[HN Gopher] Why do people leave comments on OpenBenches?
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       Why do people leave comments on OpenBenches?
        
       Author : sedboyz
       Score  : 213 points
       Date   : 2025-12-20 16:08 UTC (1 days ago)
        
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       | phainopepla2 wrote:
       | Great project, feels like the old web. I'm inspired to take a
       | walk to my local park and add the memorial benches
        
       | sjsmith89 wrote:
       | I see my area is lacking dispite having many memorial benches.
       | Unfortunately some are in poor condition. I will try my best to
       | capture and record them. Great project. Will encourage others.
        
       | arjie wrote:
       | Marvelous stuff. Appreciate the tips on the technologies used to
       | stay abreast of the new regulations. I always thought it was a
       | pity we were going to start losing comments and am glad to see
       | that it's still feasible to keep them.
        
       | BeetleB wrote:
       | For almost 20 years, I've wanted to build a site where users can
       | upload photos of informational boards/plaques along the road
       | (e.g. on highways), along with photos of the actual item the
       | board was talking about. The idea was that you could browse a
       | map, and see all the ones along the route you were thinking of
       | traveling, and decide which spots were worth stopping at.
       | 
       | In those days there were no cell phones, and I didn't know much
       | web development. Now, with GPS embedded into photos, this is
       | perhaps a really easy site to build.
       | 
       | But I don't want to deal with user moderation. And I don't want
       | the burden of continual maintenance.
       | 
       | I was also concerned that a side effect would be really nice, not
       | frequently visited spots will suddenly overflow with tourists. A
       | much tougher problem to crack.
       | 
       | I don't think I'll ever get around to it. Someone convince me
       | otherwise. Or better yet, build it for me. :-)
        
         | 1659447091 wrote:
         | > The idea was that you could browse a map, and see all the
         | ones along the route you were thinking of traveling, and decide
         | which spots were worth stopping at.
         | 
         | Strava has something like this, not specifically for
         | informational boards/plaques. People with public profiles can
         | have their uploaded photos of (usually) trail markers, plaques,
         | rickety bridges/stairs/rocks, big trees etc added to a
         | community map so others can see whats on a trail or route they
         | want to walk/run.
         | 
         | I take the exact photos you are talking about and have them
         | uploaded to my trail activities -- though I keep my profile
         | private, more of a historical record for myself. I've wondered
         | if others were into taking/saving photos of all the ones they
         | come across. I see others reading and moving on or taking a
         | selfie, but am usually the only one trying to get photos of the
         | board/plaque and the objects it was pointing out
        
         | edent wrote:
         | You are welcome to fork our code for OpenBenches
         | 
         | https://github.com/openbenches/openbenches.org/
         | 
         | It is fairly standard PHP + MySQL.
         | 
         | We use Auth0 for authentication - people editing have to use a
         | social network to log in. That significantly reduces (but
         | doesn't eliminate) the need for moderation.
         | 
         | As for maintenance - once in a while dependabot will say a PHP
         | library is out of date and I'll run the update.
         | 
         | Please do launch your project; it sounds like fun
        
       | POBIX wrote:
       | This is really beautiful. One of the most moving things I've seen
       | in weeks. The website and the comments and just the idea of
       | memorial benches.
       | 
       | I'm very surprised it was able to get this much traction despite
       | being launched only 8 years ago, long after the heyday of these
       | sort of sites. How'd you do it?
        
         | edent wrote:
         | Built it and they will come.
         | 
         | OK, it was a mixture of things. I told my friends about it and
         | they were sufficiently nerdy to try it out.
         | 
         | I responded to early feedback - specifically about creating a
         | leaderboard. Originally it was all anonymous but people wanted
         | to see how well they'd done.
         | 
         | My wife and I gave an interview to a local BBC radio station
         | which gave it a little bump. Similarly, when it is mentioned on
         | reddit and other sites we pop up and talk about it.
         | 
         | It was also picked up by a couple of academic papers, which
         | gave it a bit of credibility. As did our recent integration
         | with OpenStreetMap.
         | 
         | There's a far amount of schema.org metadata which probably
         | helps with SEO.
         | 
         | But, other than that, who knows? I've had plenty of projects
         | which didn't do as well. Sometimes the Web rewards nice things.
        
           | jmkb wrote:
           | Thanks for building and maintaining this lovely project.
           | 
           | I'm an OSM mapper & enjoy linking mapped benches to their
           | profiles on OpenBenches. It gets hairy, though, when a single
           | bench features multiple memorial plaques. Wonder if you'd
           | consider revising your data model to permit multiple
           | inscriptions per bench?
        
             | edent wrote:
             | Open an issue on GitHub and we can discuss it.
        
       | ChrisArchitect wrote:
       | Thought this was going to lead to something about a major
       | annoyance or weird commenters but pleasantly surprised at the
       | list of impacts, heartfelt, emotive, human experiences connecting
       | community from the physical to the virtual (to the otherworldly
       | no doubt).
       | 
       | There are a lot of _trees_ with similar sort of sponsorships and
       | commemorations... wonder if a spin off would be something like
       | opentreebutes.org ?
        
         | madaxe_again wrote:
         | Yeah, I likewise thought this was going to be about people
         | being brutally unpleasant - commenting to laugh at the dead, to
         | pour scorn on their families, that sort of thing.
         | 
         | I am jaded. Then again I come from a family where people go to
         | funerals to gloat and start fights.
        
           | whatevermom4 wrote:
           | Is there a way to reprogram yourself when having a family
           | like this?
        
         | edent wrote:
         | Please build it! There are lots of lovely tree memorials which
         | should also be preserved.
        
       | 0xDEAFBEAD wrote:
       | I was reading over a comment thread on songfacts.com a few days
       | ago and thought to myself "this is what the internet was supposed
       | to be". People from all over the world connecting to discuss
       | their favorite music, across time and space, without any
       | upvoting, downvoting, likes, followers, or other systems to game
       | for popularity.
       | 
       | Without upvotes/likes/etc. as a "quality filter", you tend to
       | read more comments written in broken English with poor grammar
       | and so forth. I consider that an acceptable price to pay, in
       | exchange for no viral memes, ragebaiting, etc.
        
       | tomjakubowski wrote:
       | Up in the San Gabriel mountains in Southern California, just off
       | of a faint use trail above Sierra Madre, someone installed a
       | memorial bench for their child who died shortly after birth.
       | Stumbling on it on a hike, I was overcome with emotion thinking
       | of the grief those parents must have felt, and how it spurred
       | them into the monumental effort of hiking the bench all the way
       | up there and planting it in the ground. I'm normally a staunch
       | advocate of the wilderness principle of Leave No Trace, but I
       | didn't even think about it once whilst seated on that bench.
        
       | swiftcoder wrote:
       | I really assumed this was going to be about an automated
       | benchmark suite...
        
       | sph wrote:
       | Beautiful post. Nothing confirms the Dead Internet Theory better
       | than the surprise at seeing genuine human interaction on the net.
       | 
       | We share the desperate need to connect with each other, no matter
       | how arduous it has become to.
       | 
       | I will expect with sadness the day that the author complains
       | about bot spam on his benches website.
        
       | symbogra wrote:
       | I will try to record any that I spot in my travels
        
         | edent wrote:
         | Thank you!
        
       | Waterluvian wrote:
       | One early vacation morning my wife and I took our kids to a
       | playground to adjust their pre-museum energy levels. It was quiet
       | and sunny with dew still on the grass. The kids ran carefree
       | through the playground, making their own adventures while I
       | settled on a nearby bench. I noticed the bench had one of those
       | memorial plaques for a man named Everett:
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       | https://ibb.co/GQsk7Dqk
       | 
       | The power of the memorial that morning had me daydreaming what it
       | would be like to be a grandpa watching my grandkids running
       | around the playground. That's where I want to be immortalized:
       | not in a lonely cemetery but on a warm park bench, relaxing and
       | enjoying the best things about life.
       | 
       | My youngest migrated his play to the swing set and called me over
       | for help. I loaded him in and began pushing while thinking of old
       | Everett, maybe pushing his own grandson, maybe in this very
       | swing.
       | 
       | And then I noticed what was written just above him:
       | 
       | https://ibb.co/SwLJQgD4
       | 
       | In a breath my mind corrected the error in my daydreams and a
       | freight train punched through my gut, leaving me unable to
       | breathe. My heart sunk and fell out the bottom of me as I
       | struggled to keep pushing my son. I'd later learn that my son, in
       | that moment, was older than Evvy would ever get to be. It's been
       | years and I still wrestle with this memory every time my kids
       | play on a swing set.
        
       | KomoD wrote:
       | Interesting site, will definitely add a few that are in my city!
        
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