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       I launched 17 side projects. Result? I'm rich in expired domains
        
       I think I'm officially a side project collector.  I've had it all:
       A SaaS for freelancers... that I never had time to finish because
       I'm a freelancer.  A revolutionary AI tool that I abandoned as soon
       as GPT-4 came out.  And the famous "anti-social media social
       network" (spoiler: it was just me).  I buy a domain name - I code
       for 3 all-nighters - I lose interest - I start again.  My Google
       Domains look like a graveyard of unfinished dreams.  But honestly,
       I've never learned so much, nor enjoyed it so much.  And one day, I
       might release one that takes off. Or not. But I'll be ready.  Any
       other serial side-projectors here? Share your greatest
       fails/unlikely successes
        
       Author : cesargstn
       Score  : 159 points
       Date   : 2025-07-30 13:15 UTC (9 hours ago)
        
       | sturza wrote:
       | Anything you want to do differently next time? Like find a
       | representative user and build until you solve that problem?
        
       | module17 wrote:
       | Keep pushing.
        
       | billy99k wrote:
       | We've all been there. I lost track of the domains I registered
       | for a great business idea and then let them expire.
        
       | dustincoates wrote:
       | This is timely, as I've got a domain expiring in the next week.
       | It's a .bingo TLD, so at $50+, I'm going to just let it expire.
       | 
       | "Vibe coding" has actually been a boon for me on this front.
       | Fewer than 10% of my side projects are serious and 95% of it are
       | static pages, so there's no big security concerns to worry about.
       | Most of them are joke pages anyway, which I've started calling
       | "Sh _t Coding, " as in Vibe Coding + Sh_t Posting.
        
       | poojasinha12 wrote:
       | been there
        
       | jonplackett wrote:
       | I have now reached the point where I won't buy the domain name
       | until I get a prototype ready.
       | 
       | I've only bought one domain name since then and got the project
       | out!
       | 
       | I think the domain name is your reward for finishing your minimum
       | viable product.
        
         | LanceH wrote:
         | I think of this as the "garage band problem". Imagine a bunch
         | of teens deciding to make a band. They come up with a name,
         | make t-shirts, even get the cover for the bass drum -- but how
         | much did they actually play?
         | 
         | Personally, I'll snag a domain if it's really good -- like one
         | word or a proper combo of words, spellable, etc... I won't set
         | it to renew, though.
        
         | geldedus wrote:
         | never bought a domain until i had the first production version
         | ready
        
           | jonplackett wrote:
           | So pessimistic
        
         | cornfieldlabs wrote:
         | > I won't buy the domain name until I get a prototype ready.
         | 
         | Me too. I learnt it after 6 expired domains
        
           | OldfieldFund wrote:
           | I learned after 600. Or did I? :)
        
       | goqu wrote:
       | I'll say as long as you're not repeating the same mistakes and
       | each project teaches you something, you're getting closer to the
       | exit of the maze.
        
         | deadbabe wrote:
         | Honestly I doubt this. You can learn endlessly and never get
         | any closer to succeeding in something. It's like the developer
         | equivalent of people who keep reading business books and case
         | studies and going to network events because they want to start
         | a business.
         | 
         | After 1 or 2 failed side projects, you should have learned
         | roughly 80% of what you need to know. A few more might get you
         | the next 20%, but 17 failed projects is likely not teaching you
         | anything you couldn't have learned before, you're just wasting
         | time at that point.
         | 
         | The optimal amount of failures before a successful project is
         | probably about 3. After that, you need to seriously consider
         | that maybe you just don't have what it takes and move on.
         | Otherwise you spend your whole life chasing something that will
         | probably never happen, and avoiding better opportunities.
        
           | jon-wood wrote:
           | I think whether your take on this is correct depends on why
           | people are doing side projects. Personally I do them for fun,
           | there's some tool I kind of want to use, or a new programming
           | language I want an excuse to play with. The side project is
           | just a vehicle for that rather than something I expect to
           | become a source of income.
           | 
           | I've got way more than 17 failed projects, and that's fine,
           | because the project was never the point.
        
           | hellojesus wrote:
           | > Otherwise you spend your whole life chasing something that
           | will probably never happen, and avoiding better
           | opportunities.
           | 
           | I'm also have a decent graveyard of domains. I've all but
           | accepted that I'll never create anything of value in my life
           | or even anything awesome.
           | 
           | But the dark side of that is now there's no point to being
           | alive, so I'm planning to die. What are these better
           | opportunities you referenced? Anything that will make a life
           | of mediocrity bearable?
        
             | canadaduane wrote:
             | This is brutally honest. In all seriousness, consider that
             | external metrics are not the only way to value life.
             | Economics looks from the outside and judges value. Art
             | looks from the inside and expresses experience. Also, check
             | out Internal Family Systems therapists. I'm learning a lot,
             | and believe this is a very valuable line of inquiry into
             | self & getting unstuck.
        
             | deadbabe wrote:
             | A life is still worth living even if you never make
             | anything of value or awesome. Find something you don't
             | understand at all, and feels impossible, and try to
             | understand it. Repeat until you die or find something else
             | you want to do.
        
               | hellojesus wrote:
               | This is mostly what I do, and it's how I got into and
               | continue to progress in tech from an unrelated degree.
               | But I realize that it's unlikely I'll ever outpace the
               | competition as a late 30s father, so my career
               | progression and earnings seem somewhat terminal.
               | 
               | A life without side projects seems pointless, but at the
               | same time the projects are probably ultimately pointless
               | or of too slow progression to merit career leverage.
               | 
               | I seem to have found a path too late in life. Catchup or
               | die seems to be transforming solely into die.
        
               | deadbabe wrote:
               | Even if a side project were successful, in time it would
               | also be pointless.
        
               | hellojesus wrote:
               | As are all things in time. But I estimate the impact of
               | creating something successful would allow me to feel
               | successful from success until natural end of life vs.
               | feeling like a failure from now until end of life. Plus
               | it will generate higher quality of life for my offspring,
               | and my genetic code likes that.
               | 
               | The question is then reduced to the expected value of
               | success achieved at some point, discounted by how close
               | it is to my stastical life expectancy. Is it positive?
               | Seemingly not. Then I ask what's the point of a life with
               | negative expected value?
               | 
               | It seems like lots of people believe that life itself is
               | a positive, so even a mean existence is worthy. This
               | isn't something I'm able to accept for whatever reason,
               | as I consider life to be EV+ only when it is one, if not
               | two, standard deviations above the mean.
        
             | perilunar wrote:
             | You may never create a successful web business but that's a
             | long way from never creating _anything_ of value.
             | 
             | By definition most people lead mediocre lives -- few doing
             | anything extraordinary. What makes it 'bearable' are the
             | simple things: family, friends, work, hobbies, helping
             | other people, contributing to society, etc.
             | 
             | Planning to end it because life seems pointless is
             | depression. Please get professional help.
        
               | hellojesus wrote:
               | > What makes it 'bearable' are the simple things: family,
               | friends, work, hobbies, helping other people,
               | contributing to society, etc.
               | 
               | I've heard these things and have thought about them
               | previously, but then I think, "How can I meaningfully
               | contribute to society?" And then I get stuck in a loop
               | realizing my contributions will not be anything of merit.
               | And then I think, what would cause a lasting impact _and_
               | be achievable? And then I realize how mass shooters are
               | born.
        
       | dcminter wrote:
       | Ha, I wrote this the other day:
       | 
       | > I think it's part of the procrastination cycle; buying a domain
       | name feels like progress towards the goal, but is incredibly low
       | effort, and thus feeling like I'm making progress I wander off
       | and get attracted to the next shiny thing.
       | 
       | So, yup, except that it sounds like you typically make more
       | progress than me!
       | 
       | Edit: Context is https://paperstack.com/hntags/
        
       | fourneau wrote:
       | We should start a club with the amount of us in the same boat...
       | what should our domain be?
        
         | volkk wrote:
         | foreverwip.com
        
         | jve wrote:
         | underconstruction.com
        
           | lurn_mor wrote:
           | www.awebsiteyouwillnevergoto.org
        
       | thorio wrote:
       | Sometime it's funny to look at the packages list of your domain
       | provider and realize for example, that at some point in the past
       | I was indeed convinced "thewienerway.com" would one day be the go
       | to merch shop for everything around wiener dogs :-).
       | 
       | Okay, there were some beers involved...
        
       | sitzkrieg wrote:
       | i feel this when i get porkbun emails w expirations nearly every
       | month.
       | 
       | i have a lot of cool ones i tried to give away or at least start
       | the conversation w a few relevant sites but i guess that seems
       | weird to randomly get
        
       | jimhi wrote:
       | Yep https://dare.fail/ but also at least finish the things
        
       | th1nhng0 wrote:
       | We are on the same boat
        
       | moralestapia wrote:
       | RIP
       | 
       | I have my own graveyard here moralestapia.com
       | 
       | It's a hobby, like any other.
        
       | whatamidoingyo wrote:
       | Of course. I had like 50 domains at one point. There's nothing
       | worse than an auto-renewal hitting your bank account on a project
       | you gave up on.
       | 
       | In 2025, with new vibe-coding projects being pushed every second,
       | I think it's not even worth the time unless you have $$$ upfront
       | for marketing (and/or a massive audience). Otherwise, you're
       | wasting your time.
        
       | barrell wrote:
       | Man I built an app a while back called Kanji Plus. The idea was
       | to build a small side project to generate an income, then use
       | that to fund my magnum opus, Phrasing [1]
       | 
       | I built the prototype in a weekend. I spent the next 8 months
       | turning it into a product people cared about. As soon as people
       | started using it, I realized I was going to spend the next 10
       | years beating around the bush on a product with a very low
       | ceiling.
       | 
       | I eventually decided to build Phrasing [1]... and kanji plus just
       | kind of disappeared. Dependencies updated, subscriptions expired,
       | service providers went offline. I feel bad because I sold some
       | lifetime memberships - genuinely expecting to just leave it on
       | the internet forever - but man, apparently websites don't do that
       | out of the box anymore.
       | 
       | Luckily the entire product of kanji plus will fit nicely as a
       | feature in Phrasing, and it's written with the same front end
       | tech so it should be a very simple copy paste. 2 weeks of work
       | max (famous last words).
       | 
       | Still, I feel really bad that people paid me money and the
       | service just went offline. I didn't know I was being _so_ naive
       | just expecting things to work for more than 6 months unattended.
       | 
       | If any old kanji plus subscribers are reading this, please feel
       | free to get in touch. I'm planning to give all my old supporters
       | a free lifetime membership to phrasing once it's ready to go! (a
       | membership tier that will not be available to the general public)
       | 
       | [1]: https://phrasing.app/
        
         | freeone3000 wrote:
         | I would not subscribe to your new app that is not yet finished
         | when you have a previous product that was cancelled without
         | fanfare.
        
           | barrell wrote:
           | I think that's fair! The question was greatest fails though,
           | I would say that is par for the course.
           | 
           | Check back in 10 years though, Phrasing will still be
           | running, and it will have had all the features of kanji plus
           | for 9 years and then some :-)
        
             | NetOpWibby wrote:
             | See you in 10 years!
             | 
             | https://archive.is/gnhIi
        
       | rorylaitila wrote:
       | 12 years into my graveyard of side projects and making a modest
       | income, nothing has ever "taken off", but I have survived. I
       | yearn to be "pulled" by the market inextricably, but that is
       | unlikely. The reality is almost every business (and I mean almost
       | every one) is "pushed" up the hill, interminably, like Sisyphus.
       | Even my most successful clients never feel "ahead". Something
       | always breaks in the business model, given enough time.
        
       | donatj wrote:
       | I created a rule almost ten years ago that I won't buy the domain
       | until I actually have something to host, and it's done me
       | reasonably well.
       | 
       | I however have a similar but more expensive problem, I develop
       | side projects to an MVP and leave them up for literal decades
       | with no one but myself using them, paying for the domain and
       | hosting. I can't let things go.
       | 
       | I rewrote a number of things in Go recently so they could scale
       | down to zero on Fly.io and save me some money.
       | 
       | For example though I have been developing a note keeping SaaS for
       | fifteen years. It fits my own needs perfectly and I use it every
       | day, but everyone I have ever had try it has bounced in a couple
       | minutes. I literally removed the sign up after GDPR scared me in
       | 2018 and never put it back. I should put it back, everything is
       | client side encrypted and I don't keep any PII.
       | 
       | I have an ad free emojipedia-esq tool, a tool for making API
       | controlled README badges, a tool for converting MIDIs into print
       | outs of colored sheet music for children's keyboards, a joke API,
       | so much more.
       | 
       | I did accidentally let the domain expire for my Wordle knockoff
       | where you guess the soup based on the ingredients. It never
       | worked very well anyway.
        
         | parpfish wrote:
         | if i search for a domain and it's available, i feel
         | unreasonable pressure to buy it IMMEDIATELY.
         | 
         | I'm paranoid that some squatter can tell which domains i'm
         | searching for and they'll swoop in and get it as soon as they
         | know there's one interested party
        
           | cornfieldlabs wrote:
           | > I'm paranoid that some squatter can tell which domains i'm
           | searching
           | 
           | Don't search on GoDaddy. I read somewhere GoDaddy raises the
           | prices of high value domains by choosing them from searches
        
           | quesera wrote:
           | I do the same.
           | 
           | And FWIW, your (our) paranoia is justifiable. As mentioned in
           | another comment, GoDaddy is historically-notorious for front-
           | running domain searches. ICANN tried to make that a bit less
           | practical, but I just assume that they (and other sketchy
           | registrars) still do it.
           | 
           | If you search directly through whois (i.e. from the command
           | line), you should be OK. That's been my strategy, and I think
           | it works.
        
             | baduiux wrote:
             | I decided for myself that there's no need to buy a domain
             | up front. I don't even let myself look for potential domain
             | names or start asking ChatGPT to provide me with some
             | naming ideas. Most of the time, the project don't even
             | reach MVP state. During development and research I also
             | learn more about my project and similar products thus
             | helping me decide on a good name.
        
               | quesera wrote:
               | I agree that there's no need, and that yours is the
               | reasonable approach.
               | 
               | That said, I often have project/product ideas at times
               | when I cannot work on them. In fact, always. But I enjoy
               | noodling on names and branding, and if I come up with a
               | really good name that's available in .com, I register it.
               | 
               | I have revived project ideas 15-20 years later, and have
               | been happy to have a great domain for it which would
               | absolutely not have been available "now".
               | 
               | Of course I have many more domains that are patiently
               | awaiting their prioritization.
               | 
               | The registration fees add up (and I do feel bad about
               | reserving them for myself, although I've given a few away
               | to persuasive requesters, and I've sold a few which, in
               | aggregate, more than cover all of the registration fees).
        
         | baduiux wrote:
         | As many pointed out: you could simply use subdomains for all
         | the services that you use for yourself only.
        
       | jdonaldson wrote:
       | I once owned both cakefax.com, and faxcake.com. I was going to
       | corner the market.
        
         | ted537 wrote:
         | Is this happy-birthdaying a fax machine or what? haha
        
         | devoutsalsa wrote:
         | The corners have the most frosting!
        
       | zamalek wrote:
       | I recently went and killed off ~10 domains :). Current project:
       | something like eww[1], only using lua and a UI idea that I think
       | may actually be ergonomic in Rust (immediate/imgui style and
       | actors). Maybe I'll finish it this time.
       | 
       | One the other hand, I have a great idea for CI and it's an itch I
       | am currently suffering...
       | 
       | [1]: https://github.com/elkowar/eww
        
       | LeifCarrotson wrote:
       | > _I buy a domain name - I code for 3 all-nighters - I lose
       | interest - I start again._
       | 
       | At least you're actually doing the "I code for 3 all-nighters"
       | step!
       | 
       | I've stopped too many projects at the "I buy a domain name"
       | stage, and added an intermediate "I create a Trello board" step
       | between that and starting to write code. No need to pull all-
       | nighters, which are hard to do with family and a full-time job,
       | if all I need to do is add a card to a feature wishlist. _Maybe_
       | prototype a few key functions to see how they work, wireframe a
       | unique piece of UI, or follow the tutorial to create  "hello
       | world" in a new framework, but it turns out that those steps are
       | also optional.
       | 
       | The problem seems to be that my brain gives me a dopamine buzz
       | for merely _imagining_ accomplishing the project, whether or not
       | I eventually implement, publish, and get users for the it. I can
       | give myself a similar cognitive reward for simply reading on HN
       | about other people completing projects, and even (at my lowest)
       | passively watching YouTube videos of other people building cool
       | stuff. It's all the mental rewards of participating in a group
       | project where the tribe accomplished something great, except I'm
       | barely in a parasocial relationship with a dude on Patreon or
       | Discord a thousand miles away who actually performed 100% of the
       | work. Maybe he likes my comment "Nice work! I really liked how
       | you did [thing], have you considered [alternative strategy]?".
       | Maybe he even comments back. Bang! Neurotransmitter pump engaged,
       | dopamine boost received.
       | 
       | It's a scary thing to realize that you're doing this, and very,
       | very hard to train yourself out of those bad habits. I find it's
       | important to write down and consciously review my
       | daily/weekly/monthly/yearly goals, my productive and unproductive
       | activity towards those goals, and my actual accomplishments. It's
       | too easy to get addicted to fake reward loops, whether because
       | they're engineered by social media companies who make money off
       | my attention span or because brains are just vulnerable to low-
       | effort high-reward stimuli. What did I do in July? X hours of
       | Reddit, Y hours of HN, Z hours of Youtube... and a half dozen
       | things I'm actually proud of.
       | 
       | (Note to self: Don't get too excited about upvotes or replies to
       | this comment, acquiring HN or Reddit fake Internet points are not
       | part of my actual goals and should not be considered real
       | accomplishments.)
        
         | dcminter wrote:
         | Upvoted, but just in a friendly "hello, I recognise myself in
         | this comment" sort of way :)
         | 
         | I currently have a little stack of index cards with in-play
         | projects scrawled on them and at the end of the year the plan
         | is to weed those and shut down any resources that aren't
         | required for the ones still in the list. Hmm, maybe I need a
         | domain name for that though...
         | 
         | One thing I will add is that it's ok to recognise that one
         | _enjoys_ some of these behaviours. There 's no moral element to
         | being a starter-not-a-finisher of personal projects so long as
         | you're paying appropriate attention to your important
         | commitments (family, the day job, etc.)
        
         | skeezyboy wrote:
         | > whether because they're engineered by social media companies
         | who make money off my attention span or because brains are just
         | vulnerable to low-effort high-reward stimuli you couldnt be
         | bothered, i wouldnt overthink it mate. youll end up diagnosing
         | yourself with ADHD
        
         | busssard wrote:
         | i actually buy the domain name at the end. i am stingy. which
         | means i do not buy domain names as i always loose interest
         | after some allnighters. but the code base remains until the
         | motivation returns
        
         | alexitosrv wrote:
         | Very well said! In this struggle, and as I'm in a new job, and
         | I've tried to not get carried away by the common distractions
         | in not logging in on the corporate laptop on hn, reddit, and a
         | few others. As you can see I already failed, but what a great
         | thought that I could not resist to agree with a longer comment
         | saying the same that an upvote. :)
        
         | titusjohnson wrote:
         | > The problem seems to be that my brain gives me a dopamine
         | buzz for merely _imagining_ accomplishing the project, whether
         | or not I eventually implement, publish, and get users for the
         | it.
         | 
         | I get this same buzz from talking about my projects. So today,
         | I do not talk about anything I'm working on because I know I
         | can drain myself of all motivation with one excited
         | conversation.
         | 
         | If I want daydream fuel I buy a Powerball ticket for $2. I get
         | the same dopamine rush doing fictional estate planning as I did
         | spending $10=$50 on a domain and fantasizing about the project
         | succeeding. The Powerball ticket also doesn't circle back
         | around next year asking for more money.
         | 
         | I've also found that having a small homelab that can support
         | Dokku or similar is also very helpful when I want to be
         | productive. Deployable from Day 1 and after every change is a
         | game changer for me, and deploying to an internal host lets me
         | be lazy in all the right ways, as long as I keep track of the
         | sins I commit (you can go a long, long way on a project before
         | you have to add the boring boilerplate that is proper auth, for
         | instance).
        
         | hnuser123456 wrote:
         | I feel like even doing this is keeping yourself sharp enough
         | for when someone else makes a tool that lets you bring your
         | idea to life in a more realistically achievable and complete-
         | able fashion, for some definition of complete.
        
         | andoando wrote:
         | Im the same way. I wish I was rich enough to hire like 10
         | developers and assign them to all the different projects I have
         | in mind.
        
         | nxobject wrote:
         | > I can give myself a similar cognitive reward for simply
         | reading on HN about other people completing projects, and even
         | (at my lowest) passively watching YouTube videos of other
         | people building cool stuff.
         | 
         | I struggle with the same thing -- I'm resigned to the solution
         | that _even_ (or _especially_ ) when you're doing hobby
         | projects, you might have to resort to blocking HN or other
         | distractors for a bit.
        
         | mathiaspoint wrote:
         | I always buy a domain well after I've finished the MVP and have
         | been using it myself for months. Am I doing it wrong?
        
           | jononor wrote:
           | Only if your goal is collecting unused domains!
        
       | DWBH wrote:
       | Adderall?
        
       | mschuster91 wrote:
       | > My Google Domains look like a graveyard of unfinished dreams.
       | 
       | So does my github or the 5 rack servers in my homelab lol. At
       | least the servers aren't running and consuming power 24/7
        
       | zabzonk wrote:
       | Why buy a domain at all these days? Can't you simply use github?
        
         | devoutsalsa wrote:
         | github.com is taken, but github.mx is available!
        
         | cschep wrote:
         | no.
        
       | wonkyfruit wrote:
       | There's one Peter Levels, and I don't even think he's actually
       | Peter Levels. I think he's a dude who went viral, so now anything
       | he does gets traffic.
       | 
       | ALWAYS, it comes down to one thing. If you built the best thing
       | in the world, and no one visits it, then it's a "failure" at
       | least in terms of earning anything.
        
         | OldfieldFund wrote:
         | It's not so much about what you build, but about the "secret
         | sauce"/marketing that most people who actually succeed big time
         | will never reveal.
        
       | bugjoey wrote:
       | I'm a person just like you, I have dozens of side-projects
       | around. The difference is that I've never went "far" enough to
       | buy domains for any of those.
       | 
       | But I have a decent half-baked AI based investment portfolio
       | manager, one month of hard work (nights/weekends) dreaming of
       | selling it for a bank. Projects of such complexity are impossible
       | for people stuck in the ordinary life (job/family). PS: I'm not
       | complaining - I love my family. But it demands energy.
        
         | parpfish wrote:
         | sounds like you just discovered a product niche: build an AI to
         | do all your family stuff
        
       | paulwilsonn wrote:
       | This feels way too real.
       | 
       | I've done the same , bought many domain names, got super hyped,
       | coded for a few nights... then lost interest. Now I've got a
       | bunch of random projects that never saw the light of day.
       | 
       | But honestly, I learned a lot from each one. Even if they didn't
       | go anywhere, I got better at building stuff. And who knows, maybe
       | one of them will work out someday.
       | 
       | Glad I'm not the only one doing this.
        
         | dashdashu wrote:
         | I've got ADHD and that has been my whole life - an endless list
         | of side projects and hobbies that were hyperfixated on in the
         | beginning, drained of all dopamine and then abandoned once it
         | actually became "work"
        
       | anyg wrote:
       | I was going down the same path and that's why i bought a domain
       | to use as the base for all side projects, Pieter Levels style. If
       | it takes off, i can then find a separate domain for it.
        
       | geminiboy wrote:
       | I have been doing this for the past 15 years. Countless domains
       | have been bought and expired worthless after I lose interest.
       | 
       | Vibe coding actually helped me get a few projects out of the door
       | finally! But even now I can't resist the urge to buy a domain
       | when I get an idea for a new side project.
        
       | Brajeshwar wrote:
       | Hello brother from a different mother. Luckily, I sold some of
       | high-priced domains a while back. So far, in my 15+ years of the
       | cost of buying domains have yet to cross the amount that I sold
       | them for. That keeps me going and I feel happy. Of course, I have
       | also let domains expire just to realize that the registrar is re-
       | selling them for high single-digit thousands of dollars.
       | 
       | And, I bought my last domain less than 10-days back. Built a
       | landing but left it to research further and talk to customers.
       | :-)
        
       | parpfish wrote:
       | tangential question for the HN side-project crowd:
       | 
       | i have lots of ideas for fun little side projects that would
       | never be revenue generating.
       | 
       | i'll go on a tear and start building it, but when it comes time
       | to figure out how much it'd cost each month for domains/cloud
       | services/etc I talk myself out of it. I'm not talking about big
       | LLM bills here, just things like $25/month for the database,
       | $10-50/year for a domain, etc.
       | 
       | I don't _think_ it 's just that I'm being cheap, it's that I
       | don't like the idea of having to pay for something _in
       | perpetuity_. Because that leads to me thinking about how long I
       | plan to keep it active and when I 'll sunset it. And once you
       | start thinking about that before you've even launched, it's
       | pretty easy to conclude it's not worth the time to build it given
       | its limited shelf life. If I could just do a one-time upfront
       | payment I'd probably go through with it.
       | 
       | The solutions to this are either buying a server and self-hosting
       | (no thanks) OR making peace with having a recurring 'goofy
       | computer stuff' monthly bill.
       | 
       | So... how much do yall spend each month on your side-projects?
       | Having some numbers would help me contextualize and justify this
        
         | cornfieldlabs wrote:
         | I have had a single cheapest ec2 server at 5$ per month and
         | hosted both db and server in it. Sqlite for db so easy to back
         | up. It didn't contain any important data though.
         | 
         | I ran many projects in it
        
         | titusjohnson wrote:
         | I have an old Mac mini in a closet that runs Ubuntu and serves
         | as a Dokku [1] host. My side projects run for free and are
         | accessible inside my network or if I'm on VPN. If the project
         | gets enough love eventually it'll graduate to public hosting
         | and the transition is easy because the app is already built
         | with deployment in mind.
         | 
         | I have saved so much money over the years just not having to
         | pay $20/mo * IDEA_QTY. The Mac mini doesn't take much power and
         | is dead silent.
         | 
         | [1] https://dokku.com
        
         | lelanthran wrote:
         | What's wrong with a single domain and a $5/m VPS that keeps
         | both DB and application on it?
         | 
         | I ran a paid business app on a $5/m VPS. No complaints.
         | 
         | If your $5/m VPS cannot handle some load, then _that 's_ when
         | you upgrade it. And, TBH, at the point that your $5/m VPS is at
         | 80% load on a paid product, you're already getting a few
         | thousands of dollars of revenue from it anyway.
        
       | Spastche wrote:
       | >But honestly, I've never learned so much, nor enjoyed it so
       | much.
       | 
       | that's all that matters. it's important to enjoy the process of
       | making things.
        
       | niklasbabel wrote:
       | tldr: looking for a partner
       | 
       | i know how to start. i know how to ship. i don't know how to pick
       | what's worth staying with.
       | 
       | and i still don't know what my next thing is.
       | 
       | i've shipped real SaaS apps.
       | 
       | - https://truereviews.co // OAuth-based verified customer
       | reviews.
       | 
       | - https://refersend.com // Referral tracking via email for non-
       | digital industries.
       | 
       | - https://postpov.com AI-powered content machine for
       | professionals with AI content simulation.
       | 
       | if you're also in that "smart but tired" phase, DM me or reply.
       | maybe we can get out of it together.
       | 
       | here's the pattern: i sprint hard. i get it live. i stall.
       | 
       | not because I'm lazy. b/c promotion/selling burns me out way more
       | than building.
       | 
       | i'm not some weekend hacker. i've been a Chief of Staff, a
       | founder, a fixer, a builder. i've managed up, down, and sideways
       | in a real company. i've coached teams. i've been coached. it's
       | helped friends escape the corporate treadmill.
       | 
       | i still don't know what my next thing is.
       | 
       | i'm not writing this for pity. i'm writing it because i see
       | myself in this post, and maybe someone else sees themselves in
       | mine.
       | 
       | niklasbabel.com
        
         | ChemiSpan wrote:
         | > i sprint hard. i get it live. i stall. > b/c
         | promotion/selling burns me out way more than building
         | 
         | Describes me perfectly. Engineer with 7 years exp and can build
         | anything. Let me know if you'd want to chat.
         | 
         | My most recent project: deepswe.io
        
       | theanonymousone wrote:
       | I have one 4-letter domain to which all my side projects are
       | subdomains :)
        
       | yomismoaqui wrote:
       | The trick is just buying 1 domain and putting every project on a
       | different subdomain.
       | 
       | Apart from this I see myself represented in this post.
        
         | pan69 wrote:
         | Yes! Build a "platform". I learned that as well. Also saves
         | your from having to come up with snazzy names for your "new
         | product" as you can just name it after its function,
         | notes.mydomain.com
        
         | cs02rm0 wrote:
         | You can do that for the odd small tool, but you can't launch
         | GreatNewThing(tm) without having it's own full domain!
         | 
         | Except it never gets any users.
         | 
         | I suppose the plus side to spending months rather than days on
         | projects that never go anywhere is I have fewer domains. Only 7
         | here. _Sigh_.
        
           | al_borland wrote:
           | PuTTY is hosted from a user home directory[0]. Maybe having a
           | fancy URL isn't everything.
           | 
           | [0] https://www.chiark.greenend.org.uk/~sgtatham/putty/
        
       | cornfieldlabs wrote:
       | > And the famous "anti-social media social network" (spoiler: it
       | was just me).
       | 
       | Haha we are building one too!
       | 
       | Got any advice for us?
       | 
       | Here's the waitlist page with all the features: https://waitlist-
       | tx.pages.dev
       | 
       | Email is in profile if you want to connect.
       | 
       | Thanks in advance!
       | 
       | I myself have left 6 domains expired over the last 4 years so you
       | are not alone! 3 are from this year alone
       | 
       | Now a days I don't buy the domain until I have actually set up
       | the server with the codebase. Project might get dropped just
       | before that. It has happened
       | 
       | Edit: I feel validated after reading the replies. I am not alone!
        
       | kassner wrote:
       | Thankfully I got domain-sober before the 2012 gTLD round,
       | otherwise I'd have gone bankrupt from renewal fees.
       | 
       | A tip to everyone: subdomains are free, and you can set up a 301
       | redirect once the project gets some traction. As others have
       | mentioned, I only buy a domain once there is some traction, or
       | when I start getting organic/indirectly referred traffic.
        
       | 8200_unit wrote:
       | I am in a similar boat. My problem is that once I lose momentum
       | on a project I have no interest in every revisiting the work I
       | have done. Sometimes it is a full day of coding, sometimes it is
       | a couple continuous days coding. Once I break away from the
       | computer and start living life it feels like to much work to load
       | all of the project back into my brain. I would finish more
       | projects if I didn't have friends, family, a house, or a life and
       | sometimes I wish for that.
        
         | baduiux wrote:
         | I think that the problem is not that you lose momentum but
         | rather that you start with momentum. I prefer having a clear
         | mind and no need to rush (this happens when I'm excited about
         | the project / have the initial momentum). This helps me a lot
         | at deciding what I want/need/should/must do and what not. It
         | also helps me to prioritize the project over/below family,
         | friends, and house.
         | 
         | It helped me a lot that every time a have a new idea or want to
         | start a new side-project that I wait at least two days before I
         | dig deeper and get really started. Only then I really know if I
         | really want this or if it's just the initial hype/momentum.
        
       | matt_opmistro wrote:
       | At least you've got the building + pivoting down!
       | 
       | Looking back, how do you think you did on the marketing/sales
       | front? I don't mean the results of the efforts but I mean the
       | input front.
       | 
       | Curious if those pivots were caused because the problem addressed
       | wasn't painful enough, the solutions didn't address that pain
       | well enough, or if it was simply distribution.
       | 
       | If the former two, I imagine it's only a matter of time until you
       | strike gold. But if it's the final third, there's a chance one of
       | the 17 could have worked out well.
        
       | heathrow83829 wrote:
       | is anyone else here tired of building products for which there is
       | little to no demand?
       | 
       | What if we started with a product idea for which we know there is
       | demand for: things people are already paying money for. For
       | example: apples, or tires, or etc. something you know people are
       | paying money for. and then try and either build that product or
       | another product that makes building the product easier.
        
       | karmakaze wrote:
       | I only once finished the development and deployment of one
       | product. It was complete down to landing page, pricing, signup,
       | automatic provisioning, and billing.
       | 
       | Then it came down to producing customers not artifacts and I ran
       | out of steam. I posted on Product Hunt and a few other places but
       | never took it further. I'm glad I did it once as a solo dev, but
       | now I know how far I'll go on my own.
        
       | msephton wrote:
       | I'm similar but my ratio of prototypes to launching is higher. I
       | find it helps to pace yourself, it increases the chance of
       | finishing exponentially. But the most important things is good
       | scoping and resisting gesture creep. After 35+ years I'm now
       | really good at both. My list of projects is at
       | https://www.gingerbeardman.com and details of my 2023, the year
       | one of my projects got Game Of The Year, are at
       | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=39636937
        
         | corentin88 wrote:
         | You built emojipedia? I'm impressed.
         | 
         | By the way the link is broken on your website.
        
       | stillsut wrote:
       | Currently working on a python package: agro.
       | 
       | It helps devs build parallel agents from the cli. (think claude
       | code, gemini, aider)
       | 
       | And simplifies the git workflow for testing and accepting the
       | best solution.
       | 
       | Check it out: https://github.com/sutt/agro
       | 
       | I keep a little text file pr.txt and try to link my project to HN
       | / X / other aggregators once a day...
       | 
       | This way I spend a few hours each day coding, and a few minutes
       | each day promoting and refining me message.
        
       | NetOpWibby wrote:
       | My most recent one was a social network: https://socii.network
       | 
       | Stopped working on it because Mastodon is good enough for me.
       | 
       | I had a Handshake domain registry/registrar: https://neuenet.com
       | 
       | Stopped working on it because Andrew Lee tried to take over the
       | blockchain.
       | 
       | An analytics tool: https://chew.sh
       | 
       | Gauges shut down and I enjoyed that service. My previous domain
       | is now owned by someone who's last name is Chew, which is cool.
       | 
       | Forgot I just let https://design2code.me expire because I didn't
       | put in the work to get my name/services out there.
       | 
       | ---
       | 
       | I'm currently working on https://nickel.video and think I'll
       | stick with it for awhile. I also registered https://neue.host a
       | few weeks ago, with the idea that a lot of the side projects I
       | had in the past would actually work as a collection of services.
        
       | steinvakt2 wrote:
       | https://munin.watch
       | 
       | It offers searching in transcriptions of all Norwegian podcasts
       | in (roughly) real-time. Also offers subscribing to alerts, for
       | example if anyone mentions your business name. Launched some days
       | ago
        
         | itsthecourier wrote:
         | great work
        
       | ei23 wrote:
       | yeah, totally me as well.
        
       | glax wrote:
       | There were 6 domains that were bought by me in the last 12 years.
       | 
       | side project, business partnership, personal music streaming
       | site, serverless blog.
       | 
       | It's hard to do if you have a regular 9 to 5 and also some other
       | hobby(I'm into motorcycles :D).
       | 
       | Only remaining domain is of my name pusparaj.com (but it's in
       | auction mode)
       | 
       | I have also lost ownership 2 times or more i think, because i
       | tend to rotate registrars and forgot to renew it.
       | 
       | now 3 domains are remaining, will let them expire.
        
       | henriquegodoy wrote:
       | Ever thinked on automating this process of creating this side
       | projects? i think that more and more future feels like a lot of
       | ones having really big swarms of "agents" that can like research
       | about ideas on the internet (like finding problems on twitter,
       | reddit, ... that a saas can solve it) and a team implementing and
       | deploying since from code to marketing in a frenetic rhythm
        
       | danudey wrote:
       | > I buy a domain name - I code for 3 all-nighters - I lose
       | interest - I start again.
       | 
       | That's ADHD for you.
       | 
       | A former coworker of mine lamented this - "I start so many
       | projects or hobbies, but just when I feel like I've learned a lot
       | I lose interest". I had to point out to him that his hobby isn't
       | - whatever, sheep shearing or book bindery or underwater basket
       | weaving - but rather his hobby is _learning things_. That 's a
       | common thing for ADHD people, absorbing all you can in a rapid
       | amount of time, devoting every minute of thought to something,
       | and then suddenly completely forgetting it exists until you get
       | the domain renewal notice.
       | 
       | At least you (seem to) have (some degree of) acceptance of the
       | circumstance and recognize the benefits of this behavior rather
       | than just focusing on the drawbacks; too many people have this
       | behavior and think it's a personal failing, when really they just
       | have a different hobby than they think they have.
        
         | karaterobot wrote:
         | I don't think it has to be ADHD. I don't have ADHD, and none of
         | my friends have it that I know of. We all start things we don't
         | finish, though. I was going to post some of the more ridiculous
         | domain names I've purchased for personal projects, before I
         | realized I'd be doxxing myself. Too bad, there are some good
         | ones.
         | 
         | I think in many cases, we fail to finish projects because it's
         | so much easier to start than it is to finish. The first 90% is
         | easy, as the saying goes, but the second 90% is much harder.
         | 
         | And I use the word 'fail' advisedly. I think it's fine to not
         | finish everything you start, but it's not good to never finish
         | anything, ever. Not if your intention was to finish it anyway.
         | I think finishing things is a crucial skill, and we need to
         | practice it in order to get good at it, and we won't do that if
         | we tell ourselves it's _about as good_ to give up as it is to
         | keep going.
         | 
         | ADHD is a real diagnosis, but I'm hesitant to pathologize not
         | finishing projects, since that will end up being an excuse
         | rather than an explanation for a lot of people.
        
           | MrGilbert wrote:
           | However, as it can be a valid indicator for ADHD, it is fine
           | to do a test, like[1] offers. It's difficult to diagnose
           | adults, but I was surprised to see a quite high rate of
           | matches in the test. I share the same "problems" as OP: I
           | quit projects because I was able to solve the problem at
           | hand.
           | 
           | [1]: https://www.adxs.org/en/
        
           | al_borland wrote:
           | I didn't think I had ADHD. Then I saw some video on autism
           | that hit a little too close to home. I went and got tested,
           | and just had them test for everything while I was at it,
           | which included testing for ADHD. Turns out I do have ADHD.
           | The more I learn about it, and autism, the more my entire
           | life comes into focus.
           | 
           | I have mixed feelings about finding this out late in life
           | (early 40s). I do think there was a lot of value in not
           | having it as an excuse when I was younger, to force myself to
           | figure things out and get to where I am today. On the other
           | hand, I spent a good 20 years looking everywhere to try and
           | figure out what is wrong with me. Lots of time and money down
           | the drain... and the YouTube algorithm is what ultimately
           | pointed me in the right direction.
           | 
           | I used to think that these psychiatrists were just trying to
           | diagnose the human condition, as so many of the things I
           | heard just seemed like normal life for me. But I guess I now
           | know why that seemed normal for me, but maybe aren't normal
           | for everyone.
        
             | reactordev wrote:
             | Aspb '83 baby, that's 80s parenting for you. Boomers saying
             | "Oh he's just hyper" or "Oh he's shy" or "Oh she's just in
             | her own world" and brushing it under the rug. Combine that
             | with processed food additives of the 90s and I look exactly
             | the same as I did in high school only with grey hair
             | instead of brown!
        
               | al_borland wrote:
               | I actually remember telling my dad in the late 80s or
               | early 90s that I thought I had ADD after I first heard
               | about it. He simply said, "no son of mine has ADD,"
               | without even breaking stride. That was that. I was never
               | a problem in school, so no one had any reason to question
               | it and I moved on.
               | 
               | Funny enough, when I told my dad about the diagnosis,
               | within 90 seconds he said, "I think I might have that
               | too." Then he went off and did a bunch of research. He
               | doesn't feel it's worth getting a diagnosis in his 70s,
               | but is pretty sure he has it as well after the research.
               | Funny how life works out. This actually helped me forgive
               | some of the harder parts of my childhood, as I could
               | better understand where he was coming from.
        
         | Sohcahtoa82 wrote:
         | > "I start so many projects or hobbies, but just when I feel
         | like I've learned a lot I lose interest".
         | 
         | Similar problem for me.
         | 
         | Every project I've wanted to do, there's usually some technical
         | hurdle I need to achieve, and once I've achieved it, I lose
         | interest and have something that's not even enough to be
         | considered a proof-of-concept, let alone an MVP.
         | 
         | For example, there's an arcade game called Killer Queen that I
         | loved, and thought it was a travesty that there wasn't a PC
         | version, since it's a 10-player game that's played on 2
         | cabinets, and who has that many friends going to the arcade at
         | the same time? It needed to be online!
         | 
         | So I decided I was going to create a clone of it. The big
         | hurdle I needed to figure out was how to make a realtime
         | multiplayer platforming game that kept clients in sync while
         | also compensating for latency. My implementation worked by
         | having both client and server keeping copies of the last 60
         | frames of game state, and the client would merely send their
         | inputs and a time stamp (Really a frame number) to the server,
         | which would then go back to the frame state for that number and
         | re-simulate the game with that input. It would also stream the
         | current state (It was only ~300 bytes) to other players with
         | their inputs, which would also do a similar re-simulation.
         | 
         | I even made it mostly cheat-proof. There's no hidden
         | information (All players see the exact same screen), but I
         | figured a modded client could simply see what other players
         | have done, then send inputs with time stamps in the past to put
         | themselves into an advantageous position, but I prevent that by
         | making the server reject inputs older than 250 ms.
         | 
         | But...after getting all that working, and basic platforming
         | working...I got bored. Never touched the project again.
         | 
         | EDIT: I've got another game I worked on and actually got to the
         | MVP part, but it needs a heavy refactor and I just haven't
         | bothered. Mainly because I hate writing and testing front-end
         | code, and I feel like I've already written it once and don't
         | want to write it again. I haven't bought a domain for it yet,
         | thankfully. I'm going to insist on a .game domain for it, which
         | is like $400/year.
        
         | al_borland wrote:
         | This is a good way to look at it. My issue is that I hate
         | acquiring all the stuff to learn something when I know there is
         | a high likelihood of losing interest after a few days or weeks.
         | I've done this far too many times and got really sick of it. It
         | feels so wasteful.
         | 
         | Maybe this is where a lot of my stress comes from. I need that
         | outlet, but I suppress it to avoid collecting future trash or
         | losing money selling a bunch of like-new stuff (and having to
         | deal with the process of selling things all the time).
        
         | clocker wrote:
         | I'd call it impulse coding.
        
         | bashmelek wrote:
         | I do like learning things, but I wish I could retain better.
         | Abandoning hobbies has set me back in that way, making it
         | harder to pick up more advanced interests. It feels like lost
         | time. I have needed to restart instruments and various maths
         | several times. Perhaps a proper system based on spaced
         | repetition could help, but organization is a hurdle
        
         | skeeter2020 wrote:
         | This is not really ADHD but simply the fun part of new
         | projects. The exciting start vs. the grind. Is the difference
         | between 17 abandoned side projects and an overnight success ten
         | years (or more) in the making.
        
         | baduiux wrote:
         | I called this Opportunity FOMO for myself. I always wish to
         | jump on the bandwagon with the next idea/project instead of
         | sticking to the one I currently work on.
         | 
         | I wrote a short blog post on this a few weeks ago:
         | https://baduiux.de/posts/opportunity-fear-of-missing-out/
        
       | slackpad wrote:
       | I ended up using one of my more generic domains
       | (https://www.modulecollective.com/) and then launching things as
       | <product>.modulecollective.com. It's a little wordy but it's free
       | and creates kind of a natural place to catalog things. I figure
       | if any of them take off then I can go buy a better name later and
       | move it over, having the old one redirect. That would be a good
       | problem to have :-)
       | 
       | That particular domain was going to be like a Netflix DVD style
       | subscription product for Eurorack modules but I never even ended
       | up trying to build that after buying the domain.
        
       | WheelsAtLarge wrote:
       | I suggest you don't code at all. Do a very detailed mind map of
       | the project. It will include, the users you are targeting, what's
       | the goal -- why are they better off with your project, how will
       | you get customers, and there is so much before you start to code.
       | 
       | As a learning project, copy a successful project and mind map it,
       | program it and find customers. You will learn so much that you
       | can apply to whatever project you come up with. You'll get
       | frustrated because you will need to go out and learn a lot but
       | power thru it. You'll be better off for the hard work. Good luck!
        
         | monkmartinez wrote:
         | L.A.M.E.[1] !!!! 99.9999999999% of the fun is the code.
         | 
         | [1] Lacking Any Major Excitement
        
       | ill0gicity wrote:
       | I've been attacked by name. Yes, very ADHD.
        
       | clocker wrote:
       | Its almost like impulse buying so I call it impulse coding. I
       | have done it before I am sure will do it again.
        
       | neilv wrote:
       | I register my side project domain names on Namecheap now...
       | partly because they have a marketplace for selling the domain
       | when I decide to scratch the launch.
       | 
       | (Most recent example: I made an unreleased browser extension for
       | HN, the MVP feature of which is to let you block annoying users,
       | such that any of their comments are replaced with poop emoji. But
       | since I can't put an AI spin on that, to attract funding or job
       | offers, I'm better off selling the domain names, and not spending
       | any more time on it.)
        
       | tnt128 wrote:
       | My advice: It's probably not that you've lost interest in your
       | project -- it's more likely that you don't know what to do next
       | and you're defaulting to your comfort zone: building the product.
       | 
       | Here's an easy way to test this: imagine your product suddenly
       | takes off -- it gets picked up on Reddit or Hacker News, you
       | start getting lots of users and feedback. Would you still feel
       | uninterested? Or would you find yourself energized, working late
       | into the night to improve it?
       | 
       | That thought experiment reveals something important: there's a
       | gap between building a product and getting people to use it. You
       | haven't figured out how to bridge that gap yet, so you stay in
       | "builder mode" -- because it feels safe and familiar.
        
       | al_borland wrote:
       | I made the mistake of buying a 10 years for the last one I
       | bought. I used it for maybe a few weeks. Now I have to wait the
       | better part of a decade for it to expire.
        
       | delduca wrote:
       | I was the same page 2 years and half ago. Now I am full on my 2D
       | engine (besides the paid work of course)
        
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