[HN Gopher] Learn, Reflect, Apply, Prepare: The Four Daily Pract...
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       Learn, Reflect, Apply, Prepare: The Four Daily Practices That
       Changed How I Live
        
       Author : opuslabs
       Score  : 67 points
       Date   : 2025-08-11 16:06 UTC (6 hours ago)
        
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       | romesmoke wrote:
       | > Learn something _every day_.
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       | It's fine if it doesn't happen every day. Don't be obsessed about
       | this stuff. Forgive yourself if you ever behave sub-optimally.
       | You're not a machine, neither should you be one.
       | 
       | Tyranny starts with the best of intentions.
        
         | pimlottc wrote:
         | It's fine if you have an easy out. Didn't learn anything today?
         | Open a random Wikipedia article. There, that's something.
        
         | mancharface1 wrote:
         | I believe Oliver Burkeman calls it "daily-ish" because it may
         | not be realistic or helpful to force yourself to do it every
         | day. But striving for "daily-ish" is worthwhile.
        
         | yardshop wrote:
         | He says something similar at the end of the article:
         | 
         | "These four verbs aren't a productivity system or a self-help
         | formula. Some days I forget one. Other days, one takes over.
         | But when I return to them, they gently reorient me."
         | 
         | You may be overreacting with words like "machine" and "tyranny"
         | to an idea simply suggested as a useful and helpful goal.
        
           | romesmoke wrote:
           | I wouldn't have commented if the article kept neutral on
           | _when_ to apply its ideas. But the push for daily learning-
           | reflecting-etc is there. Even the segment you 're quoting
           | uses days for accounting. You're downplaying one's potential
           | to read something like this on the Internet and try to
           | literally live by it.
           | 
           | As for machines and tyranny, they're terms capturing the
           | Zeitgeist all too well.
        
             | MoltenMan wrote:
             | > But the push for daily learning-reflecting-etc is there.
             | 
             | But this is a good thing; if I waste a day without learning
             | or doing anything, I feel bad about myself. And I want to
             | feel bad! Always pushing to improve myself has helped me
             | immensely. It's easy to keep telling yourself 'oh, I'll do
             | better tomorrow'; it's harder to actually do better
             | tomorrow.
             | 
             | That's not to say you shouldn't take it easy on yourself
             | every once in a while. But figuring out those exceptions
             | isn't what this article is about, and it's certainly not a
             | 'tyrannical' article. As a society I feel we have gone way
             | too far in this direction; sometimes life is hard!
             | Sometimes you have to do hard things! And often it will pay
             | off later in life and you'll be glad you put in the work.
        
       | rufius wrote:
       | See also, the OODA loop.
       | 
       | This lesson shows up periodically in different contexts. In the
       | case of OODA, it was fighter pilot dogfighting training.
       | 
       | It's a good practice to build into different parts of life.
        
       | bravesoul2 wrote:
       | I like this. My view is I aint doing it if it aint a system.
       | 
       | A system: change diet to always have at least 3 veg per meal. Do
       | that until you die.
       | 
       | A non-system: skip a meal and just eat soup for 30 days and try
       | to drop 10kg.
       | 
       | Not diet advice and some people may need to drop weight quickly
       | under doctor advise. But the general idea is to avoid will-power
       | driven outcomes and rely on habit and system driven outcomes.
       | 
       | Not clever org mode needed. To develop a habit just do it every
       | day. Track it somehow. Make it not too onerous. Forgive slip ups.
        
         | darth_avocado wrote:
         | I see it as designing choices. Want to eat healthy? Don't bring
         | the ice cream (or whatever else you struggle to eat less of) in
         | your home. Want to get up early? Start going to bed at 8 and
         | leave your phone in the other room. Want to exercise more
         | often? Force yourself to bike or walk to the grocery store
         | instead of jumping in the car.
        
         | genghisjahn wrote:
         | Main thing I learned with health and fitness is that, for me, I
         | was always trying to do right long enough so I could cheat and
         | "reward" myself. And that always lead to failure. I had to
         | change my mindset from, "Be good until you feel like you can be
         | bad" to ,"You've adopted a new lifestyle. This is you now.
         | You're not building up points so you can buy a whole pizza and
         | 3 beers. You're doing this because this is you now. This is the
         | reward, being able to run miles in the heat. Right now, sweat
         | all over you, breath going in and out. This is the reward." For
         | some reason that worked for me.
        
       | xyst wrote:
       | Wow, rehashing the same platitudes that have been retold
       | throughout the eternity. Why didn't I think of this, bro?
       | 
       | How insightful! When's the masterclass drop?
        
       | eaglelizard wrote:
       | How banal.
       | 
       | $0.02: the devil's in the details.
        
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