[HN Gopher] Don't Become the Machine
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       Don't Become the Machine
        
       Author : armeet
       Score  : 209 points
       Date   : 2025-12-24 03:34 UTC (19 hours ago)
        
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       | Terr_ wrote:
       | > I think hustle-culture and the vision being pushed on my
       | timeline is a corrupted one.
       | 
       | A satirical video which I think captures some of the frustration:
       | "The Hustle" by Krazam -
       | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_o7qjN3KF8U
       | 
       | > Machine Head - Derek Hobbs 1995
       | 
       | For anyone else a little nerd-sniped, the ASCII art head is
       | 54,505 bytes, <=300 chars wide, 182 lines tall, using 20 distinct
       | characters... But then I get hung up on what an equivalent
       | picture could be, since the characters aren't just levels of
       | greyscale intensity, but also contain internal detail that would
       | then take more pixels to describe.
       | 
       | My original motive was something like: "If this were a PNG it
       | would have only taken a much smaller X bytes."
        
         | rzzzt wrote:
         | A very un-scientific screen grab and saving as a GIF gives me
         | 604kB at 990x1000 pixels, but this does include color fringing
         | at the edges of each letter and I'd be inclined to treat this
         | as a 1 BPP image.
        
           | Terr_ wrote:
           | I bet somebody in the biz has a pipeline for running
           | different algorithms/formats/compressions, and applying
           | different metrics for "would these look about the same to a
           | human on a certain screen at a certain distance."
           | 
           | > 1 BPP
           | 
           | Yeah, the different ASCII characters might be best
           | modeled/analogized as local dithering.
        
             | rzzzt wrote:
             | AA-lib is alive and kicking (I think): https://aa-
             | project.sourceforge.net/
        
       | ffuxlpff wrote:
       | The most important thing is not to have a purpose. Machines will
       | always outdo you in optimizing for a goal function.
       | 
       | Don't follow rules and if you really need to, make your own and
       | never tell them to anyone. Keep people guessing and change your
       | mind often. Never ask opinions. They are useless and if you never
       | ask people think you know better.
       | 
       | What you know you think and feel are not what you think and feel
       | but dead remnants of your past thoughts and hunches. You have no
       | personality but an ever evolving process that changes instantly
       | to fill the areas you think are not you or your interest.
        
         | esperent wrote:
         | > make your own and never tell them to anyone. Keep people
         | guessing and change your mind often. Never ask opinions. They
         | are useless and if you never ask people think you know better.
         | 
         | What an incredibly lonely and antagonist life philosophy.
        
           | atoav wrote:
           | Not only lonely, this feels downright anxiety-driven.
           | 
           | A secure person who has their shit together knows that some
           | people do in fact have valuable opinions and they won't be
           | afraid to ask in public. And they know that too: two thirds
           | of their HN submissions are questions for advice after all.
           | 
           | So this isn't about actual value of opinions, this is about a
           | certain fright of how you _appear_ to others and strategies
           | to control that.
        
             | mxkopy wrote:
             | You should understand what this is in response to, though.
             | The commenter advocates opacity for _the sake of not being
             | treated like a machine._ The ideal solution is for people
             | to not treat you like a machine, but things aren't always
             | ideal.
        
               | TeMPOraL wrote:
               | But what's a better way to be seen as machine than to
               | become an opaque black box? And _unpredictable_ black box
               | isn 't seen as somehow not a machine; it's seen as a
               | _broken_ machine.
        
             | safety1st wrote:
             | It's an attempt to escape the control of the system but
             | it's a reactionary approach, which at the end of the day,
             | is just letting the system dictate how your life unfolds in
             | a different way.
             | 
             | To live well and accomplish OP's goal in the modern era you
             | have to understand that the attention economy has won,
             | completely and totally. You can choose to live your life in
             | a proactive manner: motivating force arises internally,
             | through contemplation, meditation, deliberate study, and
             | intention.
             | 
             | Or you can choose to live it reactively: you look at what
             | just popped up in your feed and you write a blog post about
             | it.
             | 
             | We're living more reactively than ever now. It's stifling
             | creativity and individuality, it's creating depression and
             | anxiety. The answer is to unplug and let the motive force
             | for your actions start coming from your internal world
             | again. It's okay to be influenced by the outside but we're
             | more possessed now by derivative slop (see how all brand
             | logos have essentially become the same) than we probably
             | ever have been. It's time to unplug from the hive mind and
             | wait in the resulting stillness for the next step.
        
         | pprotas wrote:
         | But why? What value does living like this add to your life?
        
         | Nevermark wrote:
         | I would describe this as giving up on any serious agency, and
         | retreating into a game of time killing tactics oriented around
         | other people's confused reactions.
         | 
         | A way to offload the challenging search for purpose, to a
         | shallow controllable process, consistent with the described
         | disillusionment.
         | 
         | But people are idiosyncratic. Maybe for someone, a life of
         | inscrutable eccentric rebellion against the Gods of practical
         | reality, might actually be deeply meaningful to them - even if
         | they don't admit it.
         | 
         | There are people who are genuinely happy doing the same thing
         | every day. Every day. That is just as strange to me!
        
         | ahf8Aithaex7Nai wrote:
         | You don't seem to realize that you are undermining what you
         | have written by sharing it with us here. That gives me hope for
         | you. Of course, you can counter my objection by leaving it open
         | in retrospect whether the text was meant seriously or not. Mind
         | ninja! Always one step ahead! In any case, you won't be able to
         | live a good life as a living gradient in a game-theoretical
         | hell, denying your own goal orientation but strangely still
         | interacting strategically with the world.
        
         | wiseowise wrote:
         | Jesus Christ, was this written by LLM trained on 69 laws of
         | power something or some other psychopath bullshit aimed at
         | angsty coming of age?
        
       | Animats wrote:
       | Genius does what it must.
       | 
       | Talent does what it can.
       | 
       | You do what you're told.
       | 
       | Now get back to work.
        
         | the_real_cher wrote:
         | Why cant Talent also do what it must?
        
           | rzzzt wrote:
           | We do what we must, because we can / For the good of all of
           | us
        
         | wiseowise wrote:
         | Hotel does trivago.
        
       | dzink wrote:
       | If you are only useful, you will be used until you not useful
       | anymore. Make relationships that care about you even after you've
       | become worn out. Make things that pay off even after you're done
       | making.
        
       | avaer wrote:
       | Around 2019 it became clear to me how much I was underestimating
       | how quickly AI would "take over" and "take credit" for the parts
       | of my identity I wanted to keep (engineering, design taste,
       | invention for example).
       | 
       | But it also made me realize that because I was always at the tip
       | of my chosen curve of tech adoption, I was also the first to be
       | feeling the existential dread that would soon permeate the lives
       | of everyone living a life even tangentially touched by tech.
       | 
       | (I think the author is ahead of the curve too).
       | 
       | But I feel this post identifies the problem and then compounds it
       | with this line:
       | 
       | > This messaging works. Look at me. I feel the need to write a
       | post about it. But it is completely wrong.
       | 
       | I would counter that (intentional) "ignorance is bliss". If you
       | want to play the VC grind hustle game, do it, but be intentional
       | about checking in and checking out, and don't let it into your
       | identity. And don't write posts like this.
       | 
       | It might "feel" dishonest to operate like this, but the
       | alternative is doom, because you are fighting against demons that
       | don't actually exist. I think more and more people will realize
       | this over the coming years -- we are only now starting to react
       | to the personal problems caused by immersion in social media.
       | 
       | This also reminds me of a good piece by PG:
       | https://paulgraham.com/identity.html
        
         | roncesvalles wrote:
         | I think AI is completely optional for software development.
         | 
         | There seems to be a new kind of anxiety wherein devs feel that
         | they aren't leveraging AI to the fullest in order to make them
         | more productive at developing software, and that since they
         | aren't doing so, they should just give up writing software
         | completely.
         | 
         | This anxiety is unfounded. The difference between using AI vs
         | not using AI is not like using a physical spreadsheet vs
         | Microsoft Excel. It's more like using a text editor versus an
         | IDE. If you're happy producing software the way that you always
         | were sans AI, you should just keep doing it that way and don't
         | even pay mind to AI tooling.
         | 
         | Those guys who have super sophisticated MCP/tool use setups,
         | and a roster of agents, and testdrive all the latest tools and
         | plugins, and curate a personal library of carefully tuned
         | prompts that make them the "LLM Whisperer" -- they're not
         | actually doing that much better than you at producing software.
         | Or at least not to the extent that you are totally obsolete.
        
           | askafriend wrote:
           | I think it's exactly like going from paper spreadsheet to
           | Excel in some very important aspects of engineering (but not
           | all).
           | 
           | I really encourage you to update your priors since
           | capabilities are very different than even 6 months ago.
        
             | roncesvalles wrote:
             | I like to think I'm very much abreast of the bleeding edge
             | because I feel this anxiety myself. At this point I can't
             | code without LLMs because I just notice things that I could
             | hand off to LLMs and they will do it faster and there's no
             | reason for me to do it myself (although I still could).
             | 
             | But the overall gain in efficiency is still a low single
             | digit speedup. It's not a multi-OOM speedup as if e.g.
             | doing 1000 long divisions by hand over many days versus
             | letting a computer program do them in a split second. The
             | "wall" that is irreducible complexity was never OOMs away
             | from how modern pre-AI software development was done.
        
               | Kerrick wrote:
               | For me the speed-up has not been in doing things I was
               | already an expert at doing quickly with high quality. It
               | has been in skipping the learning curve for adjacent
               | things.
        
               | roncesvalles wrote:
               | Does it make the curve easier or do you skip learning it
               | entirely and just trust the LLM? I wouldn't do the
               | latter.
        
               | nottorp wrote:
               | Will you remember it if you don't "break your teeth" on
               | it though? At the same level as the things you're already
               | an expert on?
        
               | Kerrick wrote:
               | I'm a big believer in desirable difficulty for learning.
               | But I'm a big believer in reduced difficulty for non-
               | learning-oriented getting-things-done.
        
               | Kerrick wrote:
               | So far I've skipped learning it entirely. For things I
               | want to learn, I learn the old school way--maybe with an
               | LLM as an unreliable thesaurus and/or second search
               | engine (where I distrust its output, but read its links).
               | For things I want to just get done, I use an LLM. It's
               | something close to blind trust, but not completely.
               | 
               | For example, I've used LLMs to write ~1600 lines of Rust
               | in the past few days. I'm having it make Ratatui bindings
               | for Ruby. I haven't ever learned Rust, but I can read
               | C-like languages so I _kinda_ understand what 's
               | happening. I could tell when it needed to be modularized.
               | I have a sneaking suspicion most of the Rust tests it's
               | written are testing Ratatui, rather than testing its own
               | bindings. But I've had the LLM cover the functionality in
               | Ruby tests, a language I do know. So I've felt
               | comfortable enough to ship it.
        
             | yeasku wrote:
             | The 6 months ago is a meme at this point.
        
           | HellDunkel wrote:
           | Don't worry, these ,,LLM Whisperers" are too busy on social
           | media to get anything done.
        
       | ge96 wrote:
       | It seems so silly to say but I too have a dream of not wanting to
       | work. Then I can just exist. I came across this YT video about
       | enjoying boredom. It slows down time and you do things you really
       | want to do. I'm currently the type of person that is always
       | plugged into noise (music, podcast, YT). It is rare that I sit in
       | silence. But yeah I'm hoping I can save, exit working, I'll still
       | be making stuff that I enjoy at a good pace. I have this problem
       | where I want to share things that aren't done yet, it's early ego
       | reward. That's the problem with YT too and attention span, things
       | take time to do and it's about the immediate reward. I get it
       | too, attention is a currency and people spend it where they
       | want/deem important.
       | 
       | But I feel it though, the urge to grind. When I have free time I
       | think, shouldn't I be doing/achieving something. If you quantify
       | value by money then yeah there are dumb ways to make money like
       | me driving Uber Eats and donating plasma (an extra 17 hrs of my
       | life per week). I can instead spend less money and enjoy life
       | more.
       | 
       | I almost think social media is the worst thing that I ran into,
       | the points/likes aspect. Going back to sharing things that aren't
       | real yet for the kudos. Anyway ranting. I'm thankful I became
       | self-aware as when Facebook was new I was posting like everything
       | about my life like "omg look at me...". Which is a double-edged
       | sword you know, something like Instagram is how women scope you
       | out and if you don't have a good one...
       | 
       | Tangent, there is also this fetishizing of productivity where you
       | see this clean desk and a little notepad. Or some kind of setup
       | like a minimalist laptop. The whole video is about that but not
       | actually working ha.
        
         | mstank wrote:
         | Have you ever tried meditation? Does a great job scratching
         | that 'boredom' itch...
        
           | ge96 wrote:
           | I'm trying to. I don't know how you know it's working. Maybe,
           | sometimes I do feel present like I am in this building, this
           | town right now.
           | 
           | It is funny, I bought an old phone of mine from the 2010s, I
           | had a different mindset back then (try to make a shit ton of
           | money through ads on a website). That did not happen but I
           | had this ambition/tried to make a lot of dumb apps. I'm
           | trying to get back to that mental state as now I can make
           | like anything, back then I didn't even know how to generate a
           | CSR like come on you amateur!
           | 
           | I use the phone as a grounding tool for meditation/try to go
           | back in time what I was thinking back then. I also loaded it
           | with old cloud photos from that time. It doesn't have
           | internet.
           | 
           | Oh yeah, what does work for grounding you to reality is when
           | you lose internet. Then you're grounded in reality, bored.
           | What do I do with myself now.
        
             | arvid-lind wrote:
             | > I don't know how you know it's working.
             | 
             | after a while it should feel like a refreshing nap. during
             | the meditation itself, you're just doing a simple task and
             | going along with it without resistance, like when sleeping.
             | eventually the idea of "non-doing" will make more sense.
             | 
             | another way to look at it: upon waking each morning, you
             | start with an empty glass. from this point, everything that
             | enters your realm of awareness accumulates in this glass
             | and at some point it will start overflowing if you don't
             | manage what you're accumulating. meaning you can only
             | effectively work with a certain amount of "stuff on your
             | mind". So you shouldn't make a habit of carrying stress
             | from the morning commute all day into affecting your
             | afternoon meetings, for example.
             | 
             | take a few deep breaths and let the morning commute pass,
             | and your glass is empty again. allow the glass to fill up
             | with morning work, noticing and managing points of friction
             | so they don't linger more than necessary. if you notice
             | yourself getting overwhelmed or stressed about everything
             | that comes up, you're overflowing and would likely benefit
             | from some meditation. as you meditate more, it becomes more
             | effortless so you won't be reliant on "doing meditation" as
             | much.
             | 
             | the Plum Village app has a meditation bell that rings on a
             | schedule (default is every 15 minutes). they recommend you
             | take a few deep breaths to re-center and state your
             | intention(s) for the moment. I started using it earlier
             | this year and it has a noticeable effect over time, would
             | highly recommend trying it out all day if possible. or at
             | least during times where you're trying to do focused work
             | but have a tendency to get distracted.
        
               | Loughla wrote:
               | Honest to God, the best meditation for me is Focus 1 from
               | The Gateway Tapes. I'm not sure the woo of astral
               | projection and energy control are for me at all. But when
               | it comes to blanking my mind and existing purely in the
               | exact right now, that does it for me.
        
           | lelanthran wrote:
           | > Have you ever tried meditation? Does a great job scratching
           | that 'boredom' itch...
           | 
           | No, but I _am_ considering getting a working Amiga, a CRT and
           | just writing some games for it.
           | 
           | All I had growing up was a C64, and I remember how peaceful I
           | felt when I was designing and writing my (simple) games for
           | it. I hankered all through my childhood for an Amiga; _any_
           | Amiga.
           | 
           | TBH, I might even settle for a C128; just the thrill of
           | writing software with some paper manuals next to me, no
           | internet and no distractions.
        
             | vitorfblima wrote:
             | Ironically Amiga means "female friend" in portuguese.
        
               | bigstrat2003 wrote:
               | And Spanish. And probably French, since if it's in two
               | Romance languages the odds are decent it's in others lol.
        
               | dmbche wrote:
               | Would be Amie in french, sadly
        
               | butlike wrote:
               | Why is that sad? lol
        
               | dmbche wrote:
               | Would've been neat, no?
        
         | pests wrote:
         | > I'm currently the type of person that is always plugged into
         | noise (music, podcast, YT). It is rare that I sit in silence.
         | 
         | Not directed towards you, but this brings up a thought I often
         | ponder. I have friends and people around me who are plugged in
         | 24/7. I don't really think they spend any time, what so ever,
         | on internal thought or introspection / reflection. I think it
         | really affects them. The "default mode network" as its
         | neuroscience has coined it. No time to analyze the past or
         | correlate cause with effect. Lives surrendered to notifications
         | and scrolling the same 3 feeds, day in and day out. I don't
         | even know what to say to them sometimes.
         | 
         | On the flip side, I do accept people for who they are. If this
         | is what they want, and they enjoy it, then whatever. But it can
         | be frustrating trying to communicate or interact with them.
        
           | TeMPOraL wrote:
           | There's an orthogonal aspect to it: control. I know I need
           | _some_ amount of noise to stay grounded and look outwards
           | instead of collapsing into infinite reflection regression -
           | but I also need _control_ over that noise. That is, it needs
           | to be _my_ noise. Living in noise introduced by people around
           | me is not reinvigorating, it 's draining and depressing.
        
             | pests wrote:
             | I couldn't agree more. Especially noise introduced by
             | people around me. Drains me.
             | 
             | I'm not on a high horse either, I do succumb to modern
             | temptations. I have a YouTube addiction, but its all
             | educational / a topic I'm learning / a hobby / etc. I just
             | got my Recap and somehow I have watched 4500 different
             | channels this year, that's saying nothing of # of videos or
             | watchtime. I was pretty shocked.
             | 
             | Still though, I purposefully make time to be alone and just
             | daydream or relax and ponder. I don't use my phone while
             | driving (besides maps etc). I try to put my phone away when
             | others are around (unless we're sharing memes or photos or
             | you know, actively using our phones together). I'm not a
             | snob, go ahead and reply to your significant other while
             | we're eating dinner - that's understandable. When I watch
             | movies or TV (that I care about, I do keep old scifi on in
             | the background while on the PC or doing stuff around the
             | house) I am actively watching and do not touch my phone,
             | and if I do need to I pause first.
             | 
             | The worst part? When you know someone is on their phone
             | 24/7, phone in hand at all times, and you can't get them to
             | respond to your calls or texts.
             | 
             | I feel like I'm bragging or showing off or something but
             | I'm really not, just interested in how people interact with
             | their devices, and their life.
        
               | alexalx666 wrote:
               | haha this is so true about ppl not able to respond to
               | calls while they are literally on the phone ALL the time
        
           | kibwen wrote:
           | _> I do accept people for who they are. If this is what they
           | want, and they enjoy it, then whatever._
           | 
           | You do you, but you're not obliged to accept someone for who
           | they are if who they are is a brainless wastoid. I recommend
           | minimizing the time wasted on zombies in favor of seeking out
           | people who still value their brains.
        
             | BLKNSLVR wrote:
             | The terminally online don't seem to like being reminded
             | that they're the terminally online.
             | 
             | Unfortunately the infestation only seems to grow.
        
             | sidrag22 wrote:
             | Depending on how you categorize people into being a
             | "brainless wastoid", that could potentially shrink some
             | people's interactions with other humans to literal 0...
             | 
             | I see this type of sentiment reflected all over the
             | internet as well, avoiding people because they don't fit
             | whatever type of mold, I think this type of mentality is
             | terrible. Not saying you gotta go out and find someone who
             | has 14 hours of screen on time a day and hang out with
             | them, but even just lumping people into the category of
             | "brainless wastoid" feels to me very much like bordering on
             | dehumanization.
        
           | unsungNovelty wrote:
           | Wrote about this -
           | https://www.unsungnovelty.org/posts/04/2025/you-dont-need-
           | ai...
        
         | anal_reactor wrote:
         | This is exactly why my dream is to save enough money so that I
         | can retire and fuck off and just smoke weed and play vidya
         | until I die. People speak of "hedonistic treadmill" but there's
         | also "achievement treadmill" where you want to achieve more and
         | more and more and it never ends. The biggest perk of my current
         | job is that the company is completely dysfunctional, so it's
         | normal for me to spend entire day doing nothing and I don't
         | even need to be at the office. At first my body reacted with
         | panic because I was used to being a slave, but I'm slowly
         | adapting to think "wait, I'm actually winning"
        
           | ge96 wrote:
           | I'm lucky to have a similar job where for an entire day I
           | just watch YouTube then I say at scrum "it's in progress".
           | Although it's not great, it's procrastinating then I have to
           | do even more work in less time.
           | 
           | As long as you get it done.
        
         | kibwen wrote:
         | _> I too have a dream of not wanting to work._
         | 
         | The OP isn't about not wanting to work. To labor in pursuit of
         | your own personal purpose is a virtue and a privilege. But
         | labor for the sake of labor is not a virtue, nor is labor for
         | the sake of watching that bank account go up, and least of all
         | labor for the sake of watching your billionaire CEO's bank
         | account go up.
        
           | ge96 wrote:
           | Yeah I thought about clarifying that earlier, it's not
           | responding to the post. I was saying it as a joke as in most
           | people say "I wish I didn't have a job" (but somehow have
           | money). Like I'm special thinking that way.
        
           | sidrag22 wrote:
           | I can't imagine NOT working, just 100% pure leisure does not
           | feel like a dream i have. If you can lump passion projects
           | into leisure? then sure, i guess its my dream as well,
           | because working on what I would prefer instead of having to
           | stress about finances IS my dream.
           | 
           | But not working at all? sounds so boring, and not boring in
           | the way that frees you up that others in this thread has
           | mentioned as a good thing.
           | 
           | For example, I had two project ideas i kinda wanna pursue and
           | was picking which to do first, one was very much almost no
           | path to revenue, but way more fun and would be usable daily
           | for me personally, the other? market aggregation stuff that
           | i've done already and i know the exact structure, there is no
           | mystery to it, its nothing special, just a helpful tool that
           | might make me some money, and sadly THAT is the project i
           | chose to pursue, over the personal project with no clear path
           | to revenue.
           | 
           | I'll still enjoy making it, but I am positive if money wasn't
           | a factor, i am deep into the other project instead.
        
       | giorgioz wrote:
       | Often there is a bell shaped curve where productivity peeks at a
       | point and bigger efforts after that make you actually less
       | productive overall. In my personal experience most projects are a
       | marathon not a sprint. Always sleep the 8-9 hours necessary to
       | feel full-rested. I'm most productive in the morning so I try to
       | work every day during mornings but since in the afternoon I'm a
       | lot less productive I've decided I can allocate that time to
       | entertainment and social activities. My entertainment and social
       | activity tend also to be along learning new things.
        
         | BLKNSLVR wrote:
         | Regular morning stand-ups really fuck my morning momentum.
         | 
         | I'm getting my shit done, then I gotta stop and listen to a
         | whole bunch of crap that I either already know or doesn't
         | affect me at all.
         | 
         | Sometimes, in fact often, the level of momentum I had before
         | the meeting is never reached again the rest of day.
         | 
         | All meetings should be post lunch. All meetings I organize are
         | post lunch.
        
       | dansmith1919 wrote:
       | The very basic (but incorrect) assumption that the "grind never
       | stops" people rely on is
       | 
       | more hours == more productivity
       | 
       | It's not. If you're sleep deprived you'll produce shit, which
       | you'll probably have to redo later. Sleep properly, produce more
       | in less hours.
       | 
       | But hey, at least your colleagues think you're busy because
       | you're last to leave redoing your shitty work!
       | 
       | Edit: read The Brain at Rest by Jebelli, don't work yourself to
       | death
        
       | tetha wrote:
       | This is something that hit me during my master thesis the first
       | time: I was entirely free to choose my work time, work mode.
       | Since the prof was very hands-off too, only the result after 6
       | months mattered. That was quite the weird time. But it taught me
       | some pieces about work-life balance and choosing what is 'enough
       | work', as well as giving your brain time off, or time on
       | something else to work through more complex topics and to
       | recharge.
       | 
       | This is also why I honestly enjoy being a salaried employee. My
       | employer buys 40 hours a week from me. Right, some weeks it's 50
       | and the next week only 30. Some weeks need a machine just
       | executing, some weeks need more careful thought.
       | 
       | I could optimize it for more monetary output, but at the moment
       | it is a predictable, usually not-painful thing with decent
       | monetary output for personally more interesting subjects. I've
       | found appreciation of this.
        
         | rzzzt wrote:
         | I totally failed on the balancing part, was working on the
         | thesis like a runaway diesel engine. I could sleep and step
         | away from the word processor window but it kind of consumed my
         | thoughts at all times. Towards the end stress started to spill
         | over to the physical domain and it took about 4 months after
         | the submission and thesis defense (no snakes fortunately) for
         | symptoms to subside.
        
       | asaiacai wrote:
       | echoing this sentiment. I really do believe at some level there
       | is strength/wisdom in being able to step away from a problem and
       | return to it from a new perspective despite of what narratives
       | are being pushed online by hustle
        
       | joelthelion wrote:
       | I recommend reading the Happiness Files, by Arthur Brooks.
       | 
       | It contain great advice, including on how to handle your
       | professional life. But even more importantly, I feel the world
       | would be a better place if more people followed its advice. A
       | world full of happy people would be a world that runs far better.
        
       | samuraijack wrote:
       | The constant anti work agenda that is thrown in your face if you
       | use almost any social media is so annoying.
       | 
       | Have these anti work people ever considered that maybe some
       | people actually like work and labelling them as slaves is
       | insulting?
        
         | antfarm wrote:
         | The majority of people don't have that luxury, and very few
         | have it throughout their whole career. The lucky ones should be
         | grateful this label does not apply to them and not feel
         | insulted by the less fortunate.
        
           | noduerme wrote:
           | Or you should realize that it's called _work_ because it 's
           | not _fun_ and you can still enjoy and appreciate it. You
           | think only people with rare amazing unicorn jobs enjoy work?
           | Go drive a cab. Bartend. Work long hours for a startup you
           | care about. Yes you can complain it sucks, but _that 's why
           | it's called work_. Learning how to enjoy it is the same as
           | learning how to be good at it - and better at life.
           | 
           | This luxury you speak of as if it exists in some jobs is
           | completely in your own mind.
           | 
           | Put another way, the only thing preventing you from enjoying
           | that luxury right now, whatever you do, is a shitty attitude.
        
             | orionspelt wrote:
             | Those things you describe are jobs
             | 
             | Work is a term of physics; breathing is work. Eating is
             | work.
             | 
             | Jobs exist because people are too lazy to do work for
             | themselves.
             | 
             | What I want is no job and to work on my house, work in my
             | food prep, work on interesting projects. Work on making the
             | last mile stuff I need.
             | 
             | Work is great. Jobs are dumb.
        
               | Scarblac wrote:
               | Sometimes jobs are great streams of interesting work to
               | do that also switch off at five.
        
               | azangru wrote:
               | You want to work on your house and prep your food? I am
               | the complete opposite. I would rather work on building a
               | website, and eat in a canteen, than work on my house or
               | my food.
        
               | orionspelt wrote:
               | Reread...
               | 
               | > ...work on interesting projects.
               | 
               | Been building websites for 20 years, and writing code,
               | studying math, building electronics since the 80s. Along
               | with building homes from foundation up, rebuilding
               | cars... Hedonic treadmill; individually, none of those
               | things are enough anymore.
               | 
               | For me having to put so much time into riding a tightly
               | focused job escalator is hell.
        
             | Scarblac wrote:
             | I think it's called work because it _accomplishes
             | something_, in a way that play or idleness doesn't.
             | 
             | Something can be a work of love, your life work, et cetera
             | and it doesn't imply anything about it being fun or for
             | money or not.
             | 
             | I want to learn more skills so I can do more types of work.
        
             | yeasku wrote:
             | I would like to see you working in construction.
        
         | TacticalCoder wrote:
         | > The constant anti work agenda that is thrown in your face if
         | you use almost any social media is so annoying.
         | 
         | I've got several friends who are doctors. They did study a
         | shitload. And one of them, once his day is over, loves to read
         | about investments, how to manage his finance, etc. Another one
         | has a passion for Ferrari cars and owns one (but it's already
         | its fourth one). He'll tell you all about the life of Enzo
         | Ferrari and he'll never miss the Monaco F1 grand prix.
         | 
         | I won't write here what I think of people hating on these
         | persons because they're successful. I especially won't write
         | what I think of them when they go to visit the doctor. I know
         | HN won't ban people easily but if I really wrote what I thought
         | of these people it'd get me close to being banned.
         | 
         | 12 years of studies. A very hard work: though on the mental and
         | usually with incredibly long hours.
         | 
         | I don't consider them slaves. But I'd rather be remembered as a
         | slave than as a parasite.
        
         | tock wrote:
         | Thats interesting because my social media is filled with
         | constant hustle culture content. Wonder how the algorithm
         | classifies us.
        
           | TeMPOraL wrote:
           | The algorithm is just amplifying what gets the kick out of
           | you. For some it's more of things they like or they are like;
           | for others, it's more of things they hate or disagree with.
           | Social media is approximating an infinite hall of mirrors.
        
         | runarberg wrote:
         | Some work is exploited, in fact in this economy most work is
         | exploited. If most people could work without being forced to
         | work unreasonable hours, under stressful conditions, with ample
         | free time, and without their bosses, or worse, their
         | shareholder talking almost all of the profit they generate,
         | most people would probably choose to work.
         | 
         | Most people like working, hardly anybody likes being exploited.
        
         | enraged_camel wrote:
         | I think it's a lot more complicated than anti-work vs. pro-
         | work. The author is cautioning people against defining
         | themselves by their level of productivity.
        
         | horns4lyfe wrote:
         | If you read the article that's not at all what they're saying.
        
         | BLKNSLVR wrote:
         | > almost any social media is so annoying.
         | 
         | Never a truer word spoken. And yet you go back?
        
         | mattgreenrocks wrote:
         | The article is about the temptation to define yourself through
         | your productivity. It isn't anti-work.
         | 
         | With all due respect, this reads like you had an axe to grind
         | about social media's anti work slant and this just reminded you
         | of that.
        
         | Froztnova wrote:
         | It's super weird to me because none of the jobs I've had as a
         | programmer have been super demanding of my time or effort? I
         | have to work, sure, but generally not as hard as I had to work
         | at college. I rarely get called to do things outside of work
         | hours, but generally when I do it's because there's a serious
         | problem that I'm the subject matter expert for so it's
         | understandable.
         | 
         | I absolutely do just "switch off" at 5pm. I sometimes work on
         | programming things in my free time if I feel like it
         | regardless.
         | 
         | I feel like, if your job is demanding more of you than a nine
         | to five, and you don't thrive in that environment, you
         | certainly have a right to complain or look for different work.
         | I'm just surprised that it seems to be so common when all the
         | work I've stumbled into in this field has been very reasonable.
         | 
         | And yes, obviously there's a difference between software dev
         | and blue collar, or even other types of white collar work. I'm
         | not blind to the fact that this is a particularly comfortable
         | career, even if it's not as extravagant as it seems to have be
         | a decade or so ago.
         | 
         | I guess I'm just surprised that there are so many apparently
         | ground-down people in a place like this which you would imagine
         | would be primarily populated with people in the software
         | industry.
        
       | wiseowise wrote:
       | > I was recently recommended a YouTube video with the following
       | title:
       | 
       | > "Ligma balls"
       | 
       | I don't know what I've expected from the article, this is your
       | typical run of the mill tech/linked-in bro fart in the wind. How
       | to write a page and not say anything at all.
        
       | darepublic wrote:
       | "Quite an experience to live in fear, isn't it? That's what it is
       | to be a slave."
        
       | gaigalas wrote:
       | Anthony Jackson interview from 1992:
       | 
       | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IS-xDsic84Q
       | 
       | Please listen to it.
       | 
       | > The machines are here.
       | 
       | > We have to live with that. Things are different.
       | 
       | > Hopefully, if one has done his homework, one can continue to
       | pick and choose what to do.
       | 
       | > If you keep your skills up, there is a place for you. If you
       | don't, then there isn't. Very simple equation.
       | 
       | > I will not permit myself to be outplayed by someone using the
       | machine.
       | 
       | ---
       | 
       | Anthony Jackson is regarded as one of the most talented bassists
       | that ever lived. He did, in fact, outplayed the machine, re-
       | invented his own tone and technique, and proved over and over
       | again that synthesizers could not do what he did. Synthetisers
       | could replace thousands of pop musicians (they still do), but not
       | him.
       | 
       | So yeah, do the grind. Don't break the machines, don't bow to
       | them. Instead, outplay them. Keep your skills up, so you are free
       | to pick and choose.
        
       | rglover wrote:
       | Just do the work at your body's natural pace. Your body will tell
       | you when it's tired, when it's ready to focus, and when it's
       | excited to work.
       | 
       | As with everything, the problem is hubris and impatience. So
       | eager to prove god-like status, you stumble and fall, posting
       | ephemeral think pieces about your "journey" on social media.
       | Reading LinkedIn is the closest I've ever got to thinking "maybe
       | asylums would be okay with a few reforms..."
       | 
       | My favorite (which I think/hope was a joke) was the guy cooking
       | chicken breast in his hotel coffee maker to "show his commitment
       | to the company" and how hard he was willing to grind.
        
         | slfnflctd wrote:
         | Cooking with hotel coffee makers during a grind is a long
         | standing tradition. Usually it's ramen or canned food, though.
         | 
         | For better or worse, this is becoming more difficult as the
         | standard coffee maker in rooms these days is a one-cup-at-a-
         | time model. So you need your own container, or you'll have to
         | use the ice bucket (if they have one).
         | 
         | A chicken breast is a bit far fetched, but I could see it
         | happening with someone who was craving chicken at an odd hour.
        
       | throwaway290 wrote:
       | I know many people who are full on into hustle culture and they
       | don't care to optimize their productivity.
       | 
       | the hustle is being strategic, work smart not hard, fake till you
       | make it, lie and be ruthless and amoral
       | 
       | It's kind of disgusting...
       | 
       | Edit: Actually, I don't know many such people. Just 2-3 maybe.
       | But it feels like many
        
         | BLKNSLVR wrote:
         | And unfortunately being demonstrated by a role model right now
         | to a whole lot of impressionable US school children who will
         | grow up lying through their teeth who will eventually occupy
         | jobs they're woefully unqualified for, to the detriment of
         | their entire sphere of influence.
         | 
         | A friend of mine recently pointed me to the song "Lie, Cheat,
         | Steal" by Run The Jewels. Seems like the strategy of choice for
         | a while yet.
        
       | conqrr wrote:
       | Very relevant talk by Osho:
       | https://youtu.be/OGM7VFeLRyQ?si=ecB_6L8IRgIT4LD1 Efficiency is a
       | quality of machines.
        
       | posix86 wrote:
       | > Hustle-culture optimizes for work input because it's sexy. It's
       | easy to post the inputs. It's hard to face the output.
       | 
       | Hustling is sexy insofar as the output is sexy imo. What hustlers
       | miss is that working hard is only cool if the work you do makes
       | sense - work for its own sake is one of the most uncool things
       | there is. And I also think that willingness to work hard comes on
       | its own if you find something meaningful; reading on how to work
       | hard is like treating symptoms (you don't work hard) rather than
       | actual cause (you don't have anything to work hard on). Getting
       | up at 5am to go to the gym then manage.your 500 dollars of crypto
       | portfolio you don't understand anything about is the epitome of
       | finance bro that everyone cringes about.
        
       | BLKNSLVR wrote:
       | I play tennis twice a week and I inline skate twice a week
       | (weather pending) and yesterday I commuted to and from work on
       | inlines (first time I've done it, won't be the last, but won't be
       | often).
       | 
       | Having such hobbies plus a couple of kids (now teenagers so
       | they're somewhat less demanding of my time) means I just don't
       | have the time to do extra hours if I'm going to get enough sleep.
       | 
       | And if I don't get enough sleep then the hours I _do_ work are
       | nowhere near as productive as those when I have had enough sleep.
       | 
       | Work fits around my personality. If that doesn't suit my
       | employer, I find a new employer.
       | 
       | Caveats: I don't hunt the highest paying job. I'm never going to
       | be enthusiastic enough to be chosen to lead - I've had minor
       | management roles in the past, and they lead to, basically, being
       | paid to either sleep less or spend less time as "not work me".
       | Both of those options result in lower productivity.
       | 
       | I'm good enough at what I do to earn a living for the foreseeable
       | future. That's good enough for me career-wise. For my physical
       | and mental health, both of which are indicators of and
       | contributory to happiness and longevity, I will continue to spend
       | much of my non-working time playing tennis and inline skating and
       | lifting weights so I can continue to do those things, that make
       | me happy with life and the world, for as long as physically
       | possible.
       | 
       | I tend not to the machine that consumes humanity, I tend to the
       | machine that gives me my humanity.
       | 
       | Edited to add: I'll never be a rich man. But I will lead a rich
       | life.
        
         | coffeefirst wrote:
         | Here's the other thing: people who spend their time playing
         | tennis, raising kids, hanging out with their dog by the grill,
         | etc. aren't constantly marketing their lifestyles to social
         | media.
        
         | stronglikedan wrote:
         | > first time I've done it, won't be the last, but won't be
         | often
         | 
         | I used to live close enough to bike to work, but I had nowhere
         | to wash off the sweat. We (work) recently moved to a new
         | building with a fitness center with showers, but it's too far
         | to ride a bike. FML
        
           | trillic wrote:
           | > too far to ride a bike
           | 
           | Skill issue.
        
             | butlike wrote:
             | Nicer way: new goal
        
           | seemaze wrote:
           | Puts the 'daily grind' in a different light. Don't be the
           | machine at work, so you have the time to become the
           | (endurance cycling) machine!
           | 
           | While I'm sure the cycling angle brings more tangible
           | benefits, I suspect they (work and cycling) suffer from the
           | same drawbacks of committing to an unending display of
           | exertion and suffering.
        
             | seemaze wrote:
             | On a serious note, I do wish many places had much better
             | bicycle infrastructure. My town has come a long way, but
             | still has a long way to go..
        
               | BLKNSLVR wrote:
               | It wasn't until I started outdoor skating that I realized
               | just how much of suburbia can be reached by footpaths
               | that are almost entirely shielded from roads.
               | 
               | There are inevitable road crossings, but at a certain
               | basic level of competency that doesn't pose a problem
               | (except if you slip and slightly tear an adductor, for
               | those of us over-forties).
               | 
               | I'm fairly paranoid about putting my bodily integrity at
               | the mercy of device-distracted operators of two-tonne
               | missiles flying past a metre off my right shoulder with
               | no curb or other barrier between.
               | 
               | I might be crazy, but I'm not suicidal.
        
           | BLKNSLVR wrote:
           | I actually drove to a convenient location from which to
           | skate. It's a route I've done quite a few times on weekends
           | as both an activity in and of itself, but also reconnaissance
           | for the potential commute.
           | 
           | (A lot of 'doing' is dual purpose, both doing and preparation
           | for some future 'next time')
           | 
           | It's about a 12km skate from there to work / the city.
           | 
           | Would a compromise such as that be a possibility?
        
           | Zambyte wrote:
           | E-bike?
        
         | bigstrat2003 wrote:
         | > I'll never be a rich man. But I will lead a rich life.
         | 
         | This is the way. I want to earn enough money to live on (and
         | I'm _extremely_ lucky that I get to earn a living doing
         | something I love), but past that point I care much more about
         | doing things I enjoy or spending time with people I care about.
         | More money is fine, I wouldn 't necessarily turn it down if
         | someone gave me a raise out of nowhere... but it's not
         | important either.
        
         | ai-christianson wrote:
         | Having a hobby kind of like going shallow into one or more
         | topics.
         | 
         | Wouldn't the best way to spend a life be to go all in on one
         | thing?
         | 
         | It's not like a video game where we can just try again. If the
         | main quest isn't right, better find a new one, not just add
         | distracting side quests.
        
           | mrwrong wrote:
           | > Wouldn't the best way to spend a life be to go all in on
           | one thing?
           | 
           | no
        
           | BLKNSLVR wrote:
           | Dealers choice.
           | 
           | The world is too interesting for me to be happy to limit
           | myself to one thing.
           | 
           | Additionally, I listen to a wide variety of music, read not a
           | very wide variety of books (mainly hard sci-fi), consider
           | myself a connoisseur of film and television, take an interest
           | in at least two other sports (have season tickets to the
           | local teams games), run a slightly more than simple homelab
           | (in a room I built myself in the shed, complete with backup
           | battery power and rudimentary climate control), including
           | hosting my own email server, amongst other parental and
           | husbandly duties.
           | 
           | One of the reasons I'm awake at 3am on Christmas Day.
           | 
           | Everything is interesting. Limiting oneself to one thing is
           | exceedingly boring.
           | 
           | Disclaimer: personal opinion. I see and live off the benefits
           | to the world provided by the single minded. But I'll never
           | pretend I could live like that.
        
           | convolvatron wrote:
           | its really possible to top out on some of these things. once
           | you're at the point where you're like 'I could try to do this
           | professionally, but that would ruin the fun of it and its a
           | really tough market'
           | 
           | plus, dont forget about the substantial benefits from cross-
           | training
           | 
           | if you find something thats really your thing, thats great,
           | but the goal is to interest and engage yourself. why is it
           | that important to demand the time to to eek out that last 5%
           | 
           | its also possible to actually blow through a field. the scope
           | of coding projects I can just spit out as rote are well past
           | what anyone is willing to adopt. what would be the point of
           | training any further. there's really a lot more to learn
           | about machining.
        
           | butlike wrote:
           | There's no such thing as going all in on one thing. At some
           | point you know how to find food and eat, so no matter how
           | much you've devoted your time to one thing, it won't be the
           | maximum possible amount of time
        
           | NeutralCrane wrote:
           | It's entirely possible to spread yourself too thin across too
           | many interests, but the solution to that isn't to "go all in
           | on one thing".
        
         | callc wrote:
         | Very well written, thank you.
         | 
         | I recently was very sick and was thinking about the people
         | whose employers put their work output over their health.
        
         | butlike wrote:
         | There's no such thing as productivity. Productivity is
         | concocted solutions to manufactured problems.
        
         | slickdork wrote:
         | >I'll never be a rich man. But I will lead a rich life.
         | 
         | it's interesting how relative this statement is. For a lot of
         | people, being able to lead a rich life means you're already
         | rich; if you're not worrying about money every day (and i mean
         | literally checking your bank account before going to the
         | grocery store), you are rich.
        
           | BLKNSLVR wrote:
           | This is, unfortunately, accurate.
        
         | rityvkjivfgj wrote:
         | > I'll never be a rich man. But I will lead a rich life.
         | 
         | > I'm good enough at what I do to earn a living for the
         | foreseeable future.
         | 
         | You are rich, then. You may not be a billionaire, but the
         | simple fact that you don't have to worry about money and
         | employment makes you a rich person by default.
         | 
         | Having the work/life balance you so proudly proclaim to have is
         | a result of owning wealth. Good on you.
        
       | haskellandrust wrote:
       | This post is essentially the premise of the Adam Curtis series
       | "All Watched Over by Machines of Loving Grace."
        
         | Balgair wrote:
         | https://www.filmsforaction.org/watch/bbc-all-watched-over-by...
        
       | HellDunkel wrote:
       | I have trouble figuring what this is about. You could read it as
       | ,,don't fall for hustle culture" or ,,don't work hard, work
       | smart" which is just a different version of hustle culture. May
       | also be a warning on AI and the cost of trying to stay afloat.
        
         | uoaei wrote:
         | It's mostly about "don't let the structure of your cognition
         | mirror the simplistic machines you create; they are meant to be
         | augmentations so you can offload that kind of rote cognition
         | and focus on the creative synthetic methods that humans are
         | uniquely suited for."
        
           | HellDunkel wrote:
           | Now if you could explain it to a 5 year old..
        
             | Terr_ wrote:
             | "It's okay to scrape crayons into stubs when making a
             | picture, but don't scrape _yourself_ away. "
        
       | maxverse wrote:
       | This feels like a good second draft. There's definitely a message
       | in here, but it shifts through the piece. To me, the most
       | poignant sentence was " If I can just keep chugging forward, I
       | will end up somewhere that is not here." I think the message is
       | "Why are you working this hard? What do you hope to get out of
       | participating in hustle culture; to what end?
        
       | alecwindmill wrote:
       | > "Hustle-culture optimizes for work input because it's sexy.
       | It's easy to post the inputs. It's hard to face the output"
       | 
       | Amazing
        
       | renewiltord wrote:
       | Remember that on the Internet the majority of people are telling
       | you:
       | 
       | - dating is hard
       | 
       | - loneliness is an epidemic
       | 
       | - they've got untreated trauma
       | 
       | - society is the cause of all this
       | 
       | Do you want to select your advice from a population the majority
       | of whose life sucks? Getting self-help advice out of a population
       | which can't help itself is a prima-facie idiotic idea.
        
       | arscan wrote:
       | > Try to find the most rewarding solution.
       | 
       | This sentence gave me pause and I'll be chewing it over in my
       | mind for awhile, I think.
        
       | akomtu wrote:
       | > Only a slave quantifies its existence through productivity
       | 
       | > If I can turn myself into a mechanism that takes input and
       | consistently works towards some goal...
       | 
       | This is, in fact, a quasi-religion, if you think about it. Its
       | central dogma is that humans are no different from machines, so
       | we can be reduced to automatas with well-defined inputs, outputs,
       | productivity and other measurable _metrics_.
       | *Productivity is your heart,          Corporation is your body
       | and          GDP is your god*
       | 
       | would be its motto.
        
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