[HN Gopher] How to Keep Winning
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       How to Keep Winning
        
       Author : daviducolo
       Score  : 50 points
       Date   : 2025-11-03 08:13 UTC (4 days ago)
        
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       | smy20011 wrote:
       | Just don't play the game have winner and loser. Play the game
       | that both side can win.
        
       | 4ndrewl wrote:
       | At first glance I thought this was just an extended "Live, Laugh,
       | Love" style post, but it's more of an autobiographical piece
       | about what worked for the author - albeit with examples
       | retrofitted into the chosen categories, and clearly not generally
       | applicable.
        
       | renjieliu wrote:
       | Not knowing who the author was until now. I just read some
       | articles from the website. For me, he's like Derek Sivers. I will
       | keep reading his posts.
        
       | tester756 wrote:
       | It reads as if written by teenager...
       | 
       | >For me, I would stand there and keep reciting difficult words.
       | And although I was slightly dyslexic, I still won every freaking
       | spelling bee. With this simple trick, I dominated it so much to
       | the point that my teachers, who loathed me for being a slacker,
       | once tried to rig it in favor of their obedient A-students (I
       | still won).
       | 
       | >I used to be a pro gamer, and when my friends and I picked up a
       | new video game, everyone would follow the game's instructions and
       | do the obvious thing. On the other hand, I would explore the
       | edges of the game. I'd explore every weird build, every different
       | weapon, and frankly look like a noob for a long time. That's
       | good. They'll underestimate you. But you're compounding. And
       | eventually, you'll go vertical, creating a massive distance
       | between you and the next participant before they know what hit
       | them.
       | 
       | You just put way more effort, that's it. That's the real advice -
       | put effort into things and make consistent progress. Be curious.
       | 
       | >Think of Apple and how taking privacy and security seriously--
       | despite competing against Microsoft, which didn't care about
       | either at the time--created a lasting consumer trust advantage.
       | 
       | Yea, because Apple is saint :D
        
         | anechouapechou wrote:
         | I'm not quite sure if his goal with writing this was to help
         | someone or to brag about how much he wins at life.
        
       | dosinga wrote:
       | This advise against quitting you find everywhere is just wrong.
       | Sure you should give it a fair shake, but if you are on a dead
       | end, never quitting means never winning. If something doesn't
       | work, it's possible you should just stop doing it and try
       | something else.
        
         | hashemian wrote:
         | I donno, I've come across or read about fair number of people
         | who worked on a crazy idea for a very long time, as if they
         | were planning to throw their life away chasing that idea. Some
         | had a breakthrough and ended up being a huge win. But I'm sure
         | there are many many more who just ended up nowhere. So, I guess
         | it's a gamble.
        
           | chistev wrote:
           | If you persist and win, they'll write good things about you.
           | If you lose, they'll say you were stubborn.
        
         | chistev wrote:
         | But how would you know when you've gotten to that point of
         | trying something else?
        
         | BeetleB wrote:
         | "Winners never quit and quitters never win, but those who never
         | win and never quit are idiots"
        
         | __s wrote:
         | Steve Levitt pushes this point, did some experiments around it:
         | https://bfi.uchicago.edu/news/to-quit-force-a-moment-of-trut...
        
         | datadrivenangel wrote:
         | This advice seems especially interesting because replit has
         | certainly pivoted, so in that sense they kind of did quit?
        
           | bdangubic wrote:
           | you might be taking "quit" a little too literally :)
        
         | bossyTeacher wrote:
         | Problem is that you never know if you are on a dead-end. It is
         | something you can only know in retrospect and even then only
         | sometimes
        
         | Bjartr wrote:
         | Advice is situational. Some people need to hear "don't give up"
         | and some people need to hear "move on".
        
       | jexe wrote:
       | Half of the founders will say never quit. The other half will say
       | you have to fail fast.
       | 
       | Choose your gurus wisely.
        
         | dasil003 wrote:
         | Context is everything. Ultimately you have to use your own
         | judgement about what makes sense because no one can see all
         | ends. Generalized advice from someone without skin in the game
         | is at best a weak datapoint for any significant life decision.
         | 
         | That said, let me give mine. Persistence over generally pays
         | more dividends that constantly chasing quick wins. The modern
         | information economy has cheapened success and skewed
         | perceptions of how much effort and luck is behind outlier
         | winners. The success I've had in startups was not quick, was
         | not a straight line, and honestly probably didn't net me as
         | much as if I had joined Google or Facebook early career, but
         | the benefits in terms of broad skills and success that I can
         | credibly claim on a personal level are actually more valuable
         | to me than a larger number in my bank account.
        
       | ElijahLynn wrote:
       | I found this article to be inspiring in some ways! I feel like I
       | will go back to some of its wisdom to keep me pushing on in some
       | upcoming hard moment. Not sure just which parts yet, but it is
       | there in my brain for me to dig back on when I get there.
        
       | MattGrommes wrote:
       | > I looked around me and all the other kids were talking and
       | joking around. I thought that was strange. How could you ever win
       | if you're not in the mindset of winning. If you're not locked in?
       | 
       | I'm generally not a competitive person so this is so strange to
       | me. Even as an introvert on the spectrum, this sounds terrible.
       | It's a game, it's supposed to be fun. I'd rather do my best to
       | study ahead of time, have fun, and see where it takes me during
       | the competition.
        
       | OutOfHere wrote:
       | Is he actually competitive or is he anti-competitive? Read this
       | and find out:
       | 
       | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=27424195
       | 
       | "Replit used legal threats to kill my open-source project" (2021)
        
       | junkaccount wrote:
       | IMHO parallel coding is very unwise to spend resources upon.
       | Humans (and agents) will never code in parallel. Merging and
       | conflict resolution was invented for a good reason.
        
       | 48terry wrote:
       | This entire article is the dude jerking himself off about how
       | smart he is with amazing anecdotes like a third grade spelling
       | bee.
        
       | Snoozle wrote:
       | Are you really winning when your win is being anxious and working
       | all the time?
        
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