[HN Gopher] Try and
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       Try and
        
       Author : treetalker
       Score  : 364 points
       Date   : 2025-08-10 13:32 UTC (9 hours ago)
        
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       | treetalker wrote:
       | Prompted by reading an instance of "try and" instead of "try to"
       | in an HN-linked _Register_ article[1] this morning, I thought
       | this might be of interest to both non-native and native English
       | speakers in our community.
       | 
       | Try to ascertain why I'm on Team "Try To"! (If you feel like
       | trying and! J)
       | 
       | [1]: (https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=44854639)
        
         | quietbritishjim wrote:
         | I thought from the title that this was going to be about some
         | new exception handling mechanism in a programming language I'm
         | not familiar with. In fact, the article was even more
         | interesting than that, as I've often wondered about this in the
         | past but never quite got to looking it up. Thank you!
        
           | onionisafruit wrote:
           | That's exactly what happened with me. I expected some
           | interesting programming content but ended up spending 20
           | minutes (so far) thinking about English grammar.
        
         | cxr wrote:
         | In his comments on the use of symbols P and V in semaphores,
         | Dijkstra gave the reason for choosing P as it having come from
         | "probeer te verlagen", which he infamously explained that when
         | translated into English means "try and decrease" [sic].
        
       | dcminter wrote:
       | British English speaker here (southern demographic) - I'd say
       | "to" but "and" doesn't _feel_ wrong so I think it 's pretty
       | prevalent.
       | 
       | I'm curious how common it is in Indian English.
        
       | skrebbel wrote:
       | I'm not a native English speaker, but to me "try and" has always
       | conveyed a sense of more deliberate trying, of getting over
       | yourself, in the sense that the "try" means the choice to give it
       | a real proper go. So first you try (or, in fact, decide to try)
       | and then when you're fully committed and mentally prepared, then
       | you do it.
       | 
       | With an interpretation like this, none of the syntactical stuff
       | in this story seems useful anymore. You try, and then you do.
       | 
       | Does this make any sense at all or am I just a foreigner
       | imagining things?
        
         | avemg wrote:
         | I'm a native speaker from the US and I think you're imagining
         | things. "Try and" and "try to" are completely the same.
        
           | ale wrote:
           | The article literally shows the "bare form" example where
           | this kind of meaning can be inferred: e.g. "I will try and
           | finish the assignment."
        
             | weird-eye-issue wrote:
             | Which is identical to "I will try to finish the
             | assignment", so what's your point?
        
           | arduanika wrote:
           | I'm also a native speaker from the US. Non-native speakers
           | often have extra insight into the nuances of language, and I
           | think skrebbel's headcanon here is really interesting.
           | 
           | I almost see "try and" as a form of "manifesting", of
           | optimism, of believing that you will succeed. This would sort
           | of comport with what he's saying.
           | 
           | But any difference is subtle, and most native speakers won't
           | notice it, beyond maybe the more formal register of "try to".
        
             | sidibe wrote:
             | Usually these extra insights are interesting but incorrect.
             | Like here I think. I don't think there's any different
             | expectations between someone saying "try and" and "try to"
             | except it's maybe a very loosely correlated signal of
             | social class
             | 
             | Another example is I've seen people several times online
             | trying to argue y'all can be singular and all y'all is a
             | way to make it clearly plural. Ok it's interesting that
             | y'all is used as singular and all y'all isn't just about
             | inclusion, but its not true.
        
         | weird-eye-issue wrote:
         | "You try, and then you do."
         | 
         | But it doesn't mean that - it just means you will _try_ which
         | doesn 't actually imply any level of action
        
         | clocker wrote:
         | When you say "I'll try to do something..." you are giving a
         | heads up to the other person that you may give up on that thing
         | at any time. There is no commitment.
        
         | furyofantares wrote:
         | I think that's exactly right. I say "try to" in more neutral
         | situations, or noncommittal, or pessimistic. It conveys it's
         | not my top priority to succeed. "I'll try and get it done
         | today" is easy to imagine with a neutral tone or a downward
         | tone, conveying that I may not get to it and it isn't my top
         | priority. "I'll try and get it done today" is easier to imagine
         | with a chipper tone, it's a higher priority for me, I intend to
         | get to it.
         | 
         | This makes logical sense too, doesn't it? "Try and" implies
         | success. I'm not actually saying "I'll try to get it done and I
         | will get it done", if that was the case I'd skip the try, but I
         | am evoking an idea in that direction.
        
         | StevenWaterman wrote:
         | I'd describe it as:
         | 
         | - "try and" implies that the reason for failure is slightly
         | more likely to be from laziness / not actually attempting it
         | 
         | - "try to" implies that the reason for failure is slightly more
         | likely to be from incapability
         | 
         | As in:
         | 
         | - I'll try and kill the mosquito... that has been annoying me
         | all day
         | 
         | - I'll try to kill the mosquito... but it's quite hard to hit
         | with this gun
         | 
         | But nobody would notice if you used the wrong one.
        
           | echelon wrote:
           | I grew up in the Southeast, and this usage is common. Both in
           | Southern accents and AAVE.
           | 
           | I agree with skrebbel's feeling about the phrase, and I think
           | yours is also a little bit correct.
           | 
           | To add more character, I also think "try and" feels more
           | casual and friendly. Less like a technical suggestion and
           | more like a form of encouragement. More caring, less distance
           | or annoyance.
           | 
           | "You should try and get some sleep. [I care about you, you
           | poor thing.]" vs "You should try to get some sleep. [Why are
           | you still awake?]"
           | 
           | There's more closeness with "try and" and more distance with
           | "try to".
           | 
           | "Try to" feels formal, technical, distant. "Try and" feels
           | comforting, compassionate, friendly, but definitely not
           | something you'd use for a complex task.
           | 
           | I couldn't imagine "You should try and recalibrate your
           | photon detector" ever being said.
        
             | StevenWaterman wrote:
             | I definitely agree with the difference in formality.
             | 
             | > You should try and recalibrate your photon detector
             | 
             | I can totally imagine this, in a lab where all the
             | equipment is old, and out of calibration, and the person
             | saying it knows there are 10 other things that are more
             | important, but this thing is still pretty bad and they feel
             | obligated to point out the issue.
             | 
             | Whereas "try to calibrate" sounds to me like the process of
             | calibration is quite hard and it's likely to end up no
             | better calibrated than you started with.
        
               | dgfitz wrote:
               | It seems like you would say: You should try to
               | recalibrate your photon detector
               | 
               | To someone who asks for advice.
               | 
               | "I can't understand these results! You should try to..."
        
         | throwanem wrote:
         | It makes sense, as folk etymologies often do. But the phrase
         | acts in a more conditional manner in Southern American English
         | at least.
         | 
         | If I say "I'm going to change that light bulb," I'm probably
         | already getting up to fetch my toolbag.
         | 
         | If I say "I'll try and change that light bulb," I may be
         | wondering whether I have a spare or a ladder or something else
         | whose lack will interrupt the job, or in some other way
         | doubtful of success: the implication is I expect I may come
         | back and say something about the job other than that it's done.
         | 
         | If I say "Well, I might could try and change that light bulb,"
         | I probably don't mean in any particular hurry even to get up
         | off the couch, and indeed may already be dozing off.
        
       | Waterluvian wrote:
       | To me, "try to catch me!" feels more formal than "try and catch
       | me!" Which feels kinda playful, but are both saying basically the
       | same thing.
        
         | munchler wrote:
         | I think "try and" is used more by children than by adults,
         | which is why it works well in this sort of playful, childlike
         | phrase.
        
           | card_zero wrote:
           | Different sociolinguistic register, innit.
        
         | posix86 wrote:
         | Basically yes, but I do hear nuance, idk if it's right - "try
         | and" feels more daring, like "I think you can't", while "try
         | to" feels more neutral, just a command.
        
           | Waterluvian wrote:
           | Yeah like if a kid runs off and says "try to catch me!" It's
           | a "c'mon and play!" But "try and catch me" is a challenge, a
           | dare, a taunt even.
        
           | segmondy wrote:
           | You are right on the nuance. "try and catch me" for me, means
           | I'm going to give it my all not to be caught and I believe I
           | will not be caught. Good luck, try and catch me.
           | 
           | "Try to catch me" means I think you might have some chance.
        
       | shadowgovt wrote:
       | Hadn't heard about this project before; it's a really good idea.
       | 
       | English is not a language that either lends itself well to, or is
       | historically regulated by, prescriptivism (with a few specific
       | attempts that didn't claim universal adoption). Treating it as a
       | language where "If you've heard this novel construct, here's
       | where it came from and what it's related to" is a good way to
       | approach it.
       | 
       | (I liken it often to C++. C++ is so broad that the ways you can
       | glue features together are often novel and sometimes damn near
       | emergent. It's entirely possible to be "a fluent C++ user" and
       | never use curiously recurring template pattern, or consider case-
       | statement fallthrough a bug not a feature, and so on).
        
         | arduanika wrote:
         | Likewise. A really cool site.
         | 
         | The English language has so many little quirks. You can try to
         | document them all, and it's a fun endeavor, but you can't try
         | _and_ document them all.
        
         | umanwizard wrote:
         | What you're saying is probably true of all human languages. I
         | don't know of any where usage is actually governed by a
         | governing body. Some try, e.g. the French Academy, but they are
         | widely ignored in actual usage.
        
       | koops wrote:
       | Randy Meisner was not trying "to" love again. Usage settled.
        
       | raldi wrote:
       | I think most of the mysteries in this piece can be explained if
       | "try and stop me" just an abbreviation for "try to stop me and
       | see if you can".
        
         | foolswisdom wrote:
         | This is also in line with skrebbel's observation in this thread
         | that the phrase indicates a focused attempt.
        
         | foldr wrote:
         | I don't think that's anything like the meaning of "I'll try and
         | go to the store tomorrow". There's no implication that anyone
         | is trying to stop me.
         | 
         | Also, your abbreviation analysis would still leave a syntactic
         | mystery, as that sort of ellipsis doesn't seem to follow any
         | general attested pattern of ellipsis in English.
        
           | OJFord wrote:
           | That example would be something like 'I'll try to go to the
           | store tomorrow and see if I can' along the lines GP suggests.
           | 'stop me' only came from the specific example they were
           | using.
        
             | foldr wrote:
             | You can actually construct this using regular VP ellipsis
             | (or possibly Right Node Raising?) in English, but it sounds
             | weird and doesn't convey the same meaning. So I don't think
             | so.
             | 
             | "I'll try to ___ and see if I can go to the store
             | tomorrow". [where ___ is the VP 'go to the store']
             | 
             | Then you have the various syntactic facts mentioned in the
             | article , such as the possibility of wh-extraction. This
             | isn't possible in an analogous ellipsis construction:
             | 
             | "What did you try and eat?"
             | 
             | * "What did you try to and see if you can eat?"
             | 
             | There's also an interesting tense restriction which
             | suggests that there's no independent elided clause:
             | 
             | *"I tried and go/went to the store yesterday."
        
               | cwmoore wrote:
               | "What did you try but spit out?"
        
               | foldr wrote:
               | That's a regular case of across-the-board extraction from
               | a coordination (where 'try' has a nominal direct object
               | rather than a clausal complement):
               | 
               | What did you try ___ but spit ___ out?
               | 
               | The examples in the linked article involve extraction
               | from just one coordinand, which is impossible in "real"
               | coordinate structures.
        
               | cwmoore wrote:
               | Your examples are not ringing bells for me as a native
               | speaker. The linguistics terms may or may not be
               | confounding, but are too unfamiliar for me to discuss.
               | 
               | "Try, and [if successful] [do the thing]."
        
               | foldr wrote:
               | Sorry, I don't understand what you are getting at. What
               | is the significance of the quoted sentence?
        
           | everybodyknows wrote:
           | > I don't think that's anything like the meaning of
           | 
           | Parent post said "most"; you've identified an exception.
        
             | foldr wrote:
             | If you check the parent comment, the 'most' applied to the
             | fraction of mysteries, not the the fraction of instances of
             | the construction that the analysis is supposed to apply to.
             | But anyway, this isn't an exception. The overwhelming
             | generalization is that "try and do X" means the same as
             | "try to do X". This holds for imperatives like the OP's
             | example just as much as for my examples. There's very
             | little difference between the to/and variants of any of the
             | following:
             | 
             | Try and/to do it quietly
             | 
             | Try and/to be a little more polite.
             | 
             | Try and/to hand your homework in on time.
             | 
             | I agree that in some specific cases there are slightly
             | different shades of meaning. However, this doesn't seem to
             | be a very systematic phenomenon, or one that obviously
             | justifies the assumption that "try and" is an elliptical
             | expression of a complex multi-clausal construction.
        
         | echelon wrote:
         | I also like how several linguists attempt to call out this
         | usage as wrong:
         | 
         | > deemed prescriptively incorrect (Routledge 1864:579 in D.
         | Ross 2013a:120; Partridge 1947:338, Crews et al. 1989:656 in
         | Brook & Tagliamonte 2016:320).
         | 
         | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Linguistic_prescription
         | 
         | You can't really reign in language.
        
           | foldr wrote:
           | The people they're citing are either authors of usage guides
           | or linguists who are simply noting that the usage has been
           | deemed incorrect by some of the former.
        
           | orwin wrote:
           | If a modern linguist call any usage as wrong, I would ask for
           | his diploma and check if I have to close his university,
           | because clearly they shouldn't teach linguistics 101, let
           | alone bring someone towards a PhD. Linguistics is
           | descriptive, not prescriptive.
        
           | unscaled wrote:
           | These are not linguists doing that. No self-respecting
           | linguists will waste time doing prescriptivism. These are two
           | linguistic articles about this constructs that are quoting
           | amateur language usage manuals. The oldest one is a boys
           | magazine[1] published in 1864 discussing "the Queen's
           | English"[2]. The newest one (Crews et al.) seems to be an
           | obscure usage manual for writers[3].
           | 
           | As demonstrated here, "try and" is older and more "original"
           | than "try to", if not contemporary with it. Any other reason
           | why would "try to" be more "correct" cannot even make sense
           | as anything more than a purely uneducated opinion. When you
           | dig deep into most examples of perspectivism you'll usually
           | run into the same story too. "Incorrect" forms often predate
           | the "correct" forms and are often employed by respected
           | writers (such as Shakespeare and Jane Austen). And even if
           | they don't, there isn't really any scientific ground to brand
           | one form as incorrect.
           | 
           | Linguists do not generally engage in linguist prescriptivism.
           | As far as I'm concerned (and I believe most linguists would
           | agree), this is stylistic opinion at best and pseudoscience
           | at worst. Still, it's not linguists can do anything to stop
           | amateurs from publishing prescriptive language usage manuals,
           | so you'll always have people who claim that "try and" or
           | "ain't" or "me and my friend went for a walk" are incorrect.
           | 
           | [1] https://www.victorianresearch.org/atcl/show_periodical.ph
           | p?j...
           | 
           | [2] Yes, this is Edmund Routledge whose father is the
           | namesake of the present scholarly publisher, but they were
           | just publishing popular books back in the 19th century.
           | 
           | [3] https://www.amazon.co.jp/-/en/Frederick-
           | Crews/dp/0070136386
        
           | umanwizard wrote:
           | Linguists don't say varieties are right or wrong (even though
           | they might have private aesthetic opinions like everyone
           | else). That would be like a biologist saying dogs are the
           | correct version of mammals and cats are wrong and/or don't
           | exist.
        
             | menage wrote:
             | Biologists actually say the opposite of that!
             | 
             | https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/cats-are-
             | perfect-...
        
           | tigen wrote:
           | *rein in
           | 
           | Some things like this are nevertheless generally known to be
           | wrong despite usage
        
             | tomsmeding wrote:
             | Though you also can't reign, in language.
        
           | DonHopkins wrote:
           | And this is why I cringe whenever somebody tries to defend
           | Perl's syntax by perlsplaining "But Larry Wall is a
           | linguist!"
        
         | WaxProlix wrote:
         | This is a good intuition. The construction is actually
         | sometimes jokingly called the "Try And"-C, where "C" stands for
         | Complementizer, a thing that introduces and subordinates a
         | clause.
        
         | onionisafruit wrote:
         | You can also interpret the Dr Dre quote an abbreviation of,
         | "I'm gonna try (to change the course of hip hop again) and
         | change the course of hip hop again."
         | 
         | In this form "try and" means you will try to do something and
         | that you will succeed. Some of the articles tests make more
         | sense in this light; Of course you wouldn't reorder the trying
         | and the succeeding because that's the order the events will
         | happen.
         | 
         | This ignores the fact that "try and" developed concurrently
         | with "try to" and possibly before. So it wasn't originally an
         | abbreviation for a phrase that was yet to be established.
        
           | jjmarr wrote:
           | "I have tried and finished my homework" is correct to my ear
           | (possibly because I'm Canadian), but it means successful
           | completion as opposed to "I have tried to finish my homework"
           | implying I didn't get around to it.
        
           | hyperpape wrote:
           | That's not what "try and" means though. It's perfectly fine
           | to say "I'm gonna try and fix this" when you don't know if
           | you can fix it.
           | 
           | (Source: I say that shit all the time).
        
         | samiskin wrote:
         | I think this capture's the essence better than anything else,
         | "try and" simply behaving as "try and see if I can" (or
         | whatever fits instead of "I" here)
        
         | bendigedig wrote:
         | I think "Try and X" means "Try to X and do X" which means to my
         | mind means to attempt and, upon success of the trial, to
         | complete X.
         | 
         | "I'll try and eat the salad." could be expressed as "I'll try
         | eating some of the salad and, if possible, finish eating it."
        
       | throwanem wrote:
       | Good grief. Quote Dre up top, then totally ignore AAVE and
       | Southern American English which both heavily feature the
       | construction of interest, despite being interested to find out
       | what the Boer pidgin, of all things, has to say. (Why not Basque
       | next? That would be about as relevant!) This they call a
       | linguistic _diversity_ project? Surely they could not have found
       | themselves short of sources!
        
         | _jab wrote:
         | AAVE is definitely underappreciated as the source of a lot of
         | common modern slang. But in this case, the article makes it
         | pretty clear that "try and" is not nearly modern enough to have
         | come from AAVE - they show several attestations from the 1500s
         | and even mention one from 1390.
        
           | throwanem wrote:
           | If they had headed the first section differently, I would
           | credit this argument. Under the name "Who says this?" as at
           | present it bears, and with nothing there or elsewhere to
           | justify the substantial and obvious exclusion, that section
           | is substantially incomplete.
           | 
           |  _edit:_ But so is your own criticism, in that it ignores
           | AAVE is not the only dialect I mentioned. It isn 't even one
           | I would say I really speak, except inasmuch as AAVE and my
           | own SAE heavily overlap as the close siblings they are. Both
           | deserve to be treated, not least for that interrelationship,
           | as well as the one you mention with their forcible
           | deracination into mesolect and acrolect slang, where the
           | class origin makes such terms feel "edgy."
        
       | refactor_master wrote:
       | Interestingly this pattern also exists in Danish (though not for
       | the same reasons). Correctly speaking you'd say "try to..." which
       | is "prov at...", but since the infinitive "at" and "og" sort of
       | both turned into /@/ when quickly spoken and you get "prov
       | og...".
        
         | arnsholt wrote:
         | Pseudo coordination is a fun phenomenon in Scandinavian. Lots
         | of detail in NALS: https://tekstlab.uio.no/nals#/chapter/65 but
         | an important difference with English is that the Scandinavian
         | construction occurs with many more verbs in the first conjunct,
         | not just _try_.
        
       | OJFord wrote:
       | I don't understand the 'both is not possible' point, the example
       | given just doesn't even attempt to add a second thing?
       | 
       | > John will both try and kill mosquitos[, and find where they're
       | coming from].
       | 
       | Works fine?
        
         | CGamesPlay wrote:
         | The conjunction is "and", as in "try and kill" vs "kill and
         | try".
        
         | zahlman wrote:
         | The point specifically is that the "and" in "try and"
         | conceptually should be "adding a second thing" (what they mean
         | by "coordination"), but isn't doing so in a fully regular way.
         | Specifically, it seems like it should coordinate "try to kill
         | mosquitos" and "[actually] kill mosquitos", but that
         | interpretation isn't fully compatible with how the word "and"
         | normally works.
         | 
         | On the other hand, there does seem to be a nuance in the
         | meaning of "try and kill mosquitos" that makes it not just a
         | dialectical form of "try to kill mosquitos"; there's an
         | implication of expecting success. One might also point out that
         | "try" can be replaced with synonyms in "try to" ("attempt to
         | kill mosquitos"), but not "try and" (*"attempt and kill
         | mosquitos"). So this is a very particular idiom.
        
           | OJFord wrote:
           | Ahh, got it, thanks - re-reading it makes more sense with the
           | example of it being possible:
           | 
           | > Usually, coordinated verb phrases can be preceded by both:
           | 
           | > 9) Reality is Broken will both [stimulate your brain and
           | stir your soul].
           | 
           | which would be a better example and clearer to me the first
           | time if it didn't use two nouns ('stimulate and stir your
           | soul').
        
       | starstripe wrote:
       | To me "try and" is like a more confident version of "try to." For
       | example, "I will try to win" vs "I'll try and win."
        
         | o11c wrote:
         | That would be "try, and".
         | 
         | Although the default rule for conjunctions joining predicates
         | is that the comma is optional (by contrast, in most other
         | contexts it is either mandatory or forbidden), there are a
         | _lot_ of circumstances where the comma becomes mandatory to
         | avoid ambiguity or just because.
        
         | Etheryte wrote:
         | The two are not interchangeable though, as shown in the
         | article. If someone asks you "Are you going to win?", you could
         | say "I'll try to", but not "I'll try and".
        
         | selimthegrim wrote:
         | Not sure this works in simple past though. Cf. Dune "They tried
         | and failed? They tried and died"
        
       | zvr wrote:
       | The whole parent directory of "Phenomena"
       | https://ygdp.yale.edu/phenomena-by-category is an amazing source
       | of information!
        
         | StevenWaterman wrote:
         | I might have to adopt this way of differeniating OR and XOR in
         | English https://ygdp.yale.edu/phenomena/alternative-one
        
       | jp0001 wrote:
       | Every time I read something like this, I remember that there is
       | truly no correct way to say something - all that matters is that
       | your intended audience understands it, eventually.
        
         | bjackman wrote:
         | Yep "correctness" only exists contextually. A language teacher
         | can say "no that's wrong" with the implied meaning of "that
         | doesnt follow the patterns of the dialect I'm teaching you".
         | Ditto for newspaper editors and their house style.
         | 
         | But in 99% of situations no such context exists and "that's
         | grammatically incorrect" is a bullshit statement.
         | 
         | In the UK when someone "corrects" language what they are very
         | often doing is engaging in class signalling. It's widely done
         | and widely accepted but personally I think it's pointless and
         | somewhat toxic.
         | 
         | (Note many languages have government-sanctioned standard forms
         | of the language, but what I said is still true there too.
         | Nobody speaks that dialect and nobody should be expected to.
         | It's just a "reference implementation".)
        
           | Swizec wrote:
           | > Note many languages have government-sanctioned standard
           | forms of the language, but what I said is still true there
           | too. Nobody speaks that dialect and nobody should be expected
           | to. It's just a "reference implementation".
           | 
           | Many of those languages have mutually unintelligible
           | dialects. The reference implementation exists to patch
           | communication when you run into trouble with people who
           | aren't from your village.
           | 
           | Even American English has this. People from Appalachia
           | register switch to more standard English when they're not
           | home, for example. Or a high schooler will tamper their slang
           | when talking to grandma.
           | 
           | You could also argue international business English is a
           | contrived dialect used primarily by ESL speakers. It
           | definitely has many differences from any English spoken
           | natively at home.
        
             | bjackman wrote:
             | Yes I experience this regularly with Hochdeutsch and I
             | stand by my point. You still don't speak the language
             | exactly as specified and it's still nonsensical to
             | "correct" someone's grammar/pronunciation if you understood
             | them.
        
           | umanwizard wrote:
           | > In the UK when someone "corrects" language what they are
           | very often doing is engaging in class signalling.
           | 
           | Same is true in the US, though ethnicity is in the mix too.
           | White and black Americans are historically distinct cultural
           | groups which speak different dialects (though obviously,
           | since the end of slavery and segregation the groups are
           | mixing more and more). It is no coincidence that varieties
           | spoken by white people ended up as the "standard".
        
         | physarum_salad wrote:
         | Yes and constantly obstructing communication is annoying and
         | boring!
         | 
         | Imagine sitting listening to a lecture on quantum effects in
         | biology or something similarly fascinating and someone in the
         | audience obstructs because the lecturer said paetent not patent
         | (or vice versa). Tediomania is awful..feel bad for those
         | affected.
        
           | tux1968 wrote:
           | > Tediomania is awful..feel bad for those affected.
           | 
           | Ellipses are properly written as three dots.
        
             | physarum_salad wrote:
             | Anything over one dot communicates the idea effectively..
             | the difference between two or three dots is irrelevant...
             | Ellipses look like squares......... Close up they are
             | circles....
        
               | layer8 wrote:
               | That's not true. With two dots, it can as plausibly be a
               | typo of a single dot. In fact, in your GP post I was
               | assuming that you hit the dot key a second time instead
               | of the space key by mistake, and ignored the resulting
               | lack of auto-capitalization. (Granted, the fact that
               | ellipses are usually separated by a space from what
               | follows also played a role.)
        
               | physarum_salad wrote:
               | This is tedium... what was the original message about?
               | Can't remember now!
        
         | jfengel wrote:
         | As far as grammar is concerned, yes, that's true.
         | 
         | But register also matters. A communication is about much more
         | than the surface meaning. It conveys a lot about the
         | relationship between speaker and listener. Some languages
         | formalize that grammatically, but it's present in myriad other
         | ways.
         | 
         | Adhering to the arbitrary rules of correctness is one. Saying
         | "try and" in a resume cover letter probably conveys a message
         | of slackness and over-familiarity. Which might be a deliberate
         | choice, but you're better off if you at least know you're
         | making it.
        
           | lblume wrote:
           | I fail to imagine how one could use "try and" in a resume,
           | without actively trying to.
        
         | gwd wrote:
         | > I remember that there is truly no correct way to say
         | something
         | 
         | Weirdly, that's not what this says. It specifically says you
         | can't say this:
         | 
         | > * John will both try and kill mosquitos.
         | 
         | or
         | 
         | > * I tried and finished the assignment
         | 
         | or
         | 
         | > * Try always and tell the truth
         | 
         | What I'd say instead is: If native speakers say something, then
         | it's grammatically correct. What you were taught is the
         | "prescribed grammar" or "prestige grammar".
         | 
         | Also, grammar is voted on by speakers of a language. I'm
         | generally against making fun of people for deviating from the
         | prestige grammar; but I will "vote against" using the word
         | "literally" to mean "figuratively" as long as I can.
        
           | leeoniya wrote:
           | > but I will "vote against" using the word "literally" to
           | mean "figuratively" as long as I can.
           | 
           | https://imgur.com/QBTlxf7
        
             | MengerSponge wrote:
             | A real flammable/inflammable moment
        
           | strken wrote:
           | > If native speakers say something, then it's grammatically
           | correct.
           | 
           | In their dialect, sure. In any given dialect, who knows?
           | 
           | Any speaker of a dialect that isn't West Coast American has
           | likely watched actors who live in Los Angeles try, and fail,
           | to speak their dialect.
        
             | umanwizard wrote:
             | Of course. Just like what I'm writing now isn't
             | grammatically correct Spanish or Chinese.
        
               | strken wrote:
               | Well, no, but I can't understand 99% of Spanish and
               | Chinese using my knowledge of my native English dialect,
               | so I'm not going to lecture Spanish or Chinese speakers
               | on correct grammar.
               | 
               | My point was that differences between dialects drive a
               | lot of arguments about grammar. If I'm annoyed about the
               | phrase "could care less" then that originates in my
               | native dialect not allowing it. Not being part of the
               | prestige grammar is secondary, as is whether the phrase
               | makes any logical sense.
        
           | mjevans wrote:
           | In that context, 'literally' as figuratively makes the same
           | sense as inflammable and flammable.
           | 
           | It's just one more errata in a language that's filled with
           | horrible hacks from centuries of iterative development.
           | 
           | My hill to die on would be exactly one way (NOT the funky
           | dictionary way!) of spelling words exactly as they should be
           | pronounced and writing them back similarly.
           | 
           | The hill to die on part of that is they need to start with
           | children, teach them ONLY the correct way of spelling words
           | as use in school and stick to it. While we're at it, FFS, do
           | metric measures conversion the same way. Cold turkey force
           | it, and bleed in dual measures and spelling with a cutover
           | plan that starts to make the new correct way required to be
           | larger text by the time the grade -2 kids graduate. (So about
           | a 14-15 year plan.) That's to give all us adults time to bash
           | into our heads the new spellings for old words too.
           | 
           | Why can't it be dictionary spelling? Offhand, 1) those
           | phonetics aren't used quite like that anywhere else. 2) those
           | phonetics are more strongly based on the other languages in
           | Europe so the structure isn't as expected. I'd sooner force
           | everyone to learn how to write TUNIC's shapes... though
           | there's some coverage issues for that.
           | 
           | Effectively I want different shapes for the chart ( https://e
           | n.wikipedia.org/wiki/International_Phonetic_Alphabe... ) that
           | DO NOT MATCH EXISTING ENGLISH LETTERS so that when I look at
           | a 'new spelling' my old pronunciation programmed brain
           | doesn't index the wrong lookup table.
        
             | cgriswald wrote:
             | The problem with "one spelling the way it is said" is that
             | (1) pronunciation varies among native speakers even within
             | the same country or region. (So, at best, you'd have to
             | pick a winner or just count them all as different languages
             | with their own spellings.) (2) Pronunciation drifts over
             | time (and I'm not sure an official spelling and
             | pronunciation could stop it).
        
               | umanwizard wrote:
               | The other reason is that there are many countries that
               | speak English, and the largest and most powerful one is
               | too politically dysfunctional to ever agree on something
               | that would be this controversial.
        
             | wingspar wrote:
             | How would that work for wood?
        
             | seanhunter wrote:
             | Not going to happen. No one's ever going to successfully
             | retrofit a logical system into English. English has even
             | got two words (guarantee and warrantee) which are spelled
             | and pronounced slightly different while meaning the same
             | thing because they were borrowed from French separately at
             | different times.
        
               | umanwizard wrote:
               | There are loads of examples like that. Guard and ward,
               | for example.
        
           | bryanrasmussen wrote:
           | >Try always and tell the truth
           | 
           | I think the article is incorrect on this though, try always
           | and tell the truth is a perfectly fine albeit slightly
           | anachronistic usage that would mean
           | 
           | Whatever you do you must always try (that is to say not give
           | up), and tell the truth.
           | 
           | One might also assume that you should tell the truth about
           | trying always is the meaning, but at any rate it is not a
           | phrasing that would be out of order a few hundred years ago.
        
             | losvedir wrote:
             | That's not the point. While it's a valid sentence, as you
             | point out, it means something different from "try and
             | always tell the truth".
             | 
             | In contrast "try to always tell the truth" and "try always
             | to tell the truth" are both valid and mean the same thing.
        
           | cgriswald wrote:
           | Although it is a little odd and I'm not certain I've seen it
           | in writing, I have definitely heard constructions like "John
           | will both try and kill mosquitos." to mean, "John will both
           | _attempt to_ and _succeed in_ kill[ing] mosquitos. "
           | 
           | "John will both try and like sushi" makes perfect sense,
           | although there's an implied "to eat" verb separate from the
           | "to like" verb in there that isn't present in the
           | constructions the article is talking about.
           | 
           | Likewise, "I tried and finished the assignment," means "I
           | tried (to do) the assignment and I finished it." Again, maybe
           | not in writing, but with a certain inflection on 'tried'
           | (where in writing maybe you'd put a comma or semi-colon to
           | indicate a pause) this is something people actually say;
           | although they may emphasis it with "I _finally_ tried and
           | _actually_ finished the assignment. " (Whereas maybe
           | previously they weren't confident they could even do it and
           | maybe _didn 't_ try.)
           | 
           | Included for no real reason: "They tried and failed, all of
           | them?" "Oh, no." She shook her head. "They tried and died."
        
             | amenhotep wrote:
             | These are all just different constructions that are related
             | to "try and" only by coincidence. The fact that a different
             | construction looks similar to a grammatically incoherent
             | one by coincidence doesn't make the incoherent one
             | coherent.
        
               | mikepurvis wrote:
               | I disagree. GP is laying is laying out reasonable
               | scenarios that are a few dropped/implied words away from
               | the otherwise incoherent ones. For my part, this one is
               | very grating to my ears:
               | 
               | "Try and tell the truth"
               | 
               | Since it clearly should be "try _to_ tell the truth "
               | 
               | However this one, while similar in construction, doesn't
               | actually sound nearly as bad:
               | 
               | "Try and finish the assignment"
               | 
               | It can be fixed the same way ("try to finish") but it
               | also accept GP's form too, which would be "try (to work
               | hard) and (see if you can) finish the assignment". As I
               | say, for whatever reason this second example sounds much
               | more reasonable to me-- I think at least in part my brain
               | is much more accepting of a word that feels dropped than
               | one that's misused.
        
               | csande17 wrote:
               | There's a more standard, general rule in English grammar
               | that web searches tell me is called "delayed right
               | constituent coordination". It lets you read sentences
               | like "He washed and dried the clothes" as "He washed [the
               | clothes] and dried the clothes." The same object gets
               | applied to both verbs.
               | 
               | I suspect that's what you're applying to these sentences.
               | "Try and finish the assignment" makes some sense under
               | this rule if you read it as "Try [the assignment,] and
               | finish the assignment" -- an "assignment" is a thing that
               | makes sense to "try". ("He tried [sushi,] and liked
               | sushi" works for the same reason.) But "Try [the truth,]
               | and tell the truth" doesn't work -- it doesn't make sense
               | to interpret "trying" the truth as some separate action
               | you're taking before you "tell" it.
               | 
               | So probably you just don't have the article's special
               | try-and "pseudo-coordination" rule in your dialect.
        
               | mikepurvis wrote:
               | This makes a lot of sense, and it definitely explains
               | where other "try and" sentences work while "try and
               | finish" doesn't at all.
        
               | ricardobeat wrote:
               | The _try and_ in "try and tell the truth" is a different
               | idiom from "[try] and [x]" as two separate actions. It
               | can almost always be replaced with "try to".
               | 
               | For example, in "let's try and finish this" it does not
               | mean _trying_ then _finishing_ , it is _try to finish_.
               | The construction is more obvious in a phrase like "try
               | and stop me". This phrasing is very common in movies, it
               | might just not be as popular in your area.
        
               | oasisbob wrote:
               | Those examples seem to differ significantly because
               | they're using "try" as an imperative.
        
           | aswanson wrote:
           | Irregardless of this, what's your take on irregardless?
        
             | seanhunter wrote:
             | Irregardless is fine and people who try to be pedantic
             | about it are just mistaken. It is literally in the
             | dictionary as an intensified form of "regardless".
        
           | umanwizard wrote:
           | Nobody has ever used "literally" to mean "figuratively".
           | That's a common misconception and/or a strawman from people
           | who want to stick to the original meaning of "literally".
           | 
           | If that were the meaning, you would be able to say things
           | like "I stubbed my toe and it hurts so bad I'm figuratively
           | dying", mirroring the colloquial meaning of "literally". But
           | nobody says this.
           | 
           | The _actual_ new and non-traditional meaning of "literally"
           | is as a generic intensifier, see e.g.
           | https://en.m.wiktionary.org/wiki/literally
           | 
           | Oh, and by the way, the "traditional" meaning isn't even the
           | first one. According to my OED second edition, "literal"
           | meaning "Of a translation, version, transcript, etc.:
           | Representing the very words of the original; verbally exact."
           | is only attested since 1599.
           | 
           | The actual original meaning of "literal": "of or pertaining
           | to letters of the alphabet; of the nature of letters,
           | alphabetical" is attested since 1475.
        
             | antonvs wrote:
             | > The actual original meaning of "literal": "of or
             | pertaining to letters of the alphabet; of the nature of
             | letters, alphabetical" is attested since 1475.
             | 
             | That meaning comes from the Latin "littera"/"litera",
             | meaning letter or character. Words like "transliteration"
             | are based on this root meaning
             | (https://www.etymonline.com/word/transliteration)
             | 
             | Here's the page for "literal":
             | https://www.etymonline.com/word/literal
        
             | card_zero wrote:
             | But your link gives two senses, and it's the second one
             | that applies here: "Used as an intensifier with statements
             | or terms that are in fact meant figuratively and not word
             | for word as stated". And Wiktionary offers the synonyms
             | _virtually_ and _so to speak._
             | 
             | "it hurts so bad I'm intensely dying" would be wrong too.
             | It's more than an intensifier, it _also_ means
             | "figuratively".
        
               | dragonwriter wrote:
               | > It's more than an intensifier, it also means
               | "figuratively".
               | 
               | No, its an intensifier for things which are contextually
               | unambiguously figurative. It doesn't _communicate_ that
               | the use is figurative, it communicates intensity. The
               | figurative nature of the expression is understood from
               | context, not the use of the word  "literally".
        
               | umanwizard wrote:
               | > Used as an intensifier with statements or terms that
               | are in fact meant figuratively and not word for word as
               | stated
               | 
               | That is not the same as the meaning of "figuratively"!
               | 
               | "'Literally' is used with statements that are meant
               | figuratively" does not mean the same thing as
               | "'Literally' means 'figuratively'".
               | 
               | > "it hurts so bad I'm intensely dying" would be wrong
               | too
               | 
               | Indeed, because "intensely" is not an intensifier. In
               | your example, "intensely" modifies "dying", whereas
               | "literally" modifies _the tone of your utterance_.
               | 
               | For an example of another intensifier: "it hurts so bad
               | I'm fucking dying" would work.
               | 
               | Nobody would claim that "fucking" means the same thing as
               | "figuratively" in this sentence, even though the sentence
               | is itself figurative.
        
             | gwd wrote:
             | > The actual new and non-traditional meaning of "literally"
             | is as a generic intensifier
             | 
             | "Literally" is used as an intensifier in two situations:
             | 
             | 1. When speaking neither figuratively nor hyperbolically --
             | i.e., when the thing you're saying is... er, literally
             | true. (e.g., "The beach is literally a five-minute walk
             | from my house"; "You literally fold the cravat like this")
             | 
             | 2. When speaking either figuratively or hyperbolically
             | (e.g., "My head literally exploded"; "The island was
             | literally catapulted into the 21st century")
             | 
             | I have no problem with the first; I do it myself. It's the
             | second I object to.
             | 
             | Why? The hint is in #1 -- right now, literally is the only
             | word we have to say that this _actually_ _really_ happened,
             | that what 's being said is neither figurative nor
             | hyperbolic.
             | 
             | That is, the first is not a _generic_ intensifier. It
             | intensifies it _because it 's actually true_.
             | 
             | Loads of other words that used to perform the same function
             | have become meaningless intensifiers: "really" (from
             | "real"), "very" (from "verily" -> "in truth"), "truly".
             | 
             | I think language should be practical. Double negatives are
             | perfectly understandable and feel to me more poetic (if
             | less logically expressive). Using "they" for a single
             | person of unspecified gender is a practical and long-
             | standing solution to a real problem. "Megabyte" is a lot
             | easier to say than "mebibyte".
             | 
             | And, we need a word to mean "I'm not speaking figuratively
             | or hyperbolically"; we don't need Yet Another Meaningless
             | Intensifier. We have "literally", let's keep it.
        
           | ecocentrik wrote:
           | Dr Dre is a professional poet and a very successful one by
           | any standard. His whole stock-in-trade was American urban
           | colloquialisms most of which can be traced back to English
           | rural and working class and predate the colonization of the
           | Americas. The early development of English "prestige grammar"
           | and word usage dates back to the court of William the
           | Conqueror and the reintroduction of romance linguistic
           | influence on Anglo-Saxon English that lead to the development
           | of Middle English by the 13th Century. What you understand as
           | English "prestige grammar" today is a moving target,
           | consistently evolving but still full of contradictions and
           | single-case rules. Many popular European languages today have
           | been modified to exclude these linguistic anomalies, making
           | them more consistent, less error prone and easier to learn. I
           | expect the same thing will be done to the English language
           | over the next century.
        
             | antonvs wrote:
             | *stock-in-trade: https://www.merriam-
             | webster.com/dictionary/stock-in-trade
             | 
             | Sorry, in this thread, I had to!
             | 
             | > I expect the same thing will be done to the English
             | language over the next century.
             | 
             | This has already been happening in English, for centuries.
             | Compare these examples given in the article to modern
             | English:
             | 
             | > 3) ...howe and by what certaine and generall rule I
             | mighte trye and throughly discerne the veritie of the
             | catholike faithe, from the falsehood of wicked heresye...
             | (1554) > 4) You maie (saide I) trie and bring him in, and
             | shewe him to her. (1569)
             | 
             | I suppose after more than 450 years, one might expect even
             | more simplification, but it is perhaps the fate of a lingua
             | franca to have more "backward compatibility" than less
             | widely-used languages.
        
               | ecocentrik wrote:
               | My point was that English has been changing and in some
               | instances those changes might have occurred to remove
               | anomalous characteristics but English does have more old
               | warts than most popular languages and I expect many of
               | those will be removed as English recedes from its
               | position of dominance over the next century.
        
           | phkahler wrote:
           | >> but I will "vote against" using the word "literally" to
           | mean "figuratively" as long as I can.
           | 
           | Can we have also declare war on using "exponentially" in
           | place of "significantly"?
        
             | Quekid5 wrote:
             | Interesting use of "declare war" there... :)
             | 
             | I understand the feeling, but language is what language
             | does. It will change and you will notice those changes if
             | you're alive long enough :)
             | 
             | Even prescriptivist languages (as my own native language
             | tends to be) cannot escape. I'm bad at my own native
             | language because I've been living elsewhere for very
             | long... but not as bad as the Kids These Days :)
        
               | card_zero wrote:
               | You can participate in these changes. You can participate
               | by resisting if you want. That's not futile, it's part of
               | the process.
        
               | umanwizard wrote:
               | There is no such thing as a "prescriptive language". What
               | would that mean?
               | 
               | No living language is only used according to the rules
               | laid down by grammar teachers. The only languages that
               | are are dead languages like Latin with zero native
               | speakers.
        
           | LudwigNagasena wrote:
           | > If native speakers say something, then it's grammatically
           | correct.
           | 
           | What if two non-native speakers say something and understand
           | each other?
        
             | ricardobeat wrote:
             | Then they're having a useful, but not grammatically
             | correct, conversation.
        
               | antonvs wrote:
               | It may be grammatically correct in the dialect they're
               | using.
               | 
               | There's plenty of mutually-intelligible English spoken
               | outside of primarily English-speaking countries which
               | native English speakers would _consider_ ungrammatical,
               | but that 's only relative to their own dialect.
        
             | layer8 wrote:
             | That's a pidgin.
        
           | dsr_ wrote:
           | Although it doesn't work for mosquitos, it does work for
           | "bandits":
           | 
           | John will both try and kill bandits.
           | 
           | ... meaning that John will serve as judge and executioner, if
           | not jury.
        
             | gwd wrote:
             | Here's where HN needs a "cry-laughing" emoji. :-)
        
         | throwanem wrote:
         | Sure, but you do still have to try and get your point across.
        
         | omnicognate wrote:
         | That depends on the purpose of your writing.
        
         | mikewarot wrote:
         | As a EE wannabe, I see everything in terms of impedance
         | matching. It's all a very high dimension matching problem we
         | tend to get good at, in order to survive.
        
         | da_chicken wrote:
         | I've thought a lot about this one. It really is the message
         | that matters, not the grammar. It's the song, not the notes.
         | 
         | It's also that language is pretty inherently a very fuzzy,
         | ambiguous, and imprecise thing. If I say, "I've left my cup on
         | the table," then you know what I mean even though you've never
         | seen my cup nor my table. Everyone reading that sentence is
         | equally convinced that it's quite concrete, even though
         | everyone is also imagining a completely different cup on a
         | completely different table.
         | 
         | Even more fascinating, it's likely that nobody that ever reads
         | this post will have met me in person. We have not specifically
         | agreed in advance what our words mean, merely relied upon
         | collective agreement based solely on historic usage.
         | 
         | Honestly, the idea that two people who have never met, never
         | seen each other, maybe never even lived in the same hemisphere,
         | might speak the same language and be able to converse freely is
         | an _astonishing_ feat of magic.
        
         | godelski wrote:
         | I think of language like a lossy encoder-decoder system.
         | 
         | You compress/encode your _thoughts_ into words. The the
         | listener /reader decompresses/decodes your _words_ into
         | thoughts. As long as we don 't think thoughts and words are the
         | same thing, then yeah, you're right.
         | 
         | I think this also helps with communication in general because
         | it forces you to think more about what someone is saying.
         | There's no way you can put all your thoughts into words.
         | Decoding is highly affected by prior knowledge, culture, and
         | all that jazz. It's why you can make a confusing array of
         | unintelligible noises and gestures at a friend and they'll
         | understand but everyone else around is left confused. I think
         | this also explains a lot of fights on the internet, as it is
         | easy to misinterpret and with no perfect encoding it's hard to
         | write to an audience of everyone.
        
         | quotemstr wrote:
         | > there is truly no correct way to say something
         | 
         | Yes, there is. Linguistic descriptivism is a stale 1960s
         | academic fad wrapped up in a revolutionary energy that's dead
         | and cringe now. Like that era's other insane postmodernisms, it
         | rejects reality and reality has rejected it right back.
         | 
         | "Truly", we understand each other better and communicate faster
         | when draw speech from a a collection of words, idioms, and
         | grammatical constructions familiar to the listener. This
         | linguistic inventory is not natural. It must be taught. Errors
         | must he corrected, not validated. Not every utterance from
         | someone's mouth has equal merit.
        
           | interestica wrote:
           | > "Truly", we understand each other better and communicate
           | faster ~ _when we out speech draws from a a collection of
           | words_ ~, idioms, and grammatical constructions familiar to
           | the listener. This linguistic inventory is not natural. It
           | must be taught. Errors must he corrected, not validated. Not
           | every utterance from someone's mouth has equal merit.
           | 
           | It's okay. I still understood you.
        
         | interestica wrote:
         | https://www.bbc.com/pidgin
        
         | octo888 wrote:
         | I think we can all agree of "5 items or fewer" though right
         | 
         | (jk)
        
       | fmajid wrote:
       | When I was in high school in France, where they teach British
       | English, we were taught try and is the grammatically correct
       | form.
        
       | calvinmorrison wrote:
       | Try and is good. Philadelphia we also have good ones. especially
       | dropping with/tos
       | 
       | - Down the shore - done school, done work, done dinner.
       | 
       | Also my favorite is anymore:
       | 
       | - gas is so expensive anymore
        
       | smelendez wrote:
       | > regular coordination permits the order of conjuncts to be
       | changed, while in (7) we see that the same is not possible with
       | try and (De Vos 2005:59).
       | 
       | But sometimes conjunction implies sequential order or causation,
       | right? Which seems related here. "I'm going to take a shower and
       | get this dirt off me" or "I'm going to get some flour and bake a
       | cake." You can't change the order. It doesn't make sense to add
       | both in those cases, either.
       | 
       | It's also interesting about motion verbs, because I see "he came
       | and picked me up at the station" as an example of two literal
       | sequential actions, versus "he went and picked me up at the
       | station" as more about emphasis, like he did something notable.
       | Which could be good or bad: "he went and got himself arrested
       | again."
        
         | trimethylpurine wrote:
         | > _I'm going to get some flour and bake a cake._
         | 
         | A group works together. One offers to get flour, another offers
         | to bake the cake.
         | 
         | A third could offer, "I'm going to both get some flour and bake
         | a cake."
         | 
         | It would make sense to use "both."
        
         | urquhartfe wrote:
         | > You can't change the order.
         | 
         | You are confusing semantics with grammatical correctness. In
         | both your examples, they would still be grammatically correct
         | with reversed order.
         | 
         | (I would actually suggest they are still semantically
         | reasonable too, but that's besides the point).
        
         | brianpan wrote:
         | The emphasis is a really interesting point and overlooked by
         | the article. Your "went and" examples do seem very analogous to
         | "try and". "He went and got himself arrested again," is less
         | about the going and almost exclusively emphasizing the other
         | half of the conjunction.
         | 
         | "Try and" can operate the same way by de-emphasizing the
         | trying. If Dr. Dre said "I'm gonna try _to_ change the course
         | of hip hop again, " the sentence is about attempting to do
         | something. On the other hand, "try and" makes the sentence more
         | assured- Dr Dre is going try it and then do it.
         | 
         | I wonder if this half about ordering, half about emphasizing is
         | the reason for the special rules of usage.
        
       | lutusp wrote:
       | This pales when compared to my favorite grammatical annoyance, a
       | common perverse construction, for example "... similar effect to
       | ..." when "... effect similar to ..." is actually intended. This
       | misordering is so common that, in a Web search, it appears to
       | outnumber the canonical ordering.
       | 
       | I acknowledge that terms like "canonical" argue for a nonexistent
       | language authority, and that an acceptable word ordering is any
       | one that conveys what the speaker intends.
        
         | umanwizard wrote:
         | I don't follow, can you give examples of what you mean?
        
           | lutusp wrote:
           | One might say, "benzodiazepines have a similar effect to
           | alcohol", or "benzodiazepines have an effect similar to
           | alcohol." The second construction is clearer in its meaning.
        
             | umanwizard wrote:
             | I don't really get why one is in the wrong order? Maybe
             | we're parsing them differently somehow. The meaning reads
             | identically to me although the parse tree is different.
             | 
             | Benzodiazepines have a similar effect to [the effect of]
             | alcohol
             | 
             | Vs.
             | 
             | Benzodiazepines have an effect [which is] similar to [the
             | effect of] alcohol.
        
       | umanwizard wrote:
       | This article illustrates the main reason why prescriptive grammar
       | is so boring.
       | 
       | If instead of just writing things off as "wrong", we accept that
       | they happen and try to understand why and under what
       | circumstances, we unlock a whole incredibly interesting new field
       | of science.
        
         | layer8 wrote:
         | Why not both? ;)
        
       | cubefox wrote:
       | Not too long from now, Yale will likely also give the "would of"
       | construction its blessing.
        
         | umanwizard wrote:
         | This article is not "blessing" anything, it's trying to
         | understand it. And I promise you that linguists have indeed
         | given thought to why and under what circumstances people write
         | "would of" instead of "would have".
        
           | leeoniya wrote:
           | isnt it fundamentally just a mispronounced contraction of
           | would've
        
             | cubefox wrote:
             | Of course, but linguists consider themselves to be
             | scientists, so they are only allowed to describe and
             | explain. They can't say that anything is wrong or bad. Even
             | "would of." Prescriptive judgements are restricted to
             | philosophers of language.
        
             | umanwizard wrote:
             | Yes, and a huge chunk of language evolution is driven by
             | things getting confused with other things due to
             | phonological changes making them sound the same, so
             | studying this is squarely within the realm of linguistics.
             | 
             | That said, the one-off simple example of "would of" is
             | probably not interesting enough to write a big article
             | about.
        
       | jeffbee wrote:
       | Example usage: I will _try and_ figure out how this page is
       | causing the scrollbar to be white-on-white in a way that makes it
       | useless.
        
       | Traubenfuchs wrote:
       | > (a) try (./!)
       | 
       | > She shouted: Try! Try, try, try! Just fucking try it!
       | 
       | > try as you may/might
       | 
       | > try is my favorite word
       | 
       | > try harder
       | 
       | > try 1/2/3/...
       | 
       | > try, quickly!
       | 
       | Do my examples fit in those 3 examples?
       | 
       | Me thinkest thoug dost not knoweth English very well.
       | 
       | And I am not even a native speaker.
       | 
       | But then again, I have no Harvard education, so what do I know.
        
         | text0404 wrote:
         | The sentence begins with "typically," indicating that the
         | examples are not representative of all possible uses.
         | 
         | When writing numbers, spell out one through nine and use
         | numerals for 10 and above.
         | 
         | The correct construction of "Me thinkest thoug dost not knoweth
         | English very well" is actually "Methinks thou dost not know
         | English very well."
         | 
         | The site is hosted by Yale, not Harvard.
         | 
         | Your last sentence has an extra comma and needs a question mark
         | at the end.
        
       | urquhartfe wrote:
       | A lot of American commenters here are very much misunderstanding
       | how "try and" is used in British English.
       | 
       | It genuinely is used essentially equivalently to "try to". Maybe
       | there is some very slight semantic difference, but it's
       | essentially the same.
        
         | mathiaspoint wrote:
         | I'm American and use the phrase that way literally all the
         | time. Also "Go ahead and..."
        
         | justonceokay wrote:
         | The majority of the article is describing how it is different
         | from "try to" in its usage. In short it acts more like a single
         | phrase than as a literal future infinitive.
        
           | amenhotep wrote:
           | There's no usage of try and where try to wouldn't fit
           | perfectly well and mean exactly the same thing. It's a weird
           | construct with weird restrictions on how it can be applied
           | grammatically, but it's not different in usage.
        
         | pixl97 wrote:
         | Try and find out.
        
       | LocalH wrote:
       | Ah, prescriptivism versus descriptivism.
       | 
       | Prescriptivism is appropriate for technical or legal discussions,
       | where the specific meanings of words are hugely important.
       | 
       | Descriptivism is appropriate for casual communication, where it's
       | fine as long as your intended meaning comes across.
        
         | lblume wrote:
         | Prescriptivism is inherently limited to situations where near-
         | unanimous consent exists between all speakers.
        
         | DavidWoof wrote:
         | That's absolutely _not_ what the article is about. Did you even
         | read it?
         | 
         | People don't really have that debate anymore outside of twitter
         | casuals, and it's dismissed with a wave almost immediately in
         | this article, which then goes on to examine the complex grammar
         | of "try and".
        
           | umanwizard wrote:
           | Yep. This is like someone seeing an article about geology and
           | saying "ah, sphere earth vs. flat earth". Like, no, the
           | article already presupposes that the earth is spherical
           | because that's the viewpoint taken by all people with a
           | serious academic interest in the topic.
        
       | nmeofthestate wrote:
       | Maybe it's different in America but this is being bizarrely over
       | thought in the comments. It's a synonym for "try to".
        
         | layer8 wrote:
         | The article discusses how it's not.
        
       | djtango wrote:
       | I did an introduction into the basics of linguistics in secondary
       | school and something my teacher pointed out that a rule of thumb
       | is that common phrases or words are the most likely to break
       | grammatical rules.
       | 
       | He then told me a story about a language that was invented to be
       | perfectly regular, and then there was a generation of native
       | speakers of this artificial language and the first thing that
       | happened was common phrases became irregular.
       | 
       | I believe the language must be Esperanto but I'm struggling to
       | find a reference to this anecdote
        
         | Nezteb wrote:
         | I spent 20 minutes looking for an Esperanto reference to this
         | but could only find pages related to "in" words [1] and profane
         | neologisms [2].
         | 
         | [1]
         | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Esperanto_vocabulary#Cultural_...
         | 
         | [2]
         | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Esperanto_profanity#Neologisms
        
       | mbostleman wrote:
       | Try and is one of my worst grammatical nightmares. It pains me
       | every time I hear it.
        
       | SoftTalker wrote:
       | What about "try ya" as in "try ya some of that there salad."
       | Something my mother-in-law would say.
        
         | csande17 wrote:
         | That sounds like a "personal dative" to me:
         | https://ygdp.yale.edu/phenomena/personal-datives
        
       | derefr wrote:
       | Possibly-interesting comparison: in Japanese, the way to talk
       | about trying to do some verb-phrase X, is "XteJian ru" -- which
       | is usually literally translated as "we'll try [X]ing", but which
       | breaks down into "[verb-phrase X in present tense] [the verb "to
       | see" in whatever tense you mean.]"
       | 
       | Which means that the construction can be most intuitively framed
       | (at least by an English speaker) as either "we'll see [what
       | happens when] we [X]"... or, more relevantly, "we'll try [X] and
       | see [what happens/how it goes]." Or, for short: "we'll try and
       | [X]."
        
         | tomsmeding wrote:
         | It's even better. The "X-te" (Xte) is technically not X in
         | present tense, it is specifically X in the _te_ -form (te is
         | read "te").
         | 
         | The _te_ -form has a bunch of different uses, but in the case
         | of "verb- _te_ verb ", if the second verb is not one of a list
         | of special verbs (of which _miru_ (Jian ru, to see) is one),
         | X-te Y normally means  "X and Y". For example, _yorugohan o
         | tsukutte taberu_ (Ye goFan woZuo tsuteShi beru) means
         | "(to/I/we/you/...) make dinner and eat it": _yorugohan_ is
         | dinner, the  "o" is a particle marking the direct object,
         | _tsukuru_ means to make (becomes _tsukutte_ in the _te_ -form)
         | and _taberu_ means to eat. (The first word in English is
         | ambiguous because grammatical subjects are usually optional in
         | Japanese, plus its verbs are not inflected for person or
         | number.)
         | 
         | For a number of verbs, however, if they are in the second
         | position, the phrase gets a special meaning. If it's _miru_ ,
         | e.g. _tsukutte miru_ , it means "to try to make" -- or perhaps
         | more aptly, "to try and make". If it's _iku_ (Xing ku, to go),
         | it means  "to go X-ing": _tabete iku_ (where _taberu_ (to eat)
         | - > _tabete_ in the _te_ -form) is "to go to eat [something]",
         | or perhaps: "to go and eat [something]".
         | 
         | Not all such special verbs correspond to English
         | pseudocoordination though; a common one is _shimau_ (the
         | dictionary says  "to finish / to stop", but it's uncommon in
         | bare form), where e.g. _tabete shimau_ means  "to finish
         | eating" or "to end up eating" / "to eat accidentally" depending
         | on context.
         | 
         | The analogy between English and Japanese here is likely
         | coincidental, but it's amusing nevertheless.
        
           | trealira wrote:
           | Funnily enough, this has resulted in people saying things
           | like "Jian temimashiyou" and "Jian temitekudasai", which
           | confused me at first. But I suppose this is like non-native
           | English speakers being confused by the extra "do" in phrases
           | like "I already did do my work."
        
           | musicale wrote:
           | This is a nice explanation; I wish that duolingo hadn't
           | removed their user comment/explanation section, which used to
           | contain similar (though not always correct, which is probably
           | part of why they removed them.)
        
           | haunter wrote:
           | Hungarian works the same, well I guess the few agglutinative
           | languages do share this element
        
             | hackyhacky wrote:
             | > Hungarian works the same, well I guess the few
             | agglutinative languages do share this element
             | 
             | Not sure what you mean. In Hungarian, the verb meaning "to
             | try" is _(meg)probalni_ , which does not mean "to see." Its
             | argument is typically given as an infinitive verb, which
             | would never be translated using the pseudocoordination
             | described above, and there is no related form that would be
             | translated as "and".
        
       | tsunamifury wrote:
       | Try'n ta
        
       | Raj7k wrote:
       | Why there are so many rules for speaking
        
       | foysavas wrote:
       | The "and" in "try and..." may be a shorthand for the material
       | implication of two temporal modal paths:
       | 
       | "try and X" = can X -> must X = not can X or must X
       | 
       | That said, the word "both" doesn't collocate before "try and X"
       | because it instead pushes us toward an interpretation as logical
       | conjunction:
       | 
       | "both try and X" = can X and must X
       | 
       | Likewise, despite the usage of "try not to", the phrase "try not
       | and" doesn't show up, because under material implication the
       | phrase becomes nonsense:
       | 
       | "try not and X" = not can X -> must X = can X or must X
        
         | baobun wrote:
         | OTOH "you mustn't try and X" sounds plausible, which tracks.
        
       | bsoles wrote:
       | As a nonnative speaker of English who lived more than 30 years in
       | an English speaking country, "try and" sounds to me as bad as
       | "should of". Right or wrong, I perceive it as something an
       | "uneducated" person would say. That said, I firmly believe that
       | correct language is whatever people deem to be appropriate for
       | their communication.
        
         | eaglelizard wrote:
         | Do you mean "should've"? That's a common contraction of
         | "should" and "have." In many American accents, the difference
         | between "should've" and "should have" is negligible, and will
         | sound like "should of" even though it isn't.
         | 
         | It also depends on the audience and medium, with "should've"
         | being more appropriate for conversational/informal usage. It
         | would be perfectly normal to say something like "he
         | shouldn't've done that," but if I were writing a message, I'd
         | at least expand the last contraction to "have."
         | 
         | I think there's a general perception that many of the common
         | dialects of American English, especially in the South and West,
         | are associated with being less educated. I am not sure where
         | that comes from.
         | 
         | I'm a native English speaker, and my perception is that when
         | someone speaks in a way where they don't use contractions, it
         | seems verbose and stilted; I associate it with being scolded or
         | disciplined, or when someone is speaking sternly to make a
         | point (or out of anger). E.g.: "You don't know where you're
         | going, you should've taken a left" - informative/neutral "You
         | do not know where you are going, you should have taken a left"
         | - critical/scolding
         | 
         | Omitting contractions can result in speech that sounds strange
         | and unnatural in general: "Shouldn't we go?" -> "Should not we
         | go?" "Aren't you coming?" -> "Are not you coming?" "We didn't,
         | but we should've." -> "We did not, but we should have."
        
           | bendigedig wrote:
           | > Do you mean "should've"? That's a common contraction of
           | "should" and "have." In many American accents, the difference
           | between "should've" and "should have" is negligible, and will
           | sound like "should of" even though it isn't.
           | 
           | I think they specifically meant "should of" which is a
           | colloquial form of "should've" in a number of places in the
           | UK.
           | 
           | I went to school with a large number of people who would
           | write "I should of done X instead of Y". In fact I'm pretty
           | sure I made that "mistake" a number of times growing up.
        
           | bsoles wrote:
           | I meant "should of", especially in writing. I am not sure if
           | "should've" is supposed to sound the same as "should of", but
           | seeing the latter in writing annoys me a lot for some reason.
        
         | robocat wrote:
         | > sounds to me as bad as "should of"
         | 
         | Interesting that you've used the spelling mistake which is
         | perhaps why you hate it?
         | 
         | If you heard "should've" or "should have" then perhaps it
         | wouldn't annoy you so much??? Also listen for would've /
         | could've
         | 
         | But listening to https://www.grammar-
         | monster.com/lessons/should_of_would_of_c... made me wonder if
         | people do clearly pronounce the "of" in "should of"... Now I'm
         | worried that I'm going to hear the mistake and be annoyed.
         | 
         | There is nothing more annoying than being told something
         | annoying, and then learning to be annoyed by it.
         | 
         | Try not to internalise that dictum or it will recursively annoy
         | you.
         | 
         | Next time you hear a really annoying vague
         | repetitive/intermittent sound at work, mention it to a coworker
         | if you wish to ruin their worklife.
         | 
         | (Minor edits). I often hear people who have learned English
         | make a particular class of mistake (usually pronunciation) that
         | is a result of being taught English by reading from books.
         | Modern schooling for languages causes certain types of
         | mistakes. There is a natural mimicking art/skill to learning a
         | language by ear. Unfortunately the art isn't taught and is
         | hardly even recognized: perhaps because it works best with
         | intense one-on-one interaction and intent. Book learning was
         | the default that our society used, and some well-educated
         | people prefer books. When learning spoken English it is
         | important to try and ignore spelling. Natural English speakers
         | learn the spelling after learning the language and are in an
         | environment where we have tricks to learn pronunciation of
         | unfamiliar words. There is a strong classist/academic
         | ridiculing of people that make the mistake of pronouncing a
         | word as it is spelled (knowing how words are "properly"
         | pronounced is an important distinction to many people - as is
         | received wordplay).
        
         | segmondy wrote:
         | They are not even remotely the same. "should of" is a phonetic
         | issue. of is spoken with the schwa vowel uh, so the o sounds
         | like uh, and the f takes the v sound, so "should of" sounds
         | like "should uhv", and "should have/should 've" sounds exactly
         | the same, "should uhv". The issue is that folks that don't read
         | much hear "should uhv" and think it's should of, so when they
         | write "should of" because they expect should 've to sound like
         | "should have" even tho they completely use the contraction when
         | they speak!
         | 
         | It's like saying that people with accents come across as
         | uneducated when it come just be that the person has a deafness
         | to American th and hears t does a substitute so they will say
         | ting instead of thing or tin in place of thin. With that said,
         | I grew up speaking/hearing the form of British english and "Try
         | and" sounds perfectly fine to me.
        
       | euroderf wrote:
       | "try and" is a pet peeve of mine.
       | 
       | "try 'n" sounds suspiciously close to "tryin'", so I suspect that
       | people who were saying "tryin' to" began to reanalyse the first
       | two syllables as "try 'n" and then started dropping the newly-
       | superfluous "to".
        
       | jagthebeetle wrote:
       | This construction is similar to a hendiadys (which comes from the
       | Greek for "one through two"); e.g. "nice and warm." (So says
       | Fowler anyway.)
        
       | Sardtok wrote:
       | It's kind of funny that in Norwegian, people mix up the
       | infinitive "to" and "and", as they are pronounced the same, "o"
       | in IPA. So we have the same thing in Norwegian writing, but if
       | you happen to use "and", you must use the imperative form of the
       | verb for it to be grammatically correct. So, "try to stop me" is
       | "prov a stoppe meg", and "try and stop me" is "prov og stopp
       | meg". The latter is much more colloquial.
       | 
       | This isn't a problem in Swedish and Danish, as their infinitive
       | marker is "att/at", which in Norwegian only means "that" in its
       | conjunctive form.
       | 
       | I wonder if there's any relation to the Norwegian here.
        
         | Arn_Thor wrote:
         | First thing I thought of when reading the linked post! You
         | explained it for a non-Norwegian audience better than I could
         | have too!
        
         | triyambakam wrote:
         | Professor Faarlund might agree
         | 
         | > In his 2014 paper "English: The Language of the Vikings" (co-
         | authored by Joseph Embley Emonds), Faarlund and Emonds assert
         | that English is a Scandinavian language (or North Germanic
         | language) which was influenced by Anglo-Saxon (a West Germanic
         | language) [1]
         | 
         | [1] https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jan_Terje_Faarlund
        
           | actionfromafar wrote:
           | And in that case, "try and" is potentially very old and very
           | "correct" English.
        
             | triyambakam wrote:
             | I don't disagree but I don't follow what you mean in
             | response to Faarlund's theory?
        
         | touzen wrote:
         | Actually, the situation is even weirder in Swedish! Even though
         | we write "att", it is pronounced "o" _when used to mark an
         | infinitive_ but not when used like the word  "that" in English.
         | So, in the sentence                 Jag tror *att* han gillar
         | *att* ata       I think *that* he likes *to* eat
         | 
         | the first "att" (that) is pronounced similar to its orthography
         | but the second one (to) is pronounced "o".
         | 
         | https://en.m.wiktionary.org/wiki/att#Swedish
        
       | bravesoul2 wrote:
       | > In dialects of Northeastern Canada, parallel inflected forms
       | are acceptable:
       | 
       | > 12) They tries and does that.
       | 
       | There is a Ricky Jervais show
       | https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/After_Life_(TV_series) where the
       | main character talks like this alot but not because that is
       | common in the UK but perhaps to show he is a bit simple/slow. I
       | think there is a danger in making that assumption about anyone
       | based on the accent or general way they talk.
        
       | selimthegrim wrote:
       | Surprised if they are quoting Dr Dre they don't mention "run
       | and..." (as in "run and tell that")
        
       | throwmeaway222 wrote:
       | The argument from about 10 years ago forward is that because
       | English is already messed up, we should allow any usage of the
       | language possible.
        
         | drewbeck wrote:
         | Descriptivism is much much older than 10 years but that is
         | perhaps when you first became aware of it.
        
         | hackyhacky wrote:
         | > The argument from about 10 years ago forward is that because
         | English is already messed up, we should allow any usage of the
         | language possible.
         | 
         | Makes me wonder how people managed to speak English before they
         | invented grammar rules. /s
        
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