[HN Gopher] No Comment (2010)
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       No Comment (2010)
        
       Author : ColinWright
       Score  : 58 points
       Date   : 2025-08-05 14:30 UTC (8 hours ago)
        
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       | gnabgib wrote:
       | (2010) At the time (108 points, 65 comments)
       | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=1057133
        
         | ColinWright wrote:
         | I was unable to find a previous submission, so thanks for this.
         | 
         | I'm now interested to compare any comments and contributions
         | here with those made last time. Have people's opinions changed?
        
         | satvikpendem wrote:
         | Interesting comments by pg on that thread, he said he felt like
         | he was on reddit when reading HN even way back 15 years ago.
        
           | krapp wrote:
           | There's a reason complaining that HN is "turning into Reddit"
           | is a "semi-noob illusion as old as the hills."
           | 
           | People show up here expecting a community far more erudite ,
           | intellectually and technically deep and separated from
           | popular culture than they find, and when disillusion sets in
           | they interpret this as a degradation of the culture.
           | 
           | Also in a culture that eschews humor and common sentiment the
           | way HN often does (in order to not "be like Reddit")
           | hostility, misanthropy and cynicism become intellectual
           | virtue signals.
        
           | armchairhacker wrote:
           | Nowadays, popular Reddit has devolved into such a dumpster
           | fire, even saying "HN is better than Reddit" is practically
           | insulting HN.
        
         | thunderbong wrote:
         | Thanks. I really liked the top voted comment there by edw519
         | [0]
         | 
         | > I have a simple guideline for real life interactions with
         | others that carries over quite well on-line, "Deal with issues;
         | ignore details." > It's amazing how well this works in person,
         | especially when trying to get something done. My number one
         | question to another is probably, "Is that an issue or a
         | detail?" We can almost always decide together which it is.
         | Then, if it's an issue, we deal with it, and if it's a detail,
         | we move on to the next issue.
         | 
         | > This has also saved me countless hours and aggravation on-
         | line. If I post something and someone disagrees, I quickly
         | decide whether or not it's really an issue and only engage the
         | other if it is. I realize that this is just a judgment call,
         | but I'd estimate about 90% of on-line disagreements are just
         | details. In these cases, I think it's best to simply move on.
         | 
         | [0]: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=1057250
        
       | taeric wrote:
       | Having an online comments section would also be an obligation to
       | make sure it isn't getting abused. Probably resulting in yet
       | another inbox you have to stay on top of. (Well, optimistically,
       | it would be that. I try and never forget that the expected
       | outcome is just flat out silence.)
       | 
       | It does seem that many of us have completely different mindsets
       | for online commenting. They say that tone is lost in text, which
       | is certainly true. Probably better thinking of it as the color
       | magenta. That is, a bit of a fake thing that is often fully
       | inferred by our brains from other signals.
        
       | Apreche wrote:
       | I have also intentionally not included a comments feature on my
       | blog.
       | 
       | The biggest reason is to avoid extrinsic motivation. What we
       | really miss from the early web is that people were publishing
       | with almost purely intrinsic motivations. Nowadays almost
       | everything on the web is extrinsically motivated, and that is the
       | source of much of the toxicity.
       | 
       | The second reason is a matter of principle. It's _my_ blog. I
       | publish things here. Why should I feel obliged to allow any rando
       | to publish their screed right next to mine on _my_ website? If
       | you got something to say, go publish on your own web site. If you
       | want, email me. Maybe if I'm feeling generous I will publish a
       | letter to the editor, like a traditional newspaper or magazine.
       | 
       | IMO comments sections were largely a mistake. We would have been
       | better off in a place where we didn't take for granted that every
       | single article published on the web would have one.
        
         | alnwlsn wrote:
         | On my personal site, I have a comments section per post but
         | they are on a separate page. So only people who actively look
         | for them will even see them. Bit moot though, anyone who ever
         | ends up contacting me usually writes an email rather than a
         | comment.
        
       | satvikpendem wrote:
       | Now with a lot of user generated content and moderation laws
       | coming into effect, comment sections may now be seen as an active
       | liability.
        
         | ColinWright wrote:
         | I think you mean ... "... may _now_ be seen as an active
         | liability. "
         | 
         | If you see this reply in time you might choose to edit your
         | comment.
         | 
         | Alternatively, feel free to explain to me why I'm wrong!
         | 
         | (Edit: Now fixed ... happy to help. Cheers!)
        
           | satvikpendem wrote:
           | Thank you, fixing the typo not -> now
        
       | getnormality wrote:
       | When someone posts on forums and social media, IME it's very
       | common that the replies focus on how they can "make OP wrong".
       | They only seem to care about how OP can be interpreted as
       | ignorant or illogical or immoral, rather than insightful or
       | helpful. I am sure I'm as guilty of this as anyone else.
       | 
       | It would be good if we understood this phenomenon better, why we
       | do it and how we can be more balanced in our approach to what
       | others say online.
        
         | burnte wrote:
         | > They only seem to care about how OP can be interpreted as
         | ignorant or illogical or immoral, rather than insightful or
         | helpful.
         | 
         | This is tied to the societal confusion that wrong is the same
         | as bad. Culturally it's bad to be wrong, so we are made to feel
         | ashamed when we're wrong. Really, we should be grateful because
         | it gives us the chance to learn and grow. Being wrong isn't
         | bad, staying wrong might me.
         | 
         | And then you tie in a societal misperception that some people
         | hold that life is a zero sum game, and you can only get ahead
         | by tearing someone else down, and you get the modern internet.
        
           | vjvjvjvjghv wrote:
           | That's a very good point. Being wrong is bad, changing your
           | mind is bad, so people stick to something they know is
           | probably wrong but changing and admitting that is even worse.
        
           | lemonberry wrote:
           | Agreed. I also think a lot of people don't know the
           | difference between knowing something to be true and believing
           | it to be true. I suspect most of us spend quite a few years
           | in this space. It takes a commitment to epistemic honesty and
           | self awareness to get past this. Though, I'm not sure humans
           | can completely shake it.
        
         | bmink wrote:
         | Nowhere is this urge (and the reward for it) stronger than HN.
         | In the majority of comment sections, the top comment is one
         | that pounces on a few words from the posted article, however
         | tangential or self-serving.
        
           | Intralexical wrote:
           | I definitely agree it happens more than ideal on HN as far as
           | I've seen.
           | 
           | However, HN is also one of the few places where it's not
           | uncommon for me to see people push back on it. And often
           | comments that "pounce on a few words" are offering valid
           | criticism on only that part IMO, while still accepting the
           | larger work that's been posted.
        
         | armchairhacker wrote:
         | Part of it is because people who simply agree don't have
         | anything to say.
         | 
         | Comments like "^ This", are generally frowned on, because they
         | don't contribute knowledge to the discussion and we have votes
         | to show agreement. Constructive criticism does. I think this is
         | a good thing, on forums like HN I prefer constructive criticism
         | over unconstructive praise.
         | 
         | However, it doesn't explain unconstructive criticism ("how OP
         | can be interpreted as ignorant or illogical or immoral"). Maybe
         | people don't know how to criticize gently and helpfully*, or
         | being rude correlates more with expressing your opinion.
         | 
         | * My advice would be: make objective points and focus on the
         | content, don't make subjective points or attack the commenter.
        
           | getnormality wrote:
           | It seems implied here that the main things that happen online
           | are unconstructive praise and constructive or unconstructive
           | criticism? So I wonder what's going on with the fourth
           | possibility, constructive feedback that is neutral-to-
           | positive. Why does that box go unmentioned? Are we somehow
           | especially bad at, or uninterested in, doing stuff that fits
           | in this category?
        
             | armchairhacker wrote:
             | In my mind, there are three kinds of positive constructive
             | feedback:
             | 
             | - Constructive criticism, but worded nicely. "This is a
             | cool project, it would be cooler if..." is a nicer way
             | (with some praise) of saying "This part isn't very good:
             | ... [inverted]"
             | 
             | - Appreciating a specific part of the project, which I
             | think is the technical definition of "constructive praise".
             | "I especially liked X". This is useful because it
             | implicitly suggests what to emphasize or elaborate (the
             | part being praised) and what to improve or change (other
             | parts). Unfortunately this may be the rarest, especially on
             | HN; it's at least rarer than constructive criticism.
             | 
             | - Suggestions for new features. Actually these are pretty
             | common on HN. I was lumping them with criticism ("you don't
             | have X") but that's just a reinterpretation, and any
             | constructive feedback can be reinterpreted as criticism ("I
             | especially liked X" => "Every part was bad except X").
             | That's probably why I didn't address the other kinds of
             | feedback, but thinking about it more, criticism is only the
             | feedback that's phrased negatively.
        
         | hiccuphippo wrote:
         | Conversly, the best way to get help fast is to state something
         | wrong and wait for someone to correct you. Only asking takes
         | more time to get an answer.
         | 
         | I'd call it the "Duty Calls Law" after https://xkcd.com/386/
        
           | MarkusQ wrote:
           | Actually, it's called Cunningham's Law.
           | 
           | https://meta.wikimedia.org/wiki/Cunningham%27s_Law
           | 
           | (I'm really hoping you were intentionally setting up the
           | straight line for that joke; if not, sincerest apologies).
        
             | hiccuphippo wrote:
             | I only thought someone will correct me if I'm wrong after
             | clicking the reply button :)
        
         | vehemenz wrote:
         | On the other hand, most people double down even when they've
         | been thoroughly corrected. I find that behavior even worse,
         | somehow, than the typical, curt "make OP wrong" response.
        
         | Intralexical wrote:
         | Probably because helpful people will be driven away when they
         | open a thread and see contrarian attitudes. But contrarians
         | that open a thread and see helpful attitudes will just be
         | contrarian towards both OP and the helpful people.
         | Outcome    | Helpful    | Contrarian
         | -----------|------------------------       Contrarian |
         | Contrarian   Contrarian       Helpful    | Helpful
         | Contrarian
         | 
         | So yes, there may be effects in play like zero-sum thinking,
         | anonymity, ego, obstinacy, or self-selection for strong
         | opinions or real-life jerks.
         | 
         | But it almost doesn't matter whether contrarian attitudes
         | really are "very common". Absent a force that mitigates this
         | unbalanced outcome matrix, it's almost an asymptotic
         | statistical certainty that any Internet thread with enough
         | participants will have _enough_ contrarians in it that the
         | entire thread (and the dominant strategy for anyone who wants
         | to participate in the thread) devolves towards contrarianism.
        
         | alphazard wrote:
         | Most content is promoting a product or someone's personal
         | brand, or trying to get you the reader to do something. Even if
         | the information in the post is true, it is much less likely
         | that you should take the action that is implied (buy the thing,
         | subscribe to the blog, join the cause). In a way almost
         | everything is metaphorically wrong because our time is a scarce
         | resource. People like to point out things that are wrong.
        
         | ChrisMarshallNY wrote:
         | I tend to post "That inspires me/reminds me" kind of thing.
         | 
         | Folks say "I'm making it all about me," and maybe they're
         | right, but it sure beats the usual "drop trou, and drop grogan"
         | style of many folks.
        
         | johnfn wrote:
         | The problem is that an online comment is not a dialogue.
         | 
         | If I'm conversing with someone in real life, and they say
         | something I strongly disagree with, I can disagree, and we can
         | discuss and perhaps they tell me that I misunderstood them, or
         | they articulated themselves incorrectly, or we are proceeding
         | from different assumptions, etc. I'm reading something online,
         | and I reach a sentence that I strongly disagree with, I
         | essentially have to stop reading at that point, because from
         | that point on I have diverged from being in alignment with the
         | perspective of the author. And there's no back-and-forth to be
         | had, so I need to state my point as clearly as possible -
         | otherwise someone will just do the same thing back to me.
         | 
         | I dunno, I kind of feel like I'm probably the type of person
         | that's being described here, but I don't really intend to "make
         | OP wrong". I just don't see any other option other than to
         | state my disagreement as plainly as possible, so other people
         | can pick it apart.
        
         | 9rx wrote:
         | _> focus on how they can  "make OP wrong"_
         | 
         | The focus is not really on making some nebulous "OP" wrong, as
         | if anyone thinks about anything but themselves. The focus is
         | compelling the software to give a result in response. The more
         | obtuse a comment is, the more likely the algorithm will
         | deliver.
         | 
         |  _> why we do it_
         | 
         | Because there is no value in writing a comment that doesn't
         | offer a result. You'd write in your private journal instead if
         | that is what you were looking for. Different tools for
         | different jobs.
         | 
         |  _> how we can be more balanced in our approach to what others
         | say online._
         | 
         | No need to try and make your hammer a screwdriver when you can
         | use an actual screwdriver just as easily instead. That
         | experience is found in not being online and going outside to
         | talk to _people_ rather than software instead. Use the right
         | tool for the job, as they say.
        
         | theamk wrote:
         | That's because finding out the mistakes in OP is one of the
         | biggest benefits of the public comment section. Let's say I
         | read a post about how NEW-TECH is so much better that the
         | current state of the art. I may now be convinced to try it, but
         | how do I know what's written in OP is not omitting serious
         | downsides? That's where the HN (and other fora) comes in: read
         | the comments and see if there are any problems with it.
         | 
         | And according to the golden rule, this means I should also
         | focus on negative comments. If someone told me an important
         | NEW-TECH-1 downside in the past, and I see NEW-TECH-2 and I
         | know its downside (maybe because I had to try it at work, maybe
         | because I am an expert in the area), then I better hop in and
         | post that.
         | 
         | Positive experiences are also useful, but they feel redundant:
         | after all, if OP is positive about NEW-TECH, it likely already
         | mentions all the good things already.
         | 
         | (note that "OP" is original post, not original poster. Arguing
         | against people on internet is almost always a bad idea. Arguing
         | against specific posts is much better.)
        
           | Karrot_Kream wrote:
           | The thing is, if I'm looking for how something is wrong, I'm
           | looking for substantive criticism. If someone says something
           | like "yeah okay great system design but only BILLIONAIRES are
           | going to be using this so late stage capitalism <insert rant
           | on inequality here>" then that's not really substantive it's
           | more of a rant by the author disguised as criticism. When a
           | culture of criticism and negativity sets in you get a lot
           | more of these rant-forms of tangential criticism than
           | substantive criticism because it's much easier to write
           | unsubstantive criticism than substantive criticism. Couple
           | this with a tendency for folks to comment on titles rather
           | than articles and you can get a ton of negativity slop all
           | written in less time than it takes to read the article.
           | 
           | It's a fine line. A culture too positive and you get shills
           | and "+1 that looks great" repeated endlessly. A culture too
           | negative and you get tangential rants disguised as criticism.
        
       | bombcar wrote:
       | This is a restatement of Chesterton's Fence - it's good.
       | 
       | (Here's me leaving an inane comment on the outsourced comment
       | blog, heh.)
       | 
       | However, for low-traffic "blogs" I like having comments enabled,
       | even if many never get shown, because sometimes the ONLY thing
       | you can find on the Internet related to your issue is this one
       | blog, and there's one comment with an updated link that saves all
       | of your bacon and half the farm, too.
        
       | amitp wrote:
       | I _love_ having comments on my site /blog. I learn so much from
       | some of them. For example, on my hexagon page, someone said
       | there's a connection with "Eisenstein integers". I had never
       | heard of them, and they were fun to learn about. Another example,
       | I don't know "doubled coordinates" that well, so some sections of
       | the page are incomplete. In the comments people have pointed to
       | resources and code that fill in the gaps in my knowledge. Most
       | recently, someone pointed out an inconsistency in something I
       | wrote, and they were right -- I have updated the page to resolve
       | it. Before that, someone pointed to an emacs package that might
       | make my life easier, and it looks like it will indeed partially
       | solve the problem I had posted about.
       | 
       | I spend almost zero time moderating, because I've outsourced it
       | to blogger/disqus. I'm not a big fan of disqus but the comments
       | provide so much value to me, and disqus does the moderation so
       | well, that I keep using it for now.
       | 
       | I think of it like giving a talk at a conference, and having
       | questions afterwards. At some conferences, the questions are a
       | waste of time. But at other conferences, the questions are quite
       | valuable. I think comments don't work well on all sites. But they
       | work well on mine.
        
       | thibaultamartin wrote:
       | I've had similar thoughts and decided not to embed comments on my
       | blog, but to link to social media where people can still give me
       | feedback.
       | 
       | One of the most positive things I've done though is to generate
       | "Comment by email" links at the end of each post. People who
       | reach out directly and only to me behave much differently than
       | people who do performative commenting on social media.
       | 
       | The overall rationale for not having comments on my blog is here
       | https://ergaster.org/posts/2024/03/06-welcoming-feedback/
        
       | stillpointlab wrote:
       | I hade a comment section on a blog in the early 2000s. It was a
       | spam nightmare. Never again. I would not have one even with the
       | products that claim to handle that spam for you.
       | 
       | As for the "I thought about this problem for 10s let me tell you
       | all the things wrong with it" - yeah. Engineers do that. I'm
       | constantly pointing it out in relation to LLM coding agents.
       | 
       | Lately I've been stuck in YouTube court cases recommendations.
       | There are live trials and many archives for all sorts of real
       | court cases at every stage. I have grown an appreciation for what
       | a judge does. A judge listens and makes sure all information has
       | been provided before making a judgement/ruling/order. The
       | patience those folks show is significant. I can only imagine how
       | tiring that amount of active listening must be. I have found it
       | personally inspiring and educational.
        
       | Brajeshwar wrote:
       | I killed Comments on my Blog because of Spam. In its early days
       | (2000s), comments on my blog made my day and hours. I made many
       | friends, got many projects/contracts, along with the occasional
       | threats and trolls. I even got a girlfriend who found it hard to
       | believe that the visitor counter on my website increased non-
       | stop. She commented that I'm cheating. I showed her my Web
       | Analytics. That's how I got a girlfriend (I think 2005-2006).
       | 
       | Spam killed it, and let go of blog comments in 2021.
       | https://brajeshwar.com/2021/brajeshwar.com-2021/
        
         | throw-qqqqq wrote:
         | Off-topic: Same experience for me. I ended up spending too much
         | time fighting the spam.
         | 
         | The way the spammers got past even hard CAPTCHAs and anti-spam
         | measures convinced me there were humans involved at least some
         | of the time. It made me so sad..
        
       | bechaubs wrote:
       | > Talking face to face changed everything, because they could
       | draw diagrams, pull out specs, and give concrete examples.
       | 
       | The original programmer should have included all that (design
       | docs, specs, diagrams, examples) in the commit messages, or at
       | least made references in code comments / commit messages, and
       | included this design material in the same repo. It's good if you
       | can talk to the original author; it's better if you can read
       | their original thoughts in their absence.
        
       | tristor wrote:
       | Weirdly, I feel the same way as the author still in 2025. Flickr
       | is much more niche now than it used to be, and has way less
       | activity, but I still actively post my photography there and find
       | it to primarily be a place full of positivity and some truly
       | excellent photography. On any given day, if I go to Flickr, I can
       | see photos that would win awards in times past (although I feel
       | there is much less societal interest in photography since
       | everyone has a camera in their pocket now). Despite that, I can't
       | give up my addiction to going on technical sites and reading
       | about the stuff, even though I also no longer write code daily.
        
       | dcminter wrote:
       | This reminds me of one of my favourite exchanges in a detective
       | story:
       | 
       |  _' Dear me!' said Miss de Vine, 'who is that very uninspired
       | young woman? She seems very much annoyed with my review of Mr.
       | Winterlake's book on Essex. She seems to think I ought to have
       | torn the poor man to pieces because of a trifling error of a few
       | months made in dealing, quite incidentally, with the early
       | history of the Bacon family. She attaches no importance to the
       | fact that the book is the most illuminating and scholarly
       | handling to date of the interactions of two most enigmatic
       | characters.'
       | 
       | 'Bacon family history is her subject,' said Miss Lydgate, 'so
       | I've no doubt she feels strongly about it.'
       | 
       | 'It's a great mistake to see one's own subject out of proportion
       | to its background. The error should be corrected, of course; I
       | did correct it--in a private letter to the author, which is the
       | proper medium for trifling corrections. But the man has, I feel
       | sure, got hold of the master-key to the situation between those
       | two men, and in so doing he has got hold of a fact of genuine
       | importance.'_
       | 
       | -- Gaudy Night, D.L.Sayers (1935)
       | 
       | I think comment sections tend to bring out the "feels strongly"
       | responses where the "private letter" ones would be more
       | appropriate.
       | 
       | While Gaudy Night is a detective story, it's just as much a love
       | letter to Oxford academia (the author being an alumni).
        
       | Arch-TK wrote:
       | Tangential: There might be a perfectly good explanation for why
       | something was designed the way it was, but that doesn't mean that
       | it should stay like that in retrospect.
       | 
       | On a daily basis I encounter code written by people who have
       | skills in one area and are trying to solve that problem within
       | the context of another area they do not have skills in. These
       | people will make poor decisions which are intended to solve
       | problems I can easily imagine but which should have been solved a
       | wholly different way.
        
       | tomhow wrote:
       | Discussed at the time:
       | 
       |  _No Comment_ - https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=1057133 -
       | Jan 2010 (65 comments)
        
         | ColinWright wrote:
         | Yes, already referenced in this posting:
         | 
         | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=44798572
        
       | LAC-Tech wrote:
       | I miss the dadgum blog. Full of short, readable, but insightful
       | articles about sometimes very obscure technological stuff. He was
       | in my inspiration in trying very hard to write short posts this
       | year - because I realise almost no one wants to read long blog
       | posts, including me.
        
       | dsotm17 wrote:
       | The problem is someone posts a comment and there's an immediate
       | response from a spergy contrarian having to interject ( _wink_ )
       | for a moment AKKSSSSHHHHULLLLY and point out how every single
       | thing you wrote is incorrect. If they'd written the opposite, the
       | contrarian would spout the opposite also. Contrarianism. The
       | internet has always been this way - before and after the normie
       | invasion.
        
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