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       Finland to end "uncontrolled human experiment" with ban on youth
       social media
        
       Author : Teever
       Score  : 359 points
       Date   : 2026-01-31 17:06 UTC (5 hours ago)
        
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       | mytailorisrich wrote:
       | " _FISTA has taken advantage of the law change, brought in last
       | August, which allows schools to restrict or completely ban the
       | use of mobile phones during school hours._ "
       | 
       | I find it interesting that a law change was needed to _allow_
       | schools to do this.
        
         | amelius wrote:
         | Yeah if in the 80s they had to change a law to prevent children
         | from taking their TV to school, everybody would be scratching
         | their heads.
        
         | sham1 wrote:
         | Students do have rights - and indeed also property rights -
         | here. Of course, when in class the students could be asked to
         | bring their phones to the front and be given them back
         | afterwards, but without the law, the use of phones couldn't be
         | restricted during breaks etc. Thus the new law which can make
         | the restrictions even more severe during school hours.
        
           | mytailorisrich wrote:
           | Of course people have rights... the point is that schools
           | seem not allowed to set their own rules.
           | 
           | The school my children went to in the UK has had a no phone
           | policy for many years: phones must be off and kept in the
           | pupils' bags. No need for a law change...
           | 
           | I think this is about approach to regulation and flexibility.
           | In general being too restrictive about what is allowed makes
           | things inflexible and poor at adapting.
        
           | SoftTalker wrote:
           | Students don't have many rights when it comes to what you can
           | bring to or do at school. We were prohibited from wearing
           | certain styles of clothes, hats, couldn't even chew gum in
           | class. Pretty much anything that could be called disruptive,
           | damaging, or dangerous was banned. I'm not sure how phones
           | ever were considered acceptable in the first place. Even in
           | the pre-smartphone days, SMS was a huge distraction.
        
         | alkonaut wrote:
         | Not sure if the law is required to just make the rule banning
         | phones or if the law is what's needed to enforce it (e.g take
         | kids' phones and not return them until end of day). The latter
         | would make some sense at least.
        
       | helsinkiandrew wrote:
       | The headline is missing an important "looks to". Politicians and
       | public opinion seem to be in favour.
       | 
       | > Finland looks to end "uncontrolled human experiment" with
       | Australia-style ban on social media
        
       | mjevans wrote:
       | I'm fine with this, as long as they DO NOT require any form of ID
       | or 'age' verification.
       | 
       | Instead this should be attacked from the profit side, by banning
       | any form of advertising which might target children. If there's
       | no profit to be made in servicing said demographic and a law
       | requesting at least end user 'agreement' that they are an adult,
       | this should be sufficient.
        
         | throwup238 wrote:
         | Who decides whether an ad is targeting children or not?
         | 
         | I'm not playing devil's advocate, I'm curious what the SOTA is
         | for ad moderation. I'm sure it's relatively easy to tell a
         | kid's toy ad from adult ones like alcohol, but how do you
         | differentiate toy ads targeting parents vs toy ads targeting
         | kids?
        
           | joe_mamba wrote:
           | _> Who decides whether an ad is targeting children or not?_
           | 
           | Much simpler than that, you just ban all targeted ads full
           | stop end of story. The ad-funded internet existed in the 90s
           | before ad targeting was a thing.
           | 
           | You went on a car forum, you'd get ads about car parts. You
           | went on a PC forum, you'd get ads about PC parts. Pretty
           | simple stuff that didn't need to know your age, gender,
           | political affiliation, ovulation status, etc so it's not like
           | the web will go bust without ad targeting.
           | 
           | Targeted ads are exploitative and manipulative, and a crime
           | against humanity, or at least on society.
        
             | majormajor wrote:
             | None of that attacks the motivation of FB to look the other
             | way to kids clicking the "I'm an adult" button and
             | pocketing money from advertisers buying un-targeted ads for
             | snacks, clothes, makeup, computers/gaming, and a million
             | other things that are equally as aimed at kids as they are
             | at anyone else.
             | 
             | (Remember how many kids bought car magazines before they
             | even had drivers' licenses? Advertising has never been "oh,
             | ads for things adults will buy will be completely boring to
             | children.")
        
             | qgin wrote:
             | Honestly this is better than covering half of every website
             | with a cookie banner that very few people understand.
        
             | bobthepanda wrote:
             | Ads and media are generally exploitative and manipulative,
             | even if not targeted specifically at anybody.
             | 
             | 3 years after the nation of Fiji received its first
             | television broadcasts in 1995, dieting and disordered
             | eating went from unheard of to double digit percentages
             | among teenage girls.
             | 
             | https://www.nytimes.com/1999/05/20/world/study-finds-tv-
             | alte...
             | 
             | > Before 1995, Dr. Becker said, there was little talk of
             | dieting in Fiji. ''The idea of calories was very foreign to
             | them.'' But in the 1998 survey, 69 percent said that at
             | some time they had been on a diet. In fact, preliminary
             | data suggest more teen-age girls in Fiji diet than their
             | American counterparts.
        
               | peyton wrote:
               | I mean as of 2011 over half the native women are obese
               | [1]. I don't know what to make of it other than that's a
               | lot. Dr. Anne Becker may be really into preserving
               | traditional Fijian culture or whatever but it sounds like
               | some of the local girls don't want to anymore.
               | 
               | [1]: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/26201444/
        
               | bobthepanda wrote:
               | The introduction of body shaming media vs. actually
               | improving obesity rates is pretty poorly correlated.
               | Introducing anorexia, bulimia, and now bigorexia to a
               | population is probably neutral or net negative.
               | 
               | If it wasn't, you would have expected those rates to
               | decline after the introduction of media informing people.
        
               | potatototoo99 wrote:
               | I don't know, it works in Japan.
        
               | Aerbil313 wrote:
               | People will comment all day on the ethics and legality of
               | advertising yet they never seem to stop and think _how_
               | ads even work. Ads work primarily through increasing the
               | subconscious familiarity over a competitor product's
               | subconscious familiarity. The vast majority of ads are
               | meant to influence you through completely unconscious
               | processes. The "get to know a product you didn't know
               | about before" part likely doesn't even account for %1 of
               | advertising. If the reverse was true, you would never see
               | a single ad of Coca-Cola since everybody on the planet
               | knows about it already.
               | 
               | It boggles my mind to no end that today's society
               | collectively accepts literally being manipulated against
               | their free will. See the post
               | https://hackernoon.com/nobody-is-immune-to-
               | ads-7142a4245c2c
        
               | joe_mamba wrote:
               | It's not as binary as in all forms of advertising are
               | equally evil. As much as manipulative as traditional
               | media advertising was/is, targeted advertising is easily
               | orders of magnitude worse, and a good place for
               | regulation to start if we wish to improve anything.
        
           | behringer wrote:
           | We should ban all ads.
        
         | mytailorisrich wrote:
         | Without age verification this is obviously an unenforceable
         | ban... I think Finland already has schemes for age
         | verification.
        
           | k__ wrote:
           | Yeah.
           | 
           | Zero knowledge proof and you're good to go.
        
             | unclad5968 wrote:
             | How would a zero knowledge proof of my age work?
        
             | Aurornis wrote:
             | That's not how ID checking works, though.
             | 
             | A key part of ID verification laws is that you're
             | confirming the ID presented also belongs to the user.
             | 
             | They can't just check for "This person currently has an
             | adult ID in their possession" and nothing more, otherwise
             | one kid at school would borrow their older brothers' ID and
             | then use it to register all of their friends' accounts one
             | day.
        
               | tzs wrote:
               | You tie it cryptographically to their phone with keys in
               | the phone's hardware security module. This doesn't stop
               | sharing of ID but it makes it much more inconvenient.
        
         | alkonaut wrote:
         | Any kind of zero knowledge verification should be ok.
         | 
         | But with minors it often goes a long way to just make the law.
         | It's a good instruction to parents who should be able to
         | control this. Laws on bike helmets for minors are followed
         | nearly 100% not because they are enforced by authorities but
         | because the law gives parents guidance.
        
           | Mindwipe wrote:
           | There is no such thing in practice.
           | 
           | Anything with zero knowledge is never going to be considered
           | robust enough by a government. Zero knowledge protocols
           | really have no functional revocation mechanism.
        
             | pydry wrote:
             | expiry
        
             | JoshTriplett wrote:
             | (Without accepting the premise that it should be acceptable
             | to have to provide _any_ kind of proof...)
             | 
             | > Zero knowledge protocols really have no functional
             | revocation mechanism.
             | 
             | None would be needed, you (sadly) only age in one
             | direction, so valid proof would never become invalid proof.
        
               | mrob wrote:
               | >valid proof would never become invalid proof
               | 
               | Somebody can give their proof of age to another person.
        
               | JoshTriplett wrote:
               | And? Presentation of someone else's valid credentials is
               | not fixable by any privacy-preserving mechanism. You can
               | set an expiration date in order to rotate them, and they
               | can be fast-rotating.
               | 
               | In any case, it's a moot point: the correct amount of
               | required identification is zero.
        
             | tzs wrote:
             | The EU has been working on a zero knowledge system as part
             | of the EU Digital Identity Wallet project for a few years
             | now. It is currently undergoing large scale field tests in
             | several countries with expected release late this year. All
             | member states are required to provide at least one free
             | secure interoperable implementation to their citizens, and
             | regulated industries such as banks and telecoms, are
             | required to accept it. If a member state passes a law
             | requiring age verification on social media it must include
             | the EU Digital Identity Wallet as one of the verification
             | methods the site must support.
             | 
             | What was that about no government would consider zero
             | knowledge to be robust enough?
        
               | nate_meurer wrote:
               | Which of these governments do you trust? The same
               | governments, mind you, that are working diligently to end
               | anonymity on the Internet.
        
           | peyton wrote:
           | Bike helmets are for safety but reading the article the ban
           | is more for some kind of societal change. I don't know if
           | it's really comparable.
        
             | alkonaut wrote:
             | I think parent's _want_ to keep kids in helmets and away
             | from social media. But the pressure is some times high when
             | Joe can ride without helmet, or can use TikTok. A law
             | really helped the bike helmet thing at least. That they are
             | fundamentally different I think doesn't matter since the
             | peer pressure thing and what parents want is the same.
        
         | dyauspitr wrote:
         | I disagree, we should have age verification but maybe it can be
         | done in a mostly anonymous way like a central arbiter of
         | identity from the government or something.
        
           | salawat wrote:
           | That's exactly the opposite of anonymous. You cannot have
           | anonymity & age verification that actually guarantees
           | anything. It's a contradiction. Either the chain exists, or
           | it doesn't.
        
             | alkonaut wrote:
             | Are you saying it would be impossible to have a service
             | where the site (social media, say) would issue some sort of
             | random token and ask me to sign it using a centralized ID
             | service. Then I log in to the centralized id service and
             | use it to sign the random token and bring it back to the
             | service.
             | 
             | The centralized service see who I am, but not what I'm
             | proving my age for. The social media or other site see that
             | I have signed their token so would have the appropriate
             | age, but not who I am.
             | 
             | What's impossible about this?
        
               | tzs wrote:
               | The problem with that is if someone gets a hold of the
               | logs from both the centralized service and the social
               | media site they can compare timestamps and may be able to
               | match them up.
               | 
               | Most people will be doing the whole process (site gives
               | token, person gets token signed, person returns token) as
               | quickly as possible which limits the candidates for a
               | match. Worse, if the central service is compromised and
               | wants to make it easier for log matching to identify
               | people they could purposefully introduce delays which
               | would make it easier to distinguish people.
               | 
               | Most people will use the same IP address through the
               | verification process which would really make it easy.
        
               | dyauspitr wrote:
               | This is no different from VPN providers. Maybe have the
               | central authority keep no logs just like VPN companies.
               | We already have government agencies that do that for
               | instance the agency that handles text to speech phone
               | calls for deaf people. Alternatively use a VPN to sign
               | the token.
        
               | alkonaut wrote:
               | Yes, timestamp comparison will be possible. I don't think
               | there is a reasonable way around it? And authentication
               | on to someone else is also unavoidable with reasonable
               | privacy. I think a system with both of those drawbacks is
               | still preferable to most other options.
        
           | Aurornis wrote:
           | > like a central arbiter of identity from the government or
           | something
           | 
           | This comes up in every ID thread on Hacker News, usually with
           | suggestion that we do it via zero-knowledge cryptographic
           | primitives
           | 
           | However, all of those proposals miss the point. These ID
           | verification laws aren't simply designed to confirm that
           | someone has access to an >= 18yo ID. They are _identity_
           | verification to try to confirm that the person presenting the
           | ID is the same person who is using the site.
           | 
           | This concept is obvious with in-person ID checks: You can't
           | go to the liquor store and show them any random ID, they have
           | to check that it's your ID.
           | 
           | For some reason when we talk about internet ID verification
           | that part is forgotten and we get these proposals to use
           | cryptographic primitives to anonymously check something
           | without linking the person to the ID. It doesn't work, and
           | doesn't satisfy the way these laws are usually written.
           | 
           | I'm also surprised that people of this website even think it
           | might work in the first place. Did everyone forget what it's
           | like to be a kid trying to out-maneuver rules to access
           | something? How long do you think it would take before the
           | first enterprising kid figures out that if they can get
           | access to their mom or older brother's ID, they can charge
           | their friends $5 to use it for this totally anonymous one-
           | time cryptographic ID check for their social media accounts?
        
             | dyauspitr wrote:
             | These ID verification laws aren't simply designed to
             | confirm that someone has access to an >= 18yo ID. They are
             | identity verification to try to confirm that the person
             | presenting the ID is the same person who is using the site.
             | 
             | This makes no sense. This is exactly like asking someone
             | older to buy you beer. Will there be rule breakers? Sure
             | but they will be in the overwhelming minority.
        
               | pibaker wrote:
               | In other words, total death of anonymity on the internet.
               | 
               | Don't you love having your government name tied to every
               | single word you say online, forever, potentially publicly
               | accessible if someone configured mongodb wrong?
        
               | dyauspitr wrote:
               | Different token every time. If something leaks then only
               | the private tokens are leaked. You then have to break
               | every site you visited to link them to you individually.
        
         | kuerbel wrote:
         | Instead of banning social media for teenagers, regulate it in
         | ways that actively reduce addictive design.
         | 
         | For example: after 15 minutes of short-form content, show an
         | unskippable timer every third video, displaying today's, this
         | week's, and total watch time. The same principle should apply
         | to endless scrolling, make usage visible and interruptible.
         | 
         | Base it on actual screen time. This would protect teenagers and
         | benefit adults.
        
         | yoz-y wrote:
         | There is still a financial incentive to loop in teenagers that
         | would stay on a platform and spend money there later.
        
         | Telemakhos wrote:
         | > If there's no profit to be made in servicing said demographic
         | and a law requesting at least end user 'agreement' that they
         | are an adult, this should be sufficient.
         | 
         | Is it still advertising if an "influencer" takes money on the
         | down low to sip a Pepsi not too obviously in the middle of a
         | video?
         | 
         | Is it still advertising if an attractive and young person
         | provides news that happens to be colored in a way that supports
         | the narratives of a particular political faction?
         | 
         | Is it still advertising if you can't prove that a foreign power
         | encouraged a popular yoga enthusiast or makeup artist to post
         | some whispered ideas that weaken citizens' faith in your
         | institutions? Does that foreign power ever care about profit?
         | 
         | Advertising and propaganda love to explore the grey spaces
         | around definitions, so your bans will end up being a whack-a-
         | mole game. Cutting off kids with an ID check is much easier.
         | Implementing age verification the Apple way would even protect
         | privacy by simply registering whether Apple can attest that the
         | user is over or under the age limit, without handing the ID
         | over to third parties.
        
           | prussia wrote:
           | There's no profit for the _platform_. As of now, both the
           | "influencer" and platform are aligned in that they want
           | children to consume more slop. If the platform doesn't have
           | any incentive anymore, maybe most of those "influencers" will
           | fall away, if the algorithm starts deprioritising content
           | geared toward children. As you say, policing the
           | "influencers" is difficult, but at least it is quite easy and
           | simple to target the platform. Better than nothing.
        
         | quotemstr wrote:
         | You can tell these proposals are made in bad faith because we
         | _can_ do age verification in an anonymous way using zero-
         | knowledge proofs but regulators demand linkable IDs instead.
         | 
         | It's not about protecting the kids. It's about managing the
         | public's information diet. The latter is not a legitimate
         | function of any state.
        
       | digiown wrote:
       | I secretly wish it would use a verification scheme that's so
       | invasive/annoying, that even adults would stop using it anyway.
        
         | bluescrn wrote:
         | IMHO the main point of these schemes is to make it hard for
         | adults to use social media somewhat-anonyously. So the
         | government can more easily identify those posting 'prohibited
         | speech'.
         | 
         | If there was a legitimate drive to protect kids from the worst
         | of the Internet, there'd have been more of a crackdown on porn,
         | gore, etc long before social media became such a big problem.
         | And smartphones would have never been allowed in schools.
        
           | bamboozled wrote:
           | What major revolutions or important political shifts have
           | occurred from people anonymously shitposting on Reddit or
           | Facebook ?
        
             | bluescrn wrote:
             | The online right talk about 'the great meme war' that led
             | to the 2016 election of Trump.
             | 
             | Seems pretty clear that social media is radicalising people
             | at both ends of the political spectrum, and it's not
             | surprising that governments would want to restrict/police
             | it by trying to criminalise 'hate'/'misinformation' and
             | taking away the shield of anonymity.
        
             | direwolf20 wrote:
             | Donald Trump?
        
             | JumpCrisscross wrote:
             | None. Almost by definition, the folks who satisfy
             | themselves waxing online drive complacency away from real
             | action. That doesn't, however, mean they aren't self-
             | importantly organized to later support an organized
             | movement.
        
               | bluescrn wrote:
               | Do you think the current anti-ICE movement would have
               | happened without social media? Or Jan 6th, or all the
               | Palestine protests, or even the election of Trump?
               | 
               | The US has it's first amendment protections, but other
               | countries seem rather more willing to crack down on
               | online speech.
        
               | dmurray wrote:
               | Why not? The Vietnam War drew plenty of organised
               | protesters. The details would be different, but big
               | popular actions can still be coordinated through
               | traditional media and word of mouth.
               | 
               | Lack of social media didn't prevent the French
               | Revolution.
        
           | digiown wrote:
           | You already basically can't use most mainstream platforms
           | anonymously. Try registering a Facebook without a phone
           | number (you need to give a passport to get one in most of
           | Europe).
        
             | direwolf20 wrote:
             | Do children have no phone numbers or do they use their
             | parent's?
        
               | digiown wrote:
               | You need a passport associated with it, you don't
               | necessarily need to be an adult I think. Or the parent's
               | is fine. Either way you will have to try quite hard to
               | get a FB account not associated with a real life
               | identity. And then they'd shadowban you.
        
               | bluescrn wrote:
               | In the UK, pay-as-you-go SIMs are widely available. Not
               | sure how much information you need to give to
               | activate+use one these days, though.
        
               | MonkeyClub wrote:
               | Up to a couple years ago you could get them included in a
               | PS10 Nokia in Tesco and pay with cash, no ID required.
        
             | haght wrote:
             | in my country you don't have to give a phone number to
             | register a social media website when i was a kid, i always
             | laughed at my internet friends from a neighbouring country,
             | because they had to give their id to get one, which is very
             | intrusive from the government turns out i was the odd one,
             | as most of the world required an id from you
        
           | athrowaway3z wrote:
           | I'm very critical of all the schemes proposed but this is
           | just a fundamental misconception on your part.
           | 
           | > If there was a legitimate drive to protect kids from the
           | worst of the Internet
           | 
           | As with any disease, the impact heavily depends on virality.
           | 
           | The worst the internet has to offer to children, is not the
           | gore or porn for the few that look for it (usually
           | individually). The worst it does to children is the attention
           | algorithm that captures practically everybody.
        
             | pfdietz wrote:
             | "But think of the children" has always been the go-to
             | excuse for tossing freedom out the window.
        
               | Noaidi wrote:
               | So in this case, do we just stop thinking about the
               | children in totality?
        
               | slavik81 wrote:
               | If manipulative algorithm are the problem, then perhaps
               | we should consider regulations that would protect
               | everyone.
        
               | XorNot wrote:
               | Exactly. The problem is no one wants to address that
               | maybe some of these business models just need to go
               | extinct.
               | 
               | Like maybe ad supported infinite feeds _can 't_ be done
               | in a socially responsible way and just need to be banned.
               | If that takes down or substantially limits certain web
               | service sizes...so be it.
        
               | hn_throwaway_99 wrote:
               | While I agree with this, I also find that the "but think
               | of the children" ironic retort also usually ignores the
               | very real problems that technology can cause children
               | (and society at large). In this issue in particular, if
               | banning social media for children makes it less likely
               | for adults to use it, I see it as pretty much a win-win.
        
               | expedition32 wrote:
               | Children are the survival of the species our DNA wires us
               | to to protect them.
        
           | riffraff wrote:
           | 90% of the people that spout racism, conspiracy theories,
           | threaten people, etc.. on social networks use their real name
           | and login with their phone number, there's no need to ask the
           | social networks to get ID cards, if you are the government.
        
             | phtrivier wrote:
             | I really doubt bots are using legitimate IDs.
             | 
             | The target for those age verification schemes (beyond
             | actually preventing the kids' brains from being rotten by
             | American ad supported skinner boxes) is probably to make
             | schemes like IRA [1] just slightly more complicated. (I
             | said "more complicated", I did not say "impossible" - I
             | very much know that bot factories will find their ways
             | around any kind of verification ; part of being on the
             | defensive side of a conflict is about not giving up.)
             | 
             | [1] https://www.theregister.com/2025/12/19/airbus_sovereign
             | _clou...
        
           | hn_throwaway_99 wrote:
           | > If there was a legitimate drive to protect kids from the
           | worst of the Internet, there'd have been more of a crackdown
           | on porn, gore, etc long before social media became such a big
           | problem. And smartphones would have never been allowed in
           | schools.
           | 
           | Where are you from, because all of these things have/are
           | being tried for a long time in the US (and, I'd note,
           | received significant pushback from civil liberty advocates).
           | Heck, TFA itself talks about how this social media ban is
           | coming _after_ a ban on phones in schools.
        
           | xixixao wrote:
           | Your argument hinges on the assumption that porn and gore
           | etc. have worse impact on kids. I don't think there's a
           | concensus on that. One might argue that porn and gore could
           | have been found in print before the internet, but that social
           | media have a more novel impact.
           | 
           | I personally like the theory that most kids problems are
           | actually attributable to family issues. That kids in solid
           | family environment/upbringing will not be "destroyed" by
           | computer games, porn, gore (2 girls 1 cup anyone?), or social
           | media. But that's also just a theory.
        
             | mc32 wrote:
             | If things in the internet didn't impact kids or people then
             | people wouldn't get up in arms about non-PC content, but we
             | know many different kinds of people only want thrown own
             | kind of content out there and would prefer to limit or ban
             | ideas they disagree with.
        
             | okr wrote:
             | I do not think it is about seeing certain things, that
             | exist in the adult world. That is surely a side effect that
             | one wants, though, protecting minors from a world that they
             | can not comprehend.
             | 
             | I think it is about algorithms targeting you all the time
             | for hours in favour of a company. We see the effects every
             | day. No attention span. Instant gratification. The next
             | kick.
        
         | bitshiftfaced wrote:
         | "Social media" doesn't just mean Facebook right? It includes
         | sites like Hacker News, yeah?
        
           | digiown wrote:
           | I'd draw a line using some of these aspects:
           | 
           | - Algorithmic recommendation / "engagement" engineering
           | 
           | - Profit/business model
           | 
           | - Images/Videos
           | 
           | - Real-life identity
        
             | unethical_ban wrote:
             | Retweet/repost is a part of your first bullet point, and is
             | big in itself. There is a book about the history and
             | present of social media from a few years back that calls
             | out the retweet function as a major clshift in the viral
             | nature of social media and its use to spread (mis)
             | information.
        
             | mrweasel wrote:
             | The two first I'd get behind, the latter two I just don't
             | think matter too much.
             | 
             | Algorithmic, for profit, social media is by far the worst
             | technology ever foisted upon humanity. Even most of the
             | issues with AI/LLMs become moot if we where to remove
             | platforms such as Facebook, Instagram, X and to some extend
             | YouTube. Removing the ability to spread misinformation and
             | fueling anger and device thought would improve society
             | massively. Social media allows Russian and Chinese
             | governments to effect election, they allow Trump to have an
             | actual voice and they allow un-vetted information to reach
             | people who are not equipped to deal with it.
             | 
             | It's time to accept that social media was an experiment, it
             | could have worked in an uncommercial settings, but overall
             | it failed. Humanity is not equipped, mentally, to handle
             | algorithmic recommendation and the commercialization of our
             | attention.
        
             | petre wrote:
             | You'll have bots spreading propaganda in notime if it gets
             | succesful even without those. So the 'algorithmic
             | recommendation' (aka ads and propaganda) don't even have to
             | come from the platform operator.
        
           | pipes wrote:
           | One of my main problems with all of this is "what counts as
           | social media". It's a stupidly broad term. Email? SMS?
           | Forums?
        
             | theptip wrote:
             | I think it's pretty easy to write a law that doesn't
             | include email and sms. They have no engagement algorithms.
             | 
             | Forums require a little more finesse - but a good starting
             | point is distinguishing upvotes from personalized
             | engagement-based algorithms.
             | 
             | Basically I don't buy that your concern is a problem in
             | practice.
             | 
             | Edited to add - here is the guidance for Australia's law
             | for reference: https://www.esafety.gov.au/about-
             | us/industry-regulation/soci...
        
           | riffraff wrote:
           | the approach australia took is a list of prohibited
           | applications. It's not "fair" to a technically minded person,
           | but it's a practical alternative, even if it would obviously
           | lead to a whack-a-mole situation.
        
             | digiown wrote:
             | It works better here than most other types of blacklists,
             | since networks take time to build up, and the "value" of
             | social media is mostly derived from the fact that you can
             | use it to interact with other people, not the software
             | itself.
        
           | tartoran wrote:
           | No, HN is more like a forum. It doesn't have dark patterns
           | and addictive engineering built in, even if it could itself
           | be addictive. There 's been functionality built in to limit
           | time spent on HN for a long time. Look at noprocrast setting
           | for example. Even if HN could be seen as social media it's
           | not in the same category of destructive social media a la
           | Facebook/Instagram/Tiktok
        
             | SirMaster wrote:
             | What about Reddit? What about 4chan?
        
             | hn_throwaway_99 wrote:
             | Yeah, agreed. While there are gray areas in the definition,
             | and I can certainly waste an absolute shitload of time on
             | HN and Reddit, both of those sites allow anonymity, and
             | neither provide user-specific personalization (with Reddit
             | you can obviously choose to subscribe to certain
             | subreddits, but that's not done for you, and AFAIK everyone
             | gets the same view and order of stories and comments). What
             | you see in the future is not just inferred from what you
             | clicked on in the past, and that for me is the cardinal sin
             | of most social networks.
        
             | hiprob wrote:
             | Legally, it doesn't matter. You can talk to people? Social
             | media it is.
        
               | mjr00 wrote:
               | > Legally, it doesn't matter. You can talk to people?
               | Social media it is.
               | 
               | No this isn't true at all, it absolutely does matter
               | legally. Look at Australia's underage social media ban.
               | Twitter was forced to ban children, but Bluesky was not
               | despite being the platforms being effectively the same.
               | Roblox and Discord, no bans despite being an extremely
               | common place for young people to socialize.
        
               | quotemstr wrote:
               | There was no objective basis for Australia whitelisting
               | BlueSky. Exempting it from the rules that govern social
               | media built just like it goes to show you that these
               | social media bans aren't about protecting the youth, but
               | stopping the spread of ideas the censors find
               | inconvenient.
        
             | beloch wrote:
             | HN has upvotes, downvotes, and people chasing them for
             | exposure, just like Reddit. The biggest difference is the
             | lack of subs. Everything goes into the same category so you
             | can't have highly specialized echo chambers. The moderators
             | also seem to be a touch more professional.
             | 
             | HN is absolutely social media and it does have _some_ of
             | the dark patterns that plague other platforms. They 're
             | just more reigned in. A change in moderation policy or new
             | moderators could destroy this site in a week.
             | 
             | I personally don't think kids need to be banned from
             | participating here. However, the law is often a blunt
             | instrument and it's probably better to get kids off of
             | Facebook _and_ HN if distinctions cannot be made.
        
             | quotemstr wrote:
             | Can you define, in a precise and actionable way, the
             | specific things that make X social media and this web site
             | not? "More like a forum" might be clear in your head, but
             | it's not a test the system can apply in an objective way.
        
             | digiown wrote:
             | The relative lack of dark patterns is true, but the more
             | distinguishing feature is that HN is boring to the majority
             | of people, and isn't destructive because not using it
             | doesn't make you excluded from society, and hence it has
             | little leverage on the users. If HN pulls the
             | enshittification trick, a much bigger portion of people
             | will just stop using it.
             | 
             | I'll try to convert it into a metric: measure the number of
             | involuntary users via the comments saying "I hate this
             | website". You rarely see people here saying HN is bad to
             | the point of being a net negative on them, for example, but
             | this is true of all normie sites, including reddit.
        
         | calpaterson wrote:
         | Finland has a whole national ID system, all interlinked. They
         | aren't going to be scanning faces to implement this stuff here
         | - and anyway the government here already knows what you look
         | like.
        
         | pembrook wrote:
         | Do you not see the irony of posting this on a social media site
         | (hacker news), given you're one of the users?
         | 
         | I guess self-hatred is one of the motivating vectors of
         | authoritarianism.
         | 
         | Would you also secretly like it if daddy government was always
         | watching you on camera and triggered your shock collar every
         | time you reached for a candy bar?
        
       | Tade0 wrote:
       | I'm eternally grateful that the social media network that I was
       | part of throughout my teenage years abruptly disappeared from the
       | internet, never to come back again.
       | 
       | Some say it was a technical failure during migration when the
       | company was trying to pivot to file hosting, but it's impossible
       | to verify.
       | 
       | Perhaps these bans are a blessing in disguise and future
       | generations will be happy to not have their most awkward stage of
       | life available forever, to everyone, in detail.
        
         | beAbU wrote:
         | Are you referring to MySpace?
         | 
         | My highschool band had tracks and videos of live performances
         | in the school hall on there that is forever lost and I'm still
         | bitter about it.
        
           | joe_mamba wrote:
           | How is MySpace even comparable to today's social media? AFAIK
           | MySpace wasn't agoritmycally driven to keep you addicted like
           | TikTok or Instagram do. MySpace was just you and your friends
           | from school competing on whose page is the tackiest.
        
           | Tade0 wrote:
           | I am not referring to MySpace. It was a local-to-my-country
           | social network which was outcompeted by another local-to-my-
           | country social network, which in turn gave way to Facebook.
           | 
           | I was aware of the existence of MySpace at the time, but it
           | never had mainstream adoption locally. We also had not one
           | but two mainstream messaging apps and hardly anyone was using
           | MSN.
           | 
           | Come to think of it, Facebook killed a lot of that homegrown
           | tech.
        
             | zppln wrote:
             | Early Facebook was inferior to local social networks in
             | many ways. The real killer feature was convincing people to
             | de-anonymize themselves on the internet.
        
         | bnastic wrote:
         | > technical failure during migration
         | 
         | Showing my age when the first thing that came to mind was ' but
         | ma.gnolia was more of a social bookmarking...'
        
       | throwaway613746 wrote:
       | I just wish this was possible somehow without essentially making
       | corporate mass-surveillance a requirement.
        
         | Zigurd wrote:
         | Horse. Barn. Gone.
        
           | JoshTriplett wrote:
           | Only if we give up. Keep fighting surveillance and control
           | mechanisms.
        
       | zhug3 wrote:
       | The phrase "uncontrolled human experiment" is doing interesting
       | rhetorical work here. It frames the status quo as the experiment
       | and regulation as the control--when historically it's been the
       | reverse.
        
         | barbazoo wrote:
         | I'd say status quo is before social media as that's where most
         | childhoods have happened. Targeting children with social media
         | is definitely a new thing and still an experiment since those
         | poor souls that had their lives surveilled by Meta are just
         | coming of age and we're just learning about the damages.
        
         | pembrook wrote:
         | The fact that you're the only one calling this out is quite
         | frankly alarming.
         | 
         | It's one of the most authoritarian statements I've ever heard
         | from a western government. And just because its the trendy
         | moral panic of the day, everybody is cheering it on.
         | 
         | Anything where we allow people free will is by definition an
         | "uncontrolled human experiment" and the basis of any free
         | society.
         | 
         | Should we also end the "uncontrolled human experiment" of
         | allowing people to have private money and make their own
         | purchase decisions? Should we end the "uncontrolled human
         | experiment" of allowing people to select their own romantic
         | partners?
        
       | stackbutterflow wrote:
       | Maybe it's time to start auditing social network platforms and
       | disallow certain practices.
        
       | Aeolun wrote:
       | Is it really so controversial to ban it entirely? We ban heroin
       | and other hard drugs.
       | 
       | I think most people are better off, and have a more nuanced view
       | of reality if the only news they get is local. Or the updates
       | from people they know always in person.
        
         | para_parolu wrote:
         | Compare it to marijuanna instead. Then it's on the same level
         | of controversy.
        
         | GaryBluto wrote:
         | Social media _is not_ a hard drug.
        
           | direwolf20 wrote:
           | What is the definition of a hard drug?
        
           | Zigurd wrote:
           | "Hard drug" is a loaded term. Nicotine is more addictive than
           | some "hard drugs." That big VC funded vape maker couldn't
           | stay away from child friendly marketing.
        
         | jbm wrote:
         | I remember reading the Montreal Gazette as a kid, with their
         | lopsided takes on various issues (local and international) as a
         | result of their "organic local" writers. The local talk radio
         | (CJAD) was worse.
         | 
         | I much prefer Youtube videos and international media from
         | multiple viewpoints to that world.
        
         | Aerbil313 wrote:
         | You are downvoted, but you are totally right. Humans are not
         | meant to cry daily over stuff that happens half a world away,
         | or be exposed to a thousand new strangers every day. But thanks
         | to internet, your mom and aunt can have an endless fuel to
         | their various anxieties and your daughter can have eating
         | disorders comparing herself to celebrities.
         | 
         | Bring a pre-internet pre-24/7 TV person to present day and
         | they'll spot the problem straight away. _Amusing Ourselves To
         | Death_ was written in reaction to the societal changes brought
         | by the TV. What about the impact of Internet news, and
         | Facebook, and Tiktok?
        
           | logicchains wrote:
           | >You are downvoted, but you are totally right. Humans are not
           | meant to cry daily over stuff that happens half a world away
           | 
           | You mean humans are not meant to learn about the atrocities
           | their government is funding half a world away.
        
             | SkipperCat wrote:
             | Social media is not designed to keep you informed. Its
             | designed to keep you engaged because that helps them sell
             | ads. And the best way to keep you engaged is to keep you
             | enraged. I've seen in the US how social media has been used
             | push false narratives, hate and other falsehoods. Its
             | toxic.
             | 
             | If you really want to stay informed, there are plenty of
             | newspapers, NGOs and other organizations out there
             | reporting the truth.
        
               | sunaookami wrote:
               | >If you really want to stay informed, there are plenty of
               | newspapers, NGOs and other organizations out there
               | reporting the truth.
               | 
               | And they don't report on that kind of stuff because they
               | either support it themselves or are indirectly funded by
               | the government.
        
               | logicchains wrote:
               | >I've seen in the US how social media has been used push
               | false narratives, hate and other falsehoods. Its toxic.
               | 
               | And for decades before that mainstream media was used to
               | push false narratives with absolutely no alternatives. Or
               | have you forgotten about the Iraq War?
        
             | Aerbil313 wrote:
             | No, governments are not meant to be able to fund atrocities
             | half a world away. Just as your body is not meant to sit at
             | a chair and your eyes are not meant to look at a distance
             | of 50cm for 8 hours a day.
             | 
             | The entire current human existence right now is at odds
             | with human biology and psychology. One has to swim against
             | the current just to be physically, mentally and spiritually
             | healthy.
        
             | wiseowise wrote:
             | It's what news made by reputable sources is for.
        
       | drdaeman wrote:
       | How do they even define "social media"? Do they just ban kids
       | from participating in society using electronic communications? Or
       | maintain a stoplist "here's what we consider to be social media"?
       | Or what?
       | 
       | I mean, sure, prime examples of what is colloquially called
       | "social media" is crapware. I do get the intent.
       | 
       | But I wonder what sort of unintended, unplanned, odd and
       | potentially even socially harmful consequences it would possibly
       | have.
        
         | riffraff wrote:
         | Australia enacted this through a stoplist, but also appears to
         | require self-assessment by the services themselves.
         | 
         | https://www.esafety.gov.au/about-us/industry-regulation/soci...
        
       | hiprob wrote:
       | Are they going to conduct an uncontrolled human experiment by
       | requiring age checks to use the Internet (read: surveillance
       | capitalism and Orwellian lack of privacy)?
        
         | robbbbbbbbbbbb wrote:
         | No, they'll probably just follow Australia's lead[1] of:
         | default allow; algorithmic age estimation; account suspend; ID
         | to unblock. Chill.
         | 
         | [1] https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cwyp9d3ddqyo.amp
        
           | sunaookami wrote:
           | So yes, you will need to show your ID which will connect to
           | your account and obviously be used to surveil everything you
           | post online. People on HN of all places need to stop being so
           | naive.
        
       | Noaidi wrote:
       | Can we be it for adults now? Seriously, can we?
       | 
       | I mean, if it affects a children's what makes we think it doesn't
       | affect adults? Alcohol affects children, and it affects adults.
       | If social media affects children, it also affects adults.
       | 
       | The big live social media was it was meant to connect people but
       | in truth, it was designed to control people.
        
         | logicchains wrote:
         | >The big live social media was it was meant to connect people
         | but in truth, it was designed to control people.
         | 
         | This is absurd. People have access to far more information
         | today via decentralised media than they did when information
         | was filtered through a small elite cabal of media company CEOs.
         | Restricting access to information is a means of controlling
         | people, and that's exactly what the governments pushing to ban
         | social media want to do.
        
           | nephihaha wrote:
           | Search engines restrict information. You get a very limited
           | selection of information off them nowadays.
        
         | pxoe wrote:
         | Why is it that some people are so hell bent on limiting how
         | people communicate? Ironically, this is also seeking to control
         | people.
        
           | NickC25 wrote:
           | If it was a pure communication platform, we wouldn't be in
           | this situation.
           | 
           | Social media as it exists in mainstream life is an
           | advertising platform which happens to have a few methods
           | humans can use to communicate with each other. But that's a
           | bug, not a feature.
        
       | seydor wrote:
       | Are adults any better? Not sure the ban is a productive way to go
       | about it.
        
       | OsamaJaber wrote:
       | The real question is enforcement They tried this, and kids just
       | moved to platforms nobody knew existed
        
         | jimbob45 wrote:
         | Eventually group SMS would still function well for this, no?
         | Shared email lists barring that. This seems like a race to the
         | bottom.
        
           | OsamaJaber wrote:
           | Exactly You can ban platforms but you can't ban communication
        
           | Arainach wrote:
           | Neither group SMS nor shared email lists have the algorithmic
           | dopamine tweaking that are the root of most of the harm.
        
         | logicchains wrote:
         | There's still a double digit percentage of parents that oppose
         | the ban. The only way to make a ban work without parental
         | support is requiring a video camera to be running constantly
         | doing facial verification while the app is running, completely
         | unfeasible.
        
           | Arainach wrote:
           | Don't let perfect be the enemy of good. Our current laws and
           | enforcement don't prevent 100% of murders or rapes, but that
           | doesn't mean we should remove the laws prohibiting them.
        
       | bilsbie wrote:
       | Noble goal but it ends up being a defacto internet license. All
       | ages need to show id to use sites and services.
        
         | echelon wrote:
         | 110%.
         | 
         | No website of any kind should require IDV unless banking. It is
         | a tool that will be used for censorship, removal of access to
         | information, destruction of freedom of speech, erosion of
         | privacy, and attacks on political opponents.
         | 
         | We need anonymity, ephemerality, and public square free speech.
         | 
         | Governments should instead regulate what these companies can
         | do. How they advertise. Engagement algorithms. Stop internal
         | efforts to target kids. Etc.
         | 
         | Disallow advertising to kids. Turn off ads on children's
         | accounts if the user is predicted or self reports as a kid.
         | Turn off the algorithm for kids.
        
           | idle_zealot wrote:
           | This is the obvious solution, but implementing it would be a
           | herculean effort. Not because it's technically difficult, of
           | course.
           | 
           | Consider the incentives of all involved powerful groups.
           | 
           | You have social media giants who want to addict and advertise
           | to users. The hate your solution, obviously. With the ID
           | checks they lose out on their younger users, but they also
           | get cover for even more aggressive behavior as nobody can
           | credibly yell "think of the children!" at them.
           | 
           | Then you have government officials who are nervous about
           | their lack of effective control over modern media. Your
           | solution offers them _nothing_ and loses them points with
           | those powerful business leaders. It opens them up to attack
           | from the right for being  "too hard on business and stifling
           | innovation." The ID checks, on the other hand, give them a
           | mechanism and lever to crack down on any sentiment in the
           | public that runs counter to their or their friends'
           | interests. It even polls pretty well with an increasingly
           | large number of paranoid and distrusting voters.
           | 
           | There's no contest at all between the routes before us. Only
           | a huge political upheaval could divert the world from this
           | path. The indicator to look for in a representative is a
           | willingness to champion policy that hurts entrenched
           | political and economic power while providing straightforward
           | utility to average citizens.
        
           | philipallstar wrote:
           | Parents should instead regulate what their kids can do.
        
             | expedition32 wrote:
             | It's the job of society to help parents otherwise the birth
             | rate will just continue to decline.
             | 
             | Remember that for the first time in history people can
             | choose not to have kids.
        
               | bethekidyouwant wrote:
               | What does parents choosing if their kids can use tiktok
               | have to do with the birth rate?
        
         | LordShredda wrote:
         | Social media's entire income model is finding out who you are
         | to advertise more accurately. Facebook knows your age down to
         | the day, and if they ask for ID this is them taking even more
         | data.
        
         | tgv wrote:
         | There is an alternative: prohibit smart phones for youth. They
         | can possess simple phones.
        
           | philipallstar wrote:
           | Parents can just do this. It's far more expensive to not do
           | it.
        
             | testing22321 wrote:
             | When all the kids in school have a smart phone it's
             | extremely hard to be the one kid and parents that don't.
             | 
             | So, so much easier and more effective if they're just
             | banned for all kids.
        
           | eimrine wrote:
           | prohibit all proprietary software
        
         | lm28469 wrote:
         | Good, less people will waste their lives talking to bots and
         | other low value activities
        
           | viktorcode wrote:
           | I expect more kids will switch to playing more games on their
           | phones with their friends. Whoever thinks the kids will
           | instead put down their phones and starting go out more often
           | has lost touch with reality.
        
       | verdverm wrote:
       | How long before the kids use Ai to build their own?
        
         | rhines wrote:
         | What matters is content, not communication. They could build a
         | platform to chat with each other, but they could just use
         | WhatsApp or text or email for that. But they can't build a
         | platform with an infinite stream of targeted content (until AI
         | generates content I guess).
        
       | andix wrote:
       | Modern social media is nothing like social media in early days
       | (myspace, early Facebook and even early Instagram). Back then it
       | was a platform to communicate with friends, and maybe even find
       | new friends to meet up with.
       | 
       | Today social media is more like a drug, to keep the user engaged
       | and to push content to them. The content must either be
       | addictive/engaging or paid advertisements. Quality of the content
       | doesn't matter at all. Connecting people to do stuff outside of
       | the virtual world would actually hurt their business model.
       | People turn off their devices and go outside, instead of watching
       | ads.
       | 
       | So it's probably fine to just block the big platforms. Forums or
       | messengers (without ads and public channels) are probably fine.
       | Probably even Reddit - which does have an algorithm to show
       | specific content - is not as bad.
        
         | john01dav wrote:
         | Reddit is plenty addictive in my experience, and I've heard the
         | same from other people ranging from high school teachers to
         | tradespeople.
        
           | tedmiston wrote:
           | i think most users need more screen blocking control than
           | they get out of the box on iOS. tools like one sec [1] have
           | been invaluable for me.
           | 
           | [1]: https://one-sec.app/
        
             | baq wrote:
             | Yes, but most importantly I need to manage my children's
             | devices; it cannot be opt in and it mustn't be possible to
             | disable without me approving. Screen time is too easy for
             | kids to work around as is. I also need in-app content type
             | filtering (eg. no shorts, no music videos on music
             | streaming apps) and literally no one is providing such
             | options, not to mention it should be managed in screen
             | time, too. Parental controls are a complete shit show in
             | iOS and the app ecosystem.
        
               | mike_hearn wrote:
               | So buy an Android:
               | https://families.google/intl/my/familylink/
        
           | whatever1 wrote:
           | Hackernews is also addictive. Fortnine is addictive. World of
           | Warcraft is addictive. NFL is addictive.
           | 
           | Addiction does not strike to me as a unique trait of the
           | social media.
           | 
           | The echo chamber bubble on the other hand, seems quite
           | unique.
        
             | XorNot wrote:
             | Hacker News has plenty of its own echo chamber, no
             | different to any other social environment.
        
               | hackyhacky wrote:
               | > Hacker News has plenty of its own echo chamber, no
               | different to any other social environment.
               | 
               | Sure, but fwiw the HN echo chamber is organic. People
               | choose to interact with people who have similar opinions,
               | as they have since forever.
               | 
               | In contrast, the echo chamber on HN, Tiktok, FB, etc is
               | architected specifically to drive engagement. You are
               | shown more of the content that you react to, so that you
               | won't leave.
        
               | edoceo wrote:
               | Typo on second mention of HN?
        
               | quotemstr wrote:
               | Nah. Hacker News has a diversity of views! In this very
               | thread, you can see a robust debate between
               | 
               | 1) people who want to ban kids from social media, and
               | 
               | 2) people who want to ban everyone from social media.
               | 
               | See? HN captures the full range of legitimate
               | perspectives on technology.
        
             | hackyhacky wrote:
             | > The echo chamber bubble on the other hand, seems quite
             | unique.
             | 
             | More specifically: using "engagement" as the metric to
             | optimize.
             | 
             | Users' use of content is measured: how long do they watch
             | it? Do they leave a comment? Do they give a "like"? Based
             | on that, the algorithm finds similar content that will
             | elicit an even stronger response.
             | 
             | Every action you take on modern social media is giving
             | information to your drug dealer so they can make the next
             | hit even better. But not better _for you_ ; better for the
             | social media, who make money from ads.
             | 
             | The continuously adaptive nature of the input stream as a
             | basis for keeping users' eyeballs leashed to ads is what
             | separates FB, Tiktok, Instagram, and Youtube from the more
             | benign, but still addictive alternatives (HN, Fortnite,
             | WoW, NFL, Reddit).
        
             | eimrine wrote:
             | > Hackernews is also addictive.
             | 
             | False. It is good, no more addictive than a spoon.
        
               | YuukiRey wrote:
               | A spoon has no randomization.
        
             | baq wrote:
             | HN doesn't optimize for _addictive_. Fortnite and wow do.
             | No opinion on NFL, but they probably do at least somewhat.
        
               | nish__ wrote:
               | The difference is whether or not the platform is for-
               | profit. If the goal of the platform is to make money,
               | decisions will be made to keep people more addicted than
               | would otherwise be natural. And that's the problem.
        
               | mike_hearn wrote:
               | HN lets users opt to automatically lock themselves out
               | after a while (noprocrast). Fortnite and WoW do not.
               | Sounds like one knows they have users with problems, no?
               | 
               | I think the term addiction is way overused in this stuff.
               | If a company makes a product you enjoy using that doesn't
               | mean you can just describe it as addictive and get out of
               | jail free. If there's some chemical in it that messes
               | with your brain, fine, otherwise people need to take
               | ownership of their own choices.
               | 
               | I think the disturbing reality is these countries are
               | wanting to control social media to control the population
               | politically. There was even a Labour MP in the UK who
               | admitted it on television. If it weren't the case they'd
               | just tell concerned parents to turn on the parental
               | controls devices already have, problem solved. Instead
               | they pass laws to end internet anonymity, but only on the
               | big networks, which won't do anything for kids but is an
               | excellent way to control political discontent.
        
               | baq wrote:
               | Parental controls don't work, they're too coarse grained
               | and too easy to get past. Source: am a parent.
        
               | t-3 wrote:
               | Karma and thread-ranking are adaptations that directly
               | increase addictiveness while doing little else...
        
             | carlosjobim wrote:
             | > The echo chamber bubble on the other hand, seems quite
             | unique.
             | 
             | At least you can now choose your bubble and even listen to
             | your own echo. That beats having the government beam their
             | psychosis straight into everybody's brain by TV, radio and
             | newspapers.
             | 
             | That makes the whole society an "echo chamber" of whatever
             | the rulers have on their current agenda. And not just on
             | your devices, but all the people you meet in real life.
        
         | cheeseface wrote:
         | Agree on how the platform's have changed.
         | 
         | However, I don't think Reddit is an exception. Popular is often
         | filled with content that is driven by the feelings of fear and
         | hate. Not something I'd like to continually expose kids or
         | teens to.
        
           | api wrote:
           | Smaller subs can still be decent but I agree about popular
           | and larger subs. They're just brain rot and engagement bait
           | now.
        
             | rhines wrote:
             | Yeah that's really the issue with all social media. If you
             | restrict yourself to just checking what friends post on
             | Facebook, or what people you subscribe to post on YouTube,
             | those platforms are pretty healthy too. It's when you go to
             | the infinite content feed that sites become an issue.
        
             | Aurornis wrote:
             | I don't know any more. Even the small subs I previously
             | visited for good content have turned into their own little
             | echo chambers, along with a lot of drive-by posts because
             | small subs get recommended in other people's feeds now.
             | 
             | In some of the hobby subreddits where I had good
             | discussions in the past it's now just one big echo chamber
             | of people parroting the same information around, whether
             | it's true or not. If you want to participate you either
             | need to toe the line of the accepted
             | brands/methods/techniques or keep your mouth shut. Most of
             | us just get tired and give up
        
           | Aurornis wrote:
           | I agree completely about Reddit. It's a clickbait factory
           | with a misinformation density that makes my Facebook feed
           | look downright informative.
           | 
           | I was an early Reddit user. It felt like there was a distinct
           | shift when the site went from programming and news topics to
           | being meme-heavy. Then again recently when they started
           | recommending niche subreddits into everyone's feeds so that
           | even the small subreddits couldn't count on being islands of
           | quality.
           | 
           | Now it's just a doomerism factory. The young Redditors I've
           | known feel like they've had their hope about the future
           | hollowed out and crushed. They open the site and consuming a
           | stream of content telling them that everything is awful and
           | will continue to be awful, and anyone who disagrees is
           | shouted down and downvoted. It's a real crabs-in-a-bucket
           | website now.
        
             | shevy-java wrote:
             | > It felt like there was a distinct shift
             | 
             | Yeah there definitely was a change in reddit, probably more
             | than once. It changed indeed. To the worse, too.
        
           | whyenot wrote:
           | What I find particularly bad about Reddit is the platform is
           | specifically designed to amplify group think and silence
           | competing opinions. All it takes is five more downvotes than
           | upvotes and a comment will lose visibility. It can turn
           | subreddits into little bubbles where like-minded people
           | upvote each other and almost never have to see dissenting
           | opinions. That may not be a big deal on a gardening
           | subreddit, but it can be a big problem or even dangerous
           | elsewhere.
        
             | Aurornis wrote:
             | > That may not be a big deal on a gardening subreddit,
             | 
             | I had to abandon my last few hobby subreddits because there
             | were a few chronically online people who had to control the
             | conversation in every single post with their opinions. If
             | anyone didn't agree, their comments would mysteriously go
             | to -3 or below within 30 minutes of posting.
             | 
             | It's all little fiefdoms for chronically online people now.
        
               | Imustaskforhelp wrote:
               | What are your thoughts on lemmy, maybe the hobby can be
               | extremely niche but you can even be the moderator
               | yourself on a lemmy instance and I think that a federated
               | reddit alternative would be nice too!
               | 
               | If I may ask, what are the hobbies that you are talking
               | about?
        
             | SilverElfin wrote:
             | > All it takes is five more downvotes than upvotes and a
             | comment will lose visibility.
             | 
             | That is true here too. And Twitter is the least
             | transparent, with people regularly reporting that posts
             | critical of musk or trump have reduced reach compared to
             | their other posts.
        
               | whyenot wrote:
               | Yes, but HN still has a strong culture of considering
               | both sides, excellent moderation, and some measures to
               | help nudge people in the right direction. For example,
               | right now I can only upvote your comment. I am not given
               | an option to downvote it. That's a good thing!
        
             | FeteCommuniste wrote:
             | Hot take: a voting system (and generally any move toward
             | _ranking_ content rather than displaying it
             | chronologically) will inevitably rot any social media
             | platform. Just a question of time.
        
               | holly01 wrote:
               | When I used 4chan the lack of voting made engaging with
               | the actual substance of a post much easier. This was
               | something observed by many other posters I talked to.
               | This is going to sound wishy-washy, but my theory is that
               | the brain is so attuned to socially trying to figure out
               | the in-group or who is in the wrong that putting a number
               | that signals social agreement on a statement will
               | immediately stimulate the more primal social pathways in
               | your brain before you can even think.
               | 
               | Of course 4chan isn't a great system for meaningful
               | discussions, the system skews conversations towards
               | outrage and shock. But reddits short, quippy, in-group
               | signaling post style that is encouraged by their voting
               | system seems to be absolute worst way to interact with
               | other people. HN also has this problem to an extent, but
               | it's properly modded and most people here seem to be not
               | be living through their phones so it isn't nearly as
               | extreme as reddit (or twitter, I never use twitter but
               | people seem miserable in a similar way to reddit users).
        
               | FeteCommuniste wrote:
               | In the first decade of the 2000s my only "social"
               | platforms were traditional (chronological) forums and the
               | average level of discussion and _effort_ to contribute
               | was way higher than what I usually see now on social
               | media.
        
             | baq wrote:
             | Reddit mod cabal is destroying the site, has been for
             | years. Not sure what the deal is, especially after IPO.
             | 
             | The worst part is the conspiracy theories are increasingly
             | being confirmed in the Epstein releases which is mind
             | blowing, eg. https://www.reddit.com/r/bestof/comments/mlt7v
             | /a_big_congrat... into
             | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=29884486 and
             | https://thepostmillennial.com/former-reddit-ceo-says-she-
             | kne...
        
           | oliwarner wrote:
           | I use old.reddit.com but I feel like I have complete control
           | over what I see. It's new posts, I check them and then I
           | leave.
           | 
           |  _That 's_ what I've lost on Facebook. It forces me to see
           | things its algorithm thinks I like, but more often than not,
           | it's things that make me want to argue. I don't have that on
           | Reddit. Long may it last.
        
             | shevy-java wrote:
             | Funny that you use old.reddit.com. I used this too. I could
             | not handle the new reddit - it was useless for me.
        
           | UltraSane wrote:
           | I've been on reddit long enough to get sick of the constant
           | reposts. They really should have a filter for that.
        
         | tedmiston wrote:
         | reddit having tons of niche subreddits and the ability to sort
         | them by best all time is one of my favorite ways to filter for
         | higher-quality content. (i don't use the main feed much.)
        
           | XorNot wrote:
           | I'd argue it's closer to the ability to search it with Google
           | to get alright non-clickfarm responses to questions, or
           | product reviews.
        
         | _DeadFred_ wrote:
         | I remember when they saw what a certain game app was doing and
         | were disgusted by it. Wild to me that those same people later
         | almost instantly chose to not only adopt the behavior but make
         | it core functionality. It's way worse when you see the evil and
         | STILL chose it.
        
         | api wrote:
         | It's not really social media at all and we should stop calling
         | it that. I call them chum feeds or scrollers. There's no social
         | component. It's just addictive short form infinite scroll brain
         | rot.
         | 
         | Social media deserving of the name is almost dead. It's not
         | that profitable and the sites are expensive to run.
        
           | tedmiston wrote:
           | likes and comments aren't social?
        
             | rhines wrote:
             | Not if there's no reputation. If you see someone liked your
             | post and then you go check out their posts, or if people
             | recognize commenters and remember things about them, then
             | it's social. Think engaging with friends on Facebook or
             | participating in a hobby forum. But there's nothing social
             | about engaging with a popular Reddit post or some
             | celebrity's Twitter feed.
        
             | andix wrote:
             | Only on the most shallow level. Early Facebook was like
             | meeting up with friends. Modern social media is like
             | shouting at strangers on the street.
        
             | parineum wrote:
             | I get where you and parent are coming from. It's social in
             | the way that anti-social behavior is social.
             | 
             | The content is generated by users but the consumer of the
             | content is served whatever user content drives engagement.
             | People aren't really having conversations on these
             | platforms.
             | 
             | The only places where you can really have a conversation
             | are places where engagement is low enough that the odds off
             | a set very high engagement comments can't shove everything
             | else down the page.
        
         | susam wrote:
         | > Modern social media is nothing like social media in early
         | days
         | 
         | Indeed. I no longer call them social media. They have all
         | become attention media platforms. I recently expressed my
         | thoughts about this on my blog at <https://susam.net/attention-
         | media-is-not-social-media.html>.
         | 
         | These days I typically resolve the domain names of these
         | attention media platforms to 127.0.0.1 in my /etc/hosts file,
         | so that I do not inadvertently end up visiting them by
         | following a link somewhere else. I think there are very few
         | true social media platforms remaining today, among which I
         | visit only HN and Mastodon.
        
           | hamdingers wrote:
           | > I no longer call them social media.
           | 
           | Social media is the correct name for what they are now,
           | they're channels that push curated content out to their
           | users.
           | 
           | The thing they used to be is social networking.
        
             | therealdrag0 wrote:
             | What is social about it tho?
        
         | gman83 wrote:
         | I wouldn't be surprised if Meta turned WhatsApp into a TikTok
         | clone just to get around the restrictions. They know that
         | banning WhatsApp for teenagers in Europe is almost impossible.
         | I look at my kids, all their sports clubs and other
         | extracurricular activities are organized through WhatsApp. I
         | already had to block Youtube on their devices. I was alright
         | with them watching a couple of long-form youtube videos every
         | day, but now if I unblock Youtube all they do is watch Shorts,
         | with no way to disable it.
        
           | grekowalski wrote:
           | Check out the NewPipe app. It works only on Android -- it's
           | YouTube for minimalists. No Shorts, no feed, no ads.
        
           | Imustaskforhelp wrote:
           | > extracurricular activities are organized through WhatsApp.
           | I already had to block Youtube on their devices. I was
           | alright with them watching a couple of long-form youtube
           | videos every day, but now if I unblock Youtube all they do is
           | watch Shorts, with no way to disable it.
           | 
           | If you want to block Shorts. I recommend you to try out
           | revanced which gives you youtube without any ads and a lot of
           | other customizations.
           | 
           | To be honest, I find it funny that paid youtube customers
           | might shift to revanced which is technically piracy jsut to
           | remove shorts.
           | 
           | I was this close to rooting the phones but she had just
           | bought a new phone.
           | 
           | But if pricing wasn't the concern for me (which right now it
           | is but I don't think for many HN users it might be), here's
           | what I suggest.
           | 
           | Go buy a phone which can be easily rooted and also use an
           | somewhat secure os (just short of graphene)
           | 
           | Patch revanced (I have even made a nix flake or some nix file
           | [i don't use nix that much but I was curious and ended up
           | using LLMs to generate the file] whose purpose was to take
           | android file and patch it when I was in nix, but I don't have
           | it with me right nwo as I may haev lost it)
           | 
           | Have in the options the short block option.
           | 
           | Newpipe is great as well but it doesn't really allow having
           | comment support.
           | 
           | Also given that HN is a very techie and well hacking with
           | software community. If anyone's interested to take an
           | challenge within Java/Kotlin (Unfortunately, they scare me)
           | then I have got an idea for you guys:
           | 
           | "But the option of turning shorts back on can still be
           | toggled. I wish if anybody whose an expert in java/kotlin can
           | take a look at how revanced works and maybe how to have a
           | revanced patch which can block shorts by default
           | (additionally with ads preferably too with the download
           | option patch as well & the sponsorblock) while atleast in the
           | revanced specific settings option blocking just the
           | option/toggle switch to turn shorts back on."
           | 
           | Also I am a teenager. I would consider the fact that I am on
           | this website partially because of a loop of youtubers that I
           | started following [ Fireship the goat before he turned VC ->
           | Primagen the legend -> Theo t3 (I do feel like he's not the
           | best guy following but he covered so much about YC that I
           | ended up opening news.ycombinator.com and reading it and not
           | watching him read it and ended up making account)
           | 
           | oh yeah before Fireship, I used to follow Code with harry
           | when I was around ~13 yo. I learnt python from him many years
           | ago before it was introduced to us in school so much so that
           | I ended up picking the finance subject out of curiosity and I
           | enjoyed both finance and tech.
           | 
           | One of the funniest stories from this whole is when Code with
           | harry loved one of my comments on youtube loooong time ago
           | and I was around 14 or osmething and then my mum saw it and
           | she didn't know what loving a comment in YT mean and she got
           | suspicious about it and questioned me and then I had to
           | describe hearting a comment to her xD.
           | 
           | Oh yeah. I started learning about python itself around this
           | time because one of my cousins whom I deeply respect who
           | works in aerospace but back when in his university started
           | mentioning how he worked on a ~2-3k loc and he mentioned
           | python and I was like hmm what's python.
           | 
           | I don't know if a parent is interested to hear this but I
           | feel like teenagers really replicate those they admire. A lot
           | of my traits first started just being around that cousin & he
           | actually taught me about assets/liabilities when I was in 5th
           | grade and taught me chess which both became very obsessive
           | points for me later down the life (My joy when I finally
           | ended up beating him at chess fair and square)
           | 
           | I don't think that I do that well academically per se though,
           | it really just depends on my mood so :/ yeah but I really
           | ended up butchering some prestigious college's paper real
           | hard and still tensed about it but honestly as a teen, I
           | don't even know why I am typing this but my point is that
           | your kid would have a personality and just nudge him in the
           | right manners & let him think for himself to think that he
           | reached at a particular conclusion. I do feel like that's
           | generally how I approached and I was the youngest of my whole
           | entire family tree so that made me more mature but I do feel
           | like it came at a trade off of wishing to grow up fast asap
           | when I was a child and now wishing to go back too seeing say
           | not being able to cope up with massive study efforts or
           | competition but that's another matter I guess.
           | 
           | Though parenting is definitely really really hard, kudos to
           | every parent out there.
           | 
           | Did go a little tangent so sorry about that.
        
           | stevage wrote:
           | If WhatsApp got banned, all those groups would simply switch
           | to Telegram or Signal or similar. It would be very easy.
        
           | Salgat wrote:
           | The second a ban is announced everyone would just migrate to
           | the next thing. That's the nice part of social media and
           | communication apps, they're easy to migrate off of.
        
         | Aurornis wrote:
         | > Probably even Reddit - which does have an algorithm to show
         | specific content - is not as bad.
         | 
         | I'm surprised Reddit gets a pass or borderline pass in social
         | media discussions.
         | 
         | In my experience working with kids, Reddit was the worst of the
         | social media platforms for mental health. By far. The kids who
         | were into Reddit were always spouting off information they got
         | from Reddit and had soul-crushing amounts of cynicism about the
         | world. On top of that, they had a chip on their shoulder about
         | it all, believing that Reddit was a superior source of truth
         | about the world.
         | 
         | The whole experience caught me off guard because going into
         | this I mostly heard about the stereotypical social media
         | dangers that get talked about, like boys following Andrew Tate
         | and such. Instead the biggest problem was Redditors on a fast
         | path to doomerism.
        
           | andix wrote:
           | thanks for that insight
        
           | Ylpertnodi wrote:
           | > ....the stereotypical social media dangers that get talked
           | about, like boys following Andrew Tate and such
           | 
           | I wonder where tate got his ideas and influences from. And
           | why he's free in the US.
        
         | jnordt wrote:
         | Tictoc, Instagram, Youtube shorts and in parts Linkedin are
         | Digital Drugs. Similisr to smoking cigarettes or vaping.
         | 
         | Whats fascinating about thid is that we have managed to create
         | a new class of drugs - that does not require physical
         | substances to be added to our bodies...and works via visual
         | stimulous only.
        
         | BrenBarn wrote:
         | > So it's probably fine to just block the big platforms. Forums
         | or messengers (without ads and public channels) are probably
         | fine.
         | 
         | Even better might be to just destroy the big platforms by
         | breaking them up.
        
         | dragoncrab wrote:
         | Myspace and early Facebook were already a downgrade to classic
         | chatrooms. I met with so many interesting people on chat in the
         | early 2000s and have met with many offline as well. Multiple
         | times I've travelled 6+ hours to participate in chat meetups
         | with 20-50 others from the same chatroom.
         | 
         | Those were different times: Over 4 years, I've never received a
         | d*ckpic or was target of stalking, harassment, abuse or scam.
         | People were genuinely interested in each other, chat was not
         | about building a personal brand and anonymity didn't make
         | commenters psychos.
         | 
         | I'm not sure if ignorance was bliss, or times changed so much,
         | but as an adult, I feel online communication has became a
         | battlefield where I need to protect my sanity every time I
         | interact with it. Rage bait, fake news, ads, bot farms, lies in
         | a never ending flood. I wouldn't let my children to even try to
         | live the same, uncontrolled online life I had.
        
           | mrighele wrote:
           | > Myspace and early Facebook were already a downgrade to
           | classic chatrooms.
           | 
           | They were not a downgrade, they just worked the other way.
           | With classic chatrooms (or a random vBulletin forums, if you
           | wish) you would meet somebody online, then you would become
           | friends over time and then you meet them in real life. I did
           | that too.
           | 
           | With early Facebook, you would meet somebody at a party, have
           | fun together, and decide to become friends on Facebook, not
           | much different from exchanging phone numbers, but somehow
           | better.
        
             | NickC25 wrote:
             | > With classic chatrooms (or a random vBulletin forums, if
             | you wish) you would meet somebody online, then you would
             | become friends over time and then you meet them in real
             | life. I did that too.
             | 
             | And it was usually themed around a specific hobby or
             | activity, which would naturally turn into offline, real-
             | world activity. almost as if it was a conduit to connecting
             | real people with real interests, who would seek out
             | communities based around their interests, connect, and then
             | eventually go and do those interests.
             | 
             | I was heavily into a few growing up, all of which revolved
             | around real-world activities, which the forum members all
             | actively participated in. One, in particular that really
             | stuck with me for years, was tennis. The forum I was on had
             | monthly meetups for my region (NYC metro area) and dozens
             | of people would show up, engage, and enjoy each other's
             | presence and participation. There was also a travel
             | section, so if I was traveling to another country or part
             | of the US, I'd be easily able to tap into that region's
             | meetup and get a chance to hit some balls whenever I was on
             | the road. Lovely.
             | 
             | What was nice is that genuine communities were formed, and
             | people actually and actively policed their own communities
             | not as a power trip (hey Spez!) but rather in earnest to
             | ensure their communities were welcoming and that whoever
             | was interested in that topic/activity could participate.
        
               | FeteCommuniste wrote:
               | Man I miss the days when forums were hopping. They all
               | really had their own "character," too, often informed by
               | whatever interest group they were catering to.
               | 
               | It feels like by including everything on one site, Reddit
               | et al just end up as a bland "soup." But they're so
               | useful by the sheer mass of population that they end up
               | drowning out everything else.
        
               | coffeebeqn wrote:
               | I even made friends on various forums. Hard to imagine
               | these days
        
           | random3 wrote:
           | Not many digital cameras, not enough bandwidth for multimedia
           | either. Your "face" was a nickname.
        
         | jmathai wrote:
         | I wish the same would happen for games like Roblox. These games
         | suffer from all the same problems social media does.
        
         | buckle8017 wrote:
         | Reddit is actually the worst of the bunch.
        
         | UltraSane wrote:
         | I've noticed comments on YouTube videos about politically
         | controversial things in the US show incredibly obvious bot
         | activity.
        
         | alexjplant wrote:
         | Reddit has been a cesspit of recycled pablum, populist image
         | macros and low effort reply comments for more than a decade.
         | Enthusiast subreddits are astroturfed to hell and back by
         | people with a Shopify storefront and a dream trying to growth
         | hack their way to a hockey stick. The low barrier to entry to
         | each community means that this vapid culture eventually
         | diffuses itself across subreddits that might otherwise be good.
         | It's a postmodern toilet that flushes into its own tank.
         | 
         | I don't care if I sound old and salty when I say this: I miss
         | phpBB and Invision forums. Even those are being bought up by
         | marketing companies to sell ads and transformed with social
         | media features... Xenforo (which everybody uses now) allows
         | liking posts and supports Instagram-style content feeds.
        
           | SauntSolaire wrote:
           | Agreed. I wish they would consider charging a small fee (~$1)
           | to create an account. That alone would cut down on all the AI
           | spam and give subreddit moderators a fighting chance.
        
             | slumberlust wrote:
             | Reddit could pay the mods. Let us not act like spam
             | accounts are undesirable for the lil piggy. MAU doesn't
             | differentiate between real and fake users.
        
             | shevy-java wrote:
             | But one problem on reddit were the mods. It was why I
             | retired.
             | 
             | Bots and AI spam can be annoying but mods that lock you out
             | of discussions are much worse.
        
             | embedding-shape wrote:
             | > give subreddit moderators a fighting chance
             | 
             | Moderators are part of the problem really, there are a
             | handful of moderators holding the reins over all the
             | popular subreddits, and "smaller" (even big ones)
             | subreddits suffer from the same problem.
             | 
             | As an example, r/MistralAI, r/LocalLLaMA, r/ChatGPT,
             | r/OpenAI and r/grok are all run by the same person.
             | 
             | The only survivable places on reddit left are the
             | subreddits with small amount of contributors that aren't
             | trying to gain something by participating and organizing.
             | But they're so few.
        
               | PaulDavisThe1st wrote:
               | > But they're so few.
               | 
               | Given how many subreddits there, I have to ask if you
               | have statistics to back up this claim.
               | 
               | My intuition is that people have problems with a bunch of
               | popular subreddits, but the vast majority of subreddits
               | are just fine. I have no statistics to back up this
               | intuition.
               | 
               | Do you?
        
               | peyton wrote:
               | There's a whole vibrant industry of people you can pay to
               | market whatever you want on Reddit. They can't all be
               | competing for the same few popular subreddits. They must
               | be differentiated by targeting niche subreddits.
        
             | crooked-v wrote:
             | Something Awful has retained a weirdly high level of
             | quality these days by (still) charging :tenbux: to register
             | an account.
        
           | shevy-java wrote:
           | phpBB was quite nice, but you must remember that people used
           | phpBB less and less over the years. Many phpBB style
           | webforums are dead, and died before discourse etc... came
           | about.
           | 
           | People's habits changed.
           | 
           | I do agree that things got worse in the last ~16 years or so.
        
             | Arainach wrote:
             | The legal landscape has also changed. 20 years ago I helped
             | run a web forum, but with today's legal landscape - DMCA in
             | the US, various different laws in the EU and other
             | countries - I would never do so. The amount of liability on
             | the host for user-created content is far too high.
        
             | zdragnar wrote:
             | There's one or two still kicking around that I visit
             | myself, but I'll admit I don't miss not having threaded
             | conversations. Trying to follow a conversation with other
             | people butting in with low effort shit posting is way
             | harder with everything being linear.
        
             | PaulDavisThe1st wrote:
             | What, really, is the difference between phpBB and discourse
             | (not discord) in the context of the discussion we're having
             | here?
        
             | marginalia_nu wrote:
             | What really killed phpBB and that generation of boards was
             | mostly the sketchy codebases they ran off.
             | 
             | The code was rife with vulnerabilities, so the boards
             | needed constant patching (which was a non-trivial that
             | sometimes killed the database). If you didn't patch on
             | time, a script inevitably dropped by, exploited the
             | software, dumped all credentials, and nuked the database.
             | 
             | Those old forums were not built with the adversarial nature
             | of the 2010s internet in mind. Boards were dropping like
             | flies a few years there. Most simply never recovered.
        
           | AlienRobot wrote:
           | The craziest thing about Reddit for me is how most
           | communities forbid "self-promotion." To me that sounds like a
           | thing only admins would want because it keeps users on the
           | site/app, but this is enforced by moderators for some reason
           | and a lot of drama has occurred over banning creators over
           | these silly rules.
           | 
           | It's a place that originally was a link-sharing platform,
           | where you literally can't share a link to your own website on
           | any subreddit. At least not if you are honest about it. It's
           | okay if you pretend you aren't associated to it.
           | 
           | Reddit has become essentially watermarked videos posted by
           | people pretending they aren't the creator of the video,
           | twitter screenshots with 10 likes posted by people pretending
           | they aren't the user who tweeted the tweet, and links to news
           | websites posted by users whose only activity on reddit seems
           | to be posting the same link to 5 different subreddits as if
           | it was their job, because it probably is.
        
         | figassis wrote:
         | When did this start? IMHO it started with instagram. I remember
         | back then there were multiple retro photo apps, insta was one
         | of them, I had several on my phone and kept playing around with
         | them (at the time apps felt like Christmas presents, each
         | update exploring a device feature in creative ways).
         | 
         | I don't quite remember, but I don't think it was a social
         | network then, I think you posted the photos in other networks,
         | and then they made it into a social network and something
         | strange happened. People started posting pictures of food and
         | just general daily life stuff and I thought this was a small
         | group of people who were a extroverts and just wanted to show
         | off idk, they ate beautiful food.
         | 
         | Then something strange happened. This behavior started getting
         | normalized, all other insta like apps disappeared and shortly
         | after, it became necessary to have an instagram account.
         | 
         | I remember at the time I thought something was off, to this day
         | I think I have posted a total of 10 instagram images, they
         | still have the old filters, and stayed off of it since.
         | 
         | But it's been interesting watching it morph into this hydra
         | that simply cannot be put down, to the point where it's more
         | powerful than governments.
        
           | refulgentis wrote:
           | Really good question...TL;DR: I'd put it around when Mark Z
           | decided Instagram also had to be Snapchat. (copied Stories)
           | It normalized a behavior of copying.
           | 
           | I had gotten completely out of these apps, then ended up in a
           | situation where I needed to use Snapchat daily if not hourly
           | for messaging, and needed to use TikTok to be culturally
           | literate. (i.e. I got into something romantic with someone
           | younger).
           | 
           | It was a stunning experience. Seeing _everyone_ had
           | normalized this "copy our competitor" strat, hill-climbing on
           | duration of engagement.
           | 
           | YouTube Shorts is a crappy copy of TikTok with mostly TikTok
           | reposts and no sense of community.
           | 
           | Snapchat has a poor clone of TikTok that I doubt anyone knows
           | exists.
           | 
           | TikTok is the ur-engagement king. Pure dopamine, just keep
           | swiping until something catches your attention, and swipe as
           | soon as it stops. No meaningful 1:1 communicating aspect
           | (there's messages, but AFAICT from light quizzing of Gen
           | Zers, it's not used for _actual_ _communication_ )
           | 
           | Instagram specifically is hard for me to speak to, because
           | Gen Zers seem to think its roughly as cool as Facebook, but
           | my understanding is millennials my age or younger (I'm 37)
           | use it more regularly, whereas Gen Z uses it more as like
           | we'd think of Facebook, a generic safe place where grandma
           | can see your graduation photos, as opposed to spontaneous
           | thirst traps.
        
         | shevy-java wrote:
         | > Today social media is more like a drug, to keep the user
         | engaged and to push content to them.
         | 
         | Agreed but you have this on many websites such as youtube. Is
         | youtube the next to get banned here? I mean you can write
         | comments to so it is kind of a social mediua setup as well.
         | 
         | > So it's probably fine to just block the big platforms. Forums
         | or messengers (without ads and public channels) are probably
         | fine.
         | 
         | I don't know. It sounds quite arbitrary to me.
         | 
         | Not that I have anything against chopping down the big
         | platforms. They truly abuse many people.
        
         | thijson wrote:
         | Probably the online dating platforms are the same way. Someone
         | actually finding their mate, and no longer needing the platform
         | is counterproductive to their business model.
        
         | seneca wrote:
         | I totally agreed with you, right up until the last paragraph.
         | Reddit is among the worst communities on the internet.
        
       | malklera wrote:
       | Do parents do not exist? I mean if the parents pass hours looking
       | at their phone, the kids would want to use a phone, maybe making
       | a law is easier than setting an example? Each parent could
       | educate themselves and bloc "harmful" websites from their kids
       | phones, that is what parental control is for.(single, no kids)
        
       | ottah wrote:
       | Never accept the bullshit false dichotomy of people pushing an
       | agenda. There are many, many ways to solve this issue other than
       | the nuclear option of a ban and doing nothing.
        
       | rendall wrote:
       | The impression that one might get from this article is that the
       | ban is essentially a done deal, but it's not. What exists right
       | now is political signaling by Prime Minister Petteri Orpo, plus
       | preliminary fact-finding and position papers by ministries and
       | agencies, but no enacted legislation. There's still a big gap
       | between "government floats an idea with broad public support" and
       | "a legally enforceable, technically workable ban".
       | 
       | The Finnish language article about it is much thinner.
       | 
       | https://yle.fi/a/74-20204177
        
       | spicyusername wrote:
       | Under 15
       | 
       | Heck I'd support banning under 18.
        
       | abdelhousni wrote:
       | Tiktok was also the wake up call for US and other western
       | countries who found out they lost a part of their youth about the
       | Israeli war on Gaza. Youth thorough the ages always stand against
       | perceived injustice. The oligarchy also want to control that
       | aspect.
        
       | SilverElfin wrote:
       | Banning youth from communicating is just not appropriate. And
       | forcing adults to give up privacy to discuss things is a huge
       | risk and a path to enabling authoritarianism, like in Trump's
       | America.
        
       | duxup wrote:
       | Rather than really address what is ass about social media, we
       | just "ban" it for folks who we can ban it for. This seems off.
       | 
       | Kid's have unlimited time. They'll find something else, likely
       | pretending to be adults and thus even more at risk.
       | 
       | Meanwhile everyone else gets an internet license and the
       | government every website tracks you ...
       | 
       | This is a classic case of nice idea and the results will be all
       | wrong / not even address the problem.
        
         | hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm wrote:
         | By creating 'rules' for social media based on what's good and
         | bad instead of banning it altogether you end up creating
         | loopholes instead. Even in the case we instead first discuss
         | what is "ass" we will probably end up having a debate instead
         | of getting anything done for another 10 years. I'm on team,
         | just get shit done.
        
           | duxup wrote:
           | What is getting done here?
           | 
           | Everyone but kids is still exposed, and likely still kids...
           | 
           | Also you now have to have a license for social media,
           | probably the internet eventually.
        
       | constantcrying wrote:
       | This is of course a trend in many western countries. With some,
       | like the UK and Australia, leading the way.
       | 
       | At this point I do not think it is reasonable to deny the harm
       | that certain modes of social interactions over the internet have
       | caused. At the same time these bans should not be considered
       | reasonable options. They exist to cover for the decade of
       | inaction of politicians in addressing youth dissatisfaction and
       | dysfunction.
       | 
       | A reasonable approach should not assume that the root cause of
       | this dysfunction is youth interacting with social media, but
       | should consider what lead to this in the first place. Apparently
       | most adults seem to be capable of dealing with this situation, if
       | they are not why would this ban, or at least some regulation, not
       | extend to social media for adults.
       | 
       | In general I believe that dysfunction in the youth has multiple
       | causes and that overuse of social media is just on part of the
       | puzzle and that unhealthy use of social media is often _caused_
       | by other problem and used as a coping mechanism.
       | 
       | These bans will not be effective and they will be assaults on the
       | free internet, as the bureaucrats establishing the laws are also
       | seeking to control the internet for themselves and will use this
       | as a backdoor.
        
         | quotemstr wrote:
         | > At this point I do not think it is reasonable to deny the
         | harm that certain modes of social interactions over the
         | internet have caused
         | 
         | Yes, it is reasonable to doubt the purported harms are real,
         | because
         | 
         | 1) I've yet to see evidence that the medium is the problem,
         | 
         | 2) people keep telling me that they don't need evidence because
         | the harms are obvious, and
         | 
         | 3) I have an strong prior, as an American, that anyone
         | preventing people sharing ideas with each other is a villain of
         | history.
         | 
         | The furor over youth social media has all the hallmarks of a
         | moral panic, including over-reliance of weak evidence, personal
         | attacks against skeptics, and socially disruptive remedies of
         | dubious efficiency, the collateral damage of which people
         | justify by pointing to harms to children they say, falsely, are
         | obvious and ongoing.
         | 
         | I'm not convinced that these social media bans are solving a
         | real problem. The more people breathlessly tell me I'm a bad
         | person for asking for evidence of the alleged harms, the more I
         | think it's a public mania, not a civilizational problem.
         | 
         | It really doesn't help that it'd be suspiciously convenient for
         | the worst actors in power if sharing ideas on the internet
         | required ID.
        
           | constantcrying wrote:
           | For the reasons outlined in my post I believe that it is hard
           | to show specific causal claims which relate overuse of mobile
           | devices and especially social media to specific problems.
           | Although I think for some specific cases this could still be
           | reasonably inferred.
           | 
           | Just to be clear, the evidence seems overwhelming. This is
           | not some novel research field, but this questions has been
           | researched for long enough to have been pretty conclusively
           | answered.
           | 
           | >1) I've yet to see evidence that the medium is the problem,
           | 
           | This is not relevant to the claim. The claim is that the
           | specific usage pattern of young adults is harmful to their
           | development.
           | 
           | >I'm not convinced that these social media bans are solving a
           | real problem.
           | 
           | I largely agree.
        
       | perfmode wrote:
       | I miss the days of chatting at home with friends after school on
       | MSN Messenger and ICQ.
        
       | notthemessiah wrote:
       | People in this thread are celebrating this, though it inevitably
       | means ID-checking and mass surveillance. Australia's ban also
       | exempted Roblox, a platform that exploits children and is a haven
       | for child predators. Also, it's no coincidence that all these
       | social media bans are arriving the same time youth are using
       | social media to spread awareness of Israel's genocide of
       | Palestine.
        
       | m132 wrote:
       | Open Internet dying in front of our very eyes.
       | 
       | Let's not forget that social media are just one of the many
       | scapegoats tried over the past decade in hopes of pushing this
       | idea forwards. And while there's no denying that today's social
       | media have gotten destructive, they're still only a scapegoat; no
       | attempt is being made here to bring them back to their original,
       | non-malicious shape.
       | 
       | Is the social media hate really so powerful that, channeled
       | carefully, it can overshadow free speech?
        
         | testing22321 wrote:
         | Has anyone ever argued that children should have full access to
         | the entire internet?
         | 
         | Seems like a horribly bad idea.
        
         | wiseowise wrote:
         | > no attempt is being made here to bring them back to their
         | original, non-malicious shape.
         | 
         | Social networks can revert back to original form any minute,
         | nobody's stopping them.
         | 
         | > Is the social media hate really so powerful that, channeled
         | carefully, it can overshadow free speech?
         | 
         | Bots giving platform to schizos and fringe radicals is a
         | freedom of speech?
        
       | Am4TIfIsER0ppos wrote:
       | Wrong. Ban phones. Would benefit more than just children. The
       | internet must again become something you sit down to use.
        
         | eimrine wrote:
         | ban proprietary software, do not let microsoft or apple to
         | "offer deals" to schoolchildren.
        
       | cal_dent wrote:
       | It's all picking up steam. The thing is whatever the
       | implementation may be, the writing is on the wall that social
       | media's are numbered, well at least its in current form.
       | 
       | I.m sure there'll be downsides to this but, have to say, I'm
       | happy the de facto position that social media's should be allowed
       | to be the wild west is now seriously being questioned
        
         | logicchains wrote:
         | >the writing is on the wall that social media's are numbered,
         | well at least its in current form
         | 
         | There's enough of us devs that absolutely fucking hate the idea
         | of governments controlling how people communicate that the next
         | stage of social media will probably be a decentralised system
         | that's extremely difficult to shut down. Unless every
         | government devolves into full on China-style authoritarianism
         | with deep packet inspection, a national firewall and ubiquitous
         | surveillance, there's no way to stop a well designed
         | distributed social media platform. There just hasn't been
         | enough incentive yet for people to build one.
        
       | hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm wrote:
       | Social media really is downhill from here. There is already a lot
       | of bot activity (and I don't mean moltbook) and it will only get
       | worse.
       | 
       | This will become closer to truth than conspiracy:
       | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dead_Internet_theory
        
       | VortexLain wrote:
       | Social media age restriation is just an anonymity ban in
       | disguise. Governments should focus on regulations knowingly
       | addictive and overly engaging mechanics instead.
        
       | pembrook wrote:
       | Watching people cheer this on uncritically without thinking
       | through what this actually means in practice (the end of privacy
       | on the internet, forever)...just because of some silly moral
       | panic and people being too lazy to parent their kids...it's just
       | sad.
       | 
       | Unfortunately, rationally thinking through 2nd and 3rd order
       | effects is hard. As we see on social media, appeals to emotion
       | drive the highest engagement, and "think of the children" is the
       | ultimate emotional appeal.
       | 
       | But hey, with European countries moving to tie all internet
       | activity to their national ID system to "protect the children
       | from social media" and "ban speech we don't like" maybe we can
       | finally get rid of those cookie popups?
       | 
       | Making Lambi Toilet Paper jump through bizarre hoops when
       | targeting their toilet paper ads to people seems silly
       | now...given we're voluntarily handing our browser history &
       | permission to access the open web to a much more powerful entity
       | (the government). Consumer goods companies combining your IP
       | address and email address together for the purpose of selling you
       | more toilet bowl cleaner...becomes a bit of a moot point, no?
        
       | donatj wrote:
       | Do people under the age of sixty even use traditional social
       | media anymore? Do we have actual stats?
       | 
       | I am in my late thirties so surely out of touch, but am friends
       | with people in their mid twenties and frankly I don't know anyone
       | who spends any significant time on anything other than TikTok. I
       | guess you could call TikTok "social media", but it wouldn't fit
       | my old person definition.
       | 
       | I think pretty much everyone below the age of 60 is aware that
       | Facebook/Instagram/etc is just slop now. You don't even see your
       | friend stuff. You just see slop. I use Facebook primarily for
       | marketplace these days, but when I do scroll my feed, it's all
       | like weird east asian AI slop. Women cutting open impossibly
       | large fruit, fake tartar removal, fake videos of fights.
       | 
       | Literally nothing that compels me to stay on the site like I hear
       | people on here talk about.
        
         | hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm wrote:
         | >I think pretty much everyone below the age of 60 is aware that
         | Facebook/Instagram/etc is just slop now.
         | 
         | Sorry, but to me you just revealed you don't speak to many
         | women.
        
           | donatj wrote:
           | I'm married with children, work from home, and weeks away
           | from my 40s. So yes. Not a big revelation.
           | 
           | I have more than a couple nieces and nephews in their late
           | teens/early 20s though and if you ask them, social media is
           | for old people.
        
       | expedition32 wrote:
       | Its a very dangerous experiment. Remember: we only get ONE
       | childhood. No do overs.
        
       | shevy-java wrote:
       | Hmmmm. So I do understand some concerns here. On the other hand,
       | I also absolutely hate all forms of censorship. I don't use any
       | of these anti-social media myself (though, perhaps hacker news is
       | declared social media? I also used to use reddit in the past, is
       | that social media? Where are the boundaries of that term
       | definition by the way?), but I still absolutely dislike state
       | actors banning websites. I have no illusion about e. g.
       | Zuckerberg and others here; see the recent news how Facebook
       | tried to "hook" up young kids like a drug addict; Google via
       | Youtube on the "swiping" of videos (that one is hard to resist
       | ... I keep on scrolling down in the hope of finding better
       | videos, fail, and eventually realise how I am wasting my time
       | swiping ...). But even then ... I actually think I dislike
       | censorship more than those anti-social websites that I am not
       | even using anyway. This may be different for younger brains, so
       | it is not that I am not understanding the rational behind. But
       | still ... I can't get myself to want to like censorship either.
        
         | httpsterio wrote:
         | I wouldn't call it censorship. We don't allow kids to drink or
         | smoke either, is that censorship? Gate keeping media thats
         | possibly harmful for developing brains, when the users are
         | possibly unable to make an informed decision for themselves,
         | isn't inherently bad.
        
       | zinodaur wrote:
       | We should ban dynamic feeds that aren't based on explicit user
       | action. E.g., Youtube should only be able to show search results
       | based on search term, not search context. The recommendations
       | should only be videos from channels you have subscribed to.
       | 
       | The dangers of algorithmic content are so obvious, and the only
       | way to stop companies from doing this stuff is to legislate
       | against it
        
       | cowboylowrez wrote:
       | The internet should be 18+, no internet for kids, there is
       | literally no need for kids to have internet access and its easy
       | too, treat the devices themselves as contraband. This way you
       | need no age checks for social media because internet itself is
       | 18+.
        
       | nephihaha wrote:
       | Australia, France, soon the UK... All within a few months and
       | they have the chutzpah to suggest they came up with this notion
       | independently.
        
       | blackqueeriroh wrote:
       | Welp, let's just keep screwing over anyone who doesn't fit
       | society's mold of who is acceptable. Particularly queer kids,
       | neurodivergent kids, disabled kids, etc.
        
         | wiseowise wrote:
         | What does this have to do with social networks ban?
        
       | jimmcslim wrote:
       | Meanwhile in Australia two teens I am responsible for still have
       | TikTok appearing in their screentime usage and for longer than
       | the time limit I have set for them.
        
       | blackqueeriroh wrote:
       | As someone who has literally been on the internet since BBSes,
       | the idea that those days were better absolutely is contradicted
       | by my own experience, in which I was victimized and exploited
       | several times because of the lack of any real moderation.
        
       | irusensei wrote:
       | Seems its just another country coming up with the same convenient
       | excuse to implement KYC to access the internet.
        
       | lovlar wrote:
       | It's going to be interesting to see how these types of bans play
       | out.
       | 
       | One alternative to bans could perhaps be if the EU created an IdP
       | or something similar, with a fee for each authentication request,
       | and then forced all commercial services within Europe to use it.
       | I'm not sure if the fee should go back to the user or be paid as
       | tax to the government, but either way, it would change the
       | incentives around connecting traffic to you and making profit
       | from it by harvesting data or steering recommendation engines.
       | 
       | Because I do think there's nothing wrong with the government
       | doing this, just like in the physical world.
       | 
       | And in some cases, we might prefer cheap authentications... like
       | when posting comments, to avoid trolling/manipulation/bullying.
       | Perhaps when doing "writes" on the internet, if there's a robust
       | way to identify that type of traffic.
        
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