[HN Gopher] What good workplace politics looks like in practice
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       What good workplace politics looks like in practice
        
       Author : matheusml
       Score  : 275 points
       Date   : 2025-10-01 17:36 UTC (5 hours ago)
        
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       | gm678 wrote:
       | > Hence it is evident that the state is a creation of nature, and
       | that man is by nature a political animal. And he who by nature
       | and not by mere accident is without a state, is either above
       | humanity, or below it; he is the 'Tribeless, lawless, hearthless
       | one,' whom Homera denounces -- the outcast who is a lover of war;
       | he may be compared to a bird which flies alone.
       | 
       | Sure, Aristotle wasn't talking about corporations, but as the
       | author says "you can refuse to participate, but that doesn't make
       | it go away," you shouldn't be a bird which flies alone.
        
         | amarant wrote:
         | Tribeless suits me just fine.
         | 
         | The whole reason I avoid politics is because it's not solution
         | oriented. I don't get the feeling people discussing politics
         | are trying to solve any problems, they're just fighting a
         | tribal war, to have their tribe win over the other tribe(s).
         | 
         | Tribe cohesion seems to be valued waay higher than end results,
         | and I'm a results-oriented person, so politics just isn't an
         | attractive passtime to me. I also detest fighting/bickering,
         | and I think it's not entirely unfair to describe politics as a
         | bickering contest.
        
           | scarface_74 wrote:
           | You realize the article is about "politics" in the workplace
           | or more accurately learning how to deal with people and
           | getting your ideas across?
           | 
           | Your comment doesn't address the article at all.
        
           | jitl wrote:
           | Did you read the article?
           | 
           | > feeling people discussing politics are trying to solve any
           | problems
           | 
           | it's explicitly about how you need to work in political ways
           | to solve problems at work. It's not about country-wide
           | politics or something.
        
             | mindcrime wrote:
             | > Did you read the article?
             | 
             | FWIW, the HN guidelines[1] specifically ask that we not do
             | that.
             | 
             |  _Please don 't comment on whether someone read an article.
             | "Did you even read the article? It mentions that" can be
             | shortened to "The article mentions that"._
             | 
             | [1]: https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html
        
               | scarface_74 wrote:
               | We can go by the guidelines or we can look at reality.
               | It's blindingly obvious that he in fact did not read the
               | article and based everything he said on the title
        
             | amarant wrote:
             | I actually was thinking specifically about the office
             | politics at one of my previous employers when I wrote that
             | comment.
             | 
             | Yes it's also applicable to the other kind of politics. The
             | two are entirely too similar imo.
             | 
             | All the more reason to steer clear if you ask me.
        
           | mlsu wrote:
           | The counterpoint to this is that in order to motivate large
           | groups of people to get stuff done, you need to be
           | 'involved.' A good leader cannot be someone who says "we're
           | above all of this" -- they have to be involved, they have to
           | influence, and they use their influence to productive ends.
           | 
           | You actually cannot be solution oriented _without_ politics.
           | If you are  "not involved in politics," that means that
           | politics is involved with you, and you'll be forced to go
           | wherever it lands, instead of attempting to influence the
           | outcome.
        
             | shadowgovt wrote:
             | It turns out in the end, we are solving problems _for real
             | people,_ and so all the messiness of real people: the
             | pettiness, the tribal nature, the bickering, the facts-
             | bent-to-justify-feelings... That 's in the problem domain.
             | 
             | (For software engineers in particular, who can trend
             | towards wanting to think of themselves as little logic-
             | machines divorced from that kind of behavior: I also think
             | it's a good exercise to keep that stuff in-scope because we
             | are _not_ immune to our own humanity, and recognizing when
             | others are being tribal and petty makes it easier to
             | recognize it in ourselves.)
        
             | marcosdumay wrote:
             | The problem is way more "involved in what exactly?" than
             | whether people should be involved or not.
             | 
             | The GP is right that people tend to name stuff as
             | "politics" when there is no external goal. And getting
             | involved on those is just bad.
             | 
             | But also, the GP is wrong if you go with the formal
             | definition for that word, like you are doing.
        
           | teddyh wrote:
           | > _Tribeless suits me just fine._
           | 
           | Just because you're not a part of the prominent tribes that
           | you see around you does not make you tribeless.
           | 
           | -- [...] _and I have no culture of my own._
           | 
           | -- _Yes you do. You're a culture of_ one. _Which is no less
           | valid that a culture of one billion._
           | 
           | -- Star Trek: The Next Generation, season 6, episode 16,
           | _Birthright, Part I_
        
           | suzdude wrote:
           | > I don't get the feeling people discussing politics are
           | trying to solve any problems
           | 
           | It depends on what you view a "discussing politics". To
           | borrow a quote, "politics is the art of the possible." You
           | have to use politics to define what problems are even
           | considered, much less the possible ways they might get
           | solved.
           | 
           | For instance, unlimited spending on political campaigns is
           | either a problem, or not a problem, depending on your
           | politics, never mind if it should be solved via amendment,
           | court packing, or congressional act[1].
           | 
           | I agree, many people go hardcore on tribalism. I would likely
           | agree it is a bad thing that many Americans define politics
           | as, "us" and, "them". If you want to be results oriented, you
           | have to convince people it's a problem, you're going to need
           | to use politics to do so.
           | 
           | [1]https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Citizens_United_v._FEC
        
           | Brian_K_White wrote:
           | tribelessness itself is a poor result and does not solve any
           | problems. It's a dead end. It's irrelevance. It's being an
           | animal that eats for a while then dies and does no one else
           | any good in the mean time. By arranging things so that no one
           | else is a part of you, you are also not a part of anyone
           | else. What is the point of that existense? It's the same as
           | living in a vr where all you do is self-gratify and it has no
           | effect on the world.
        
             | bravetraveler wrote:
             | Sounds fun, I'm in. Didn't ask for the ride/responsibility
             | and the only reason it hasn't ended by now is sheer
             | cowardice
        
         | bitwize wrote:
         | You may not be interested in the dialectic, but the dialectic
         | is interested in you.
        
         | t0bia_s wrote:
         | Abandoning care about current politics gives me:
         | 
         | - more focus of personal responsibility for my own actions, I
         | do not belive that uknown electorate solve my problems
         | 
         | - open mind for those, who have different political view, I no
         | longer see enemies and it gives mindset to have less biased
         | conversations on various topics
         | 
         | - more time to education about alternative topics, creativity,
         | building, care about family, etc.
        
       | daft_pink wrote:
       | Should be titled Stop Avoiding Workplace Politics?
       | 
       | It's not a discussion of the toxic political environment we live
       | in today.
        
         | SCUSKU wrote:
         | A good clickbait title though, I probably wouldn't have clicked
         | otherwise...
        
           | lanfeust6 wrote:
           | My reward for clickbait is that I stop reading it
        
         | exmadscientist wrote:
         | It turns out that that the degree to which you can avoid
         | politics is proportional to the number of _other_ people
         | involved. You can probably safely ignore international
         | politics: there are around 8 billion other people involved in
         | it, and unless you are prepared to devote most of your time to
         | it, you probably aren 't going to move any needles anywhere.
         | 
         | Family politics, on the other hand, involves maybe a dozen
         | people. Usually less. We don't even call it "family politics"
         | even though it really kind of is. Family politics is
         | _important_ and _you can not opt out_ unless you don 't want
         | (this) family. Even disengagement is a form of active
         | participation here!
         | 
         | Somewhere in between, there is a line. The author says (and I
         | agree) that workplace politics is on the "really you should be
         | caring" side.
        
         | riedel wrote:
         | I would say, toxic politics is also just the bad politics the
         | OP is talking about. Basically by the definition of the OP, I
         | think pretty much most populism qualifies as bad politics.
         | Politics beyond the workplace can work very similar to the one
         | within. I know people who did 'good politics' within their work
         | context and were asked to actual enter local politics. IMHO
         | this is the best case. While I guess we also need career
         | politicians, I see the biggest value in people that enter
         | politics at a later stage.
        
           | whstl wrote:
           | To me, "populism" in the workplace shows up as pitting two
           | groups against each other for personal gain.
           | 
           | I've seen it way too many times, from the engineering side:
           | isolating engineers so they don't see decisions, and then
           | blaming them to external stakeholders when something fails.
        
         | dang wrote:
         | We put workplace politics in the title above, and also switched
         | from the baity "Stop avoiding" to a more representative phrase
         | from the article.
        
       | suzdude wrote:
       | > Now I think the opposite: politics isn't the problem; bad
       | politics is. And pretending politics doesn't exist? That's how
       | bad politics wins.
       | 
       | Feels like that's how extremism wins? If no one wants to confront
       | other's political ideas, out of fear irrational responses,
       | 
       | At least in the United States, Americans are more unified on
       | issues than the current executive branch, or (at the very least)
       | the largest main stream media outlet would have you believe. It'd
       | be great if people worked at the center, dealing with outcomes.
       | There's far too much talking past each other, as people stand on
       | their mountain of comfortable points, far too many who ignore
       | evidence as soon as it does not conform to their world view.
        
         | scarface_74 wrote:
         | This has nothing to do with the article...
        
           | suzdude wrote:
           | Are you saying it's not applicable? Or the examples don't
           | work?
        
             | scarface_74 wrote:
             | I am saying your reply about "politics" on the national
             | level have nothing to do with "workplace politics".
        
         | hollerith wrote:
         | >the current executive branch . . . the largest main stream
         | media outlet
         | 
         | The OP is about _office_ politics.
        
       | andy99 wrote:
       | Everything has a sales component, good engineering doesn't
       | automatically sell itself. In that respect, I agree some of
       | what's called politics here is always necessary.
       | 
       | On the other hand, I've worked at places where the only way to
       | get ahead is to be a smarmy political operator and do no real
       | work (I find this common when there is no exposure to a real
       | market so no objective standard of what is the right direction to
       | take). It's better to just leave such organizations.
        
       | j2kun wrote:
       | Politics is any question of the form "what should we do?"
       | 
       | If you don't want to be involved in answering questions like
       | that, then by all means avoid politics.
        
         | hedgehog wrote:
         | Both if you don't want to be involved in answering them and you
         | can accept whatever answer other people come up with.
        
       | ndriscoll wrote:
       | > Stop pretending you're above politics. You're not. Nobody is.
       | The only question is whether you'll get good at it or keep losing
       | to people who already are.
       | 
       | False. You do not lose if you do not play. You can offer your
       | expertise/opinions and point out places where things could be
       | improved, but at the end of the day, just treat work as someone
       | paying for your time. If you've advised them on how to best make
       | use of that time, and they want to do something else, well it's
       | their money.
        
         | galenmarchetti wrote:
         | it depends on whether you want to live life with work-as-
         | someone-paying-for-your-time or whether you want to live life
         | as work-as-perfecting-and-delivering-on-craft
         | 
         | you can have an attitude towards spending the short hours you
         | have on this earth attempting to produce quality work that
         | others appreciate and make their lives easier in some way, as
         | opposed to writing those hours off as sold to someone else
        
           | shadowgovt wrote:
           | And, indeed, perfection of the craft involves politics: it's
           | not just understanding the technical space, it's about,
           | eventually, understanding why other people see that space
           | differently, what their goals are, how those goals overlap or
           | don't, and how technical choices feed into that social layer.
           | 
           | Back in the day, Chrome was about a sandboxed subprocess
           | architecture that made for a more stable browser. It was
           | _also_ about breaking the back of the Microsoft monopoly and
           | advocating for why people should bother to care (remember the
           | comic strip Google commissioned?). Nowadays, if it weren 't
           | about politics at all, _Chrome would still be the best choice
           | because it 's still technically very good._
           | 
           | But there's more to the problem than simple technical
           | competenece.
        
           | ndriscoll wrote:
           | You can hone your skills while still maintaining a healthy
           | detachment. You make your case at a thing, business decides
           | to do something else that you think is dumb. You only "lose"
           | if you were overly attached to the decision in the first
           | place. Otherwise you simply get a chance to observe the
           | outcome, see what went well/poorly, and reflect on
           | whether/how you were totally right all along. Next time you
           | have a clearer understanding and perhaps will be able to
           | better articulate your position. You didn't lose. You gained
           | experience and wisdom. You always win as long as you're open
           | to do so. The business lost by listening to the wrong person.
        
             | raw_anon_1111 wrote:
             | I've heard it called both "killing the unchosen
             | alternative" or "Professional Subordination"
             | 
             | https://www.manager-tools.com/forums/deceit-and-murdering-
             | un...
             | 
             | Amazon's LP is "Disagree and Commit"
        
           | asmor wrote:
           | If I need to dig into social engineering and extrovert
           | masking to be an effective engineer I probably should also
           | look for another job. I hate places where this borderline
           | nepotism is the only way to get anything done.
           | 
           | Oh well, I'll just endure it until the job market relaxes a
           | little.
        
         | shadowgovt wrote:
         | I think this is saying the same thing as the author, with the
         | possible exception that the author is operating under the
         | assumption that curtailing one's career at a particular level
         | is "losing." It isn't for everyone, and it's a perfectly
         | rational decision to top out as a really good individual
         | contributor or senior software engineer.
         | 
         | ... but at some point in a corporate setting, the job becomes
         | about people, not just technology, because _all_ businesses end
         | up being about people. Deciding not to address that sends a
         | _very_ heavy signal to anyone with authority to put a person in
         | a position of high authority in a company that they don 't want
         | that authority. You can't just-write-really-good-code your way
         | towards being CTO or senior VP of anything; eventually, you'll
         | meet the challenge of "Someone else has another idea to do it,
         | and maybe it's worse than yours or maybe it's equivalently good
         | but optimizes along other axes than yours, and if your answer
         | to them asserting we should all use their solution is 'I don't
         | do politics' then the company _will_ use the solution that was
         | advocated for and better, worse, or indifferent, yours will be
         | interpreted as under-supported and routed around. "
         | 
         | > well it's their money.
         | 
         | And, indeed, for those of us who don't do politics, it always
         | _will_ be their money and not ours.
        
           | raw_anon_1111 wrote:
           | I have never seen a company with leveling guidelines consider
           | a "senior engineer" as someone who dutifully just pulls
           | tickets off the board and doesn't have to lead major
           | initiatives that involve dealing with other people.
           | 
           | If you are just pulling well defined tickets off the board,
           | you are easily replaced, outsourced and it's hard to stand
           | out when looking for another job.
           | 
           | Then you shout "use your network"! That required being known,
           | being liked and being remembered - politics.
        
       | alarge wrote:
       | I think the problem here is the implication of the term
       | "politics". We've been conditioned (at least in the US) to think
       | of politics as a tribalistic "us vs. them" activity where
       | interactions have winners and losers.
       | 
       | The classic picture of "office politics" is about either damaging
       | reputations with gossip or getting special treatment because of
       | _who_ you know instead of _what_ you know.
       | 
       | But this depiction strikes me as less about that dirty version of
       | politics and more about simply accepting that social grease is
       | important in an organization. Teamwork is important. Crafting the
       | message to the recipient is important. Inclusiveness and a shared
       | sense of ownership is important. Culture is important.
       | 
       | I detest and refuse to engage in tribalism - workplace or
       | otherwise. But I 100% believe in the stuff from the previous
       | paragraph.
        
         | WCSTombs wrote:
         | Yeah, this article says things like "understand the big
         | picture" and "keep higher-ups informed about what's really
         | important" and claims this is "good politics." No, that's
         | probably just part of your job. Are there really people out
         | there saying not to do these things? I'm left with the
         | impression that the article is arguing against a straw man,
         | because there is definitely something called _workplace
         | politics_ that engineers (rightly) try to avoid, but it 's not
         | what the article seems to be describing.
         | 
         | The thing I call "politics" that engineers like to avoid is
         | making technical decisions based on personal relationships,
         | making _who_ does the work more important than _what_ is being
         | done and how. As a low-level employee, you might have to deal
         | with that to an extent, and thus you should develop the soft
         | skills to navigate that environment. As a higher-level
         | engineer, you should definitely try to eliminate it from any
         | part of the organization that you have influence over. My worry
         | with articles like this is that it spreads the mentality of
         | "it's fine, you can make this work!" and then we're all worse
         | off because we accept the status quo rather than improving the
         | culture.
         | 
         | To be clear, you can't completely eliminate politics from an
         | engineering organization, since people will always take some
         | mental shortcuts, but you absolutely can reduce it, and things
         | will be much better if you do. Not only will your group make
         | better decisions, but it will also be a more pleasant working
         | environment for everyone.
        
       | rossdavidh wrote:
       | "Think about the last time a terrible technical decision got
       | pushed through at your company. Maybe it was adopting some
       | overcomplicated architecture, or choosing a vendor that everyone
       | knew was wrong, or killing a project that was actually working. I
       | bet if you dig into what happened, you'll find it wasn't because
       | the decision-makers were stupid. It's because the people with the
       | right information weren't in the room."
       | 
       | Well, it's a decent article, but that paragraph does not match my
       | experience. In my experience, it's typically because there's a
       | non-technical reason why the technical decision was done badly:
       | 
       | 1) devs, or their supervisors, or both want Hot New Thing on
       | their resumes
       | 
       | 2) in order to get Good New Thing purchased, the Old Bad Thing
       | must be shown to be unworkable, so saving Old Bad Thing with a
       | clever solution is undesirable
       | 
       | 3) org needs a system using New Buzzword, to show to VC's or
       | others, and this is the opportunity to use New Buzzword, whether
       | it makes sense here or not
       | 
       | None of these are reasons that I like, but they are also reasons
       | that are very convincing to most people, especially high-ranking
       | decision makers.
       | 
       | I don't mean to suggest that the articles points like "Building
       | relationships before you need them", etc. aren't a good idea.
       | Just don't expect it to have a very high success rate in winning
       | debates about "terrible technical decisions".
        
         | bongodongobob wrote:
         | Agreed. In my experience, a lot of this has been the XY
         | problem. C level has a legitimate need or problem, they think
         | they've solved it by asking for technology Z and the people who
         | actually know the systems aren't consulted. When they do push
         | back, it's seen as not following orders, so now we have to
         | shoehorn in some dumb solution that doesn't fit in with the
         | rest of the env. It works, so leadership doesn't understand why
         | it's a problem.
        
         | eawgewag wrote:
         | I think the article is arguing that if you build the
         | relationship, you can involve yourself into these conversations
         | early enough to direct them the way that your idea would go. In
         | your cases, for example:
         | 
         | 1. Recognizing early enough that this Hot New Thing incentive
         | is here and figuring out how your Good New Thing can live with
         | the Hot New Thing
         | 
         | 2. Helping show the Old Bad Thing is unworkable for your Good
         | New Thing
         | 
         | 3. Understanding that the org cares about New Buzzword and
         | framing your work under those pretenses.
        
           | some_guy_nobel wrote:
           | What about RTO? New 'ai-first' genai initiatives?
        
             | eawgewag wrote:
             | I mean sometimes you are outruled. That's part of
             | recognizing politics, in my opinion. If your VCs want you
             | to do GenAI and you think it's dumb, you are overruled. But
             | you can still benefit from this in a lot of ways. You just
             | need to recognize what you can benefit from.
        
               | some_guy_nobel wrote:
               | Sure,though this stands in contrast to the author's
               | thesis: "It's the loud person who's wrong getting their
               | way because the quiet person who's right won't speak up."
        
           | garciasn wrote:
           | I think the article is great, in theory; it just NEVER works
           | this way in practice, unless you may be in a technical
           | organization. There are ALWAYS business reasons that cause
           | technical projects to fail. We regularly see the articles
           | about the failure rate of technical projects all the time on
           | the front page.
           | 
           | Why is this? Because the number and weight of the business
           | folk almost always outnumber the technical. You can be the
           | best fucking political engineering wrangler in the world;
           | building relationships, taking people along for the ride,
           | helping others gain understanding and those projects still
           | fail.
        
             | circlefavshape wrote:
             | > There are ALWAYS business reasons that cause technical
             | projects to fail
             | 
             | So it's always business folks' fault, and never the nerds'
             | fault? My experience has been different (full disclosure -
             | professional nerd for 30 years)
        
               | garciasn wrote:
               | I appreciate you replying. My intent was never to place
               | blame; instead, it was to point out that while the
               | article's author suggests technical folks need to play
               | the game better, I feel that it won't matter and getting
               | the rest of a non-technical-first org along for the ride
               | is more difficult than just being a solid political
               | player.
        
               | dwohnitmok wrote:
               | The article's point is that "the rest of a non-technical-
               | first org along for the ride" is indeed playing politics
               | (or at least a subset thereof).
        
             | zanellato19 wrote:
             | Never works in practice is such a strong statement and I
             | would argue that most of the time is because the technical
             | people avoid politics entirely, like the article says
        
             | eawgewag wrote:
             | I dunno, honestly, my organization works a lot like what
             | the post is describing. I think my org has healthy politics
             | but at the same time I can't really tell if the times I
             | thought the politics were "toxic" were simply because I was
             | on the outside looking in, whereas this time I'm an
             | operator in the space.
        
             | Spooky23 wrote:
             | Engineers are always insufferable with this stuff. I can
             | think of dozen times where everything was perfect, except
             | for <thing we didn't think of> or <thing we knew but didn't
             | bother to engage the customer on>.
             | 
             | There's a million reasons why projects fail, but astute
             | engineering mangers who are able to understand what the
             | business really needs are invaluable.
        
         | citizenpaul wrote:
         | As usual HN comments are more on point than the article.
         | 
         | I've lost count of how many times something was proposed and
         | rejected by everyone in the chain except the C-suite. Then the
         | C-suite overrode the process decisions basically because they
         | played golf with someone outside the company.
         | 
         | I was once even part of a vendor assessment that was rejected
         | and it turned out that the CEO had already given the green
         | light and signed paperwork weeks before so we all were just
         | wasting our time on something that had been decided
         | unilaterally.
        
           | cjs_ac wrote:
           | The golfist outside the company played the political game
           | better than the people inside the company.
        
           | johnfn wrote:
           | I feel that a lot of the times conversations around this
           | topic end up with some anecdote like "well, playing politics
           | doesn't actually work because I work at a dysfunctional
           | company where decisions are made by morons". If you have a
           | C-suite that makes decisions based on golf games, this advice
           | is not for you. You have a different set of problems. You
           | should absolutely address those problems. But that doesn't
           | mean that this advice isn't for anyone, and coming and
           | telling everyone that the advice is _always_ meaningless isn
           | 't accurate.
           | 
           | It's like two people discussing how to handle difficult
           | conversations in a romantic relationship, and a third guy
           | comes in and says "this conversation is irrelevant because
           | every time I date someone they cheat on me". I'm sorry you're
           | dealing with that problem, but it is not really related to
           | the topic at hand.
        
             | harperlee wrote:
             | I'd add that in my experience, when you are close to the
             | action, the cynic "golfing nepotism" take is usually
             | missing a point of view that is far more rational; just far
             | from the developer/architect that is dismissing the
             | decision. Perhaps not technically optimal, or fair, or even
             | legal - but even so, more akin to "I know this person
             | delivered in the past, and the alternative is also good on
             | paper" or "I really need to save my ass" (nobody got fired
             | by choosing IBM) or "business-wise, this technical
             | recommendation I don't really care for". Perhaps I'm
             | optimistic but in general I don't really think (or want to
             | believe) that people are quick to wage their careers on an
             | acquaintance that is clearly selling something as part of
             | their job, unless the stakes are really not so high from
             | their point of view. Then again, open a newspaper :)
        
               | rizzom5000 wrote:
               | This is just one example that was made public due to the
               | federal case, but there is no doubt that this kind of
               | activity is quite common in corporate America at all
               | levels. https://www.justice.gov/usao-ndca/pr/former-
               | netflix-executiv...
               | 
               | A solid understanding of behavioral psychology may make
               | it obvious, but like you mention, one could also just
               | open a newspaper.
        
             | obviouslynotme wrote:
             | Except this is an article on how to perform technical
             | politics in large organizations. Functional, intelligent,
             | non-nepotistic leadership is the _exception_ , not the
             | rule. It has been this way for a long time, perhaps
             | forever. Dilbert became one of the most circulated comics
             | for good reason. This article is the third guy.
             | 
             | Pretending that identifying stakeholders' needs,
             | communicating the solutions, and delivering them are the
             | keys to succeeding in corporate politics is a joke. It's
             | our parent's telling us that we need to be good for Santa
             | Claus. Human politics is an enormously deep subject, and a
             | newbie will get trampled every single time. If you are
             | sitting at a poker table and don't know who the sucker is
             | within five minutes, congratulations, you are that sucker.
        
               | johnfn wrote:
               | > Functional, intelligent, non-nepotistic leadership is
               | the exception
               | 
               | The majority of marriages end in divorce. This doesn't
               | mean that I should treat all prospective partners as
               | someone I will eventually divorce. That is not healthy
               | for me, the people I interact with, or my future.
        
               | citizenpaul wrote:
               | Survivorship bias. Get burned a bunch of times and see
               | where your strategy lies. You'd be a fool to keep sinking
               | all your effort into things that devastate your life time
               | and again.
        
             | bluGill wrote:
             | If the C-suite makes decisions "based on golf games" then
             | you need to learn how to play golf. You don't have to be
             | good, but don't be so bad that you slow up the game. It is
             | okay to be 1-2 over par every hole, but you need to nearly
             | always find your ball and not hit too far into the rough.
             | Take some lessons if needed. (there are swings that don't
             | have as much power but are a lot easier to be accurate -
             | perfect for you who doesn't want you win, you just want to
             | be good enough to play the game). Then make sure you are on
             | the list of people who will "complete your four-some" when
             | anyone is looking for someone to play.
             | 
             | Nothing wrong with being good at golf above if you want to.
             | However this is about politics and that just means good
             | enough to play and talk about the game.
             | 
             | edit: over par not under...
        
               | wordpad wrote:
               | Respecting and engaging with company politics in order to
               | push good engineering decisions is one thing, but
               | learning and playing a sport, I think falls outside of
               | "other duties as assigned" for an engineer.
        
               | gnarlynarwhal42 wrote:
               | Sorry to nitpick, and I know what you mean, but 1-2 under
               | par on each hole you would be shooting ~45-55 which would
               | basically be the best in the world :)
               | 
               | 1-2 over par is shooting 90-100 which is much more
               | achievable :)
        
               | bluGill wrote:
               | Thanks, fixed that.
        
               | citizenpaul wrote:
               | Also how do you get invited? When the invitee is
               | specifically inviting the CEO without you to circumvent
               | your influence?
               | 
               | Who is going to do your job while you stroke egos?
               | 
               | Victim blaming as usual. The problem is you don't do the
               | CTO's job in addition to your own....f-off with that
               | hustle life nonsense.
        
               | skeeter2020 wrote:
               | if you're one or two strokes under par for every hole
               | you'll be invited because you're a world class player, or
               | more likely you don't want to get invited because who
               | wants to play with people who suck that bad?
        
             | matt_s wrote:
             | > If you have a C-suite that makes decisions based on golf
             | games, this advice is not for you. You have a different set
             | of problems.
             | 
             | Another way to look at it is that your role isn't in the
             | decision making circle, even if you are on a project that
             | is supposed to help make a decision. I was in this role
             | evaluating vendors solutions, in hindsight I can see how I
             | conflated the involvement in the evaluation process with
             | the decision making, those aren't the same.
             | 
             | Think of it like buying a car. You could be on the project
             | to evaluate car companies, features, test drive them and
             | document findings but just because you did all of that
             | doesn't mean you're a decision maker and shouldn't have any
             | emotional attachment to whatever the decision ends up
             | being. Yes if they make a decision with bad trade-offs,
             | like a car with a lot of issues, you may be dealing with
             | those and it may suck but that's your role.
             | 
             | I think part of politics around technical decisions is
             | recognizing if your role has any attributes of being
             | involved with the decision making or if your input is just
             | one of many, potentially minor, inputs.
        
           | le-mark wrote:
           | > Then the C-suite overrode the process decisions basically
           | because they played golf with someone outside the company.
           | 
           | Every Oracle adoption for the past 40 years
        
             | hopelite wrote:
             | And 100% of TikTok and Paramount information control
             | acquisitions.
        
           | timr wrote:
           | > As usual HN comments are more on point than the
           | article....I've lost count of how many times something was
           | proposed and rejected by everyone in the chain except the
           | C-suite. Then the C-suite overrode the process decisions
           | basically because they played golf with someone outside the
           | company.
           | 
           | You're just naming legitimate stakeholders (the C-suite) and
           | asserting that they're illegitimate.
           | 
           | I grant you that playing golf is a cartoonishly pathological
           | [1] version of it, but yes, there are always people more
           | powerful than you in the organization, and if they have an
           | opinion on what you should be doing, then you can either try
           | to convince them (i.e. politics), or you can give up. Not
           | playing is not an option, and being obstinate is a good way
           | to get fired.
           | 
           | So maybe a case of HN comments being "more on point than the
           | article", but primarily in the way that it directly
           | illustrates what the author is saying: engineers routinely
           | bail out of the politics, to their own detriment.
           | 
           | (FWIW, all of the items in the parent comment's list are even
           | less extreme, and more reasonable, than your own. For
           | example, if you throw up your hands in disgust simply because
           | your colleagues want to use a new tool, you're gonna have a
           | bad career.)
           | 
           | [1] and likely apocryphal - there's probably something going
           | on that is more rational, and characterizing it as "picking
           | the golf buddy" is a cope.
        
             | rockercoaster wrote:
             | > So maybe a case of HN comments being "more on point than
             | the article", but primarily in the way that it directly
             | illustrates what the author is saying: engineers routinely
             | bail out of the politics, to their own detriment.
             | 
             | IDK about everyone else, but I pretty routinely bail out of
             | the politics of decisions when it's mostly to the _company
             | 's_ detriment. Starts to look like an uphill battle against
             | people above me on the food chain? Sure man, go ahead, not
             | my money you're wasting. The only politicking worth doing
             | in those cases is making sure I'm outside the blast radius
             | if it's something so bad it's gonna eventually blow up.
             | Luckily big businesses move so slowly that this rarely
             | takes less than a year, and often quite a bit more.
        
           | quickthrowman wrote:
           | I would guess that most (?) decisions involving salespeople
           | and the c-suite are relationship based. My entire industry
           | runs more or less on personal relationships (construction).
           | In my case, virtually all of the work I sell is to people
           | that trust me to deliver because I have repeatedly done so in
           | the past. Every time I get a new customer I aim to build a
           | relationship and deliver the best possible product I can so I
           | get more work in the future.
        
         | artursapek wrote:
         | the most common I've seen is "person in charge of Project That
         | Makes No Sense is the most aggressive and willing to do
         | deceitful things to make themselves look good"
        
         | scarface_74 wrote:
         | I as a self interested actor as we all are see nothing wrong
         | with:
         | 
         | 1) Since around 2008 I've had 8 jobs after staying at my second
         | job for nine years. Whether I was laid off or chose to get
         | another job because of salary compression and inversion, being
         | able to get a job quickly - and it's never taken me more than a
         | month even in 2023 and last year - was partially because at now
         | 51, I have made damn sure I stay up to date with real world use
         | of the "latest hotness".
         | 
         | 2) see #1
         | 
         | 3) if you are a VC backed company, your shining light is not
         | "make a good product". It's "the exit" and shortly afterwards a
         | blog post about "our amazing journey" where they announce the
         | product is going to be shut down.
         | 
         | The goal of politics in the office is not to do "the right
         | thing". It's to stay in alignment with the people who control
         | your paycheck and to make sure you can keep exchanging money
         | for labor when time comes to her another job.
        
           | xpe wrote:
           | Yes, recognizing reality and the incentive structure is
           | powerful. Then one can make smart tradeoffs. Most people want
           | to stay in apparent alignment with their employer to advance.
           | But sometimes perfect alignment isn't optimal for what you
           | want to do next.
           | 
           | Some examples:
           | 
           | Some might want to work on an interesting project with a new
           | technology, even though it isn't a recognized fit for your
           | company.
           | 
           | Some prefer to build strong and trusted relationships for
           | referrals later.
           | 
           | Some people will pursue aims that are to the detriment of
           | their company. *
           | 
           | It is wise to recognize the diversity of goals in people
           | around you.
           | 
           | * Getting great alignment is not easy. Not with people, not
           | with highly capable intelligent agents trained with gradient
           | descent that will probably operate outside their training
           | distribution. Next time you think a powerful AI agent will do
           | everything in your interests, ask yourself if your employee
           | will do everything you want, just as you would want it.
        
           | brk wrote:
           | This guy businesses.
           | 
           | Big decisions are almost always made on factors that are more
           | relationship based than technical based at the end of the
           | day.
           | 
           | Many highly technical people despise management, MBAs, and
           | anything in that orbit. This is understandable, but leads to
           | a lot of frustration.
           | 
           | If you truly want to guide major decisions you are going to
           | be more effective at the top of the stack than the bottom.
           | Every tier has trade offs, and you are almost always having
           | to sell some part of your soul to truly move up.
           | 
           | Like it or not, most technical companies these days are
           | managed to short terms goals and payouts. The C Suite,
           | investors, etc are all just there for a payday. The actual
           | product or anything else is just a detail in the goal of
           | collecting commas. If you recognize this, you have a better
           | chance of managing your own expectations at whatever level
           | you are in the org. If you spend your time fighting for
           | something that is not truly the goal of the company you will
           | tend to have a bad time overall.
        
           | surgical_fire wrote:
           | Regarding #1, when people ask what is the best skill I
           | acquired during my career, I always answer that it was
           | "learning how to do well in interviews".
           | 
           | For a very long time it was the only thing I focused. Quite
           | often the job itself is pretty easy, getting in is the hard
           | part.
           | 
           | In the past couple of years I let it slide a bit because
           | keeping yourself sharp for interviews is sort of a pain in
           | the ass, but I promised nyself that 2026 I'm back at it
        
             | JustExAWS wrote:
             | It depends on what type of interviews you expect. My value
             | proposition hasn't been my ability to write code for over a
             | decade. It was first being the first or second technical
             | hire by a then new director/manager/CTO brought in to lead
             | a new initiative as a lead/architect and then working in
             | customer facing cloud consulting roles combined with hands
             | on keyboard coding.
             | 
             | With those roles, it's all about soft skill behavioral
             | interviews and system design. I can do those in my sleep. I
             | just keep a career document of all of my major projects and
             | describe them in STAR format so I can review them when
             | needed.
        
         | MountDoom wrote:
         | > "terrible technical decisions".
         | 
         | Another point worth bringing up is that sometimes, that stuff
         | doesn't matter. I see so many engineers get hopelessly invested
         | in technical debates that are, honestly, just silly: it's often
         | better for the company to get something barely-good-enough done
         | quickly than to flesh out the "optimal" design over the course
         | of weeks or months, and over the dead bodies of people who have
         | a different opinion about vi-versus-emacs.
         | 
         | And even if you accumulate tech debt, it is sometimes a wise
         | decision to pay it back later, when you (hopefully) have more
         | money and time.
         | 
         | So, I'd add "pick your battles wisely" to the list of tips.
        
         | mschuster91 wrote:
         | There's also option 4: CxO was out golfing with some rich
         | friends that happen to own <vendor of buzzword software> and/or
         | is getting kickbacks, so now we have to use <crap buzzword
         | software> instead of <old solution> or just not using it at all
         | because what the software offers isn't needed, but CxO doesn't
         | know because he's out golfing, banging hookers and snorting
         | coke all freaking day.
         | 
         | And yes, this kind of shit happens regularly - sometimes,
         | people even get busted for it like that Netflix executive who
         | got kickbacks from, amongst others, Netskope [1].
         | 
         | Let's be real: no matter how good you are at networking -
         | unless you come from Old Money or have a wildly successful exit
         | under your belt, you are not joining the club of elite morons
         | that actually pulls the strings.
         | 
         | [1] https://www.justice.gov/usao-ndca/pr/former-netflix-
         | executiv...
        
         | wat10000 wrote:
         | And even if it was because the right people weren't in the
         | room, that's still a leadership failure. Part of the job of
         | those decision-makers is to _get_ the right people into the
         | room
         | 
         | With good leadership, politics won't feel like politics.
         | Everything this article describes as "good politics" is
         | definitely good stuff to do, but none of it should _feel_ like
         | politics to your typical  "I hate politics" engineer. Building
         | relationships? That's just meeting interesting coworkers.
         | Understanding the real incentives? That's keeping the big
         | picture in mind, a standard requirement for any engineer.
         | Managing up effectively? A good manager will treat you like the
         | expert that you are and that happens automatically. Creating
         | win-win situations? That's that big picture thing again. Being
         | visible? Who doesn't like to share the cool stuff they've done?
         | 
         | I hate politics. I do all of those "good politics" things and I
         | enjoy all of it. It might technically be "politics" but it's
         | not what we think of when we say the word.
         | 
         | This article boils down to a semantic argument. They want to
         | carve out a section of the job and put it under the label of
         | "politics" when most of us would not put it there. That label
         | may be right, it may be wrong, but I don't really care. It's
         | just not an interesting argument. I think this article would be
         | a lot better if it dropped the P word entirely and just
         | explained why and how you should do the "good" things it lists.
        
           | bonoboTP wrote:
           | > but none of it should feel like politics to your typical "I
           | hate politics" engineer [...] Who doesn't like to share the
           | cool stuff they've done?
           | 
           | Certainly many would prefer to just enter flow state and work
           | on their craft, work the wood with the chisel (=do the
           | engineering work), etc. It is of course not a good strategy
           | in reality, and it doesn't matter what people "want", but
           | let's at least admit that plenty of people don't enjoy having
           | to interact a lot. People-oriented vs thing-oriented.
        
             | wat10000 wrote:
             | I know that plenty of people don't like doing presentations
             | and writeups and such, but just telling your coworkers
             | about whatever cool thing you've done seems to be pretty
             | much universally enjoyed in my experience.
        
         | roarcher wrote:
         | > org needs a system using New Buzzword, to show to VC's or
         | others, and this is the opportunity to use New Buzzword,
         | whether it makes sense here or not
         | 
         | Oh lord, I have seen some nonsense built because some
         | prospective investor wanted to see us "do something with AI"
         | lest we be "left behind" somehow.
        
       | pelagicdev wrote:
       | While I agree that avoiding/ignoring politics isn't helpful to
       | anyone, it still doesn't have a place at work. My view is, people
       | _are going to disagree_ on politics, and therefore it just gets
       | into a debate, or worse, an agrument at the office or in chat and
       | makes the whole situation more ugly than the manager and /or
       | employer wants to have to deal with.
        
       | stego-tech wrote:
       | This, this, this, but with a few caveats I've learned for myself
       | (both government politics and corporate politics):
       | 
       | * Politics in a derogatory sense is simply bad governance. It's
       | bad ideas leading to bad decisions, often supported by bad data
       | or bad justifications. In government, that "bad" might be a shade
       | of "-ism" (corporatism, fascism, authoritarianism, racism,
       | sexism, etc), while in corporate realms it's often either
       | straight dicta from the executive team or manipulative
       | malfeasance from bad actors further down the chain
       | 
       | * Good politics and good governance are indistinguishable from
       | one another, by and large.
       | 
       | * If consensus is reached by those acting in the best interests
       | of the organization in the long haul, everyone involved should
       | feel fairly invigorated afterwards. That rush is what gets folks
       | _into_ politics more broadly, and is how movements grow
       | 
       | * Cooperation, historically, breeds more success than mere
       | competition. Bad actors wielding politics as a cudgel generally
       | try to deter others from participating because they desire
       | competition as a means of preventing others from achieving
       | success.
       | 
       | * Politics isn't necessarily deceitful, as the OP gets into. It's
       | about building relationships and understanding goals, then acting
       | collaboratively to achieve them.
       | 
       | * "Politics-free zones" only serve to enable the bad actors in a
       | space, who use that label to advance their (often indefensible)
       | ideals and clamp down on dissent.
       | 
       | A lot of us in tech need to do better with politics if we want
       | technology to change the world for the better, instead of merely
       | serve the whims of billionaire griftos or regimes hostile to
       | human rights.
        
       | exmadscientist wrote:
       | > 5. Being visible. If you do great work but nobody knows about
       | it, did it really happen? Share your wins, present at all-hands,
       | write those design docs that everyone will reference later.
       | 
       | And don't forget that when managers or seniors are involved,
       | there's magic alchemy that comes from spreading the credit
       | around. Suppose Bob works under Alice and Bob, mostly solely,
       | accomplishes something significant. If Alice presents and takes
       | credit for it, Alice might receive 1 credit point. If she
       | presents it as Bob's work and never mentions herself, Bob will
       | get the 1 credit point. But _Alice_ will pick up some credit
       | _just for presenting_ (let 's guess 0.5 unit), Bob will get the 1
       | point, _and_ because Alice now manages Bob, whose stature just
       | went up, she 'll get an additional (let's guess) 0.25 point. So
       | you've got 1.75 units of credit instead! _Never be shy to give
       | credit to others._ You will benefit too!
       | 
       | (This is also one of the 11 Laws of Showrunning:
       | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=27867023 among other links )
        
         | fusslo wrote:
         | anecdote:
         | 
         | My first company got bought out and the CEO went around
         | awarding bonuses. It was a calculus of around ( 0.4 * salary *
         | number of years ).
         | 
         | When it was my turn, he double-checked with HR that I had
         | worked there as long as I had
         | 
         | I was super jr, but sat next to his office. Didn't know I
         | existed.
         | 
         | Thanks for the link and perspective
        
         | silvestrov wrote:
         | This is one effect that a lot of narcissists don't understand:
         | You get more by giving some away.
         | 
         | So you can get only get to the top when you spread coins
         | around.
        
           | Loughla wrote:
           | With the number of narcissists I've seen be wildly
           | successful, I have to disagree with you.
           | 
           | There is a very clear and well established path to the top
           | for people who only care about themselves.
        
         | dilyevsky wrote:
         | That's cool theory and all but in reality alice will get all
         | the credit and no one will even remember bobs name. People are
         | mostly wrapped up in their own thing and 2 months later at best
         | they will remember one sentence and that it's somehow attached
         | to alice. Get people doing the work on your team to present it
         | _if_ you want them to get credit or stop pretending you
         | actually care about this
        
         | jaymzcampbell wrote:
         | I've always used "we" when describing and presenting work done
         | as part of a team, even if solo. There's a certain skill in
         | knowing when to promote yourself, and how you do so. These days
         | I tend to be positive in a group sense, and take direct
         | specific ownership of failings. I may be lucky but I think this
         | has led to a lot of respect from coworkers and c-suite that
         | I've engaged with. I've never once felt like people don't know
         | who is getting the work done in the end.
        
           | ryandrake wrote:
           | Everywhere I've worked, come annual review time, everyone is
           | supposed to emphasize what _they_ did, not what the team did.
           | "We're considering promoting _you_ , not the team, so tell us
           | what _you_ did! " Same with interviews: You're not supposed
           | to say "I was a key contributor of Team X that shipped
           | Product Y." You're supposed to say "I shipped Product Y."
           | 
           | So you have this weird contradiction where you're expected to
           | work as part of a team, but then measured on your own
           | contributions in a vacuum. So if you take credit for the
           | team's effort, you're the bad guy who gets rewarded, but if
           | you admit it was a team effort and take credit only for your
           | contributions, you're forgotten for not having enough impact.
        
             | jaymzcampbell wrote:
             | In these situations I will frame my contributions directly
             | without the "we" part, speaking to how I contributed to a
             | particular team output, or if it was 100%, I'll just say as
             | much. My comment was in terms of general talk to
             | stakeholders / presentations / casual conversations - then
             | I default to "we".
             | 
             | E.g. if I add some new feature to a tool and deploy it,
             | I'll say "we've just pushed X...". If I do 99% of some
             | particular feature, I'll still say "we've added Y...". In
             | an annual review I can still speak to what I specifically
             | did. I have probably been lucky in the teams and team sizes
             | I've been in, but I've not had a problem with this.
             | 
             | For context I've mainly stuck to small (<50) and medium
             | (<500) companies. My one experience (due to acquisition) of
             | directly working within a 5000+ company was certainly
             | starting to feel like what you described, I got out.
        
       | alphazard wrote:
       | This is not a great take. Politics shows up as a failure to
       | construct an aligned organization. There will always be some
       | politics, but it should not be the most significant thing going
       | on at a company. In a well designed org, it tends towards zero.
       | 
       | In a positive sum environment, with incentives aligned with the
       | shareholders, everyone is trying to make the business more
       | profitable, and the "more" that everyone wants comes from the
       | market. You have to contend with reality on reality's terms to
       | get more.
       | 
       | In a zero-sum environment (which is most large corporations)
       | nothing anyone does will meaningfully move the needle on
       | profitability. The business has been built, and now it is
       | coasting. How to divide up the predictable profits is decided by
       | politics, the "more" comes from someone else within the
       | organization getting less.
       | 
       | The best advice is to know which environment you are in. The
       | "right" move is entirely context dependent. If you are in a zero-
       | sum environment, you need to play politics, that's the game. If
       | you are in a positive-sum environment, politics will be the
       | noise, you can get more by building more.
        
         | dilyevsky wrote:
         | I think you are missing the game theory aspect of it. Even in
         | the positive sum game the spoils aren't divided equally.
         | Additionally not everyone behaves rationally, i find the
         | opposite to be generally true
        
           | alphazard wrote:
           | > I think you are missing the game theory aspect of it.
           | 
           | That's actually exactly how I think about this, let me
           | explain my analysis.
           | 
           | I view it as the composition of two games. "Should we pursue
           | the spoils?" is the first game, and the correct strategy is
           | to play that game and coordinate with people to play it.
           | 
           | The zero sum game is dividing the spoils, this is conditioned
           | on having won the first game. As long as everyone is
           | guaranteed enough of the spoils ahead of time for the game to
           | be positive EV, they will play it, and continue playing games
           | like it.
           | 
           | When you apply this to a company, this is just an issue of
           | mechanism design (inverse game theory). Why weren't you
           | architecting the game that the employees play, such that
           | there is relatively little to be gained from the zero sum
           | game, and most of the value comes from the magnitude of
           | contribution to the positive sum game?
           | 
           | Ideally people play a positive sum game with their coworkers
           | that is tied to revenue and their contributions to it, to the
           | tune of 10s or 100s of thousands of dollars a year, while the
           | zero sum game is only worth 1000s of dollars a year.
        
             | pertymcpert wrote:
             | I really don't see how your reply made a new point. What
             | the other person was responding to was that even if you
             | were to construct your positive sum game, you will have
             | politics because reward _distributions_ are not equal. The
             | very fact that some people receive bigger bonuses, RSUs or
             | promotions and others don 't is an unequal distribution
             | such that politics will be there.
             | 
             | Say everyone is compensated with equity. The goal is to
             | increase share value. Yes every action that each employee
             | takes in theory is going to be toward that goal because
             | that's how they're incentivized through the compensation.
             | But in reality you do a performance review and you have to
             | decide how _much_ some person contributed to the overall
             | result, which isn 't possible to objectively determine. And
             | in that space of perception and subjectivity is were
             | politics, or as I call it social arbitrage opportunity,
             | exists.
        
       | nextworddev wrote:
       | Unfortunately most corporate politics is dominated by those who
       | do it professionally
        
       | brightball wrote:
       | This is an excellent read and the title definitely made me assume
       | the author wasn't talking about "office politics".
       | 
       | What's more important than "politics" is your ability to
       | communicate in terms that people making decisions will
       | understand. I didn't get this nuance early in my career. I was
       | always focused on shipping, oblivious to costs: Time Cost,
       | Opportunity Cost, etc.
       | 
       | Learning to make technical decisions based on Return on
       | Investment is the real key to bridging this communications
       | divide.
       | 
       | Weighted Shorted Job First (WSJF) is an approach that will bring
       | your team and organization into thinking that way. It works
       | wonders for getting people on the same page and it's just an ROI
       | formula.
       | 
       | WSJF = Cost of Delay / Job Size
       | 
       | Job Size is a proxy for cost, because it's a proxy for
       | time...which costs money.
       | 
       | Cost of Delay is a fancy way of estimating how valuable something
       | is. Technically it's "User Business Value + Time Criticality +
       | Opportunity Enablement & Risk Reduction" but it really boils down
       | to Value + Time Criticality. Time Criticality meaning real
       | deadlines where the value will go away if we don't hit it by the
       | deadline. Think conference dates or contractual obligations, not
       | sprint commitments (wanting something sooner doesn't make it time
       | critical).
       | 
       | The more prepared you are, the better the case you can make for
       | this number while those who are unprepared will simply have to
       | guess without anything to substantiate it.
       | 
       | I got deep into this philosophy after watching an exec waste
       | resources for over a year and a half on a project that nobody
       | wanted. When we started scrutinizing decisions with WSJF and
       | nothing he wanted to ranked highly enough based on the math, the
       | entire organization got better. It does wonders to eliminate the
       | squeaky wheel problem too.
        
       | languagehacker wrote:
       | When Jeff Hodges gave a presentation of his "Notes on Distributed
       | Systems for Youngbloods"[1] at Lookout Mobile Security back in
       | like 2014 or 2015, he did this really interesting aside at the
       | end that changed my perception of my job, and it was basically
       | this. You don't get to avoid "politics" in software, because
       | building is collaborative, and all collaboration is political.
       | You'll only hurt yourself by avoiding leveling up in soft skills.
       | 
       | No matter how correct or elegant your code is or how good your
       | idea is, if you haven't built the relationships or put
       | consideration into the broader social dynamic, you're much less
       | likely to succeed.
       | 
       | [1] https://www.somethingsimilar.com/2013/01/14/notes-on-
       | distrib...
        
         | dfjfklei wrote:
         | When has employment politics ever meant "leveling up in soft
         | skills"?
         | 
         | Employment politics has always meant: brown nosing, throwing
         | vulnerable people under the bus, posturing, taking credit for
         | other people's contributions, blaming other people for your
         | failures, and on and on.
         | 
         | Or to use the language of TFA, "iNfLUeNcE".
        
           | lazyasciiart wrote:
           | And what, you think those are technical skills?
        
             | dfjfklei wrote:
             | My point is that framing "bad politics" as a problem with
             | you, or your employees if you're an employer, is absurd.
             | 
             | "Bad politics" comes straight from the top.
        
           | hchdifnfbgbf wrote:
           | If that's all you see, you probably need to level up your
           | soft skills.
           | 
           | Certainly the things you're talking about are real, and
           | particularly severe in some environments, but there's a lot
           | of room to improve your influence without engaging in any of
           | that.
        
             | dfjfklei wrote:
             | You have yet to meet someone at a company you work for you
             | who does one or more of the things I listed above to
             | successfully advance their career?
        
               | rkomorn wrote:
               | I don't think that's their point.
               | 
               | I think their point is that you can have influence
               | without doing these things.
        
               | dfjfklei wrote:
               | Then I was misunderstood as well.
               | 
               | As if anyone, myself included, would suggest that my
               | listed items are the only way to influence your employer
               | is a hilariously bad faith read.
               | 
               | I take issue with TFA framing the problem of people
               | saying they hate "employment politics" as a _you_ problem
               | when I am of the opinion it is a leadership problem. Bad
               | leaders fail to, or refuse to, see the things I listed as
               | "bad politics".
               | 
               | Just take my supplements, bro. It'll fix your "soft
               | skills", bro.
        
               | rkomorn wrote:
               | I think you were misunderstood as well, yes.
        
               | hchdifnfbgbf wrote:
               | Many do. More common the further up the ladder you get.
               | But I've been able to gain enough influence to affect
               | most of the things I care about without engaging in that,
               | unless you consider being friendly and supportive
               | (something that did not come remotely naturally to me) to
               | be brown-nosing.
               | 
               | If you want to significantly influence a lot of high-
               | level strategic decision-making at very large companies,
               | then you do probably need to engage in nasty things like
               | that. But most of us don't work at that scope.
        
             | rkomorn wrote:
             | > If that's all you see, you probably need to level up your
             | soft skills.
             | 
             | Not OP but I honestly don't see how this comment/tone is
             | warranted in response to what they wrote.
        
           | psunavy03 wrote:
           | This is frankly a very childish and Reddit-level take on the
           | issue.
        
             | dfjfklei wrote:
             | If you think HN is a bastion of "adultish takes", you're
             | gonna have a bad time.
        
           | rkomorn wrote:
           | I agree with your description of "politics" as a
           | negative/pejorative thing. That's also the only way I'm used
           | to hearing it.
           | 
           | Hearing about "politics" in a neutral/positive way would be
           | new to me.
        
             | BeetleB wrote:
             | > I agree with your description of "politics" as a
             | negative/pejorative thing.
             | 
             | That's just a difference in framing between winners and
             | losers.
             | 
             | If you get your way, you say it was due to influence,
             | bridge building, teamwork, etc.
             | 
             | If you don't, you say "politics".
             | 
             | For every occasion someone says "politics" negatively,
             | realize the other party is using the other framing.
             | 
             | More importantly: For every time you get your way, the
             | other party is saying "Politics!"
        
               | rkomorn wrote:
               | I think that's a very valid take, actually.
        
               | ryandrake wrote:
               | The way I see it is: "Office politics" means getting work
               | done, making business decisions, and/or advancing your
               | career _using means other than_ technical or domain
               | expertise. It could have a good or bad outcome, but it 's
               | still politics. The key attribute is that the outcome is
               | achieved through some other method besides actually doing
               | or directing the work.
        
               | BeetleB wrote:
               | > "Office politics" means getting work done, making
               | business decisions, and/or advancing your career using
               | means other than technical or domain expertise.
               | 
               | s/other than/in addition to/
               | 
               | That's the fundamental disagreement in this thread.
        
         | bartread wrote:
         | I used to work for a software company that literally had "no
         | politics" as part of its DNA. It was in the company handbook,
         | it was in our values, people would say it when they talked
         | about what it was like to work at the company. Hell, whilst I
         | can't recall any specific instances, I guarantee that _I_ said
         | it and probably many times[0].
         | 
         | But, of course, it was never true. It might have felt true -
         | certainly superficially - when we were a smaller company, but
         | the reality is that it _never_ was. We just didn 't want to be
         | grown up enough to admit that.
         | 
         | You can only really interface effectively with reality and make
         | good decisions when you face up to that reality rather than
         | living in denial. Or, as one of my favourite quotes (albeit
         | that it's now a bit overused), from Miyamoto Musashi, puts it:
         | "Truth is not what you want it to be; it is what it is. And you
         | must bend to its power or live a lie."
         | 
         | So that company maintained the "no politics" value for long
         | years after it became apparent to anyone with a working brain
         | that it wasn't true. Wasn't even close to true.
         | 
         | And that's poison: it bleeds into everything. Avoidance of the
         | truth promotes avoidance elsewhere. Lack of openness, lack of
         | accountability, perverse mythologies, bitterness, resentment,
         | and a sort of gently corrosive low grade mendacity that eats
         | away at everything. And all because we're lying to ourselves
         | about "no politics".
         | 
         | So I agree: politics is unavoidable and, if we are to succeed,
         | we must do so by becoming politicians, and admitting to both
         | ourselves and to others that we're doing it, because success
         | cannot be sustained without that, and we also can't help others
         | to reach their full potential unless we are honest with
         | ourselves and eachother.
         | 
         |  _[0] And certainly I 'd say that I hated politics and wanted
         | no part of it._
        
           | hobs wrote:
           | I think the problem is that this is the core of most
           | companies. A core lie that they tell the employees and
           | sometimes even the customers - "we value you" - "we care
           | about our employees" "we want to serve our shareholders" "we
           | build community" "we try to ..." vision statement type stuff,
           | almost always suborned to "I want the C suite to make the
           | most money possible RIGHT NOW" or "You can never make me look
           | bad even when I am an idiot".
           | 
           | Anything that violates those core precepts are rejected out
           | of hand, and often times for things that would support the
           | companies stated principles.
           | 
           | I have worked 20+ jobs in my life, and either petty bullshit
           | or greed rules the top of the heap in all but the most
           | particular circumstances. I cant even remember how many
           | meetings I have setup with CEO's to hand feed them
           | information and cheer them on like a toddler so they can make
           | the obviously correct decision.
        
           | Nition wrote:
           | Your Musashi quote reminds me of another relatively well-
           | known quote from philosopher Eugene Gendlin:
           | 
           | "What is true is already so. Owning up to it doesn't make it
           | worse. Not being open about it doesn't make it go away. And
           | because it's true, it is what is there to be interacted with.
           | Anything untrue isn't there to be lived. People can stand
           | what is true, for they are already enduring it."
        
       | invisibleink wrote:
       | All life is politics, and workspaces are not politics exempt. The
       | world we live in understandably makes many cynics. Yes, still we
       | want no kings, and more politics in and out of our workspaces.
        
       | Bukhmanizer wrote:
       | On some level this is just a technicality. When people talk about
       | politics they almost always talk about bad politics because good
       | politics doesn't feel like politics. It just feels like things
       | are working correctly.
        
         | WCSTombs wrote:
         | It is a technicality, but an important one IMO, because using
         | bad terminology causes unnecessary confusion. I would
         | definitely say that most of what the article describes as "good
         | politics" is not politics at all, but more like just the soft
         | skills part of a normal engineering job.
        
       | Congeec wrote:
       | There is a saying "People are politics. How can you avoid
       | people?".
        
       | handsclean wrote:
       | The author presents two options: think you're above politics, or
       | practice it. I admit that, when I was younger, I did believe the
       | first for a while, but what it progressed to was an option C:
       | accept that politics, in some form, is necessary and affects me,
       | then choose to spend as much of my life as possible on other
       | things. If politics is necessary then boy is farming necessary,
       | yet I'm not a farmer. Medicine is necessary, yet I'm not a
       | doctor; defense is necessary, yet I'm not a soldier. These jobs
       | are entrusted to others. We live in a highly specialized society,
       | with which comes the gift of being free to choose beautiful
       | things to feed our limited life energy to, and the curse of being
       | ineffectual in any area we sacrifice little for. Because we'll be
       | consistently outperformed by those who give more to that area,
       | and less to every other endeavor and principle.
       | 
       | Sometimes, in both workplaces and countries, we enter a state in
       | which we're forced to feed more of ourselves to the beast. The
       | state's name is desperation. It's a tragic state, like reversion
       | to a society in which we spend all our time finding food. People
       | in such a state can't create science or art.
        
       | ionwake wrote:
       | I disagree with the OP.
       | 
       | This is my rebuttal about the nuance of being an employee.
       | 
       | An engineer avoids "politics" - as a vital protection mechanism
       | against getting himself fired.
       | 
       | Often autistic ( my case ), technical, hard working, constantly
       | exposed to poor decisions, lies, manipulations. The one thing the
       | engineer can hold sacred is the technical truth. It is his one
       | true avatar. To align himself with that, but not SPEAK FOR IT. To
       | let his actions , the code, the technical implementation speak
       | for him. IF a poor technical decision was pushed by higher ups,
       | then accept it and implement. After all that is why there are 3
       | layers of management between him and the leadership who came up
       | or approved the idea without him. The engineer stands for his
       | work and his agreed role. The fruits of the companys efforts and
       | failings become apparent through that. Why would a lowly paid
       | engineer put his neck on the line to disagree with management and
       | potentially embarrass someone? or worse?
       | 
       | It's as if the blog post and people who agree with it held
       | positions, that relied on scheming, and "alighnment" to survive.
       | 
       | I think many good points are made, however Ive always felt that
       | for the same reasons I stayed out of "office politics" I would
       | also struggle to hire my own team which could handle working
       | together for the greater good of the company. The only solution I
       | thought of was some sort of "fair" share dispensation.
       | 
       | tl:dr; OPs opinion "could sound" in parts, like upper management
       | blaming the code monkey for not being aggressive enough in the
       | board meeting, where about 4 tiers of middle management stood in
       | there with him, secretly 2 are having an affair in the toilets, 1
       | is someones nephew who doesnt work, another is terrified of being
       | replaced by his underlings, none know anything about the project
       | specs, ready to PIP him for speaking up and making them look
       | slightly incompetent, or perhaps wondering outloud why a poor
       | decision was being floated which was clearly some machination
       | involving the powers that be to co-exist with other nebulous
       | contracts and corporate entities. A terrible decision that would
       | cost the company millions in the long term, but which would
       | enable the current c-suite to look good before departing to other
       | roles ala yahoo. If Ive offended some upper manager, Im sorry.
        
         | hobs wrote:
         | There's no way to avoid politics to avoid getting fired, it
         | just means that when you get laid off you picked the wrong
         | thing, and basically did it incidentally because you refused to
         | forecast what project was going to be culled. Most software
         | projects fail, and working harder on a failure won't get you
         | anywhere.
         | 
         | If you find the personal part difficult then what I recommend
         | folks dodo is pay attention to the flows of money, time, and
         | communication that happen. Most of the time analyzing the
         | patterns of how work is accomplished will tell you just as much
         | about who is going to come out on top in a new paradigm as
         | anything else.
        
         | raw_anon_1111 wrote:
         | And you get absolutely nowhere besides being a mid level
         | developer if you avoid office politics. I don't care what your
         | title is, if you are just heads down pulling tickets off the
         | board, you are a mid level developer according to every
         | leveling guideline I've seen by companies that have one -
         | including BigTech.
         | 
         | After that it's about "scope" and "impact". You can't have
         | either without managing up, down and horizontally.
        
       | fsckboy wrote:
       | 1 office politics tip for engineers: engineers are helpful
       | people, people who believe in putting in hard work now because
       | future benefits.
       | 
       | office politicians believe in focusing on politics
       | (relationships) and putting their name on as much progress as
       | possible and getting facetime with higher ups.
       | 
       | watch for it in meetings: do not accept work assigned to you by a
       | peer, push back on the boss going along with a peer assigning you
       | work, and do not accept a peer volunteering to do the
       | presentation while you get started on grunt work. that person is
       | planning to "coordinate" your work and put s/he's name on it and
       | give the presentation to higher ups.
       | 
       | you do the presentation, you talk to higher ups. somebody wants
       | to help? they need to take their share of the grunt work, earn
       | their way in like you did.
        
       | some_guy_nobel wrote:
       | "Think about the last time a terrible technical decision got
       | pushed through at your company. Maybe it was adopting some
       | overcomplicated architecture, or choosing a vendor that everyone
       | knew was wrong, or killing a project that was actually working. I
       | bet if you dig into what happened, you'll find it wasn't because
       | the decision-makers were stupid. It's because the people with the
       | right information weren't in the room."
       | 
       | This stands in stark contrast to the genai, ai-first nature of
       | every company today.
       | 
       | In fact, almost every point made in this article is completely
       | wrong from my experience in FAANG. It's almost always, 'my way or
       | the highway' from leadership. Jump aboard or get left behind.
       | 
       | "The alternative to good politics isn't no politics. It's bad
       | politics winning by default. It's the loud person who's wrong
       | getting their way because the quiet person who's right won't
       | speak up. It's good projects dying because nobody advocated for
       | them."
       | 
       | - again, genai - Amazon RTO - Meta's metaverse forray. - etc.
        
       | mumbisChungo wrote:
       | TL;DR:
       | 
       | You might think the people doing politics are manipulative ladder
       | climbers, but they're climbing the same ladders available to you,
       | so you should be one too.
        
       | black_puppydog wrote:
       | Not that I _disagree_ with the article, but I wish the title was
       | clarified to _office_ politics.
       | 
       | I clicked hoping to find am argument to the engineering community
       | at large to recognize the political aspects of our work.
       | 
       | Although I guess the basic argument still applies.
        
         | instagib wrote:
         | Website and original unedited title: Stop Avoiding Politics
        
       | csours wrote:
       | Book Recommendation: High Conflict by Amanda Ripley
       | 
       | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EE_MEu7xn8Y
       | 
       | https://www.amazon.com/dp/1982128569
        
       | MetaWhirledPeas wrote:
       | > Share your wins, present at all-hands
       | 
       | Please don't. I'm sick of watching your Power Points.
       | 
       | > But they're not willing to do what it takes to influence those
       | decisions.
       | 
       | This is true, and it remains true for me after reading your
       | article.
       | 
       | I 100% agree that your approach is an effective way to move your
       | organization forward, but one teeny weeny detail you're omitting
       | is that if you continue to do this you will no longer be an
       | individual contributor and will instead be _management_. You will
       | gradually cede all of your time to this cause of championing good
       | ideas and will have no time left for doing any of the work
       | yourself.
       | 
       | I think most of the so-called cynics know the role of politics.
       | It's not that they are ignorant, it's that they want their
       | _management_ to take care of it.
        
       | ineedaj0b wrote:
       | he's pushing for 'office politics' not national politics.
        
       | nitwit005 wrote:
       | > It's because the people with the right information weren't in
       | the room.
       | 
       | You can often disprove this idea by just asking about the
       | decision. The objections are often raised. That doesn't mean
       | people take them seriously.
       | 
       | People have all sorts of strange biases and irrationality.
        
       | Magi604 wrote:
       | "Politics is just how humans coordinate in groups. It's the
       | invisible network of relationships, influence, and informal power
       | that exists in every organization. You can refuse to participate,
       | but that doesn't make it go away. It just means decisions get
       | made without you."
       | 
       | This is how I feel, and this is what I tell people when they
       | don't want to get involved in the organization's politics.
        
       | awkwabear wrote:
       | This is what I always try to emphasize to the junior guys I've
       | worked with. I read the book Flowers for Algernon when I was
       | younger and it was the thing that stood out to me the most.
       | 
       | It does not matter how right you are if no one likes or will
       | listen to you. Unfortunately, being likeable is inifinitely more
       | important than being right. Your job is to strike a balance
       | between both otherwise stupid likeable people will be dictating
       | the direction.
        
       | dizlexic wrote:
       | I find being outspoken is a great way to be heard and visible,
       | but if I'm being honest my entire personality is confrontational.
       | 
       | I share my opinions, accomplishments, and (most importantly) my
       | failures. This tends to make me a default leader in
       | conversations, and I try really hard not to be overbearing.
       | 
       | ADHD + outspoken = confrontational / obnoxious.
        
       | firesteelrain wrote:
       | Politics here is collaboration. Example given on tool selection
       | seems like lacked good engineering and oversight in terms of
       | trade studies or boards found in larger orgs.
        
       | tbrownaw wrote:
       | > _Politics is just how humans coordinate in groups._
       | 
       | "Politics" is _the word we use to refer to_ coordination
       | mechanisms.
       | 
       | > _Think about the last time a terrible technical decision got
       | pushed through at your company._
       | 
       | There were other interlinked concerns that were more important.
       | "Yes that probably would be better, except that it's not
       | consistent with what we've told the auditors. So it's not
       | happening."
       | 
       | .
       | 
       | > _Stop Avoiding Politics_
       | 
       | Not everyone needs to stick their oar in on every decision.
        
       | paganel wrote:
       | Maybe it's because I'm getting older, but I remember that there
       | used to be times when slop like this (and some other similar stop
       | I've recently seen getting posted in here) was just not a thing,
       | at least not at this level. I mean, this is really sloppy, it
       | doesn't mean anything and a lot of things at the same time, it
       | doesn't mention anything concrete.
       | 
       | > Ideas don't speak. People do. And the people who understand how
       | to navigate organizational dynamics, build relationships, and
       | yes, play politics? Their ideas get heard.
        
       | jahsome wrote:
       | > Good politics is just being strategic about relationships and
       | influence in the service of good outcomes.
       | 
       | Yeah, no shit dude. That's exactly the part that's disgusting.
       | Using the word "just" here feels dishonest.
       | 
       | I was subjected early on to someone who viewed every single
       | interaction in every single relationship as transactional and
       | framed every decision around the question "what's in it for me?"
       | 
       | It really warped my worldview for a long time and it took a ton
       | of therapy and self-reflection to overcome. I'm not going to
       | sacrifice my principles just to get something I want.
        
       | fallinditch wrote:
       | Beware of corporate cultures that encourage employee/teammate
       | feedback and provide mechanisms for collecting it anonymously
       | (often a function of HR software).
       | 
       | Anonymous feedback is almost always destructive, the exception
       | being when the leaders of large organizations seek employee
       | sentiment.
        
       | wavemode wrote:
       | The HN title "what good workplace politics looks like in
       | practice" is less clear than the article's actual title (and, the
       | article's actual point), "Stop avoiding politics"
       | 
       | This isn't an article about improving organizations, this is an
       | article about getting what you want within an organization by
       | getting better at playing politics.
        
         | 6510 wrote:
         | If you are doing one thing (politics) you are not doing
         | something else.
        
       | socalgal2 wrote:
       | > I bet if you dig into what happened, you'll find it wasn't
       | because the decision-makers were stupid. It's because the people
       | with the right information weren't in the room.
       | 
       | Or, the people with the decision making power just had a
       | different opinion made a decision irrespective of "right
       | information"
        
       | skeeter2020 wrote:
       | I don't think this is "politics" but even if it technically is,
       | the term has such negative connotations that I think we're better
       | off approaching the scenarios from a different angle, rather than
       | trying to rescue "politics". Start by telling yourself "I will
       | assume the best in motivations and most charitable
       | interpretation." Now approach the "Why?" like a cultural
       | anthropologist: How did we get here? What clues can I find that
       | explain the current state? What artifacts are out there? How is
       | communication organized? What's the hierarchy structure? Who or
       | what are notable influences? Talk to lots of people. Ask lots of
       | open questions. Listen. Sketch literal and conceptual diagrams of
       | "how this all works".
       | 
       | It's likely to turn out everyone is NOT an idiot and there are
       | very logical & understandable reasons for why things are the way
       | they are. Or not, in which case you can run away secure that
       | you've made the right conclusion.
        
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