access to technology? If not then
             | does this actually have any impact?
             | 
             | > Older people on average are more inclined to pick
             | whatever solution they feel promises a bit more security.
             | 
             | In your experience perhaps. I doubt the reliability of this
             | logic.
        
           | rglover wrote:
           | The gates have already been closed at the pasture's edge.
           | 
           |  _Moo._
        
           | kllrnohj wrote:
           | Politics is simply how a society governs itself. Whether or
           | not a society values the rules being enforce to rulers is
           | itself _politics_. Dismissing politics like this is how we
           | end up with exactly the problem of rules not applying to
           | rulers.
           | 
           | Get involved with politics. Be part of politics. _That_ is
           | how freedom is earned  & maintained.
        
         | morgengold wrote:
         | I hope this time it really sinks in that law and rules are only
         | for the little man. Time to think about the system from
         | scratch.
        
           | imiric wrote:
           | What makes you think next time will be different?
           | 
           | Revolutions happen all the time. They all inevitably end up
           | in the same place.
           | 
           | The problem is not them. The problem is us.
        
             | jMyles wrote:
             | > Revolutions happen all the time. They all inevitably end
             | up in the same place.
             | 
             | The optimistic take is that this phenomenon is a
             | characteristic of the _emergence_ of an information age
             | (through the agricultural and industrial ages), and will no
             | longer be true of the internet-connected human.
        
         | 0sdi wrote:
         | it has never been about children.
        
         | hkpack wrote:
         | These are literally _the same people_.
         | 
         | Musk was hanging out with child sex trafficker and is allowing
         | kids to create porn with grok on X.
        
           | omnimus wrote:
           | He is allowing a lot worse version. Allowing adults to create
           | child porn with grok on X.
        
         | Arubis wrote:
         | And, further, that all the child rape was coordinated, for the
         | most part, in the clear over fucking Gmail.
         | 
         | But we have to decrypt everything to protect the kids.
        
         | squidsoup wrote:
         | You're really pulling your punches there.
        
         | schnable wrote:
         | It's useful to point out hypocrisy, but are you suggesting we
         | shouldn't try to protect kids because of Jeffrey Epstein?
        
         | BurningFrog wrote:
         | Just like how you learn that all black men are criminals when
         | you see a few of them committing crimes!
        
         | wnevets wrote:
         | > that the richest and most powerful members of our society
         | have no problem hanging out with a convicted child sex
         | trafficker.
         | 
         | In most cases a lot more than simply "hanging out".
        
         | thinkingemote wrote:
         | Peter Mandelson was pushing very hard for digital ID cards
         | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Identity_Cards_Act_2006
        
         | TacticalCoder wrote:
         | > It is a great irony that the heavy handed push for "protect
         | da kids" is all happening while we learn, day by day, that the
         | richest and most powerful members of our society have no
         | problem hanging out with a convicted child sex trafficker.
         | 
         | They are hypocrites. In the UK there are _hundreds of
         | thousands_ of girls who have been raped between the 1990s and
         | now (17 000 cases of sexual exploitation in the UK in the year
         | 2024 alone). At least one UK politician refer to the girls who
         | 've been raped as "white trash" and recently people are shocked
         | because many are implying that these girls, who are typically
         | mass-raped, have been considered to be consenting.
         | 
         | It's known for a fact they tried to bury the story once it's
         | been revealed. Turns out the same method is used by these
         | grooming gangs in countless cities nearly all across the UK.
         | 
         | It's not just that the richest and most powerful do frequent
         | child sex trafficker: it's that many politicians and judges all
         | over the west are totally fine closing their eyes on the mass
         | raping of girls (some boys are victims of rapes too but it's
         | mostly girls).
         | 
         | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Grooming_gangs_scandal
         | 
         | > Rules for thee, free love for me.
         | 
         | Rules for thee, free love for me and for my voters base.
        
         | kneel25 wrote:
         | I think it's wild you would make that connection for this topic
        
         | ikrenji wrote:
         | the "protect da kids" narrative is just a veil to make us give
         | up more privacy and freedom for "security"
        
         | aeternum wrote:
         | It's far easier to control and prosecute communication when an
         | identity is attached.
        
         | watwut wrote:
         | To be fair, the people in that group were literally writing
         | articles about how meetoo went too far and sponsored lawsuits
         | against feminists exposing the stuff.
         | 
         | So like, their ideal vision of the world was "every man can
         | treat women and kids this way, they belong to kitchen anyway".
        
       | dchi04 wrote:
       | A lot of whining here about how this is an imperfect response to
       | the issue of children being exploited on Discord / using the
       | platform to engage with inappropriate content.
       | 
       | Until someone offers up something better, I take these types of
       | initiatives from social media platforms as huge wins. Ignoring
       | the problem will not make it better. We've been ignoring it for
       | about 20 years now, and it's only gotten worse.
        
         | pwndByDeath wrote:
         | Be responsible for your spawn and don't be a weenie about
         | asserting boundaries for them.
        
         | peterlk wrote:
         | The solution is parents! Stop making your bad parenting my
         | problem!
        
           | dchi04 wrote:
           | If you believe that all parents are intelligent, informed,
           | and put their children's well-being before everything, you
           | are unfortunately wrong about society. Kids don't deserve to
           | suffer just because they have neglectful parents.
           | 
           | Discord, on the other hand, should be at least somewhat
           | responsible for the interactions of children (which they
           | profit off of) on their platform.
           | 
           | And finally, you, a sentient adult with free will, can use
           | another platform. Not your problem unless you want to make it
           | yours, which is the response of choice on this thread.
        
           | otterley wrote:
           | How has it become your "problem"? Do you believe everyone
           | should be able to get into any location anywhere worldwide
           | without screening?
        
         | OkayPhysicist wrote:
         | The thing stopping kids from getting "exploited on Discord"
         | ought to be the same thing that stops them from stabbing each
         | other with pencils. Raise your kids better, and stop expecting
         | everyone else to tolerate your failure to do so.
        
           | dchi04 wrote:
           | A majority of Americans are in favor of age verification.
           | 
           | https://www.edweek.org/technology/not-meant-for-children-
           | adu...
           | 
           | Have you ever considered that it's the other way around?
           | Maybe the security needs of a minority shouldn't block
           | policies with wide support that will protect children online?
           | 
           | Either way, the whole "parent better" argument doesn't work.
           | It's victim-blaming. Thousands of kids download Discord every
           | day to play video games with their friends only to eventually
           | be invited to servers which host explicit content / bad
           | actors that we know can permanently harm them. A bunch of
           | software engineers on HN may understand the risks that online
           | platforms pose to their children, but much of the population
           | cannot/will not fully comprehend this. We should not allow
           | their children to experience terrible things just because
           | their parents aren't read up about which platforms will
           | gladly allow creeps to interact with or message their kids.
           | 
           | The answer here is simple: if you don't like age
           | verification, move on to a different service. Creating spaces
           | where there are rules and order on the internet for those
           | that are vulnerable is much more important than you not
           | wanting to upload a picture of your ID to a platform that
           | you're using completely voluntarily.
        
             | OkayPhysicist wrote:
             | If parents can't figure out how to block their kids from
             | accessing inappropriate content online, they shouldn't be
             | giving them smartphones and computers. Diminishing adult
             | spaces for adults in order to make them safer for kids is
             | how you dumb down the entire world.
        
               | dchi04 wrote:
               | The entire point is that it's not dumbing down the entire
               | world. It's dumbing it down for kids that fail age
               | verification.
        
         | ncr100 wrote:
         | I wish I could simply show Discord my adult genitals as
         | evidence of my adult-hood.
         | 
         | The sharing of my ID with a known incompetent company &
         | business seems like a risk they're foisting upon me.
        
           | dchi04 wrote:
           | You are not going to be liable if your information is leaked.
           | They will be.
        
       | asveikau wrote:
       | I think she is a polarizing figure to some, but journalist Taylor
       | Lorenz has been complaining about this sort of thing for a long
       | time. She has been increasingly warning about a future in which
       | we need to scan IDs for all of our online services, in the name
       | of protecting kids. (With the obvious implications about that
       | data leaking, governments using it to track dissidents, etc.)
        
         | digiown wrote:
         | Future? Just look at China. They do all this already.
        
       | stemlord wrote:
       | Curious how this will affect midjourney's earnings
        
         | dvngnt_ wrote:
         | what is the relation?
        
           | codergautam wrote:
           | Midjourney is primarily a Discord bot that generates images
           | from text prompts within the Discord app. Now many paying
           | Midjourney users could be forced to verify themselves.
        
       | cheschire wrote:
       | I deleted my Facebook account in 2011. After finding out how much
       | critical neighborhood information I have been missing, I finally
       | registered a new Facebook account fifteen years later to follow
       | my neighborhood groups.
       | 
       | A month later, the account was suspended for supposedly breaking
       | guidelines. I never posted a single message, never reacted to any
       | posts.
       | 
       | They then required me to upload a video scan of my face to prove
       | I was a person.
       | 
       | We aren't quite at the end of the internet, but man I can really
       | see the end of this journey coming sometime soon.
        
         | prophesi wrote:
         | Had a similar experience after rejoining a few years ago. My
         | account wasn't suspended for breaking guidelines AFAIK, but
         | rather flagged as a suspicious account that required an upload
         | of my face and driver's license. I think the account still
         | exists in this limbo state because I'd rather not upload all of
         | that to Facebook, and yet still not able to login to request
         | for the account to be deleted.
        
           | monksy wrote:
           | That won't guarentee that you get your account back. Many
           | times it's used to permaban you later.
        
         | jacobsenscott wrote:
         | FB/Discord/etc were never the internet. They were walled
         | gardens you could enter via the internet. This could be a
         | revitalization of the internet - pushing people back to
         | decentralized ways of communications.
        
           | cheschire wrote:
           | Perhaps you may have not read about how Iran is moving to a
           | whitelisted internet. Or perhaps you believe this will not
           | happen in your country.
           | 
           | However, "think of the children" will always result in more
           | restriction in western countries, not less. We are watching
           | countries prove that it works to isolate from each other.
           | Europe is not isolating from America in exactly the same way,
           | but is isolating business processes from American services.
           | 
           | We are not on the cusp of the end of the internet, but the
           | cliff sure seems in view to me.
        
             | owebmaster wrote:
             | > Perhaps you may have not read about how Iran is moving to
             | a whitelisted internet. Or perhaps you believe this will
             | not happen in your country.
             | 
             | I hope for it to happen in my country, with local companies
             | and developers competing to create the new social networks.
             | The current arrangement fine foreign entities too much
             | power.
        
             | johnnyanmac wrote:
             | > perhaps you believe this will not happen in your country.
             | 
             | That would hurt billionaires in America, so I'm not too
             | worried about that gaining traction in my country. Even if
             | it ultimately becomes the next superpower regime.
             | 
             | More relevantly, I wonder of such restrictions would impede
             | the First Amendment even if they did want to try.
        
         | snohobro wrote:
         | Ironically, this may be one of the many straws that breaks the
         | proverbial internet camel's back. We all wax and wane about the
         | old internet, the pre-homogenized, non-corporate, Wild West
         | internet.
         | 
         | Perhaps these constant restrictions will finally spur us to
         | create our own spaces again Our own little groups that exist
         | independent of the corpo-sphere.
         | 
         | The only reason 'the way things used to be' went away was
         | because the new thing was convenient. Well, now it isn't
         | anymore. So let's just go back to the old thing.
        
           | ssl-3 wrote:
           | I yearn for the days of yore when a few of us would co-lo
           | some boxes at a small local ISP we were friendly with, where
           | we'd get to take advantage of their always-on and (at the
           | time) blazing-fast T1 connectivity. It was low-cost for
           | everyone, and we'd host our own services for whatever was
           | useful to us and our friend groups.
           | 
           | On the other hand: It was kind of awful when even my dialup
           | access would get screwed up because someone's IRC server got
           | DDoS'd -- _again_ -- and clogged up the pipes.
           | 
           | ---
           | 
           | These days, the local ISPs are mostly gone. But the pipes are
           | bigger -- it's easy for many of us to get gigabit+
           | connections at home. Unfortunately, the botnets are also
           | bigger.
           | 
           | How do we get back to what we had?
        
             | elevation wrote:
             | Compete with facebook in an area you can actually win.
             | Don't try to be all of a mobile messenger, news feed,
             | telephony platform, marketplace, forum, async messaging...
             | just do one of those things well for a group of users
             | (potentially around a focus.)
             | 
             | Piggy back off of an existing community that has already
             | built trust -- for instance, build a forum for a local
             | activity that often attracts 10+ years of participation and
             | involves equipment. Your board will become the best place
             | for users (who already trust one another) to swap used
             | gear, discuss local venue closures, etc. Adopt moderation
             | metrics that sustain your community (don't let bullies and
             | spammers spoil everyone's experience.)
             | 
             | In 10 years, you can completely replace larger platforms as
             | the community of choice.
        
               | johnnyanmac wrote:
               | >In 10 years, you can completely replace larger platforms
               | as the community of choice.
               | 
               | And by then you have to worry about money to upkeep the
               | platform. You sell off or sell out your users, and the
               | cycle repeats. Even for the most well meaning people, it
               | comes down to the fact that scaling such communication
               | isn't free.
               | 
               | We hear all these stories of eccentric billionaires going
               | all out on their hobbies. Why do we have no eccentric
               | FOSS people who donate to keep such stuff FOSS?
        
               | krater23 wrote:
               | Sorry, but to host a small community on a v-server costs
               | you today 3,50EUR - 15EUR/month, when you can't pay that,
               | you have other problems than the dying internet. It's not
               | 1990 anymore...
        
               | johnnyanmac wrote:
               | Small community, yes. If you want to replace a site on
               | the scale of Discord or Facebook? It does get really
               | expensive.
               | 
               | Having everyone pay in is one strategy. But we have 30
               | years of people used to free and open mass communication.
               | How many will give that up for proper freedoms and
               | protection from state actors?
               | 
               | Heck, it almost always seems like people give up freedoms
               | whenever push comes to shove, no matter the industry or
               | timeline.
        
               | ssl-3 wrote:
               | What if they're not scaled? What if scale is inherently
               | constrained?
               | 
               | Going back a bit further yet, I also miss local BBSs.
               | Some were popular while many others were not. Almost all
               | of them regardless of popularity were a labor of love:
               | Very few BBS sysops ever recovered what was spent to
               | start the thing up and keep it going and it was not,
               | broadly speaking, an inexpensive hobby. It was a mosey-
               | losing operation.
               | 
               | But since long-distance telephone calls were billed by
               | the minute, the systems were geographically-bound by the
               | financial disincentives of far-away users. This made for
               | tight, local communities (often with small dozens of
               | semi-active users, and sometimes even hundreds!) and
               | pretty effectively kept the idea of global domination-
               | style growth off of the table.
               | 
               | So, again: The constraints shaped it to be how it was.
               | 
               | What kinds of constraints might form a path towards to
               | this kind of small success today, in 2026, while there
               | are giants like Meta stomping around?
        
               | johnnyanmac wrote:
               | >What if they're not scaled? What if scale is inherently
               | constrained?
               | 
               | Very possible. I'm on Tildes and its invite only
               | structure prevents the infamous Eternal September effect.
               | It also means that it's nearing a decade and is very much
               | not going to compete with other forums as a platform.
               | 
               | I'm perfectly fine with that. But that doesn't seem to be
               | what people en masse want. They want to connect with all
               | their friends and family, and discover new ones through
               | specialized communities. On a scale of a billion people,
               | that's hard to manage. And if no one principled fills
               | that void, the unprincipled will.
               | 
               | >What kinds of constraints might form a path towards to
               | this kind of small success today, in 2026, while there
               | are giants like Meta stomping around?
               | 
               | Plenty of methods for that, centralized or decentralized.
               | It's less a matter of "do we have the
               | technology/ingenuity" and more "can it defeat the massive
               | network effects?"
        
               | elevation wrote:
               | > scaling such communication isn't free.
               | 
               | So don't scale. There is a sweet spot where a few $2
               | classifieds (e.g, for motor vehicles) will sustain your
               | operating costs, and the high-trust environment keeps
               | moderation efforts/costs low, while the total target
               | audience is too small for most bad actors to bother with.
        
           | grishka wrote:
           | The fediverse already exists.
        
             | MarsIronPI wrote:
             | The fediverse is a mess that only works well about half the
             | time (roughly). The other half federation breaks,
             | moderation becomes impossible, moderators become
             | intolerable but accounts are impossible to migrate.
        
           | johnnyanmac wrote:
           | I have my small little groups. I've walked away from big
           | sites constantly and this won't be an exception. Definitely
           | going to cancel my Nitro today until/unless they revert this.
           | 
           | But leaving is never free. There's a lot of gaming
           | communities (especially niche subcommunities like emulation,
           | speedrunning, modding, etc) that are mostly on Discord and
           | not anywhere else. Many probably won't move. A lot of tribal
           | knowledge will be lost as it's locked in these communities.
           | 
           | Heck, even some FOSS communities communicate mostly on
           | Discord. I have more faith they will move. But not all.
        
           | Atlas667 wrote:
           | The interests of the people who own/control technology, and
           | have the most influence over standards, will make sure you
           | are forced to participate.
           | 
           | And they have always organized society to make sure this is
           | the case. It's not a wacky conspiracy theory. These are just
           | the interests of the people who create and have most
           | influence over tech, and these interests are shared in common
           | amongst most elements of that class. So, this class, the
           | capitalist class, will just plan (conspire) to make it
           | necessary for you to participate.
           | 
           | Viewing tech in this way makes one see that the historic
           | development of tech is not happenstance occurrence, just tech
           | skipping along, unconsciously, into authoritarianism, but as
           | tech being influenced by the interests of the people who have
           | the most influence on its development: those who own it, who
           | are often the same people who determine standards.
           | 
           | The internet was never a free form idea upon which everybody
           | could sway, its a technology owned, controlled and influenced
           | by those who produce it.
           | 
           | They WILL absolutely try to place social/state/labor
           | functions behind this wall of authoritarianism. As they
           | already have, and are currently doing with the growing ban on
           | VPN usage, anti phone rooting measures, anti-"side loading",
           | etc.
           | 
           | It should not be absurd to suggest that the people in power
           | have used, are using, and will use power in their favor.
        
           | MarsIronPI wrote:
           | > Perhaps these constant restrictions will finally spur us to
           | create our own spaces again Our own little groups that exist
           | independent of the corpo-sphere.
           | 
           | The normies already did this. They just did it on centralized
           | platforms like Discord. Until their backs get broken we're
           | not getting anywhere. (Although I may be being a little too
           | cynical.)
        
         | elevation wrote:
         | I helped an elderly woman create her first FB account. She'd
         | just lost her husband and wanted to notify his friends about
         | his upcoming memorial service. She knew their names but didn't
         | have contact information.
         | 
         | We created the account from an Apple device, registering from
         | her home cable modem IP, giving FB her cellphone number and ISP
         | issued email address -- all strong signals of consumer
         | authenticity. But after she added five of her relatives within
         | half an hour, her account was locked for suspicious activity.
         | 
         | There was an appeal button; she was asked to take a picture of
         | her face from many angles and upload ID. She gave them
         | everything they asked for, but when Facebook reviewed the
         | appeal, they closed her account permanently.
        
           | alex1138 wrote:
           | Mark Zuckerberg, folks. It matters when his default
           | philosophy is "They trust me dumb fucks". Copying Snapchat 9
           | times is more of a priority than account security. He wasn't
           | "making a good point". He's a malicious asshole who deserved
           | jail years ago
        
           | retired wrote:
           | It sure beats the Reddit system where you think you are
           | interacting with people, only to find out a couple of days
           | later that your fresh account is shadow-banned and nobody is
           | seeing your comments and that none of your likes went
           | through.
           | 
           | At least Facebook tells you that you are banned.
        
             | kps wrote:
             | Reddit and HN.
        
               | perching_aix wrote:
               | Since when does HN have shadowbans?
        
               | phpnode wrote:
               | since almost forever, that's what the "show dead" toggle
               | in your profile settings is for - it shows the dead posts
               | from shadow banned people
        
               | andersa wrote:
               | I always assumed that those were posts that got flagged
               | too often.
        
               | daneel_w wrote:
               | "Spamming", or rather, responding too quickly in an
               | intense discussion, is cause for automatic shadowban here
               | on HN. It happened to me on a previous account some years
               | ago. The posts themselves were harmless, I merely
               | responded to too many users in a too short timeframe. My
               | attempts at having the ban undone also turned out to be a
               | waste of time. Completely absurd.
        
               | alex1138 wrote:
               | I wasn't aware HN had it, but considering the number of
               | [flagged] by people who work for big tech I'm sure some
               | people actually posting truthful things have ended up on
               | the shadowban list
        
             | dymk wrote:
             | No, FB has their own shadowban system
        
             | qingcharles wrote:
             | Tip: You can always tell if you are banned on Reddit by
             | accessing the shadowban appeal page which is only visible
             | if you are shadowbanned yourself:
             | 
             | https://reddit.com/appeal
        
           | chamomeal wrote:
           | Last year I finally caved and tried to sign up for instagram.
           | It's tragic but it's almost like a second internet. So many
           | small business and bands only have instagram. So many lil
           | communities post their events only on instagram. I always
           | have to ask friends with instagram to tell me when a brewery
           | is open, when a show starts, etc.
           | 
           | So I tried to sign up (and I already HAVE an active facebook
           | account from high school, with hundreds of friends) and it
           | wanted me to scan my face. I did it, which I regret, only to
           | be told five days later that I am too suspicious. So here I
           | am, still locked out of all this information lmao
        
             | MostlyStable wrote:
             | While I recognize that, as a business who needs reach, they
             | kind of need to be using these websites where everyone is,
             | I really wonder how difficult it would be to mirror
             | everything they post to some more open and accessible
             | location (a self hosted webpage, anything). I can't blame
             | them for using Instagram/Facebook/whatever, but I _can_
             | blame them for using nothing _but_ that site. It would
             | almost certainly get very little traffic so it wouldn 't
             | need much bandwidth and costs should be low, and it would
             | be a lot more consumer friendly.
        
           | mixmastamyk wrote:
           | Not to defend, but to understand. Last year our old "High
           | School class of 19NN" group received about a dozen join
           | requests per week from bogus accounts for a couple of years.
           | At first they were trivial to discriminate because they were
           | folks located on the opposite side of the Earth. But over
           | time they became filled with pictures and names of (randomly
           | generated?) Americans.
           | 
           | I could still tell because their profiles were sterile and
           | had few normal comments or likes etc. Also a high school
           | class has a very narrow age range. We recently landed a fatal
           | blow by disallowing joins by "pages" and adding a few
           | questions. A trickle continued but stopped recently.
           | 
           | The hamfisted false positive response you described is
           | probably a result of the above.
        
             | tintor wrote:
             | `I could still tell because their profiles were sterile`
             | 
             | That is exactly example that parent posted about. Not every
             | fb user is addicted to it, and has used it for long time.
        
           | jmaker wrote:
           | Many consumer banking apps have begun integrating similar
           | identity verification third-party providers. They are very
           | inaccurate.
           | 
           | Sometimes it works with the front camera on one smartphone
           | but doesn't with another (iPhone 17's distortion), sometimes
           | it recognizes your face on one day, but desperately fails to
           | recognize you on another. I had to repeatedly record videos
           | for it only to fail over and over again. Anything their
           | system flags as suspicious, anything, will trigger the same
           | video identification flow again, which effectively blocks
           | your money in the account.
           | 
           | I'm closing my accounts with a couple of banks with these
           | video id flows. Simply because it's way too easy to lose
           | access to my money in the account with them. If their QA is
           | not good enough for this vital requirement, I don't want to
           | know how they treat other requirements. They simply
           | outsourced the id verification to some third parties that are
           | way too unreliable.
        
             | mihaaly wrote:
             | When I researched a bank learning they want to use some
             | third party never-herd-of identification service on me was
             | the moment I knew I do not want to share any of my personal
             | details and consumer habits with that so called bank. They
             | do not care enough to pretend they keep all my data in-
             | house.
        
               | jmaker wrote:
               | I've got the feeling that it's spreading and is soon to
               | become the default.
               | 
               | Another banking app has failed to identify me a couple of
               | times (I attribute it to iPhone 17's front camera
               | distortion) and fell back to the snail mail id code as a
               | 2nd factor. It arrived only several business days later.
               | Instead of just letting me use my own 2nd factor such as
               | a TOTP device or a physical security key. But maybe there
               | are some legal requirements for that flow, I'm out of the
               | loop.
               | 
               | So there's a whole range between passkey-is-enough on one
               | end and outsourced video id or snail mail for 2nd factor
               | on the other. The latter can of course be misused to
               | siphon as much personal information as possible out of
               | you, even linking and scraping your other banking
               | accounts for consumer profiling - designed as a requisite
               | part of the authentication/authorization flow.
        
             | tintor wrote:
             | Can you elaborate on this and tells us which banks?
        
           | kstrauser wrote:
           | My sister died a few years ago. A couple of months later,
           | someone created an account with her name and profile pic and
           | started inviting family members. Quite frankly, I would have
           | been ready to brawl with this person if I were in a room with
           | them.
           | 
           | I feel very badly for your friend. Unfortunately, those
           | completely benign actions look identical to a common identity
           | theft pattern.
        
           | burnte wrote:
           | > There was an appeal button; she was asked to take a picture
           | of her face from many angles and upload ID. She gave them
           | everything they asked for, but when Facebook reviewed the
           | appeal, they closed her account permanently.
           | 
           | I can't speak for every company, but I know with Facebook and
           | Paypal, these requests generally are from automated systems
           | and the chances of successfully reopening the account is well
           | under 1%. The info you submit is not viewed by a human and
           | the systems are mostly treated as a way to lighten the load
           | on human support staff. They don't care if your account is
           | reopened, they just want you to feel like you had a chance,
           | did all you could, and then just give up.
           | 
           | I discovered this about 20 years ago dealing with Paypal. I
           | happened to know someone who worked in Paypal engineering at
           | the time. I had a well established account, a Paypal debit
           | card, linked accounts, etc., everything you could need to
           | feel good about an account.
           | 
           | Out of the blue it was suspended and I was sent into this
           | system to send in verification documents. I gave everything
           | it wanted. First it was ID, then a "utility bill" so I sent
           | over my phone bill. That wasn't acceptable because it didn't
           | prove I lived at my address for some reason, so I sent a
           | natural gas bill. Even though that did have to be tied to a
           | physical address (you can't deliver gas wirelessly!) I was
           | asked for an electric bill. Then the lease. Then a bank
           | statement. Every time I gave it pretty quickly. Then I was
           | asked for a passport. I didn't have one. Suddenly that was
           | the only thing that could unlock my account and as soon as
           | they had the passport my account would be reopened. Nothing
           | further would be done without a passport, not even
           | communication.
           | 
           | I asked my friend to look into it. She said, "that's on
           | purpose, that's the NoBot. It gets people out of support's
           | hair." Turns out if you let unhappy customers complain to
           | humans on the phone they will, so some exec decided to
           | improve call center metrics by forcing customers into a
           | system designed to keep them occupied until they gave up. You
           | funneled people into it, and it would continue to reject
           | their submissions with new reasons infinitely. It just went
           | through a list of things to ask for, and when it found one
           | you couldn't provide, suddenly that was the key and without
           | it you were screwed.
           | 
           | Companies still do this today.
        
         | lp4v4n wrote:
         | My friend has a restaurant and showed me the ad he wanted to
         | promote on Instagram about a pizza coupon was suspended for
         | breaking the guidelines, they mentioned gambling or something.
         | I was quite impressed. When you see that one of the
         | "magnificent 7" is dysfunctional to that level, it's hard not
         | to think we're living the last decades of American economic
         | hegemony, by now propelled mostly by inertial monopolies than
         | anything else.
        
           | elevation wrote:
           | The big ad networks want a cut from business users and will
           | actively suppress posts from business accounts that haven't
           | paid up.
           | 
           | But instead of paying Instagram for reach, consider taking
           | the same budget and spending it delivering samples and
           | coupons to other local businesses mid/late morning. Bonus
           | points if you make the coupons unique for each delivery so
           | you can track which local businesses are your biggest fans.
           | Office managers are generally receptive to this kind of cold
           | call and you can leave a catering menu. Catering gigs can
           | keep your kitchen busy during the off hours.
        
         | johnnyanmac wrote:
         | Yeah, same here. I tried logging in years back and they wanted
         | my driver's license. My last comment must have been in 2013 or
         | so.
         | 
         | I don't see it as the journey's end. But it's gonna be a much
         | quieter road if most people don't walk away from this stuff.
         | Maybe that's for the best.
        
         | erghjunk wrote:
         | I have a similar story. I quit in like 2016 or so and 9ish
         | years later I wanted to shop for a used car for my oldest kid.
         | I know already, of course, that Facebook now holds a monopoly
         | on peer to peer sales of goods like that so I tried to make a
         | new Facebook account. I was denied at the creation and told I
         | had to try again with a video of my face (which I begrudgingly
         | did) at which point I was denied AGAIN and told there was no
         | appeals process.
        
           | PaulDavisThe1st wrote:
           | > a monopoly on peer to peer sales of goods like that
           | 
           | I don't know ... around these parts (Santa Fe/ABQ) while
           | Marketplace is very popular, Craigslist continues to be
           | widely used for this, especially since an ever growing number
           | of younger people are not on Facebook (either at all, or not
           | regularly).
        
             | erghjunk wrote:
             | I would be just fine with a return to Craigslist but it's
             | still mostly useless in my neck of the woods despite once
             | being the main (digital) tool for p2p sales.
        
         | guerrilla wrote:
         | Twitter (before Musk) and Facebook did the same thing to me...
         | and that was a long time ago.
         | 
         | Discord tried to do it to me a few months ago but I refused,
         | contacted support instead. Eventually they made it work but it
         | took forever. Lucky for me I hate Discord so tried to avoid it
         | anyway.
        
         | zer0zzz wrote:
         | I had the same experience when I deleted my FB then years later
         | reregistered one using the same email. I think thats kind of a
         | good thing in some ways, specifically in the FB case because I
         | wouldnt want someone to go online saying they are me when they
         | are not.
        
         | paranoidrobot wrote:
         | Instagram did a similar thing for me back in 2016-ish.
         | 
         | A family member had been sharing some photos they were taking,
         | but only on Instagram.
         | 
         | So I signed up an account, verified via email and phone number.
         | I wasn't initially able to find the family member's account. A
         | week later after I got the spelling of their username right,
         | Instagram popped up "Your account has been suspended". They
         | then sent me an email saying I needed to take a photo of myself
         | holding government ID, and a piece of paper with a hand-written
         | code they supplied, plus a close-up photo of said government
         | ID. No way was I supplying all that just to be able to browse
         | some photos.
        
         | cryptoegorophy wrote:
         | Do you not buy/sell on marketplace? I guess this might be a
         | wrong website to ask such questions.
        
       | Venn1 wrote:
       | I set up a forum when I started my site for Linux content
       | creation. Discord had become a black hole for technical know-how
       | on a scale IRC could never dream of, and finding answers to
       | common questions was nigh impossible since the technology has
       | changed and the modern way to solve problem X was never asked in
       | a forum and never indexed by a search engine. Granted, Reddit
       | provided a bit of a stopgap over the last decade, but the
       | solutions in the comments these days are more often than not a
       | confidently incorrect copy-pasta from GPT.
       | 
       | I use Discord for chat and voice calls since that is what I
       | expect from a chat app, but the amount of companies that have
       | built their community / knowledge base / support system around
       | Discord is worrying. You know they can just delete that, right?
       | 
       | I'll continue to use Discord for chat until prompted to put my
       | face in the hole :)
        
       | nickstinemates wrote:
       | Key changes are
       | 
       | - ID verification to see porn on Discord.
       | 
       | - Also, some warnings to not befriend stangers.
       | 
       | Not very heavy handed, you can google porn anytime. I am not sure
       | who this serves.
        
         | WorldMaker wrote:
         | It serves UK, EU, and various US States' regulations to
         | "protect the kids".
         | 
         | Discord is only the next biggest canary in the coal mine. These
         | regulations are going to force a lot more websites and apps to
         | do this, too.
         | 
         | I wish these sorts of regulations had been written hand-in-hand
         | with a more directly technically-minded approach. The world
         | needs a better technical way to try to verify a person's
         | estimated age cohort without a full ID check and/or AI-analyzed
         | video face scan _before_ we start regulating  "every" website
         | that may post "adult content" (however you choose to define
         | that) starts to require such checks.
        
       | anon_cow1111 wrote:
       | It should go without saying but,
       | 
       | *CANCEL YOUR NITRO SUBSCRIPTION NOW IF YOU'RE PAYING FOR ONE*
       | (for whatever reason)
       | 
       | This was just announced today and a flood of canceled payments
       | within the next 24 hours are the easiest way to send a message.
       | And also tell people on the servers you're on to do the same.
       | It's not like they give you anything of real value for that
       | money.
        
         | pipo234 wrote:
         | Not a subscriber, but I understand your call for retribution.
         | 
         | I suppose the silver lining is that they are putting the
         | responsibility for age verification adults. Which imo is better
         | than requiring everyone; kids get a free pass to the kids
         | stuff...
        
           | hahn-kev wrote:
           | Yeah I agree. I actually see most of the stuff in the teens
           | mode as a feature
        
             | anon_cow1111 wrote:
             | I'll reply for both you and GPP,
             | 
             | I don't know if this will personally affect any servers I
             | use since they're not obviously adult, but I assume the
             | slope will be slippery and if they're doing a faceID system
             | now it will only get worse. Article says "analyze a user's
             | video selfie, which Discord says never leaves the user's
             | device"
             | 
             | ...are they really going to implement a facial recognition
             | algo in the browser, or is this a "download our app or fuck
             | off" situation? I'm guessing the latter.
        
               | johnnyanmac wrote:
               | I pay for nitro as of now (not for much longer). If
               | absolutely nothing else, I'm not going to give them
               | monthly payments (which generally required a CC. Aka "I'm
               | an adult") and still not be trusted to be an adult.
               | 
               | And that's the thing, these policies are always loose and
               | will be abused.
               | 
               | - M rated game? Okay, it's adult only now. Sure.
               | 
               | - Emulators? Well they can play adult stuff. Now they
               | just happen to add friction on something that is
               | convenient for billionaire studios.
               | 
               | - LGBT content? Well you're talking about sexuality. Of
               | course you need to be an adult. Here let's take face
               | scans and totally not be a sitting duck for any malicious
               | parties looking to identify traditionally disenfranchised
               | people
               | 
               | The escalation is fairly obvious at this point. We've
               | seen it happen in real time.
        
         | WhyNotHugo wrote:
         | Discord has been immensely hostile to the public in general
         | since forever, and people love to flock to it and throw money
         | at the company behind it.
         | 
         | I don't expect the masses to change their incomprehensible
         | habits just because of this.
        
           | Choco31415 wrote:
           | It's not incomprehensible. Discord makes it so much easier to
           | organize communities than most other platforms.
           | 
           | Telegram, Slack, Facebook, Team Speak, Reddit, GroupMe,
           | nothing really offers the same feature set and ease of setup
           | that Discord does.
        
             | swiftcoder wrote:
             | > nothing really offers the same feature set and ease of
             | setup that Discord does
             | 
             | Apart from the open voice channels, what Discord features
             | is Slack actually lacking? (and huddles can sub-in for
             | voice channels much of the time)
        
               | thinkling wrote:
               | Most importantly, Slack limits the amount of message
               | history you get to keep if you're not paying. And the
               | payment plans are per-user fees which quickly becomes
               | non-viable for non-commercial use.
        
               | karaziox wrote:
               | This doesn't feel like a real question... Slack free tier
               | is basically crappy Discord, limited message history, no
               | voice channels, huddles are also behind the paying tiers.
               | It is basically worse on all aspects unless you start
               | paying
        
               | chocolatkey wrote:
               | A nonprofit I help out just moved from Slack to Discord
               | for a very simple reason: Slack pricing was too
               | expensive, and as the amount of people increased, the
               | price continues to climb. Discord is free
        
               | jdranczewski wrote:
               | For large communities, the very granular role-based
               | permission system of Discord can be put to some good use,
               | I don't think Slack has a trivially equivalent feature.
        
               | tempestn wrote:
               | The biggest one for me is that Discord will keep all
               | history for free servers, whereas Slack only gives you
               | access to 3 months iirc (and as of a year or two ago, has
               | started permanently deleting older content).
        
             | BobaFloutist wrote:
             | How many of them let me turn up/down or mute individual
             | participants in a group voice call?
        
         | bilekas wrote:
         | Thank you for reminding me, I've been meaning to cancel for
         | months but it's only 2.50EUR and having to sign into my apple
         | account was such an effort I never got around to it.
        
         | mkaic wrote:
         | Just cancelled mine after reading this comment, I only really
         | cared about the bigger file uploads and the HD screen-sharing
         | anyways and I can live without those.
         | 
         | Now that I think of it, I bet I could host a decent instance of
         | some open-source alternative in a public cloud for around the
         | same cost as what I paid for Nitro ($100 a year)...
        
         | mdavidn wrote:
         | It boggles my mind that they need a photo ID to prove that my
         | 9-year-old account with a saved credit card belongs to an
         | adult. The linked Steam account is 18 years old.
        
           | doctorpangloss wrote:
           | Yeah because they don't haha. It boggles the mind because the
           | headline is clickbait.
        
         | airstrike wrote:
         | Cancelled
        
       | gloosx wrote:
       | can't wait to beat it with a face-swap or some random driving
       | license found on the internet
        
       | pjmlp wrote:
       | Great, yet another reason not to use it.
        
       | gigel82 wrote:
       | It's clear "age verification" is not something we'll get rid of,
       | so I think instead we should push for a publicly verifiable
       | double-blind (zero-knowledge proof) solution that can ensure it
       | only gives the websites a boolean and doesn't allow correlation
       | from either side.
       | 
       | The alternative is having to give your ID to Facebook, Google,
       | Microsoft, and all the other bad actors...
        
       | areoform wrote:
       | There's a special phenomenon that happens as startups grow large.
       | They begin to drift away from the ground truth of their product,
       | their users and how it's used. It's a drift away from users. And
       | a drift towards internal politics. A lot like Rasmussen's drift
       | towards danger, https://risk-engineering.org/concept/Rasmussen-
       | practical-dri...
       | 
       | As startups grow beyond a critical threshold, they start to
       | attract a certain type of person who is more interested in
       | mercenarily growing within the company / setting themselves up
       | for future corporate rise than building a product. These people
       | play to the company's internal court and create deeply bitter
       | environments that leads to more mission-driven individuals
       | leaving the company.
       | 
       | Which is why we end up with decisions like OnlyFans hitting $1B /
       | yr in revenue (with extreme profitability) off of porn and then
       | deciding to ban porn,
       | https://www.ft.com/content/5468f11b-cb98-4f72-8fb2-63b9623b7...
       | 
       | Or, Digg deciding to kill its "bury" button and doing a radical
       | "redesign" that made Reddit worth billions.
       | 
       | Unity's decision to update its pricing. Sonos' app "redesign" etc
       | etc.
       | 
       | Corporate vampires will cheerfully slaughter your golden goose.
       | Or, in the best case, severely cripple it.
        
         | tyleo wrote:
         | I don't think this is a phenomenon. At the best places I've
         | worked, I've seen success correlated with actual user value.
         | You do find climbers at certain places but I tend to think it's
         | a large reason they fail.
         | 
         | Also, I don't think your OnlyFans analogy holds up. My
         | understanding is that their threat to ban porn was a stunt. A
         | pretty effective one.
        
           | tyre wrote:
           | Do you have reading on it being a stunt? That seems like a
           | huge gamble. You're basically inviting competitors and
           | pissing off your supply (content creators.)
           | 
           | If they view you as unstable, unreliable, or adversely
           | motivated, they will look for alternatives to at minimum
           | diversify. It's their livelihood.
        
             | tyleo wrote:
             | I don't know for sure but it's been implied that it was an
             | intentional action to garner public outrage at the banks
             | who wanted to stop processing their transactions.
        
         | guluarte wrote:
         | that's true, guilds moved to discord because it was easier to
         | use than teamspeak
        
         | canada_dry wrote:
         | In pretty much all cases, the companies in question had peaked
         | were experiencing declining growth and attempting to do a hail-
         | Mary... and failed miserably.
         | 
         | Compare Digg and slash. One completely died, the other has
         | stuck with its formula and hasn't disappeared, but has just
         | faded into irrelevance.
        
         | marcd35 wrote:
         | I think this decision is more defensive than "losing touch with
         | their customers." The winds are shifting in other countries
         | that are cracking down on social media use for children.
         | Discord does not want to get caught in the shit storm of legal
         | issues if they fail to comply. This is a proactive measure.
        
           | Aerroon wrote:
           | Yeah, this really seems like it's our politicians screwing
           | us. The older I get the more harmful politicians seem to be.
        
             | johnnyanmac wrote:
             | If you're in a democracy, that's the call to pay attention
             | and vote in helpful representatives.
        
               | Aerroon wrote:
               | There are no helpful representatives is the problem. It
               | doesn't matter who you vote for, because they're all just
               | varying degrees of bad.
               | 
               | There isn't a single politician I could vote for that
               | could improve this situation. Even if there was, they
               | would just get swept away by the ocean of people who
               | actually believe in this "think of the children"
               | narrative.
        
           | nemomarx wrote:
           | This is the real issue, and it's why just cancelling your
           | discord subs and moving to stoat or etc isn't a solid long-
           | term strategy. If KOSA passes in the us basically every
           | platform will have to do something like this.
        
             | johnnyanmac wrote:
             | That's a big if. And yes, if push comes to shove I guess
             | I'll become a forum pirate. I won't tie my real ID up in
             | anymore private servers than absolutely necessary (which as
             | of now is governmental entities and banks, a highly
             | regulated sector).
        
               | nemomarx wrote:
               | I don't think it's that big of an if anymore - there's
               | worldwide pressure and interest groups to get some kind
               | of age check on all these companies, at least. Keep some
               | alternate contacts for friends at least
        
               | johnnyanmac wrote:
               | There's always been pressure. People have been fighting
               | for decades on this. The only thing that's changed is how
               | they've tried to disenfranchise dissent.
               | 
               | There still is push back, so I won't say this is a losing
               | battle. I'll keep fighting regardless.
               | 
               | >Keep some alternate contacts for friends at least
               | 
               | They know where to reach me. Whether they care enough to
               | go outside their gardens to talk is another matter.
        
             | areoform wrote:
             | Multi-billion dollar corporations have never had any
             | problems lobbying for their interests before.
             | 
             | Perhaps collecting everyone's messages, social links,
             | scanning their faces, and then adding ID data in for
             | "ground truth" is the real interest here?
        
               | nemomarx wrote:
               | They were already collecting everyone's messages and
               | social links, and would still be doing it without this.
               | But I'm not sure if the age verification / ID collection
               | is really as useful for advertising compared to just
               | being able to read all of your chats, right?
        
           | areoform wrote:
           | > this decision is more defensive
           | 
           | That is prioritizing internal politics over the realities of
           | their product. The Discord userbase is young. And it serves a
           | variety of use cases / the same account can be used to access
           | open source communities, coordinate video game time with
           | friends, interact professionally, and have a supercharged
           | group chat for close IRL friends.
           | 
           | In other words, Discord is the app where maladjusted early
           | 20-something leaked classified data to impress his teenage
           | friends. https://www.washingtonpost.com/discord-leaks/
           | 
           | Any decision that isn't along the Apple's hard privacy stance
           | lines, "we'll protect user privacy" is prioritizing the
           | discomfort of that decision over the user base / use case.
        
           | Morromist wrote:
           | I think this is about "losing touch with their customers" and
           | the need to IPO and make money from the customers.
           | 
           | The thing is, most of discords users are in countries which
           | haven't yet passed laws that ban children from using apps
           | like discord. If they were privacy focused they could do this
           | only where the law requires it, like Australia.
        
         | jabroni_salad wrote:
         | I think this is actually a different growth problem, which is
         | that they became so large that several countries are designing
         | new regulations that specifically target them. I think discord
         | is trying to spin this into a regulation-as-moat opportunity
         | instead of dying by a thousand papercuts.
        
       | m132 wrote:
       | There's a bright side to this. With people getting used to every
       | website casually requiring a face scan and ID pic, setting up
       | phishing campaigns and opening rogue bank accounts is going to
       | become easier than ever.
        
       | montacir_AL wrote:
       | no more discord GenZ
        
       | hxegon wrote:
       | Honestly I think this is necessary. I'm not sure how heavy handed
       | their exact implementation of stuff like content filtering would
       | be, but I've seen way too much sketchy stuff on discord servers.
       | Predators, blackmail, harassment campaigns, it's not great and a
       | lot of the servers I'm in already require ID verification by mods
       | to even chat in general. It'd be great if this was opt-in on a
       | server by server basis but I could see that being a problem too.
       | 
       | I've seen way too many governments / companies use "protect the
       | children" as a way to try and push overreaching garbage policy,
       | however I think this one actually might help.
       | 
       | That said, depends on exact details of how they want to do this.
       | We'll see how it goes.
        
         | sneak wrote:
         | Showing ID doesn't stop crime or criminals, or stop fake
         | accounts.
         | 
         | I'm simply going to scan someone else's ID to keep my account.
        
       | ballooney wrote:
       | What are your favourite active irc channels for technical
       | hobbies?
        
       | serf wrote:
       | to everyone that tried to persuade me to move my projects from
       | forums to discord :
       | 
       | phpBB never made me scan my face.
        
       | anonnon wrote:
       | Thanks to all the OSS projects that adopted this in preference to
       | mailing lists to better appeal to zoomers. (And note that while
       | these projects often do still have mailing lists, most of the
       | actual discussion now takes place on Discord, behind an
       | authwall.)
        
       | psychoslave wrote:
       | I'm so glad I always refused to accept this one.
       | 
       | I don't know what people need as lesson. We already have so many
       | FLOW options, and yet they are so many running after the last
       | shiny ready for enshitification ready to go platform.
       | 
       | Expect them to sell your whole life to whatever party with enough
       | money to throw at their face.
        
       | sneak wrote:
       | Reminder: "age verification" is just another way of spelling
       | "every single user of the service must provide a government ID to
       | use it".
        
       | jesse_dot_id wrote:
       | No thanks
        
       | AbraKdabra wrote:
       | Yeah good fucking luck with that. Time for the "discord
       | alternatives" search on Google.
        
       | dgxyz wrote:
       | My social group are moving to a private IRC server already. This
       | is probably the best outcome really. I don't think any of us are
       | under 50. But we have relatives who remember when this would have
       | resulted in some of us being killed. I wish I was
       | sensationalising but I'm not.
        
       | eshack94 wrote:
       | Is this the final straw that kills their platform?
        
       | jonstaab wrote:
       | FOSS, optionally self-hosted alternative built on nostr:
       | https://flotilla.social/
        
       | hollow-moe wrote:
       | Glad I left months ago
        
         | toephu2 wrote:
         | Glad I never signed up to begin with
        
       | mlsu wrote:
       | This is coming for all web-based services soon. Don't think for a
       | second it's just Discord.
       | 
       | It's just a small step ahead of "phone number required" auth.
        
       | Kim_Bruning wrote:
       | IIRC EU was going for a zero-knowledge-proof of age system, but I
       | guess discord isn't going to be using that then. (I don't think
       | the ZKP system is available yet)
       | 
       | (here's part of it: https://digital-
       | strategy.ec.europa.eu/en/news/commission-rel... )
        
       | iugtmkbdfil834 wrote:
       | It was nice while it lasted. Account removed. I understand the
       | rationale and I don't care anyway. It is a shame, because one of
       | the niche forums I was occasionally visiting there does not offer
       | other locations.. but I would like to think this may change
       | people's mind.
       | 
       | Yay to further fragmentation:D
        
       | poidos wrote:
       | Been meaning to cancel nitro and move off to Matrix or something,
       | thanks for the push Discord!
        
       | smcleod wrote:
       | I truly do hope this sinks Discord. It's a dreadful platform and
       | an information black hole.
        
       | moi2388 wrote:
       | Calling it right now. There will be a data breach and we'll find
       | out they in fact did not delete the ID data.
        
       | SirensOfTitan wrote:
       | I miss the era of Internet forums. They didn't need to be
       | federated, just simple deployments of MyBB, vBulletin, PHP,
       | Xenforo and so on.
       | 
       | I made a lot of friends on those communities growing up, and it
       | inspired me to go into software because I saw how it brought
       | people together.
       | 
       | And I still sorely miss the WhatCD forums. While I didn't make
       | any friends there, it shaped my early experiences with music
       | which still reverberates through me today.
       | 
       | Even with the reinvigoration of new ideas from LLMs, tech feels
       | like it has been languishing for well over a decade at this
       | point. The playbook is to disrupt traditional industry at a loss,
       | then enshittify when competitors are gone. A lot of tech plays
       | really feel like some form of: bring the yellow pages into the
       | digital realm and overcharge for facilitating that access.
       | Finding a firm that even uses AI outside of a chatbot UX is rare.
        
         | duncanscomments wrote:
         | >And I still sorely miss the WhatCD forums. While I didn't make
         | any friends there, it shaped my early experiences with music
         | which still reverberates through me today.
         | 
         | Could not relate to this more. Spent my formative years in
         | those forums and they genuinely helped mold many of the tastes
         | and interests that have stuck with me into adulthood. Not to
         | over-romanticize, at the end of the day it was just a forum on
         | a music tracker - but the sense of community and sheer
         | diversity of thread topics made it such an interesting place to
         | peruse.
         | 
         | Discord certainly has its applications. But since it became the
         | defacato community tool, I find it essentially useless.
         | Discussions are ephemeral (from a UX standpoint at least), and
         | much more constrained. Its difficult to lurk and only chime in
         | now and then unless you're regularly online.
        
       | hinata08 wrote:
       | I hope Discord understands the risks they pose to their audience
       | when they open source their IDs again.
       | 
       | Discord is used by a bunch of closeted users having pseudos, who
       | wouldn't do the same activities on it if everyone had their
       | names.
       | 
       | A part of the Discord users is from countries from which Discord
       | isn't even officially accessible (eg China) or where involvement
       | in LGBT discussions could result to death row (Afghanis are still
       | on Discord)
       | 
       | For me, a company that open sourced 70,000 IDs and ask for
       | moooooore just weeks later is just a joke about the sharing
       | economy
       | 
       | The problem isn't even for new users. Some users have over a
       | decade of private hobbies and will now need to associate their
       | governement ID to their profile. Discord pinky swears they ask
       | but don't keep this time, which isn't enough.
       | 
       | Companies shouldn't be allowed to change such fundamental ToS
       | after an account is created.
        
         | lanyard-textile wrote:
         | +1.
         | 
         | It's a push out.
         | 
         | That's fine. We'll take our attention elsewhere.
        
       | ryanmcbride wrote:
       | Finally the kids will be safe. We did it everyone! /s
        
       | storus wrote:
       | I use Discord to talk to university students (top 10 in CS) and
       | it only works with university email. I am wondering if I am going
       | to be treated as <13 from now on as well or if they waive it in
       | our case.
        
         | jcranmer wrote:
         | It is possible for 12-year-olds to attend university.
        
       | reactordev wrote:
       | So glad I never put my eggs in the discord basket
        
       | lacoolj wrote:
       | So how do we know (other than obvious, NSFW servers) if we are in
       | a server that is not "teen appropriate"? I don't feel the need to
       | prove I'm old af, so if I'm in a server for sports betting, is
       | that not teen appropriate? What about a pokemon server with a lot
       | of swearing? Or just a custom server made by a friend for web
       | dev, but has lots of random politics thrown around?
       | 
       | I really just don't know what isn't "safe" for teens, so
       | hopefully this will be pretty clear somewhere.
        
       | unixhero wrote:
       | Good to reduce fraud, isn't this zero trust in practice.
        
       | bilekas wrote:
       | So a good EU OpenSource alternative : https://stoat.chat/
       | formerly known as Revolt.
        
       | 8xeh wrote:
       | They'll have to "partner" with some company that's in the
       | business of building a database of IDs and biometrics to do AI
       | things with. Other companies in this space (Jumio) have a bad
       | habit of ignoring privacy laws and will keep your information for
       | years.
       | 
       | I wouldn't mind showing my ID to a person (in person), but
       | there's no way I'm letting some company get a scan of my ID or
       | passport to store in some giant database that's a rich target for
       | hackers. Might as well give them access to all my bank accounts
       | (Plaid) too.
       | 
       | (It sure would be nice if there were a national privacy law in
       | the US.)
       | 
       | Also, it's illegal for companies to use facial recognition in my
       | jurisdiction, so if I allowed them to "verify" me, they'd be
       | breaking the law.
        
       | bilekas wrote:
       | When will it be normalized to be able to say "Parents should just
       | be doing their job" before we decide to ruin everything online
       | for everyone else.
       | 
       | Although I know it's not really about protecting the kids. I
       | wonder if the politicians are exempt from this too as they were
       | chat control.
       | 
       | > The scanning would apply to all EU citizens, except EU
       | politicians. They might exempt themselves from the law under
       | "professional secrecy" rules.
       | 
       | https://nextcloud.com/blog/how-the-eu-chat-control-law-is-a-...
       | 
       | What about my "PERSONAL SECRECY" ?
        
         | EduardoBautista wrote:
         | Saying parents should be doing their jobs will lose you votes,
         | that's why. Anything that implies personal responsibility is
         | political suicide.
        
           | AlexandrB wrote:
           | Parents need to have personal responsibility, but
           | corporations get to use section 230 to absolve themselves of
           | any. Game seems rigged.
        
           | bilekas wrote:
           | As soon as politicians are also included in these acts, then
           | you could see a shift in their opinions.
        
           | janalsncm wrote:
           | Passing off responsibility to parents is already the status
           | quo. Hardly political suicide.
           | 
           | Saying that companies should face some level of
           | responsibility for their products is the dangerous move.
           | That's part of why the Internet has barely been regulated.
        
         | npunt wrote:
         | Any idea that is based on "If everyone just..." is wishful
         | thinking. Describe the mechanism by which you convince everyone
         | to just do something.
        
           | blharr wrote:
           | Sure, but the ID solution is an "if everyone just gives up
           | their privacy / anonymity / sensitive data" and the mechanism
           | is by denial of service
           | 
           | In fact its worse. Every site must also implement this
           | security check. Or everyone must agree to just use sites and
           | services that follow this policy. Otherwise anyone can just
           | use another, often 'less safe' website.
        
             | npunt wrote:
             | I'm not advocating for that either, I'm only pointing out
             | that "if everyone just" is a collective action problem that
             | is a non-solution because it doesn't describe the mechanism
             | by which everyone does something.
             | 
             | Your example confuses the locus of control. The platform is
             | making the choice and relies on user _inaction_ rather than
             | action. Users as a whole basically always descend
             | gradients, and if they like  / are addicted to the service,
             | they'll descend with enough momentum to carry them over
             | one-time friction like an ID check. The null hypothesis is
             | they continue using the service. For it to be an "if
             | everyone just" answer, it would be "if everyone just
             | decided to stop using these extremely sticky services"
             | because that is the de facto choice they are presented
             | with. And it similarly suffers from an "if everyone just"
             | lack of plausible mechanism.
             | 
             | The point of calling out non-solutions masquerading as
             | solutions is to keep people's energy focused on possible
             | but unstated solutions, rather than spending time blaming
             | people for behavior largely determined by myriad immovable
             | circumstances.
        
         | janalsncm wrote:
         | I have a friend who is a social worker. Hearing stories from
         | them, I think people severely overestimate the level of
         | involvement that many parents have with their kids. Social
         | workers who are checking in on middle school kids at the
         | hospital with burn marks on their arms or elementary school
         | kids who showed up under the influence of cannabis aren't also
         | going to have time to enforce online safety.
         | 
         | If this is what it means for a parent to "do their job" then
         | what do you propose happens to parents who are unwilling or
         | unable to police their kids' Discord account?
         | 
         | For this reason, I think we are seeing the beginning of the end
         | of low-trust social media. They can't tell if a user is a child
         | or even a human. People will move to things like group chats
         | because they don't rely on sending your ID to a verification
         | service in the Philippines.
        
           | bunderbunder wrote:
           | Parents are just burnt out, I think. Online spaces have
           | become so consolidated and enshittified that it's seriously a
           | choice between basically keeping them offline - which is a
           | very socially isolating thing to be these days - and letting
           | a small number of faux-accountable monopolies ranging from
           | Discord to Google and Meta call the shots. It's kind of a no-
           | win situation.
           | 
           | I'd love to have my kids in relatively small, intimate online
           | spaces where I can't necessarily assume they will be perfect
           | (nor do I want them to be - they deserve to have some room to
           | learn to navigate problems for themselves) but I can at least
           | assume they won't be overwhelmed by the impossibility of
           | successfully navigating life in a globalized fishbowl. But if
           | there's one thing late stage capitalism abhor, it's a self-
           | contained community of real humans from which the powers that
           | be can't extract "value".
        
             | bilekas wrote:
             | > Parents are just burnt out, I think.
             | 
             | I'm sorry but I don't buy this. We have been parenting
             | forever, parents get burnt out. That doesn't mean you just
             | ignore what your kids are doing.
             | 
             | It's your responsibility to be their guardians, not the
             | government.
        
               | antonymoose wrote:
               | No one has the ability to monitor the frequency and
               | volume of their children's social contact on a platform
               | like Discord or Roblox. It would be a full-time job for
               | me.
               | 
               | Can we normalize "it takes a village" again? After all,
               | we do let bars and liquor stores get a slap on the wrist
               | for selling to minors. If you let a child into an adult
               | movie theater you'd be in jail. Why do we pretend we
               | don't live in a world with laws and standard conduct the
               | second we connect to a modem?
        
         | 2OEH8eoCRo0 wrote:
         | What's ruined by this? Honestly asking
        
           | bilekas wrote:
           | It's giving my identification to a no face company, that I
           | don't know will handle the data correctly. And if they don't
           | I have absolutely no recourse.
           | 
           | Also, why should I need to identify myself at all ? I used to
           | use IRC for the better part of my life, I still do infact. So
           | to have to Identify myself by sending my ID to a random
           | company is insulting to me.
        
             | Gigachad wrote:
             | You don't have to ID after this, you just won't be able to
             | access NSFW discord servers.
        
         | SlightlyLeftPad wrote:
         | The amount of time and energy that I have to put in to keep my
         | 3 individual kids safe online while still allowing some access
         | is mind-blowingly high. It shouldn't be as hard as it is. It's
         | so hard, in fact, 99.9% of parents give up on it. I'm not one
         | to do that but I've strongly considered it many times.
         | 
         | Parental controls are fractured across every platform, they
         | can't enforce everything in one place, domain filtering isn't
         | practical, some sites (like YouTube) are needed for schoolwork
         | and they include adult content intermingled with no sane way to
         | bifurcate those. It's also impossible to disable the forced
         | short-form video push onto toddlers and teens.
        
         | riku_iki wrote:
         | > When will it be normalized to be able to say "Parents should
         | just be doing their job"
         | 
         | you can say this, but it is not enforced, so this part of
         | discussion is not really productive.
        
           | dmix wrote:
           | The UK/US haven't even spent widely on internet addiction
           | education or built widescale programs like they did for drugs
           | or even speech therapy. Jumping immediately to banning and
           | gatekeeping everything on the internet is silly and naive.
           | The world won't be a better place because we fear other kids
           | parenting skills, it will be highly locked down and these ID
           | checks/bans will hit every part of the internet.
        
       | nottorp wrote:
       | And how much does Discord commit to paying in damages if my face
       | scan or ID scan leaks from their servers? Via security
       | vulnerabilities or employees making some money on the side?
        
       | delegate wrote:
       | One thing that could happen is that someone might decide to vibe
       | code a Discord clone, without all the extra crap. I'm sure there
       | are people out there doing this already.
       | 
       | There's this interesting arc of growth for apps which are
       | successful. At first users love it, company grows, founders get
       | rich, they hire expensive people to develop the product and
       | increase revenue until eventually the initial culture and mission
       | is replaced by internal politics and processes.
       | 
       | Software starts getting features which users don't want or need,
       | side effects of the company size and their Q4 roadmap to
       | 'optimize' revenue|engagement|profits|growth|...
       | 
       | Users become tools in the hands of the app they initially used as
       | a tool. This model worked well so far and built some of the
       | biggest companies in history.
       | 
       | AI could make this business model less effective. Once a piece of
       | software becomes successful and veers off into crap territory,
       | people will start cloning it, keeping only the features that made
       | that software successful initially. Companies who try to strong
       | arm their users will see users jump ship, or rather, de-board on
       | islands.
       | 
       | At least I hope this will be the case.
        
       | bigbuppo wrote:
       | People have dropped platforms en masse over lesser things. This
       | is not going to go well. Are they even going to make it to their
       | IPO?
        
       | oth001 wrote:
       | And I'll be uninstalling and looking for an alternative
        
       | tonymet wrote:
       | I know Discord is popular, but I've tried about 3 dozen servers
       | on a ton of hobby topics (linux , raspberry pi, golang, various
       | games, politics) and I've found the caliber of conversation to be
       | very poor. Nothing like forums, stack exchange or even reddit
       | (especially pre-2012) in terms of topic focus, support quality,
       | creativity, technicality. Convos tend to be banal, cliche,
       | monoculture.
       | 
       | I would love to hear a testimony from someone who finds their
       | Discord servers to be edifying or uplifting. What worked?
        
         | chickensong wrote:
         | It excels for small communities, groups of friends and the
         | like. My IRC channel migrated because it's user friendly,
         | embeds images, and voice chat is a breeze.
        
           | tonymet wrote:
           | I agree for private servers it's good. We used it for backup
           | ops when our internal chat server went down. The feature set
           | is very good
        
       | oth001 wrote:
       | Also curious how people like Epstein and James Alefantis are just
       | casually using Gmail and Instagram to post CSAM and suggestive
       | torturing of kids. Seems like the onus should be on the
       | companies, not the users..
        
       | sejje wrote:
       | Wow.
       | 
       | On one hand, I'm not surprised.
       | 
       | But on the other hand-- I would be terrified to be in charge of a
       | company who needed to make this ask. It's just such a big deal,
       | such an important bit of information to protect from hacks.
       | 
       | I hope they lose most of their customer base. But I'm terrified
       | they won't.
       | 
       | The gradual erosion of privacy is no longer gradual.
        
       | apazzolini wrote:
       | Based on the (lack of) people I see refusing the _optional_
       | facial recognition check at the TSA checkpoint for flying, I can
       | 't imagine this will be anything other than an overwhelming
       | success for Discord and the surveillance state.
        
       | nunez wrote:
       | Discord's about to Tumblr over themselves with this one.
        
       | tabbott wrote:
       | I'm biased, as I lead the Zulip project. But I think this is a
       | reasonable place for me to post some thoughts.
       | 
       | Given current events in the USA, I can't emphasize enough how
       | worried one should be about the fact that a few companies like
       | Discord, Google (Gmail), and Meta have databases with access to
       | the private conversations of hundreds of millions of people with
       | their closest friends and family members, linked up with their
       | identity.
       | 
       | Some of the big strengths of running a self-hosted Zulip server
       | for your community are:
       | 
       | - Zulip servers are operationally simple, highly stable and easy
       | to upgrade.
       | 
       | - Zulip is much better than Discord or Slack for managing the
       | firehose of busy communities. Or at least, a lot of people tell
       | us that they prefer the user experience to everything else
       | they've tried, after a few weeks of getting used to it. :)
       | 
       | - Your community leaders get to make the policy decisions about
       | data protection, identity, etc.
       | 
       | - It's 100% FOSS software, with an extremely readable and
       | maintainable codebase that ~1500 people have successfully
       | contributed code to. I don't think you'll find modern
       | alternatives with a comparable featureset to Discord that are
       | more resilient to the sponsoring company being acquired or going
       | out of business.
       | 
       | - We are a values-focused organization
       | (https://zulip.com/values/) where providing a public service is
       | important to us all.
       | 
       | - Each server is completely self-contained and independent, with
       | the only centralized services needed from us being desktop/mobile
       | app publication and mobile push notifications delivery (which is
       | free for community use and soon to be E2EE).
       | 
       | I'm happy to answer any questions.
        
         | areoform wrote:
         | Does your app pass the grandma and quarterback test? Can I get
         | my grandma and the group's jock/quaterback to use it without
         | handholding?
        
           | crabmusket wrote:
           | Data point of one: in my small community group that has moved
           | to Zulip we do have a grandma contributing. No jocks though
           | so I can't speak to that.
           | 
           | I would also like to note that Slack did not pass the grandma
           | test in our case. I highly doubt that Discord would given how
           | hyperactive the UI is.
        
             | Vinnl wrote:
             | As a software engineer who's had to interact with Discord
             | only a handful of times, I had no idea when other people
             | could hear me or where I had to click to find people I was
             | looking for.
        
               | crabmusket wrote:
               | I've only rarely used it for voice, so I think I'm not in
               | the right demographic. But I find its text/chat UI janky
               | as hell.
        
           | tabbott wrote:
           | I'd say so, especially if you start on desktop and have them
           | watch the 2-minute onboarding video. We are satisfied with
           | what we see with our internal usability studies with
           | nontechnical users.
           | 
           | Among customers, one reference that I can quickly cite is
           | this one:
           | 
           | https://zulip.com/case-studies/gut-contact/
           | 
           | > Agents at GUT contact use Zulip every day to communicate
           | with their team leads. "Most of our agents are in their 60s
           | or 70s, so the software must be as simple as possible. That's
           | why we love Zulip," says Erik Dittert, who's been leading GUT
           | contact's IT team for the past 20 years.
           | 
           | I would recommend doing a little training/handholding
           | call/video when moving over a community -- but this is true
           | for any new app.
           | 
           | My mom needed training to do basic things in Squarespace, and
           | I had a friend who worked at Slack whose manager started
           | every chat message with "Hi <name>" and ended it with a
           | signature, like you would an email. :)
        
             | crabmusket wrote:
             | > start on desktop
             | 
             | Echoing this. Navigation is better and clearer on desktop.
             | The mobile apps works really well once you know what you're
             | doing. Part of onboarding into Zulip is being able to get
             | an "overview" of the community and the discussions that are
             | currently happening, and this is easier on desktop.
        
               | guhidalg wrote:
               | In my experience, the median user for communication apps
               | is mobile _only_. Before that, it better be a website
               | that works well on phones, and decently on desktop.
               | 
               | As a developer I don't like it, but reality doesn't have
               | to appease me.
        
               | crabmusket wrote:
               | This is a case where people can start talking past each
               | other.
               | 
               | In my view and experience, Zulip is a collaboration
               | platform for groups who want to get shit done. I wouldn't
               | recommend it for a "place to hang out".
               | 
               | People who are serious about achieving something will use
               | a laptop. Similarly, in a cousin comment - they will
               | watch a short onboarding video.
               | 
               | No platform is "intuitive" for everyone. WhatsApp and
               | Signal are "basically just SMS" so they can lean on the
               | knowledge phone users built in the 00s and 10s. Anything
               | else is a new mental model and takes some adjustment.
               | 
               | EDIT: also if you are an open source community, or a
               | company, and you choose Discord for your support/project
               | collab community... do better. (Looking at you
               | CloudFlare)
        
             | areoform wrote:
             | > and have them watch the 2-minute onboarding video
             | 
             | I'm going to be very honest here. The jock ain't watching
             | no video. Dude has (possibly) early CTE. Do you think he
             | has the attention span to sit through a two minute video?
             | _For a messaging app??_
             | 
             | That's an automatic fail.
        
               | addandsubtract wrote:
               | Tbf, Discord takes way more than 2 minutes to understand.
        
               | skeeter2020 wrote:
               | First, quarterbacks are not typically the concerning
               | position with respect to CTE. Second, because he plays
               | football he doesn't have a 2-minute attention span? "Dumb
               | jock" is about as accurate as "ignorant HN poster".
               | Third, he either spent 2 minutes learning how to use
               | discord, or stumbled through it long enough to learn, why
               | can't he do the same thing with Zulip? Would it help if
               | they chopped it into a dozen TicToks?
        
         | crabmusket wrote:
         | I recently moved a small community group from Slack to Zulip.
         | Half because of the UX for infrequent visitors (topics are so
         | much better than "50 unread messages in #general"). And half
         | because of your organisational values, which are more aligned
         | with ours than are those of Salesforce.
         | 
         | The Bluesky team talks about "credible exit", and Zulip has
         | that in spades - which makes me not want to exit.
         | 
         | Thank you for the work you do. Hanging out in CZO watching the
         | Zulip team work in public is inspiring!
        
           | NooneAtAll3 wrote:
           | > topics are so much better than "50 unread messages in
           | #general"
           | 
           | my experience is exact opposite
        
             | katsudon wrote:
             | How so? I haven't used Zulip but am curious to hear why
        
               | adastra22 wrote:
               | Not the person you are replying to, but I much prefer
               | catching up on a small number of channels, than having to
               | click around a bunch of different individual topics. But
               | it is a tradeoff.
        
         | IgorPartola wrote:
         | How does Zulip compare to Campfire and Stoat (and other FOSS)
         | efforts? How is onboarding for non-tech people?
        
           | tabbott wrote:
           | Onboarding has a thread going here:
           | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=46951401.
           | 
           | My understanding is that Campfire hasn't been actively
           | developed for ~10 years (https://once.com/campfire/changelog
           | shows some minor fixes after the OSS launch; their GitHub has
           | no 2026 commits). There are no mobile apps. It is not an
           | actively maintained Discord alternative.
           | 
           | Stoat is early in development. For example,
           | https://github.com/stoatchat/stoatchat has 1421 commits,
           | compared with 68K for https://github.com/zulip/zulip/. I wish
           | them luck! It's really important that we have multiple
           | independent efforts.
           | 
           | https://www.rocket.chat/ and https://mattermost.com/ are
           | open-core military contractors these days. You'll see what I
           | mean if you visit their websites. But like Zulip, they are
           | full-featured team chat systems, and if the parts of their
           | system that are OSS work for your organization, they're
           | certainly valid options.
           | 
           | Finally there is Matrix/Element. They have an inspiring
           | vision and similar values to mine, and I'd recommend checking
           | it out. Element/Matrix is built on an ambitious distributed
           | consensus protocol with an E2EE option, which provides
           | capabilities Zulip don't have but also adds complexity. Zulip
           | is focused on just doing team chat really well, and does not
           | support more than ~100K users in an instance. Hopefully will
           | have a lot more resources now, thanks to Current Events. I
           | wish the Element team the very best of luck!
           | 
           | ----------------------------------------
           | 
           | Overall, Zulip's focus has always been on making a delightful
           | chat experience, especially when you have multiple
           | conversations happening at the same time. We aren't trying to
           | build a clone, but instead the best possible experience for
           | having lots of possibly complex conversations. So there will
           | be some differences from what you're used to.
           | 
           | But critically, we spend a very large amount of our time
           | relentlessly fixing micro-interactions that annoy us or are
           | reported to us. If you read #design, #issues, and #feedback
           | in https://zulip.com/development-community/, you'll get an
           | idea of how we work.
           | 
           | So while there's some features we don't have that are present
           | in other products, and we don't have dozens of designers on
           | staff to do cool end-of-year animated reports like Discord
           | does, you can expect few bugs and a lot of interaction design
           | polish.
           | 
           | -----------------------------------------
           | 
           | The one mistake that I think a lot of folks make in
           | evaluating options is focusing on buzzwords like E2EE without
           | thinking through their threat model. E2EE doesn't add much
           | practical security over self-hosting for many threat models,
           | and it comes with significant usability trade-offs. And some
           | current E2EE systems don't actually protect against a
           | malicious server, say because they only protect message
           | content, not metadata like who has access to what... just
           | against raiding the server's disk.
           | 
           | (For example, WhatsApp has E2EE for message content, but I
           | expect Meta's databases know everyone who's had a
           | conversation with me on WhatsApp and the precise timestamps
           | and approximate lengths of every message I've sent or
           | received on the platform. And apparently some keyboard apps
           | send what you're typing to remote servers!).
        
         | bloqs wrote:
         | Sold
        
         | stefanka wrote:
         | Thank you! Zulip is a great project.
        
         | easterncalculus wrote:
         | What is the video calling and screen share experience like?
        
           | crabmusket wrote:
           | Zulip "shells out" to other apps like Zoom or Jitsi for this
           | with a light integration in the UI.
        
             | Firehawke wrote:
             | I'd call that a pretty major feature omission since it
             | means splitting things across multiple apps.
        
         | sleepybrett wrote:
         | Looking for your features but no voice chat, no screen sharing,
         | no deal.
        
           | barbs wrote:
           | Looks like it has integration with Jitsi Meet
           | https://zulip.com/integrations/jitsi
        
         | BrouteMinou wrote:
         | Why zulip instead of the good ol' IRC?
        
           | orblivion wrote:
           | It has modern features. It stores message history. It has a
           | fairly unique feature of letting you create ad-hoc "topics"
           | (that go under a "Channel") that make it easier to manage the
           | flood of conversation.
        
             | crabmusket wrote:
             | Channels + topics >>> just channels
        
           | ThePowerOfFuet wrote:
           | 1: IRC loses all messages to you while you are not connected
        
             | 3836293648 wrote:
             | Not for years. If that is still the case for you, ask your
             | server hosts to update to a version that supports ircv3
        
         | Valk3_ wrote:
         | > Zulip is much better than Discord or Slack for managing the
         | firehose of busy communities. Or at least, a lot of people tell
         | us that they prefer the user experience to everything else
         | they've tried, after a few weeks of getting used to it. :)
         | 
         | Could you expand on this?
        
           | bo1024 wrote:
           | Slack has basically one main hierarchy level (messages are
           | grouped into channels) while Zulip has two, streams and
           | topics. So you can create a stream for each project (say) and
           | create a different topic for any given point that needs
           | discussion about that project.
           | 
           | Kind of like if each slack thread discussion had a title and
           | was discoverable from the left sidebar and didn't get in the
           | way of the other threads.
        
             | crabmusket wrote:
             | > didn't get in the way of the other threads
             | 
             | But also, critically, if you want to, you can drop back to
             | the "show me everything sequentially" view. Threads hide
             | discussions away - which is good when you want to focus on
             | something _else_ , but bad when you can't remember where a
             | discussion was.
        
         | bo1024 wrote:
         | What's the state of accessibility on Zulip?
         | 
         | (Thanks for making Zulip, I love it)
        
           | tabbott wrote:
           | You can do everything with the keyboard, and we do write
           | everything with screenreader accessibility and colorblindness
           | accessibility in mind.
           | 
           | But we don't have a dedicated accessibility tester on staff,
           | so we're reliant on people reporting issues that bother them
           | in actual use.
           | 
           | I should also mention there's a nice TUI app:
           | https://github.com/zulip/zulip-terminal, which can be helpful
           | for some people.
        
         | rw_grim wrote:
         | This is great to hear and ironically we (Pidgin) just decided
         | that Zulip was going to be the next protocol we were going to
         | add support for just barely 24 hours ago before all this
         | Discord nonsense!
         | 
         | https://discourse.imfreedom.org/t/protocols-to-support/234/1...
        
           | tabbott wrote:
           | Awesome, feel free to start a thread in #integrations in
           | chat.zulip.org! We'd be happy to chat about some of the
           | things that will make your life easier to do carefully when
           | writing a new client.
           | 
           | The main thing regards our double-entry API changelog system.
           | Basically, the API documentation for individual endpoints,
           | say https://zulip.com/api/get-user, natively cover for each
           | endpoint all the changes relevant for that endpoint from
           | https://zulip.com/api/changelog... and how to write nice code
           | using feature level checks to support all server versions.
        
         | OsrsNeedsf2P wrote:
         | > Zulip servers are operationally simple, highly stable and
         | easy to upgrade.
         | 
         | You lost me there. I need to have all my contacts on Zulip.
         | Nothing else matters to me
        
           | esseph wrote:
           | Then you're fucked, and stuck on big tech and hostile
           | governments. If you can't convince friends to move, that is.
        
         | sgarman wrote:
         | My biggest feature use of Discord is the drop in / out voice
         | with PTT. I couldn't quite tell if this feature exist.
        
           | dijit wrote:
           | Doesn't exist in Zulip, theres a "camera" button that
           | generates a jitsi link, I tried (and failed) to make it a
           | google meet link, but it works surprisingly well, though it
           | is a context switch.
        
         | dijit wrote:
         | Hey, just wanted to say that I am a happy Zulip customer.
         | 
         | I used it at my previous employer and after a month of
         | hangringing from people- many did not desire to go back to what
         | we had before. (though some people did say they wanted Slack
         | for the emojis and "prettiness").
         | 
         | Now I started in a new position and I've positioned Zulip (on
         | prem) as the only viable solution since we're shirking SaaS as
         | a strategic move.
         | 
         | The people who followed me to the new place are quite glad of
         | this, or at least thats what I am told.
         | 
         | So, thank you, sincerely.
        
           | pixelatedindex wrote:
           | > hangringing
           | 
           | I'm sorry to be that guy but it's "handwringing" - twisting
           | your hand like you wring your clothes until you agree
        
             | crabmusket wrote:
             | > like twisting your hand until you agree
             | 
             | I'm also gonna be that guy - hand wringing is a stereotype
             | of an expression of distress, not coercion. You're thinking
             | of the idiom "twisting someone's arm".
        
             | dwb wrote:
             | I believe it was actually meant to be haranguing
             | 
             | https://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/harangu
             | i...
        
           | tabbott wrote:
           | Thanks so much for sharing the story!
        
         | deafpolygon wrote:
         | I don't have any questions as of yet, but reading your site; it
         | speaks to me and those values align with mine. Just wanted to
         | say that I think the world could use a bit more of this.
        
         | caconym_ wrote:
         | I'm asking because I hate Matrix and actually want you to
         | convince me: why should I accept the risk of migrating my
         | friend group from Discord to Zulip, which has already "broken
         | the seal" of restricting features behind a monthly fee even for
         | self-hosted users, when I could migrate us to Matrix instead?
         | Matrix seems like the much less risky option.
         | 
         | I see that you have a "community" tier that's free and doesn't
         | restrict notifications, but it's not clear to me exactly what's
         | involved in proving that we should qualify.
        
           | ameliaquining wrote:
           | Mobile push notifications are a special case because it's
           | literally not technically possible to self-host them. Or
           | rather, it's possible if you build the iOS and Android apps
           | from source and distribute them through TestFlight or an
           | analogous Android channel, but it's not possible for the
           | developer of an App Store or Play Store app to allow its
           | users to point it at a different push-notification server,
           | because the public key has to be hardcoded in the app binary.
           | So if you want your self-hosted Zulip server to work with the
           | Zulip client apps in the App Store and Play Store, you have
           | to use Zulip's push server, and there's nothing Zulip can do
           | to fix that.
           | 
           | Matrix works analogously; if you use the Element app from the
           | App Store or Play Store, then you're using Element's push
           | notification server, even if your Matrix homeserver is self-
           | hosted. It's possible that Element allows their server to be
           | used gratis in situations where Zulip charges a fee, I don't
           | know their policies or anything, but in principle Matrix
           | still leaves you exactly as dependent on a third party's
           | goodwill unless you make your friends install a privately
           | distributed mobile app.
           | 
           | Zulip IIUC does not restrict self-hosting of any feature
           | that's technically possible to self-host.
        
             | cyberax wrote:
             | > because the public key has to be hardcoded in the app
             | binary
             | 
             | Nope. On iOS the flow is:
             | 
             | 1. Generate a "push token" on the device (with the user's
             | approval).
             | 
             | 2. Send this token to your server.
             | 
             | 3. Now you can send notifications to the device via this
             | token. Your server needs to authenticate itself with Apple,
             | and this requires an Apple account. But it's not linked to
             | an individual app.
             | 
             | The situation is different on Android. Google went out of
             | their way to make it impossible to customize `google-
             | services.json` at runtime. So the built-in "easy" flow
             | won't work. But notifications ultimately work using
             | veeeeery obfuscated remote procedure calls to Google Play
             | Services and you can run them manually. I need to do a
             | write-up about this....
        
         | zukzuk wrote:
         | Glad to hear E2EE is coming soon, but it's been "soon" for
         | probably a year now. It's a bit odd that encrypted
         | notifications still don't work, and I'd argue it's a very big
         | caveat with regard to privacy and security.
         | 
         | Our main reason for using Zulip is that we work in a highly
         | regulated space (healthcare) and would like to be able to
         | safely talk about things. I suspect this sort of situation is a
         | major motivator for Zulip adoption, so it's weird that transit
         | encryption was left as an afterthought.
        
         | rustystump wrote:
         | First time hearing about this project and it feels mature.
         | However, the landing page example of the app on web is...messy
         | and noisy to the point i am totally lost.
         | 
         | This is not the case for slack or discord. I think having an
         | awesome clean first impression would do wonders to sell what
         | younare doing.
        
       | jsrcout wrote:
       | ENOPE.
        
       | janalsncm wrote:
       | Medium term, moving to another platform is the best solution. In
       | the short term, I think using some other platform for the locked
       | features is best?
       | 
       | For example, if we are in a server for coding, maybe we will have
       | to use zoom or google meet as a stopgap. Curious if others have
       | better alternatives.
        
       | jm4 wrote:
       | It took all of 2 minutes to delete my account and block Discord
       | from my network. Credit to Discord for making the process very
       | easy using the mobile app. I'm not going to put up with this crap
       | just to occasionally use this app to play games with friends. My
       | kids sure as hell aren't going to comply with this policy either.
        
       | docmars wrote:
       | This is such a huge mistake, Discord. Hopefully enough people put
       | a lot of pressure on them to reverse this.
        
       | b00ty4breakfast wrote:
       | it's like there's an inherent user-hostility in every platform
       | that is expressed in a less-than-ideal user experience in it's
       | usage or in the ways that the host will harvest all of your
       | personally identifying information for various purposes (which it
       | will also inevitably fail to properly secure, resulting in a near
       | guaranteed leak at some point in the future).
       | 
       | I personally don't find ease-of-use to be worth the price of my
       | privacy but most people are more than happy to sell themselves
       | out piecemeal in the form of data until there's nothing left but
       | a bunch of numbers in a spreadsheet to attest to their ever
       | having existed.
        
       | sleepybrett wrote:
       | right now someone is vibecoding a locally hostable discord clone.
        
       | btown wrote:
       | > The first option uses AI to analyze a user's video selfie,
       | which Discord says never leaves the user's device. If the age
       | group estimate (teen or adult) from the selfie is incorrect,
       | users can appeal it or verify with a photo of an identity
       | document instead.
       | 
       | Are they shipping a video classifier model that can run on all
       | the devices that can run Discord, including web? I've never heard
       | of this being done at scale fully client-side. Which begs the
       | question of whether the frames are truly processed only client-
       | side...
        
         | digiown wrote:
         | Can't you just modify the client to send the resulting signal
         | then? I'd anticipate a ton of tutorials like: Just paste this
         | script into the console to get past the age gate!
        
         | qrobit wrote:
         | It will be easy to check with devtools when the update is
         | released
        
       | utf_8x wrote:
       | If you're looking for an alternative to Discord, check out Stoat
       | (formerly Revolt). [1] Especially if you're an iOS dev with some
       | free time as the iOS client could really use some love... [2]
       | 
       | (not affiliated with the project, just really want to see it
       | succeed)
       | 
       | [1] https://stoat.chat/ [2] https://github.com/stoatchat/for-ios
        
       | Atlas667 wrote:
       | Just another instance of companies participating in the creation
       | of the police state.
       | 
       | These companies do not do this under external pressure from the
       | state, they do this because it benefits and consolidates their
       | power as well.
       | 
       | It's bricks for their castle wall.
       | 
       | Corporations should not be considered a separate entity from the
       | state. Corporations form state power. This doesn't mean they are
       | always in-line with the state, but that they lead the state as a
       | block, as a class, defending their common interests.
       | 
       | Policing is one of them.
        
       | rcarmo wrote:
       | Good. Maybe then we'll stop having Open Source projects using it
       | as their only store of knowledge :)
        
       | gverrilla wrote:
       | Good, this will hit hard on nazi-incel-related "communities".
        
       | expedition32 wrote:
       | Based. Kids should start gamefaqs again!
        
       | andreagrandi wrote:
       | Jump here, you can see Lucca (as we say in Italy, more or less..)
        
       | dismalaf wrote:
       | I'm only on a few programming related discords and not going to
       | lie, even those are slightly toxic. So bye discord.
        
       | Eji1700 wrote:
       | Okay, i'm not very good at coding, especially web.
       | 
       | It seems to me that the "logical" solution to this is some sort
       | of local key like "sudo" that the user enters/has access to. This
       | key is on a cookie or request or something that says "This
       | request is being done by a verified adult" and then the website
       | goes "cool here's your data". If the request does not have it,
       | then the website says "Sorry you need one of these
       | keys/permissions to access".
       | 
       | I see this as elegant because like modern IDs, YES THEY COULD GET
       | AROUND IT, but at least it gives parents and users who want to
       | abide and try the ability. Kids get fake id's, they get stuff
       | they shouldn't. So long as audits show that the businesses are
       | trying to catch this and punishing those who ignore procedures
       | properly, things are "fine".
       | 
       | How infeasible is this from a coding perspective? I get that
       | we're fucking with standards here, but I figured it would make
       | most sane users and companies happy. Companies don't have to keep
       | PII, just a log of "yes this access from this IP was approved,
       | but we discovered is was used falsely and banned that key", and
       | users have a tool that's setup once locally (or refreshed when
       | you want a new key).
       | 
       | I guess you'd need some way to authenticate these as if it's too
       | easy to spoof whats the point, but it strikes me as leagues
       | better of "store everyone's colonic map"
       | 
       | How off base am I here? Is the theory somewhat sound or is this
       | just dead from the ground up?
        
       | calmworm wrote:
       | Why does the idea of collecting millions of images of minors not
       | sit right? Roblox, Character.ai, Discord...
        
       | b_brief wrote:
       | I can see the moderation and age-verification motivations here,
       | but I am wary of how this changes expectations around identity on
       | social platforms.
       | 
       | Mandatory age checks with biometric or ID data can create long-
       | term privacy and reuse risks that the ecosystem has not fully
       | reckoned with yet.
        
       | abalone wrote:
       | Taylor Lorenz has done excellent reporting on this. It's a right
       | wing censorial moral panic that's forced some Democrats to go
       | along with it by positioning it as "protecting kids". This
       | legislation is moving at a fast clip and we have to fight back.
       | 
       | * SCREEN Act age verification with huge implications for all
       | online privacy:
       | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8bnp3nmpK9g&list=PLu4srHCWJr...
       | 
       | * Abolishing Section 230, the law that protects platforms like
       | this from being sued for user content (just published today):
       | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_eqt8vrtP-U&list=PLu4srHCWJr...
       | 
       | * UK online safety act (it's not just the U.S.) - interview with
       | the lawyer defending 4chan:
       | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DD3PGp9RhTw&list=PLu4srHCWJr...
        
       | winddude wrote:
       | Delete!
        
       | thephotonsphere wrote:
       | Okay, that's the end of #Discord (at least for me) because I will
       | never upload 'selfies' or a copy of my id to a social media site,
       | or something.
        
       | cantalopes wrote:
       | I guesa i dont need to use discord anymore
        
       | gsich wrote:
       | Good bye. Discord is not trustworthy with this kind of data. As
       | proven recently.
        
       | rockskon wrote:
       | This is categorically unacceptable.
       | 
       | People's livelihoods and safety are threatened when there's
       | people's personally identifying information associated with their
       | Discord chats - even if linked by "anonymous" identifiers.
       | 
       | Imagine your photo ID next to the horniest thing you've stated
       | next to some random asshole on the Internet.
       | 
       | Discord has _no_ moral right to make such a dramatically
       | consequential decision about the personal privacy of its users in
       | jurisdictions where such age verification tech is not mandatory.
        
       | LightBug1 wrote:
       | Actively withdrawing from all US proprietary software and
       | subscriptions ...
        
       | burnte wrote:
       | Goodbye Discord.
        
       | h4kunamata wrote:
       | The usual "to protect the kids" bs. Only people who does not
       | understand the implications of this, will provide personal
       | information.
       | 
       | Watch:
       | 
       | A) Discord relaxing its rule because of mass exodus B) People
       | moving elsewhere where no personal information is required
        
       | dmix wrote:
       | This won't stop at Discord. Banning websites/apps and ID gating
       | is going to be everywhere in a decade.
       | 
       | Protect the kids puritanism is on max level right now, throw in
       | some future terrorist attack or political issues that scare
       | people enough like they fear TikTok and the internet will be
       | fully controlled.
        
       | pmdr wrote:
       | I'll hardly miss using Discord, but if this isn't going to be a
       | wake-up call to ALL (mainly) open-source projects using it, then
       | we're all doomed.
       | 
       | We should seriously go back to mailing lists and IRC as a
       | standard for OSS. Everything else should be viewed as disposable.
        
       | starkparker wrote:
       | Really really surprised there isn't more discussion about the
       | background inference service that's mentioned in passing here. If
       | you thought Electron/wrapped web apps were a performance problem,
       | I can't imagine the weight of _also_ running a local AI model
       | that's constantly playing Guess My Age.
        
       | monksy wrote:
       | Please do not fall of the deceptive language that is used here.
       | They're calling this "teen experience".
       | 
       | This is not about "i see gentila we ban". They're very vague
       | about what is obscene, sticking to that level of a consistent
       | definition, and they're very heavy handed in punishing.
       | 
       | They're introducing a highly restricted experience unless you
       | hand over your details to either a "technology" (which that's
       | very unclear about how honest they're being) or a company that
       | has been caught for leaking sensitive details.
        
       | templar_snow wrote:
       | As an ethical conundrum, this one is clear. The safety of women
       | and children online (human trafficking, r*pe and child abuse
       | networks openly coordinate at industrial scale on Discord, Roblox
       | and Telegram) trumps the concerns of a relatively small group of
       | Richard Stallman-level purity obsessives. Good move on Discord's
       | part; hopefully Roblox and Telegram shape up and follow suit. If
       | you don't understand the severity of the current situation in
       | 2026, Google the group "764."
        
       | seanw444 wrote:
       | I've needed a nudge to cancel my 5 year Nitro streak. This was
       | it. I guess if they reverse course before March when the billing
       | cycle is over, I'll renew. Hope I'm not alone in this. The only
       | way they'll decide to not move forward with this is if enough
       | people do the same.
        
       | amniarix wrote:
       | https://keet.io is this industry's best kept secret. Encypted p2p
       | chat with audio and video, no signups, it just works. My kids and
       | their friends switched from Discord to Keet to avoid all the
       | signup / authentication friction.
        
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