[HN Gopher] Maybe the default settings are too high
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       Maybe the default settings are too high
        
       Author : htk
       Score  : 863 points
       Date   : 2025-12-25 23:13 UTC (23 hours ago)
        
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       | chilmers wrote:
       | If you're a fan of LOTR but don't fancy reading it aloud
       | yourself, I'd really recommend the new audio versions read by
       | Andy Serkis. While I don't vibe with every facet of his
       | performance, overall it's a tour-de-force, and really makes the
       | prose come to life. Especially in those descriptive sections that
       | it's possible to glaze over when reading the text. Having an
       | actor of the calibre of Serkis reading them to you brings out the
       | poetry and beauty of Tolkien's language.
        
         | xeonmc wrote:
         | Is the entire thing narrated in Gollum's voice?
        
           | taberiand wrote:
           | He does lots of different voices, it's very good
        
           | sethammons wrote:
           | > "Fly-ses you foool-ses", exclaimed stupid, dry tricksy one
        
         | loloquwowndueo wrote:
         | Noooo. Audio books feed you the content at someone else's pace,
         | not at your (slow) pace, which is exactly what TFA advocates.
         | Or, what are you going to do? Hit Pause after each sentence so
         | you can fully digest and savor it?
        
           | qwertytyyuu wrote:
           | Use the playback speed settings, tough hitting pause every
           | once in a while is also a good idea
        
           | Dylan16807 wrote:
           | An audiobook is bad if you want to go _extra_ slow. I don 't
           | think I want to go _that_ slow.
           | 
           | The article advocates not rushing. In general, that's a good
           | fit for audiobooks.
        
           | Zenbit_UX wrote:
           | First of all, I don't recommend going through life yucking
           | someone else's yum.
           | 
           | Second of all, I took TFA advice and read that article with
           | the slowness and deliberate attention it recommended and
           | found it to be trite and difficult to distinguish from AI
           | slop... but if that's what brings this person joy, good for
           | them.
           | 
           | Who cares if the GP eats their cookies in one bite and
           | listens to their audiobooks at 2.25x speed? Because one self
           | help guru turned blogger said it's a bad idea?
        
             | loloquwowndueo wrote:
             | Interesting how in your second paragraph you do exactly the
             | thing you said not to do in your first.
        
           | crazygringo wrote:
           | The article literally says:
           | 
           | > _limiting myself to mouth-speed_
           | 
           | Audiobooks are mouth-speed.
           | 
           | The article suggests this is the right slow speed, at least
           | for the author.
           | 
           | Maybe you yourself want even slower, but that's not what the
           | article is suggesting.
        
             | gryson wrote:
             | And if you keep reading (at whatever speed), you get to the
             | actual point of the article:
             | 
             | >So I tried slowing down even more, and discovered
             | something. I slowed to a pace that felt almost absurd,
             | treating each sentence as though it might be a particularly
             | important one. I gave each one maybe triple the usual time
             | and attention, ignoring the fact that there are hundreds of
             | pages to go.
        
             | WhyNotHugo wrote:
             | Audiobook are mouth speed but have no pause. When reading
             | slowly, I often want to pause a few seconds and think about
             | what I just read before moving on to the next sentence.
        
               | ceejayoz wrote:
               | > Audiobook are mouth speed but have no pause.
               | 
               | You can't pause your audiobooks?
        
               | crazygringo wrote:
               | I pause audiobooks all the time by squeezing the base of
               | my earbud, or pressing the big pause button on my
               | Bluetooth speaker. Works great. As well as the triple-tap
               | to go back 15 seconds to hear something again.
        
           | sublinear wrote:
           | I hate audiobooks because they're way too slow and full of
           | moods/tones that often contradict how I would have read it. I
           | can't be the only one who thinks they're overindulgent and
           | annoying.
        
             | bigiain wrote:
             | For me, "overindulgent and annoying" is way too harsh. But
             | they feel _sooooo_ slow and I kind of resent "missing out"
             | on the other books I could have read while the audiobook
             | plods along (even at chipmunk 2x babble speed).
        
               | Uvix wrote:
               | I save audiobooks for times when I _couldn 't_ have read
               | something else - while doing chores, driving, etc. - so I
               | can avoid that "missing out" feeling.
        
           | UltraSane wrote:
           | Audible and most audiobook player apps let you control the
           | speed. I usually listen at 1.25 to 1.5
        
             | bigiain wrote:
             | That to me, feels opposite the the article's advice.
             | 
             | And I too, often watch youtube at 1.5x or 2x speed, and
             | dislike audiobooks because I read so much faster that I can
             | possibly listen to them, and there's always an ever growing
             | list/pile of books I want to read after this one. I wonder
             | if that's why a certain type of movie works so well for me
             | - I think of them as "movies made from short stories, not
             | novels", and now I'm wondering if it's something similar to
             | the OP's idea - and that spending 2 hours watching a short
             | story I'd expect to read in 15/20mins is what I'm enjoying,
             | in a different way to, say, the new Dune movies - which so
             | far have been 4-5 hours watching a couple of big novel's
             | worth of story that'd take me a week or so to read? Just
             | writing that out now, I realised theres a two orders of
             | magnitude difference in speed there going from 1/10th of
             | reading speed to 10x reading speed - from a 15 minute read
             | to 2 hour watch, to a week long read to 4-5 hour watch.
             | Hardly surprising they hit my brain differently.
        
               | UltraSane wrote:
               | Audiobooks are awesome because I can listen to them while
               | doing other things like walking or biking or lifting
               | weights. And the best narrators actually improve the
               | books like The Hail Mary Project and Blood Meridian.
        
             | teiferer wrote:
             | That's the exact opposite of what the article is about. The
             | desire to time optimize, to rush it cause "this is sooo
             | sloooow, booooring" is what creates only an illusion of
             | time efficiency but you might discover that if you actually
             | give it the time, there is a whole world to discover.
             | That's what the article is about.
        
               | UltraSane wrote:
               | Reading books as slow as the article says is rather
               | silly.
        
               | teiferer wrote:
               | You are free to have that opinion and I personally also
               | find it a little too extreme, but the author's main point
               | is a good one.
        
           | baobun wrote:
           | Not each sentence but I do regularly pause and sometimes skip
           | back in audiobooks, yes.
        
           | satvikpendem wrote:
           | Then just use 0.75 or 0.5x speed? I don't understand this
           | question.
        
             | retsibsi wrote:
             | > Then just use 0.75 or 0.5x speed?
             | 
             | I think this often sounds unsettling (like the reader is
             | drunk or otherwise impaired), and anyway the listener
             | doesn't need more time to recognise each individual word --
             | they want time to take in sentences and paragraphs.
        
               | satvikpendem wrote:
               | Get a text to speech app and change the lengths between
               | sentences while keeping the actual read aloud speed the
               | same, I recall using something like that before.
        
             | anywhichway wrote:
             | It isn't just how fast or slow it is. Reading at a slow
             | pace gives you time to think in a way that is flexible from
             | sentence to sentence.
             | 
             | To borrow the same analogy from the article, image trying
             | to savor a meal where someone else was deciding when you
             | take each bite. Even at a slow pace, the rigidness of the
             | pace and your lack of fine control would still pose a
             | problem with giving each bite it's rightful consideration.
             | 
             | That being said I love audio books and think I would
             | struggle to apply this article's advice in my own life.
             | Slowing down your audiobook is still a step in that
             | direction, though I sometimes find that slowing it down can
             | cause my mind to wander and my comprehension goes down and
             | not up.
        
           | m463 wrote:
           | I think a long drive in the car is complemented exceptionally
           | well by audiobooks.
           | 
           | and audiobooks with really good narrators? the miles will
           | melt away.
           | 
           | (I like Wil Wheaton)
           | 
           | (don't know about lotr oudiobooks)
           | 
           | (currently part way through we are legion read by ray porter)
        
             | kbutler wrote:
             | We had tried video in the car for our teens, but found that
             | audio books worked a lot better - shared experience, nobody
             | has a bad angle/line of sight, can still see the scenery
             | and engage in the travel, less looking down prompting
             | motion sickness, etc.
             | 
             | Though now that everybody has a device, we have to
             | intentionally opt for a shared experience, rather than 1:1
             | devices.
        
           | toyg wrote:
           | Listening to someone talking is how humanity transmitted
           | culture and stories for tens of thousands of years. The fact
           | that "we" cannot tolerate it anymore, is a sign of how badly
           | our brains are being reshaped (or maybe damaged) by screens.
        
             | TeMPOraL wrote:
             | OTOH, fire, writing and sanitation are significant upgrades
             | to what we were doing "for tens of thousands of years".
             | 
             | State of nature isn't inherently good. It's bloody, smelly,
             | dirty, and only incidentally nice, by virtue of
             | evolutionary path dependence.
        
           | BloondAndDoom wrote:
           | Not the OP, but to me audio generally x2 slower than I read,
           | so I'm content with the speed, anything slower than that
           | would be weird pace for many stuff.
           | 
           | Having said that yes I do indeed pause if I need to take a
           | moment to think, and I roll back 15 seconds if I want to hear
           | it again. Not a big deal, just part of the experience.
           | -signed ex-hater of audiobooks
        
         | zem wrote:
         | for lotr in particular my last reread was slower paced because
         | I kept this map[0] open and paused frequently to refer to it
         | and see where everyone was. it was super enjoyable, I have
         | literally read the book dozens of times before that and have
         | never gotten so good a sense of the world's geography and the
         | difficulty of various journeys.
         | 
         | [0]
         | https://old.reddit.com/r/tolkienfans/comments/100n0y/maybe_t...
        
         | sgt wrote:
         | I guess he gets the Gollum parts just perfectly.
        
       | pitched wrote:
       | It's impossible to know if the content itself is worth the extra
       | time and effort. Opportunity Cost is especially high in fiction.
       | I agree that LotR should be on that list though.
        
         | Yodel0914 wrote:
         | I partially agree, but it depends on your objective function.
         | If you're optimising for the enjoyment of the experience of
         | reading, you don't need to know if the content is "worth it";
         | just read it slowly and if you're not enjoying it, stop.
        
         | Gigachad wrote:
         | When you start thinking about books in terms of opportunity
         | cost, you're the kind who needs to slow down the most.
        
       | Morizero wrote:
       | LotR is a product of a slower era. I wonder how a modern/recent
       | example would compare
        
         | malfist wrote:
         | Maybe Robert Jordan or James SA Corey?
        
           | eszed wrote:
           | I've not read enough Corey to form a judgement, but I don't
           | think Jordan has nearly enough literary "heft" to satisfy
           | close reading. Don't get me wrong: the story is fun - I
           | enjoyed every bit of _Wheel of Time_ - and would recommend it
           | to anyone who likes that sort of thing, but the deeper stuff
           | (characters, prosidy, world-building, thematic  "meaning")
           | don't bear much examination.
           | 
           | In fantasy / sci-fi, I'd unreservedly recommend:
           | 
           | - Ursula K LeGuin
           | 
           | - Steven Erickson
           | 
           | - Gene Wolfe
           | 
           | With reservations, I'd recommend:
           | 
           | - Patrick Rothfuss (unfinished)
           | 
           | - George RR Martin (unfinished; sometimes dodgy prose, but
           | occasionally transcendent character and theme)
           | 
           | - _Dune_ (just know it goes downhill _fast_ after the first
           | book)
           | 
           | Elsewhere, but still genre (ie: meant to be entertaining, not
           | uber-serious, self-conscious "literature"):
           | 
           | - Patrick O'Brian
           | 
           | - Arthur Conan Doyle
           | 
           | - Dorothy Dunnet
           | 
           | I'd recommend Rudyard Kipling's short stories, but they're
           | hit and miss, and sometimes out of step with modern mores.
           | Maybe stick with the _Jungle Book_ , and _Just So Stories_ ,
           | and if you like those make sure you read _Without Benefit of
           | Clergy_ , _They_ (short stories), and _Kim_ (a masterpiece of
           | a novel).
           | 
           | Once you've got through those, Hemingway is approachable, and
           | the true modernist master. _Fiesta_ / _The Sun Also Rises_
           | (same book, known by different names in different parts of
           | the world) is ironic and beautiful; _A Farewell to Arms_ is
           | beautiful and almost unbearably sad; his short stories are
           | impeccable.
        
         | wredcoll wrote:
         | There's certainly slow books still being written but most
         | fantasy books in specific assume a certain amount of knowledge
         | about a tolkien-esque world. You can do entirely new worlds,
         | and some people do, but most stories are about people and the
         | choices they make.
        
       | projektfu wrote:
       | Does Dostoyevsky really need the slow treatment? Some parts of
       | crime and punishment merited rereading but, at least in English
       | translation, I didn't find much in the style to savor. Really it
       | was more thematically interesting and suspenseful.
        
         | maplethorpe wrote:
         | Were you reading it in the original Russian?
        
           | JumpCrisscross wrote:
           | Haven't gotten around to re-reading Dostoyevsky. But
           | Turgenev's English translations absolutely benefit from slow
           | reading.
        
             | treavorpasan wrote:
             | Fathers and Sons were absolute masterpiece.
        
           | projektfu wrote:
           | Yes, in the English translation
        
         | tetromino_ wrote:
         | In the original Russian, Dostoyevsky requires the slow
         | treatment. He loves the sort of 1/3 page long sentences that
         | perplex the fast-path parser and force the reader's brain to
         | swap; as if he wants to drive you mad so that you can better
         | understand the madmen whom he writes about.
        
         | treavorpasan wrote:
         | Wait until you get to The Brothers Karamazov.
         | 
         | There is so much to unpack, which requires very slow treatment.
         | 
         | One of the things is savour so much is the time I read Idiot,
         | we were on a cruise completely disconnected from the rest of
         | the world. No distractions and just the sound on waves.
        
           | projektfu wrote:
           | Good to know!
        
       | delichon wrote:
       | My dad was a busy construction contractor. One summer he tore
       | himself away from work and took the family to a week long boat
       | camp out next to a big beautiful lake. It turned out that our
       | campsite was actually in the lake by a few inches at high water,
       | but dad saw a way to dam it off and keep it dry, so he grabs the
       | shovel and starts digging trenches and building walls and
       | ordering us around.
       | 
       | About an hour into that, pouring sweat, he stops cold and says
       | "what the hell am I doing?" The flooded camp was actually nice on
       | a hot day and all we really had to do was move a couple of tents.
       | He dropped the shovel and spent the rest of the week sunbathing,
       | fishing, snorkeling and water skiing as God intended. He flipped
       | a switch and went from Hyde to Jekyll on vacation. I've had to
       | emulate that a few times.
        
         | irishcoffee wrote:
         | My spouse and I dealt with this on our honeymoon. We were both
         | working 50-80 hour weeks for months leading up to our trip. The
         | first day we got to this all-inclusive resort we spent the
         | whole time trying to min/max and be as efficient and calculated
         | as possible. It was a stressful, miserable day.
         | 
         | Day two we looked at each other, had an adult beverage with
         | breakfast, and relaxed for the rest of the trip.
        
           | seanmcdirmid wrote:
           | I have a hard time doing anything when in a nice resort. If
           | it's too nice, you just want to hangout at your pool villa
           | all day and enjoy the view.
        
             | ghaff wrote:
             | And if you're presumably paying a premium for a nice
             | resort, why wouldn't you spend a lot of your time taking
             | advantage of it?
        
               | seanmcdirmid wrote:
               | Yes, if you want to get out and do things, better to go
               | for low or mid range. You don't want your room to feel
               | like a huge sunk cost.
        
           | ghaff wrote:
           | I'm not really a resort person. But I do subscribe to some
           | travel feeds mostly in the vein of maybe finding some
           | places/attractions/restaurants/etc. that I'm not familiar
           | with. The number of hyper-scheduled spreadsheets I see is
           | amazing. Doesn't mean I don't often have some itinerary and
           | even book some particular, popular attractions/venues. But
           | the 30-minute block scheduling is something I do for work (if
           | that).
           | 
           | ADDED: I'll just add that I created a loose spreadsheet for a
           | ~week-long NYC trip with (I think) just one timed admission
           | for a recently reopened museum and no times otherwise. I
           | think I ended up dynamically scrawling over the printout with
           | changes for most of the trip.
        
             | awesome_dude wrote:
             | I have an upcoming trip planned in asia - never been
             | before.
             | 
             | My firm rule is - have a loose plan, aim for one activity
             | per day, an emergency option, or two, if the weather plays
             | up, and that's it.
             | 
             | It's the type of plan that has worked for every holiday
             | that I have taken that involves a different city to the one
             | I live in.
        
               | qmr wrote:
               | This is typically what I aim for.
               | 
               | One or two core activities for the day.
               | 
               | If it works out for more that's great but it's not
               | expected or necessary.
               | 
               | I've traveled with some people who seem focused on just
               | getting pictures in front of as many things as possible
               | which seems a poor way to really take in a place.
        
               | criddell wrote:
               | My family went to Hawaii a couple of years ago and in the
               | exact middle of the trip we took a day doing absolutely
               | nothing and it was kind of great.
        
               | ghaff wrote:
               | I think that's a good plan. I do tend to book hotels,
               | planes, and usually longer trains. But, especially for a
               | longer city trip, I loosely map out--even if just
               | mentally--things I want to see and do but, for example,
               | one museum a day is mostly enough unless another
               | convenient one is small.
        
             | helle253 wrote:
             | one of the funniest things about going to NYC with a
             | toddler was how very chill it was to go with a toddler
             | 
             | there are parks everywhere!
        
           | macNchz wrote:
           | Growing up in a quaint rural town where high-powered people
           | from NYC liked to "get away", this is very common situation,
           | and the inability to disconnect and adopt a slower attitude
           | was, IMO, the primary cause of friction between the
           | weekenders and the locals. They would _physically_ get away
           | from the city, but were unable to mentally release the blend
           | of Type-A competitive neuroses that helped them get ahead in
           | the city but just made them come off as obnoxious in this
           | slower, quieter place.
           | 
           | I've found myself in this mode before, too. A couple of years
           | ago I was preparing for weeklong wilderness backpacking trip
           | with some friends. I'd recently quit my high-stress job to
           | take some time off, and I had a few new pieces of gear I
           | wanted to test before relying on them on a longer trip. When
           | I looked at the calendar, though, every weekend before we
           | were to leave was already spoken for.
           | 
           | I was worrying about it to my wife, trying to decide whether
           | I'd just have to use the old worn out gear or risk it with
           | the new stuff, when she stopped me: "why don't you just... go
           | on Monday?" It took me a second to even get what she was
           | saying--I was still so much in work-all-the-time-mode that my
           | brain didn't even consider whatsoever the possibility that I
           | could just... go off and go camping on a weekday. I was
           | really baffled for a moment, and I've reflected on that a bit
           | since, it's funny how you can be trapped in your own default
           | operating mode and not even realize it.
        
             | travisjungroth wrote:
             | It's like those animals that walk in little circles the
             | size of their last pen.
        
               | throwway120385 wrote:
               | Except the pen is 1/3 of our adult lives.
        
               | temp0826 wrote:
               | Which 1/3 is that? It's black iron prisons all the way
               | down
        
             | Tade0 wrote:
             | I've settled in a city 60% smaller than the one I grew up
             | in. It's still a full-blown city, but there's way fewer of
             | those competitive types - they all moved to where I came
             | from.
        
           | ergocoder wrote:
           | I was like this but maybe not as stressful as you described.
           | Still, I wanted to do stuff and see stuff during vacation.
           | 
           | After having kids, my habit changed. Now we enjoy going to
           | local parks and walking around with no goals during vacation.
           | This wonderful attraction? Nah we don't need to see it. If we
           | can walk there, then maybe.
        
             | throwway120385 wrote:
             | When we were planning a trip to Hawaii the first thing I
             | researched was where all the local parks with playgrounds
             | were. That way if we were driving and my son was getting
             | bored or we needed to stretch our legs we knew where
             | something was. There's usually a town, village, or city
             | park nearby no matter where I've been. Even driving to
             | Crater Lake through rural Oregon there were some great
             | parks in the towns we drove through. Same with the drive
             | out to Yosemite. This was the case up until we got within
             | an hour or two of the park itself.
             | 
             | Some of the most enjoyable parts of those trips were
             | hanging out with my family in a local park.
        
         | bee_rider wrote:
         | Where'd you sleep? Going wit the flow and enjoying life is
         | admirable but that sounds like a pretty terrible camp site tbh.
        
           | throwaway0665 wrote:
           | They moved the tents.
        
             | Archelaos wrote:
             | Yep. Slow reading of HN comments also has its benefits.
        
               | teekert wrote:
               | I guess this person sees the same mental image as me:
               | Tents with wet floor, moisture sucked into everything
               | inside. A tent that's been in a lake sounds like a
               | throwaway to me. But maybe what you see as a tent is
               | different from what I see.
               | 
               | For me the story was also a bit weird. "Just take the
               | tents out of the water". Ok...
        
               | HPsquared wrote:
               | Tents often are waterproof for the first few inches.
        
               | jibal wrote:
               | Even if that were true (and it obviously isn't), what
               | then would be the point of expending tremendous time and
               | energy to "dam it off and keep it dry"?
               | 
               | These are alternative ways to keep the tents dry ...
               | which entails that they were never soaked in the first
               | place.
               | 
               | > A tent that's been in a lake
               | 
               | The tents were never in the lake. A few inches of the
               | _campsite_ was in the lake at high water.
               | 
               | > sounds like a throwaway to me
               | 
               | Do you have any experience with this? I've been on trips
               | where tents and even sleeping bags ended up in a river.
               | They don't dissolve ...they can be dried in the sun. And
               | a tent with a wet floor can be wiped down.
               | 
               | > "Just take the tents out of the water".
               | 
               | Those words don't appear anywhere. Try looking at the
               | actual words and not just your mental images.
        
               | teekert wrote:
               | I guess the term "tent" is pretty broad, this is what I
               | see: [0], the cotton does not take being in water very
               | well.
               | 
               | But I guess a synthetic ultra light tent will do better.
               | 
               | I also assumed the tents were already there when he
               | arrived (complete assumption, but the term campsite
               | conjures up a place with tents already there), and so
               | must be of the more heavy more stationary kind.
               | 
               | Anyway, the point is, I also had this question: Where do
               | you go when you mess up your tent like that? How can a
               | dam in a layer of water make it dry? Don't you need a dam
               | and then pump it dry.
               | 
               | This is going too far, I just wanted to defend the
               | question. Maybe it's a cultural difference.
               | 
               | [0] https://duckduckgo.com/?t=ffab&q=de+waard+tent&ia=ima
               | ges&iax...
        
               | jibal wrote:
               | > the term campsite conjures up a place with tents
               | already there
               | 
               | You've never been camping. Ok.
        
               | scott_w wrote:
               | I think you're viewing this through your own cultural
               | lens where camping can be totally solo (in the woods?)
               | 
               | In England, we can't just pitch up a tent in the woods,
               | we need to pay for a campsite where there's other tents.
               | 
               | I suspect, from their description, this person is from a
               | different country again, where camping may happen in
               | large open steppe with lots of other yurts.
        
               | teekert wrote:
               | Yeah, this.
        
               | jibal wrote:
               | Nothing you wrote contradicts anything I said about
               | camping. Someone else suggested that "campsite" just
               | means the area covered by a tent and its groundcover,
               | which is closer to the "mental image" of the other person
               | who wrongly believes that tents got waterlogged, but is
               | the arch opposite of yours. I've camped in the woods, on
               | open steppes, and in designated camping areas in French
               | and English towns. In each of those cases I brought my
               | own tent, but I've also "glamped" and stayed in existing
               | canvas-sided structures, from Yosemite to Mont St.
               | Michel.
               | 
               | Also, this is about a campsite a few inches of which is
               | in a lake, and people moving their tents. But apparently
               | paying attention to the actual context is optional for
               | some people.
        
               | scott_w wrote:
               | I'm not trying to dispute your version of events. I'm
               | just offering a suggestion of what teekert had in their
               | mind when they thought of a campsite, to better help you
               | see where the misunderstanding comes from. Given they
               | replied with agreement, I hope I captured it accurately.
               | 
               | I also feel it was unnecessary to dismiss their
               | experience as "not camping," just because it was
               | different to yours. It turns a learning opportunity for
               | us all into a needlessly toxic argument.
        
               | lazyasciiart wrote:
               | I've been camping, on trips that ranged from "park on the
               | side of the road and set up a tent" to "hike four days
               | carrying everything" and also "drive to campsite, walk
               | into permanent managed tent". Sounds like you've only
               | done a more limited range of camping trips.
        
               | jibal wrote:
               | No, it doesn't sound like that at all, and you have
               | offered no reason to think so. It's the other person who
               | clearly has an extremely limited notion of camping: "the
               | term campsite conjures up a place with tents already
               | there" -- perhaps you have the two of us mixed up. And
               | the OP said that _they moved the tents_ , so _ass-u-me
               | ing_ that they were fixed structures is not rational.
        
               | nerdsniper wrote:
               | A "campsite" is a relatively flat and relatively
               | root/stump-free patch of dirt. That's it. Also tents are
               | generally not made out of the canvas material you linked
               | that yurts and teepees might be made from.
               | 
               | Tents are generally made of a very wuick-drying, thin
               | synthetic.
               | 
               | And like the other person said, this does make it seem
               | like you've potentially never been camping but i don't
               | want to gatekeep the definition of "camping". My version
               | is carrying everything I need on my back for two weeks
               | and walking 10-15 miles each day to the next campsite
               | (read: "patch of dirt", preferably near fresh water).
               | Other people "camp" in RV's though, so.
        
               | lazyasciiart wrote:
               | Camping is just the bit about sleeping at night. I'd call
               | your version hiking/walking/backpacking depending where I
               | am.
        
               | jibal wrote:
               | Of course it's not.
               | 
               | "A campsite is a designated area where individuals can
               | set up bedding, sleeping bags, or cooking equipment, such
               | as stoves or fires. This definition encompasses any
               | location that allows for sleeping or cooking, regardless
               | of whether it includes a tent, lean-to, shack, or other
               | structures."
               | 
               | I would note that camping also involves sitting in
               | campchairs talking, reading, singing, etc.
               | 
               | And
               | 
               | > I'd call your version hiking/walking/backpacking
               | depending where I am.
               | 
               | The hiking/walking/backpacking is what nerdsniper does
               | _between campsites_ :
               | 
               | > My version is carrying everything I need on my back for
               | two weeks and walking 10-15 miles each day ==> to the
               | next campsite <==
               | 
               | Despite his phrasing, he of course is not saying that
               | hiking == camping.
        
               | bee_rider wrote:
               | Have you tried hammock camping? I only tried it at a
               | campground, so, maybe there are some downsides I missed
               | for the real backpackers. But it was pretty cool to _not_
               | care about roots, the flatness of my patch of ground, or
               | anything like that.
        
               | stinkbeetle wrote:
               | Natural fiber canvas tents take to water about the same
               | as your tee shirt does. Which is to say perfectly fine.
               | Soaking them for a few days or even weeks shouldn't
               | really bother them if the water is not warm and stagnant
               | (like a nice clean lake). The biggest killer is storing
               | them still wet.
        
               | systemtest wrote:
               | > Maybe it's a cultural difference.
               | 
               | It appears that you are confused with West European
               | camping, which is where you drive two days to the south
               | of France (most of which stuck in traffic), pay large
               | amounts of money for a patch of perfectly flat grass
               | where you are allowed to park your car and set up your
               | tent. In a grid pattern with hundreds of other tents.
               | Where there is a building nearby for toilets and showers.
               | And a swimming pool plus live entertainment for the
               | children.
               | 
               | OP appears to be talking about camping in nature.
        
               | michaelt wrote:
               | _> The tents were never in the lake. A few inches of the
               | campsite was in the lake at high water. [...] Those words
               | don 't appear anywhere. Try looking at the actual words
               | and not just your mental images._
               | 
               | I think some people are interpreting "campsite" as the
               | _literal space occupied by the tent's ground sheet_ while
               | you are interpreting it as the broader area - which in an
               | organised institutional arrangement might be called the
               | "campground"
               | 
               | To use an analogy, think of being in a partly flooded
               | parking _space_ vs parking _lot_
               | 
               | It makes sense that someone with the former
               | interpretation - the tent ground sheet submerged by a few
               | inches of water - would understand that the tent got
               | soaked.
        
               | jibal wrote:
               | I'm interpreting the word as what it means and how it is
               | obviously being used. No one takes "campsite" to mean
               | "the literal space occupied by the tent's ground sheet"
               | unless they are playing some silly sophistic game. Here
               | is what it means (pick your own source ... they are all
               | similar and none agrees with your definition):
               | 
               | "A campsite is a designated area where individuals can
               | set up bedding, sleeping bags, or cooking equipment, such
               | as stoves or fires. This definition encompasses any
               | location that allows for sleeping or cooking, regardless
               | of whether it includes a tent, lean-to, shack, or other
               | structures."
               | 
               | And here's the Wikipedia description, which notes that
               | the English "campsite" is equivalent to the American
               | "campground", but that is _broader_ and neither is so
               | absurdly narrow as your words:
               | 
               | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Campsite
               | 
               | > would understand that the tent got soaked
               | 
               | I already refuted this nonsense ... there is no reason to
               | think from the OP's description that the tent got soaked.
               | 
               | > To use an analogy, think of ...
               | 
               | I don't need any help with thinking, especially from bad
               | analogies that are flatly contradicted by the OP's
               | description. What's the parking lot analogy to building
               | dams?
        
               | selbyk wrote:
               | I've always understood "campground" to be a whole area
               | open to camping with dozens or hundreds of campers. A
               | campsite is where your group's claim is staked and the
               | area you occupy including picnic tables, fires, etc--not
               | just the tent.
        
               | bee_rider wrote:
               | Thanks for the attempt at a generous reading, but the
               | truth of the matter is I just skimmed the comment and
               | missed that bit. These things happen, no biggie.
        
               | indrora wrote:
               | They don't teach reading comprehension like they used to.
        
             | bee_rider wrote:
             | Do'h
        
           | delichon wrote:
           | Arizona, Lake Havasu, triple digit temperatures. We spent
           | more time in the water than out of it. Us kids loved the
           | flooded camp because of the tiny fish that would swim up and
           | nibble on our toes. It tickled. The camp was boat access
           | only, and there were a few million acres of desert wilderness
           | higher ground to move up to. The water rose gradually and the
           | tents never got wet.
           | 
           | The bigger problem with that camp was the rattlesnakes. I
           | killed one with the shovel and felt grown up.
        
         | ErigmolCt wrote:
         | Slowing down isn't passive, it's a conscious choice
        
       | danielodievich wrote:
       | We read LOTR to our sons when they were little. It was likely the
       | 6th time for me,and 3rd in English. Stupendous experience. The
       | command of the English Tolkien had is sublime. Wish the movies
       | didn't take so much liberty with Faramir.!!!
        
         | ErroneousBosh wrote:
         | I am currently reading The Hobbit to my son, who is 5 years old
         | and not quite able to read it by himself yet. Nearly, but it's
         | a lot for him to get through. Some evenings I use my Kindle,
         | some evenings I use the copy I've owned since I was 11.
         | 
         | However now he has started to _write_ stories about dragons and
         | things, and that 's a pretty interesting development.
        
           | djfergus wrote:
           | For younger kids I can heartily recommend the Hobbit
           | illustrated by Jemima Catlin- has plenty of pictures to them
           | engaged. Read it to my 6 year old and we're now excited for
           | LotR.
        
             | ErroneousBosh wrote:
             | Oh, this looks excellent, thanks :-)
        
         | fwip wrote:
         | When I was about 10, I read the Hobbit to my younger brother
         | (8), over a large number of half-hour car trips. It's one my
         | prouder memories of that time.
        
         | mikestorrent wrote:
         | I've not braved reading them LOTR yet, but my sons are still
         | getting read to even as one's about to become a teenager; it's
         | some of my favourite time in the evening and it allows me to
         | force them through books just slightly too advanced, with lots
         | of them stopping me to explain (or me stopping to editorialize,
         | and provide historical context etc).
         | 
         | I don't know how long they'll let me keep doing it for, but I
         | don't see any reason to stop
        
           | lemming wrote:
           | Well done, when I was growing up we would always have some
           | time in the evening when we would read a book out loud. When
           | we were younger my parents would read and as we got older we
           | would read sometimes too. I tried the same with my daughter
           | but she stopped wanting to when she was around 10, but she's
           | in a better space now two years on so I'm going to try to
           | resurrect the custom. It's a really lovely thing to do as a
           | family, but as the article suggests is quite strange these
           | days and it can be difficult and require discipline to make
           | the time.
        
         | eszed wrote:
         | I can't _wait_ to read LOTR to my (now four-year-old) son. Been
         | looking forward to it since we started trying for a kid.
         | Seriously, peak fatherhood moment. I 'll savor it. That (and a
         | few others are) on the embargo list: he's not allowed to see
         | the film before we read the books. I wish I'd got _Winnie the
         | Pooh_ on there in time.
        
           | xyzzy_plugh wrote:
           | You're at a good time for The Hobbit. Strangely I find that
           | Winnie the Pooh does not age well and is an awkward read.
           | 
           | The Wind in the Willows is good beginning around that age
           | too.
        
             | lemming wrote:
             | Really? I still love Winnie the Pooh, but I grew up with
             | him so I'm somewhat biased. But I love the whimsy and
             | musicality in the language.
        
             | eszed wrote:
             | Yeah, I'd have thought so. The lad's a little behind on
             | appreciating narrative, though. _Loves_ books, but can 't
             | yet focus on anything that isn't ~= pictures::words. It's
             | fine; he'll get there.
             | 
             | Love both _Pooh_ , and _Wind in the Willows_ , and will
             | enjoy seeing how they take him.
        
           | zem wrote:
           | I feel like winnie the pooh won't lose much from having seen
           | the film version beforehand, but also the books had the kind
           | of whimsical humour that I enjoyed a lot more in college than
           | I did as a kid.
        
         | JKCalhoun wrote:
         | Yep, read LoTR to my daughters before the film came out.
         | (Thankfully.)
         | 
         | As promising as _Fellowship_ was, the films just kept going
         | down hill--one after the other.
         | 
         | As the girls were growing up we worked through all the Harry
         | Potter books, a half-dozen of the "colored Fairy" books (edited
         | by Andrew Lang), plenty of Uncle Remus tales, the "Little
         | House" books and a number of Sid Fleischman books...
         | 
         | Those were magical years. Only when homework arrived did the
         | reading hour finally come to a close. :-(
        
         | mrec wrote:
         | I'm bang in the middle of a reread now; I've lost count of how
         | many there've been. I'm 55 now, having first read it in my
         | early teens, and it's astonishing how it just keeps growing and
         | changing with you. Even after all these years, I'm still
         | surprised by a painterly description of a cloud, or the sense
         | of comfortable rootedness of a little Shire lane, or a little
         | "aha, I never noticed that correlation before, _that 's_ what
         | those orcs were doing", or "hmm, that's an odd word to put in
         | that sentence, I wonder why he picked it?" followed by a
         | fascinating bit of research.
         | 
         | I've recently started the _Letters_ too, and can thoroughly
         | recommend it. It 's fascinating and oddly cosy to get a direct
         | tap into a mind you know so well at second hand, through its
         | fiction.
        
       | malfist wrote:
       | I really enjoy this train of thought. It rings true to me, its
       | also something Hank Green was recently talking about with the
       | negative effects of the internet. Its not that the internet is
       | bad. We're starved for information and meaning and were being
       | feed a diet of ultraprocessed food in the form of shorts and
       | tiktoks. I think the solution this author laid out is good.
       | Consume quality, with care.
        
         | skydhash wrote:
         | This is one of the reason I use openbsd and emacs as my two
         | main tools. There are better and more suited tools for some
         | specific tasks. But using them is enjoyable and their core
         | philosophy aligns to mine. And it's not like I actually need
         | those extra things.
        
       | powvans wrote:
       | I find walking can be a similar experience. It really crystalized
       | for me this summer while walking the Camino de Santiago because
       | of the effect of exploring another country. When you walk, you
       | see everything. The world is huge. Everything is slower, higher
       | fidelity, and for me, richer. You can spend an entire day walking
       | from one town to another. Think of everything you will see!
       | Compare this to driving. Driving is like compression. You could
       | drive between the same two towns in less than an hour. You may
       | see many beautiful things while driving, but the experience is
       | fleeting and momentary. You will miss so many details along the
       | way.
       | 
       | As always, there are tradeoffs, and you can't walk everywhere or
       | always have these types of mindful experiences. On the other
       | hand, life is short and perhaps paradoxically, slower experiences
       | can yield richer days.
        
         | solnyshok wrote:
         | !Buen Camino! I walked it 10 years ago and hope to repeat it
         | soon.
        
         | colmmacc wrote:
         | There is a great meditation in Zen and the Art of Motorcycle
         | Maintenance about the differences between riding and driving.
         | Being open to the elements, in and a part of nature, is
         | visceral. Bubbled in a car, our surroundings are observed more
         | than experienced. That's always resonated for me.
        
           | joecool1029 wrote:
           | That's a book I've been taking my time with. Read a bit every
           | few weeks. Found the part about visual memory mechanics
           | resonated: I have to spread everything out and see it when
           | doing mechanic work.
           | 
           | No to doing books via audiobook because I see the words in my
           | head and it's massively distracting. Cool if it works for
           | others I guess but like the mechanic excerpt above... not for
           | me.
        
         | somat wrote:
         | For the same reason I have decided I don't like fast travel in
         | games. The whole thing becomes this strange distorted reality
         | where the travel nodes and their immediate surroundings are
         | over represented in your mental model but most of the rest of
         | the map is blank. Now I don't think games should get rid of
         | their fast travel systems But I find that enjoy the game world
         | a lot more without them and think every one should try.
         | 
         | The first time I did this was the breath of the wild zelda
         | game, I got to the point in the tutorial where they teach you
         | to fast travel and said, "no I don't want to" so I spent the
         | whole game slow traveling around, planing my trips enjoying the
         | scenery finding new routes , Just bumming back and forth across
         | the map enjoying the game and all it's corners in small slices
         | each night, it took me a couple months to get complete and it
         | was great.
         | 
         | My current phase of this madness is Valheim with no portals and
         | no map. and wow it is an experience. With no map you get this
         | hyper distorted view of the landscape the other way around, it
         | is still based on what you can navigate easily but stuff like
         | shorelines and terrain features are over represented and
         | forests are these scary black boxes. Fog is very very scary,
         | more than once fog has rolled in and I got so lost that I have
         | had to say "well I guess I am living here now." I am currently
         | having fun trying to figure out how to use the in game tools as
         | surveying instruments to make my own hand drawn maps.
        
           | II2II wrote:
           | > For the same reason I have decided I don't like fast travel
           | in games.
           | 
           | I was playing Wing Commander, Privateer way back when
           | (mid-1990's) and didn't realize that there were ways to
           | travel faster. So I did the obvious: I pretended I was a
           | trader on a long haul route, dug out some books and
           | notebooks, and just did whatever until I arrived at my
           | destination or was attacked by pirates. I loved the passive
           | game play in the moment, but I didn't realize how much until
           | about a decade later. That kinda ruined gaming for me in
           | general since games tend to keep the player busy (even if
           | they aren't action games).
           | 
           | In some respects, I think that slow travel offers a sense of
           | authenticity to the game. Well, I should say to some games.
           | Many games set out goals for players. It's obvious why. If
           | there is nothing to accomplish, there is little sense of
           | accomplishment. Yet goals also ruin things in my mind since
           | there is an urgency to get things done to see what the
           | outcome is. Of course, games also reward following up on that
           | urgency. That's contrary to real life where you may be
           | rewarded or you may have to wait upon the rewards.
        
           | energy123 wrote:
           | I'm thinking of the The Forest survival game. The first one
           | in the series was great.
           | 
           | The successor game added an in-game compass/radar which
           | detracted from the immersion, made the world feel small and
           | boring.
        
           | Gigachad wrote:
           | I do agree, playing open world games without fast travel can
           | be a bit of a slog though. I considered playing Skyrim
           | without fast travel but many of the quests make you run half
           | way across the map and back multiple times.
           | 
           | Without fast travel you'd be forced to plan your trips more
           | and bundle all the tasks in an area which would be cool. But
           | it's probably too much to ask for the general public who will
           | see it as annoying.
        
           | ultra2d wrote:
           | The hardcore mode of Kingdom Come: Deliverance really made me
           | appreciate the game (although that's the only way I played
           | it). It became a very immersive experience.
           | 
           | Valheim without a map would be a bit too much for me. No way
           | to quickly escape to some safe green pastures sounds too
           | stressful :).
        
           | jasonkester wrote:
           | Valheim does that so well. The feeling of walking through an
           | unfamiliar forest and stumbling across a faint trail that you
           | made weeks ago, knowing that it will eventually lead you back
           | to your old base and thus back to where you were trying to
           | get to before you got lost...
           | 
           | Reading the Reddit for the game, filled with people
           | complaining that the portal system is too restrictive and
           | forces them to make upwards of three long boat trips over the
           | course of the game is a bit sad. It's as though they expect
           | the fun to happen when they finish everything, but the fun
           | all happens while you're actually playing the game.
        
         | merelythere wrote:
         | Had the same feeling a while ago, I called it the teleportation
         | effect. From the moment you reduce the time needed to go
         | somewhere, you alter the experience to a point that it's not
         | recognizable. Not to say that it's not nice to see the mountain
         | from the sky for one hour but it is an other thing to go
         | through them.
         | 
         | Something to break the teleportation is obviously to make
         | breaks and enjoy where you are (a lake not too far on the road,
         | any viewpoint...). Plan in advance, have a tent, be ready to
         | not reach your target in one day and you will enjoy a much
         | better a road trip than a train, a plane or even the highway.
        
         | Gigachad wrote:
         | Completely agree. I don't have a car anymore so I walk a lot,
         | and my mental image of the streets is so much more in depth now
         | to the point I could visualise streets down to the stickers on
         | poles.
        
         | 3D30497420 wrote:
         | I like thinking about the scales of speed and the impact it has
         | on one's experience.
         | 
         | I used to fly fairly regularly between Germany and Italy. I'd
         | get on a plane in Munich and get off in Florence, going from a
         | very "German" place to a very "Italian" place. A few years ago
         | I started driving the route, and I was surprised just how much
         | gradation there is between the cultures.
         | 
         | As an American, I always thought of "Italians" and "Germans" as
         | very distinct cultures, but then you drive through Sudtirol (or
         | Alto Adige, if you're feeling Italian, the northern most
         | province of Italy) and it feels quite Germanic. Then gradually,
         | as you continue south, you hear more Italian, see more
         | Italianate architecture and place names. Similar story for
         | Alsace between France and Germany.
         | 
         | Of course none of this is all that surprising knowing the
         | history of these areas, but it is very interesting to
         | experience in-person.
         | 
         | I'm sure most places and cultures are like this, even when we
         | think of of them as quite distinct. When you only fly between
         | major cities, you lose so much of the wonderful overlap.
        
         | BloondAndDoom wrote:
         | I love walking and couple of years ago I moved to LA. I fucking
         | hate how hard to walk in this city. I always knew I liked
         | walking but I didn't realize how crucial it was for mental
         | health (I grew up around Europe, purely on walkable cities and
         | didn't get my driving license until 30,years old or something)
        
         | ErigmolCt wrote:
         | Yep, slower days often feel longer and fuller at the same time
        
       | dsubburam wrote:
       | Music is an interesting case. You can't slow down the consumption
       | of music (you have to let it play at the speed the performer
       | intended), but you can dial up the attention you give it.
       | Listening with headphones, eyes closed, and phone+doorbell etc.
       | switched off would be close to max. Sitting at a live concert (I
       | am thinking classical) is up there too, because you've given
       | yourself permission to not think of/work on anything else in that
       | time. For music, we can say that the default settings are too
       | LOW.
       | 
       | And similar to the point OP made, you get more out of it when you
       | attend more closely. And similarly, most music does not withstand
       | this level of scrutiny.
        
         | The_President wrote:
         | I've taken the time to rebuild a large music collection
         | locally. I've adopted every CD collection my friends and family
         | have set aside to rust. It's immensely satisfying to scroll a
         | gigantic list of 40,000 tracks and just pick whatever feels
         | good, knowing I'm not contributing to a profile on my listening
         | habits and that the file will instantly play flawlessly.
         | 
         | I have some excellent garage band CDs that probably have two or
         | three copies still in the wild at most. Unfortunately sometimes
         | the 25 year old burned CDs are missing the TOC data, but even
         | the recovery process is satisfying.
         | 
         | (Same with the DVD collections.)
        
         | nemo1618 wrote:
         | You certainly do _not_ need to play music at the speed the
         | performer intended! There are whole genres (and subgenres)
         | based on this. :) Personally, I have found that slowing a
         | familiar piece down by ~5% tricks my brain into perceiving it
         | as novel again, which helps me attend to it more closely and
         | appreciate it more.
        
           | xboxnolifes wrote:
           | Them being entire genres, to me, implies they are no longer
           | the same music. You are listening to a different song.
        
         | tetha wrote:
         | I was about to comment this as well.
         | 
         | I listen to a lot of music on the side, but Chris Boltendahl of
         | Grave Digger said something that stuck with me. Btw, Grave
         | Digger are not making Heavy Metal inspired by Heavy Metal, they
         | were there making Heavy Metal in the 80s :)
         | 
         | Paraphrasing: With all of the streaming, and easy access to
         | music, music has turned into a fast food. Eaten on the side,
         | but rarely really fully appreciated this day.
         | 
         | And for new albums of bands I follow (or if I want to have a
         | good time), I do exactly that: If the weather permits, get a
         | hammock, a good drink, the good headphones (yes, I have several
         | levels of quality of headphones), and just look at the sun, the
         | trees and the magpies while listening to the music. Improving
         | my own guitar skills has only deepened this appreciation.
         | 
         | > Sitting at a live concert (I am thinking classical) is up
         | there too, because you've given yourself permission to not
         | think of/work on anything else in that time
         | 
         | At least in Metal and to me, concerts are a different beast
         | than the record. The record is usually the best and most
         | perfect take of a song, often with additional effects, better
         | mix. If you want to hear to the best version of a song, it's
         | usually from the record.
         | 
         | Concerts are a party. It's always amusing how different concert
         | cultures are there -- I know of some people who complain that
         | they "can't hear the singer over someone next to them
         | shouting". That's kind of the point of a live celebration of
         | the band at the music in my world.
        
         | lesostep wrote:
         | You actually can slow down music. A novel experience in itself.
         | When you try to learn the song -- once you get a grip -
         | everything slows. That's why people play so much with metronome
         | - once your brain "slows down", you will speed up naturally.
         | Spent a few months learning how to get around it as a novice
         | drummer. The only way around I found? It's to notice the
         | slowing speed of time and slow the rhythm into it. Probably
         | related: most drummers play with a click in their ears.
         | 
         | I noticed similar effects when "locking in" in games or sports.
         | Time gets slower.
         | 
         | So when you slow down, you start to pay more attention. But if
         | you pay more attention, the world itself will slow down. And
         | the music would be slowed
        
       | JumpCrisscross wrote:
       | One of the pleasures of reading literature is noticing how
       | compressed they are.
       | 
       | This is true for Tolkien, Turgenev, Hemingway or Pound. The
       | amount of information per page--per word!--is incredibly high,
       | which permits the conveyance of ideas which simply do not land
       | when spoken more plainly.
       | 
       | You don't need to go to high literature to find this density, by
       | the way. Political speeches from Republican Rome and America's
       | Founders have a similar aspect to them.
        
         | xeonmc wrote:
         | And presumably political speeches from Republican America
         | combines the best of those two?
        
           | JumpCrisscross wrote:
           | > _presumably political speeches from Republican America
           | combines the best of those two?_
           | 
           | Why?
        
         | FridayoLeary wrote:
         | It's interesting you mention that. Even Obamas detractors admit
         | he spoke well. True, but i find JFKs speeches are on a
         | different level from that. And it's not just him, but the
         | contrast is particularly striking.
         | 
         | Now in the UK all we get are monotonous robots or people who
         | have clearly had intensive coaching in how to speak in a clear.
         | Decisive. Direct. Way, to inspire confidence and project
         | competence. The two qualities entirely absent in most of our
         | politicians.
         | 
         | The less said about the other side of the pond the better.
        
           | bigstrat2003 wrote:
           | > Even Obamas detractors admit he spoke well. True, but i
           | find JFKs speeches are on a different level from that. And
           | it's not just him, but the contrast is particularly striking.
           | 
           | My off the cuff observation is that there is a lot less
           | mastery of language than there used to be in America. I'm not
           | really sure why, but compare the grand language used by the
           | early political leaders to, say, Obama, and it's striking.
           | And that's not saying Obama is a bad speaker! He has a ton of
           | charisma and makes you want to like his ideas by the way he
           | presents them. But he's never given something on the level of
           | Lincoln's Gettysburg address (in my opinion at least).
        
             | JumpCrisscross wrote:
             | > _never given something on the level of Lincoln 's
             | Gettysburg address (in my opinion at least)_
             | 
             | I'm arguing he couldn't have. Until America regains a
             | literary tradition, the complexity and imagery gained with
             | heavy words is lost against the conciseness soundbites
             | demand.
        
             | FridayoLeary wrote:
             | Not just America. But it's partly a cultural thing. If
             | someone would imitate the style of a century ago, he would
             | be mocked for it and considered a self indulgent show off.
             | The best example i can bring is Jacob Reese Mogg, otherwise
             | known as The Rt Hon Gentleman from the 18th century.
             | 
             | One thing that is thankfully unique to America is that
             | rudeness as a debating tactic can win elections.
        
               | sokoloff wrote:
               | I'm no expert in other country's politics, but it would
               | be pretty surprising if that was unique to America. Boris
               | Johnson? Nicolas Sarkozy? Silvio Berlusconi?
        
               | FridayoLeary wrote:
               | Not even close. The nearest equivalent is Prime Ministers
               | Questions which is a regular staged event.
               | 
               | Look at the debates from 2015 where Trumps opponents are
               | rendered speechless by his overbearing personality. He
               | makes himself the centre of everything and is completely
               | shameless about it. He's an American phenomenon. BUT, the
               | reason it works is because he means what he says and does
               | what he says he'll do. America has always appreciated
               | straight talkers more then Europe.
        
               | ben_w wrote:
               | Jacob Reese Mogg isn't only mocked for being
               | anachronistic, but also extreme poshness. That he went
               | canvasing with someone he called his nanny is one such
               | noteworthy oddity.
        
             | ben_w wrote:
             | > I'm not really sure why, but compare the grand language
             | used by the early political leaders to, say, Obama, and
             | it's striking.
             | 
             | IMO that's a direct consequence of becoming a real
             | democracy: can't just target those rich enough to get a
             | fancy education.
             | 
             | IIRC, the land ownership requirements had already gone by
             | the time of Lincoln's Gettysburg address, but I expect them
             | to have still been writing with such an audience in mind.
        
         | fluoridation wrote:
         | My experience has been the exact opposite. Yes, there's
         | literally a lot of information, but so much of it is irrelevant
         | fluff that could be eliminated or trimmed without losing much.
         | I've seen multiple paragraphs of Tolkien, for example, that
         | narratively boil down to "they walk across the field". To be
         | clear, I don't see that as a flaw. The fluff serves to set the
         | mood. But that's different from saying that the text is
         | especially information-dense.
        
           | watwut wrote:
           | The "mood" is the information too.
        
             | fluoridation wrote:
             | That's not really "information" in the information-
             | theoretic sense that the other person was using, when it
             | can be rewritten in all manner of different ways while
             | conveying the same overall mood. The densest way to
             | communicate "Sam and Frodo walk across the plain towards
             | Mt. Doom. They're both really tired" is exactly that. All
             | the other words one would write around that core idea would
             | not provide any more specificity to the sentiment, they'd
             | just there to allow the reader to immerse themselves.
             | Unless the information is simply the words themselves, in
             | which case no text is any more entropic than any other.
        
               | JumpCrisscross wrote:
               | > _The densest way to communicate "Sam and Frodo walk
               | across the plain towards Mt. Doom. They're both really
               | tired" is exactly that_
               | 
               | Uh, yes. This is press-release speak, optimised for a
               | fourth grader's reading comprehension.
               | 
               | If, on the other hand, you want to develop the motif of
               | the Unseen--central to Tolkien's work--the _type_ of
               | tired the characters are and how they're detecting and
               | addressing it is incredibly germane, interesting and
               | totally lost in your summary.
               | 
               | You're also describing the first scenes we see through
               | familiar eyes of Mordor. The landscape is an extension of
               | Sauron's will. The contrast with the developed,
               | organised, albeit crowded cities of men; the arrogance
               | implied in the desolation; _et cetera_ pack information
               | lost in your summary.
        
           | JumpCrisscross wrote:
           | > _so much of it is irrelevant fluff that could be eliminated
           | or trimmed without losing much_
           | 
           | Are you sure? Or is that just superfluous for the way you're
           | reading it?
           | 
           | In some cases, it's overly verbose. But if you're taking this
           | away from acclaimed authors, consider picking up some
           | literary criticism (fancy words for fan theories). Chances
           | are, there is meaning embedded in what you're dismissing as
           | fluff.
        
       | katzgrau wrote:
       | I had, by chance, taken the same approach when reading the Zen
       | and Art of Motorcycle Maintenance years ago.
       | 
       | The title failed to inspire but I heard it was worth the read and
       | stepped through line by line.
       | 
       | It hit with a depth that I know with complete certainty I would
       | not have gotten if I worked through at my usual pace or took it
       | in as an audiobook.
       | 
       | Nassim Taleb's books are also favorite slow reads of mine.
       | 
       | All this said, I collect books faster than I can read them so
       | there's always a feeling somewhere that I should be pushing
       | through a little faster.
       | 
       | Ah well, in the end I think that really comprehending a handful
       | of quality books is about as good as a shallow comprehension of
       | many more.
        
       | chihuahua wrote:
       | After I finished reviewing the CS textbook "Computer
       | Architecture: A Quantitative Approach" in the mid 1990s during a
       | vacation (looking for errors before publication), I found that my
       | brain had been permanently reconfigured for speed reading. For
       | years afterwards, I would automatically read entire sentences at
       | a time, to go as fast as possible. I think I have now recovered
       | sufficiently so that I can read books one word at a time.
        
       | cush wrote:
       | Being able to truly tap into boredom is a superpower
        
       | xyzzy_plugh wrote:
       | > I've found reading aloud helpful for staying engaged --
       | limiting myself to mouth-speed rather than eye-speed means I
       | won't rush, miss important details, and then lose interest, which
       | has always been a problem for me.
       | 
       | This worked for me... for a time. And then what happened
       | surprised me (but maybe shouldn't have): I started zoning out and
       | thinking about other things, missing important details, _while_
       | reading aloud. Wild that we can even do that.
        
         | neutronicus wrote:
         | It's a capability with which having children will make you
         | intimately familiar
        
           | bell-cot wrote:
           | By the 3rd week of _Goodnight Moon_ at bedtime, are you still
           | reading the printed words?
        
             | wombatpm wrote:
             | Throw in an occasional Goodnight Opus and learn to depart
             | from the text
        
             | esafak wrote:
             | No, because the kid has learned to anticipate what's to
             | come, and reading it becomes a game or performance art.
        
           | Yodel0914 wrote:
           | I initially thought this was just a function of reading the
           | same thing multiple times, but I've since had it happen many
           | times when reading something completely new. Somehow my mind
           | wanders and when I tune back in, not only am I reading
           | clearly, I'm still doing the voicing for different
           | characters. It's so weird.
        
             | fluoridation wrote:
             | I haven't had it happen while reading aloud (since I almost
             | never read aloud), but I've definitely had it happen while
             | reading something new that I hated. I'd end up having to
             | read the same page (or more!) three or four times because I
             | kept zoning out.
        
       | Wowfunhappy wrote:
       | I can't control the speed that I read.
       | 
       | In fact, I noticed that whenever a book becomes most exciting, I
       | start reading especially fast (to the point of skipping words),
       | because I want to know what happens next. So I spend the least
       | time with the best parts of the best books.
       | 
       | Ever since I realized that, I have switched pretty much
       | exclusively to audiobooks. I don't really know if it's faster or
       | slower overall, but it's a predetermined pace, and that works
       | better for me.
        
         | chihuahua wrote:
         | Audiobooks are great, while driving or walking or riding a
         | bike. But for complex topics, I miss the ability to read a
         | sentence or a paragraph again.
        
           | Wowfunhappy wrote:
           | This is definitely a disadvantage of audiobooks, although
           | I've found having access to a `skip backwards 15 seconds`
           | button can help a lot.
           | 
           | (There was one point during _Riyria Revelations_ where a
           | character was explaining how Elven succession works. After
           | repeating the sequence a bunch of times, I finally had to get
           | out my laptop and take notes.)
        
         | __MatrixMan__ wrote:
         | I feel the same way. It goes away if I already know what's
         | going to happen. For this reason I strongly recommend reading
         | the things you love a second time.
        
         | underdeserver wrote:
         | Have you made a serious effort to try lately? I think it should
         | be possible for everyone.
        
           | Wowfunhappy wrote:
           | Yes.
        
         | hx8 wrote:
         | > I can't control the speed that I read.
         | 
         | For me, moving my lips while reading is a surefire way to
         | significantly slow down the pace. I do this all the time when
         | giving a document a final proofread before publishing.
        
           | fluoridation wrote:
           | I do something similar, only keeping my lips shut and moving
           | my tongue and throat as if I was speaking. I find it's an
           | intermediate speed between conversation speed and purely
           | reading with my eyes. I started doing it when I wasn't so
           | good at English to give myself time to understand the text,
           | as well as to practice the mechanics of English speech when I
           | didn't have anyone, but I find keeping me at this pace gives
           | me maximum comprehension. I have a friend who reads much
           | faster than me and he quite often misses points in whatever
           | he's reading. I think he got into that habit from literature,
           | but it's disastrous when reading something more densely
           | packed with information, like technical documentation.
        
           | Wowfunhappy wrote:
           | Oh, I forgot to mention--reading out loud (silently or not)
           | does work, but then I find it difficult to actually pay
           | attention to what I'm reading.
           | 
           | Like you, I do proofread this way, and for that it works
           | well.
        
       | awesome_dude wrote:
       | I see that some others have suggested getting an Audio book
       | version for you to listen to at your pleasure.
       | 
       | I came here to say "I hope that you are recording yourself so
       | that you create your OWN audiobook"
        
       | skybrian wrote:
       | When learning to play a musical instrument and practicing a new
       | song, some common advice is to play it as slowly as you can
       | stand, to learn the motions well.
        
         | raylad wrote:
         | Or, never play it faster than you can play it perfectly.
        
         | hurflmurfl wrote:
         | Right, but then you need to learn the _right_ motions well,
         | motions that will make sense at the final speed. I suppose it
         | 's one of those things that are made easier by having a
         | teacher.
        
       | nabbed wrote:
       | This can work with the way you think as well.
       | 
       | Many years ago, I had a technical manager who never felt any
       | pressure to be the first to come up with the answer to a question
       | or the solution to some problem. If I was having a technical
       | conversation with him, and we arrived at a particularly subtle or
       | complex issue, he could go completely silent, just staring
       | straight ahead with his fingers to his lips. I would find it very
       | uncomfortable, and I would start blurting out half-baked ideas to
       | fill the silence, but he would either raise his finger or
       | (usually) just ignore me. This could go on for 30-60 seconds, at
       | which point he might shrug and say "I don't know" or, more
       | likely, have a pretty well formed idea of how to move ahead.
       | 
       | I used to joke to my co-workers that during those silent
       | interludes, he was swapping in the solution from a remote disk.
       | 
       | This manager also typed with one or two fingers, and pretty
       | slowly too. But he wrote a lot of good code.
        
         | godelski wrote:
         | > he might shrug and say "I don't know"
         | 
         | I have far more trust for people willing to say this.
         | > I would start blurting out half-baked ideas to fill the
         | silence
         | 
         | I find that I'm more likely to do this but try to make an
         | effort to stop. There's times to spitball but we should also
         | spend time thinking. And let's be real 30-60s is not that long
         | > This manager also typed with one or two fingers, and pretty
         | slowly too. But he wrote a lot of good code.
         | 
         | I'll be honest, this is the big reason I don't get all the hype
         | around coding agents. I do find them useful but typing isn't
         | the bottleneck. Not even close. Plus, while typing is when I'm
         | doing my best debugging and best simplifying.
        
           | bigiain wrote:
           | If shrug-guy is anything like me, he sat there blurting out
           | half-baked ideas and then shooting them down all in his
           | internal monologue, instead of out loud.
           | 
           | For me, I sometimes feel like I'm an old school chess engine,
           | exploring as many possible moves/ideas as I can - as many
           | steps into the future as time allows. Constantly evaluating
           | them based on some known-simplified fitness function usually
           | involving pattern recognition from past experience in similar
           | problems. Eventually I arrive at a place where I'm either
           | confident I know a reasonable way forward (and why some of
           | the obvious ways forward are unlikely to be ideal) - or I've
           | scatter-gun searched all of the quickly available ideas and
           | discovered I have no idea if some of them are good or bad,
           | and I need to do much deeper research and investigation of
           | the problem.
           | 
           | From the outside, that'd look identical to "he could go
           | completely silent, just staring straight ahead with his
           | fingers to his lips"
        
             | godelski wrote:
             | Sure, but isn't there still an advantage to this? If two
             | people are silently doing this then they don't influence
             | one another as much, helping find a wider range of
             | solutions as well as identify issues with certain solutions
             | that the other might not have seen.
             | 
             | Instead if you're blurting out your thinking more in
             | unison. Naturally you'll stray less, exploring less.
             | 
             | Of course you want collaboration but I find the magic is
             | going back and forth between alone and together. I even
             | find this helpful when just working by myself, stepping
             | away from the problem or context switching, allowing the
             | problem to distill.
        
               | jaredsohn wrote:
               | Another way to think of it is if you're blurting out your
               | thinking you're reducing redundant work and perhaps
               | inspiring the other person to think of additional
               | solutions that are offshoots of what you're dismissing. I
               | see merits to both ways of looking at this.
        
               | godelski wrote:
               | Yeah I agree but that's why I think there's a balance.
               | But the context here is the more nervous blurting which I
               | think is going too much in the other direction. We should
               | be comfortable with some silence and thinking.
               | 
               | But everyone has their own personal preferences. Which is
               | perfectly fine too. But I think it's worth mentioning
               | that, as illustrated by the comment, it's typically more
               | acceptable to blurt than think silently. And there's the
               | bias that blurting makes it harder to think silently by
               | thinking silently doesn't make blurting harder (the
               | uncomfortable with some silence part is not healthy imo.
               | Of course long silence is a different issue but we're
               | talking 30-60s)
        
               | vnorilo wrote:
               | Probably true for many. When thinking about hard problems
               | I'm usually not thinking in language, at least not the
               | kind we speak between us humans, so it can be incredibly
               | distracting if I have to "translate" back and forth while
               | both thinking and communicating.
        
               | jcims wrote:
               | I had the same thoughts reading this. I think there's an
               | optimal blend of blurters and thinkers, one isn't better
               | than the other. I find that I do both, it just kind of
               | depends on my comfort with the subject matter.
        
           | rgoulter wrote:
           | > I'll be honest, this is the big reason I don't get all the
           | hype around coding agents. I do find them useful but typing
           | isn't the bottleneck. Not even close.
           | 
           | It's always possible to go slower for practically no cost. --
           | So, any benefit from going slower is obtainable for everyone.
           | 
           | Whereas, typing faster takes discipline and effort. There are
           | diminishing benefits to putting in more effort to type
           | faster.
           | 
           | The main benefit isn't so much "more output" so much as
           | "reduced latency". e.g. It takes less time to type out
           | queries that help you gather information.
        
             | godelski wrote:
             | > typing faster takes discipline and effort.            >>
             | ***typing isn't the bottleneck***
             | 
             | I believe you read too fast                 > The main
             | benefit isn't so much "more output" so much as "reduced
             | latency". e.g. It takes less time to type out queries that
             | help you gather information.
             | 
             | You've missed the critical part of what I was saying.
             | 
             |  _While typing_ I 'm doing other things in parallel.
             | 
             | Those other things are things that require you to
             | scrutinize and look at each character. I think the vacuum
             | analogy from the OP is quite apt here. It's much harder to
             | debug other people's code and more so an LLMs.
        
           | jimmaswell wrote:
           | > typing isn't the bottleneck. Not even close.
           | 
           | I find it absolutely is much of the time - I'll determine the
           | architecture/overall solution, know exactly what needs to go
           | in a multitude of files, and now actualizing all that isn't
           | really thinking anymore, just donkey work. Getting AI to do
           | this has been incredible now that it's finally good enough.
           | I've had Copilot make flawless 500+LOC C++ classes in the
           | first pass, and when I introduced bugs by changing it by
           | hand, it found them instantly from stack traces without even
           | having symbols, saving me hours. I see a future where writing
           | a large codebase all by hand is seen like raising a barn the
           | Amish way with no powertools - impressive and maybe there's
           | something to be said for it philosophically, but just not
           | practical otherwise.
        
             | anhner wrote:
             | > I've had Copilot make flawless 500+LOC C++ classes in the
             | first pass
             | 
             | Lmao, please tell me what products you're working on so I
             | can avoid them
        
             | typewithrhythm wrote:
             | How often are you actually doing this though? I think I
             | probably work in something greenfield about once a decade.
             | The hard part is always going down a rabbit hole in
             | established code bases. I can do the boilerplate in a few
             | days. It saves time, but not really even one hairy issue a
             | year.
        
               | bornfreddy wrote:
               | > The hard part is always going down a rabbit hole in
               | established code bases.
               | 
               | Actually, I found that this is exactly where they shine
               | (I wouldn't trust them with greenfield implementation
               | myself). Exploring existing code is so much easier when
               | you can ask them how something works. You can even ask
               | them to find problems - you can't trust them to be
               | correct, of course, but at least you get some good
               | brainstorming going. And, incredibly, they often do find
               | actual problems in the code. Pretty impressive for
               | language models.
        
               | elxr wrote:
               | Nowadays? 4+ times a week. I want to learn as much as I
               | can now that I essentially have 24/7 mentors that can
               | remember everything I've told them.
               | 
               | Sure, I could write it all by hand; but even as a decent
               | typer, I'll never match a tenth speed of claude code or
               | opencode just GOING. Maybe there's a better way to learn,
               | but whatever it is, it's not obvious to me.
        
               | godelski wrote:
               | How long have you been programming?
               | 
               | I actually felt like I learned the most when I stopped
               | going to Google and StackOverflow for solutions and
               | instead moved to docs. It's far less direct but the
               | information is much more rich. All that auxiliary
               | information compounds. I want to skip it, feeling rushed
               | to get an answer, but I've always been the better for
               | taking the "scenic route". I'd then play around and learn
               | how to push functions and abuse them. Boy there's no
               | learning like learning how to abuse code.
               | 
               | Fwiw, I do use LLMs, but they don't write code for me.
               | They are fantastic rubber ducky machines. Far better than
               | my cat, which is better than an actual rubber duck. They
               | aid in docs too, helping fill in that space when you
               | don't exactly understand them. But don't let them do the
               | hard work nor the boring work. The boring work is where
               | you usually learn the most. It's also the time you don't
               | recognize that's happening
        
               | elxr wrote:
               | Close to 5 years. I read docs too and love the immersion
               | and the fully grasping of concepts when going with your
               | route, but most days there's just not enough hours for
               | this.
               | 
               | > The boring work is where you usually learn the most.
               | It's also the time you don't recognize that's happening
               | 
               | That was always how I did it before mid-2025. And I do
               | still do boring work when I truly want to master
               | something, but doing that too much just means (for me)
               | not finishing anything.
        
             | Ma8ee wrote:
             | If you use that much time for donkey work, you are using
             | the wrong tools. If it is so simple so that can delegate it
             | to a LLM, you need to use a language with more expressive
             | power.
        
               | TeMPOraL wrote:
               | There's no such language, sans Lisp with extreme use of
               | macros.
               | 
               | Here's an alternative take: if typing isn't a bottleneck
               | for you, and you don't experience coding as being donkey
               | work, _you are thinking too slow, and /or in too small
               | increments_.
        
             | zelphirkalt wrote:
             | I find however, that while typing it all out, my mind often
             | continues analyzing and thinking, and that I often find a
             | new idea, or new structure, that might be even better.
             | Typing it out and seeing it appear in front of me. It also
             | gives me a feeling for how tedious, brittle, or annoying
             | the solution is.
             | 
             | Granted, sometimes it's really not that interesting to type
             | the stuff. It depends what one is working on.
        
               | godelski wrote:
               | Each time I write a routine it's different. Its better.
               | I've learned something from last time. In fact, this is
               | one of the things that got me hooked on computing. That
               | there's so much complexity, often hidden, that there's
               | always more to learn and improve upon.
               | 
               | And truth be told, if I'm writing the same thing many
               | times it's time to create a library. Maybe just for
               | myself or for the company I work for. But the same thing
               | happens. I always learn more while doing it and it always
               | gets better.
               | 
               | I fear the programmer whose bottleneck is typing. They
               | already know the answer. But the problem is that there is
               | none
        
           | Quothling wrote:
           | > I'll be honest, this is the big reason I don't get all the
           | hype around coding agents. I do find them useful but typing
           | isn't the bottleneck. Not even close. Plus, while typing is
           | when I'm doing my best debugging and best simplifying.
           | 
           | As you sort of point out between the lines, it depends on
           | what you work on. I had an AI agent rewrite some ancient (and
           | terrible code) which had stopped working because the v1 of an
           | api on v3 was sunset. It took around 5 minutes out of my day,
           | and most of those were having two people explaining to me
           | where the code was and what they thought had happened to make
           | it break. It would've like taken me a full day to fix without
           | AI because I would have needed to understand things first,
           | and because it was quite a lot of code.
           | 
           | The result wasn't very good, but it was better than what was
           | before, and since that had run for years without anyone
           | tuching it, well... good enough. Heck, it might've taken me
           | more than a day because I doubt I would have left it at
           | "wasn't very good".
           | 
           | Aside from this anecdote I think AI writes a good 80% of my
           | code these days. I'm not sure I buy the whole "bottleneck or
           | not" discussion around typing. I think for a lot of people,
           | myself included, AI does 10x part of the process of writing
           | software. Where it doesn't help is when you need to do
           | computer science, and as you point out, those parts AI don't
           | speed up. I sometimes still use AI for computer science
           | parts, but in those situations the AI will be a rubber duck
           | because I tend to think by talking out my own ideas, and at
           | least the AI duck pretends to answer. Even if the answer is
           | more useless than what the actual rubber duck comes up with,
           | which it usually is, it's more immersive for me.
        
             | godelski wrote:
             | > because I doubt I would have left it at "wasn't very
             | good".
             | 
             | Which creates an interesting question. Would that extra
             | time be worth it because your version would break less, do
             | more, and/or last longer?
             | 
             | Don't get me wrong, we all write sloppy code and often not
             | our best. It's one of the difficulties of being an
             | engineer, deciding what exactly is good enough.
        
         | chrisfosterelli wrote:
         | I often do this in meetings and have gotten into the habit of
         | saying "I'm thinking". It's not much but it gives both of us
         | time to think and explicitly makes it clear I don't expect the
         | person to say something. I think that helps.
        
           | fgonzag wrote:
           | I just blurt out "processing" when they start looking at me
           | weird. People tend to take it well.
        
             | refulgentis wrote:
             | Fair enough, I do like parent's a bit better, "blurting
             | processing" feels like a too high default setting right
             | after seeing "I'm thinking" :) - not that any of it matters
             | anyways, communicating _something_ gets you there. Rest it
             | just triaging around the edges what people will call you
             | weird for, and if they are, they were going to anyway.
        
             | underdeserver wrote:
             | I read this at first as "I just blurt out "processing" and
             | people look at me weird", which made me smile.
        
           | oldestofsports wrote:
           | "Thinking longer for a better answer"
        
           | elxr wrote:
           | "Give me a second" is something I say when someone just has
           | to break the silence with some unproductive comment. Having
           | 20-30 seconds to think silently should be a completely normal
           | thing.
        
         | teaearlgraycold wrote:
         | I that once in a technical interview and got the job (just
         | paused for 30 seconds until the answer came to me). I think
         | they expected a 15 minute process of problem solving.
         | 
         | If I recall correctly the question was something like:
         | 
         | You are sitting recording cars by their license plate as they
         | drive down a road. You only have N spots on your worksheet. You
         | can overwrite spots as many times as you need to. By the end of
         | the day you must have an unbiased sampling of cars that have
         | driven by you. How do you record the cars?
        
           | bart__ wrote:
           | Nice statistical problem! I only thought of a solution that
           | is valid for many cars and few worksheet spots. Were you able
           | to fully solve it on the spot?
        
             | teaearlgraycold wrote:
             | What other situations are you concerned with that your
             | solution doesn't handle?
        
               | bart__ wrote:
               | The best solution I could think of on the spot was this:
               | First write down every license place until it fills up.
               | Then for each time a car drives by, give it a 1/2 chance
               | to write it down. Moving down the list regardless of the
               | outcome. Then once the bottom is reached, do it again but
               | with 1/3 a chance. Over and over again, decreasing the
               | chance each time.
               | 
               | I checked for which situations it is valid, and it
               | surprisingly was when there are many more cars than the
               | list size. But it is not valid when there are just a few
               | more cars than the list size.
        
           | augustk wrote:
           | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Reservoir_sampling
        
         | barrell wrote:
         | I do this a lot as well. I have a bad habit of just freezing
         | physically when I start to think. Since my work is conducted
         | over video, my colleagues will often think I dropped off the
         | call XD
         | 
         | Personally I find it a bad habit of mine, I have no idea how
         | people gracefully take time to think. Whenever I do say
         | something like "hold on, let me just think for a moment" my
         | brain completely freezes and I get no thinking done.
        
         | ErigmolCt wrote:
         | I think it gets at something we've collectively trained
         | ourselves out of: tolerating silence while thinking
        
         | avalys wrote:
         | I worked with a guy that operated like this, a technical expert
         | in a very specialized domain. You'd ask him a question - he'd
         | just stare at you in silence for 60s or more, and then give a
         | very well-considered answer that you couldn't get from anyone
         | else in the world.
         | 
         | His manager was used to this and sort of enjoyed the mystique
         | of this monk-like expert that he was responsible for.
         | 
         | I once was in a meeting where we had to talk to the great
         | expert on the phone. Let's just say his name was Otto. Of
         | course, he worked remote quite often, in the days before Zoom.
         | His manager calls him and puts the phone on speakerphone for
         | the room to hear.
         | 
         | Manager: Otto, we need your input on <long technical problem>.
         | 
         |  _< 60 seconds of silence>_
         | 
         | Otto: Yes, I think that might work, but you'll run into <other
         | problems>.
         | 
         | Manager: Well, yes, we've considered that, but <explanation>
         | 
         | A few minutes of reasonably normal conversation ensues between
         | the assembled group and Otto. Then:
         | 
         | Manager: Well, I think then that this is a pretty good
         | solution, as long as Otto agrees.
         | 
         |  _Manager looks around the table, clearly waiting for Otto 's
         | concurrence_
         | 
         |  _< 60 seconds of silence>_
         | 
         |  _< 90 seconds of silence>_
         | 
         |  _< 120 seconds of silence>_
         | 
         |  _People are starting to get uncomfortable. The manager makes a
         | reassuring face. This is normal for those of us that work
         | closely with the great expert, do not lose faith._
         | 
         |  _< 240 seconds of silence>_
         | 
         |  _Manager briefly lets slip a concerned look, then quickly
         | hides it_
         | 
         |  _< 360 seconds of silence>_
         | 
         | Manager: Um, Otto?
         | 
         | Otto: Oh, I thought I was waiting for you.
        
       | fleebee wrote:
       | I suffered a burnout fall last year and adapting to a slower
       | lifestyle was my way out of it. I started reading long novels,
       | and taking aimless, leisurely walks. It's hard to overstate the
       | positive effect that had on my mind and well-being. I haven't
       | felt this kind of mental clarity and motivation to do things for
       | over a decade.
       | 
       | This post resonates strongly with me. I strongly believe the
       | default settings _are_ too high, and it takes conscious effort to
       | slow down while bound to the shackles of modern society, but it's
       | so worth it.
        
       | Ericson2314 wrote:
       | I'm sympathetic to the general point, but with food, you can
       | always just eat more! Best of both worlds!
        
         | mtoner23 wrote:
         | ????
        
           | Ericson2314 wrote:
           | If you read the lord of the rings faster, you run out of lord
           | or the rings sooner -- there's no away around this. But if
           | you eat faster, you can just eat more food. You can eat just
           | as long, and end up feeling just as full. There is no need to
           | eat slower to prolong the enjoyment of flavor.
        
       | jackschultz wrote:
       | Quote that I always like:
       | 
       | There was a man who was afraid of his shadow and disliked his
       | footprints. So he tried to get away from them. He ran, but the
       | faster he ran, the more numerous his footprints became, and his
       | shadow kept up with him without lagging behind. Thinking he was
       | going too slowly, he ran faster and faster, until he collapsed
       | and died of exhaustion. He did not realize that if he had simply
       | stayed in the shade, his shadow would have disappeared, and if he
       | had sat still, there would have been no footprints.
       | 
       | And another one [0]:
       | 
       | My hut lies in the middle of a dense forest; Every year the green
       | ivy grows longer. No news of the affairs of men, Only the
       | occasional song of a woodcutter. The sun shines and I mend my
       | robe; When the moon comes out I read Buddhist poems. I have
       | nothing to report, my friends. If you want to find the meaning,
       | stop chasing after so many things.
       | 
       | [0] https://firstknownwhenlost.blogspot.com/2011/06/stop-
       | chasing...
        
       | didgetmaster wrote:
       | If you are bilingual, with one language being stronger than the
       | other one; try reading something in the language you are least
       | comfortable with. I do this (e.g. reading LoTR in Dutch) and it
       | forces me to pay closer attention to each sentence.
       | 
       | There are words you don't know or know how to use them properly.
       | It will help you learn the second language better, while also
       | helping you to not gloss over whole passages.
        
       | hibikir wrote:
       | I'd argue that the issue isn't that the default is too high, but
       | that we assume the default. Think a math class: Often enough,
       | kids are left behind, because the pace is too high, but others
       | get bored to tears, because for them, that very same pace is far
       | too slow. It can even vary by unit: Maybe someone is fine at
       | standard speed in most of AP physics, and just one unit is just
       | completely off. It's a typical problem when engaging with varied
       | audiences: If you have to give a talk to , say, an all hands of a
       | tech company, getting the pacing and the information density
       | right for everyone is just not going to happen.
       | 
       | So the main learning is to be aware of the speed settings, and
       | then consider putting ourselves in situations where we can alter
       | them. Faster or slower isn't better in a vacuum. Expermiment and
       | find what's right for you, or, in communication, for your
       | audience.
        
       | JSR_FDED wrote:
       | What worked for us professionally, voraciously taking in
       | information, might be less effective going forward. Being more
       | judicious in consuming fewer, high-quality sources of content is
       | likely to work better in the age of AI slop.
        
       | scrame wrote:
       | Seriously, we're just posting self-help grifters now?
        
         | Yodel0914 wrote:
         | There was nothing grifter-ish about this article that I could
         | detect - what are you seeing that I'm missing?
        
       | trevor-e wrote:
       | This was the same epiphany I had in college when I learned how to
       | actually study. Previously I would try to go fast and cram as
       | much as possible into my head and hope my decent memory could
       | save me. That only got me so far. I eventually realized that
       | slowing down to fully comprehend what I was learning before
       | allowing myself to move on yielded much better results and saved
       | a lot more time in the long run. And as a result my grades shot
       | up.
        
       | pcmaffey wrote:
       | Stories don't exist on paper or even on screen. They exist in the
       | space in between words in your mind.
        
       | stephen_cagle wrote:
       | tldr; I found something similar when I forced myself to slow down
       | on "The Wheel of Time" series recently.
       | 
       | I've been reading the Wheel of Time (started by Robert Jordan,
       | ended by Brandon Sanderson). I'm on book 11 currently. I've found
       | something similar in that the Jordan's later books in the WOT are
       | basically just incredible slogs if you read for completion
       | (which, I myself did around 20 years ago at around book 10, where
       | I stopped). Around book 6 or so I purposely slowed down and
       | started really imagine the scenes in my minds eye. I also keep
       | the map open on my phone and just kind of keep note of where they
       | are at different points in the series.
       | 
       | Obvious, but it is really striking how much better his books are
       | when you try to "live in the moment" of your imagination as you
       | read, rather than reading to move the plot and action forward. I
       | was kind of confused with myself when I reflected on it. That I
       | somehow thought it made more sense to skim through an entire
       | series and take reduced pleasure from something, when I could
       | just take 50% longer and actually enjoy it.
       | 
       | Made me wonder about where else I am doing this in my life.
       | 
       | I still thinks these books are radically overpadded. He was
       | clearly in love with his characters and his setting. He needed
       | the guidance of a strong armed editor imho. With all that said,
       | if you are going to commit to reading a massive series like this,
       | you might as well appreciate it in the moment, you are going to
       | be here a while.
        
       | niccl wrote:
       | This is one of the things I actually remember my mother saying.
       | Festina lente [0]: Make haste slowly. I've always tried to stick
       | to it because when I have I've found more to appreciate in
       | whatever I'm doing (as TFA says)
       | 
       | Sadly, for some reason I now can't read slowly, which pisses me
       | off. I and my partner read aloud together alternating chapters of
       | a chosen book, and I love how get _much_ more out of the book
       | than I would reading alone in a tenth of the time.
       | 
       | I've also found that some books seem written to be read aloud:
       | the sentence structure and punctuation lends itself to easy
       | reading aloud, whereas some books have really convoluted
       | sentences with multiple parenthetical sub-clauses that are a real
       | challenge to read aloud in an a way that's easy to follow. I've
       | ended up so that normally try to write in a way that's easy to
       | read aloud. I think if something's easy to read aloud it's going
       | to be easy to comprehend when read normally. And Yes, I know that
       | the sentence at the beginning of the paragraph probably doesn't
       | match that.
       | 
       | 0: (https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/festina%20lente)
        
       | snowwrestler wrote:
       | This is why I re-read books. I've read the Lord of the Rings
       | probably like 10 times. When I already know what's going to
       | happen it's easier for me to slow down and appreciate the scenery
       | along the way. Even later readings might reveal choices the
       | author made; I can start to see how the story was constructed.
       | 
       | I find this approach rewarding across most forms of media. There
       | plenty of movies and music I've revisited over and over again.
        
         | JKCalhoun wrote:
         | When I was younger I also re-read _The Lord of the Rings_
         | perhaps a dozen times. Each reading did seem to land
         | differently--small details I had not noticed the first n times.
         | 
         | For some reason the first half of the first book appealed to me
         | the most. I liked the leaving, the setting out on an adventure
         | that you know not where it will lead you.
         | 
         | After Rivendell the hobbits no longer seemed to be driving.
        
       | spicyusername wrote:
       | It might sound like I'm just offering cliches - less is more,
       | stop and smell the roses, take your time - and I guess I am. But
       | cliches suffer the same issue: they are often profound insights,
       | consumed and passed on too rapidly for their real meaning to
       | register anymore. You really should stop and smell roses, as you
       | know if you're in the habit of doing that.
       | 
       | Great quote
        
       | dbacar wrote:
       | What were you expecting, when all al the system forced you to buy
       | more, consume fast and die hard ?
       | 
       | The author just scratches the surface.
        
       | fkarg wrote:
       | The base material needs to be of a minimum quality for that
       | experience to be enjoyable, I presume. I totally see the value of
       | that, which is one of the reasons to sometimes reduce playback
       | speed below what my default would be. Writings from Tolkien are
       | maybe some of the best suited for that, but I'm not 100%
       | convinced it would work for what I'm reading currently, so I
       | might just try it anyway - the Foundation series from Asimov.
        
       | zdc1 wrote:
       | Great article. Living and enjoying life is a skill that needs
       | conscious practice and intentionality.
       | 
       | The title would make more sense as the default settings being
       | "too low" since Low is the setting where when we trade off
       | fidelity for speed, but "too high" has a nice ring to it.
        
       | Tepix wrote:
       | This us why I consider sailing to be the best way of travelling
       | the world: You're slow to begin with and the wind dictates your
       | plans. You really don't want to be motoring. Instead you have
       | time to experience the land, the people and the ocean. Preferably
       | without being online constantly.
        
         | ervine wrote:
         | This is why I love cycling so much.
        
           | Tepix wrote:
           | I'm wondering if using an electric caravan is a similarly
           | good option for slow travelling on land. It would force you
           | to you stop after less than 300 kilometers, unfold the solar
           | panels on the roof, wait a day or two (perhaps also catch
           | some rain using the roof) and then continue.
           | 
           | Another, less romantic option would be to recharge it
           | somewhere faster ;-)
        
       | throwfaraway135 wrote:
       | I think this is reading using System 2 instead of System 1. And
       | as System 2 is much more detail oriented, it makes sense that you
       | would notice a lot more.
        
       | zonghao wrote:
       | When I use Claude Code and Codex for development, I've had some
       | similar experiences. Claude Code always completes tasks very
       | quickly, but leaves behind a mess that makes me anxious. Codex,
       | on the other hand, is always slow--it slowly reads through the
       | entire project's code, then makes changes very cautiously,
       | testing and verifying after every small modification, and even
       | calls codex review --uncommitted once more before committing.
       | 
       | At first, I found writing code with Claude Code to be enjoyable,
       | while Codex seemed boring. But over time, I've discovered that I
       | actually prefer Codex. Perhaps slowing down really is the key to
       | writing high-quality code.
        
       | throw310822 wrote:
       | > When you slow down your eating speed, say to half or a third
       | your default speed, you get much more enjoyment out of a smaller
       | amount of food. The extra attention given to each bite allows
       | more of the "good stuff," whatever that is exactly, to reach you.
       | 
       | I wonder if this contributes to a good chunk of the experience of
       | fine dining. When you get served expensive food in micro-portions
       | that are accompanied by long explanations, you don't gobble it
       | down but take as much time as possible to savour it.
        
         | jimkleiber wrote:
         | For a while I've thought so many of us are afraid to slow down
         | because we might feel sad, as sadness is often one of the
         | slowest emotions.
         | 
         | Yet this quote has me thinking that maybe we fear slowing down
         | because of the consciousness overload. That we get so
         | overwhelmed by our senses. Maybe even that can lead to the
         | tears of being so alive.
        
       | ultratalk wrote:
       | I feel like this advice could also somewhat apply to your manner
       | of speaking. I'm a pretty fast speaker, and I've noticed that
       | when I try my best to go slower, I understand what I'm trying to
       | say better, I figure out gaps in logic and errors in the sentence
       | while speaking, instead of after, and I get the message across
       | better. And when I'm giving an impromptu speech of some sort, if
       | I slow down and think about every sentence I say, the sentences
       | stitch themselves together in a better-flowing way, and I enjoy
       | speaking because it sounds better.
        
         | amunozo wrote:
         | I, too, speak ridiculously fast. People laugh at me and some (a
         | lot of) people have problems understanding me. As much as I
         | try, as soon as I am not paying attention I speak at the same
         | pace again. Did you manage to slow down your speech
         | consistently?
        
           | ultratalk wrote:
           | I did! It took me a few months though. You just have to work
           | at it a lot and be very conscious of your speech.
        
             | amunozo wrote:
             | Thanks! I will keep trying then. I was starting to assume
             | that was me and that's it.
        
       | gste wrote:
       | By coincidence I also finished The Fellowship of the Ring about
       | two weeks ago.
       | 
       | I have always had the intuition about reading speed that it is
       | very easy to be a speed reader if you skim over things. I've
       | always questioned how much of speed reading is just skipping
       | stuff and filtering for the most important word tokens.
       | 
       | You could skip all of Tolkien's scenery descriptions, you could
       | skip Tom Bombadil and Lothlorien and still know basically what
       | happened to Frodo and where he's going. But that's not really the
       | point. When I read a book of that much importance, I've always
       | read every word and understood every sentence. I get easily
       | distracted and often have to reread passages. I am not a fast
       | reader. Tolkien's descriptions are not always that easy. But this
       | is what I find so rewarding about reading in the first place.
       | 
       | However, when I'm reading an article online, the difference is
       | stark. When I read articles, I usually start from the bottom and
       | read backwards. That's my way of finding out the results, and
       | then piecing together how much context I actually need to
       | understand it. Maybe I should slow that down sometimes.
        
         | delis-thumbs-7e wrote:
         | Although people think LoTR as a novel meant for younger people,
         | it certainly is not an Tolkien never meant it that way and it
         | certainly is not an easy text. It is far more complex than any
         | fantasy I have ever come across. Tolkien was a top language
         | scholar who spoke several even dead languages, so there's a lot
         | more going on than just the surface plot of Frodo "returning"
         | Bilbo's ring. One would be mad to simply skim it through.
        
           | notahacker wrote:
           | > Tolkien was a top language scholar who spoke several even
           | dead languages, so there's a lot more going on than just the
           | surface plot of Frodo "returning" Bilbo's ring.
           | 
           | If you want to see it then way Tolkien saw it, probably the
           | best way is to get through all that unimportant stuff
           | involving rings and battles as quickly as possible to get to
           | the appendices where Tolkein spent his time thinking about
           | the history and etymology and even neat little details like
           | how the calendar worked in the Shire...
           | 
           | (I'm only half joking)
        
           | jahnu wrote:
           | > One would be mad to simply skim it through.
           | 
           | Reminds me of an ah-ha! moment I had as a kid playing a text
           | adventure game on my C64. I was stuck for a while and tried
           | to find alternative ways forwards. I typed in "cheat" and it
           | replied "OK, you win!" and ended the game.
        
             | thaumasiotes wrote:
             | This is also possible in the first and second Monkey Island
             | games, using hotkeys ctrl+W or maybe alt+W.
             | 
             | The cheat code will immediately end your game while
             | informing you that you scored 800 of 800 points (presumably
             | a Sierra reference; this is the only way to score any
             | number - including zero - of points).
             | 
             | There's no particular reason you'd discover this while
             | playing either game, but if you play the third one, a
             | mandatory plot point will show the message "You lose. You
             | scored 0 of 800 points," referring back to the obscure joke
             | in the earlier games.
        
               | jahnu wrote:
               | Haha! Love it.
        
           | qmr wrote:
           | I don't know. I enjoyed it in tweens and high school,
           | couldn't get into it again in later life.
        
           | harshreality wrote:
           | One might also argue that The Little Prince is "far more
           | complex" and deeper than anything written at a typical adult
           | reading level. That lower linguistic surface complexity
           | allows more space for the reader to explore ideas and themes.
           | 
           | I'm skeptical. Is there no more value to series like
           | Gormenghast, Book of the New Sun, and The Second Apocalypse,
           | beyond mere literary masochism, compared to LotR? Like them
           | or not, LotR, as elaborate as its mythology is (if you
           | include Silmarillion and some or all of the History of Middle
           | Earth), is not at the same level.
        
             | delis-thumbs-7e wrote:
             | One would like to point out that the set {Gormenghast, Book
             | of the New Sun, and The Second Apocalypse} is not a subset
             | of {fantasy books I have come across}. I would not dare to
             | claim that LoTR is the end all of all fantasy writing.
             | Perhaps the word "complex" was a bad choice here, since I'm
             | sure there is books with more complex structure (which is
             | not necessarily a good thing...)
             | 
             | I think what I tried to say is that the language Tolkien
             | uses is as much or more part of the middle earth as are the
             | characters, maps and whatnot. The obvious point is that he
             | created whole new languages and writing systems for the
             | book, basing the two Elvish languages on Finnish and Welsh
             | etc. Other is that he changes his vocabulary depending on
             | what he is describing. I am not a linguistic scholar, but
             | I'm fairly vertain that at least in Two Towers the parts
             | describing nature, forrests and whatnot use solely words
             | that are celtic in origin, ie. no Latin influence and very
             | old. There's also structural techniques of interwoven plots
             | that I can't even start to unwind.
             | 
             | Point being, you can very much read the book on surface
             | level as Frodo and the Ring and Swords and lah-di-daa and
             | that is all fine. That's how I read it when I was 12-13.
             | But there is so much more, mastery of English language
             | comparable only to Cormac McCarthy and Joyce... Here
             | Tolkien is very much a singular writer, escaping the limits
             | of genre he very much was essential in creating.
             | 
             | So no wonder it is perhaps the most influential book of the
             | 20th century.
        
           | throwway120385 wrote:
           | I've read that Tolkien wrote There and Back Again / The
           | Hobbit as a book for his children. Then he started writing
           | what would become The Fellowship of The Ring for his kids,
           | but he quickly realized that the story was taking many dark
           | turns and that he was best served by moving away from writing
           | it as a book for his kids.
        
         | matsemann wrote:
         | I think both ways of reading are fine. Sometimes you just want
         | to get on with the plot, other times you want to immerse
         | yourself. Or maybe you always just want to get on with the
         | plot, which is fine, just don't complain about the book being
         | boring, it just wasn't for you. Which is how I feel about Lotr.
         | But at the same time, rushing over the songs, boring parts with
         | Tom etc is also how I managed to make it work for me.
        
         | photios wrote:
         | I could see value in slowing down or re-reading crafted writing
         | like Tolkien's. I've been doing that with St. Paul's epistles.
         | 
         | There is no value in doing it for modern clickbait or AI slop
         | though.
        
         | ErigmolCt wrote:
         | Speed reading absolutely works if the goal is "what happened
         | and why," but Tolkien is a good reminder that plot is just the
         | skeleton
        
         | docmars wrote:
         | I thought I was crazy for reading articles backwards, but it
         | really does help to build a better picture of what's being
         | shared or reported.
         | 
         | I find that a lot of journalists like to pack their writing
         | with fluff before they even reach the subject of the headline,
         | a lot like recipe blogs sharing their life stories before
         | finally reaching the instructions, as if the recipe is only
         | secondary or tertiary to the background given.
         | 
         | This is why I appreciate articles that include bullet points or
         | a TL;DR right at the beginning to summarize. For anything
         | really long that I'm just not interested in reading fully and
         | only want the main points, I use an LLM with the URL to
         | summarize briefly.
         | 
         | While there's so much value in slowing down as the OP wrote, I
         | feel as if journalists want you to lend the same pace to them
         | for all the time of ours they waste. It's like they forget how
         | much information is available to us and how unimportant it all
         | is.
        
         | ByThyGrace wrote:
         | > When I read a book of that much importance
         | 
         | Imagine if Tolkien was writing Fellowship last decade, and the
         | book landed on your hands today. No decades of cult growing, no
         | adaptations or explosive marketing, some word of mouth. Would
         | you think it "much important" before reading it? What makes the
         | importance?
         | 
         | In my opinion it's the prose. It's always the prose. Always
         | gotta be on the lookout for good writers, new and old.
        
         | yawz wrote:
         | I love Woody Allen's speed reading joke:
         | 
         | > "I took a speed-reading course and read War and Peace in
         | twenty minutes. It involves Russia."
        
       | delis-thumbs-7e wrote:
       | I don't know any specific name for it, but it is fairly common
       | reading technique used in literary analysis. If you ready any
       | kind of poetry more refined (say [1] or [2]) in its internal
       | structure, it is an absolute necessity.
       | 
       | It is quite amazing how many people do not know that there is a
       | multitude of reading techniques to be used with various kinds of
       | texts. You need to use a right tool for the job. Tolkien's
       | passages describing the Middle Earths ecological landscape are
       | particularly rich calling for careful reading and lingual
       | analysis. I believe he uses almost sole old Celtic words in those
       | passages, avoiding any newer latin-based words more familiar to a
       | modern reader, which cannot be a coincidence.
       | 
       | [1] https://www.poetryfoundation.org/poems/46452/to-an-
       | athlete-d... [2] https://poets.org/poem/having-coke-you
        
       | copirate wrote:
       | > When you slow down your eating speed, say to half or a third
       | your default speed, you get much more enjoyment out of a smaller
       | amount of food.
       | 
       | That's not always the case. With certain types of food, it's much
       | more enjoyable to have your mouth full than to eat a small
       | amount, for example. It's a trade-off.
       | 
       | It's the same with a story. Taking too long can make it boring,
       | for example.
       | 
       | That doesn't mean we always choose the optimal balance, though.
        
         | criddell wrote:
         | LoTR isn't for me, so reading it slowly wouldn't be an
         | enjoyable experience. There are other books for me where I
         | found myself reading and re-reading, moving through the book
         | slowly, marveling at text wondering how the author managed to
         | pick perfect word after perfect word.
         | 
         | For some books, faster is better. Neuromancer, for example, has
         | a lot of sentences and paragraphs that if I go slowly, I can't
         | figure out what it is that Gibson is talking about. But if I go
         | fast, I pick up the vibe and things start to make sense.
        
       | m12k wrote:
       | This almost reads like the beginning of a mathematical proof of
       | Zen: As the speed with which you pursue satisfaction
       | asymptotically approaches zero, your state of mind asymptotically
       | approaches enlightenment.
        
       | paperpunk wrote:
       | Tangential but when reading books like Lord of the Rings with
       | songs periodically written in the text, I've always enjoyed
       | trying to sing the songs out loud and set a melody for them that
       | feels appropriate for the universe. It really makes the songs
       | come alive.
        
       | gnull wrote:
       | https://youtu.be/V4TXg69kfo8?t=977
       | 
       | Reminds me of this speech by Leon Wieseltier.
        
       | rozab wrote:
       | In one of his essays, Philip Pullman suggested reading Paradise
       | Lost out loud which was a revelation for me. I never considered
       | reading anything out loud for myself but it changes the nature of
       | the experience entirely.
       | 
       | Tolkien recorded some passages of LoTR on a friend's tape
       | recorder while it was still unpublished, I'd highly recommend
       | checking them outz particularly the Ride of the Rohirrim.
        
       | sfy wrote:
       | I've tried reading fast, I've tried reading slow, The text
       | escapes my mind, As soon as I let it go.
        
       | brador wrote:
       | I watched game of thrones at 2x speed. I feel I watched it but
       | have no concrete memories of events outside the big hit makers.
        
       | udfalkso wrote:
       | When I was meditating regularly I found this easier to do. I had
       | the presence of mind to notice I was rushing and slow down and
       | focus on the details. I need to start meditating again.
        
       | mathattack wrote:
       | The best books improve with rereading and slower reading. Tolkien
       | fits this. I had an English teacher who reread LOTR every summer.
       | I'm not there, but I am on a 5ish year cycle.
       | 
       | Most books are the other way. Zoom through and you can get most
       | of the value. This is especially true of non-fiction, where most
       | have a message that can be gleaned in 15 minutes. (The exceptions
       | are the great ones)
       | 
       | Podcasts are similar. Most give you 80% of the value at 2X speed.
       | Even my favorites - I'd rather speed listen to get 80% the value
       | rather than get 100% of half the backlog. The best podcasts defy
       | this too.
       | 
       | So in the end it's a bit of a skill to both choose the right
       | things to slow down on, and then a discipline to force the
       | appropriate speed.
        
       | puchatek wrote:
       | I can only read at mouth speed. I'm pronouncing each word in my
       | head. I wished I could go fast sometimes. Finishing books takes
       | me at least twice as long as it does for my wife.
        
       | ErigmolCt wrote:
       | Love the idea that speed reshapes taste. When you slow down, a
       | lot of "content" reveals itself as empty, and better stuff
       | suddenly becomes accessible instead of intimidating
        
       | docmars wrote:
       | I wish the AI tech giants would adopt the same thinking and let
       | us breathe for a change.
        
       | teiferer wrote:
       | I've always taken issue with youtube clips content creators
       | automatically (?) cutting pauses between words or people
       | listening to podcasts in 1.5x or 2x speed or even clips already
       | being sped up. Folks, your brain can't keep up. It may _feel_
       | great to rush through 10 hours of audio book in 5 hours, or
       | dopamine-pushing even higher if you don 't have pauses in that
       | triggering tiktok clip, but it just makes you more and more
       | superficial. Your brain needs time to process and reflect. The
       | best speakers out there have a calm pace, not a rushing one.
       | That's for a reason, and it's an excellent one.
        
       | Zacharias030 wrote:
       | Skimmed through it; mostly reading the paragraphs above each
       | picture. The irony of which is not lost on me :)
       | 
       | Really enjoyed the part talking about Tolkien. It reminds me of
       | my own LOTR experience: I finished the trilogy in three
       | consecutive summers in the hilly countryside of Italy near Rome.
       | The first summer I made it through the fellowship of the ring
       | with a lot of patience and trying for the slower moving parts.
       | The summer after that I started over and read book 1 and 2, and
       | in year three I felt I was finally in sync with the pace of the
       | book and enjoyed reading through book 1, 2, and 3 in a few weeks.
        
       | AmeerHamzaname wrote:
       | what is the real casing
        
       | torginus wrote:
       | Is it just me, but seeing the general layout of the site, I feel
       | a powerful sense of nostalgia - as if its something straight out
       | of the mid 2000s to early 10s era of internet.
        
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