[HN Gopher] As 'Dorian Gray' ages, its relevance only grows
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       As 'Dorian Gray' ages, its relevance only grows
        
       Author : apollinaire
       Score  : 70 points
       Date   : 2025-11-12 19:21 UTC (10 days ago)
        
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       | mitchbob wrote:
       | https://archive.ph/pdEL2
        
       | darshanime wrote:
       | The longest lasting impact of the novel (personally for me) was
       | how it introduced me to the concept of Opium Dens
        
       | mitthrowaway2 wrote:
       | Interesting. When I first read the Picture of Dorian Gray, I had
       | no idea of its social context -- I didn't know Oscar Wilde was
       | gay, I didn't know the book was considered controversial. I just
       | picked it up on a whim and thought it was a well-written book
       | full of fantastically clever dialogue and over-the-top cynicism.
       | But I was, ironically, left with an impression that the Victorian
       | era was more comfortable with male intimacy, and appreciation for
       | male beauty, than our own. That turned out not to be quite true,
       | of course, as demonstrated by what they did to Wilde himself.
       | 
       | But it's still a fantastic novel.
        
         | stevekemp wrote:
         | It is a good read, even now.
         | 
         | I read it for the first time in my early 20s, and reason I read
         | it was because when I was about 11 years old I saw an old black
         | and white movie of it, and I had nightmares for quite some time
         | (over the ending/fire).
         | 
         | It wasn't the only film to give me nightmares as a child, but
         | it was definitely the first!
         | 
         | For me it is one of those books I re-read every few years,
         | along with LotR, Amber chronicles, the Dune series, etc.
        
         | inglor_cz wrote:
         | The fates of Wilde and Turing are two big black stains on the
         | history of the UK (not the only ones, of course).
         | 
         | Turing even more, as by 1950, the society was much less
         | religious overall and there was less reason to keep
         | homosexuality illegal.
        
           | vlovich123 wrote:
           | I think you meant to say their treatment was two big black
           | stains. A bit awkwardly worded implying the men themselves
           | were the stains.
        
             | inglor_cz wrote:
             | Thanks. I fixed that. I am not a native speaker and I
             | sometimes fall into such traps, but this I could have seen.
        
           | KaiserPro wrote:
           | > society was much less religious overall and there was less
           | reason to keep homosexuality illegal.
           | 
           | I'm not actually sure it was an entirely religious thing. It
           | seems like it was an amendment tacked onto a bill that would
           | protect girls from sexual exploitation by this guy:
           | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Henry_Labouch%C3%A8re
           | 
           | specifically
           | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Labouch%C3%A8re_Amendment
           | 
           | The conflation of sex and religion I think its probably a
           | mistake in this instance.
        
             | inglor_cz wrote:
             | I am not really well-versed in British legal history. I was
             | under the impression that the original Buggery Act was
             | motivated religiously, and that Wilde was prosecuted under
             | that Act (maybe amended).
        
         | wolfi1 wrote:
         | I always wondered what trait was left on the picture when
         | Dorian Gray considered converting to Catholicism
        
         | retrac wrote:
         | > But I was, ironically, left with an impression that the
         | Victorian era was more comfortable with male intimacy, and
         | appreciation for male beauty, than our own.
         | 
         | This might not be an entirely faulty perception. Wilde was, I
         | think, aiming for plausible deniability. To hide the
         | homoeroticism amidst the pretense of merely intense platonic
         | love. Because in that time such expressions were often
         | permissible.
         | 
         | I've seen the theory phrased a few ways but here's one take. In
         | sufficiently homophobic societies, the possibility that a man
         | doing something we would perceive as homoerotic, is himself
         | gay, is close to zero. Because no one would ever risk exposure.
         | And so expression of non-sexual intimacies we would see as gay
         | are not perceived as gay in those societies.
         | 
         | We see this shift in the recent literary tendency to "queer"
         | platonic male relationships in historical literature. To use a
         | slightly absurd example: are Sam and Frodo in the Lord of the
         | Rings gay? It has been argued by some. (Put "Are Sam and Frodo"
         | into Google and see what pops up on autocomplete to finish that
         | question!)
         | 
         | I think it is the romantic (in the 19th century Wagnerian
         | sense) and conservative worldview of Tolkien in action: the
         | nature of the relationship is that of comrades-in-arms. And in
         | that context certain intimacies that would be intolerable are
         | otherwise not. That is why Sam says that he loves Frodo.
         | 
         | Another example the modern audience often just can't get over,
         | is men who used to sleep together. In the most literal sense of
         | the word. Platonic bed mates. Some guys did this even when
         | other beds were available. Maybe they were cold. But maybe they
         | were just lonely? if some women put on pajamas and have a
         | movie-watching slumber party they probably won't get called
         | lesbians. But men must tread carefully today at least in
         | America for that kind of thing. There is just some mental block
         | in our society with that kind of intimacy between two men. But
         | perhaps not back then. (Or maybe Abraham Lincoln really was
         | gay. But I kind of doubt it.)
         | 
         | Wilde is right on the transition point when it started to be
         | conceivable that a man is actually a self-identifying
         | homosexual and that male intimacy might therefore be coded as
         | homosexual. He played with that ambiguity. And in his case, got
         | burned.
        
           | Insanity wrote:
           | Why is your example absurd? I read LoTR and definitely had
           | the sense that Sam & Frodo were gay. I actually thought the
           | hollywood version sanitized this away entirely and assumed it
           | was because it'd be 'too controversial' at the time the films
           | were made.
        
             | drivebyhooting wrote:
             | Sam is loyal and devoted to Frodo, but there is zero
             | romance between them. I don't see how one could read that
             | in the book. Sam even marries Rosy and has umpteen
             | children.
             | 
             | Is Gollum gay for Frodo because he caressed his knees while
             | on the path of Cirith Ungol?
        
               | gooseus wrote:
               | I can't help but agree having read the books umpteenth
               | times... even in retrospect I find it more likely that
               | Tolkien added Rosy into the narrative simply to make it
               | clear that Sam was a heterosexual and that Frodo was
               | merely an asexual eccentric like Bilbo.
               | 
               | I don't think there is any problem or harm in reading
               | them as bi or gay, but I'd love to read a better case for
               | Tolkien having written them with that intention. Am I
               | forgetting any character(s) from The Silmarillion or
               | Unfinished Tales that were more obviously coded as gay or
               | any other statements by Tolkien that would point to this
               | as even a remote possibility?
        
             | inglor_cz wrote:
             | Sam does not look gay to me. He is awkward around girls,
             | but seems to be attracted to them.
             | 
             | Both Bilbo and Frodo are a bit gay-ish indeed, or possibly
             | asexual (neither ever marries or even has any romantic
             | interest, both seem to be artsy), but Tolkien was born in
             | pre-war England where lifetime bachelors who weren't gay
             | were a part of the usual society.
        
               | s1mplicissimus wrote:
               | > but Tolkien was born in pre-war England where lifetime
               | bachelors who weren't gay were a part of the usual
               | society
               | 
               | Suure those bachelors were all straight, there certainly
               | weren't any gay ones who didn't dare to come out. Nothing
               | to see here ;)
               | 
               | IMO Sam & Frodo are at the very least intensely good
               | friends, though I do have the strong impression that Sam
               | is way more sacrificial than Frodo. Afair it's always
               | Frodo who needs Sam to progress or save him - but Frodo's
               | story doesn't have him do big efforts to accommodate/help
               | Sam. It always felt a bit like a count to peasant
               | relationship to me in this regard (as probably Tolkien
               | would have idolized it). Definitely not one on equal
               | footing.
               | 
               | Another dimension/reading I find exciting is that Sam &
               | Frodo are a split up character, where Sam represents the
               | physical part of existence and Frodo represents the
               | mental/psychological part. Even above the regular
               | "hobbits obsessed with food", Sam brings the seasoning
               | packet to make roast chicken to Mordor which cracks Frodo
               | up, does the cooking along the way. Frodo's journey on
               | the other hand is marked by "suffering from inside" - the
               | witch kings spiritual wound and the pull of the ring.
               | Frodo's intellect affords him shrewdness and planning,
               | but in the end Sam has to carry him to the forge, because
               | Frodo is too weighed down by his inner life. Does make
               | for a nice metaphor I guess.
               | 
               | Anyway that was some thoughts of mine
        
               | inglor_cz wrote:
               | Looking at the relative burdens and tasks of Frodo and
               | Sam, we might be underestimating the toll of the Ring-
               | bearer, which, for 99 per cent of the time, is Frodo.
               | 
               | The Ring is slowly poisoning him and invading his mind,
               | more so that Sauron has risen again and his strength in
               | the world is waxing. Plus, the terrible wound from the
               | Morgul knife in his shoulder. Bilbo never faced anything
               | quite like that, and Sam only for a short time.
               | 
               | I don't think Frodo is in any condition to help others
               | much. He has enough problems rising up every morning and
               | walking again.
               | 
               | BTW I just love nerding out on HN.
        
               | s1mplicissimus wrote:
               | ah nice to see a fellow appreciator, hi!
               | 
               | Sooo what do you think then is the burden of the ring?
        
               | inglor_cz wrote:
               | I think at its worst, it might be something like a
               | combination of cancer and schizophrenia (or withdrawal
               | symptoms). Weakness, unability to rest, intensely
               | intruding mad thoughts, despair.
        
               | Insanity wrote:
               | Same, that's what HN is for! Glad my question sparked an
               | interesting discussion about LoTR haha.
        
               | mr_toad wrote:
               | > where Sam represents the physical part of existence and
               | Frodo represents the mental/psychological part.
               | 
               | English classism in a nutshell.
        
               | s1mplicissimus wrote:
               | I did mean to point to that, but in the other paragraph
               | xD
        
             | xandrius wrote:
             | Kind of proves the point. They show absolutely nothing that
             | would make them gay, it's just, as the OP said, our society
             | has rejected any male-male physical interaction which isn't
             | a fistbump, a high-five and maybe a short hug.
             | 
             | Look at older military photos from 1800s-1900s and you see
             | comrades holding hands for instance.
        
           | KaiserPro wrote:
           | I think the other thing that's not immediately obvious to
           | modern readers is that men sleeping together _could_ be seen
           | as something childish. Boys at boarding school had
           | "attachments" that they were expected to grow out of and
           | marry a nice young woman.
           | 
           | Its probably better to see it like cocaine use. In posh
           | circles everyone does it, and so long as you don't show it to
           | the unwashed public, you're probably fine. However if you are
           | caught by the police, or someone wants to take revenge, then
           | letting slip that you're on coke is enough to get you
           | ostracised.
           | 
           | Moreover, if poor people do it, then its a moral failing (see
           | crack addict)
        
         | amiga386 wrote:
         | You should read the _Strange Case of Dr Jekyll and Mr Hyde_ as
         | a follow up.
         | 
         | The original inspiration for it was Stevenson hearing about
         | respectable pillar of Edinburgh society, William Brodie, being
         | caught as a burglar, stealing to repay his gambling debts. Your
         | social capital in Victorian Britain was based around your
         | _outward_ appearance of respectability and had to be defended
         | to the utmost. If you were outed as a criminal, or as a
         | homosexual, you 'd lose every shred of privilege and position.
         | 
         | With that in mind, you can imagine the duality of Dr Jekyll
         | trying to maintain his good standing while licentious Mr Hyde
         | wants to engage in hijinks?
         | 
         | One such reading of the novella: https://sci-
         | hub.st/10.1525/lal.2012.24.1.21
        
       | mgkimsal wrote:
       | Dorian Gray jokes never get old...
        
         | rkomorn wrote:
         | Except for that one written on the last page of the notebook
         | that definitely did not age well.
        
       | some_guy_in_ca wrote:
       | I just recently listened to this from Audible. I was a grand
       | novel. The dialogue was amazing.
        
         | stavros wrote:
         | Which version did you listen to?
        
       | jorl17 wrote:
       | I'd place it 5th in my overall favorite books list. It is
       | certainly one which has influenced me deeply and continues to do
       | so, ever since I first read it 13 years ago.
        
         | baxtr wrote:
         | Now everyone including me wants to know your top 4!
        
           | inglor_cz wrote:
           | I concur. Give us your list, GP :-)
        
           | fandorin wrote:
           | yes! I'm interested as well!
        
       | __alexs wrote:
       | A wonderful play. The production of this with Sarah Snook from
       | Succession was absolutely amazing.
        
         | gotaran wrote:
         | A bit flawed, but a technical marvel and shows how superhumanly
         | virtuosic Snook is.
        
       | zyx321 wrote:
       | Uhm, actually, the PICTURE of Dorian Gray ages.
        
       | bloak wrote:
       | Apparently there are several, significantly different versions of
       | "The picture of Dorian Gray". I'm not sure which one I've read,
       | or which one I should read. Any suggestions?
        
         | maebert wrote:
         | They're all great, but the 2012 "The Uncensored Picture of
         | Dorian Gray" is the closest to the original script before the
         | editor cut out things that he deemed... checks notes... "too
         | gay".
         | 
         | It restores parts that were cut, and essentially bans chapter 3
         | and some other digressions on art history that Wilde added as a
         | literary Beard to the footnotes - still there to read, but set
         | in context)
         | 
         | It's not a huge different honestly, but I believe Oscar Wilde
         | would want you to read that version.
         | 
         | It
        
           | CalChris wrote:
           | That's enough of an excuse for me to reread it. Along with
           | Room With A View, two books I laughed on every page.
        
       | HPMOR wrote:
       | There's a line in the book I quite liked: "All the interesting
       | people disappear to San Francisco." Was incredible to me that
       | even back then, SF was known for its homosexual culture. Lord
       | Henry was remarking on where Basil likely had disappeared, so the
       | insinuation was that Basil felt more at home in SF.
        
       | KaiserPro wrote:
       | I tried reading it when I was younger, and I couldn't get past
       | the first two pages. Hes a wordy motherfuck that Wilde bloke.
       | 
       | However, I did get an audio book version of it, which meant I
       | could actually enjoy and finish it.
       | 
       | THe thing that struck me is that yes the painting is a large part
       | of the book, but so is food. The sheer amount of self hate that
       | was expressed through clothing and food towards the end of the
       | book was surprising to me.
        
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