[HN Gopher] Privacy and control. My tech setup
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       Privacy and control. My tech setup
        
       Author : todsacerdoti
       Score  : 114 points
       Date   : 2025-12-31 18:39 UTC (4 hours ago)
        
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       | jumpingpants wrote:
       | > Instead of "privacy" we really should be talking about
       | "control".
       | 
       | Fantastic. This is what I have been shifting towards these past
       | couple years. Hardly anyone likes to be controlled, right?
        
         | kgwxd wrote:
         | I don't but it seems a LOT of people do. They even seem to
         | prefer it.
        
           | sfRattan wrote:
           | Control means ownership. Ownership means work.
           | 
           | Until they've been burned by unspoken realities of not owning
           | some piece of their own digital lives, most people will
           | continue to prefer being tenants, rather than owners.
           | 
           | Technology is only the most recent domain in which we can
           | observe _the human tendency to prefer the short term,
           | incurious ease and license not to think that tenancy provides
           | over the long term, ongoing work and thorough understanding
           | that ownership demands_. To become an owner you need some
           | deeper intrinsically cultivated reason to desire it.
        
       | bstsb wrote:
       | excellent article, you've inspired me to get off Gmail finally
       | (Google's been sending me angry emails about hitting my storage
       | limit for ages anyway).
       | 
       | side note, your link to Tuta is broken - think it's an internal
       | link by accident
        
         | HelloUsername wrote:
         | They also wrote "Messanging"
        
       | riskeet wrote:
       | The average person won't go through even 2% of the trouble. Your
       | self inflicted lockdown is a niche within a niche. I respect it
       | though!
        
         | dinkleberg wrote:
         | Who cares what the average person will go through and do
         | though? We're each responsible for ourselves and how we choose
         | to go about life, even if vastly differs from the general
         | population.
        
           | ismailmaj wrote:
           | Ironically, if your setup is too niche (e.g. browsing privacy
           | configuration) you can be easily tracked, though no one will
           | bother, but captcha's will certainly not miss you.
        
         | myvoiceismypass wrote:
         | I mean this article is the spirit of hacker news to me.
        
       | afarah1 wrote:
       | FYI: NetGuard is an open source rootless firewall for vanilla
       | Android which also allows per-app network access control, for
       | those unable or unwilling to go with other OSs. Works by
       | leveraging Android VPN to block instead of tunneling packets.
        
         | yjftsjthsd-h wrote:
         | Doesn't running as a VPN mean it's incompatible with running an
         | actual VPN at the same time? That's a pretty big caveat.
        
           | 867-5309 wrote:
           | pretty sure by design only one vpn can be running at a time
           | per OS
        
       | OGEnthusiast wrote:
       | What's the story for maps and POI search on GrapheneOS? I'm
       | assuming using Google Maps is a non-starter since that defeats
       | the whole point of all these privacy protections in the first
       | place.
        
         | mikeyouse wrote:
         | Yeah I think most people use Organic Maps or Magic Earth (with
         | the latter being closed and not as privacy-respecting as the
         | former).
        
         | nextos wrote:
         | OSMAnd and others can do offline maps and POI search if you
         | want.
         | 
         | You could also run Google Maps web through Tor if needed. Tor
         | is easy to use on Android.
        
         | miroljub wrote:
         | Take a look at CoMaps. It's fully open source with open
         | governance model.
         | 
         | It reached the level of being usable for general population and
         | it improves rapidly due to gained momentum.
        
         | getpokedagain wrote:
         | I use organic maps. I also have a seperate user profile that
         | can not run in the background that has Google maps installed
         | and use that sparingly. I've used it once in the last 6 months.
        
       | nyx wrote:
       | Agree that "control" is a much better framing, since it doesn't
       | suggest a need for secrecy and therefore
       | embarrassing/unacceptable/untoward behavior that needs to stay
       | behind drawn window blinds. I'm also fond of "agency" and
       | "digital self-sovereignty" as alternatives.
       | 
       | But fine, I'll be the one to say it: Cloudflare isn't one of the
       | good guys here and as an entity it shouldn't be trusted. It
       | doesn't matter how pure their stated motives appear to be now, or
       | how unmarred their track record is so far. It's a corporation
       | that has control over an ever-increasing share of internet
       | infrastructure, and is susceptible to the same risks as any other
       | tech monopolist basket that we all decide to put our eggs in.
       | Maybe more risky than the others, given how deep in the stack its
       | influence is buried.
       | 
       | What happens when a government forces it to NXDOMAIN porn or put
       | nuisance captchas in front of dissident blogs? Is there some
       | reason people think this one is different?
        
         | ccakes wrote:
         | > Cloudflare isn't one of the good guys here
         | 
         | Came here to say the same thing, post was interesting until I
         | got to that point.
         | 
         | > nuisance captchas
         | 
         | Try using the internet outside of the western world and major
         | hubs. Cloudflare make it so painful with captchas and browser
         | integrity checks
        
       | arionmiles wrote:
       | As much as I'd love to daily drive an OS like GrapheneOS, the
       | risk of running into apps that use Google Integrity API thereby
       | making it impossible to run those apps on Graphene is too much of
       | an inconvenience.
       | 
       | I took a look at this curated list of bank apps[1] supported on
       | Graphene OS and I'm glad that a large majority of them work on
       | Graphene. However, just my luck that one of the banks I use on
       | this list isn't supported.
       | 
       | In my country, the state is enforcing a lot of essential
       | workflows to be digital-first (and in extreme cases digital-
       | exclusive) and I dread to think needing these services at a
       | critical moment and the choice of my OS making it impossible for
       | me. This is more of a commentary on my government's choices but
       | it's a reality for me.
       | 
       | In any case, I don't think it's practical to go cold turkey and
       | switch to a privacy focused phone without testing waters first to
       | see which of your of workflows break and then reason about the
       | tradeoffs/workarounds.
       | 
       | I do admire folks who use GrapheneOS as a daily driver, I'd like
       | to chat them up if I find them in the wild.
       | 
       | https://privsec.dev/posts/android/banking-applications-compa...
        
         | delichon wrote:
         | I worried about that too, but jumped in and it hasn't been an
         | issue at all in two years. Including three bank apps. And it's
         | usually so easy to reset to vanilla Android if you need to that
         | it shouldn't be your moat.
        
           | zackify wrote:
           | Same. No issues on any apps for me.
        
           | dangus wrote:
           | Also, there are almost always alternatives, like the mobile
           | website.
           | 
           | Things like Apple/Google Wallet aren't significantly superior
           | to a contactless credit/debit card.
           | 
           | About the only bank thing I can think of that actually
           | requires an app is check deposit, which is super rare.
        
         | bitwize wrote:
         | I've seen a couple of apps try to use Play Integrity, get
         | blocked by GrapheneOS, and keep on running. Maybe I'm being
         | locked out of something, but it's not something I use anyway.
         | 
         | Note that I don't use banking or government apps. If I bank
         | online it's via the web.
        
           | sfRattan wrote:
           | It does seem like a lot of apps continue to function on
           | GrapheneOS after the "Play Integrity" check fails (or at
           | least after Graphene notifies the user that the Play
           | Integrity API has been called). I suspect either:
           | 
           | A) These apps have implemented only the check so far, and
           | will eventually refuse to run or limit functionality _at some
           | point in the future_.
           | 
           | B) These apps have noted the failure and certain
           | functionality, especially communicating with servers to load
           | "protected" content, will fail _even if the app otherwise
           | continues to run_.
        
         | kgwxd wrote:
         | Is the app the only way to access what you need? I've never
         | once install the app of any bank I've ever used (10ish) and
         | never found myself wishing I had.
        
           | jazzyjackson wrote:
           | Same, mostly, one bank I keep an account at to support Zelle
           | payments which they only offer through their app
        
         | ignoramous wrote:
         | > _As much as I 'd love to daily drive an OS like GrapheneOS_
         | 
         | The Play Integrity shenanigans is mostly on app developers.
         | 
         | That said, good thing GrapheneOS will launch its own Android
         | phone: https://discuss.grapheneos.org/d/27687-new-manufacturer-
         | theo... / https://piunikaweb.com/2025/10/13/grapheneos-ending-
         | pixel-ex... / https://www.androidauthority.com/grapheneos-
         | phone-wait-or-bu...
         | 
         | Provided GrapheneOS is cleared by Google to launch it as an
         | "Android" device. Given the kind of changes GrapheneOS packs,
         | it may or may not meet Android's mandatory CCD (compatibility)
         | requirements.
        
           | fuzzzerd wrote:
           | > The Play Integrity shenanigans is mostly on app developers.
           | 
           | I completely agree, but as a user I'm the victim of the
           | developers choice.
        
         | closuregarden wrote:
         | I run GrapheneOS as a daily driver and slowly removed all
         | proprietary software from my device by looking for FOSS
         | alternatives on F-Droid. Luckily, I'm able to access banking
         | and government in a web browser on a dedicated profile.
         | 
         | I do have a second Android device with a stock ROM that I keep
         | turned off in a drawer in case I ever need to use an app that
         | requires Play Integrity in an emergency.
        
         | fylo wrote:
         | I believe there is some support for the API although its not
         | perfect.
        
         | iamnothere wrote:
         | > In my country, the state is enforcing a lot of essential
         | workflows to be digital-first (and in extreme cases digital-
         | exclusive) and I dread to think needing these services at a
         | crticial moment and the choice of my OS making it impossible
         | for me. This is more of a commentary on my government's choices
         | but it's a reality for me.
         | 
         | If my country did this I would get a cheap used device for this
         | purpose and keep it powered off. I refuse to carry a pocket spy
         | for the sake of convenience. I find that it's rarely an issue.
        
         | jstanley wrote:
         | As someone who daily-drives GrapheneOS, there isn't a single
         | app that I want to use that is broken. I don't see any reason
         | to use regular Android.
        
       | Lapsa wrote:
       | reminder - there's tech out there capable of reading your mind
       | remotely and non-invasively
        
         | netule wrote:
         | Care to elaborate?
        
       | navigate8310 wrote:
       | The only thorn in the opine is Cloudflare. Everything looks
       | reasonable but CF. I get that DNS is free, it is OP's employer
       | and registry being offered sans margin but it doesn't make up for
       | the fact that CF is on its way to become the biggest gatekeeper
       | and strangle the freenet if it wishes to do so.
        
         | OGEnthusiast wrote:
         | Them being employed by Cloudflare means you should take the
         | article with a grain of salt IMO.
        
       | 65 wrote:
       | This reminds me of the old meme:
       | 
       | > Tech enthusiasts: My entire house is smart.
       | 
       | > Tech workers: The only piece of technology in my house is a
       | printer and I keep a gun next to it so I can shoot it if it makes
       | a noise I don't recognize.
        
         | barishnamazov wrote:
         | One of my computer science professors from MIT has installed a
         | smart home. I was over for a dinner and he told me a story
         | about how he hit a third-party API rate limit on opening his
         | garage door. Apparently, these things aren't self-hosted for
         | the most part.
        
       | ignoramous wrote:
       | > _Domain: I switched to Cloudflare Registrar recently because
       | they offered a lower price ... I don 't think Cloudflare really
       | cares to make money on domain registration._
       | 
       | Well, they don't today.
       | 
       | Speaking of "control", it is bad form to keep both the
       | nameservers and registrar with the same company (think takedown
       | requests / account lockout / etc).
        
       | 50208 wrote:
       | The ad blocker is uBlock Origin ... the blog misstates it as
       | uOrigin.
        
       | zikduruqe wrote:
       | Finally. Someone in the wild that runs passwordstore.org
       | 
       | I thought there was only a couple of us.
        
       | barishnamazov wrote:
       | > "I don't need to care about privacy because I have nothing to
       | hide." is an argument that I have heard countless times. I found
       | this argument difficult to counter in the past, yet deep-down I
       | knew the reasoning was flawed.
       | 
       | This one is pretty easy to counter. Just ask the person to hand
       | you their phone and go through their messages and photos. There's
       | no one that wouldn't feel restless about it.
        
         | zikduruqe wrote:
         | I usually ask if they poop with the door closed. We all know
         | what you are doing in there, and we do the same thing. No need
         | to hide.
         | 
         | Or, why do you get your mail in an envelope? I can see that it
         | is your financial statements.
         | 
         | Why do you have curtains on your home? I can go to Zillow and
         | see the interior of your house from years ago.
        
           | barishnamazov wrote:
           | I think the better argument is (of course, a wrong one), "I
           | trust that big companies won't share my stuff publicly".
        
       | ismailmaj wrote:
       | My next low hanging fruit is certainly to make my LLM usage
       | local, my queries contain much more sensitive information than
       | what is mentioned by this post.
       | 
       | In the past I dropped off privacy when it was too inconvenient.
       | For example I dropped protonmail because of bad search, left
       | Linux desktop for Windows due to missing software, etc, I still
       | haven't found the sweet spot for LLMs yet.
       | 
       | For the rest, I'm currently running the full macOS, iOS, safari,
       | Apple passwords and I'm decently happy with this middle ground.
        
       | omnifischer wrote:
       | For you
       | 
       | - WhatsApp is an exception
       | 
       | For others
       | 
       | - Google is an exception
        
       | newuser999999 wrote:
       | > I use Cloudflare's DNS because I trust them more than other
       | companies; purely based on their business and how their
       | incentives align
       | 
       | The author fails to mention that they are currently working at
       | Cloudflare, I think that should be made clear otherwise I see it
       | as misleading to the reader, like so many pointed it out,
       | Cloudflare is just a corporation like any other corporation out
       | there...
        
         | beached_whale wrote:
         | At least of now, they do when around when they talk about DNS
        
       | motohagiography wrote:
       | the conversation about what a privacy enhanced way of relating to
       | tech is hasn't really matured much.
       | 
       | on one hand its being relative to a list of specific threat
       | actors you avoid. on the other, its maintaining a role with
       | leverage vs your devices and services.
       | 
       | privacy doesnt catch on as product because you have to navigate
       | an inferior relationship to those threat actors first, and nobody
       | aspires to that unless they already have a kind of alt cyberpunk
       | underdog mentality and attitude.
       | 
       | the non-punk or normal, leveraged position is like a business or
       | first class lounge for tech. calm, negotiable, amenable, hidden
       | and exclusive power, craft, affiliation and signalling.
       | 
       | most privacy tech and apps are still in the mall ninja cyberpunk
       | mentality, with some slightly self important NGO/public sector
       | affilation signalling with Signal. The aesthetics of privacy need
       | to evolve to drive more meaningful tech imo.
        
       | nalekberov wrote:
       | > I use Cloudflare's DNS because I trust them more than other
       | companies; purely based on their business and how their
       | incentives align
       | 
       | It's a very naive way of thinking about some businesses. What did
       | Cloudflare do to earn this trust? It's just another VC-backed
       | company and 1.1.1.1 is a free service. So Cloudflare is going to
       | lose money just to protect my privacy? I don't think so.
        
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