[HN Gopher] Why use mailing lists?
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       Why use mailing lists?
        
       Author : cnst
       Score  : 233 points
       Date   : 2025-09-26 19:27 UTC (1 days ago)
        
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       | teddyh wrote:
       | Like I recently wrote in response to someone here who was
       | fascinated that mailing lists were "still a thing in 2025":
       | 
       |  _Please, inform us of an alternative which is:_
       | 
       |  _* Non-proprietary_
       | 
       |  _* Federated_
       | 
       |  _* Archivable_
       | 
       |  _* Accessible_
       | 
       |  _* Not dependent on a specific company_
       | 
       | -- <https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=43972038>
        
         | mxchris2121 wrote:
         | Please inform me of an opensource way to run one that I can
         | actually get configured properly.
        
           | teddyh wrote:
           | I've heard good things about <https://mailinabox.email>.
        
           | giancarlostoro wrote:
           | Same for self-hosted mail...
        
             | mrweasel wrote:
             | I haven't tried it, so it might be more complicated than
             | the documentation leads me to believe, but Mox looks
             | promising: https://www.xmox.nl/
        
               | yogorenapan wrote:
               | I've been using it for a year now. Can vouch for the
               | quality and reliability
        
             | eschaton wrote:
             | Proxmox has a mail appliance.
        
             | immibis wrote:
             | I use Postfix and Dovecot. Configuration was annoying, but
             | doable. If you read mail on the server itself then you
             | don't need Dovecot.
        
           | benley wrote:
           | Mailman 3 is acceptable, imho. It's been a few years since I
           | worked with it, but I was able to design a reliable public
           | instance of it (https://mailman.haskell.org) with a few days
           | of effort, including the migration from mailman v2.
        
             | Symbiote wrote:
             | Same here -- I think I set Mailman 3 up in a day, although
             | I was already familiar with setting up the mail (Postfix)
             | part.
        
             | pabs3 wrote:
             | Mailman 3 is horrible, which is why some folks have ported
             | Mailman 2 to Python3.
             | 
             | https://github.com/jaredmauch/mailman2-python3
        
           | layer8 wrote:
           | Besides GNU Mailman, there's also Sympa [0]. It's fairly
           | straightforward to set those up on a VPS with Debian or
           | similar if you're familiar with running a Linux server.
           | 
           | [0] https://www.sympa.community/
        
         | magicalhippo wrote:
         | Newsgroups as in NNTP[1] fits those criteria, no?
         | 
         | Granted, federated bit is more tricky now. Back in the days
         | many if not most ISPs ran a NNTP server. But the protocol
         | supports it.
         | 
         | [1]:
         | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Network_News_Transfer_Protocol
        
           | mrweasel wrote:
           | I loved Usenet back in the day, but I sort of wonder why
           | organisations keep their servers running. I struggle to find
           | any active newsgroups these days. Weirdly enough spam still
           | hits some of the groups.
        
             | WesolyKubeczek wrote:
             | And conspiracy chain mails still pondering on whether or
             | not 9/11 was an inside job. I joined usenet recently to see
             | how the things were, and it had some serious ghost town
             | vibes.
        
             | magicalhippo wrote:
             | Yeah it died off sadly. Had so many good news discussions
             | back then. Still miss the buzz of downloading a new batch
             | of messages.
             | 
             | I used Gmane[1] to access mailing lists as newsgroups,
             | which I've always thought was a much better fit.
             | 
             | Alas as with all good things that was shut down also.
             | 
             | [1]: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gmane
        
               | clircle wrote:
               | News.gmane.io is up. I use it daily to track a few
               | projects.
        
               | magicalhippo wrote:
               | Ah, thanks. I knew there were issues, but somehow missed
               | they'd resolved it.
               | 
               | A great service, glad to see it alive and kicking!
        
               | pasc1878 wrote:
               | They have not resolved the big issue.
               | 
               | news.gmane.io has always worked.
               | 
               | The issue is that the owner of that domain made a mistake
               | and gave the control of the web frontend to someone else
               | who just shut it down.
        
             | e12e wrote:
             | The D programming language forum is using nntp:
             | 
             | https://forum.dlang.org/help#about
        
         | adgjlsfhk1 wrote:
         | Discourse seems to fit the bill (although I'm not 100% sure
         | about federation)
        
           | micromacrofoot wrote:
           | it seems to have a plugin for federation, but I'm not sure
           | how federation works for forums
        
             | eschaton wrote:
             | It doesn't, federation makes it not a web forum and its
             | "web forum first" nature makes Discourse fundamentally
             | unsuitable for things like technical work. (As opposed to,
             | say, product support.)
             | 
             | If you want federation, set up a mailing list gatewayed to
             | a usenet group you host on your own NNTP server, and slap a
             | web forum interface on top of that for the whiny children
             | who won't use anything that isn't inside a browser.
        
               | micromacrofoot wrote:
               | why is it bad for technical work? it seems like a very
               | technical variety of forum
        
               | eschaton wrote:
               | It has all sorts of gamification that gets in the way,
               | it's easy to over-silo discussions, it has a concept of
               | "answered" that's not really appropriate for a lot of
               | project level discussion, it has all sorts of other
               | extraneous crap like "reactions," and--most importantly--
               | it's fundamentally implemented as a web page that
               | everyone involved needs visit regularly to see when
               | there's something new and to respond to that.
               | 
               | Discourse would be fine if it were a front end to a
               | mailing list and didn't have the excess categorization
               | and gamification crap. Instead it's a web forum with a
               | mailing list mode tacked on by people who never did
               | substantial technical work using mailing lists.
        
         | o11c wrote:
         | Literally _any_ open-source forum or wiki meets all the
         | requirements except possibly  "federated" (depending on whether
         | people set up a dump->restore to another machine), but is
         | _much_ more welcoming to ad-hoc contributors who don 't want to
         | subscribe to 10,000 emails per day just to get replies to their
         | own posts.
         | 
         | If mailing-list users actually used CC properly this would not
         | be a problem, but THAT IS NOT THE REALITY WE LIVE IN. Bad
         | technical etiquette on behalf of the habitual mailing-list
         | users is the main reason people hate mailing lists.
         | 
         | ===
         | 
         | Editing to also reject some of the points from the article:
         | 
         | "1. Mailing lists require no special software" is utter
         | bullshit. If you accept "must install a mail program", surely
         | you can accept "must install lynx or curl"?
         | 
         | The contrast of 3/4 to forums is utter bullshit. What
         | security/privacy risk is there in using a forum? Are they going
         | to leak my email address or something?
         | 
         | ... I don't even want to respond in detail to the rest of the
         | nonsense that follows. Are they talking about some particular
         | forum that hasn't been updated since 1999 or something? Yes
         | these are problems which is why people have made solutions to
         | them ...
        
           | SoftTalker wrote:
           | My problem with forums is that I am forced to use a web
           | browser and access them through their provided interface. A
           | lot of them, especially the older ones, are seriously hard to
           | use and even worse on mobile.
           | 
           | Mailing lists I access with my preferred mail client and
           | environment.
           | 
           | Receiving "10,000 emails per day" would only happen on a very
           | active list. In most cases you're talking about a dozen or at
           | worst a few hundred. Your email client can easily filter
           | those into a virtual folder, and quickly find the messages
           | where you are addressed or threads you're interested in.
           | 
           | Once I have the emails, I have them forever. I am not
           | dependent on some forum remaining online five years from now
           | if I want to go find an old message.
           | 
           | Web forums and wikis just suck for message-based
           | interactions. Email is designed for that and it works really
           | well.
        
             | eschaton wrote:
             | I find that people who complain about email volume are not
             | only unfamiliar with setting up rules to file messages into
             | folders, but entirely uninterested in learning how to
             | leverage their tools that way.
             | 
             | In fact, it seems many of them resent having to learn
             | _anything_ in order to be more productive, instead
             | insisting the burden belongs on others. "I don't want to
             | get all that email, so it's OK for me to make you visit a
             | web page several times a day to participate instead."
             | 
             | And no, Discourse's "mailing list mode" isn't sufficient,
             | it's as garbage as the rest of Discourse, especially when D
             | showed the right way to do this: Mailing list primary, NNTP
             | newsgroup gatewayed (or vice versa), with a web forum for
             | those who insist on one.
             | 
             | If only LLVM et al had gone that route.
        
               | BeFlatXIII wrote:
               | It's replicated work for every person who wants to set up
               | filters and notifications. Discord or whatever has
               | defaults that don't require everyone to create their
               | custom environment.
        
               | johnisgood wrote:
               | But you trade a lot for not wanting to set up your own
               | custom environment. You only have to set up yours. There
               | is no one size that fits all, and if this flexibility
               | comes with these features mentioned (non-proprietary,
               | federated, archivable, accessible, not dependent on a
               | specific company), then: yes, please! How could anyone
               | not want this?
        
               | eschaton wrote:
               | "It sucks for everyone equally, so it's better."
               | 
               | Nah. The "replicated work" is in deciding what you want
               | your mail folder structure to look like, which is a
               | pretty personal decision; creating the filter on List-Id
               | itself is trivial.
        
           | LaGrange wrote:
           | > Literally any open-source forum or wiki meets all the
           | requirements except possibly "federated" (depending on
           | whether people set up a dump->restore to another machine),
           | but is much more welcoming to ad-hoc contributors who don't
           | want to subscribe to 10,000 emails per day just to get
           | replies to their own posts.
           | 
           | I know that mailing clients have gotten worse, but not _that_
           | worse.
           | 
           | > The contrast of 3/4 to forums is utter bullshit. What
           | security/privacy risk is there in using a forum? Are they
           | going to leak my email address or something?
           | 
           | Most of them employ a whole bunch of google analytics for
           | reasons unclear. That should be sufficient.
           | 
           | ---
           | 
           | Though unfortunately I disagree with the OP. Those are
           | arguments as to why it would be nice if email stuck around.
           | But it won't. Just because the problems come from "bad
           | deployments of anti-spam policies" doesn't change the fact
           | that the "bad deployments" are literally _the majority of
           | email_.
        
           | jjav wrote:
           | > "1. Mailing lists require no special software" is utter
           | bullshit.
           | 
           | Proprietary mediums require and are limited to specific
           | software with limitied functionality, whether in the form or
           | a specific application, or a web interface that only works
           | one way and is missing most functionality.
           | 
           | With email I run whatever email client I like best and can
           | filter, sort, thread, etc just the way I want.
        
         | thewebguyd wrote:
         | And those are the exact same reasons I loath the trend of
         | discourse moving into discord groups, or slack groups, hell
         | I've even seen Facebook groups.
         | 
         | None of those are reachable without an account and in many
         | cases an invite (private by default), they are not indexed by
         | search engines, they are proprietary, cannot be exported or
         | archived, etc.
         | 
         | It's asking for knowledge to be lost.
        
           | 62 wrote:
           | > It's asking for knowledge to be lost.
           | 
           | You say that like it's not already happening. It's happening.
           | Many technical chats are only happening on discord now.
           | Everything single day the volume of current technical
           | knowledge gets smaller.
        
           | throw7 wrote:
           | Yes, I was hoping to check out ladybird browser project, but
           | they use discord.
        
             | pwdisswordfishz wrote:
             | There are other problems besides access. The big one being
             | that the people that you'll find on Discord are the kinds
             | of people that you'll find on Discord.
        
           | abnercoimbre wrote:
           | I'm gradually switching our in-person community to Revolt [0]
           | because we want to self-host and own the data. (Discord
           | offers extreme convenience, but it's a black-box for-profit
           | platform.)
           | 
           | We don't want casual discourse to be indexed to the public.
           | Instead we'll host a wiki system soon that bubbles up
           | technical chatter into worthy articles.
           | 
           | Is that a reasonable compromise?
           | 
           | [0] https://revolt.handmadecities.com
        
             | thewebguyd wrote:
             | It's definitely better than discord in that it solves the
             | data ownership problem. It's not federated, still
             | centralized to your own revolt server - but I think that's
             | OK for private groups anyway, or ephemeral discussions
             | (unless Revolt can be federated, I'm not familiar with it)
             | 
             | My concern is more the trend of open groups, even open
             | source projects, centralizing around discord both for dev
             | discussion, community discussion, and technical support.
             | There's incredible value to those discussions to be indexed
             | and searchable on the web, like the good old days of public
             | forums. Actual work took place in public, on mailing lists
             | and forums. It could be indexed and scraped, even just
             | archived to my local machine.
        
               | skydhash wrote:
               | If I see discord, I just go the other way, or use the
               | code as is.
        
             | bombcar wrote:
             | The distinction between chat and email and forums was
             | helpful mentally to compartmentalize - you'd expect people
             | to act differently (forums even have things they call
             | "chat" threads that are more like chat).
             | 
             | The problem the "bubble up to Wiki" is that you need a
             | specific subset of people with the technical know-how to
             | understand the issue and solutions AND the time and desire
             | to update the Wiki.
             | 
             | One thing that can help is being absolutely a tyrant and
             | insisting that discussions about bugs, etc happen on a bug
             | tracker- or at least the resolutions go there.
        
               | abnercoimbre wrote:
               | Good advice, appreciate it!
        
         | liendolucas wrote:
         | I would probably change "Not dependent on a specific company"
         | to "Not being hostage from ransomware from specific companies".
         | 
         | See: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=45283887
        
           | kragen wrote:
           | Even without Slack's ransomware-as-a-service business model,
           | being dependent on a specific company is a big problem. If
           | Dropbox decides to ban your country for being running too
           | many AI crawlers, or DejaNews goes out of business, or XOJane
           | decides to pivot to a different market (see http://web.archiv
           | e.org/web/20171015000000*/http://www.xojane... for example),
           | or LiveJournal gets bought by Russian trolls, it's
           | potentially a big problem.
        
         | gus_massa wrote:
         | The sad reality is that for 99.99% or the population: WhatsApp
         | groups, with a solid 1/5 in your requirement list. (Or at
         | least, I hope they get one point, text selection is broken.)
         | 
         | People just not care, they just want to send and recive
         | messages and an easy method to add and remove persons.
        
         | Karrot_Kream wrote:
         | ActivityPub? Just because people use it as a Twitter clone
         | doesn't mean you can't run mailing list style content on top of
         | it. It would be nice to not use Mastodon-isms if you're trying
         | to go about doing something like that. However it's easy with
         | Mastodon-isms too. Have a bot listen to mentions, use any sort
         | of moderation/accept queue to accept questions, then Reblog the
         | ones you accept.
         | 
         | ATProto would fit most of the bill too here but AP is self-
         | hostable and contained in a way that ATP isn't. AP is also
         | standardized and has gone through standards bodies.
        
         | johanyc wrote:
         | RSS?
        
         | kilroy123 wrote:
         | This is why I run a newsletter.
         | 
         | I love the simplicity of it.
        
         | throwaway270925 wrote:
         | I sometimes wonder why there aren't any chat-based apps/UIs for
         | mailing lists? Think UIs in the style of
         | Discord/Slack/Teams/etc but with email/mailinglist(s) as
         | backend.
         | 
         | IIRC there was Delta.chat but no idea how they are doing? (And
         | if they integrate with mailing lists/formatting etc)
        
           | dfc wrote:
           | I think one of the reasons is that mailing list usage
           | expects/imposes some level of reflection time and editing
           | between sending a new reply. Imagine if every time someone
           | hit enter in slack/teams/discord a new email showed up in a
           | thread somewhere in someone's mail reader.
        
           | rakoo wrote:
           | Deltachat is still alive and well, you can see it evolve on
           | their blog: https://delta.chat/en/blog
           | 
           | The thing is, deltachat really focuses on encrypted-first,
           | and if possible encrypted-only communications in tight-knit
           | groups: servers have no authority, they're merely relays.
           | Mailing lists are not built for that, they're the central
           | authority point where all moderation happens, and being
           | forwarders they can't work with e2ee. In the current setting
           | deltachat isn't built for mailing lists but group or 1-1
           | communication work very well.
        
           | layer8 wrote:
           | Mailing lists are largely a different mode of communication
           | than chat, as alluded to in parts of TFA. I'd go as far as to
           | say that mailing lists are mostly incompatible with chat-like
           | usage patterns. It's a feature, not a bug. Chat programs and
           | protocols like IRC have existed almost as long as mailing
           | lists, but were never a replacement for them.
        
         | dfabulich wrote:
         | Mailing lists aren't federated. Everyone has to email one
         | particular address at one particular domain; whoever controls
         | that email address + domain can censor/block emails. (That's a
         | good thing when you're blocking spam!)
         | 
         | If you're OK with the fact that mailing lists are somewhat
         | centralized, there are actually got a ton of great alternatives
         | to pure mailing lists.
         | 
         | All popular open-source web forums support email notifications,
         | and most of them support posting by email, (I know phpBB and
         | Discourse do,) and all of them have sitemaps with crawlable
         | archives.
        
           | dminuoso wrote:
           | You can run your own mail server and name server on top. The
           | network of mail is very much federated.
           | 
           | In mail we have so many freedoms. We have become so locked
           | into technology that we have to introduce a term like
           | "federation" to signify the interoperability and freedom of a
           | single component. Mail is federation layered upon federation.
           | 
           | The fact that you can just use a mailings list address as a
           | member of another mailing list gives you even more federation
           | possibilities. All with the simplest of all message exchange
           | protocols.
        
             | Erwyn wrote:
             | > You can run your own mail server and name server on top.
             | The network of mail is very much federated.
             | 
             | While I do completely agree with that in theory (and I also
             | love mail) I think it does not stand the reality test
             | because of email deliveravility which tends to be a
             | nightmare.
             | 
             | How do you solve this? Do you use a third party SMTP?
        
               | Intermernet wrote:
               | I ran multiple mail servers for years until about 10
               | years ago (moved out of the industry). The deliverability
               | problem, as far as I know, hasn't really changed that
               | much in the last decade. The key was to configure DKIM,
               | SPF, only use secure protocols and monitor the various
               | black/block-lists to make sure you aren't on them for
               | very long. In my experience, if you end up on a few bad
               | lists, and don't react quickly, the reputation of your
               | domain goes down rapidly and it's harder to get off said
               | lists.
               | 
               | You also want some spam filtering, which, these days, is
               | apparently much more powerful with local LLMs. I used to
               | just use various bayesian classification tools, but I've
               | heard that the current state of affairs is better. Having
               | said that, when you've trained the tool, it does a pretty
               | good job.
               | 
               | It's not "plug-and-play", but it's not that hard. Once
               | you've got it up and running the maintenance load goes to
               | almost zero.
        
               | Erwyn wrote:
               | > It's not "plug-and-play", but it's not that hard. Once
               | you've got it up and running the maintenance load goes to
               | almost zero.
               | 
               | This is where I disagree. In my opinion it might not be
               | that hard but the maintenance is really not zero as you
               | just described how you need a reputable IP as a
               | prerequisite and constant monitoring of block lists.
               | 
               | Just having DKIM, SPF and DMARC really was not enough
               | last time I checked for getting delivered to let's say
               | outlook.
        
               | Intermernet wrote:
               | The monitoring of block lists is much more important than
               | people assume. I haven't looked into it in detail, but it
               | always seemed like the reputation was based on a ratio of
               | number of messages to known bad messages. If you have a
               | moderately busy server, and you manage to keep off the
               | block lists (or at least pro-actively remove yourself
               | from them) then the reputaion gets higher and higher, and
               | the maintenance goes down.
               | 
               | If you're a domain that only receives occasional
               | messages, and you end up on Spamhaus and co, you're gonna
               | have a problem. It seems that reputation at small scale
               | is viral. You need actively good reputation and response
               | time. But, honestly, it seemed that it didn't take more
               | than about 3 months per domain I administered until they
               | were just accepted by the net as valid, good actors.
        
               | Intermernet wrote:
               | I just realised, and this could be red herring, that
               | almost all of the domains I've administered were based in
               | Australia. I suppose it's possible that the IP ranges I'm
               | dealing with have a better reputation than those from
               | other countries. I have administered a few domains from
               | US companies and IPs, but they've often been based in
               | known data centres which may help their cause. I can't
               | really talk to the reliability of hosting a mail server
               | on a consumer / small business IP in the US / Europe/
               | Asia. It's possible that all known, common IPs in these
               | areas have a natural disadvantage when it comes to
               | reputation. I suppose try running a tunnel from your
               | server to a small VPS in a knwon data centre? Not ideal,
               | but it may help.
               | 
               | It would be annoying if entire US/European/Asian ISP IP
               | ranges were immediately blocked. We should have moved on
               | from that for many reasons unrelated to email.
        
               | immibis wrote:
               | If you consistently don't receive mail you expect, then
               | you stop giving money to your mail host and get a
               | different one.
        
               | Erwyn wrote:
               | It's not about receiving. Receiving is the easy part. It
               | is about the delivery of your own mail.
               | 
               | > you stop giving money to your mail host and get a
               | different one.
               | 
               | I was entertaining the "host your own mail server"
               | thought, I agree that if you don't host it yourself then
               | you can change your provider if it fails you.
        
               | palata wrote:
               | > if you don't host it yourself then you can change your
               | provider if it fails you.
               | 
               | Even if you host it yourself :-). The key is to own your
               | domain.
        
               | Erwyn wrote:
               | If I recall the domain is not the only issue, IP is also
               | deeply involved or am I wrong?
        
               | immibis wrote:
               | IP address is involved in some receiver's reputation
               | calculation. It's never involved when sending _to_ a
               | domain.
        
               | immibis wrote:
               | Who needs the transmission more - the sender, or the
               | recipient?
               | 
               | Much of the time, when it's for signup verification,
               | especially for a free service, they just write "don't use
               | @live.microsoft.com" underneath the email address box.
               | The user wants to be signed up for the service more than
               | the service provider wants a new user, at least by enough
               | to use an alternate email address. Enough cases like
               | this, and the user quits @live.microsoft.com.
        
               | palata wrote:
               | The fact that it is a nightmare is a bit of a myth.
               | Granted, not everybody can do it, but that's not
               | necessary.
               | 
               | And then there are many mail providers other than Gmail.
               | It's just that nobody cares and probably the fact that a
               | ton of (most?) people were forced to create a Gmail
               | account by Google.
        
               | Erwyn wrote:
               | > The fact that it is a nightmare is a bit of a myth.
               | Granted, not everybody can do it, but that's not
               | necessary.
               | 
               | I agree to some extent. But it is more involved than
               | deploying a Discourse instance in my opinion.
               | 
               | > And then there are many mail providers other than
               | Gmail. It's just that nobody cares and probably the fact
               | that a ton of (most?) people were forced to create a
               | Gmail account by Google.
               | 
               | 100% agree. This is the tradeoff I went for. I would love
               | for it to be easier to self host but you can definitely
               | use another provider.
        
         | s1110 wrote:
         | IRC
        
         | renegat0x0 wrote:
         | Yesterday I seen someone claiming on Reddit that they stopped
         | using mailing list in favour of using rss
        
           | pasc1878 wrote:
           | Yes that works to read them - and I do use that.
           | 
           | But if you want to write a message in reply or start a new
           | conversation - RSS does not allow that. (In the cases that I
           | use RSS - I will just copy to my mail app - it is more
           | cumbersome than just replying in mail (or usenet via gmane)
           | but this is not something I do often for those lists.
        
         | maxloh wrote:
         | Maybe Matrix?
        
           | rlpb wrote:
           | I think Matrix is a good upcoming contender. The available
           | clients are not really mature yet though. Element is
           | excessively heavyweight and bloated, being Electron based.
           | Other clients all seem to miss some essential feature or
           | other. And there's no good archiving solution yet.
        
             | Arathorn wrote:
             | Matrix has/had a great archiver at
             | https://github.com/matrix-org/matrix-viewer - but it fell
             | foul of the bizarre failure mode that folks who had
             | explicitly set their rooms to be archivable had
             | subsequently forgotten that they had, and then went
             | absolutely berserk when they discovered their rooms having
             | been archived: https://matrix.org/blog/2023/07/what-
             | happened-with-the-archi.... This was one of the reasons
             | given for libera to turn off the libera<->matrix irc
             | bridge.
             | 
             | At the time we had much bigger problems to deal with, so we
             | shelved it and have yet to get back to it.
        
         | RossBencina wrote:
         | Even within the realm of mailing lists I'm not sure it's as
         | easy as it used to be to find reliable hosting.
        
         | imcritic wrote:
         | First inform us of mail providers that match the same criteria.
        
           | randunel wrote:
           | All, as far as I can tell.
        
         | notepad0x90 wrote:
         | Forums are fine.
         | 
         | You understand I'm sure that federated is not the same as
         | decentralized. Mailing lists are moderated, the list is hosted
         | on a specific domain and that domain's owner can do whatever
         | they want with the list. How is that different from a forum or
         | some website? I don't like them but there mastodon,matrix,etc..
         | all open source and you can host them on a domain like you can
         | a mailing list. They meet all your criteria.
         | 
         | I have an additional criteria to add: Security! I would like to
         | authenticate that someone really said what is on the mailing
         | list or its archives.
         | 
         | But before that, mailing lists are not as accessible as all the
         | other options, because it all comes down to how accessible the
         | email client is. Gmail is wildly different from mutt.
         | Inconsistently accessible is what it is.
         | 
         | how about privacy? I wouldn't want my email and my email's
         | domain published to the world to communicate with the list. And
         | again with integrity, mailing list moderators can do all sorts
         | of stuff (and I've seen plenty of shady and downright
         | questionable practices).
         | 
         | How about we let things built for different times and with
         | different requirements than what we have to day go to sleep
         | quietly?
        
           | whartung wrote:
           | Mailing list delivery is centralized, but archiving is
           | federated. How many folks have a full copy of, say, the last
           | 1, 2, 5, 10 years of a long running mailing list?
           | 
           | Client accessibility is up to the individual user. They can
           | choose whatever client fits them best.
           | 
           | I don't know any mailing list software that signs messages as
           | a sort of "yes, this message did travel through the mailing
           | list" verification. Were it that important I'm sure it's
           | possible. But having identical messages on 1000 subscribers
           | computers has to stand for something.
        
             | notepad0x90 wrote:
             | If the mailing list server tampered with the message,
             | everyone will get the false message. But if it is an
             | encrypted group chat on matrix for example, you can 100%
             | verify that the person posted that message (provided you've
             | verified them, but even if you haven't, your logic of other
             | people having verified it can be used).
             | 
             | As for archiving, you can archive mastodon, lemmy, bluesky,
             | matrix,etc... as you said, if it was important, it can be
             | made so for any open platform. Public archiving services
             | will use APIs instead of mail clients, that's the only
             | difference which shouldn't make a difference to users.
             | 
             | Even on the closed source platform twitter, there are
             | public archives of things. Governments post official
             | communication and records on there. Some governments are
             | experimenting with Git for law publications. Nepal just
             | voted an interim leader over discord!
             | 
             | This nostalgic thinking about mailing lists is incompatible
             | with a technologist's mindset.
        
         | jjav wrote:
         | This mostly falls under "Accessible", but want to highlight how
         | incredibly limited the UI is in every proprietary messaging
         | platform. One is forced to interact with it in just one way and
         | it's inevitably missing tons of functionality.
         | 
         | With email, there can be no limits because it is an open
         | standard.
         | 
         | One can pick whichever MUA (email client) one prefers or
         | trivially switch betwen multiple ones without any loss of data.
         | 
         | But even more importantly, if one has custom needs or
         | preferences, that is also easy. All my incoming email goes
         | first through procmail where I can apply various filters and
         | labels and can sort it into different folders and priorities on
         | completely custom criteria that fits what I want.
        
       | cnst wrote:
       | Via http://www.mail-archive.com/nginx@nginx.org/msg25495.html.
       | 
       | Sadly, it's been announced yesterday that the nginx.org mailing
       | lists are being shutdown by end of month (Sept 2025).
       | 
       | P.S. Probably one more reason to look into into the freenginx
       | fork of nginx -- https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=39373327 --
       | their mailing lists are at http://freenginx.org/en/support.html.
        
         | jesprenj wrote:
         | Also see https://en.angie.software
        
       | vrnvu wrote:
       | Mailing list yes, RSS yes....
       | 
       | Old, boring, simple, works.
       | 
       | No ads.
        
       | a-dub wrote:
       | how hard is it to run your own smtp gateway in 2025? are you good
       | if you just set up dkim and such?
        
         | SoftTalker wrote:
         | You also need a server with a good IP address reputation
         | located in a non-sketchy country and a domain that isn't brand-
         | new. And probably more.
        
           | cnst wrote:
           | I'm pretty sure the reputation thing is overstated, else, how
           | would all those providers be able to scale up their SMTP
           | services themselves?
        
             | SoftTalker wrote:
             | Gmail or Apple scaling up is going to be treated
             | differently from some random new domain suddenly appearing
             | on a Digital Ocean or Hetzner or AWS cloud instance.
        
               | cnst wrote:
               | But how would anyone know it's Gmail or Apple if the IP
               | address is new?
               | 
               | That's exactly my point, that the reputation need is
               | overstated by all those services that claim to solve a
               | known problem that everyone has heard of, but noone has
               | actually experienced, because, guess what, it might not
               | actually exist.
               | 
               | I've seen plenty of cases where the emails sent out
               | through Sendgrid et al, end up in the Spam folder, or
               | these "professional" services don't even attempt to
               | retry, thus, never getting through the greylisting, or
               | other bugs which cause deliverability issues, which would
               | never happen if you were to run your own real mail-server
               | on your own hardware yourself.
        
               | SoftTalker wrote:
               | Sendgrid, Mailchimp, et. al. ends up in the spam folder
               | because most of what they send is spam.
        
               | cnst wrote:
               | I'm not disputing that assertion, yet it does go against
               | the marketing materials we're all presented by all of
               | these services, as for reasons to not run our own
               | mailservers.
               | 
               | In other words, if all you want to do is run a personal
               | mailserver, or even a corporate one, you'll probably not
               | have to deal with this supposed IP reputation issue,
               | unless the IP addresses you use, have already been added
               | to the blacklists even before you start at it.
        
               | SoftTalker wrote:
               | Yes if you are using a domain that's been around for a
               | while and has a reasonably stable IP address history and
               | is not on any blacklists, that is the defintion of a
               | "good" reputation. Or at least it's not a bad one.
        
               | Bender wrote:
               | Running your own mail servers to do the volume emitted by
               | Sendgrid would indeed be on the level of starting your
               | own medium sized business. Getting IP allocation,
               | swip'ing them out to divisions of your company or your
               | customers and paying into whitelists for all the "free"
               | email providers like Google et al would be a massive up
               | front cost.
               | 
               | Running your own mail server for personal email is an
               | afternoon of setup _DKIM, DMARC, SPF, FCrDNS and such_ ,
               | setup of your MTA/IMAP/WEB preferences, tuning some
               | filters, setting up aliases, accounts for family and with
               | time the tuning work eventually slows down and then it's
               | just maintaining accounts, aliases and the occasional
               | rules to block problem networks and domains. With time
               | you may find some servers that require lowering security
               | or filters but that is also very easy.
        
               | layer8 wrote:
               | There are a lot of small email hosting providers that
               | don't seem to have much trouble.
        
             | micromacrofoot wrote:
             | it's very easy to get blackholed by major providers like
             | gmail though, and very difficult to get out
        
             | msm_ wrote:
             | From experience, it's not overstated. Running your own
             | email server is pain, and even if you do everything right
             | you may get delivery problems. And if you want to improve
             | your chances, you have to do whatever big tech wants you
             | to. And if you ever get onto the bad side (for example,
             | your site is hacked and distributes malware for a few days)
             | you may never recover.
             | 
             | It's not impossible, but it's not something you run once
             | and forget.
        
           | eikenberry wrote:
           | You can also host your own MX servers but use a provider for
           | SMTP. Almost any mail provider that supports custom domains
           | will work at their lowest price point.
        
         | bruce343434 wrote:
         | Hard. You need reverse DNS, which means you need to have a
         | machine with a stable ip, and convince the network operator to
         | set up a PTR reverse DNS record for you. This part is fairly
         | easy if you are renting a VPS with a fixed ipv4 address, just
         | ask the rental company.
         | 
         | You also need to set up mx, dkim, dmarc, spf, and a bunch of
         | other stupid DNS records related to dane/tlsa/mta-sts that aim
         | to put bandaids on top of bandaids on top of what is the shitty
         | unsecured and unencrypted email protocol.
         | 
         | Then you need to fight with a bunch of arcane 90s Unix programs
         | to actually not be gaping security holes that will allow people
         | to relay off of your MTA and get you blacklisted worldwide. You
         | need to fight with a milter and acme client to finally get the
         | TLS stuff right too. Then there's the need to set up a spam
         | filter for your inbox (probably).
        
           | floren wrote:
           | > Then you need to fight with a bunch of arcane 90s Unix
           | programs to actually not be gaping security holes that will
           | allow people to relay off of your MTA
           | 
           | how many decades has it been since this was actually the
           | default config?
        
         | avar wrote:
         | This may not be what you're asking, but it's rather trivial if
         | you're setting up an SMTP gateway that proxies traffic to
         | another SMTP that handles the IP address reputation management
         | etc.
         | 
         | E.g. I do that with Exim on my Debian laptop and have it relay
         | outgoing messages to Gmail's SMTP. It's great if what you want
         | out of it is being able to send E-Mail while "offline", the
         | messages will get locally queued until you've got an outgoing
         | connection, much better than relying on individual MUA's to
         | handle that, and it'll work with one-off invocations like
         | piping to mail(1) etc.
        
         | pepa65 wrote:
         | Running an smtp server to receive mail is supereasy as long as
         | you have inbound port 25.
         | 
         | Or you can run a submission service that requires submitters to
         | login, usually on port 587/465.
         | 
         | If you want to send from your server, that is way more
         | difficult, requiring all kinds of safeguards, SPF, DKIM, ARC,
         | reputation, etc. They keep making it more complicated, because
         | that's the source of spam.
         | 
         | Or you can just submit mails to a relay, that will send mails
         | for you, this can even be Google or some other MX service. This
         | then always requires you to authenticate with your account.
        
       | teeray wrote:
       | I set one up for our HOA as a unified conversation and
       | notification platform. Everyone now has exactly one email address
       | to remember to notify everyone of, say, a graduation party where
       | there might be some extra cars. Nobody needs Facebook, or a
       | Google account for Groups, etc. When people move, their addresses
       | just get updated in the list.
       | 
       | The only trouble I had moderating it is people just love
       | searching for whatever email was sent last to the list, necroing
       | the thread and changing topics to whatever is on their mind. I
       | had to set threads to auto-lock after a week or two of inactivity
       | to force people to start new topics for things that are, well,
       | new topics.
        
         | aidenn0 wrote:
         | Fun fact: if you change the subject to a reply in Outlook (the
         | desktop client; not sure about 365) it will automatically start
         | a new thread. This feature was added because MS found that the
         | "reply to last e-mail from intended recipients" was a common
         | way for people to compose new e-mails.
        
           | teddyh wrote:
           | Interesting. You could do the same thing automatically on the
           | mailing list server side, right?
        
         | IshKebab wrote:
         | Almost like the UX of mailing lists isn't actually that good...
        
         | STRiDEX wrote:
         | Our HoA uses google groups. Mild spam, but overall pretty good
         | for threads. Too many people spam everyone asking for a plumber
         | or whatever
        
       | pron wrote:
       | Also: notification and sorting are highly configurable through
       | rules.
        
       | amo1111 wrote:
       | As someone who has grown up in the era of forums. I have a new
       | found appreciation for mailing lists. I did recently come across
       | some interesting mailing list archives from the 80s
       | https://github.com/MITDDC/cpmarchive-1979-1984/blob/main/cpm...
        
       | self_awareness wrote:
       | Is format=flowed too bleeding edge for those people?
        
         | perching_aix wrote:
         | It'd be a bit too readable without the hard wraps at 80 chars.
         | They just gotta spice up that _plain_ text ever so little.
        
       | 2OEH8eoCRo0 wrote:
       | Protocols not platforms. Email is something anyone can use
       | without a megacorp giving permission!
        
         | landgenoot wrote:
         | Think twice
        
           | eikenberry wrote:
           | How so? Just because many people use mega-corp for email
           | doesn't mean you need to. There are tons of alternative,
           | small company providers or you can host your own. None of
           | these require big-corp's support.
        
             | perching_aix wrote:
             | Because according to popular judgement, independent email
             | hosting in the modern day is a very difficult ordeal.
             | 
             | Is that true? Is that false? How would one tell? One's own
             | experience will be trivially handwaved away as an anecdote,
             | people's experiences will be handwaved away as hearsay, and
             | a claim of general consensus will be handwaved away by
             | other claims that the person pointing it out is just living
             | in a bubble. Principled thinking? Could be false, could be
             | true, really - both would make sense. Doesn't sound very
             | productive to discuss to me.
             | 
             | If nothing else, surely you can agree that despite what
             | _might be_ , what _is_ is that email is incredibly
             | centralized, right?
        
               | eikenberry wrote:
               | It is centralized (I wouldn't say "incredibly", but
               | sufficiently) but because it is an open standard it
               | doesn't matter. You can switch providers very easily with
               | many options.
        
         | aidenn0 wrote:
         | The federated nature of e-mail is degrading. Most recent
         | example: My kid just registered with CCCApply (the central
         | website for California Community and City colleges).
         | 
         | It took a while. Finally after calling support I found out that
         | the e-mail you get your confirmation code to doesn't work with
         | most e-mail providers (they said custom e-mail domains hardly
         | ever work, Yahoo e-mails never work, Outlook is iffy) so please
         | register with a gmail address (and they offered to help me sign
         | up for gmail if I didn't have it).
         | 
         | An older example: According to a Macy's CS rep, Macy's won't
         | deliver their e-mails to domains registered with godaddy (the
         | actual e-mail provider apparently doesn't matter, but in this
         | case it was Microsoft). My mom has an account with them that
         | she can't access, because she needs to receive an e-mail to
         | login, and she needs to login to change which e-mail address is
         | associated with it.
        
       | tolerance wrote:
       | I was over reading that (very well-written) explanation of the AT
       | Protocol: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=45388021
       | 
       | And I felt conflicted. Because it sounds great. It makes sense.
       | But I don't want it and now I'm wondering about what's appealing
       | about distributing bits of content across platforms.
       | 
       | This is something I can get behind. Fenced gardens.
        
       | charcircuit wrote:
       | >Despite that, they're still heavily used
       | 
       | This person is in a serious bubble. Mailing lists are not used by
       | billions of people.
       | 
       | >Mailing lists require no special software
       | 
       | Even ignoring that most social media are accessible via a web
       | browser instead of their dedicated app, this is just adding more
       | complexity than having a single app for people to use. Everyday
       | people want a single way to do things.
       | 
       | >Mailing lists are simple
       | 
       | No, you have to figure out how to configure a mail client and how
       | to properly respond to things and is no where as user friendly as
       | typical social media apps.
       | 
       | >They impose minimal security risk
       | 
       | Using an external service lets you outsource security to
       | dedicated security teams as opposed to no security team or a
       | volunteer security guy.
       | 
       | >They impose minimal privacy risk.
       | 
       | I trust the privacy of social media than some mailing list where
       | the admin could secretly grep the contents of it with no over
       | site.
       | 
       | >Mailing lists are bandwidth-friendly
       | 
       | The average internet user is scrolling through tiktok, streaming
       | videos. Bandwidth is not a big deal anymore.
       | 
       | >Mailing lists interoperate.
       | 
       | Social media have features for reposting between different
       | groups. There is also copy and paste and links.
       | 
       | >They're asynchronous
       | 
       | There are social media like facebook which are also asynchronous.
       | 
       | >They work reasonably well even in the presence of multiple
       | outages and severe congestion
       | 
       | Social media is also resistant to outages and have dedicated
       | teams towards keeping it online.
       | 
       | >They're push, not pull, so new content just shows up.
       | 
       | Have you not been on social media for decades? Pushing content to
       | the user is the norm.
       | 
       | >They scale beautifully.
       | 
       | Social media scales to billions of people using them.
       | 
       | >they're relatively free of abuse vectors.
       | 
       | You can't pretend that spam does not exist.
       | 
       | Mailing lists are not mainstream and they never will be. That way
       | of operating did not resonate with people at the scale that is
       | needed to reach even tens of millions of people. Social media
       | works. Chat apps work. Forums can work.
        
         | xigoi wrote:
         | > I trust the privacy of social media than some mailing list
         | where the admin could secretly grep the contents of it with no
         | over site.
         | 
         | This will only allow them to find the text of the messages,
         | which is public anyway, so what exactly are you worried about?
        
           | charcircuit wrote:
           | Not all mailing lists are public.
        
       | zaptheimpaler wrote:
       | I hate mailing lists, even if I recognize some of their benefits.
       | A forum like Discourse is infinitely better in usability - to
       | view, browse, search, follow specific threads or forums and mute
       | the rest, do DMs, do real nested replies, embed rich media and
       | code with proper formatting and just have a nice interface to
       | work with. It looks like they even support ActivityPub federation
       | recently. Although its GPL not MIT. I'm sure someone will come
       | and tell me how all of this is doable with some janky interface
       | or hacks on mailing lists. It's just unfortunate we have to
       | choose. The people on mailing lists often argue vigorously for
       | them, the rest of us are on discord/slack and have no idea they
       | even exist and are repulsed by the usability problems. You can't
       | convince me pasting diffs in an email thread is on par with
       | Github/Gitlab code reviews with no downsides whatsoever.
        
         | NooneAtAll3 wrote:
         | I hate the look of Discourse, it looks like the worst case of a
         | phone app and ""modern"" web design
         | 
         | I think it's primarily due to absence of margins on the sides
         | and thin borders
        
         | pluto_modadic wrote:
         | the UI/UX of discord is definitely nice, but the /ethics/ of
         | discord isn't.
        
           | dewey wrote:
           | Discourse not Discord
        
         | pabs3 wrote:
         | I hate Discourse because I can't read it with a local email
         | client.
        
           | AAAAaccountAAAA wrote:
           | At least at some point of time it was possible to order
           | Discourse discussions as emails, which you can reply to, and
           | it worked pretty much like a mailing list. Don't know how it
           | is currently, though.
        
       | imiric wrote:
       | The value of the federated/decentralized nature of email is hard
       | to overstate.
       | 
       | So many of the problems of modern technology are caused by
       | centralization. It concentrates power and wealth into a handful
       | of companies that now control the internet. It introduces
       | extraordinary problems from managing data and services at global
       | scales, which is the biggest technical challenge these companies
       | face. It makes government surveillance easier (PRISM, etc.), and
       | is a prime target of corruption by advertising, propaganda, etc.
       | It robs people of control over their data.
       | 
       | All of these things are either non-issues, or far less of an
       | issue, with decentralized technology invented half a century ago.
       | It is bewildering that we had email, Usenet, DNS, and the
       | internet itself, yet we ended up with strong centralization with
       | the web, which is built on decentralized protocols.
       | 
       | I partly blame the early implementation of the WWW for this. I've
       | written at length about this before[1][2], so I won't repeat it
       | here.
       | 
       | [1]: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=43296810
       | 
       | [2]: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=44327508
        
         | perching_aix wrote:
         | > federated/decentralized
         | 
         | I'd be really quite hesitant to blur these concepts so
         | casually.
        
           | imiric wrote:
           | I'm not blurring them. Email is both.
           | 
           | Besides, this distinction has been discussed ad nauseam, and
           | is not interesting. Especially since when contrasted with
           | centralization, which was my main point, both concepts avoid
           | its issues.
        
       | eisa01 wrote:
       | Mailing lists are horrible for people new to a list, as you have
       | no history to search in your inbox and the UI to browse the
       | archives are beyond atrocious.
       | 
       | People that have been on the list for decades tend to forget
       | this, and wonder why it dies down
        
         | skydhash wrote:
         | Wait, what? I regularly use marc-info (for OpenBSD) and emacs-
         | devel, and it's quite easy to find information. And you can
         | always get the mbox and use something like mairix if you want
         | local tools.
        
         | layer8 wrote:
         | Usually an email archive of the list is available for download,
         | which you can incorporate into your local archive. In case none
         | is available, what I have sometimes done is to ask a resident
         | member (privately) if they can send me their archive.
        
           | eisa01 wrote:
           | The mailing lists relevant for me do not have that.
           | 
           | Good that you can get the archive, it still has a quite high
           | setup cost for people not used to mailing lists compared to
           | visiting a Discourse forum
        
       | shutton wrote:
       | I've been running Gaggle Mail (https://gaggle.email) for over 10
       | years, and mailing lists are still very popular in certain
       | circles. They're especially valued for long-form discussions --
       | legal groups, professional associations, HOAs, and similar
       | communities still rely on them because they're simple, reliable,
       | and easy to archive.
        
         | mixcocam wrote:
         | Are you the owner? Any way to DM?
        
       | kajaktum wrote:
       | All this is true but mailing lists UI sucks. Please tell me how
       | you navigate a tree of messages? It is not easy to tell who is
       | this responding to and who responds to it. Yes, it can be figured
       | out but why does the tree change as I navigate it? [0]
       | 
       | [0] https://lkml.org/lkml/2024/1/7/103
        
         | perching_aix wrote:
         | To be honest, I had a lot more trouble _finding the tree_ there
         | than understanding what it shows per se.
        
         | mcdow wrote:
         | I bet it wouldn't be too hard to build a nice UI over a mailing
         | list. You could make it as nice as Slack. Has this been done?
        
           | arp242 wrote:
           | Spent some time on this a few years back and have a half-
           | finished project for it. The thing that proved to be a huge
           | roadblock was importing existing archives since many don't
           | provide a good interface to it.
           | 
           | The https://lore.kernel.org site is actually fairly decent,
           | but limited to Linux kernel stuff and some adjacent projects.
           | Gmane was quite nice too, but now defunct (the web UI
           | anyway).
        
           | lmm wrote:
           | It hasn't been done, because it's impossible. You might get
           | the first 80%, maybe even the first 90% if you had enough
           | money to hire top designers for several years, but you'll
           | never reach Slack level polish.
        
         | layer8 wrote:
         | This is all a matter of the email client. Useful email clients
         | show email threads in trees like this (the red lines and
         | arrows): https://vigasdeep.com/2012/06/07/mutt-the-ultimate-
         | mailing-c...
        
           | arp242 wrote:
           | What if you're not subscribed? I don't usually care about the
           | day to day of Linux kernel dev, but that one thread might be
           | of interest to me. Actually, I might have something to
           | contribute, but since I'm not subscribed the UX on that sucks
           | too.
           | 
           | "Just use mutt" as a reply to "I want to read this one email
           | thread" is rather missing the point. Plus the reality is most
           | people neither use nor want mutt. Many people think the UX on
           | mutt is horrible. Nice if it works for you, but it doesn't
           | for many. So there's that.
        
             | pabs3 wrote:
             | There are tools to import mails into whichever email client
             | you prefer, especially if the list is archived on a public-
             | inbox instance, which is the best mailing list archiving
             | system so far.
             | 
             | https://lwn.net/Articles/875239/
             | https://blog.gnoack.org/post/lei/
             | https://people.kernel.org/monsieuricon/lore-lei-
             | part-1-getti... https://b4.docs.kernel.org/
             | https://github.com/mikwielgus/forum-dl
        
               | arp242 wrote:
               | You can't seriously claim that this is good UX. And
               | that's what this is about: not that it's impossible but
               | that the UX is not good, especially for the casual user
               | only interested in the occasional thread.
        
               | skydhash wrote:
               | The web interface for the archive is for casual users and
               | I believe most have clickable link for the subject that
               | lists the email in a thread and a "previous/next in
               | thread" button.
               | 
               | If you're downloading mbox files, then you know how to
               | handle them.
        
               | pabs3 wrote:
               | It depends on your client, if you have one with bad UX,
               | then get a better one.
        
       | melodyogonna wrote:
       | I still don't know how to get started with mailing lists. Is
       | there some server you have to join?
        
         | layer8 wrote:
         | You can set up an email list using Google Groups, for instance.
         | As an example for such a list, see
         | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=44767555.
         | 
         | People need to subscribe to the mailing list, either by sending
         | a subscribe email to the appropriate email address, or via a
         | web interface that is specific to the mailing list server. Once
         | subscribed, you simply send emails to the list's email address,
         | and receive emails from that address. It's useful to set up a
         | filter in your email account or email client so that all
         | messages from a given mailing list are automatically sorted
         | into a separate email folder.
        
       | philip1209 wrote:
       | I was trying to make a modern version of mailing lists with
       | Booklet [1] - it just never got traction. I intend to open-source
       | it soon. [2]
       | 
       | Async communications are underrated.
       | 
       | [1]: https://booklet.group
       | 
       | [2]: I did open-source my other project recently, though - so
       | it's not an entirely hollow intention!
        
       | perching_aix wrote:
       | The only thing keeping me away from mailing lists is them being
       | built on top of email.
        
         | layer8 wrote:
         | You need a good email client (and email editor) that provides
         | some affordances for mailing lists, for sure. Apart from that,
         | the fact that mailing lists use email provides at least half of
         | their benefits, and of the reasons they endure.
        
       | tonymet wrote:
       | I digitized HOA records and initially considered using a
       | collaboration tool like Slack partnered with Google Drive to
       | create an online community.
       | 
       | Although a corporation and their hierarchy can impose tools
       | easily, HOA communities don't have that luxury. You have broad
       | demographics, skills and no time to support any of them.
       | 
       | A bigger issue is credentialing. You don't want the business of
       | helping seniors log into or reset their Slack password.
       | 
       | My ultimate "non-engineering" solution was to use email for
       | everything. A mailing list for communications. Records requests
       | are handled via email with some automation.
       | 
       | There's tremendous opportunity for more email Saas -- like
       | Sourcehut but for other disciplines.
       | 
       | Everyone and everything can do email. It's easy to automate, and
       | authentication is someone else's problem (the recipient only
       | needs access to their inbox).
        
       | crossroadsguy wrote:
       | I loved and love mailing lists, except for their capacity for
       | ensuring everyone's email addresses are out there in the open for
       | everyone else, including the scammers and spammers. I still use
       | them (very few! and almost none of them are "tech ones"). I have
       | a dedicated email address for them, which is disposable but
       | doesn't look the part. I do wish, though, that many more groups
       | would adopt mailing lists.
       | 
       | I had started a small cinema/lit club/group and got some good
       | traction as well. But everyone wanted to bring in the latest
       | group chat toys, online meet toys. I had proposed (the async)
       | mailing list (private; I had hoped I'd find one), and it was shot
       | down immediately, IIRC, by everyone else.
        
       | aidenn0 wrote:
       | Can anyone recommend mailing list hosting for a non-public group
       | of about 20-30 people that costs less than $100 per year?
       | 
       | My family plans all of their reunions via e-mail and every year
       | we end up with _someone_ putting an out-of-date e-mail for
       | someone in the list, or forgetting to include someone, or
       | including someone who has asked to not get updates. I offered to
       | host a mailing server, and I may just end up rolling my own on a
       | DO droplet with mailgun or something for reliable delivery
       | because mailing list hosting I could find was rather expensive.
        
         | shutton wrote:
         | Gaggle Mail (https://gaggle.email) has a free plan and it's
         | cheapest paid plan is $100 per year. It's popular with family
         | groups doing what you describe.
        
       | nanolith wrote:
       | I have actually argued for the use of mailing lists for corporate
       | engineering discussions. When that becomes the medium for code
       | review or design discussions, there's a nice streamlined
       | workflow. Further, it's practically trivial to write or customize
       | a mailing list reflector. If you have a decent and secure mail
       | client library, you're a weekend away from it just working.
       | Contrast that with customizing or rolling your own IRC, Slack,
       | Discord, or web forum clone. Mailing lists don't suffer from
       | vendor lock-in, and anyone with a mail client and who can follow
       | basic rules can participate.
       | 
       | An invitation-only mailing list with a reflector that verifies
       | PGP encryption and non-repudiation is just fine for most
       | corporate discussions. For mailing lists open to the public, new
       | users can be placed in a moderation queue for a period of time
       | until it's clear that they understand list netiquette and
       | formatting rules.
        
         | eschaton wrote:
         | I think for internal corporate use, NNTP would work even
         | better, _if_ it were still supported in mail clients. I
         | deployed it for exactly that purpose in the late 1990s and it
         | was great.
         | 
         | Fortunately there are IMAP shared mailboxes, which we worked
         | incredibly hard at CMU during the Cyrus project to ensure would
         | work just as well as bboards did in CMU's previous Andrew Mail
         | System. ("Bulletin boards," aka bboards, were basically CMU-
         | local Usenet, with global Usenet under a netnews.* hierarchy
         | via a gateway.)
         | 
         | Most IMAP clients worth their salt support shared mailbox
         | hierarchies, even Apple Mail does, so it's "just" a matter of
         | setting up shared groups on a server.
        
           | zzo38computer wrote:
           | I agree that NNTP would be better. I do have a NNTP server
           | because of this, although my intention is that it can be used
           | for public discussions and not only for internal corporate
           | use, although I did implement authentication in case some
           | newsgroups are used for private discussions too.
           | 
           | (Note, the article in the IETF mailing list does mention
           | Usenet too)
        
       | alberth wrote:
       | The irony of talking about loving mailing list ... while we're
       | all using a centralized, proprietary web forum (HN) to talk about
       | it.
        
       | nickm12 wrote:
       | Agree these are advantages: Mailing lists are simple - Mailing
       | lists are bandwidth-friendly - Mailing lists interoperate -
       | They're asynchronous - They're portable - They can be freely
       | interconverted - They can be written to media and read from it
       | 
       | Disagree these are advantages: Mailing lists require no special
       | software - They impose minimal security risk - They impose
       | minimal privacy risk - They're push, not pull, so new content
       | just shows up - They scale beautifully - they're relatively free
       | of abuse vectors - They handle threading well
       | 
       | I still use mailing lists, both at work and personally, but they
       | are 1970s technology and it feels like it. We could build mailing
       | lists for this century that keep these advantages and fix what's
       | broken, but there's no business model in it.
        
         | 7bit wrote:
         | Minimal privacy risk is such a BS "advantage". You put your
         | email out there for everybody to read it. So privacy with
         | mailing lists does not exist
         | 
         | If I want to remain anonymous, I need to register another email
         | address, which is a massive pain in the ass to register AND
         | then to read or reply to the mailing list.
         | 
         | With a forum I register, chose an anonymous nickname and can
         | participate and get updates into my normal inbox anonymously.
        
           | shiomiru wrote:
           | Also, SMTP straight up leaks your IP address when sending
           | e-mails (the "Received" header.)
        
             | waz0wski wrote:
             | Possibly the most common open source mailing list software,
             | mailman, has had configuration options to address both
             | email address and header exposure for at least 15 years
             | 
             | At least with email, you're in control of what shows up in
             | your inbox as well as message routing with filters of your
             | choice
        
         | jjav wrote:
         | > but there's no business model in it.
         | 
         | I mean this is precisly why email is best. Being an open
         | standard, it's not a business. Nobody owns it, nobody can.
         | Those are fundamental to its strenght.
        
         | eschaton wrote:
         | What makes them "feel like 1970s technology" to you, and--more
         | importantly--why do you say that like it's a bad thing?
         | 
         | Most of the opposition I've seen to using mailing lists for
         | technical discussion has basically come down to "young people
         | think email is old and gross" and my position is that people
         | reacting that way have some self-reflection to do and to get
         | over themselves.
        
       | deknos wrote:
       | i am still of the opinion, if they would extend sieve quite a bit
       | and standardize markdown/reST/asciidoc as rendered in
       | emailreaders, we could probably get much more usage of mail again
       | 
       | (sieve would need additional features of sending/processing mails
       | and reencrypting imho)
       | 
       | but mail is still less broken then mobile phone networks.
        
         | jcgl wrote:
         | Yes. And we'd also need people to stop demanding non-semantic
         | hard wrapping at 79/80 chars.
        
       | pabs3 wrote:
       | Some resources on mailing lists from ArchiveTeam:
       | 
       | https://wiki.archiveteam.org/index.php/Mailing_Lists
        
       | commandersaki wrote:
       | Some IETF working groups use Slack and it was pretty hard to get
       | an invite e.g. QUIC WG.
        
       | riobard wrote:
       | What mail clients do you recommend that make mailing list UI/UX
       | tolerable?
        
         | max_ wrote:
         | I use Gmail, but you have to turn on filters for that
         | automatically label topics for it to work.
        
       | jesprenj wrote:
       | > They can be freely interconverted -- that is, you can move a
       | list hosted by A using software B on operating system C to host X
       | using software Y on operating system Z.
       | 
       | Until you start heavily relying on your archive software you use
       | that is accessible over HTTP with links hardcoded in messages.
       | Then you're bound to continue using that software.
        
       | jacobgorm wrote:
       | Gmail top-posting and proportional fonts broke mailing lists for
       | me.
        
       | Sophira wrote:
       | A lot of these arguments also apply to newsgroups (Usenet),
       | however. It has the same features of being able to use whatever
       | client you want, and can be archived.
       | 
       | Archives can be searched fairly easily, although admittedly most
       | will be incomplete (hence Deja and Google Groups back in the
       | day).
       | 
       | Some newsgroups are still active, but not many. Why? What went
       | wrong?
        
         | bell-cot wrote:
         | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Eternal_September
        
       | imcritic wrote:
       | They mention a point where it's like enough to just have a mail
       | client vs learning ui of 687 forums. This is so incredibly
       | idiotic that I am just stunned.
        
       | kertoip_1 wrote:
       | > They impose minimal privacy risk.
       | 
       | Absolutely not. Privacy risk depends on how well protected is the
       | weakest point in your network. So if one of the participants'
       | device is compromised then the entire discussion is compromised
       | too.
       | 
       | On closed, proprietary platform you just cut off the weakest
       | point from access to the data when you suspect it is not
       | protected enough, as data it lies on a single server. On mailing
       | list you can't do anything, because data lies on somebody's
       | else's server
        
       | mixcocam wrote:
       | What is the simplest way to setup a self hosted mailing list on a
       | VPS?
        
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